Prioritize

Trying some new things in the studio with the mics, checking details in the podcast feed, and just back from a project in Crowne Point…today we hit on MARRIAGE!  Where to begin?...A few of the issues I address in this episode -  Do you like? Share? Comment? Subscribe? Rate?After a trip out to Crown Point, IN…I got an idea for a special podcast for the Patreon PageHe who finds a wife, finds a good thingGood times both in and out of the bedroomA pretty decent date ideaThe Wedding Day pressuresWhere to place the marriage focusLinks to items mentioned in this episode -Sweetwater“Young Again” with Keanu ReevesThings Can Only Get Better by Howard JonesOur Patreon PageToby-isms: On...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-Tokme@tobybaker.life Listen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

With a new level of appreciation for eyeglass wearers everywhere…we're back in the studio for another recording…one of which has been long-awaited.  Have you ever had to replace an appliance? Washer…dryer…dishwasher?  We begin a very long journey with a few steps to the Home Depot, and go into some detail on this circus in this episode…hope you likes!...A few of the issues I address in this episode -  New glassesthe Patreon platform is on!We have international listenersGQGoodwillthe Salvation ArmyDo you like? Share? Comment? Subscribe? Rate?Links to items mentioned in this episode -Our Patreon PageThe Home DepotToby-isms: On...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-Tokme@tobybaker.life Listen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

After a long stretch of very little to no activity within the podcast realm…I have returned, and I sincerely appreciate your patience.  Too much going on from trips, being on the road, and a few life altering events, however I am back in the studios with a new addition.  I discuss it in today's podcast!...A few of the issues I address in this episode - The upcoming Home Depot experienceSome other podcasts which will be dropping soon4th chapter of my book in the worksMemories, fond, and true.Prioritizing familyOn...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-Tokdrop me a note: me@tobybaker.lifeListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

A butler's pantry, a new audiobook, and a little trip to Iowa...what do they all have in common? Find out in this episode of Prioritize! Hope you likes!...A few of the issues I address in this episode -  A new book coming out - "The Factory" and I am working on the audio bookworking on our Patreon subscriber platformFinally got the Butlers' Pantry completed Joyce gets a flat tireWe have a handmade bar cartSophomore year Wood class Putting yourself into a prisonSome of the people you meet in this thing called lifeLeaving friends behindA recent Birthday, with a pretty big surpriseLinks to items mentioned in this episode -Boundaries by Henry CloudThe Family Stone (Sylvester Stallone)Tulsa King (Stallone)Giordianno's PizzaToby-isms:"I don't even know what I'm gonna say sometimes."On...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-Tokme@tobybaker.lifeListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

New studio, new pallet wall, and time for a new podcast! Customer service podcast is on the way, a birthday podcast, a trip to Iowa, and many more to come.  My son is now helping me with building the Pattern page for future subscribers for exclusive content, videos, merchandise, and more.  I'm excited about it, and hopefully, when you see it and subscribe...you will be too!  Today we prioritize Fatherhood, the goods, the bads, and some uglies.  Hope you enjoy!...A few of the issues I address in this episode -  A tript to Myrtle BeachA Parent's worst nightmare Our eldest gets an MRIFatherhood ain't easyI raise a glass to all the FATHERS working smart and hard for their families!The birth of our firstborn, there was no kid...and just like that...I'm a Dad!they grow up overnight Losing my temperThe good iceLinks to items mentioned in this episode -Sound of Freedom (Jim Caviezel)Scrooged (Bill Murray)Greenlights (Mathew McConaughey)Toby-isms:"I don't even know what I'm gonna say sometimes."On...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-Tokme@tobybaker.lifeListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

My wife and I were deciding on our next getaway...and we were leaning towards Florida fun in the sun...and then she mentioned this!  You'll never guess the spiritual encounter we had in Vegas!  Enjoy!...A few of the issues I address in this episode -  - foodies - The Nuns of Fremont Street - A deep spiritual experience - TuroToby-isms:"I don't even know what I'm gonna say sometimes."On...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-Tokme@tobybaker.lifeListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

This is a tough one for me, some bad actors from way back, and the evil continues.  What does that mean for husbands like you and me…?  I discuss it in this episode!...A few of the issues I address in this episode -  - 2012 - Batman - A Husband's role - Commitment Links to items mentioned in this episode -BatmanThe JokerBatman The Dark Knight RisesToby-isms:"I don't even know what I'm gonna say sometimes."On...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-Tokme@tobybaker.lifeListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

     Been a while since I've dropped an episode.  My apologies.  Got a few new fans! Thanks for subscribing (no fee)!       Have you ever been flipping through the radio, or Spotify/Apple Music/Whatever...and came across that song that took you back? There are some song you listen to and all the sudden...you are transported back to that place, that one place when you first heard it, or there was something special that was happening with the song in the background that just kind-of...crystallized that moment forever in your mind...we talk a little bit about that in this episode!...A few of the issues I address in this episode - A new book coming out - "The Factory" and I am working on the audio bookChicago Dog recipeLong distance podcastingMisleading tip earnings as a grocery store workerThe old ways of playing cd's in the carLinks to items mentioned in this episode - Haddaway - What is Love Meatloaf - I Would Do Anything For LoveTag Team - Whommp There is isCrowded House - Don't Dream It's OverStephen Sanchez - Until I Found YouToby-isms:"I don't even know what I'm gonna say sometimes."On...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-Tokme@tobybaker.lifeListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

You search, and search, and date, and make mistakes, and finally after long last...you have found "The One"!  And then you marry...and forget about dating???  What happened?  Time to bring it back, and in this episode...we discuss a few ideas, and why it's important....A few of the issues I address in this episode - How ToHistory of Valentine's Day...we should look that upComplimentsTimeGiftsPrayer with your wifeWhy is any of this importantLinks to items mentioned in this episode - Dale Carnegie InstituteReverse Sear a SteakChristopher James MenswearToby-isms:"If I always do what I've always done, I will always get what I've always gotten.""Goals don't accidentally happen on their own."On...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-Tokme@tobybaker.lifeListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

We work hard, maybe play had, buy stuff...and then what...?  From stuff in the closets to relationships on the brink...today we discuss prioritizing letting go!...A few of the issues I address in this episode - Junk drawersGaragesA recent date with the wifea busy three monthsbad relationshipspeople we've lostLinks to items mentioned in this episode - Toby-isms:"If I always do what I've always done, I will always get what I've always gotten.""Goals don't accidentally happen on their own."On...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-Tokme@tobybaker.lifeListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

Just came through Christmas...and already missing it.  The traditions, the music, the goods, and the memories.  I discuss a few of them here in this episode....A few of the issues I address in this episode - TraditionsGrandma's HouseGinger crinklesChex MixSteak DinnerLinks to items mentioned in this episode - Sam's ClubBoseToby-isms:"If I always do what I've always done, I will always get what I've always gotten.""Goals don't accidentally happen on their own."On...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-Tokme@tobybaker.lifeListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

We look forward to this time of the year...all year long!  While we can't press stop, or rewind...we can slow it down a bit and make the enjoyment last just a little bit longer.  We discuss just how to do that in this episode....A few of the issues I address in this episode - The Best Hot Chocolate Recipe Ever...sort-ofThe anticipationMake it lastLinks to items mentioned in this episode - Toby-isms:"If I always do what I've always done, I will always get what I've always gotten.""Goals don't accidentally happen on their own."On...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-Tokme@tobybaker.lifeListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

Well...one can't be 100% correct, every day, all day, all the time...or can they?...A few of the issues I address in this episode - Stepping off the wagonTaking ownershipdate nightsRuth's CrissLinks to items mentioned in this episode - Ruth's CrissChristmas Night With YouStraight No ChaserToby-isms:"If I always do what I've always done, I will always get what I've always gotten.""Goals don't accidentally happen on their own."On...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-Tokme@tobybaker.lifeListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

     Back in the studio...I have just a few thoughts on traditions, I share some of ours, and a few quirks along the way.      Thanks for listening!  I'm glad you're here!...A few of the issues I address in this episode - FastingThanksgivingThe day for which we've waitedHoliday MemesHoliday traditionsSome angry Uncles, puzzles, and moviesLinks to items mentioned in this episode - Planes, Trains, and AutomobilesNewsroomBeing the Ricardo'sMoneyballThe Social NetworkA Few Good MenToby-isms:"If I always do what I've always done, I will always get what I've always gotten.""Goals don't accidentally happen on their own."On...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-Tokme@tobybaker.lifeListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

In this episode, I discuss the overtly obvious conspiracy to destroy every experience I encounter with the fast food industry from McD's to BK to Taco Bell and more.  What is happening out there?  They used to be great, but lately...not so much.  Have you experienced this lately?Thanks for listening!  I'm glad you're here! ...A few of the issues I address in this episode - The Last SamuraiPerfectionMediocrityFast foodHow it used to beLinks to items mentioned in this episode - The Last SamuraiMcDonald'sBurger KingTaco BellChic-Fil-ACulver'sOn...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-Tokme@tobybaker.lifeListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

In this episode, I discuss memoirs of a recent stay in a distant hotel and the many nuances between today's stay, that of 2019 and before, and even a few family vacations as a kid and their unforgettable Overnighters in a so-called “hotel”.     The hotel experience has changed over the years.  Back in the day the staff at a hotel provided us with VIP services  - fresh linen, clean beds,  taking out your trash - It made us feel important, valued, like an executive.  I have had many bad experiences at different hotels, but we can't blame the staff entirely. Guests have changed along with the times and so has their lack of gratuity.Thanks for listening!  I'm glad you're here! ...A few of the issues I address in this episode - How service people have changed their behaviors and quality of services.How motel experiences are not that enjoyable as they were before.How people have changed.Why showing gratuity is important.Becoming a hero in someone's life.Links to items mentioned in this episode - Rob Schneider -ActorTim Curry- ActorHome Alone 2Ratatouille- MovieBuscemis- restaurantOn...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-Tokme@tobybaker.lifeListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

This is the last part of the podcast...broken into 4 different parts: Prioritizing the debt free journey.On this live episode we take a guest from the audience along with some q's about debt - This was recorded on a live platform called - Wisdom (it is a podcast platform)  and was done so with a sub-par Microphone...kindly excuse the lack of quality sound.  I am trying out different equipment for when I am on the road.We walk directly into debt while deluding ourselves into thinking it's just this one credit card, it's just an emergency, it will just be this one time, and before we know it...we are in debt up to our eyeballs, scrambling for what little money we have in attempt to make ends meet.  We have to much month left at the end of our money.  This and the next few podcasts to follow are about sharing our debt free journey with you, how we did it, why we did it, and easy steps you can follow beginning today.Thanks for listening!  I'm glad you're here!...A few of the issues I address in this episode - Ramsey Baby Steps 7Why buy their stuff for them with your debt...?What we were doing when we realized how we screwed upHow banks build their skyscrapers with your moneyStop buying everyone else's futureThe most marketed item in the history of advertisingPoints, miles, etcLinks to items mentioned in this episode - Ramsey SolutionsThe Ramsey ShowThe Rachel Cruze ShowAnthony O'Neil YouTubeToby-isms:"If I always do what I've always done, I will always get what I've always gotten.""Goals don't accidentally happen on their own."Baby step Two:Line up all your consumer debts, paying the minimum amount across the board, and then take the remaining leftover from you paycheck and attack the smallest dollar amount with a vengeance until it is out of your life...repeat as you roll that payment up to the next smallest debt, and the next smallest...creating a debt snowball How do we do this?On...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-Tokme@tobybaker.lifeListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

This was recorded on a live platform called - Wisdom (it is a podcast platform)  and was done so with a sub-par Microphone...kindly excuse the lack of quality sound.  I am trying out different equipment for when I am on the road.We walk directly into debt while deluding ourselves into thinking it's just this one credit card, it's just an emergency, it will just be this one time, and before we know it...we are in debt up to our eyeballs, scrambling for what little money we have in attempt to make ends meet.  We have to much month left at the end of our money.  This and the next few podcasts to follow are about sharing our debt free journey with you, how we did it, why we did it, and easy steps you can follow beginning today.Thanks for listening!  I'm glad you're here!...A few of the issues I address in this episode - Ramsey Baby Steps 7Why buy their stuff for them with your debt...?What we were doing when we realized how we screwed upHow banks build their skyscrapers with your moneyStop buying everyone else's futureThe most marketed item in the history of advertisingPoints, miles, etcLinks to items mentioned in this episode - Ramsey SolutionsThe Ramsey ShowThe Rachel Cruze ShowAnthony O'Neil YouTubeToby-isms:"If I always do what I've always done, I will always get what I've always gotten.""Goals don't accidentally happen on their own."Baby step Two:Line up all your consumer debts, paying the minimum amount across the board, and then take the remaining leftover from you paycheck and attack the smallest dollar amount with a vengeance until it is out of your life...repeat as you roll that payment up to the next smallest debt, and the next smallest...creating a debt snowball How do we do this?On...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-Tokme@tobybaker.lifeListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

This was recorded on a live platform called - Wisdom (it is a podcast platform)  and was done so with a sub-par Microphone...kindly excuse the lack of quality sound.  I am trying out different equipment for when I am on the road.We walk directly into debt while deluding ourselves into thinking it's just this one credit card, it's just an emergency, it will just be this one time, and before we know it...we are in debt up to our eyeballs, scrambling for what little money we have in attempt to make ends meet.  We have to much month left at the end of our money.  This and the next few podcasts to follow are about sharing our debt free journey with you, how we did it, why we did it, and easy steps you can follow beginning today.Thanks for listening!  I'm glad you're here!...A few of the issues I address in this episode - Ramsey Baby Steps 2,3, 4-5-6credit card debt, personal loans, car paymentsWhat we were doing when we realized how we screwed upHow banks build their skyscrapers with your moneyStop buying everyone else's futureCash is KingWhat's in your walletThe most marketed item in the history of advertisingPoints, miles, etcLinks to items mentioned in this episode - Ramsey SolutionsThe Ramsey ShowThe Rachel Cruze ShowAnthony O'Neil YouTubeToby-isms:"If I always do what I've always done, I will always get what I've always gotten.""Goals don't accidentally happen on their own."Baby step Two:Line up all your consumer debts, paying the minimum amount across the board, and then take the remaining leftover from you paycheck and attack the smallest dollar amount with a vengeance until it is out of your life...repeat as you roll that payment up to the next smallest debt, and the next smallest...creating a debt snowball How do we do this?On...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-Tokme@tobybaker.lifeListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

The audio on this podcast will be different, as this is recorded on the road.I forget my luggage at my Fort Wayne office, leaving me with one pair of shoes, and they are the same pair of shoes that I've got me to work for the past Three years… This might be the end of the road.Thanks for listening!  I'm glad you're here!...A few of the issues I address in this episode - A room for my shoesForrest GumpWhere have your shoes taking you?Is it time to retire your shoes?Whatever happened to customer service in the retail industry?Toby-isms:On...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-Tokme@tobybaker.lifeListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

This was recorded on a live platform called - Wisdom (it is a podcast platform)  We walk directly into debt while deluding ourselves into thinking it's just this one credit card, it's just an emergency, it will just be this one time, and before we know it...we are in debt up to our eyeballs, scrambling for what little money we have in attempt to make ends meet.  We have to much month left at the end of our money.  This and the next few podcasts to follow are about sharing our debt free journey with you, how we did it, why we did it, and easy steps you can follow beginning today.Thanks for listening!  I'm glad you're here!...A few of the issues I address in this episode - School loan debtcredit card debt, personal loans, car paymentsbaby step oneWhat we were doing when we realized how we screwed upHow banks build their skyscrapers with your moneyStop buying everyone else's futureCash is KingWhat's in your walletThe most marketed item in the history of advertisingPoints, miles, etcLinks to items mentioned in this episode - Ramsey SolutionsThe Ramsey ShowThe Rachel Cruze ShowAnthony O'Neil YouTubeToby-isms:"If I always do what I've always done, I will always get what I've always gotten.""Goals don't accidentally happen on their own."Baby step one:schedule some plastic surgery, cut up the credit cards, commit to never using them again.Save $1000 in an emergency bank accountHow do we do this?On...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-Tokme@tobybaker.lifeListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

Ever been on a diet?  Aren't they just the best?  Ever get tired of "dieting"?  Is your plan working?  Is it a priority to you?  In this episode I go through a few things I've seen, experienced, and what has worked for me and my body type along with a few stories of diet fail along the way.Thanks for listening!  I'm glad you're here!...A few of the issues I address in this episode - We did a lot of moving arounddiets from oldBreakfastWhat is it that pushes you to the gym?Food is fuelGarbage in garbage outGoal setting, easy ways to do itLinks to items mentioned in this episode - Ka'ChavaSimple Intermittent Fasting AppBill & Ted's Excellent AdventureStranger Than FictionTaeBoJean Claude Van JohnsonThe Big Lebowski Toby-isms:"If I always do what I've always done, I will always get what I've always gotten.""Goals don't accidentally happen on their own."Paleo Brownie Recipe:1 cu creamy almond butter1/2 cu coconut sugar1/3 cu pure maple syrup1 tablespoon vanilla extractdash of mint extract3 eggs1/3 cu unsweetened cocoa powder2 tablespoons coconut flour1/2 tsp baking sodapinch of salthandful of dark chocolate chips (or a bar of chopped/sliced ghirardelli chocolate bar)handful of sliced almondsmix-mix-mixpreheat oven to 350 degrees, grease a 13in glass pan/brownie panplace in the oven for 25-28min, check for done-ness with a knife or toothpickallow to cool for no less than 60 seconds (many prefer 10-15min)slice with a knife, and enjoy with an espressoOn...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-Tokme@tobybaker.lifeListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

I got hooked on a show which has a really good truth: Friendship isn't just one thing...it's a million little things!  Too true!  I dive into that...in this episodeThanks for listening!...A few of the issues I address in this episode - Deciding to be a Husband, Father, encouraging friendA body in motionlifelong military brotherhooddogs learning camaraderie success in marriage I hated middle school, criticism is a real thing and runs deeppainful stories of 8th gradeToby-isms:"Your potential future is bigger than your past" "If the friendship is worth it, the debt will be paid. ""If your friendship is worth more than the debt, it shall be forgiven."Paleo Brownie Recipe:1 cu creamy almond butter1/2 cu coconut sugar1/3 cu pure maple syrup1 tablespoon vanilla extractdash of mint extract3 eggs1/3 cu unsweetened cocoa powder2 tablespoons coconut flour1/2 tsp baking sodapinch of salthandful of dark chocolate chips (or a bar of chopped/sliced ghirardelli chocolate bar)handful of sliced almondsmix-mix-mixpreheat oven to 350 degrees, grease a 13in glass pan/brownie panplace in the oven for 25-28min, check for done-ness with a knife or toothpickallow to cool for no less than 60 seconds (many prefer 10-15min)slice with a knife, and enjoy with an espressoOn...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-Tokme@tobybaker.lifeListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

Your day is zooming right along, and then out of the blue you receive a call letting you know there's been a death in the family, and your world changes a bit.  I talk a little bit about a recent death in our family, and some of the things surrounding it, and how we were able to deal.Links from a few of the things talked about in this podcast - 5 Stages of the Grieving ProcessA few of the issues I address in this episode - Stages of grievingDeath in the familyHow to deal, and work throughOn...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-TokListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

Christmas came and went, along with New Year's and now it was time for our Family Retreat...which did not go exactly as i had expected.  I discuss what I learned walking away from this retreat in this podcast, and welcome your thoughts - me@tobybaker.lifeThanks for listening!...A few of the issues I address in this episode - CleanlinessFamily TimeFamily valuesExpectationsOn...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-Tokme@tobybaker.lifeListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

They're out there...and everyone has them.  From certain  movies we only watch this time of year, to cooking, to baking, and sight-seeing and more...Christmas traditions abound from generation to generation and are enjoyed by many the young, the old, and even the middle aged.  In this episode I chat about a few of our favorites, how they came to be, and offer a suggestion or two as to how to make this upcoming season (or next Christmas) "one for the books"....A few of the issues I address in this episode - Homemade chex mix recipeChristmas traditionsFamily valuesDid it feel like Christmas?On...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-Tokme@tobybaker.lifeListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

As a young man you work hard, and perhaps you are blessed to find a wife, create some kids, and make a family.  Being a Husband, Father, and provider can sometimes take a toll on anyone.  Here's to you and hoping this puts a little fuel in your gas tank after a long day, or after a treacherous year.  We've seen the pitfalls and the valleys and we know how to "DO" but quite often the "being" gets looked over, overshadowed by all the things we are told we need to "DO".  Merry Christmas!...A few of the issues I address in this episode - TimeFamilyWorkDoingBeingOn...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-TokListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

In a season of Thanksgiving with the biggest Holiday right around the corner...maybe we can take some time away from the day-today drama, news, and negativity.  It will all be there when we get back from our little trip through giving Thanks.On...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-TokListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

You found her, pursued her, and eventually married her...and then what?  It is just important to continue dating and pursuing your spouse after marriage as it was while you were courting.  In this episode I discuss doing that very thing, and one of our favorite and most memorable dates we have ever had.Links from a few of the things talked about in this podcast - ...Music Referenced:"Amazing Day" Coldplay"Clocks" Coldplay"In My Place" Coldplay"Viva La Vida" Coldplay"Fix You" Coldplay...A few of the issues I address in this episode - Negative Social Media CommentsDrama in the newsEncouragement, helping othersOn...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-TokListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

Do you remember where you were when you first heard the news?  Where has this country gone since?  It seems around every corner we have searched and found reasons to be upset, outraged, and offended.  Never before have I seen this country so divided as it is now, and I am just curious if we could change that?...A few of the issues I address in this episode - PersonalitiesUnifying24hour challengeOn...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-TokListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

     Ever get tired of watching the news? And scrolling through you social feeds?  There tends to be a great deal of drama and negativity mounting exponentially every day, and there is no sign of it slowing or stopping anytime soon.  Why do we do this to ourselves?  Do you honestly feel more encouraged after listening to the daily horror in the news and the negative comments in your feed?  Perhaps it is time for a little safety and sandwich, and solitude.Links from a few of the things talked about in this podcast - ...Music Referenced:"Claire De Lune" by DeBussy...A few of the issues I address in this episode - Negative Social Media CommentsDrama in the newsEncouragement, helping othersOn...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-TokListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

I saw this weird sign at a church which put some things into perspective...at least for me.  I wonder if you will feel the same after listening to this episode.Links from a few of the things talked about in this podcast - Boston Acoutsics...Music Referenced:"American Beauty" by Andrew Bernstein...A few of the issues I address in this episode - ReunionsFamilyFoodOld school inner tubes and tubing on the lakeSpeeding TicketsPools and watermelonsSalvaging memoriesOn...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-TokListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

     We had highs, and lows, and a lot of things in between.  It was the celebration of our 25th Anniversary and we did so in Jamaica.  We lived it up in paradise, but reality smacked us square in the face on the trip home.  From arriving to the airport in Montego Bay, to timing, to Newark, NJ, and finally on to Detroit.  Getting home proved far more difficult than it was supposed to be, and I discuss how it all went down and what I learned from it in this episode.  I also include a brief story on how I may have witnessed a miracle.Links from a few of the things talked about in this podcast - Sandals South CoastUnited AirlinesClub Mobay"True Romance" starring Christian Slater, Patricia Arquette, Christopher Walken, Gary Oldman, Samuel L. Jackson, Dennis Hopper, Brad Pitt, Val Kilmer, Michael Rapaport, James Gandolfini...Music Referenced:"The Lion Sleeps Tonight" by The Tokensmusic from "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind""Elevator Beat" by Nancy Wilson...A few of the issues I address in this episode - A cheap Hotel (a really cheap hotel)Vacations back in the day, lunch on the roadOur many hurdles on the way homeU.S. Customs vs. Jamaican CustomsFun times with the TSAThe potential for a miracleOn...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-TokListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

     Ever been on vacation? To another country? And everyone there is asking you if you've gone on an excursion?  We just so happened to return from a 25th Anniversary celebration from Jamaica and yes...we did go on an excursion or two.  I discuss this one in detail, and the lessons I learned from eating right before you go diving.Links from a few of the things talked about in this podcast - Geico Racoon Commercial Sandals Southcoast JamaicaThe ABC's of Salvation...Music Referenced:"Claire De Lune" DeBussy...A few of the issues I address in this episode - Channeling energyP.A.D.I. Scuba TrainingExcursionsEating before divingShaving before divingThe peace that surpassesA friend who sticks closer than a brotherOn...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-TokListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

My wife of 25 years and myself took a quick trip to a distant island with beauty so mythical it is only found in storybooks.  Along with the opportunity of spending time together...we got to cross off another item on our bucket list.A few of the items discussed in this episode - Sea saltDistant parties & drunken guestsThe walkTimeParadise takes workOn...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-TokListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

     Have you ever ever been in one of those situations where you felt like everything was conspiring against you? Or perhaps for you?  And it was a little too coincidental to simply be dismissed?  Yup...me too.  And I expound on that just a little bit about what recently happened to me as we flew over some stuff on our way to Jamaica to celebrate our 25 years in marriage together.  Hope you likes...maybe you even relates.Links from a few of the things talked about in this podcast - "The Meg" Starring Jason Statham"The Shallows" starring Blake Lively"Jaws" from Steven Spielberg"Kokomo" by the Beach BoysA few of the issues I address in this episode - The happenstanceWe board a plane for JamaicaSomething odd begins to dawn on meOn...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-TokListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

     After many long days at the office and long stretches of work with little to no vacation...can we go back to a simpler time?  The Twilight Zone would have called it "A Stop at Willoughby" where a man can slow down and live his life fill measure, where kids walked around barefoot with a fishing' pole over their arm.  In this episode we discuss what it means to prioritize the summer we have long forgotten for the sake of To Do lists and Social Media Networks and Work Projects.  Let's take a step back for a few moments and soak in some summertime.Links from a few of the things talked about in this podcast - Eddie Cochran "Summertime Blues"Will Smith "Summertime"Def Leppard "Have You Ever Needed Someone So Bad""The Office" TPS ReportsSchwan's Food DeliveryGrape Faygo SodaFile-A-Fax Data PlannerSpike Lee Joint - "Do The Right Thing"watch "Gymkata"watch Greasewatch Major LeagueA few of the issues I address in this episode - Do you recall Summertime?Taking a break and looking backFond memories of days gone bySummertime ChallengeOn...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-TokListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

Been "B.U.S.Y." lately?  Too "busy" to take a break? Take a load off?  I am guessing like myself and many others you probably are a high achieving list-crossing get-it-done type of beast, and sometimes, like EVERYONE...we should take a break - set down our To-Do lists and realize that if we don't get everything done...life seems to continue.  Perhaps if we took a much-needed break, we could then finish our lists in fine style with fewer mistakes, and thus requiring less of our time and we could actually enjoy the day.  In this episode I discuss a few key tips in setting go, and prioritizing rest along with the many physical health benefits, you will find some mental health benefits as well when you not just begin...but finish the week with some good self-health care.Links from a few of the things talked about in this podcast - A few of the issues I address in this episode - Being too busythe acronym: "B.U.S.Y."Working through the mental blocks which prohibit us from giving ourselves permission to take a breakOn...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-TokListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

Over the past year and a  half, or so...or perhaps even more, it has become increasingly difficult to put the right things into perspective and, speaking for myself and many others whom testimonies I have heard first hand as they describe the problems in their life, which sometimes appear to be more of molehills than mountains...our focus could use a little more elevation - like for example - a September 12th type elevation when we assembled together as a nation with singular focus and many other insignificant problems seemed to fall by the wayside in light of an ever present enemy and we bonded together, our neighbors became friends, our differences were overshadowed by our concern for our fellow countrymen and I remember it felling like we were together in concert, in song, almost like a United States.  That was many years ago and it is ever so evident that division has crept its way into the fabric of our society as we fall prey to or invent new ways to divide us as family, as neighbors, and as a country.  May I offer some encouragement into a different direction?Links from a few of the things talked about in this podcast - Lone SurvivorThe SandlotAmerican SniperA few of the issues I address in this episode - Division4th of JulyUniteShifting our FocusOn...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-TokListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

     We have had plenty about which we could mourn and weep over the past year and a half, and it can sometimes be rather challenging to celebrate something, anything...after what we have all just been through - like...the year 2020.  I simply wanted to encourage you for a couple of minutes to find something to celebrate, and do so in spectacular fashion.  Hopefully, i do just that in this episode of Prioritize!  Enjoy.  And if you do like it, can I also ask you to Rate this podcast and review it on Apple or whatever platform you enjoy listening to podcasts?  That very simple act will help others just like you be able to find this podcast.  Thanks for helping them!  And thanks for helping me!     It is never easy to balance work, home, and personal life.  In this episode I discuss bringing your kids along with you in part of your life - inviting them into your world to make something together, build something together, and being intentional about investing into them the life lessons that you have learned along your journey.  Perhaps you could teach them a thing or two about your work, or your job/task/to do list, and speak life into them about what they may be able to expect along their life.  Build something together and see what happens.  You won't regret it.Links from a few of the things talked about in this podcast - Charcuterie BoardsCelebration of Life IdeasBirthday Party IdeasA few of the issues I address in this episode - MourningCelebrationsThe Apostle PaulBeing intentional about celebratingOn...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-TokListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

     It is never easy to balance work, home, and personal life.  In this episode I discuss bringing your kids along with you in part of your life - inviting them into your world to make something together, build something together, and being intentional about investing into them the life lessons that you have learned along your journey.  Perhaps you could teach them a thing or two about your work, or your job/task/to do list, and speak life into them about what they may be able to expect along their life.  Build something together and see what happens.  You won't regret it.Links from a few of the things talked about in this podcast - A few of the issues I address in this episode - TablesYouTube and Pinterest impressionsInvesting into your childrenBeing intentional about spending time with your kidsOn...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-TokListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

     Father's Day is right around the corner.  A time reserved to recognize Dad for all the hard work and sacrifice he has done to protect his kingdom and provide for his family.  Not everyone gets to be called "Dad" as that is a title reserved for those special men who step up to the plate investing into their children and loving their wife as Christ loved the church which shows a fantastic picture for their sons just how a man is to treat his bride.     Dads certainly aren't perfect, but we do what we can do, when we can do it.  Here in this episode I share a few thoughts on Father's Day, serving my family, and what it means to be  a Dad.  I also share one of my favorite stories of our eldest growing up.Links from a few of the things talked about in this podcast - Gift ideas for Dad's BeardGift ideas for Dad's BourbonA few of the issues I address in this episode - DadSpending time with DadInvesting into your childrenOne of my favorite stories of our eldest sonOn...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-TokListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

     You guys got some graduates out there?  Gotta pickup some grad cards and some cash form the ATM in celebration of a culmination of years of parenting and hard work.  Parents, grandparents, extended family will be coming in from all over to help celebrate a very joyous occasion, that of your child crossing the stage and collecting a degree/diploma/MBA for which they have worked and strived so hardcore years on end.  Today we discuss a few feelings about such things and an upcoming party for one of our own kids, our last in fact, is about to cross the stage and it's never an easy thing to hug your grad goodbye, but this was our youngest and last son, so perhaps a little more difficult.     We talk a little about the many things it took to get there, the expectations from Dad during the process, and what may come out of the whole thing.  Join us in lamenting over the void, but cheering on our son in this episode.Links from a few of the things talked about in this podcast - EspressoA few of the issues I address in this episode - Life after High School45 years old people who don't yet know exactly what they want to do when they grow upWhat happens if our kids don't want to go to college?Is it ok to do something instead of college?The Greatest ShowmanChristmas StoryAlice in WonderlandOn...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-TokListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

     Graduation season is upon us.  This caused a time of pause and reflection for me as I looked back on several fond memories with just him and I as well as things we all did together as a family.  It hurts to let go, and it is ever so important to do so.  I lament just a little bitten this episode about the angst as a Dad recalling the many cool things we did together with my now-graduate and the ending of this chapter with the beginning of the next.  If you are going through the same thing...know that you are not alone.  And, it's ok to hurt just a little through this whole process.Links from a few of the things talked about in this podcast - LoreA few of the issues I address in this episode - Letting go after graduationAlways rooting for our sonThe new rules of post-gradthe realization of his adultingOn...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-TokListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

     Mother's Day is here, or nearly here...are you ready? Prepared?  Got your things together?  How do you celebrate Mom on her special day? (as if she only has one)     I have 2 special ladies in my life, firstly is my Wife, and then Mom.  I discuss a few of the many qualities (probably too many to mention in one episode) concerning both ladies in my life.     There must be many things going on in your life from your work/business, house/home work, lawn work, side hustle, kids, maybe college...and one day out of the year is wholly or supposedly wholly devoted to Mom.  My hope is that you are fully prepared, and if not...you are welcome to steal a few ideas from this episode, or steal the words and apply them to your own essay if you wish.  I won't tell.Links from a few of the things talked about in this podcast - Mother's Day IdeasA few of the issues I address in this episode - What Mom doesThe fine ladies in my lifeOn...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-TokListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

     That thing which we gentlemen look forward to and yet freak out, cringe, and break out into convulsions, panic attacks and a cold sweat at the thought of being rejected once we stick our necks out and "pop the question".     There seems to be a great deal of pressure surrounding the vary act of the proposal, where it takes place, at what time of the day, and how expensive was the rock?  These are all items I discuss and to a greater benefit debunk in today's episode of Prioritize.     The world places all this emphasis on the wrong things, the superficial things, rather than the eternal.  We shall begin there.Links from a few of the things talked about in this podcast - Krispy KremeAir BNBAnna Maria Island, FLCreative Wedding Proposal IdeasIdeas for a Biblical MarriageA few of the issues I address in this episode - How marriages surviveThe Lies about marriage and proposals sold to us by the diamond companiesWedding proposal ideasOn what you could establish your marriage and life together Marriage successThe wrong way to begin marriageOn...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-TokListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

     Just thinking about it...ooohhhh-yesss, paleeze! Just the word itself'f elicits an exotic array of emotions in Italian fashion not unlike that of visions of coffee houses dancing in my head. In this episode, we might as well call this story time as I share a little bit about how I came to the knowledge of the magic of Nespresso and all its witchcraft of one-button hits of that dark, rich gold we have all come to know and like as the go-to for our morning, afternoon, and evening fix.     Links from a few of the things talked about in this podcast - Some History on Espresso Brewtus Espresso MachineTassimo MachineKeurig MachineNespresso MachineAnna Maria Island, FLA few of the issues I address in this episode - Former Tassimo ownersSalvation Army / GoodwillNespresso CapsulesThe Office episode with NespressoNeed vs. WantOn...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-TokListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

     Have you ever heard of this word? Phrase? Zig Ziglar-ism?  Life throws some pretty tough stuff our way on a daily basis..dare I say hourly basis, and sometimes I just feel like quitting.  Quitting the job, the diet, the podcast, the vision, the debt-free journey, quitting trying to quit smoking, quitting this "thing" that we're trying to do because it gets really challenging.  Ever feel like you just want to pack up your bags and call it a day?  The goals you wrote down, committed to, told everyone about back in January?  Still got 'em? Or like many including myself...have you given up on some or all by now?     In this episode I discuss a few of these things and attempt to offer encouragement to continue.Links from a few of the things talked about in this podcast - Setting GoalsDo Money RightMental Health with Dr. John DelonyZiglar.com personal development trainingAt Home Health StudioHow to Setup A Goal BoardDave Ramsey Facebook GroupGoals On Track5k Beginner Fitness Training on AudibleA few of the issues I address in this episode - Sticking to your goalsFalling off the wagonGetting back on the proverbial horseLosing weight, quitting smoking, starting that podcastYour Priorities in order, carving out timeVision / Goal BoardOn...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-TokListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

     What do you recall doing with your Dad when you were little?  Little league? Basketball? Soccer?  Throwing the frisbee in the backyard for an hour or so?  I have some fond memories of time spent with my Dad when he closed down his work and purposefully spent time with me.     It's one thing for us to say we're gonna spend more time with our son, or take our daughter out for a date...it's a whole other thing for us to actually prioritize the action over the words and intentionally spend time with our family members.  No one ever said it would be easy, but everyone says it is totally worth it.     You win at the things on which you focus...let's place some focus on developing a positive  relationship with our kids.Links from a few of the things talked about in this podcast - The Tea PartyWinning at MarriageWinning with M$neyWinning with M$ney podcast for adultsWinning with M$ney podcast geared towards womenMental Health with Dr. John DelonyA few of the issues I address in this episode - CampingWrestling with Our BoysSpring BreakTea time with the QueenStruggles and overcoming failures as a FatherTrying hard...and sometimes too hardOn...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-TokListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

Over time things in the bedroom and have a slight tendency to become mediocre...if not worse.  Speaking to the gentlemen who have found their bride, and over time the intimacy has become...less than...in this episode I have some suggestions which have worked for me and several others, and I believe they would do wonders for you as well.This is less about toys, lube, and technique and more about creating the atmosphere which many psychiatrists would explain through familiarity has become a place of contempt with clutter, work, TV, and more which does nothing except distract from each other...rather than add to the relationship.   That is really the basis for this episode as I suggest a number of proven ideas which will up your intimacy game, flipping it on its head, and starting fresh.Links from the ideas - MattressSheetsPillowIncenseCandleA few of the issues I address in this episode - Age of the mattressold sheetsdifferent pillowsIs it important to make the bedWhat about clutter in the bedroom?Mood lightingFragranceOn...Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Tik-TokListen - Apple Podcasts,  Spotify,  Stitcher,  iHeart Radio,  Podcast Addict,  Podchaser,  Deezer

Ever wonder if they are listening to you? Or watching you? Find out the real answer in this episode....XhYcGpEG9MDNubOPPl4s