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Between toddler tantrums, potty training battles, and endless power struggles, the preschool years can feel like the wild west of parenting. Today Karen is answering your preschool questions with her trademark practical tips, reminding us that structure, consistency, and patience go a long way. Above all, your daily walk with the Lord is what will sustain you during these exhausting and beautiful years!Episode Recap:My husband and I are at our wit's end with our strong-willed 4 year old's tantrums (6:11)Take a deep dive into the temperaments to learn how to discipline your child (7:00)My husband's job keeps him away from home often, how can I help my young children cope? (10:30)Help! Potty training is driving me nuts! (14:54)How do I help my 3 year old regulate his emotions? (17:40)Giving in to a tantrum makes it worse 100% of the time (19:00)Everything is an argument with my four year old, any advice? (23:22) Your walk with the Lord truly does make a difference (27:49)Scripture: Galatians 5:22–23“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.”Discussion Questions:How do you usually respond when your preschooler throws a tantrum? Is it working? Is there a new strategy you could try this week?Karen shared the importance of structure. What does a typical day look like in your home, and how could a little more routine help your preschooler?When your spouse travels or works long hours (or if you are co-parenting and splitting time between parents), how can you help your kids feel connected to their parent who is away?Potty training can be one of the most frustrating seasons. What's worked (or not worked) in your family, and how do you keep patience in the process?Karen reminded us that we need to lean on the Holy Spirit's fruit to parent well. Which “fruit” do you most need to pray for in this season? Let's pray for one another this week!Resources:We are booking for 2026! Reach out to bring Karen's wisdom to the moms in your community: https://birdsonawiremoms.com/book-karen-to-speakLearn more about temperaments in our most recent episode with Kathleen Edelman: https://wiretalk.transistor.fm/episodes/470-why-your-child-s-wiring-mattersSend us your question! Use the Ask Karen function in the BOAW Moms app: App Store: https://apps.apple.com/md/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927 Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.subsplashconsulting.s_JVZ5JB&hl=en_US

When hard things happen in life, our faith can be shaken. And when a faith mentor quits believing, it can really give us doubts. We dig into how to pass along truth to our kids so that they won't be shaken when life happens.

What if a better marriage starts not with more work, but with changing the way you think? This week we're sitting down with author and speaker Ted Lowe to talk about his book Us in Mind and the simple things that separate happy couples from struggling ones. From celebrating small wins to practicing empathy and taking thoughts captive, Ted unpacks practical ways to renew your mind and see your spouse differently. Whether your marriage feels stuck or just needs a little spark, we hope this conversation leaves you encouraged and equipped to do the next right thing.Episode Recap:How are great marriages different from struggling marriages? (6:42)Happy couples think in a way that unhappy couples don't (8:42)“Madly in love” couples focus on what they do love about their spouse, not what they don't (12:00)What you think about yourself affects how you interact with your spouse (17:08)Why do celebrations make such a big difference in our marriages? (25:12)Empathy is huge for happy marriages (30:01)Two words that changed Ted's marriage (33:53) For Christians, our marriages are not just about us (38:44)Scripture: Romans 12:2 “Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”Philippians 4:8 – “Whatever is true, whatever is noble… think about such things.”Discussion Questions:How does the way you think about your spouse shape the way you act toward them?Ted talked about “seeing the best” in your spouse. What does that look like in your marriage right now?Why is empathy so powerful in marriage? How could you practice “stepping into the puddle” with your spouse this week?How do you typically respond to your spouse's successes or joys? What's one way you can celebrate with them more intentionally?Which of Ted's practical shifts (empathy, celebration, reframing thoughts, writing notes, pausing in conflict) feels most helpful for your current season of marriage?Marriage is meant to reflect the love of Christ. How does remembering this bigger purpose change the way you approach your relationship?Resources:Pick up a copy of Ted's book today: https://amzn.to/4nKdkqDConnect with Ted: https://forusmarriage.com/Check out our Parenting Together curriculum for FREE in the BOAW Moms app: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927Download the companion study guide in the BOAW store: boaw.mom/parentingtogether 

From silly phobias to real panic, fear shows up in parenting all the time. Adam, Chelsea, and Cassie talk about crowds, kids going missing for a minute, and the dread of what could happen when we're not there. Then they walk us into Scripture—Isaiah's “fear not,” Jesus lifting Peter out of the waves, the father begging, “help my unbelief,” and a God who literally carries His people. This one's practical, honest, and full of grace for moms and dads who need to breathe and remember: our kids—and our hearts—are in stronger hands.Resources Mentioned:Good News for Parents by Adam GriffinIsaiah 41:10Deuteronomy 1:31Matthew 14:22–33Mark 9:24 – “Help my unbelief.”Luke 15 – The Father's heart.Matthew 6:25–34Psalms of Lament (starter set) – Fear meets faith.Job (opening) Follow Us:Instagram | Facebook | WebsiteEditing and support by The Good Podcast Co. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

When one mom asks a hard marriage question, we know hundreds more are wondering the same thing. Today, Karen and Emily tackle your vulnerable questions about jealousy, mismatched sex drives, and resentment at home. Karen reminds us that fighting for our marriages is worth it, even when it means doing the hard work like going to counseling, seeing a doctor, or having the tough conversation. We hope this episode will encourage you to keep investing in your marriage no matter the season you are in! Episode Recap:I struggle with jealousy when my husband is around other women, is that normal? (5:11)My husband doesn't initiate sex, what should I do? (8:20)As a SAHM, I'm super frustrated with the home workload (10:34)Communicate when things are calm, not just in the heat of the moment (17:03)My husband and I disagree about SO MUCH - how do we compromise? (18:16)My spouse will NOT apologize. What are my options? (23:39)How do you stay connected when you're outnumbered by kids & have busy schedules? (24:18) Scripture: Colossians 3:13–14 “Bear with each other and forgive one another… And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.”Discussion Questions:What expectations do you carry into your marriage that you haven't clearly communicated to your spouse?How do you and your husband currently handle disagreements? What could you do to practice more “active listening” with one another?When it comes to intimacy, how comfortable are you being honest about your needs? What might help you take a step toward open communication?What are some small, practical ways you and your spouse can prioritize your marriage this week?What regular rhythms/routines could you establish to make sure you prioritize your marriage even when life feels overwhelming?Resources:Check out our Parenting Together curriculum for FREE in the BOAW Moms app: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927Download the companion study guide in the BOAW store: boaw.mom/parentingtogether 

Beauty is not a luxury—it's a vital, transformative force that shapes souls, redeems culture, and unlocks the creative potential God has placed in us all. In this inspiring and intensely practical episode, Catherine welcomes Isaac and Emily Gay to “Christian Parent, Crazy World” for a discussion that is anything but superficial. Together, they tackle the overlooked virtue of beauty in the church and in the home—a topic with power to reach the lost and restore what has been tragically neglected in the Western church. Isaac and Emily Gay share their hearts, talents, and hard-won wisdom from years of artistic leadership, ministry, and motherhood. With backgrounds in theater, worship, and church planting, they know firsthand the struggle of being artists in a culture—and a faith community—that too often sidelines creativity in favor of utilitarian metrics. Their mission? To help the modern church reclaim its historical role as a cultivator of beauty and creativity, both in its worship and its community life. Key topics explored in this episode: The Forgotten Virtue: Catherine and her guests outline how beauty once held a central place in the church, only to be pushed aside by industrial-age utilitarianism, soul-counting, and a focus on productivity at the expense of creativity. Healing the Rift: Catherine dives into the history of how secularism, dualism, and fundamentalist thinking fractured the relationship between church and creative souls. A Biblical Blueprint for Collaboration: Drawing from Exodus and the story of Bezalel and Oholiab—the first individuals filled with the Holy Spirit for the purpose of art—Emily and Isaac urge pastors and church leaders to actively commission and empower artists, forging genuine partnerships for the sake of the Gospel. The Culture-Shaping Power of Art: Isaac shares a provocative example from pop culture—Lil Nas X’s infamous “satanic shoes”—to illustrate how the world hasn’t forgotten art’s power, but the church has. The consequences? Hollywood and secular creatives have filled the cultural void abandoned by faith communities. Personal Stories and Honest Confessions: Catherine, Emily, and Isaac each open up about their individual struggles—feeling misunderstood, pressured to produce, and at times outright rejected by faith communities. Their honesty will resonate with parents, pastors, and anyone grappling with their creative calling. Reimagining Success: The conversation challenges the prevailing idea that only overtly “productive” or evangelical art is worthwhile, calling for a holistic embrace of beauty as a means of forming souls, shaping culture, and expressing the fullness of the Imago Dei. Have you ever wondered why the church has lost its cultural influence to Hollywood? Are you, or your children, gifted in the arts and unsure of how that fits in God’s kingdom? Are you a church leader looking to be a force for good in our culture? Emily and Isaac’s insights will encourage you to see artistic expression as a calling worthy of investment—and essential to the church’s mission in the world. This episode is essential listening for parents, pastors, creatives, and anyone longing to see God redeem our culture through something as simple—and as sacred—as beauty. Don’t miss this heartfelt and hope-filled conversation that just might change the way you see art, faith, parenthood, and the power of beauty to shape the world for good. Guest Bios: Isaac and Emily Gay are artists, worship leaders, and church planters in Buffalo, NY. With backgrounds in acting, worship, and the arts, they’ve helped lead church planting and prayer movements while building creative communities both locally and online. Parents of three boys, they are passionate about the power of beauty, creativity, and play—at home, in the church, and in culture. Episode Resources: Isaac’s Website & Instagram The Parallel Society The Prodigal by Isaac Gay For resources, free guides for parents, and more on nurturing creativity in your kids, visit catherine@catherinesegars.com. Stay curious. Stay creative. Let’s raise a new generation of culture-makers—one story, painting, song, or act of love at a time. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Parenting can so easily become all about behaviour.  We hear ourselves all day saying things like - ‘Stop that, do this, don't forget.' But as Christian parents, we want our kids to know God personally, not just know the rules. So in this episode, I want to talk about how we can use those everyday moments when our kids need correction to disciple their hearts because we want our kids to know God's love not just obey His rules. Read the blog here:  Christian Parents are you focused on Correction or Introducing Jesus?   Grow as a Heart-Focused Parent: Join Heart Boosters Each week you'll receive practical insights and encouragement to disciple your children's hearts, plus free access to my Resource Library with extra tools and printables.   PRIVATE COACHING: Get one-to-one help with coaching - via Zoom.  Book your call today.  $30/session.  Read more here   FOLLOW BELINDA  On Instagram: @belindaletchford On Facebook: facebook.com/heartfocusparenting On Substack: @belindaletchford  Email Belinda: belinda (at) belindaletchford.com Website:  belindaletchford.com  

Send us a textAs a parent, choosing the right school for your child can feel overwhelming, especially in today's world where public schools, Christian schools, classical models, micro-schools, and homeschooling are all on the table. But for Christian families, the decision isn't just about academics or convenience, it's about faith, values, safety, and long-term impact.In this episode of The Way of Valor, Angie Taylor unpacks the real questions Christian parents are wrestling with:Can my child truly know Jesus in this school environment?Will they be safe and supported by teachers and administrators who share my values?Am I underestimating the hidden costs of a “free” public school education?What are the strengths and weaknesses of Christian schools, classical schools, and micro-schools?How can homeschool parents thrive with the right support and community?With decades of experience as both a public school teacher and a Christian school leader, Angie shares candid insights about the educational landscape, what's at stake, what parents should be asking, and how to align your child's education with your family's biblical worldview.If you're a parent weighing your school options, this conversation will help you look beyond the headlines and dig into the deeper heart-level questions that matter most.Share this episode with another parent making school decisions right now.Connect with Angie Taylor on:IG: https://www.instagram.com/mrsangietaylor/?hl=enFB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090424997350

Marriage doesn't have to feel heavy or complicated, sometimes we just need a gentle nudge to see where we've let things slide. In this conversation with Arlene Pellicane, author of Making Marriage Easier, Karen and Emily unpack the four practical shifts that can strengthen your relationship: play by the rules, speak kindly and listen well, practice gratitude, and take fun seriously. Whether you're in the trenches with little ones or looking ahead to the golden years, this episode will encourage you to invest in your marriage today!Episode Recap:Arlene's background and marriage (5:43)Ask yourself, what can I do to make my marriage easier? (7:59)What does it mean to “play by the rules” in marriage? (9:47)Divorce is highly predictable based on how couples speak to one another (11:05)How does giving thanks make marriage easier? (14:37)The source of our happiness is God, nothing else (17:36)Our phones are essentially a third person in modern marriages (18:15)Don't forget to have FUN together! (21:57)In marriage, you will reap what you sow (26:21)Scripture: 1 Thessalonians 5:16–18 (NIV)“Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus.”Discussion Questions:What is one small step you could take this week to “make marriage easier”?How do you and your spouse communicate? Do you notice more admiration or criticism in your words?When was the last time you laughed/just had fun with your spouse? How could you plan something simple and enjoyable together soon?In what ways can practicing gratitude shift your perspective in marriage?How has phone or screen usage affected your relationship? What boundary might help protect your connection?What was most encouraging to you about this conversation? Resources:Snag Arlene's book, Making Marriage Easier on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3KbFMD3Grab easy date night ideas (scroll down) at MakingMarriageEasier.comCheck out our Parenting Together curriculum for FREE in the BOAW Moms app: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927Download the companion study guide in the BOAW store: boaw.mom/parentingtogether 

In this episode of Dear Church, Chris talks with JD Schwartz, youth minister at Graymere Church of Christ, about one of the most important questions parents and ministers face: When is a young person ready for baptism? Together they discuss how to discern spiritual readiness, the role of parents in guiding their children, and why rushing or delaying baptism can both bring challenges. Drawing from JD's decades of experience working with teens and families, this conversation offers wisdom and encouragement for anyone navigating this crucial step of faith.   Connect with Us: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearchurch_podcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61564673680147 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DearChurch   Website: https://www.rippleoflight.org/ ROL Facebook: http://facebook.com/rippleoflight ROL Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rippleoflight ROL YouTube: http://youtube.com/rippleoflight ROL Rumble: http://rumble.com/rippleoflight   Have a question? Email Chris at chris.mccurley@rippleoflight.com.   #DearChurchPodcast #JDSchwartz #YouthMinistry #Baptism #FaithDecisions #ChristianPodcast #ParentingAndFaith #RaisingFaithfulKids #ChurchOfChrist #ChristianLiving #YouthFaith #FaithJourney #ChristianParents #Discipleship #TeenFaith  

Moms, you don't want to miss this conversation! Karen and Greg pull back the curtain on nearly four decades of marriage—the good, the hard, the early years, and the season they're in now. Their honesty will inspire you to invest in your own marriage now so you can reap the rewards later. This heartfelt episode will make you smile, and maybe even tear up, as they remind us that we serve a good and faithful God who wants the best for us and our marriages.Episode Recap:How Karen and Greg back met in 1984 (4:00)What Greg thought marriage was going to be like (6:40)What were some of your biggest differences as newlyweds? (7:50)How did you stay connected during the early years of raising kids? (10:09)We always prioritized us over the kids. (13:22)How did serving in the military impact your marriage and family? (14:45)What has been the hardest season of your marriage? (18:48)How did your faith carry you through that season? (22:54)What have you come to love or appreciate about one another more recently? (29:10)How has your relationship changed now that your kids are grown and gone? (31:35)What's one way that you protect your marriage even now? (35:55)What has surprised you about becoming grandparents? (37:19)Lightening round questions (40:12)Scripture: Proverbs 3:5–6 (NIV)“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.”Discussion Questions:Karen and Greg talked about prioritizing their marriage even while raising young kids. How do you currently make space for your spouse in a busy season of parenting?Greg shared the advice he received from his dad: “Your family is your hobby.” What might it look like for you to protect your margin for your family?Karen described her “needy gal” season where she learned to depend on God to meet her needs. How have you experienced God providing for you in a hard marriage or parenting season?What small rhythms (like a daily debrief, date nights, or intentional quiet time) could you adopt to strengthen your connection with your spouse?Looking ahead, what do you hope your marriage will look like when you reach the “high five” finish line of raising kids together?Resources:Get the Parenting Together curriculum videos FREE in the BOAW Moms app: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927Grab the discussion guide in our store: https://store.birdsonawiremoms.com/collections/mom-studies/products/parenting-together-free-in-the-app-copyReach out to https://birdsonawiremoms.com/book-karen-to-speak to have Karen come speak in your community!Join our private FB group, BOAW Moms: https://www.facebook.com/groups/BOAWmoms

No matter where your kids are in school this year, every mom will take away encouragement and wisdom from this conversation about homeschooling. In this episode, Karen and Emily sit down with Wire Talk producer (and homeschool mom of four) Katie Leipprandt, who shares the truths she's learned over 15 years of parenting and schooling at home. From choosing relationship over results, to leaning on community, to remembering your “why” when days get hard, Katie's wisdom applies to every mom—no matter how your kids are educated.Episode Recap:How did you get started homeschooling? (4:00)I wish someone had told me to prioritize relationship first (7:33)How has your ‘why' changed for your homeschool? (11:30)What does a typical day look like homeschooling four kids? (14:30)How do you differentiate between your “mom hat” and your “teacher hat”? (18:00)What would you say to the homeschool mom who is already overwhelmed? (21:43)How do you teach a child who doesn't want to do the work? (26:32)How do you juggle multiple ages and teach with toddlers? (32:24)What fruit have you seen because of homeschooling? (37:40)What's your encouragement for the homeschool mom this year? (42:40)Scripture: Deuteronomy 6:6–7 (NIV) “These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.”Discussion Questions:What is your “why” for the educational path you've chosen for your children? How can you remind yourself of it on hard days?Katie talked about prioritizing relationships over results. How does that idea challenge or encourage you in your current season?In the early years, expectations for homeschooling (and parenting in general!) can be sky-high. What expectations might you need to lay down to create more peace in your home?What role has community played in your parenting journey? How can you pursue encouragement and support if you're feeling isolated?Katie shared that one of the sweetest fruits of homeschooling has been the bond between her children. What “fruit” do you see or hope to see in your family through the choices you're making now?Resources:Connect with Katie online: www.instagram.com/leipprandt Dumbing Us Down by John Taylor Gatto: https://amzn.to/4fONcrKPurchase Birds on a Wire curricula in the store: https://store.birdsonawiremoms.com/collections/available-for-purchase-1Reach out to https://birdsonawiremoms.com/book-karen-to-speak to have Karen come speak in your community!Join our private FB group, BOAW Moms: https://www.facebook.com/groups/BOAWmoms

School today looks a lot different than when we were kids, and moms often feel stuck between supporting their children and not piling on more pressure. In this episode, Karen and Emily sit down with longtime educator and principal Jerome Huff to share how parents can help their kids thrive during their middle and high school years. We loved the reminder that your child's school still needs you! Your prayers and presence can make a lasting impact, not only on your child but on the entire school community.Episode Recap:“Principal Coach” Jerome Huff joins us today to talk about helping our middle and high schoolers thrive (2:20)How coming from a single parent home influenced the way he ran his schools (5:45)How schools have changed over Jerome's time as a principal (8:30) What do you wish more parents understood about what teachers are dealing with day to day? (16:30)High schools need parent volunteers as well! Ask, “what can I do?” (23:18)The role the Holy Spirit played in Jerome's approach to being a principal (26:45)What are you most proud of from your career? (30:12)Scripture: Philippians 4:6–7 “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God…”Discussion Questions:1. How do you balance encouraging your child to do their best but not overwhelming them with pressure?2. Jerome mentioned the importance of letting kids advocate for themselves—what opportunities could you give your child this week to practice independence?3. Jerome emphasized the role of balance (school + outside interests) in thriving kids. How can you help your child find that healthy balance this year?4. What's one way you can support teachers or administrators at your child's school in a tangible way this semester?5. How can you begin praying more intentionally for your child's school, teachers, and classmates?Resources:- Grab a pad of Lunchbox Notes to start your year off strong! https://store.birdsonawiremoms.com/collections/gifts/products/lunch-box-notes- Reach out to https://birdsonawiremoms.com/book-karen-to-speak to have Karen come speak in your community- Join our private FB group, BOAW Moms: https://www.facebook.com/groups/BOAWmoms

An increasing number of year-round sports now play games on Sundays, preventing many students from attending church. Has athletics become more important than church? Join us for an important conversation with Pastor Chris Tapken who raised two college-level athletes while also discipling them in the church.

If you're parenting an elementary-age child, this episode is for you! Today Karen and Emily sit down with elementary school principal Amber Lamb to share practical ways you can partner with teachers, encourage independence, and help your child navigate friendships during these formative years. With 20+ years in education, Amber offers encouragement and practical tips to set your family up for a strong and connected school year.Episode Recap:Elementary school principal Amber Lamb joins us today (4:15)What has changed in the school world since you became an administrator? (6:45)Fewer parents are coming into the building now (8:30) How can parent involvement make a difference at this stage? (11:15)I wish more moms understood education is a journey (14:45)Put your “kids lens” on when talking to your kid about what's going on at school (21:15)Go in to talking with your teacher with positive intent (29:02)No contribution to the classroom is too small! (30:26)Encourage independence and be curious about your child this school year! (34:42)Scripture: Colossians 4:5-6 (NIV) “Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity. Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.”Discussion Questions:What's one way you can build good communication with your child's teacher this year?How do you currently encourage independence at home? What's one age-appropriate step you could add?Think about a time your child didn't have the “perfect” teacher match; did it help them grow? How so?How can you support your child as they navigate friendships when conflict arises?Where do you have margin this year to serve and/or encourage your child's school staff?Resources:Grab a pad of Lunchbox Notes to start your year off strong! https://store.birdsonawiremoms.com/collections/gifts/products/lunch-box-notesReach out to https://birdsonawiremoms.com/book-karen-to-speak to have Karen come speak in your communityJoin our private FB group, BOAW Moms: https://www.facebook.com/groups/BOAWmoms

Starting preschool can feel overwhelming, both for moms and our little ones! That's why Karen and Emily are joined today by veteran preschool director Lisa Lucas, who brings 20 years of wisdom to this conversation. Lisa shares how preschool has changed over the years, what kids really need to be ready, and how moms can ease the transition with a few small habits at home. Whether you're a first-time preschool mom or just looking for a reset, this episode is packed with tips to help your family thrive this school year! Episode Recap:Preschool director Lisa Lucas and Karen go way back! (2:45)How the preschool environment has changed over the past 20 years (7:00)Preschoolers are capable of a lot more than we think (14:40) Solid sleep habits and good nutrition make a world of difference (17:20)How can I ease separation anxiety? (19:40)How can moms support their preschool teachers? (26:30)The small chane that will make a BIG difference in your school year (29:51)Scripture: Luke 2:52 (NIV) “And Jesus grew in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man.”Discussion Questions:What were your biggest emotions or concerns when sending your child to preschool for the first time?Lisa mentioned that preschoolers are more capable than we give them credit for. In what areas could you offer your preschooler more responsibility at home?How do you think your family's technology use impacts your child's behavior, imagination, or attention span? What changes might you consider for the year ahead?What's one new habit or routine (e.g., sleep schedule, communication skill, attitude shift) that could help your preschooler feel more confident about school?How can you support and encourage your child's teacher/school this year?Resources:Grab a pad of Lunchbox Notes to start your year off strong! https://store.birdsonawiremoms.com/collections/gifts/products/lunch-box-notesReach out to https://birdsonawiremoms.com/book-karen-to-speak to have Karen come speak in your communityJoin our private FB group, BOAW Moms: https://www.facebook.com/groups/BOAWmoms

I've had a few strong-willed kids, or strong-willed moments, and what I learnt was first, staying calm is important, and secondly, I am not calm because my child does well, I am calm because of the work done inside of me.  We can be calm even if our kids' behaviour is creating havoc!!  It starts with a shift in us (the parents) - in how we think, what we expect, and what we believe about our role as parents. Read or Listen:  How To Stay Calm: 3 Essential Mindset Shifts For Christian Parents   Join HEART-BOOSTERS (free) here. Weekly email digging deeper into the heart-focus parenting topic so you can make real change in your family. PLUS Resource Library Pass for bonus printables and support material.   PRIVATE COACHING: Get one-to-one help with coaching - via Zoom.  Book your call today.  $30/session.  Read more here     FOLLOW BELINDA  On Instagram: @belindaletchford On Facebook: facebook.com/heartfocusparenting Email Belinda: belinda (at) belindaletchford.com Website:  belindaletchford.com Substack: Belinda Letchford/A heart-focused Life  

Segment 1: • Smartphones at age 5–6 linked to 48% suicidal thoughts in girls. • Early phone use disrupts emotional stability, empathy, and reality perception. • Christians called to be counter-cultural—even if kids push back. Segment 2: • Ozempic use in teens raising long-term brain and appetite concerns. • Stopping GLP-1 drugs leaves lasting appetite and mood issues. • Mental health crisis linked to dopamine interference and body image lies. Segment 3: • Smartphones + body image pressure driving teen Ozempic use. • Over 700 signed up for Play the Man—momentum is building. • Campus culture toward Christianity is shifting—opportunities emerging. Segment 4: • Beachaven Church aiming for 10,000 gospel conversations. • Evangelism culture must be intentional—does your church have one? • Only 36% of Americans confident in the church; evangelism can change that. ___ Thanks for listening! Wretched Radio would not be possible without the financial support of our Gospel Partners. If you would like to support Wretched Radio we would be extremely grateful. VISIT https://fortisinstitute.org/donate/ If you are already a Gospel Partner we couldn't be more thankful for you if we tried!

As we turn the corner into a new school year, we're bringing back part two of one of our most-loved mini-series: the State of Motherhood. In this candid conversation, Karen doesn't hold back! She challenges us to take ownership of our world, root out laziness, and remember that all the hard work of motherhood is worth it. Whether you're clinging to the last days of summer or knee-deep in school prep, we hope this episode reminds you that everything we do, including being a mom, is to be done unto the Lord.Episode Recap:Focus on progress over perfection as a mom (3:45)Go back and listen to part 1 for Truths 1 & 2 (5:00)Truth #3 - Take ownership for your mom life (6:30)Stop playing the blame game (12:50)Truth #4 - Stop being lazy (18:05)It's all worth it (31:51) Resources:Want Karen to come deliver some tough love and major encouragement to the moms in your community? Reach out: https://birdsonawiremoms.com/book-karen-to-speakGrab Peace for the Anxious Mom as your Bible study for the new school year: www.boaw.mom/peaceNeed a devotional for the school year? Grab Karen's devotional: https://store.birdsonawiremoms.com/collections/books/products/copy-of-moments-with-god-for-moms-daily-devotional-faux-leatherJoin our private FB group, BOAW Moms: https://www.facebook.com/groups/BOAWmomsFollow BOAW Moms everywhere: @birdsonawiremoms

As July comes to an end, many moms are turning their eyes toward the school year ahead. That's why we're bringing back one of our most-loved mini-series: the State of Motherhood. This honest two part conversation dives into the good, the hard, and the unfair parts of motherhood and offers the loving kick in the pants we all need to reset our perspective. Whether you're wrapping up summer or bracing for new routines this fall, we hope this episode helps you gear up for what lies ahead! Episode Recap:Check out all our new curriculums (6:30)Join our private Facebook group this year (9:20)The amount of complaining we do doesn't change how hard motherhood is (19:21) Life is not fair (24:02)You are doing a good job and you are going to get through this (38:42)Resources:Find all Karen's FREE curricula in the BOAW Moms app: https://store.birdsonawiremoms.com/collections/free-curriculumPurchase brand-new curricula in the store: https://store.birdsonawiremoms.com/collections/available-for-purchase-1Reach out to https://birdsonawiremoms.com/book-karen-to-speak to have Karen come speak in your community!Join our private FB group, BOAW Moms: https://www.facebook.com/groups/BOAWmoms

Today Karen and Emily dive into the dynamics of marriage and parenting by reminding us that we are not our husband's Holy Spirit! Karen shares her own story about letting go of the urge to control her husband's spiritual journey and offers practical wisdom for managing the emotional ups and downs that come with doing life together. Lean in for practical advice about navigating differences with your spouse, remembering that it is God who ultimately guides our faith journey!Episode Recap:1:49 We diminish God's power when we try to control our husbands6:10 How do I let go of my husband's lack of a quiet time? 9:05 Allow the Holy Spirit to do its job, your job is to love and respect your husband10:15 My husband is harsh when he disciplines, what do I do? 14:10 How can I get my husband to take more initiative and help me more?17:30 Be specific when you ask for help18:45 My husband's moodiness brings me down! Scripture for Reflection:1 Corinthians 3: 6-7 (NIV): "I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God has been making it grow. So neither the one who plants nor the one who waters is anything, but only God, who makes things grow."Questions for Discussion:Can you relate to the feeling of wanting to control your husband's spiritual walk? When has this happened in your own marriage, and how have you handled it?How do you and your spouse parent differently? What strengths does your husband's style bring to the family? What strengths does your style bring? Do you think you make a good team or is there a lack of balance?Do you ever struggle with resentment or feeling overwhelmed in your role as a wife and mother? What steps have you taken to address these feelings, and how did your husband respond?When your husband is in a "blue mood," how do you typically react? Have you found any strategies that help both of you during those times, and how do you maintain your own emotional balance?Have you or your husband used this idea of space to deescalate tension in your relationship? Was it effective?Resources:Looking for a summer study? Check out Peace for the Anxious Mom: https://boaw.teachable.com/p/peace-for-the-anxious-momSign up for Soar at Sea: https://www.soaratsea.com

Today Karen and Emily are talking about one of the biggest challenges moms face—knowing when (and how) to say no. With stories from their own families and practical advice for every season, this conversation will help you evaluate what's best for your family right now. Whether you're navigating sports schedules, volunteer asks, or the push to "do it all," this conversation will give you permission to prioritize wisely and protect your peace, so you can say yes to what matters most.Episode Recap:8:02 How can I say no to one more thing? I feel guilty! 11:00 Travel soccer used to be fun but now it's expensive and overwhelming…what do we do?15:05 I'm struggling to prioritize time with my husband, any tips? 17:30 You need to determine for your own family what are your non-negotiables18:26 What steps can I take to prevent over commitment? 20:22 - Your best yes looks different from other families Scripture for Reflection: Philippians 1:10 (NLT)“For I want you to understand what really matters, so that you may live pure and blameless lives until the day of Christ's return.”Questions for Discussion:How do you evaluate whether a commitment is a “best yes” for your family? What criteria do you use to make sure your commitments support your family's well-being?How can you ensure that your marriage remains a priority amidst the busyness of life? Is this easy for you or is it a struggle? Karen talks about dividing your time into three categories: essentials, non-negotiables, and bonuses. How do you currently categorize your commitments? What activities or priorities fall into each category in your life? Are there any adjustments you feel called to make after reflecting on this idea?What strategies can you implement to create intentional rest and unstructured family time in your weekly routine?Resources:Looking for a summer study? Check out Survival Guide to Motherhood: https://boaw.teachable.com/p/survival-guide-to-motherhoodSign up for Soar at Sea: https://www.soaratsea.com

→ Prayer CalendarSummer offers a unique opportunity to slow down, connect, and refocus on what really matters. But for many parents, it quickly becomes a season of hustle, pressure, and endless activity. In this episode, we explore how to reclaim the summer months with purpose, peace, and joy. We share practical, faith-centered ideas for engaging your children from backyard discovery and theme days to pointing your kids to God through nature and Scripture. With encouragement rooted in biblical wisdom and real-life examples, this episode reminds us that summer doesn't need to be full of structure to be full of meaning.Scripture mentionedMatthew 13:3-9Matthew 13:18-33Ephesians 5:19-20Episode Highlights[00:00:00] Introduction[00:03:30] 3 Strategies for Laying a Foundation this Summer[00:15:30] Four-part Garden framework: Prepare, Weed, Tend, Irrigate3 TakeawaysSummer is a valuable time for preparing the soil of your child's heart. By slowing down and creating space for unstructured play, natural discovery, and quiet reflection, you nurture their imagination, curiosity, and spiritual awareness.You don't need an elaborate itinerary to have a meaningful summer. Simple theme days, outdoor play, and intentional moments of connection can offer more joy and growth than packed calendars and over-programmed weeks.Pointing your children to God doesn't have to be complicated. Whether through conversations about nature, stories of Jesus as the living water, or planting seeds in a garden, every summer moment can be a discipleship opportunity.Please send us your questions if you'd like to have them discussed on the podcast: themindofachildpodcast@gmail.com The Mind of a Child is an early child development podcast that exists to encourage and equip parents to raise their kids to love God and love others. If you're looking for Biblical principles, practical parenting solutions, and science-backed research, our discussions are specifically tailored for you. Our hosts are Leslie Dudley Corbell and Diane Doucet Matthews, who each have a combined 50+ years of experience in the early child parenting space.

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Discipline is one of the hardest parts of parenting—and one of the most frequently asked-about topics from Wire Talk listeners. In this popular re-air, Karen breaks down discipline into three practical stages and shares wisdom from her book Survival Guide to Motherhood. Whether you're parenting toddlers, school-aged kids, or teens, grab your headphones and get ready to reframe your mindset with the powerful biblical principle: pain now equals peace later.Episode Recap:8:14 Discipline starts with your mindset 9:36 Pain now equals peace later12:24 Discipline has to be consistent.13:34 The three stages of discipline each require a different focus from moms16:17 The “B”s of discipline with young kids are: Be Consistent, Be United, Be Clear17:05 In the middle years it's time to teach the “why” behind the no18:11 You have to slow down and make time to teach your child20:20 During the “coaching” stage, parents have to let consequences play outScripture for Reflection: Hebrews 12:11 (NIV)“No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.”Questions for Discussion:Are there any negative behaviors you see in your child now that you are tempted to ignore, thinking they will grow out of it? Karen mentioned the idea that "pain now will equal peace later" when it comes to parenting. Have you experienced this in your own life? How have you seen this in your parenting journey? Which stage of discipline are you in right now? (Laying the Foundation, Teaching the ‘Whys', The Coaching Years)Do you think the pace of your life is preventing you from disciplining effectively? How so? Of the three “B”s (Be Consistent, Be United, Be Clear), which do you struggle with most? Have you ever prayed and asked for wisdom to know how to discipline your child? Pray together as a group today for the wisdom to discipline effectively. Resources:Get your copy of Karen's book Survival Guide to Motherhood: https://amzn.to/3I8jxNxSign up for Soar at Sea: https://www.soaratsea.comMore Wire Talk episodes on discipline: Laying the Foundation, The Middle Years, The Coaching YearsFind ALL the episodes we've ever recorded on discipline HERE. 

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We can't shield our kids from everything—but we can prepare them. In today's episode, Karen answers your questions about navigating tricky situations that stem from outside influences. From toddlers to teens, the answer isn't control—it's conversation. Listen and learn why awkward talks now might be the most powerful gift you can give your kids!Episode Recap:3:39 - My preschooler is coming home using potty words, how do I address it? 5:41 - My neighbors' kids are obnoxious and I don't want my kids around them…9:46 - My teenager's friend (the son of a friend of mine) uses foul language in his texting, should I address it with her? 13:34 - How do I balance our family values and God's command to think about praiseworthy things with my daughter's taste in popular music that isn't God-honoring?20:05 - These conversations are awkward and hard but if we don't teach our children, who will?Scripture for Reflection: Deuteronomy 6:6–7 (NIV)“These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.”Questions for Discussion:When have you had to address a peer-related influence or issue with your child? How did it go?Are there any boundaries you need to reinforce in your home—around language, media, or friendships?How can you create a safe environment for your child to be honest with you about what they're seeing and hearing?What makes it hard for you to have uncomfortable conversations with your kids—and what truth from Scripture gives you courage?Resources:Register today for Peace for the Anxious Mom: https://boaw.teachable.com/p/peace-for-the-anxious-momSign up for Soar at Sea: https://www.soaratsea.com

Send us a textStatistics show that a dismal 10% of Christian young people stick with their faith into adulthood while upwards of 75-80% of the children of other faiths stay with theirs. What is it that the parents of these other faiths do that inspire their children to remain faithful to their religions? Becky shares their secrets.Visit us at:Our Website and Online Store - www.kidsinministry.orgOur Youtube Channel - Becky Fischer - YouTube Facebook - @beckydfischer Contact us at office@kidsinministry.org701-258-6786

From disappointment in marriage to disrespectful teens, today's episode tackles some hard moments moms are facing. Karen answers questions about how to parent through anger, restore broken relationships, and course-correct when obedience and respect have gone off track. With stories from her own life and wisdom rooted in Scripture, Karen reminds us thar God is in the business of redemption—and it's never too late!Episode Recap:4:36 - My life is not at all going as I had planned - is there a Bible Study for that? 10:44 - We missed the boat on disciplining our boys well in their younger years, how do we course correct now? Is it too late? 15:45 - You answer to the Lord and you don't need to apologize to anyone.16:46 - My husband is an extremely permissive parent - what can I do?19:40 - My 14 year old son hates me (I think in many ways, it's deserved) what can I do? Scripture for Reflection: Galatians 5:22-33 (NIV)"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control."Questions for Discussion:What area of your life or parenting feels like it's “not going as planned” right now?Have you been tempted to sit in self-pity or blame? What truth do you need to remind yourself of today?Is there a place in your parenting where you need to course-correct—like obedience, respect, or consistency?How can you invite God into the process of healing a relationship that feels broken or strained?Resources:Six Truths of Motherhood study guide: https://store.birdsonawiremoms.com/collections/mom-studies/products/six-truths-study-guide Look for BOAW Moms studies for FREE in the BOAW Moms app: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927Register for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.com

What if understanding your child's temperament could transform the way you parent? Today Karen and Emily sit down with author and temperament expert Kathleen Edelman to talk about wiring, communication, and the power of speaking life into our kids. Kathleen shares tips for how to spot your child's core temperament, explains why it's so important to know your own, and reminds us that God intentionally chose each of us to be the mother of our unique child. Episode Recap:4:05 - Kathleen Edelman joins us in the studio today to talk temperaments6:15 - God chose YOU, with your unique temperament, to be the mother of your unique children. It was not an accident. 8:00 - Where did this idea of the 4 temperaments come from?10:50 - You can watch the body language of your child and pay attention to their words to discern their temperament14:00 - Temperaments are innate, personality evolves18:44 - You have to understand how God uniquely wired you to be able to speak your child's language well 22:00 - What are common mistakes parents make with each temperament and how can they adjust their approach?31:53 - How can parents manage being the opposite temperament from their spouse? 36:40 - Kathleen and Karen share stories of how this knowledge can transform relationships44:27 - Children are pure in their wiring before the world starts reprimanding themScripture for Reflection: Ephesians 4:29 (ESV)“Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.”Questions for Discussion:Do you know your temperament color? If so, how has that shaped your parenting style?Has learning about your child's temperament changed the way you respond to their emotions or behavior?Are there any common communication mistakes you're making with your child's specific wiring?How can you speak more intentionally to build your child up according to their God-given design?Resources:Enter our giveaway: https://www.instagram.com/birdsonawiremomsRegister for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.comKathleen's website: https://isaidyouheard.com/Follow Kathleen on IG: @kathleenedelmanBOAW Moms Temperament Colors Quiz: boaw.mom/quizThe temperament book that started it all for Karen: Personality PlusKaren's book with a chapter on temperaments: Survival Guide to MotherhoodI Said, You Heard resources on FB: https://www.facebook.com/isaidyouheardDownload the BOAW app to send us your questions! https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927

Chad Williams joins Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar to discuss how to protect children in an increasingly wicked world. The conversation begins with Chad's powerful testimony. Though Chad completed Navy SEAL training, he was struck with a deep emptiness. Becoming a SEAL had been his life's goal, but achieving it left him hollow. He realized no earthly accomplishment could satisfy the soul. It was through confrontation with Scripture that he began to understand the depth of human pride and sin. Only Christ can take away sin and cover His people with grace and mercy.Chad shares how, from the moment of his salvation, he was a changed man. He immediately began proclaiming the gospel and eventually crossed paths with Ray, who encouraged him to try open air preaching. That initial step was difficult, but it launched Chad into a bold and public faith. The guys talk about a clip of Chad engaging a skeptic with clarity and conviction. Mark recalls a humorous but intense moment when someone tried to steal Chad's ID during a preaching event—only for Chad to chase the man down and recover it. Chad's faith would soon lead him into another kind of battlefield: local politics.Now a city councilman in Huntington Beach, Chad stepped into office after seeing how far the culture had shifted. Once elected, Chad focused on defending the defenseless, particularly children. He and the council took action after discovering sexually explicit books in the children's section of the library. In response, they made plans to form a review board made up of community members to flag and relocate inappropriate materials; however, this initiative sparked backlash, with critics labeling it censorship and a book ban. One deeply disturbing organization sued the council over the committee's formation.This legal battle has reached a critical point. On June 10, there will be a vote on whether to preserve or dissolve the committee. The opposition is determined to shut down any effort that brings community accountability to public content. The guys along with Chad emphasize that this is not just a local issue—it is a spiritual battle with eternal stakes. If parents are not discipling their children, the world will. He reminds believers that discipleship is lived out daily. If sin isn't named, it will be renamed and rebranded as progress. He urges listeners to pray, support, vote, give, and reach out to those in Huntington Beach. The time to act is now. Children are watching, and their future depends on how boldly this generation stands.Send us a textThanks for listening! If you've been helped by this podcast, we'd be grateful if you'd consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

Do you ever feel overwhelmed by anxiety, resentment, or fear in motherhood? You're not alone. Today Karen and Emily open up about navigating hard seasons—from managing a home alone while your husband is away, to struggling with trust in God when fear creeps in. They dive into real questions from moms who are tired, discouraged, and looking for peace. Grab your coffee, because this one's packed with encouragement, truth, and a little tough love. ;)Episode Recap:7:05 - The world is loud and stressful, but we can have peace because God is with us9:18 - I feel overwhelmingly resentful toward my husband because the weight of family life is all on me - how can I get through this season?10:30 - Some seasons are just HARD and you have to persevere12:20 - Self pity is of the devil. Ask God to meet your needs.17:16 - My husband is SO moody - help!18:50 - What are the various temperament colors?25:00 - It is easy to forget the strengths of our spouse and only focus on their negatives.31:00 - My 17 yr old struggles with anxiety and has a friend who exacerbates it. What can I do?38:11 - How do I entrust my children to God? I love God but I have realized I don't trust Him.43:33 - Check out our Peace for the Anxious Mom curriculum today! Scripture for Reflection: Matthew 6:26 (NIV)"Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they?”Questions for Discussion:When you're in a hard season, what do you tend to focus on—what's lacking or what's good? How can you shift that focus?What fears are hardest for you to surrender to God? What helps you move toward trust?Have you seen prayer work miracles in your family? Share if you feel comfortable.Resources:Peace for the Anxious Mom curriculum: boaw.mom/peaceLast call for DISCOUNTED Soar at Sea registration: https://www.soaratsea.comEmily's Air Essentials: https://spanx.com/collections/matching-setsWire Talk 431: You're Not Your Husband's Holy Spirit: https://wiretalk.transistor.fm/episodes/431-you-are-not-your-husbands-holy-spiritBOAW Moms Temperament Colors Quiz: https://birdsonawiremoms.com/personality-quizDownload the BOAW app to send us your questions! https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927

Discover what it means to embrace heart-focused homeschooling—a mindset shift for Christian parents who want to shape character, faith, and values.  Read it here:  Heart-Focused Homeschooling: A Mindset Shift for Christian Parents   Join HEART-BOOSTERS (free) here. Weekly email digging deeper into the heart-focus parenting topic so you can make real change in your family. PLUS Resource Library Pass for bonus printables and support material.   PRIVATE COACHING: Get one-to-one help with coaching.    see details     FOLLOW BELINDA  On Instagram: @belindaletchford On Facebook: facebook.com/heartfocusparenting Email Belinda: belinda (at) belindaletchford.com Website:  belindaletchford.com  

This Postmodern Realities episode is a conversation with JOURNAL author Bill Westers about his article, “Questions and Doubts: 5 DON'Ts for Christian Parents”. Coming Soon!Related articles and podcasts by this author:Episode 428: The New Religion In Public Schools: Progressivism and the Trojan Horse Called SELThe New Religion In Public Schools: Progressivism and the Trojan Horse Called SEL 

From dentist visits to bedtime clinginess, today's conversation is all about helping kids face fear with confidence. Karen answers your questions about navigating anxiety, new experiences, and tough transitions. With practical ideas and plenty of encouragement, this episode will equip you to walk with your child through fear and toward courage.Episode Recap:2:05 - Emily is more than halfway through her pregnancy6:50 - How can I help my 3.5 year old face the dentist without a meltdown?10:12 - My outgoing, bubbly 5 year old becomes totally silent at school - what do I do? 12:00 - After an active shooter drill, my daughter is terrified to go to school16:00 - My child is overly attached to me, how can I help her gain independence? Scripture for Reflection: Isaiah 41:10 (NIV)So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God.”Questions for Discussion:What does fear look like in your child's behavior—and how do you usually respond?What are some situations where you've helped your child face their fear with confidence?How can you point your child to God when they're anxious or afraid?Are there any bedtime or transition routines that could use a reset in your home?Resources:Register for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.comGet Sissy Goff's book, Braver, Stronger, Smarter:  https://amzn.to/3SQWHvNPick up Raising Worry-Free Girls this week: https://amzn.to/4dBRXnFDownload the BOAW app to send us your questions! 

Tuesday, May 27, 2025 In the second hour, Liberty welcomes two guests. The first is Amber Lia. Amber has a new book, a devotional titled Untriggered. It's encouragement for every mom longing for freedom from anger and the self-condemnation. Liberty's final guest is Emily Harrison. Emily is a a Fellow with the Colson Center for Christian […]

Your child says, “Mom, I'm Gay!”You want to shove those words back in and put the lid on. But you can't. Your child is gay or bisexual or transgender. This goes against everything you've been taught. It was not what you had in mind, and you instantly wonder where you went wrong.When you become a parent, you know to expect the unexpected. But for many Christian parents, nothing can prepare them to hear this from their child. I invite you to sit down, relax, maybe get a cup of tea, and soak in what we talk about today. My hope is to guide you as we walk for a bit through this maze of confusion, to help you find your way to wholeness.Whether you have been on this journey for days or decades, this is a wonderful episode for you. Send us a private message. *Note: INCLUDE YOUR EMAIL ADDRESS if you'd like us to answer. :-) Support the show

From tantrums to name-calling to after-school meltdowns, this episode is packed with practical help for moms dealing with big emotions—and even bigger attitudes. Karen and Emily talk about red temperaments, ADHD outbursts, and how to handle disrespectful behavior without losing your cool. Listen in for advice on teaching kids to pause before reacting, role-playing tough situations, plus learn why setting boundaries with screens and school is worth the fight. Episode Recap:2:10 - Meltdowns can happen at 6 or 165:14 - Lean into the Lord and He will help you6:31- What do I do about a 10 year old who dominates her friends all the time?8:56 - Role playing is a powerful teaching tool 9:39 - My daughter resorts to name calling when she's angry - any advice? 18:00 - Anger is a secondary emotion  18:30 - What does being intentional this summer look like? 24:00 - I'm struggling with the amount of screen time that is embedded in school/homework, it clearly changes my kid's behavior. What can I do? Scripture for Reflection:Proverbs 15:1 (NIV) — “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”Questions for Discussion:1. How do you typically respond when your child is disrespectful or melts down?2. What do you think is really behind your child's anger in those moments?3. What boundaries do you need to reinforce in your home around disrespect, screen time, or emotional outbursts?4. How could role-playing or using tools like the feelings wheel help your child grow in emotional maturity?Resources:Don't miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.comListen to our interview with David Thomas about kids and BIG emotions: https://wiretalk.transistor.fm/episodes/wt-140-the-emotional-world-of-kids-with-special-guest-david-thomashttps://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927Listen to ADHD specific Wire Talk episodes: https://wiretalk.transistor.fm/episodes/wt-207-adhd-and-your-family-with-dr-staci-bolton-part-onehttps://wiretalk.transistor.fm/episodes/wt-208-adhd-and-your-family-with-dr-staci-bolton-part-twoDownload the BOAW app to send us your questions!

Kirk Cameron just said what every Christian parent needs to hear — and it's not what you're getting in most churches. While Hollywood targets your kids with confusion, Kirk launched Iggy & Mr. Kirk to fight back with puppets, parables, and unapologetic biblical truth. It's clever, countercultural, and could be the most important kids' show you've never heard of… until now. Today's Sponsor Take control of your family's water health! Visit LanceWallnau.com/water and use code LANCE to receive a 10% discount on the Under-Sink Wellness System for the cleanest, healthiest water possible.

Whether you're juggling work or chasing toddlers all day, summer can sneak up fast—and so can the pressure to make it “magical.” So today, Karen and Emily talk about how to define “winning” for your family before the season starts. They share practical ways to keep things meaningful without overextending yourself, and how to set realistic expectations for chores, rhythms, and fun. No matter what your summer looks like, you can make it a win for your family!Episode Recap:4:10 - Your summer won't look like everybody else's6:25 - Decide on what would be a ‘win' this summer for your family10:10 - How can shifting your mindset help you accept your summer?13:00 - How do I enjoy my summer when I'm working all the time?16:00 - Involving your kids around the house more will make your summer smoother! 17:45 - Chores are a great way to stop hearing, “I'm bored!”18:30 - What does being intentional this summer look like? Scripture for Reflection: Proverbs 16:3 (NIV)“Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans.”Questions for Discussion:What would “winning” this summer look like for your family this year?What are two expectations—one big, one small—you can name and plan for with your kids?How can you shift your mindset to stay positive, even when plans change or challenges arise?What practical changes could you make (like chore charts or spontaneous fun nights) to make summer more enjoyable for everyone?Resources:Don't miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.comCheck out Katie's Chore List on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p/C6pGDuRLE46/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheetDownload the BOAW app to send us your questions! https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927

Mother's Day can be sweet, stressful, or just plain disappointing—sometimes all at once! In today's episode, Karen and Emily get real about unmet expectations, social media comparison, and the emotional weight this day can carry. They also share stories from their own celebrations—some simple, some funny, and some that didn't go as planned. Whether you're anticipating brunch with your people or dreading a day that feels heavy, this conversation will remind you: it's okay to name what you need and celebrate in a way that feels meaningful to you.Episode Recap:1:37 - Mother's Day can be a mixed bag of emotions3:35- There's a lot of pressure surrounding celebrating well7:00- Social media can quickly steal your joy9:05 - How can we communicate what we want for Mother's Day effectively?12:30 - What if you want a special day but you know your family won't plan anything?16:21 - How do you navigate a difficult Mother's Day? Scripture for Reflection: Romans 12:15 (NIV)“Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.”Questions for Discussion:What emotions does Mother's Day bring up for you this year—joy, sorrow, both?Have you ever been disappointed by an unmet expectation on this day? What did you learn from it?What would your ideal Mother's Day actually look like—and how can you communicate that clearly?How can you support another mom who may be hurting or overwhelmed this year?Resources:Don't miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.comDownload the BOAW app to send us your questions! https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927

Your college student has changed—and so has your family. In today's episode, Karen and Emily talk about preparing for the emotional and practical realities of having a college student return home for the summer. From setting clear expectations to embracing the growth in your child, you'll walk away with practical tips (and encouragement) to navigate this bittersweet transition with grace!Episode Recap:3:45 - Karen shares how re-entry was with different kids coming home from college8:08- How can I temper my expectations before my kiddo comes home? 11:05 - Encourage your college student to get a job!13:00 - How do we prepare our younger kids for their sibling's reentry?15:52 - What's reasonable to ask of my college kid while they're home? 21:34 - Is it ok for me to tell my college kid how their actions made me feel? If so, what's the best way to do that?25:19 - We have to allow our children to grow and learn on their own because God is at work in their lives. Don't try to smooth the road out for them, let them learn.Scripture for Reflection: Ecclesiastes 3:1 (NIV)"There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens."Questions for Discussion:How has your family dynamic changed since your child left for college?What expectations do you need to reset—both for yourself and for your college student—before they return home?How can you communicate boundaries and responsibilities clearly without treating your college student like a child?In what ways can you celebrate and embrace who your child is becoming as a young adult?Resources:Don't miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.comDownload the BOAW app to send us your questions! https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927

Hypocrisy is present all over. In the government, while transgenderism is too far, the Trump administration continues to appoint many homosexuals to positions of power. In Maryland, Muslim and Christian Parents are complaining that their children are being subjected to learning about LGBTQ themes. However, if you are going to submit your children to humanism in the public school system, then you have to sign up for sexual autonomy too. And, if God's Word isn't part of everything about a child's life, you will raise hypocrites as well.This program includes:1. The World View in 5 Minutes with Adam McManus (Canadian liberal remains Prime Minister, Trump's first 100 days: Southern border secure, economy faltering, Russia cozies up with North Korea)2. Generations with Kevin Swanson

When your husband's job pulls him away from home, it can leave you holding the weight of family life alone—and it's exhausting. Today Karen is answering questions from moms whose husbands are frequently gone due to their line of work. From managing toddler tantrums and homeschooling to navigating resentment and self-pity, Karen shares hard-won wisdom from her own years in the trenches. Don't miss Karen's honest encouragement about what it means to trust God and stay grounded through the hard seasons! Episode Recap:2:35 - Karen's husband Greg travelled extensively with his job during their early family years6:10 - How did you manage the inconsistency in your husband's work schedule? 10:25 - We have to bring God into our daily walk as moms, He will sustain us11:30 - My husband works in a traumatic field, how do I support him without letting the darkness and stress of his job affect our family?15:05 - How do I help my husband get on board with what I'm doing at home since he's away so often18:23 - Emily's tips for keeping preschooler occupied while mom homeschools other child21:15 - I'm a working mom and my husband is in residency. I struggle with resentment and self-pity, how did you handle these emotions? Scripture for Reflection: Psalm 73:26 (NIV)“My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.”Questions for Discussion:What do you find most difficult when your husband is away—emotionally, practically, or spiritually?Have you ever struggled with self-pity or resentment in your parenting journey? What helped you move forward?Karen talks about letting go of the “scoreboard” in marriage and not expecting equal contribution all the time. How does that idea sit with you?What are some practical ways you could invite God into your hard season right now?If you're parenting a strong-willed toddler, which of Karen and Emily's ideas could you try this week?Resources:Download the BOAW app to send us your questions! https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927Don't miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.comCheck out the Scoreboard of Life session within Karen's The Six Truths of Motherhood curriculum: https://store.birdsonawiremoms.com/collections/available-for-purchase/products/six-truths-study-guide

Welcome to the Grace in Focus podcast. Today, Bob Wilkin and Sam Marr are answering a question about prodigal people who may be depending on us financially. If children or even other people are acting out with rebellion toward God, or just being lazy, should we continue to help them financially? We invite you to

Today we're talking about Good Friday —and reflecting on why something so awful was called ‘good.' Karen walks through the events leading up to the cross, explains why Jesus had to die, and answers some common (and hard!) questions your kids and teens might be asking. Whether your children are little or nearly grown, we hope this conversation equips you to talk about Jesus' sacrifice and bring the hope of Easter into your home this week.Episode Recap:2:10 - We don't have to know everything, moms! But it's our job to point our kids to answers2:36 - Recap of events leading up to Good Friday5:42 - Matthew 27:51-53 shares some incredible things that happened when Jesus died8:44 - Jesus willing endured the Cross for us - that makes Friday good!9:30 - Why did Jesus have to die? Wasn't there another way?12:51 - Jesus was fully man and fully God, He is our High Priest13:35- Forgiveness doesn't mean justice is ignored14:24 - How do we know Jesus' death was real? What about the Resurrection?20:16 - What are practical ways to bring your family together around the story of Good Friday and Easter?24:00 - Don't be afraid of your kids' questions, dive in together and look for the truth! Scripture for Reflection: Isaiah 53:5 (NIV) “But he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was on him, and by his wounds we are healed.”Questions for Discussion:What makes Good Friday “good,” even though it was such a dark day?How can we engage well with our kids when they ask hard questions about Jesus' death or the resurrection?What does it mean to you personally that Jesus said, “Not my will, but yours be done”?How can your family focus on Jesus this Easter in a meaningful way—especially if your kids aren't naturally interested?Resources:Download the BOAW app to send us your questions! https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927Don't miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.com

From dealing with toddlers who constantly say "no!" to navigating three-year-old stubbornness, today Karen is answering your questions and sharing practical strategies to help you respond with consistency and grace. You'll learn how to set boundaries that stick and understand why repetition is key to laying a foundation of obedience. Whether you're managing meltdowns or guiding a strong-willed child, this episode will equip you to keep calm and parent on!Episode Recap:2:43 - Is age two or three more difficult?4:41 - My four yr old doesn't listen and it puts him in danger! How can I get him to take me seriously?7:15 - Toddlers HAVE to know that you are going to follow through!8:50 - I'm constantly threatening my 2.5 yr old daughter with consequences for not obeying, is she only obeying out of fear?11:00 - My 7 year old daughter has no motivation to do anything! How do I get her to get moving? 14:25 - Talk to your child's teacher if their homework seems to take them forever at home, there could be something to pay attention to there.18:55 - Help! My husband and I are at our wit's end with our combative 4 year old. Scripture for Reflection: Galatians 6:9 (NIV)"Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up."Questions for Discussion:What are some challenges you face with your toddler or preschooler's strong emotions? How do you typically respond?How do you balance immediate consequences with teaching long-term obedience?What strategies have you found helpful for setting boundaries with strong-willed children?How can you maintain consistency when it feels like your child isn't getting the message?Resources:Download the BOAW app to send us your questions! https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927Don't miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.comKathleen Edelman's A Grown Up's Guide to Kids' Wiring: https://amzn.to/4lmF5VFWire Talk episode 433 with Wellesley Jongko: https://wiretalk.transistor.fm/episodes/433-you-can-set-your-child-up-for-readin

The stakes feel high when you're parenting teenagers, but you don't have to go it alone! Today Karen is answering questions from moms facing challenges as they are navigating the teen years. From dealing with inappropriate relationships and emotional struggles to setting boundaries and having tough conversations, Karen offers encouragement to help you parent with confidence. Whether your teen is acting out or just feeling melancholic, you'll find practical wisdom and support in this candid conversation.Episode Recap:4:06- It's critical to be a parent rather than a friend during the teen years.6:48- My 16 yr old is texting inappropriate pictures with his girlfriend, what do we do?11:49- Strategies for connecting with a melancholic teen.16:50- My college-age child is making poor choices when it comes to grades/work ethic - what does tough love look like?23:07- How do I firmly address drug/alcohol use concerns with young adults who aren't living at home anymore?26:21- My 16 year old is dealing with depression and thoughts of self-harm - help!Scripture for Reflection: Proverbs 22:6 (NIV)"Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it."Questions for Discussion:Do you struggle with balancing being a parent versus being a friend to your teenager?Think of a time your teen has made a poor choice. Did you manage your own emotions well while addressing the behavior? If not, what would it look like to have a re-do in that particular situation?What role does prayer play in your parenting during the teen years? What are 3 things you can be praying for your teen right now? Write them down and hold one another accountable to praying daily for those things in our teens' lives.Resources:Check out our studio glow up on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/@birdsonawiremomsDon't miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.comListen to Raising Emotionally Strong Boys with David Thomas: https://wiretalk.transistor.fm/episodes/347-raising-emotionally-strong-boys-with-david-thomas

From preschool power struggles to teenage arguments, this episode is full of real mom moments. Today, Karen's answering your questions on sibling conflict, possessiveness, and strong-willed kids. Whether it's a four year old not wanting to share, or a teenager pushing against boundaries, Karen reminds us that parenting isn't about controlling every outcome—it's about cultivating character, modeling grace, and being a steady presence as kids grow and learn.Episode Recap:5:24- How do I help my child get over her excessive possessiveness? 9:50 - Should I get involved over the messiness of my daughters' room? 12:18- My teens' argumentativeness ruins the mood of our entire family, help! 17:55- How can I help cultivate a close relationship between siblings? Scripture for Reflection: Ephesians 4:2 (NIV)“Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.”Questions for Discussion:Have you ever struggled with a child being overly possessive or anxious about their belongings? What has helped (or what would you try based on this episode)?How do you handle arguments with your strong-willed children, especially when they push back against authority? Is what you're doing working? What's one way you've helped your kids build or maintain a strong sibling bond?How do you balance honoring your child's temperament with helping them grow in areas like generosity, respect, and submission?Which part of Karen's advice in this episode resonated most with you today—and why?Resources:Check out our studio glow up on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/@birdsonawiremomsDon't miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: www.soaratsea.comWant more on parenting toward your child's temperament? Check out A Grown Up's Guide to Kids' Wiring: https://amzn.to/4c34sYCListen to Karen's episode with Abby: https://wiretalk.transistor.fm/episodes/wt-284-worth-the-fight-with-karen-and-abbyGrab a copy of Karen's devotional for Teen Girls: https://store.birdsonawiremoms.com/collections/all-active-products/products/preorder-teen-devotionalWant to know your or your child's temperament? Take our FREE Colors Quiz! www.boaw.mom/quiz 

Navigating hard conversations can feel like walking a tightrope, especially when it comes to extended family! Today Karen is answering your questions about setting boundaries, honoring traditions while carving out your own space, and maintaining peace without losing your voice. We hope you'll take away some practical nuggets for the next time you find yourself facing a difficult conversation. Episode Recap:5:20 How do I know when to stand up for myself and when to bend?6:22 My husband's family celebrates religious holidays in a purely secular way. I'm always frustrated by it when we are with them! What can I do? 10:18 We feel guilted into vacationing with extended family every year when it really doesn't work for us anymore. It has become a source of tension between my husband and I. How do we navigate this? 15:26 How do I “uninvite” our babysitter on our family vacation??!20:00 My dad doesn't want to see us at the holidays because he says we haven't seen him/done enough with him all year long. How do I approach him? Scripture for Reflection: James 1:5 (NIV) "If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you."Questions for Discussion:Did you relate to Karen's story about being “afraid” of the 7 year old neighbor? Do unpleasant conversations make you nervous? Have you experienced tension around family traditions or expectations?Do you have particular family members you find it difficult to communicate with?When navigating family gatherings or vacations, what boundaries have you established that have been helpful?How can you invite God into these difficult conversations for wisdom and peace?What steps can you take to ensure your core family unit is nurtured and protected, even amidst extended family obligations?Resources:- Don't miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: www.soaratsea.com - Check out Wire Talk's viral clip - https://youtube.com/shorts/yd-lyxHD0HU?feature=share- Take the free colors quiz - www.boaw.mom/quiz