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Surveying our audience of more than 5 million, we create this show each week to address the personal struggles our viewers face in attempting to achieve successful relationships, self-mastery, and in understanding their purpose.

Mercedes and The Chap


    • Jan 2, 2023 LATEST EPISODE
    • weekly NEW EPISODES
    • 39m AVG DURATION
    • 34 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from Mercedes and The Chap (M.A.T.Ch.)

    #34 What Do You Bring To The Table In Relationship? Assessing the Strengths and Weaknesses of Our Personality

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 2, 2023 38:07


    Sorting out where to focus on improving. Highlighting our gifts and building our confidence. Bringing self-mastery to relationships so we can recognize compatibility when it presents itself. You can connect with Mercedes and watch our show on her social media platforms here: You can connect with Mercedes and watch our show on her social media platforms here: Insta: @MercedesTerrell Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial Twitter: @MercedesTerrell Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #33 What's Your Relationship To Money? How to Create a Sexy Bank Account & a Confident Foundation

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 26, 2022 31:48


    We discuss the nuts and bolts around how to get your finances in order to create a stable foundation that will enhance your life and confidence. We also address some controversial points about what women say they want vs. what they actually want in relationship, including: sensitivity in a man, and a man who can pull his weight financially. This episode is a slight deviation from our usual, but holds tons of value for someone looking to up their financial game! You can connect with Mercedes and watch our show on her social media platforms here: Insta: @MercedesTerrell Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial Twitter: @MercedesTerrell Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #32 Let's Get You Laid! How To Unlock Her Heart & Create the Tension of Desire

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2022 34:39


    All about how to stir sexual desire and open your partner so you can be fully accepted. We dive into the ways to communicate with the opposite sex that'll get you closer to sexual intimacy. Including, how to release the performances and goals that cause unnecessary pressure in the bedroom. You can connect with Mercedes and watch our show on her social media platforms here: Insta: @MercedesTerrell Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial Twitter: @MercedesTerrell Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #31 Are You a “Safe” Man? How to Become Someone She Wants to Open Herself To

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2022 50:47


    To be clear, “safe” doesn't mean boring or lacking sexiness, adventure, or edge… rather, it's the thing about a man that makes a him dangerous AND grounded. In this episode we dance with the topic of INTEGRITY, and how to work toward the wholeness that attracts what you want into your life. You can connect with Mercedes and watch our show on her social media platforms here Insta: @MercedesTerrell Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial Twitter: @MercedesTerrell Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #30 Speaking the Language of Love & Giving Gifts that Count!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2022 40:01


    In this episode we break down the types of Love Languages that people best give and receive love through. We take the shame out of wanting credit for the love and gifts you give in relationship, giving specific tools for giving gifts that will make your partner feel seen and heard. Additonally, we confront the reality of “unconditional love” and explore the more grounded theory of “mutually invested relationships”. You can connect with Mercedes and watch our show on her social media platforms here: Insta: @MercedesTerrell Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial Twitter: @MercedesTerrell Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #29 Nice Try “Nice Guy”! How to Stop Getting Friend-zoned & Used, & Start Getting the Respect You Desire

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2022 41:27


    What's the difference between being kind and being a doormat? How much is too much flexibility in relationship? This one if for the People Pleasers attempting to meet the needs of others before assessing and addressing our own needs. The truth is, the “nice guy” pose isn't sexy and doesn't get us the life we're after. On the other extreme of the spectrum, being a narcissistic jerk doesn't quite cut it either, if what we want is deep and genuine relationships with people we adore. In this episode we explore making the shift to Conscious Assertiveness, where we know what we want and we embody the skills to attain what we desire, while staying in integrity, treating others with kindness, and moving toward our highest potential. You can connect with Mercedes and watch our show on her social media platforms here: Insta: @MercedesTerrell Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial Twitter: @MercedesTerrell Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #28 What Is Purpose? How Do We Find Ours & Use it to Direct Our Lives?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2022 40:43


    It's a big question and we've got some big suggestions of how to answer it for yourself! In this episode we explore purpose from the surface level all the way into the existential depths of BEING. Journey with us as we address how to become a humble Hero through an inward process of integration and reclamation, realizing our whole authentic selves along the way. You can connect with Mercedes and watch our show on her social media platforms here: Insta: @MercedesTerrell Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial Twitter: @MercedesTerrell Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #27 How to Lead a Hyper-Independent Woman

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2022 42:52


    In this episodes we're talking about women wearing the pants in a relationship, and if it spells disaster or not. We explore some of the origin stories that create the hyper-independent woman persona, and the issues that often correlate to this mask, including: codependency aversion, search for safety, and fear of having personal needs. This exploration takes us to a theory that's works wonders in my life and relationships, on how to lead a leader by first knowing our own needs and boundaries and then seeking to understand our partners. We give you actionable tips and communication techniques for being in a healthier, more interdependent relationship. You can connect with Mercedes and watch our show on her social media platforms here: Insta: @MercedesTerrell Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial Twitter: @MercedesTerrell Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #26 | What Is The Inner Child? How Do We Confront, Heal, & Integrate It?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2022 36:49


    Where does fear originate from? Where does anger originate from? Where does shame originate from? So many of us are struggling with wounds set so deeply into our subconscious that we don't get a chance to actively heal them. Getting to know these wounded parts as the Inner Child allows us an opportunity to finally meet and befriend the parts of us we thought weren't allowed to exist. This is largely how we move toward wholeness and understanding our authentic selves. In recognizing the inner child we uncover where we may have experienced abandonment, not being supported or loved, and/or not feeling safe. When we can become aware of these painful areas of our life we can stop letting them seep into our relationships like poison, and we step toward our true power and potential. You can connect with Mercedes and watch our show on her social media platforms here: Insta: @MercedesTerrell Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial Twitter: @MercedesTerrell Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #25 The 7 Deadly Sins of Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2022 27:26


    In this episode we discuss the seven deadly sins in a relationship, that keep humans from connecting with each other in an expansive and synergistic way. Listen in to explore these more fully, but here they are in writing in case you'd like to keep them close!: Not asking for what we need Not setting and holding boundaries around our needs Lacking confidence: not knowing what is really TRUE, about yourself, others, and the world. Not keeping promises/not being trustworthy Not having a secondary outlet to vent your feelings to Fighting to be right, instead of fighting on the same team Not letting someone feel something all the way through before coming in with your feelings. You can connect with Mercedes and watch our show on her social media platforms here: Insta: @MercedesTerrell Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial Twitter: @MercedesTerrell Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #24 Your Privilege Is Showing, So Use It!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2022 35:23


    We don't need the extravagant things in order to consider ourselves successful. Instead, what if we made our focus understanding our privileges: the things we take for granted about ourselves and our lives…and from there we figured out how to maximize what we already are, for our own benefit. Today we explore how to turn our privileges into a path toward self-mastery, and ultimate SUCCESS! You can connect with Mercedes and watch our show on her social media platforms here: Insta: @MercedesTerrell Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial Twitter: @MercedesTerrell Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #23 Ghosting is for Wimps: How to Stop Getting Ghosted & Stop Ghosting Others

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2022 41:54


    In todays dating world theres no clearer way to detect someone not being a match to you than by being ghosted by them... Unfortunately it still hurts. In this episode we discuss why people ghost and what to do instead of ghosting, plus how to navigate the feelings that come when you're the one being ghosted. We cover: •defining your ideal partner so you stop calling in the wrong people •looking for more than just someone who will pick you •self work, self appreciation, desire clarity •dating from scarcity, fear of loneliness, and a weak nervous system •honesty is underrated, facing the fear of confrontation You can connect with Mercedes and watch our show on her social media platforms here: Insta: @MercedesTerrell Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial Twitter: @MercedesTerrell Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #22 Neediness! Get Your Needs Met Without Asking For Too Much: Assessing Our 10 Emotional Needs

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2022 39:20


    In this episode we discuss the needs that we've struggled with most in relationship, and how to go about assessing what you need so that you can bravely ask for it from a partner AFTER meeting what you can for yourself. This is a delicate dance that we must navigate as social beings. We can't meet all of our needs on our own so we must take the leap to ask for what we need. We chat about these core 10 Emotional needs : Affection, Acceptance, Validation, Autonomy , Security, Trust, Empathy, Prioritization, Connection, Space. Once you've gotten clear on what needs you want help meeting you open yourself to a new level of relationship. We wish you the best of luck with this brazen work! Keep going! It's worth it! You can connect with Mercedes and watch our show on her social media platforms here: Insta: @MercedesTerrell Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial Twitter: @MercedesTerrell Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #21 Committed To Being Uncommitted: Reframing Commitment, Discipline, & Responsibility To Lead You To Freedom

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2022 47:06


    Your depth is only as deep as your ability to commit. This sentiment becomes especially apparent in those who view commitment as an act against their freedom. Be it with romantic relationships, friendships, or even in committing to an event or outing with others, our fear of being left high and dry by a lover we commit to, or the social anxiety that arises for many of us when we get asked to commit to an event or social outing, can cause us to clock out of our relationships long before they have a chance to really blossom. In this episode we dance with the ideas around overcommitting and undercommitting, and how both ends of the commitment spectrum are born from a fearful nervous system. If you COMMIT to listening to this episode, we hope our conversation inspires a reframe that helps you understand commitment as a gift you have the privilege of offering to yourself, as well as to others. You can connect with Mercedes and watch our show on her social media platforms here: Insta: @MercedesTerrell Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial Twitter: @MercedesTerrell Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #20 Mercedes' Existential Dread Led Her To Purpose

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 26, 2022 50:08


    In this episode Mercedes explores her religious upbringing, including her first existential crisis and the resulting initial whisperings of her life's calling. An invitation from the void to be a steward to the species has driven her personal interest in understanding PURPOSE, knowing SELF, and COMMUNING with other. This in-depth interview reflects a story of a human breaking through existential paralysis into reality, with a self-realized mission, bravely claiming her sovereignty along the way. You can connect with Mercedes and watch our show on her social media platforms here: Insta: @MercedesTerrell Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial Twitter: @MercedesTerrell Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #19 Conquer Your Porn Addiction & Other Sexual Dysfunctions w/ Men's Coach: Dominick Quartuccio

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2022 46:55


    The most common issues that get brought to me by men include anxiety around penis size, penis hardness/ED, being unable to reach orgasm during sex with a woman, among other sexual dysfunctions, all of which can be symptoms of porn addiction. In this episode we take a long hard look (pun definitely intended) at Porn Addiction. We explore what it is, why its so prevalent amongst men today, and most importantly, how to begin working through it. I have a feeling this will be one of our most valuable episodes to date! I hope you listen in and apply the wisdom you glean here in order to help yourself or a loved one. You can connect with Dominick Quartuccio here: IG: @DominickQ Website: DominickQ.com Podcast: The Great Man Within You can connect with Mercedes and watch our show on her social media platforms here: Insta: @MercedesTerrell Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial Twitter: @MercedesTerrell Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #18 Don't Make An “Ugly” Woman Your Wife w/ Confidence Consultant: Isabella Menna

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 12, 2022 43:28


    We've all wondered if we should just settle in relationship, give up, and just spend the rest of our days wondering “what if”. On this episode we explore the dangers of settling for practicality. GODS ONLY DATE OTHER GODS, so this is your cue to stop playing small! We balance this notion with a very insightful theory around putting our partners on a pedestal, and the harmful distancing that can come from it. As we round out this discussion, we take a good look at where our true CONFIDENCE resides, which lends us to dance with the differences between ENTITLEMENT and WORTHINESS. You can connect with Isabella Menna here: www.confidenceconsultingco.com You can connect with Mercedes and watch our show on her social media platforms here: ⚠️ Include Mercedes handles for IG, FB, TW, TT, YT You can connect with Mercedes and watch our show on her social media platforms here: Insta: @MercedesTerrell Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial Twitter: @MercedesTerrell Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #17 Are you a Modern Day Mystic? Using Logic for Creating Magic in our Lives

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2022 42:29


    It's a tricky tight-rope walk we do when attempting to traverse the contradictions within the human condition. We're all made of many parts that both value logic AND magic. In our western culture, the mystical and spiritual often become shrouded through the pursuit of science and logic, thereby, we lose touch with an integral part of who we are. As we perform this dance of resistance to the magical side of ourselves we suffer from rejecting the truth of what we want most: full acceptance of all of our parts. In this episode we begin to explore the ways we can play with our mystical side, that keeps onboard our logic-based minds. Befriending these parts, instead of making enemies of them, is the road to having a full-spectrum life where you get to enjoy ALL POSSIBILITIES, removing the imitations that come with living from a one-sided mind. After all… those who don't believe in magic, will never find it. You can connect with Mercedes and watch our show on her social media platforms here: Insta: @MercedesTerrell Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial Twitter: @MercedesTerrell Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #16 What is Your Sexual Power? Bringing Confidence to Boardroom & the Bedroom w/ Men's Coach & Sexpert: Sarrah Rose

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2022 41:59


    What if you had as much insight and experience honing your sexual power as you have in being a hard working employee or entrepreneur? As a world-renowned Men's Coach, our guest, Sarrah Rose, says: “Every day I see men that have multiple 6-, 7- and 8-figure success in their careers… but in their sex lives and relationships, they're begging and bargaining to have basic needs met.” In this episode we discuss how to uncover the root causes for our sexual disconnections, and how to ignite our true sexual power. If you've ever felt you want more confidence in the Bedroom or in the Boardroom, this episode is for you! You can connect with Sarrah Rose here: https://instagram.com/ceoonfire You can connect with Mercedes Terrell and watch our show on her social media platforms here: Insta: @MercedesTerrell Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial Twitter: @MercedesTerrell Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #15 | What Makes a Real Man? w/ MMA Legend: Jimmy Smith

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2022 37:55


    On this episode we cover: ✅ What Jimmy calls “shell masculinity” ✅ What it actually takes to be a man ✅ How Testosterone and Steroids affect who you are ✅ Asking for permission in relationship ✅ Deciding to become a father: Connect with Jimmy on Instagram: @jsmithmma •FelixGrayGlasses.com promo code MATCH You can connect with Mercedes Terrell and watch our show on her social media platforms here: Insta: @MercedesTerrell Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial Twitter: @MercedesTerrell Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #14 Dating in a Digital World w/ Wing Woman: Cher Hubsher

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2022 39:34


    Our favorite Dating Coach is back and sharing her wisdom around displaying yourself as the catch you are, while using the dating apps and websites that todays singles are limited by. She gives us the specifics of how to create a great dating profile, from the type of photos to use, to how to perfect a written description of your personality for attracting more positive attention and interactions. This episode also highlights what type of questions work best to get to know if someone's a match for you, without coming off as too forward. Cher gives us great advice on how soon you should try to meet someone in person, and when things should get “physical” if you want the best chance at a long-term relationship. This is a great one for those attempting to navigate todays dating scene! You can connect with Cher Hubsher here: www.NYCwingwoman.com You can connect with Mercedes Terrell and watch our show on her social media platforms here: Insta: @MercedesTerrell Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial Twitter: @MercedesTerrell Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #13 How to Avoid Coming On Too Strong

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 8, 2022 37:54


    In a world that's constantly giving us mixed signals, it's sometimes tough to know what healthy assertiveness looks like, vs. coming off like an overly-aggressive creep! We brought in our Human Resources expert, Maggie, to help us navigate the do's and dont's when it comes to trying to spit game and make romantic connections, both inside and outside of the workplace. •FelixGrayGlasses.com promo code MATCH You can connect with Mercedes Terrell and watch our show on her social media platforms here: Insta: @MercedesTerrell Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial Twitter: @MercedesTerrell Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #12 A Man's Gotta UNKNOW His Limitations w/Navy Seal: Chad Moorman

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2022 40:02


    Most Navy Seal types won't come on a show and vulnerably bare the inner working of their romantic relationships. Luckily, our guest, Chad Moorman isn't like most. With a masters in theological studies, he bridges his experiences from being on the Seal Teams to how he navigated divorce, being single, and jumping back into the dating pool. As an international man of mystery, Chad came on our show as a favor to us, and not to promote himself in any way, so we don't have a way for you to connect with him. You can, however, connect with Mercedes Terrell and watch our show on her social media platforms here: Insta: @MercedesTerrell Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial Twitter: @MercedesTerrell Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #11 What's It Like To Date Mercedes?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2022 46:18


    Interviewing our host on what it's really like to woo her, outside of the fantasies men make up around who she is. She gets into detail about what she finds most attractive in a partner, and gives surprising insights on how her dating career helped her understand herself. If you ever wondered what it takes to date a woman like Mercedes Terrell, then listen in! In this episode we discuss: Jealousy, insecurities, confidence, loyalty, relationships, cheating, direction, integrity, emotional intelligence, responsibility, conscious relationships, trust, conscious thinking, and kink! •FelixGrayGlasses.com promo code MATCH You can connect with Mercedes Terrell and watch our show on her social media platforms here: Watch the full video on YouTube: Insta: @MercedesTerrell Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial Twitter: @MercedesTerrell Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #10 | Are You Emotionally Intelligent Enough to Recognize “The One”? w/ Melissa McNerney

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2022 44:09


    Exploring how romantic “chemistry” is often a magnet for toxicity in relationship, we address what traits a person needs to harness in order to enter a conscious partnership. From there, only half of the work is done, since processing out those that aren't aligned with what you're trying to hone for yourself and for your relationship is the next critical step. Luckily, as we discuss in this episode, much of the ability to discern when someone is right for you comes organically from something you can control: your own level of self-mastery. Codependents, love addicts, sex addicts, love avoidants, and the anxiously attached can all find healing and empowerment from the wisdom in this episode. You can connect with Melissa McNerney here: Instagram: @melisslovesthis You can connect with Mercedes Terrell and watch our show on her social media platforms here: Insta: @MercedesTerrell Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial Twitter: @MercedesTerrell Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial

    #9 What Does “The Girl Next Door” Want in a Man? w/ Katie Keene

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2022 39:59


    Originally from rural Kentucky, and now an accomplished stage and screen actor, our guest, Katie Keene, reveals her desires when it comes to what she looks for in a lover. Still down to earth and sweet as can be, she even humors us as we deliver cheesy pick up lines sent in by our audience! With men often asking for an independent, driven, career woman with a soft and nurturing side, Katie's a reminder that these type of women DO exist! This episode gives a fun and refreshing glimpse into how a real woman approaches the world of dating. You can connect with Katie Keene here: Instagram: @katiekeene You can connect with Mercedes Terrell and watch our show on her social media platforms here: Watch the full video on YouTube: Insta: @MercedesTerrell Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial Twitter: @MercedesTerrell Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial This episodes sponsors: •BlueChew.com promo code MERCEDES for first month FREE! •FelixGrayGlasses.com promo code MATCH •Manscaped.com promo code MATCH for 20% off and free worldwide shipping **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #8 Can You Tame a Wild Woman? w/Alaskan Celebrity: Ariel Tweto

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 4, 2022 41:47


    What do you do when you meet a woman who can outman you in most facets of the wilderness? Well, our adorably badass guest, Ariel Tweto, answers that and much more as we explore her beyond interesting life as a native Alaskan pilot, outdoors-woman, and famed tv personality. With roots in the small village of Unalakleet, she's An insanely talented and ballsy woman, she reminds us in this episode to “look up” and remember to see all that life has gifted us with. You can connect with Ariel Tweto here: Instagram: @arieltweto You can connect with Mercedes Terrell and watch our show on her social media platforms here: Watch the full video on YouTube: Insta: @MercedesTerrell Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial Twitter: @MercedesTerrell Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial This episodes sponsors: •BlueChew.com promo code MERCEDES for first month FREE! •FelixGrayGlasses.com promo code MATCH **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #7 How to Win Without Cheating, Amongst an Unruly World

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2022 27:03


    Is living in integrity in a society that makes and breaks it's own rules even possible? We've all seen the player on the professional soccer field putting on a show with a faked injury in the name of winning the game. Even more uncouth, is the person feigning homelessness, begging on the roadside for drug money. It seems our primal worry is that if we don't take advantage of others, someone else will get one over on us. In this episode, we discuss what “winning” actually is, and how, in a culture with no initiation rites for men, how we can recognize the fork in the road between Criminal and King. You can connect with Mercedes Terrell and watch our show on her social media platforms here: Watch the full video on YouTube: Insta: @MercedesTerrell Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial Twitter: @MercedesTerrell Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #6 - The Making of a Sex Addict w/ Men's Coach: Dominick Quartuccio

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2022 41:30


    Weaving through his personal journey, Dom relates his tools for recognizing, working through, and recovering from sex addiction. This particular vice being something countless men struggle with, we spent time fleshing out the details when it comes to what shapes our sexuality. This episode speaks to those who are using sex as an escape, and who are ready to transform their tendency to avoid through surface-level pleasures into a dance with deep acceptance. You can connect with Dominick Quartuccio here: Insta: @DominickQ Website: www.DominickQ.com Podcast: The Great Man Within You can connect with Mercedes and watch our show on her social media platforms here: Insta: @MercedesTerrell Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial Twitter: @MercedesTerrell Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #5 - Turn Male Sexual Dysfunction Into Your Superpower With Sexpert: Sarrah Rose

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2022 36:13


    From erectile issues to premature ejaculation to what guys should know about pleasing a woman, this episode will address the “how to's” for becoming a black belt in the bedroom. We break down the taboos around sexual dysfunctions that plague the male population and give practical practices for improving sexual performance. This show will have you walkin' round like King Kong, full of primal sexual energy, but with the ability to hone it and craft it to your will. You can connect with Sarrah Rose here: https://instagram.com/tantricactivation?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= You can connect with Mercedes and watch our show on her social media platforms here: Insta: @MercedesTerrell Facebook: @MercedesTerrellOfficial Twitter: @MercedesTerrell Tik-Tok: @MercedesTerrellReal YouTube: @MercedesTerrellOfficial **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #4 - Constructing Your Self-Confidence w/Confidence Consultant: Isabella Menna

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2022 47:59


    We dive into these topics: •how to choose what you want to feel •Knowing what kind of partner you want to attract •getting to know someone as your authentic self •how to overcome the vulnerability of telling the truth •how to feel your emotions •mindset switch for creating confidence You can connect with Isabella Menna here: www.confidenceconsultingco.com **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #3 - A Solitary Man Makes a Salutary Man With MMA Expert: Jimmy Smith 

    Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2022 39:00


    We explore how Jimmy's solitary life as a young loner, took him inward to develop his own way of doing things. Destroying limitations, and healing generational trauma along his route, he's continually chosen a walk that most men wouldn't dare. From the orange groves of Visalia, Ca to the spotlight on the main stage, he's let life's flow direct him. A man of incredible talent and equal amounts introversion, Jimmy describes his journey in a relatable tone, sharing his wisdom in spades. **The guests' views expressed on this show/podcast are theirs and do not suggest endorsement of the guest or any entity they represent. The content of this show/podcast is in no way intended to be taken as medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice.**

    #2 Are You Husband Material? w/ Wing Woman: Cher Hubsher

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2022 37:43


    In this episode, Dating Coach and Matchmaker: Cher Hubsher, gives us the low down on: •Why we keep dating people who aren't right for us •The Red Flags dating coaches look for •Getting back in the dating pool •When to wait before dating •What you need to decide before dating •What should be on your “wants” list when dating •What makes two people compatible •How to stand out when approaching a woman •Why men really date younger women •What a dating coach wants to know before finding you a match You can connect with Cher Hubsher here: www.NYCwingwoman.com https://instagram.com/nycwingwoman?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

    #1 Who are “Mercedes and the Chap”

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2022 8:57


    Get familiar with the hosts: Mercedes Terrell and “The Chap”, and their intentions for this show! Follow Mercedes Terrell on: Instagram & Twitter: @mercedesterrell Facebook: mercedesterrellofficial TikTok: mercedesterrellreal YouTube: Mercedes Terrell Contact our show at: mercedesandthechap@gmail.com THE GUESTS' VIEWS EXPRESSED ON THIS SHOW/PODCAST ARE THEIRS AND DO NOT SUGGEST ENDORSEMENT OF THE GUEST OR ANY ENTITY THEY REPRESENT. THE CONTENT OF THIS SHOW/PODCAST IS IN NO WAY INTENDED TO BE TAKEN AS MEDICAL, PSYCHOLOGICAL, FINANCIAL, OR LEGAL ADVICE.

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