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This Postmodern Realities episode is a conversation with JOURNAL author Bill Westers about his article, “Questions and Doubts: 5 DON'Ts for Christian Parents”. Coming Soon!Related articles and podcasts by this author:Episode 428: The New Religion In Public Schools: Progressivism and the Trojan Horse Called SELThe New Religion In Public Schools: Progressivism and the Trojan Horse Called SEL
From dentist visits to bedtime clinginess, today's conversation is all about helping kids face fear with confidence. Karen answers your questions about navigating anxiety, new experiences, and tough transitions. With practical ideas and plenty of encouragement, this episode will equip you to walk with your child through fear and toward courage.Episode Recap:2:05 - Emily is more than halfway through her pregnancy6:50 - How can I help my 3.5 year old face the dentist without a meltdown?10:12 - My outgoing, bubbly 5 year old becomes totally silent at school - what do I do? 12:00 - After an active shooter drill, my daughter is terrified to go to school16:00 - My child is overly attached to me, how can I help her gain independence? Scripture for Reflection: Isaiah 41:10 (NIV)So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God.”Questions for Discussion:What does fear look like in your child's behavior—and how do you usually respond?What are some situations where you've helped your child face their fear with confidence?How can you point your child to God when they're anxious or afraid?Are there any bedtime or transition routines that could use a reset in your home?Resources:Register for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.comGet Sissy Goff's book, Braver, Stronger, Smarter: https://amzn.to/3SQWHvNPick up Raising Worry-Free Girls this week: https://amzn.to/4dBRXnFDownload the BOAW app to send us your questions!
Your child says, “Mom, I'm Gay!”You want to shove those words back in and put the lid on. But you can't. Your child is gay or bisexual or transgender. This goes against everything you've been taught. It was not what you had in mind, and you instantly wonder where you went wrong.When you become a parent, you know to expect the unexpected. But for many Christian parents, nothing can prepare them to hear this from their child. I invite you to sit down, relax, maybe get a cup of tea, and soak in what we talk about today. My hope is to guide you as we walk for a bit through this maze of confusion, to help you find your way to wholeness.Whether you have been on this journey for days or decades, this is a wonderful episode for you. Send us a private message. *Note: INCLUDE YOUR EMAIL ADDRESS if you'd like us to answer. :-) Support the show
From tantrums to name-calling to after-school meltdowns, this episode is packed with practical help for moms dealing with big emotions—and even bigger attitudes. Karen and Emily talk about red temperaments, ADHD outbursts, and how to handle disrespectful behavior without losing your cool. Listen in for advice on teaching kids to pause before reacting, role-playing tough situations, plus learn why setting boundaries with screens and school is worth the fight. Episode Recap:2:10 - Meltdowns can happen at 6 or 165:14 - Lean into the Lord and He will help you6:31- What do I do about a 10 year old who dominates her friends all the time?8:56 - Role playing is a powerful teaching tool 9:39 - My daughter resorts to name calling when she's angry - any advice? 18:00 - Anger is a secondary emotion 18:30 - What does being intentional this summer look like? 24:00 - I'm struggling with the amount of screen time that is embedded in school/homework, it clearly changes my kid's behavior. What can I do? Scripture for Reflection:Proverbs 15:1 (NIV) — “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”Questions for Discussion:1. How do you typically respond when your child is disrespectful or melts down?2. What do you think is really behind your child's anger in those moments?3. What boundaries do you need to reinforce in your home around disrespect, screen time, or emotional outbursts?4. How could role-playing or using tools like the feelings wheel help your child grow in emotional maturity?Resources:Don't miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.comListen to our interview with David Thomas about kids and BIG emotions: https://wiretalk.transistor.fm/episodes/wt-140-the-emotional-world-of-kids-with-special-guest-david-thomashttps://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927Listen to ADHD specific Wire Talk episodes: https://wiretalk.transistor.fm/episodes/wt-207-adhd-and-your-family-with-dr-staci-bolton-part-onehttps://wiretalk.transistor.fm/episodes/wt-208-adhd-and-your-family-with-dr-staci-bolton-part-twoDownload the BOAW app to send us your questions!
Kirk Cameron just said what every Christian parent needs to hear — and it's not what you're getting in most churches. While Hollywood targets your kids with confusion, Kirk launched Iggy & Mr. Kirk to fight back with puppets, parables, and unapologetic biblical truth. It's clever, countercultural, and could be the most important kids' show you've never heard of… until now. Today's Sponsor Take control of your family's water health! Visit LanceWallnau.com/water and use code LANCE to receive a 10% discount on the Under-Sink Wellness System for the cleanest, healthiest water possible.
Whether you're juggling work or chasing toddlers all day, summer can sneak up fast—and so can the pressure to make it “magical.” So today, Karen and Emily talk about how to define “winning” for your family before the season starts. They share practical ways to keep things meaningful without overextending yourself, and how to set realistic expectations for chores, rhythms, and fun. No matter what your summer looks like, you can make it a win for your family!Episode Recap:4:10 - Your summer won't look like everybody else's6:25 - Decide on what would be a ‘win' this summer for your family10:10 - How can shifting your mindset help you accept your summer?13:00 - How do I enjoy my summer when I'm working all the time?16:00 - Involving your kids around the house more will make your summer smoother! 17:45 - Chores are a great way to stop hearing, “I'm bored!”18:30 - What does being intentional this summer look like? Scripture for Reflection: Proverbs 16:3 (NIV)“Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans.”Questions for Discussion:What would “winning” this summer look like for your family this year?What are two expectations—one big, one small—you can name and plan for with your kids?How can you shift your mindset to stay positive, even when plans change or challenges arise?What practical changes could you make (like chore charts or spontaneous fun nights) to make summer more enjoyable for everyone?Resources:Don't miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.comCheck out Katie's Chore List on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p/C6pGDuRLE46/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheetDownload the BOAW app to send us your questions! https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927
Episode #201In this episode enjoy a stimulating discussion as a university professor (Dr. Aaron Mattox) and an attorney and public school board member (Mr. Matt Flanigan) come along side Podcast Host Mark Minor as they discuss the challenges and decisions for parents in the 'education choices' for children. Public school? Home school? Christian schools? Which way should you parents go in our society today. Topics include 'Is the public school a mission field or a mine field'?; 'Should Christians get involved in the public schools processes'? What rights do you have as a Christian in public education'? These and other topics are part of this 'extended version' two part podcast 'How Should a Christian Parent Feel about Public Education?
Episode #202In this episode enjoy a stimulating discussion as a university professor (Dr. Aaron Mattox) and an attorney and public school board member (Mr. Matt Flanigan) come along side Podcast Host Mark Minor as they discuss the challenges and decisions for parents in the 'education choices' for children. Public school? Home school? Christian schools? Which way should you parents go in our society today. Topics include 'Is the public school a mission field or a mine field'?; 'Should Christians get involved in the public schools processes'? What rights do you have as a Christian in public education'? These and other topics are part of this 'extended version' two part podcast 'How Should a Christian Parent Feel about Public Education?
Mother's Day can be sweet, stressful, or just plain disappointing—sometimes all at once! In today's episode, Karen and Emily get real about unmet expectations, social media comparison, and the emotional weight this day can carry. They also share stories from their own celebrations—some simple, some funny, and some that didn't go as planned. Whether you're anticipating brunch with your people or dreading a day that feels heavy, this conversation will remind you: it's okay to name what you need and celebrate in a way that feels meaningful to you.Episode Recap:1:37 - Mother's Day can be a mixed bag of emotions3:35- There's a lot of pressure surrounding celebrating well7:00- Social media can quickly steal your joy9:05 - How can we communicate what we want for Mother's Day effectively?12:30 - What if you want a special day but you know your family won't plan anything?16:21 - How do you navigate a difficult Mother's Day? Scripture for Reflection: Romans 12:15 (NIV)“Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.”Questions for Discussion:What emotions does Mother's Day bring up for you this year—joy, sorrow, both?Have you ever been disappointed by an unmet expectation on this day? What did you learn from it?What would your ideal Mother's Day actually look like—and how can you communicate that clearly?How can you support another mom who may be hurting or overwhelmed this year?Resources:Don't miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.comDownload the BOAW app to send us your questions! https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927
Hal Shurtleff, host of the Camp Constitution Report, discusses the Sam Blumenfeld Archive and reads one of Sam's timeless articles. Camp Constitution is a New Hampshire based charitable trust. We run a week-long family camp, man information tables at various venues, have a book publishing arm, and post videos from our camp and others that we think are of importance. Please visit our website www.campconstitution.net
Your college student has changed—and so has your family. In today's episode, Karen and Emily talk about preparing for the emotional and practical realities of having a college student return home for the summer. From setting clear expectations to embracing the growth in your child, you'll walk away with practical tips (and encouragement) to navigate this bittersweet transition with grace!Episode Recap:3:45 - Karen shares how re-entry was with different kids coming home from college8:08- How can I temper my expectations before my kiddo comes home? 11:05 - Encourage your college student to get a job!13:00 - How do we prepare our younger kids for their sibling's reentry?15:52 - What's reasonable to ask of my college kid while they're home? 21:34 - Is it ok for me to tell my college kid how their actions made me feel? If so, what's the best way to do that?25:19 - We have to allow our children to grow and learn on their own because God is at work in their lives. Don't try to smooth the road out for them, let them learn.Scripture for Reflection: Ecclesiastes 3:1 (NIV)"There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens."Questions for Discussion:How has your family dynamic changed since your child left for college?What expectations do you need to reset—both for yourself and for your college student—before they return home?How can you communicate boundaries and responsibilities clearly without treating your college student like a child?In what ways can you celebrate and embrace who your child is becoming as a young adult?Resources:Don't miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.comDownload the BOAW app to send us your questions! https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927
Hypocrisy is present all over. In the government, while transgenderism is too far, the Trump administration continues to appoint many homosexuals to positions of power. In Maryland, Muslim and Christian Parents are complaining that their children are being subjected to learning about LGBTQ themes. However, if you are going to submit your children to humanism in the public school system, then you have to sign up for sexual autonomy too. And, if God's Word isn't part of everything about a child's life, you will raise hypocrites as well.This program includes:1. The World View in 5 Minutes with Adam McManus (Canadian liberal remains Prime Minister, Trump's first 100 days: Southern border secure, economy faltering, Russia cozies up with North Korea)2. Generations with Kevin Swanson
When your husband's job pulls him away from home, it can leave you holding the weight of family life alone—and it's exhausting. Today Karen is answering questions from moms whose husbands are frequently gone due to their line of work. From managing toddler tantrums and homeschooling to navigating resentment and self-pity, Karen shares hard-won wisdom from her own years in the trenches. Don't miss Karen's honest encouragement about what it means to trust God and stay grounded through the hard seasons! Episode Recap:2:35 - Karen's husband Greg travelled extensively with his job during their early family years6:10 - How did you manage the inconsistency in your husband's work schedule? 10:25 - We have to bring God into our daily walk as moms, He will sustain us11:30 - My husband works in a traumatic field, how do I support him without letting the darkness and stress of his job affect our family?15:05 - How do I help my husband get on board with what I'm doing at home since he's away so often18:23 - Emily's tips for keeping preschooler occupied while mom homeschools other child21:15 - I'm a working mom and my husband is in residency. I struggle with resentment and self-pity, how did you handle these emotions? Scripture for Reflection: Psalm 73:26 (NIV)“My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.”Questions for Discussion:What do you find most difficult when your husband is away—emotionally, practically, or spiritually?Have you ever struggled with self-pity or resentment in your parenting journey? What helped you move forward?Karen talks about letting go of the “scoreboard” in marriage and not expecting equal contribution all the time. How does that idea sit with you?What are some practical ways you could invite God into your hard season right now?If you're parenting a strong-willed toddler, which of Karen and Emily's ideas could you try this week?Resources:Download the BOAW app to send us your questions! https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927Don't miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.comCheck out the Scoreboard of Life session within Karen's The Six Truths of Motherhood curriculum: https://store.birdsonawiremoms.com/collections/available-for-purchase/products/six-truths-study-guide
Welcome to the Grace in Focus podcast. Today, Bob Wilkin and Sam Marr are answering a question about prodigal people who may be depending on us financially. If children or even other people are acting out with rebellion toward God, or just being lazy, should we continue to help them financially? We invite you to
In this episode of The Strength In Weakness Podcast, Ellen Radcliff invites her longtime friend, Laura Hammond to help her process one of the most tender years of her life — the journey of navigating her son Joel's autism diagnosis.Together, they explore what it means to grieve as a parent, how faith can coexist with fear, and the unexpected ways grief parallels the experience of Christian parents of LGBTQ+ kids. Ellen and Laura dive into the messiness of surrender, identity, and connection — with God, with their children, and with themselves.If you've ever struggled with unmet expectations, spiritual doubt, or the deep ache of watching your child walk an uncharted path, this one's for you.Topics include:- Grieving with God, not apart from Him- Autism, parenting, and the slow surrender- Why fear is a companion, not an enemy
Send us a textI'm passionate about equipping parents with tools to raise children in truth — especially in a world where culture is increasingly targeting the hearts and minds of our kids. In this video, I dive deep into the spiritual battle raging over the next generation and why it's absolutely vital for parents to engage early, prayerfully, and with bold love.You'll hear practical steps to shield your home, navigate the influence of public education, and speak truth over your kids in ways that are age-appropriate, grace-filled, and biblically grounded. I'm not here to create division, but to empower you with discernment and spiritual strategy to stand firm in love and truth. The enemy may have schemes, but we have something stronger—God's Word and wisdom.This episode also includes a comprehensive breakdown of 10 age-specific resources to help you talk to your children about s*x, identity, and purity — without fear or shame. I'll share real stories, proven tools, and encouragement for anyone feeling overwhelmed by the current climate. Parents, this is our moment. Let's rise with holy boldness and prepare our kids not just to survive—but to stand.Connect with Angie Taylor on:IG: https://www.instagram.com/mrsangietaylor/?hl=enFB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090424997350
Chase Davis is the pastor of The Well Church in Boulder, Colorado, and he is a champion for Christian values in the public square. Pastor Davis joins Ryan to discuss the impending threat of Colorado HB 25-1312, which seeks to criminalize "misgendering" or "deadnaming" a trans-identified person in business, criminalize gender-specific dress codes, and empower the state to kidnap "trans" kids from Christian parents who don't affirm radical gender ideology.Learn more at standingforfreedom.com
Today we're talking about Good Friday —and reflecting on why something so awful was called ‘good.' Karen walks through the events leading up to the cross, explains why Jesus had to die, and answers some common (and hard!) questions your kids and teens might be asking. Whether your children are little or nearly grown, we hope this conversation equips you to talk about Jesus' sacrifice and bring the hope of Easter into your home this week.Episode Recap:2:10 - We don't have to know everything, moms! But it's our job to point our kids to answers2:36 - Recap of events leading up to Good Friday5:42 - Matthew 27:51-53 shares some incredible things that happened when Jesus died8:44 - Jesus willing endured the Cross for us - that makes Friday good!9:30 - Why did Jesus have to die? Wasn't there another way?12:51 - Jesus was fully man and fully God, He is our High Priest13:35- Forgiveness doesn't mean justice is ignored14:24 - How do we know Jesus' death was real? What about the Resurrection?20:16 - What are practical ways to bring your family together around the story of Good Friday and Easter?24:00 - Don't be afraid of your kids' questions, dive in together and look for the truth! Scripture for Reflection: Isaiah 53:5 (NIV) “But he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was on him, and by his wounds we are healed.”Questions for Discussion:What makes Good Friday “good,” even though it was such a dark day?How can we engage well with our kids when they ask hard questions about Jesus' death or the resurrection?What does it mean to you personally that Jesus said, “Not my will, but yours be done”?How can your family focus on Jesus this Easter in a meaningful way—especially if your kids aren't naturally interested?Resources:Download the BOAW app to send us your questions! https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927Don't miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.com
From dealing with toddlers who constantly say "no!" to navigating three-year-old stubbornness, today Karen is answering your questions and sharing practical strategies to help you respond with consistency and grace. You'll learn how to set boundaries that stick and understand why repetition is key to laying a foundation of obedience. Whether you're managing meltdowns or guiding a strong-willed child, this episode will equip you to keep calm and parent on!Episode Recap:2:43 - Is age two or three more difficult?4:41 - My four yr old doesn't listen and it puts him in danger! How can I get him to take me seriously?7:15 - Toddlers HAVE to know that you are going to follow through!8:50 - I'm constantly threatening my 2.5 yr old daughter with consequences for not obeying, is she only obeying out of fear?11:00 - My 7 year old daughter has no motivation to do anything! How do I get her to get moving? 14:25 - Talk to your child's teacher if their homework seems to take them forever at home, there could be something to pay attention to there.18:55 - Help! My husband and I are at our wit's end with our combative 4 year old. Scripture for Reflection: Galatians 6:9 (NIV)"Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up."Questions for Discussion:What are some challenges you face with your toddler or preschooler's strong emotions? How do you typically respond?How do you balance immediate consequences with teaching long-term obedience?What strategies have you found helpful for setting boundaries with strong-willed children?How can you maintain consistency when it feels like your child isn't getting the message?Resources:Download the BOAW app to send us your questions! https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927Don't miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.comKathleen Edelman's A Grown Up's Guide to Kids' Wiring: https://amzn.to/4lmF5VFWire Talk episode 433 with Wellesley Jongko: https://wiretalk.transistor.fm/episodes/433-you-can-set-your-child-up-for-readin
Send us a textIf you've ever felt overwhelmed or unsure how to guide your children through today's gender identity confusion, you are not alone — and you are not without tools. In this deeply honest episode of The Way of Valor, I speak directly to Christian parents about the urgent need to engage, speak truth, and love our kids well through a cultural moment that is anything but neutral.This episode lays a foundation rooted in Biblical truth, scientific facts, and practical compassion. I cover the research around gender dysphoria, the rapid increase in youth transitioning, and how cultural institutions — including media and schools — are shaping your children's beliefs, often without your knowledge. I also tackle one of the biggest lies: that silence is safer than speaking up. Spoiler alert: It's not.But this isn't just about warning — it's about hope. As believers, we have access to eternal truths that free, heal, and restore. I'm here to equip you with clarity, resources, and confidence. You don't need to have all the answers. You just need the courage to have the conversation. Tune in, take notes, and let's prepare to lead our families in both truth and love.Connect with Angie Taylor on:IG: https://www.instagram.com/mrsangietaylor/?hl=enFB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090424997350
Join William Wolfe for today's special LIVE episode for the Center for Baptist Leadership with special guests Chase Davis and Jeff Hunt to discuss the radical pro-abortion and anti-family agenda of Colorado Democrats. Jeff Hunt is Co-Hose of The Jeff and Bill Show on 710KNUS in Denver Colorado. He previously led the Western Conservative Summit, one of the largest gatherings of conservatives in the West as executive director of The Centennial Institute. Don't miss out – be a part of the dialogue every weekday on The Jeff and Bill Show, only on 710KNUS, your home for conservative talk in Denver. Learn more about Jeff Hunt: https://x.com/jeffhunt https://jeffhunt.com/ J. Chase Davis (M.Div, Th.M, Denver Seminary) is Lead Pastor of Ministry of The Well Church in Boulder, Colorado. Chase is married to Kim and they have two sons. He is the author of Trinitarian Formation: A Theology of Discipleship in Light of the Father, Son, and Spirit (2021). He also hosts the podcast Full Proof Theology. You can find more of Chase's writing at jchasedavis.com. Learn more about J. Chase Davis: https://www.jchasedavis.com/ –––––– Follow Center for Baptist Leadership across Social Media: X / Twitter – https://twitter.com/BaptistLeaders Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/people/Center-For-Baptist-Leadership/61556762144277/ Rumble – https://rumble.com/c/c-6157089 YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/@CenterforBaptistLeadership Website – https://centerforbaptistleadership.org/ To book William for media appearances or speaking engagements, please contact him at media@centerforbaptistleadership.org. Follow Us on Twitter: William Wolfe - https://twitter.com/William_E_Wolfe Richard Henry - https://twitter.com/RThenry83 Renew the SBC from within and defend the SBC from those who seek its destruction, donate today: https://centerforbaptistleadership.org/donate/ The Center for Baptist Leadership Podcast is powered by American Reformer, recorded remotely in the United States by William Wolfe, and edited by Jared Cummings. Subscribe to the Center for Baptist Leadership Podcast: Distribute our RSS Feed – https://centerforbaptistleadership.podbean.com/ Apple Podcasts – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/center-for-baptist-leadership/id1743074575 Spotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/0npXohTYKWYmWLsHkalF9t Amazon Music // Audible – https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/9ababbdd-6c6b-4ab9-b21a-eed951e1e67b BoomPlay – https://www.boomplaymusic.com/podcasts/96624 TuneIn – Coming Soon iHeartRadio – https://iheart.com/podcast/170321203 Listen Notes – https://www.listennotes.com/podcasts/center-for-baptist-leadership-center-for-3liUZaE_Tnq/ Pandora – Coming Soon PlayerFM – https://player.fm/series/3570081 Podchaser – https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/the-center-for-baptist-leaders-5696654 YouTube Podcasts – https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFMvfuzJKMICA7wi3CXvQxdNtA_lqDFV
The stakes feel high when you're parenting teenagers, but you don't have to go it alone! Today Karen is answering questions from moms facing challenges as they are navigating the teen years. From dealing with inappropriate relationships and emotional struggles to setting boundaries and having tough conversations, Karen offers encouragement to help you parent with confidence. Whether your teen is acting out or just feeling melancholic, you'll find practical wisdom and support in this candid conversation.Episode Recap:4:06- It's critical to be a parent rather than a friend during the teen years.6:48- My 16 yr old is texting inappropriate pictures with his girlfriend, what do we do?11:49- Strategies for connecting with a melancholic teen.16:50- My college-age child is making poor choices when it comes to grades/work ethic - what does tough love look like?23:07- How do I firmly address drug/alcohol use concerns with young adults who aren't living at home anymore?26:21- My 16 year old is dealing with depression and thoughts of self-harm - help!Scripture for Reflection: Proverbs 22:6 (NIV)"Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it."Questions for Discussion:Do you struggle with balancing being a parent versus being a friend to your teenager?Think of a time your teen has made a poor choice. Did you manage your own emotions well while addressing the behavior? If not, what would it look like to have a re-do in that particular situation?What role does prayer play in your parenting during the teen years? What are 3 things you can be praying for your teen right now? Write them down and hold one another accountable to praying daily for those things in our teens' lives.Resources:Check out our studio glow up on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/@birdsonawiremomsDon't miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.comListen to Raising Emotionally Strong Boys with David Thomas: https://wiretalk.transistor.fm/episodes/347-raising-emotionally-strong-boys-with-david-thomas
From preschool power struggles to teenage arguments, this episode is full of real mom moments. Today, Karen's answering your questions on sibling conflict, possessiveness, and strong-willed kids. Whether it's a four year old not wanting to share, or a teenager pushing against boundaries, Karen reminds us that parenting isn't about controlling every outcome—it's about cultivating character, modeling grace, and being a steady presence as kids grow and learn.Episode Recap:5:24- How do I help my child get over her excessive possessiveness? 9:50 - Should I get involved over the messiness of my daughters' room? 12:18- My teens' argumentativeness ruins the mood of our entire family, help! 17:55- How can I help cultivate a close relationship between siblings? Scripture for Reflection: Ephesians 4:2 (NIV)“Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.”Questions for Discussion:Have you ever struggled with a child being overly possessive or anxious about their belongings? What has helped (or what would you try based on this episode)?How do you handle arguments with your strong-willed children, especially when they push back against authority? Is what you're doing working? What's one way you've helped your kids build or maintain a strong sibling bond?How do you balance honoring your child's temperament with helping them grow in areas like generosity, respect, and submission?Which part of Karen's advice in this episode resonated most with you today—and why?Resources:Check out our studio glow up on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/@birdsonawiremomsDon't miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: www.soaratsea.comWant more on parenting toward your child's temperament? Check out A Grown Up's Guide to Kids' Wiring: https://amzn.to/4c34sYCListen to Karen's episode with Abby: https://wiretalk.transistor.fm/episodes/wt-284-worth-the-fight-with-karen-and-abbyGrab a copy of Karen's devotional for Teen Girls: https://store.birdsonawiremoms.com/collections/all-active-products/products/preorder-teen-devotionalWant to know your or your child's temperament? Take our FREE Colors Quiz! www.boaw.mom/quiz
Navigating hard conversations can feel like walking a tightrope, especially when it comes to extended family! Today Karen is answering your questions about setting boundaries, honoring traditions while carving out your own space, and maintaining peace without losing your voice. We hope you'll take away some practical nuggets for the next time you find yourself facing a difficult conversation. Episode Recap:5:20 How do I know when to stand up for myself and when to bend?6:22 My husband's family celebrates religious holidays in a purely secular way. I'm always frustrated by it when we are with them! What can I do? 10:18 We feel guilted into vacationing with extended family every year when it really doesn't work for us anymore. It has become a source of tension between my husband and I. How do we navigate this? 15:26 How do I “uninvite” our babysitter on our family vacation??!20:00 My dad doesn't want to see us at the holidays because he says we haven't seen him/done enough with him all year long. How do I approach him? Scripture for Reflection: James 1:5 (NIV) "If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you."Questions for Discussion:Did you relate to Karen's story about being “afraid” of the 7 year old neighbor? Do unpleasant conversations make you nervous? Have you experienced tension around family traditions or expectations?Do you have particular family members you find it difficult to communicate with?When navigating family gatherings or vacations, what boundaries have you established that have been helpful?How can you invite God into these difficult conversations for wisdom and peace?What steps can you take to ensure your core family unit is nurtured and protected, even amidst extended family obligations?Resources:- Don't miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: www.soaratsea.com - Check out Wire Talk's viral clip - https://youtube.com/shorts/yd-lyxHD0HU?feature=share- Take the free colors quiz - www.boaw.mom/quiz
In today's episode, Amy and Sara sit down with Capri and Jason Brooks to talk all about prayer—how to model it, practice it as a family, and specific prayers to pray over your kids. Capri and Jason share practical ways to make prayer part of everyday life, along with the "S's" they pray over their children: salvation, safety, and spouse. Whether you're looking to grow your own prayer life or help your kids posture their hearts towards prayer, this conversation is full of encouragement and practical real-life tips!--Question of the Week: What is something that you are worried about that we could pray about together?--Hosts: Amy Lowe & Sara JonesGuests: Capri and Jason BrooksProducers: Emily Alters & Cody Braun--Learn more about WinShape Camps at WinShapeCamps.org!Instagram: @WinShapeCampsTikTok: @WinShapeCampsFacebook: @WinShapeCamps
Grief and joy don't have to be opposites—sometimes, they go hand in hand. In this tender conversation, Annie F. Downs shares the story behind Where Did TJ Go?, a book she co-authored with her sister to help families navigate the loss of a child. Annie opens up about how her nephew TJ's brief but impactful life deepened their family's bond and taught them the beauty of holding joy and sorrow together. Whether you've experienced loss yourself or want to support a grieving family, this episode is filled with wisdom, encouragement, and hope.Episode Recap:4:26- Annie F. Downs joins us today!5:40- Prior to TJ's death, Annie's family was not nearly as close 8:00- Annie's sister discovered she was pregnant with a child who had a life limiting diagnosis 10:45- Aunts and uncles get to say yes, so do it often! 12:45- How can we love on families who are raising kids while grieving? 14:30- Where Did TJ Go? is a conduit for families to connect while grieving16:00- There is good news in sad stories, this is a Gospel story20:50- Get a bookplate customized with the name of a child you want to honorScripture for Reflection: Romans 12:15 (NIV) "Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn."Questions for Discussion:Annie talked about how grief and joy can coexist. Have you seen this play out in your own life or in the lives of those around you?How can we, as moms, create space for our children to express their emotions—both happy and sad—without feeling like they have to choose one over the other?Annie's family found a surprising closeness through their loss. Have you experienced a hardship that has brought you closer to family? How did it change your relationships?What are some ways we can support grieving families, especially those with young children, in a way that honors their loss while also bringing hope?Resources:Pick up Where Did TJ Go? anywhere books are sold: https://amzn.to/4kxSYzTGet a bookplate customized with a name you want to honor at wheredidtjgo.comLast chance to register for the Soar Conference! Don't procrastinate another day: https://subsplash.com/birdsonawire-ga/lb/ev/+j2j9wpqConnect with Annie: https://www.anniefdowns.com/
In today's episode of Calibrate Conversations, Brady speaks to parents and those with children in their lives about the challenges of raising kids in a world filled with confusion around sexuality and gender. Instead of living in fear or isolating children, Brady encourages a gospel-centered approach to equipping the next generation with a biblical foundation of identity, purpose, and hope.Brady unpacks three key aspects that the LGBTQ ideology offers children—identity, purpose, and hope—and explains how the gospel provides a better, transformative alternative. Through biblical truth and personal testimony, he encourages parents to disciple their children with a Christ-centered identity, a biblical vision for sexuality and gender, and a hope that is not rooted in feelings but in the unchanging truth of God.Key Topics Discussed:✅ The challenge of raising kids in a world of gender and sexuality confusion✅ Why fear-based parenting and isolation are not the answer✅ How the LGBTQ ideology provides a counterfeit version of identity, purpose, and hope✅ The biblical foundation for identity: Colossians 3:3 and 1 Corinthians 6✅ Teaching kids to embrace God's design for gender and sexuality✅ The importance of engaging with children's emotions and helping them replace cultural lies with God's truth✅ How to build a family culture of grace, transparency, and gospel hope✅ Practical do's and don'ts when discipling children in this areaScripture References:1 Corinthians 6:11 – "Such were some of you..."Colossians 3:3 – "For you died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God."Genesis 1:27 – "Male and female He created them."2 Peter 1:3 – "His divine power has granted us everything we need for life and godliness."Ephesians 6:12 – "For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood..."Resources & Contact:Visit CalibrateMinistries.com for resources and support.Reach out to Brady for guidance or to support the ministry.Support the Podcast: www.calibrateministries.com Calibrate Ministries is fully donor-supported. If you'd like to partner with us, visit our website to contribute.
What is it like to raise children in the middle of a war? In this special episode, Karen sits down with Kimmie Saado, an American mom raising her five kids in Israel, to hear about the realities of life during conflict. From sirens and safe rooms to worshiping through fear, Kimmie shares how faith has anchored her family in uncertain times. Listen in as she encourages moms to raise up the next generation of Daniels—children who stand firm in faith, no matter the circumstances.Episode Recap:1:26- Kimmie is an American mom raising five kids in Israel3:03- How Kimmie and Sahar met and challenges of cross-cultural dating/engagement7:50- What it's like to lead a Bible tour company in Israel13:20- Karen and Kimmie's favorite places in Israel15:45- what has it been like to raise children in a conflict zone?19:39- how Kimmie's son led their family in worship during moments of fear.22:30- how faith-filled habits help equip our kids and others to stand firm in faith.24:31- what does it mean to be a “Daniel”?28:15- what Kimmie and Sahar are doing in the States this year30:00- how Americans can pray and support the Jewish people right now37:30- we have made God so small and our problems so bigScripture for Reflection: 2 Timothy 1:7 (NIV)“For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.”Questions for Discussion:Kimmie shared a vivid story about responding to a bombing by shouting a Bible verse and also, how her son responded to bombing sirens with worship. How do you model turning to your faith in scary times? Do your kids get to witness that? What does it mean to raise a "Daniel" in today's world? How can we instill resilience and faith in our children?Kimmie and her husband took intentional steps to prepare for challenges before those challenges arrived. How can we spiritually equip our families before trials come?Kimmie spoke about finding peace in God's presence, even in uncertainty. What are some practical ways we can cultivate that kind of faith in our own lives?Resources:Last chance to register for the Soar Conference! Don't procrastinate another day: https://subsplash.com/birdsonawire-ga/lb/ev/+j2j9wpqCheck out Kimmie and Sahar's company: Israel Bible Tours: https://www.israelbibletours.com/
Guys, are you ready to take back control of the sex education your kids receive? It's been an ever growing trend to let outside influences shape our children's understanding of sexuality. In this week's interview, Jim Ramos talks to Rodney Wright, author of ‘How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex'. Rodney is a seasoned veteran with Pure Desire Ministries and shares his wisdom on how to guide your kids through these sensitive topics with confidence and clarity. Men, this isn't just a conversation, it's a call to action to break the silence in our faith communities - it's more important than ever! Check out Rodney's Book (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!) Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God Get your tickets now for The Unbreakable Boy movie: This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon.
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Discipling our kids can feel like a big responsibility, but moms don't have to do it alone! In this episode, the new BOAW Moms operations manager, Erin Mashaw, shares her journey in ministry and her passion for equipping parents to lead their children in faith. She opens up about her own experiences as a pastor's kid, her years in church ministry, and the resources she's excited to create to support moms. Tune in for encouragement that you absolutely can disciple your kids with confidence! Episode Recap:1:10 - Erin is going to be a breakout session speaker at the Soar Conference4:05 - True discipleship happens at home5:25 - Moms are the faith catalyst in American homes right now7:20 - During difficult times, we experience the deepest intimacy with God8:48 - How do we trust God in the waiting and the what ifs?10:40 - What can moms expect from you in your breakout session? 11:30 - Sign up for the Soar Conference! 12:15 - Fill your mind with truth through Scripture, worship, etc. Scripture for Reflection:Isaiah 41:10 (NIV) – “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”Questions for Discussion:Do you feel like the primary catalyst for your family's faith journey? If so, do you resent your husband? Are you content in that role? How do you typically respond to uncertainty or fear in parenting? What helps you refocus on God's truth?Erin talked about using worship music, scripture, and even meditation apps to combat anxiety—what are some ways you can incorporate these practices into your daily routine?What's one step you can take this week to invite your spouse or children into a deeper faith walk alongside you?Resources:Snag your ticket for the Soar Conference: https://birdsonawiremoms.com/soar-2025Barna study on the influence of moms in Christian homes: https://www.barna.com/research/moms-christians-households/
In this heartfelt episode, KB explores the challenges of parenting a child with anxiety and the lessons learned along the way. She shares personal stories about her son Asher's struggles with anxiety, particularly in school and sports.As they navigate these challenges, the family learns important lessons about prayer, discernment, and the sometimes unexpected answers to their prayers.This episode is a poignant reminder of the complexities of parenting, the importance of empathy, and the need for careful consideration when seeking help for our loved ones.
Mike Manzie, executive director of Fresno New Creation Ministries is joining Melinda on The Bridge Between Us podcast. In this episode, Mike and Melinda discuss the importance of processing pain and healing through a spiritual lens. Using the SHAPE journaling method, parents can take intentional steps toward healing and understanding, inviting the Lord into their emotional journey. This episode provides valuable guidance for parents navigating complex feelings while supporting their children in love and truth. Key Topics Discussed: Why time alone doesn't heal wounds – the importance of intentional processing How to invite the Lord into the process of emotional healing Practical tips for journaling through pain and seeking clarity The importance of addressing unresolved emotions before they resurface SHAPE Journaling Method Explained: Scripture Hearing Application Purpose Edify Mike's testimony: Listen Here>>> Connect with Mike: Website ncmfresno.org Phone 559-227-1066 Email mike@ncmfresno.org
Raising kind and respectful kids feels like a lofty goal some days, but it's possible! Today Karen tackles your questions about guiding kids through friendship struggles, addressing disrespectful behavior, and teaching them to stay true to their values. Whether your child struggles with peer pressure, sibling dynamics, or showing respect at home, listen in for Karen's practical wisdom and discipline strategies to shape your child's heart for the long haul.Episode Recap:5:45 - The Soar Conference is a chance to pour into your home, get signed up!9:00 - My 8 year old is picking up bad behavior from friends, how do I influence her? 11:30 - Sometimes our kids have to learn the hard way12:15 - My daughter changes her personality depending on who she's with- how do I handle it?17:30 - My husband and I have different approaches to parenting disrespect, what can we do?23:35 - My child is so stubborn! How do I motivate her? Scripture for Reflection: Ephesians 4:2 (NIV) "Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love." Questions for Discussion:Have you felt like your influence as a mom is fading as your child's friendships become more important? How do you navigate that shift?How do you encourage your child to stay true to who they are in different social settings?How do you handle discipline in a way that connects with your child's personality?If you and your spouse differ in your parenting approaches, how have you worked toward unity? What has helped you get on the same page?For moms of green-wired children, what strategies have worked best in motivating them without overwhelming them?Resources:Snag your ticket for the Soar Conference: https://birdsonawiremoms.com/soar-2025Our Parenting Together curriculum is FREE in the BOAW Moms app: [App Store] [Google Play]Curious about your child's personality “color”? Take the free quiz: https://birdsonawiremoms.com/personality-quiz
What's the secret to connecting with your boys in meaningful ways? In today's episode, Amy and Sara are joined by Sara's husband, Chase Jones—a Licensed Professional Counselor and Marriage & Family Therapist—to unpack how parents can build strong connections with their sons. Drawing from his years of counseling experience, Chase shares insights on common struggles boys face, the key ingredients for meaningful connection, and practical ways parents can encourage, support, and lead their boys. From pulling them out of the digital world to cultivating leadership and resilience, this episode is packed with expert advice, real-life wisdom, and a reflective question to spark meaningful conversations in your family.The 5 Love Languages QuizBook: The Anxious GenerationArticle: 5 Ways to Shore up Boys' Social SkillsBlog: A Father's Devotion: The Question of Abundant Living--Question of the Week: What makes it hard to be a boy in today's world? What makes it hard to be a girl in today's world?--Hosts: Amy Lowe & Sara JonesGuest: Chase JonesProducers: Emily Alters & Cody Braun--Learn more about WinShape Camps at WinShapeCamps.org!Instagram: @WinShapeCampsTikTok: @WinShapeCampsFacebook: @WinShapeCamps
Today, we're diving into your questions about parenting kids with melancholy personalities—from helping a 5-year-old navigate self-critical thoughts to encouraging a 10-year-old who always wants to leave the party early, to figuring out how to connect with a tween who keeps butting heads with you. If you've ever wondered how to better understand your child's temperament and parent with both wisdom and grace, you're in the right place. Episode Recap:9:15 - My son can be so negative about himself, how can I coach him? 12:10 - My melancholy child always wants to leave events early - how would you approach this?14:45 - We have to learn not to be embarrassed our kids behavior15:40 - How do I build a better relationship with my blue son? 17:55 - Practice encouraging your son in his strengths 19:00 - How can I figure out my child's personality color? Scripture for Reflection:Psalm 139:14 (NIV) – “I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.”Questions for Discussion:How do you see your child's temperament influencing their everyday experiences?What strengths do you notice in your child that may be hidden beneath their struggles?How can you shift your parenting approach to encourage and support, rather than correct, your child's personality?What strategies have worked for you in connecting with a child who tends to be more withdrawn or self-critical?Are you praying for the Lord's guidance so that you can parent your son according to his strengths?Resources:Register for the Soar Conference today: https://subsplash.com/birdsonawire-ga/lb/ev/+j2j9wpqTake the Colors Quiz for yourself or your child! https://birdsonawiremoms.com/personality-quizDownload our FREE temperaments guide: www.boaw.mom/colorsPick up the book A Grown Up's Guide to Kids' Wiring https://amzn.to/40QLoaO
This week on Wire Talk, we welcome Sandra Stanley and her daughter Allie Cooney, co-authors of Meet Me in the Middle, a book designed to help moms and daughters build strong, faith-filled relationships. Sandra and Allie share lessons from their own relationship, and insights from their book—covering everything from communication struggles to the challenges of raising (and being) a teen girl today. They discuss the importance of creating a safe space for daughters, avoiding the “know-it-all” trap as moms, and learning to let go of control while guiding daughters toward wisdom and faith. Episode Recap:6:30 - Sandra Stanley & Allie Cooney join us to talk about their book, Meet Me in the Middle13:00 - This book was written for girls in 5th through 10th grade and their moms14:30 - Social media creates so much noise for our daughters today17:20 - Moms and daughters are facing many of the same pressures, just at different times in our lives and at different levels of maturity. 20:02 - When our girls feel safe with us, they are more likely to share with us22:00 - We don't need to turn everything into a teachable moment, be interested and be humble24:00 - It is normal for teen girls to pull away in this season27:35 - How do we help our daughters deal with comparison?31:10 - What we do in parenting is far more important than what we sayScripture for Reflection: Philippians 4:4-9 (NIV) "Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.”Questions for Discussion:Sandra and Allie emphasize that moms should aim to be a safe place for their daughters. What are some ways you've seen this play out in your own parenting? What challenges make it difficult for you to be that safe space?Allie mentioned that her mom, instead of forcing conversations, placed wise mentors in her life. Does your daughter have wise women in her world other than you that she could learn from?Have you ever found yourself turning every conversation into a teachable moment? How can you shift toward more natural, two-way conversations with your kids?What are some practical ways you model faith in your daily life, and how do you encourage your daughter to cultivate her own personal faith journey?Resources:Register for SOAR 2025 in the BOAW Moms app today [App Store] [Google Play]Pick up a copy of Meet Me in the Middle: https://amzn.to/42JaRp1
Fr. Turbo Qualls joins us to talk about the more subtle aspects of spiritual warfare. Thank you to our sponsors. Let's get you speaking in a new language. Get up to 60% off with Babbel.com/exfilesWant amazing news stories? Stories that matter for Christian Parents? Check out ReadLion.comFount of Grace- for incredible high quality Catholic jewelry. Visit FountofGrace.com/exfiles and use our promo code EXFILES for $15 off your first order. Want more bonus episodes? Sign up for THE VAULT here.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
If you've ever felt buried under clutter, you're not alone. Today Maria and Rebecca of Simple Spaces Ohio join us to share how decluttering has transformed their lives, how you can help your kids understand the value of less, and how a simple morning routine can bring order to the chaos. Whether you're naturally sentimental or just in need of a little guidance, this episode will encourage you to reclaim peace in your home and take back valuable time in your day.Episode Recap:2:15 - Clutter affects the way we feel in our homes4:00 - Young moms are overwhelmed by the chaos in their homes 6:30 - As your kids get older, you can help them understand they don't need so much stuff 9:45 - Some people are naturally more sentimental than others 11:10 - Having a morning routine with just a few chores can help manage the overwhelm 13:00 - Decluttering gives you back time in your dayScripture for Reflection: 1 Corinthians 14:33 "For God is not a God of disorder but of peace—As in all the congregations of the Lord's people."Questions for Discussion:What areas of your home feel the most overwhelming to you right now? What would it look like to create a sense of peace in those spaces?How do you balance keeping sentimental items with the desire to declutter? Are there any items you find hard to let go of?What small changes or routines have you implemented in your daily life that have helped you manage the clutter and find more peace?How can we involve our kids in the decluttering process without overwhelming them, and what are some ways to teach them the value of less stuff?Resources:Register for the SOAR Conference in the BOAW Moms app [App Store] [Google Play]
Navigating relationships with in-laws and grandparents can be tricky, especially when it comes to setting boundaries for the safety and well-being of your kids. Today Karen tackles your questions about managing challenging family dynamics with wisdom, grace, and confidence. Whether you're dealing with safety concerns, feeling smothered, or struggling with differing parenting approaches, this conversation is packed with practical advice to help you protect your family while fostering peace. Episode Recap:2:10 - Check out our new podcast set up on YouTube4:35 - How do I graciously handle having two sets of hyper-involved grandparents? 9:15- How do I handle my mother-in-law's disrespect in a kind but firm way? 12:45- My mom hovers and overprotects my kids - what should I do? 16:45 - My in-laws have repeatedly shown they do not respect my boundaries, is there anything I can do? Scripture for Reflection: James 1:5 (NIV) If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.Questions for Discussion:Have you ever had to set boundaries with family members? What was the outcome, and how did you approach it with kindness and firmness?What role should prayer play in preparing for difficult conversations about boundaries?In what ways can we shift our focus from trying to please everyone to focusing on our responsibilities as moms?What practical steps can you take this week to ensure your nuclear family has time to bond without extended family involvement?Resources:Register for SOAR 2025 in the BOAW Moms app today [App Store] [Google Play]Grab a copy of Karen's devotional: Moments with God for Moms
Description: As we step into a new year, Karen and Emily are here to help you start fresh. In this episode, they discuss practical tips for breaking bad habits, finding contentment in your current season, and making space for your own growth as a mom. If you're ready to embrace 2025 with renewed purpose and encouragement, you're in the right place.Episode Recap:2:30 - Jumping into the New Year, what are your New Year's resolutions? 9:02 - My childrens' bad moods put me in a bad mood! What can I do about this? 13:34 - How do I prioritize my spiritual growth with 3 under 3 in my home? 17:15 - How do I break the habit of having my 5 year old share the bed with us? 20:50 - I'm struggling with contentment because I want another child but my husband and I both feel like we can't afford another one, help! Scripture for Reflection:2 Corinthians 5:17 (NIV): “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!”Questions for Discussion:Does your child's behavior affect your own emotions? Practically speaking, how can you disconnect your emotions from your child's behavior?What strategies or tools have helped you find time for spiritual growth during a busy season of motherhood?Are there any bad habits you've developed when it comes to behavior or situations in your home (like the mom who was bed sharing longer than she wanted to)? What are they and are you ready to work to break them this year?Do you struggle with contentment? Maybe it's the size of your family or your financial situation…how can you practice contentment while trusting God with your family's future?Resources:Register for SOAR 2025 in the BOAW Moms app today [App Store] [Google Play]Grab a copy of Karen's devotional: Moments with God for Moms
Father Martins shares testimonies from the St. Jude Tour, answers some audience questions from last year, and Ryan reads a few of the absurd and overly specific criticisms. Thanks to our sponsors!Save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions with Rocketmoney.com/exfiles . It's an exorcism of your finances!Let's get you speaking in a new language. Get up to 60% off with Babbel.com/exfilesWant amazing news stories? Stories that matter for Christian Parents? Check out ReadLion.comWant more bonus episodes? Sign up for THE VAULT here.Men- Jump on Exodus90, it starts January 20th. Click here- Exodus90.com/exfilesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Today Karen and Emily sit down with Elizabeth Pehrson to discuss how moms can parent with purpose by focusing on the long game. In this conversation, Elizabeth shares her no-nonsense approach to raising independent, contributing adults. Whether you're navigating the pressures of parenting littles or wondering how to prepare your teens for the real world, this episode will leave you inspired and equipped. Don't miss the rest of the interview over on Patreon! Episode Recap:2:09 - Elizabeth is a long time friend of BOAW Moms and a breakout speaker at Soar 20253:36 - She is mom to 8 and founder of The Exchange8:08 - Most women live a Groundhog Day kind of life, but they don't have to10:32 - We can't love others when we're not loving ourselves well12:37 - How did The Exchange come about? 18:25 - We need to raise adults who are contributors, not consumers21:00 - We are overprotecting and under preparing our kids for the real world 24:00 - Young adults today do not know how to problem solve on their own25:01 - We run a race differently when the length of the race changes - keep the long game in mind! Scripture for Reflection:Proverbs 22:6 (ESV) Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old, he will not depart from it."Questions for Discussion:What areas of parenting do you feel pressured to “do more,” and how might adopting a “do less” mindset bring freedom to your family?How are you currently preparing your children for independence, and what's one practical step you can take to help them contribute more?Elizabeth emphasizes the importance of rediscovering yourself as a mom. What's something you used to enjoy that you can reintroduce into your life?How can shifting your focus from short-term achievements to long-term character development change the way you approach parenting?Resources:Register for SOAR 2025 in the BOAW Moms app today [App Store] [Google Play]Become a Patreon member and listen to the rest of the interview with ElizabethCheck out Elizabeth's organization, The ExchangeHow Do I Get Some Help Around the House? previous WT episode with Elizabeth
As we wrap up Wire Talk for 2024, we're diving into practical ways to connect with your spouse during busy seasons. From showing appreciation in small ways to navigating family expectations and finding joy in spontaneity, Karen has got wisdom and real-life practical tips for you! Whether you're balancing the holidays, family dynamics, or simply trying to plan a date night, we hope this conversation inspires you to be intentional in your marriage.Episode Recap:5:30 - How can I show my spouse they matter in small, but meaningful ways?9:00 - How can I accommodate my in-laws' tendency to plan way ahead? 11:45 - Communicating clearly is gracious, even if it disappoints others13:30 - I don't feel lovey-dovey when we're travelling, but my husband does. How do we navigate this dynamic? 16:50 - Did your yellow ever rub your blue husband the wrong way? How do I be more spontaneous to accommodate him? 23:00 - Thank you for all of your support this year! Sign up for SOAR in 2025Scripture for Reflection:1 Corinthians 16:14 (NIV) "Do everything in love." Questions for Discussion:What are some small but meaningful ways you can show your spouse they are appreciated during busy seasons?How can you find balance between accommodating family expectations and maintaining boundaries for your immediate family?Have you experienced differences in how you and your spouse handle travel or holiday dynamics? How do you navigate those differences?How can you practice flexibility in your plans while still honoring your own needs and personality?What's one new date-night idea you'd like to try with your spouse?Resources:Register for SOAR 2025 in the BOAW Moms app today [App Store] [Google Play]Give today to support BOAW Moms and our plans in 2025: boaw.mom/donate
Today Karen and Emily are diving into what it means to love like Jesus, even when it's difficult. They cover preparing your heart, navigating tricky relationships, and approaching family gatherings with humility. You'll learn how to manage expectations and hear practical ways we can love others like Christ loves us. Whether you're juggling in-laws, extended family, or just trying to survive the season, this episode is packed with encouragement and wisdom for the holidays.Episode Recap:5:41 - Why is it so challenging to love our extended family like Jesus?10:26 - How can we shift our mindset and love family when it feels impossible? 12:33 - You can't ignore your feelings, but you don't have to act on your feelings. 13:30 - What are some practical ways we can prepare our hearts before family gatherings?16:00 - Pray and ask God to show you what He loves about hard to love people23:44 - The holidays can bring joy, but they can bring a lot of trigger points as wellScripture for Reflection: John 13:34-35 (NIV)"A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another."Questions for Discussion:How can you demonstrate love to family members who may be difficult to connect with during the holidays?What practical steps can you take to prepare your heart to approach family gatherings with humility and grace?How does Jesus' example of unconditional love challenge the way you interact with extended family or in-laws?What boundaries could you set to help maintain peace and joy during the holiday season, while still showing Christ-like love?Resources:Give today to support BOAW Moms and our plans in 2025: boaw.mom/donateRegister for SOAR 2025 in the BOAW Moms app today [App Store] [Google Play]
The holidays can often bring stress and guilt for moms as we try to make everything perfect for our families. In this episode, Karen and Emily share how to embrace a simpler, more joyful approach to Christmas. From favorite childhood memories to navigating tight budgets, they remind us that the best moments often come from just being together! We hope this episode inspires you to let go of the pressure, focus on what truly matters (Jesus' birth!), and create meaningful traditions—whether planned or unplanned.Episode Recap:3:08 - Karen and Emily “This or That' Christmas edition9:30 - Emily's favorite Christmas memories growing up in the Stubbs' home11:20 - The best memories aren't always the ones you plan16:54 - Pick a few things that are important to you and forget the rest18:20 - Some traditions happen organically and end up being the kids' favorite20:10 - How do I keep the holiday spirit alive as my kids grow?23:00 - Explain the budget to your kids and don't feel bad about sticking to it25:32 - Mishaps can lead to new traditions and memories.27:30 - Give yourself grace and just enjoy this holiday season! Scripture for Reflection: Luke 2:10-12 (NIV)“But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord. This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.”Questions for Discussion:What are some of your favorite childhood holiday memories?How can you simplify your holiday plans this year to focus more on connection and less on perfection?What are some inexpensive ways to create lasting memories with your family during the holiday season?How can you be intentional about letting go of comparison during the holidays?What new traditions could you start as your children grow older and your family's needs change?Resources:Register for SOAR 2025 in the BOAW Moms app today [App Store] [Google Play]Give today to support BOAW Moms and our plans in 2025: boaw.mom/donate
Moms often struggle with guilt and overthinking, especially when it comes to making decisions for their families. In this episode, Karen talks about how to avoid the trap of overanalyzing every choice and instead focus on what brings peace and unity to your family. Whether you're navigating school decisions, holiday traditions, or just everyday challenges, this discussion will help you let go of guilt and embrace the best yes for your family with confidence.Episode Recap:4:00 Navigating mom guilt around holiday decisions7:30 Deciding whether to do Elf on the Shelf13:00 Setting boundaries for attending kids' birthday parties17:45 Learning to communicate clearly with your children before making commitments22:00 Making decisions that are right for YOUR family, without comparisonScripture for Reflection:Proverbs 3:5-6 (NIV): "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight."Questions for Discussion:What kind of mom guilt are you facing in this season of parenting, and how can you let go of it?How do you decide which traditions to embrace and which to let go of?What are some ways you can involve your kids in making decisions, like attending parties or events?How can we give ourselves grace if our plans or decisions don't look like those of other families?Resources:Download the BOAW Moms app (for FREE!) [App Store] [Google Play]
Navigating the holidays as a grandparent can be tricky, but holding plans with open hands can make all the difference. In this episode, we talk about how to foster unity, embrace flexibility, and keep a spirit of grace at the center of holiday gatherings. Whether you're a mom of grown children or still in the thick of raising kids at home, Karen offers practical tips to help you approach the season with love and understanding.Episode Recap:4:56 Grandparents need to hold holiday plans with open hands7:45 Remember what it was like to be a young adult and all of the pressures they are facing10:00 Be open and flexible to new traditions13:00 Enjoy the kids when they are around and be okay if they are not present some years14:55 Learn how to communicate plans early 16:30 It's okay for grandparents to spoil the grandkids and overindulge them once a year!19:30 Ask your grown children, “what can I do to make holidays easier/better for you?” 23:00 The holidays aren't about exactly ‘when' or ‘how,' they are about being togetherScripture for Reflection:Philippians 2:3-4 (NIV): "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others."Questions for Discussion:In what ways can you be more understanding of the pressures your grown children face during the holiday season?What new traditions could you embrace that might help create a more joyful and flexible holiday experience for everyone?How can you learn to hold your holiday traditions with open hands? Is there anything specific you know will be hard to let go of? What steps can you take to communicate our holiday plans early, while still being considerate of everyone's needs and desires?How can you maintain a spirit of grace if plans change or things don't go as expected?Resources:Download the BOAW Moms app (for FREE!) [App Store] [Google Play]
Today, DeDe Wilbanks joins us to explore how we can set healthy boundaries around the technology in our homes. With John 10:10 as our guide, DeDe reminds us of our God-given role to protect our children's hearts and minds from the addictive nature of technology. While we can't control everything, we can be intentional about setting limits that nurture our families, trusting God with the rest.Episode Recap:4:30 What downtime and screen time parameters do you put on your devices? 9:43 Is there a right age to give kids a phone? 13:09 Why do screen time limits matter? 15:15 What mistakes have you made when it comes to technology in your home?19:10 I had to learn to enjoy the “no”22:00 How do you actually set limits on the iphone? 31:22 What simple practical tips can you offer to get started?Scripture for Reflection:John 10:10 (NIV) "The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.”Questions for Discussion:What boundaries are in place around the tech that your kids have access to? (Games, ipads, TV, phones, etc.)Have you made any mistakes with the technology you have allowed in your home? How do you model healthy technology habits for your children? What challenges do you face when setting screen time limits, and how do you handle them?What action steps are you taking after listening to this episode? Resources:Download the BOAW Moms app (for FREE!) [App Store] [Google Play]The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt
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