Let's Figure It Out

In this weeks episode we discuss the "slap heard around the world". The Oscars happened Sunday and with all the black excellence in attendance, we where not prepared for the Will Smith and Chris Rock debacle. So how does a bad joke turn into a physical slap to the face? We discuss the many layers of this very very hot topic. Definitely a lot to unpack but we listen as we  share our thoughts on the situation and the aftermath. 

We know it's a lot going on in the world but we are back to brighten the day. This week we are comparing some of our favorite tv sitcom girlfriends and mothers.  From our favorite girlfriends Gina (Martin) , Pam (Martin), and Joan (Girlfriends) to their reprised roles as mothers in  Everybody Hates Chris, My Wife and Kids, and Black-ish. These classic shows from these classy ladies really gave us a lot of love, laughter, and opinions. Enjoy!

We know we missed last week but we're back better than ever with our MAFS (Married at First Sight) recap to get you all caught up. So whether you watch or not you know all the latest tea and drama with all the couples.  We don't think any of them are going to make it. 

We're back! After a longer than expected hiatus the Ladies of LFIO have returned, tune is as we discuss what where we've been up to along with hot topics and a podcast favorite MAFS recap, we also introduce a new podcast schedule for the next few weeks!

We finally made it to the end of the year! Closing out  2021 and the crazy year it  has been we review and reflect on all the lessons  we've learned from this past year.  The things we are taking with us and the things we are leaving behind. We look forward to another adventure in 2022 and can't wait to refocus in the New Year! Enjoy 

What is too Independent?  This week we discuss the meaning of being too independent and what true independence looks like. We share our experiences on becoming independent women and the struggles that may come along with it. Listen as we also recap the last few episodes of Insecure and some of the season highlights. Enjoy! 

How do you maintain faith and overcome fears, in this constantly changing world? Take a listen to this week's episode as we take a look at our deepest fears and how they have prevented us from taking important next steps in our lives. We also take a look at how our fears impact our faith. Enjoy!

With everything going on in the world where do we start. From the devastating tragedy at Astroworld to Da Baby and Danileigh the ladies dive into the latest hot topics from the past week. For their figuring out segment the ladies share their favorite albums and why they consider them a "No Skips" album (meaning not skipping a single song). Listen in as the ladies breakdown why they chose such albums and what these albums mean to them. 

This week is about figuring out Girl Code. How we define it, navigate it, and determine if girl code has been violated. Listen in as we navigate the unwritten rules of girl code. 

We're finally back! Ironically for this upcoming season as we navigate through the new transitions within our lives the central question that we are asking ourselves is “ Will we be okay?” which is the main focus of the final season of Insecure which we will be our highlight segment for this season. We also share on what we look forward to this upcoming season and some things the listeners can look forward to as well. Stay tuned as we  still try to figure things out emphasis on the try. 

The ladies of Let's Figure It Out Podcast have made it to the end of season two! In the season finale episode the ladies wrap up  with part two to their black cinema series . They  review  three of their favorite classic films,  The Wood, The Best Man, and Waiting to Exhale. All three films  are all centered around love and  friendship which the ladies have discussed through and through the entire season. They have some fun sharing how they relate to some characters and also have fun  trivia game answering some  questions from all three movies. This is a fun one to end the season so hope you enjoy and can't wait to see you all next season.

This week as the ladies head towards the end of their second season, they recap and reflect on some big announcements and major changes from the past week and season. Before they dive in of course they discuss some very spicy hot topics. From Bill Cosby being released from prison, Drake going on expensive dates, Ari Lennox taking a break from music, and the prodigy herself Zaila Avant-garde  the first African American winner of the national spelling bee. For their figuring out segment the ladies spent time reflecting on this past season on transitioning from five-some to a threesome. They also share some very exciting news and leave some tips on how to convert from vacation mode to work mode. Hope you enjoy! 

 This week the ladies of  LFIO start off by breaking down the best moments of this year's BET Awards. Everything from Jazmin Sullivan and Ari Lennox sangin, too Little Nas X's controversial performance. They  discuss the rise of BBL's and the surprisingly entertaining VERZUZ battle between Souljah Boy and Bow Wow. For their Figure it Out segment  the ladies  breakdown gender roles and how they impact our daily lives and how we use them to  navigate in the world. All while trying to answer the question, “Who's Plate get's fixed first?” and the not so important meaning of a High Value man. Hope you Enjoy! 

This week the ladies kick off the  episode  with a discussion surrounding Juneteenth becoming a Federal holiday, and how the government keeps doing everything but what Black folks have been asking for. They also touch on Chloe Bailey's interpretation of Nina Simone's Feeling Good, that had the internet riled up  and T-Pain recalling the time Usher woke him up from his "nap" to tell him that he ruined music . This week's Figure Out segment has the ladies reflecting on their High School days since it has  officially been ten years since they've all graduated. The ladies reflect on their past selves and the life lessons they can now see from those pivotal four years of their lives. 

 The ladies of LFIO kick off this week's episode with a huge heart-break by discussing the final season of Insecure. As Insecure finished filming their final season this past week, the ladies share their personal feelings about the show and express their appreciation on what Insecure meant to the them. They follow up with the hot mess of the week, from Gary Owen's very public divorce, the cicadas taking over the DMV area, the "pick me's" coming for people wanting to cancel Cater to you by Destiny's Child and much more. With Father's Day coming up, this week's figuring out topic is all about daddy lessons. The ladies share  their personal stories and give some insight on their relationships with their Father's. Enjoy another good one, and Happy Father's Day to all the dads around the world! 

This week was a little hot for the ladies of LFIO, but topics were a little mild but still managed to run a few that caught their attention. From Apple giving us more updates that we are not going to use  and J Lo (Jenny from the block) wanting that old thing back. This week's figuring out segment is all about our self-care! The ladies discuss their journeys on self-care and what it means to  them and how they  are committed to starting and prioritizing a self-care routine. The encourage you to start your journey along with them Hopefully the tips they drop in this week's episode helps you get started. Enjoy! 

This weeks episode is all about money and how we don’t have any of it. The ladies of LFIO kick off this week's  episode by discussing the recent uptick in NBA fans getting out of control and real rowdy with the players .  Auntie Monique  is being called the Bonnet Bandit  regarding respectability politics surrounding black women’s appearance in public basically saying bonnets need not to be worn outside the house. The ladies  transition to their figure out segment which is all about money and their relationship on being financially responsible. They speak on how they use it, save it, and how they can be better at understanding it. Hope you enjoy!

We taking flights this week! The ladies of LFIO Podcast kick this weeks episode off  with their hot topic segment covering everything from Nick Cannon’s creating  a football team to Issa Rae clapping back at a hater who comes for her looks but  kinda looks like her. They dive into Future telling Steve Harvey he don't want Lori no more, and of course give you guys all the details from the recent MAFS reunion. This weeks figuring out segment is all about traveling. The ladies share some of their do's and don'ts of a vacation and share some of their dream destinations they can't wait to visit. Now that the world is opening they are vaccinated and ready for a getaway hope you are too! Enjoy!

We are back this week with a new episode . A lot  has transpired over the past week and we hop right into discuss everything from the conflict between Palestine and Israel, the Joe Budden Podcast Break-up and  more. We also see if our MAFS predictions still hold up on which couples stayed together and those who broke up. Our figuring out segment for this week was all about our 20’s. As our 20’s come to an end, we take some time to reflect on our earlier 20’s and how we wish to close out this decade. Hope you enjoy!

This episode is all about the love, gratitude, and admiration that we have for our Mommas with a little bit of tea to start with. We kick the episode off with our hot topics including Drake possibly breaking up a happy home, a chicken wing shortage, and  the recent news of the covid crisis in India. Since Mother’s day is coming up this week, we reflected on our relationships with our mothers and how they impacted the way we see the world and the women we are today. We share some funny stories and share our thoughts on motherhood. Happy Mothers Day to all the moms. Enjoy!

The ladies of LFIO podcast have a lot to unpack this episode. They briefly discuss the forever snubbing Oscars and how they played Chadwick Boseman. While calling out a Senator for his fake news on how America was found "unclaimed". As usually Twitter gets wreckless from Ryan Gosling trending for a very funny reason to women stealing wigs from the club. The ladies discuss Tyrese and his need for attention and follow up with their weekly MAFS recap. For.their figuring out segment the ladies share their stories about their personal hair journeys by expressing everything they have been taught  and learned over the years when it comes to natural hair. They have a real honest conversation of the terms "good hair" and "nappy"  frequently used in the black community for natural hair. This is a conversation you don't want to miss. 

This week’s episode is all about black joy and black pain. We kick of this episode by discussing the verdict of The Chauvin trial and the subsequent conviction. In the midst of the verdict, a 16-year-old black child was murdered by the police Ma’khia Bryant, highlighting the never-ending cycle of black trauma in America. We transition into lighter topics such as NBA Youngboy and Nick Cannon and their fifty-leven children, and low self-esteem Twitter and TikTok taking over the timeline sharing secrets that should go with you to the grave. For our main segment, we take a look at Black Cinema and discuss some of our favorite black films of all time. The conversation was so good and we missed so many that we promise to do a part II. 

The ladies of LFIO start off this week’s episode with prayers for The Dark Man himself DMX who ultimately passed away (R.I.P) after the recording of this episode on April 9, 2021. DMX’s music was an integral part of their childhoods and his legacy will live on forever.  Transitioning into picturegate involving Khloe Kardashian and trying to figure out why it was even that serious. As always the  weekly MAFS recap and if you think Chris couldn’t get any worse, he sets the bar even lower past hell. The ladies recap the highly anticipated Verzuz battle that occurred on Easter Sunday between the Isley Brothers and Earth Wind and Fire, special shoutout to Zaddy Ron Isely. The focus for this weeks figuring out segment is all about the bad habits that we just can shake. From funny ones to the ones that have greatly impacted our emotional mental stability, tune in for a good convo. 

This episode gets deep, well not a first. The ladies start off by talking about all the controversy surrounding Lil Nas X. From  him sliding down the pole to his twerk in hell and his bloody shoes, they give their thoughts on why everyone is so mad about it. They then pivot to the new found  love that folks have for Ari Lennox now that her waist is a little more  snatched and now that she got some Brazilian body wave in her hair. They also discuss the uninvited cookout guest Chet Hanks, who declared it “White Boy Summer” and Michael Rappaport who snitched on KD and how KD has never been able to find true happiness on and off the court. After discussing the viral video of the altercation between Saweetie and Quavo and all of the online responses to abuse the ladies speak on why society never seems to believe black women. This episode gets real and raw. Enjoy! 

Let’s get into it but before we do the ladies of Let’s Figure it Out Podcast would like to acknowledge all the lives lost across the country in relation to the mass shootings over the past couple of weeks. This week the ladies really dive into stan culture and the way society has put celebrity idolization on a pedestal, as they put Mr. Derrick Jaxn in the hot seat for being exposed by not one but two of his mistresses! The ladies then have a brief discussion on Dwayne Wade and his amazing support of his daughter Zaya while calling out J-boogie (J-boog) and Boosie. Of course their weekly segment on MAFS (Married at first sight) takes place as they still believe no couple will make it andwrapping up with a little bit of black girl magic. Enjoy! 

The ladies of LFIO START OF THIS EPISODE WITH AN IMPORTANT DISCUSSION SURROUNDING THE RECENT RISE IN ASIAN HATE CRIMES That have been occurring not only in the Bay Area but also across the country. They then dive in to the recent break-up of Glacier boy and Icy Girl ( Quavo and Saweetie) and question why we can’t let go of idolizing celebrity relationships. After a brief recap of the 2021 Grammy’s, the ladies continue their discussion of music and breakdown the Verzuz platform. They discuss some of their favorite battles, battles they could've kept, and they choose  their winner for the upcoming battle between Earth, Wind, and Fire vs. The Isley Brothers. There’s a lot hot music takes in this one, enjoy!

A lot of tea was discussed in this latest episode. From Meghan and Harry’s explosive interview with the interview Queen Oprah and the subsequent fall out from it to a lively discussion surrounding a questionable moment of Blackface on a popular TV show. The ladies also reflect on whether they consider themselves good friends or not and provide lessons they’ve learned from friendships. Enjoy the gems in this one!

It’s officially been a year since the Pandora started and the ladies share some thoughts on how they’ve changed over a year of staying in the house. They also  dissect Jay-Z somehow being credited with being a natural hair pioneer in the corporate world,everybody black winning at the Golden Globes and IG trying to take away the likes. Another segment of Everybody hates Chris (Married at first sight) rounds this episode out and they share some action items based on lessons they learned during the panorama!

It’s been a long time we shouldn’t left you without a dope pod to step to! The ladies of LIFO are finally back with a lot to unpack. From major changes to the LFIO lineup (spoiler alert), to the craziness of the start of the year they review major headlines and give their opinions on everything from the Capital Riots to everyone being in Lori Harvey’s business. They also discuss BLK history month and why it needs to be longer (R.I.P Whitney) and close out the episode with goals for this upcoming season and call upon the ancestors with an inspiring message.

Can you believe it?...We made it to the end of year, as well as to the end of season one of Lets' Figure it Out Podcast. In this episode the ladies recall specify moments that might have been hilarious or just down right controversial. They revisit how far they have come from the beginning of the season to the last episode of the season, as well as set personal goals for the podcast’s next season.

It’s the most wonderful time of the year or is it? Are you feeling the holiday spirit or are you and Ebinizer Scrooge sprinkled with some grinch? The ladies of Lets Figure Out Podcast detail holiday experiences and how they are getting into the mood this season since a new lock down was put into place. Holiday season is definitely something special and though this may not be the ordinary way— we still are trying to find and spread joy this season.

During this holiday season it is normal to be immersed in the company of family and friends that you may not see throughout the year, however we all know that sometimes we avoid those same people due to grudges or unresolved issues. The ladies of Lets' Figure it OutPodcast discuss grudges and how forgiveness can relieve you of that burden. The fresh prince of bel air reunion inspired the ladies to think about the negative outcome that holding a grudge can cause and why forgiving is so imperative to moving forward in any relationship

With the holidays knocking at our door, this season comes along with a cheery spirit, family bonding and of course everyone’s favorite the FEAST.The ladies of Lets' Figure it Out Podcast give their run down on how things go around the thanksgiving dinner table and how it will be different this year due to COVID. Even if we may not be with our families this time around we would like to share our holiday spirit with you this season so come in get a plate, don’t touch nothing and enjoy this LFIO holiday vibe

Short or tall, slim or thick no one seems to be content with what they have these days. As plastic surgery is on the rise and social media fuels these body image trends it poses the question of: how does all of this impact our personal body image? The ladies of Lets' Figure it Out Podcast share their personal experiences with their own body image, as well as the affect that these same trends play in influencing the youth and how it may be extremely detrimental to our mental state as people.

The anticipation leading up to the decision of the election has been very tumultuous. The after shock has created a sense of uneasiness for some, as others celebrate the democratic victory. The ladies of Lets' Figure it Out Podcast discuss their biggest takeaways from this election and their hopes for the future.

Covid Halloween was definitely a thing this year, some of the ways many of us spent the night involved some good ole Halloween classics.The ladies share their take on movies that are scary, futuristic, or just simply Halloween themed. Ultimately they are attempting to figure out why do we always seem to die first?

Every two to four years this time of year is very vital to the success of economies and the standard of living within our democratic country, only this year the stakes seem higher. This week the ladies of Lets' Figure it Out Podcast dissect what it means to vote and the significance it holds for African Americans specifically. Rocking the Vote is an essential aspect of being a responsible citizen and the ladies dive into the topic further ahead of the coming elections.

Last week the ladies reflected on Black love and its significance, this week they expand and go further by inviting two guests who happen to be black men. The first episode of our batter up series revolves around these two men giving advice to black women in all aspects of life. This week the ladies were inspired by the popular Twitter thread where men gave women some insight into the actions and words of other men. Batter up series brings each guest to the plate to give their own personal opinions and we the ladies decide if it’s a home run or a foul ball.

Black love has always been on the chopping block in America. Tainted perceptions of both black men and women have not always fostered a loving rapport. However Black Love is still alive and well as proven by the Black Love Doc on OWN. This week the ladies of Lets' Figure it Out Podcast were inspired by the Black love doc to discuss the importance of black love and why it is essential to the growth of both men and women individually as well as the collective of the black community.

Let’s get DEEP. SKIN DEEP. The various shades that we all come in are definitely beautiful however sometimes our skin tone can determine how we are treated day to day. This week the ladies of Lets' Figure It Out Podcast hash out their experiences with colorism. You will hear various personal accounts of how the ladies lives have been affected from childhood to now as adults.

From Martin to Insecure black sitcoms have had many teachable moments and enough jokes to last a lifetime. This week the ladies of Lets' Figure it Out Podcast discuss the significance of representation by looking at strong black leads that have become staples in the black community and what exactly makes them so relatable.

From different backgrounds to love on the rocks, the ladies dive into a few current events as well as personal events and intel which seems to be random nothings. The ladies of Lets' Figure It Out discuss why and how this platform was created through miscellaneous fun facts and just plain ole rambling amongst one another.

Have you ever considered how essential a map is when you do not have access to gps? Life does not have a blueprint but there are people who can help guide you along the way and provide you with support that is essential to your success in any facet of life, just as a map provides a traveler. The ladies of Let's Figure it Out Podcast share what mentorship looks like for them and how their experiences can be used to assist others in similar failures and successes.

Family and food hold a near and dear place in most of our hearts and the cookout is where you can find some good food being thrown down and some family members showing out. The ladies of Let's Figure it Out Podcast breakdown the do’s and don’ts of a cookout. Should you tag along remember don’t say nothing, don’t touch nothing, be sure to say hello to everyone and last but not least enjoy the food and fun.

As an essential medium of life, communication serves as the foundation of all relationships, whether strong or weak. The ladies of the Lets' Figure It Out Podcast use different methods of communication that are efficient as well as toxic in nature by discussing their individualized communication skills.

Music provides the playlist for most people’s daily life and the ladies of Lets' Figure It Out Podcast have curated tunes for certain vibes to help them get through. From the past to the present and oldies to goodies the ladies exemplify why they each in their own right have earned aux cord privileges.

Rejection is a necessary evil that is a part of life. Check out the latest episode of the Let's Figure it Out Podcast, in which the ladies discuss their own personal stories dealing with rejection. From unrequited first loves, to being denied by their dream colleges, and even career advancement the ladies share the lessons rejection has brought to them. 04:15-Let's get started on Rejection!05:26-It's a first for everything21:16-Why do people fear Rejection?31:49-Battle of the sexes! Who handles rejection better?39:19-Delivery is everything48:14-Got me in my Feelings01:03:26-Rejection is not always bad01:07:12-Positive vibes only01:14:08-Lights, Camera, Action Items!

In this episode of the Lets' Figure it Out Podcast the ladies take on Mental Illness. Discussing their on personal journeys with depression, anxiety, and other mental health related issues you will hear them divulge their own stories as they take a look into their own backgrounds and upbringings. They also define the meaning of self-care in their own personal ways.

In our very first episode of the Lets' Figure it Out Podcast the ladies tackle the word of the summer "Entanglements". Relating back to the bomb shell reveal of the messy relationship between Jada Pinkett Smith, Will Smith, and August Alsina. The ladies share their opinions on the situation while providing their personal experiences with entanglements and situation-ships. Taking a positive spin on the term the ladies provide a brief history of their entanglement amongst each other and how the podcast came to be.