The CrossCounsel Podcast

In this episode of the CrossCounsel Podcast, we sit down with Byron Guerra, youth pastor at Thirst Church (https://www.thirstchurch.org) in Oconomowoc, WI, and his longtime friend, mentor, and CrossCounsel facilitator, Chuck Schroeter.Byron didn't begin in ministry — his early years were spent as a land surveyor and doing tree work. The conversation kicks off with a funny, forgotten story from Chuck, and a powerful moment where he shares how Byron's grandfather led him to Christ.A few months ago, Chuck encouraged Byron to step into The MELT Process, which became a turning point in facing deep pain — including the tragic loss his family endured in 2008. As the conversation unfolds, you'll hear how God cleared the clutter and began reshaping Byron's heart.One quote from Byron says it all: “God is writing a new narrative for my heart.”Chuck wraps the episode with a strong challenge about what real freedom looks like, and Byron shares how he's helping his family, church, and youth group pursue a deeper life with Jesus.A conversation full of honest moments, deep insights, and real hope.CrossCounsel WebsiteCrossCounsel on Facebook

In this episode, we dive into what AJ & Hillary have been learning, especially an eye-opening anger exercise that led to real freedom. We don't just tell people to “let go of anger.” Instead, we explore why we hold onto it in the first place. Many believe anger protects them or gives them control, but true transformation happens when we replace false beliefs with God's truth.Anger may drive action, but love sustains and transforms. Even Jesus, when confronting injustice, was motivated by love—not personal offense. As we unpack AJ & Hillary's homework, we'll explore how releasing anger isn't about excusing harm but about breaking free from its grip. Join us as we challenge common misconceptions and embrace the power of love over anger!CrossCounsel WebsiteCrossCounsel on Facebook

Episode 172 begs the question, are we truly being transformed, or just wearing the costume of faith? In this episode, we explore the danger of spiritual performance—appearing strong while hiding deep brokenness. AJ and Hillary share their journey through The MELT Process, revealing how unresolved pain once fueled their need for approval but is now an invitation into real freedom. We also discuss the deeper healing work after Madison's tragedy and invite you to partner with us through the 100 Club, sustaining this mission of true transformation. Let's step into something real—together!CrossCounsel WebsiteCrossCounsel on Facebook

On this podcast, Steve and Hillary finish up their long discussion exploring biblical stories that indirectly reflect the principles of the MELT Process. We'll look at the bleeding woman in Mark 5, who was told she was unclean and how that label shaped her identity until she encountered Jesus. We'll consider the story often called The Prodigal Son, though it could be better named The Compassionate Father, highlighting the deep transformation that comes through being truly seen and embraced. Saul's radical encounter on the road to Damascus challenges us to examine our own moments of revelation and change. Finally, we'll reflect on Psalm 139, where David prays, "Search me, O God," a cry for deep healing and transformation. Through these stories, we'll see how personal reflection, emotional honesty, and God's truth intersect—often in ways we don't expect.CrossCounsel WebsiteCrossCounsel on Facebook

Hi everyone, and welcome! In this podcast, we're joined by Justine Roberts.This recording follows a recent session she had with Steve, where they ran out of time before fully resolving a particular memory. In the days that followed, Justine took time to sit with the unresolved part, creating space to explore the barriers that still needed to be confronted. In that moment, Jesus met her with a beautiful word and picture—one that continues to work its way through her heart and mind.This is so important because we don't want people to become dependent on us to facilitate every encounter with Jesus. Instead, we want to equip them to face the dark places where only the Lord can bring His transformational, experiential truth.CrossCounsel WebsiteCrossCounsel on Facebook

Hi Everyone! On this episode, Steve and Hillary explore how Jesus broke societal norms in His transformative encounters with two women: the Samaritan woman at the well and the woman caught in adultery.They discuss how Jesus, by engaging with the Samaritan woman, defies cultural barriers, offering her living water and revealing profound truths about identity and faith. Steve and Hillary emphasize that His experiential truth, wrapped in love, creates a space for genuine transformation when we're ready to receive it.Shifting to the woman caught in adultery, they highlight how Jesus challenges the accusers and extends grace, showing that love and forgiveness are powerful catalysts for change.Join them for a deep dive into these stories, reflecting on how Jesus' radical approach to love and acceptance continues to invite us into a transformative relationship with Him. Don't miss this enlightening conversation that reminds us of the life-changing power of grace!CrossCounsel WebsiteCrossCounsel on Facebook

Hi Everyone,This episode kicks off with some light banter between Steve and Hillary, including his morning at Truax Field in Madison, home of the F-35. It's a cutting-edge, stealthy multirole fighter with advanced avionics and supersonic speed, capable of air-to-air, air-to-ground, and intelligence missions—a game-changer for modern air forces. But that's not why you tuned in...We dive into how the MELT Process aligns with Scripture, even if not explicitly stated. We also tackle big questions like, “Why did God let this happen?” and offer encouragement to grow in your relationship with God, shifting how those questions are understood as we experience His goodness in a broken world.CrossCounsel WebsiteCrossCounsel on Facebook

Hello Everyone!Music has touched all of our lives in ways we may not even realize. In this episode, Steve is joined by guests Jenni Freitag, Shane Buol, and Jason Hoffman—three talented musicians with a deep commitment to the truth and beauty of the MELT Process. Together, they explore how music can be a powerful tool for transformation, discovering in real time how the Lord can use it to deepen our healing and lead us closer to Jesus.Join the conversation and find new insights into how music can shape not only their lives but all of ours on the journey to greater transformation.CrossCounsel WebsiteCrossCounsel on Facebook

Hi Everybody. This episode features the return of Mary Carlton for a special appearance. The topic was inspired by Mary's words soon after the school shooting in Madison. As simplistic as it may sound, we truly believe that the inner turmoil that we feel from both historical wounding and present day pain can be authentically and genuinely address by posturing our hearts to receive experiential Truth from Jesus. Everyone listening has undoubtedly heard Jesus' promise to never leave us or forsake us. He told us that He would be with us "to the end of the age" (Matthew 28:20). It's one thing to hold that truth in our minds, but it's another to deeply believe it in our hearts. We hope this discussion encourages you to take whatever steps necessary to experience the reality of Him being WITH us.CrossCounsel WebsiteCrossCounsel on Facebook

We're coming to you today with heavy hearts in light of the recent tragedies in Madison, Wisconsin, and the heartbreaking school shooting that occurred on Monday, December 16. These events have shaken our community and reminded us, once again, of the brokenness in the world.As we head into 2025, we're creating and building the 100 Club—a community of partners giving $100 monthly to support CrossCounsel's mission. Whether you're a new supporter or already give monthly, consider joining this effort or increasing your support to at least $100 per month.It will be stewarded well and will make a lasting difference. Sign up for monthly giving today at https://www.crosscounsel.com/"How to Heal" page: https://www.crosscounsel.com/how-to-healDonate and Becoming a Financial Partner: https://www.crosscounsel.com/donateCrossCounsel WebsiteCrossCounsel on Facebook

Our discussion on this episode gets into an unexpected and very brief overview of Love Bonds and Fear Bonds from the book  Living from the Heart Jesus Gave You.In summary, love  bonds are secure connections built on mutual care, trust, and the ability to return to joy together, fostering healthy relationships. In contrast, fear bonds are formed out of control, obligation, or avoidance of pain, often leading to dysfunction and disconnection. For more detailed information, we direct you back to the book Living from the Heart that Jesus gave you. We hope this episode highlights a key point: our work is not traditional counseling or advice-giving, nor is it what most imagine when they think of prayer. It requires intentionality and, at times, difficult choices from those who engage with it. At CrossCounsel, we remain grounded in Christ and led by the Holy Spirit, drawing carefully from approaches aligned with the heart of our heavenly Father—so that we may grow into the fullness of the stature of Christ.CrossCounsel WebsiteCrossCounsel on Facebook

Hello Everyone,In this episode, we dive into a powerful conversation. Hillary shares her inspiring journey through the MELT Process, highlighting how she's overcome symptoms of ADHD and the profound impact it has had on her life. She discusses how AJ's observations have helped her recognize the shifts in her thinking and behavior through the power of the Holy Spirit's work. Steve also weighs in on the importance of staying with the process that only works due to God's design of our hearts and minds. He discusses how revisiting links between past memories and uncovering the origin of lie-based thinking can open the door to genuine transformation. MELT helps get us to the places where we invite Jesus to save us from our twisted thinking, rather than relying on our own understanding and knowledge.Please know that CrossCounsel does not diagnose conditions or offer any recommendations regarding medications.CrossCounsel WebsiteCrossCounsel on Facebook

Hello Everyone!We were originally going to call this episode, "Ope! Throw another shrimp on the barbie!" That was to be a tongue-in-cheek tip of the cap to us Midwesterners and to Australians who may be listening. However, this conversation with Chuck (our Wisconsin rep) and Kylie (originally from the land Down Under), goes deep into their journey of loving God wholeheartedly through the grace and goodness of our Heavenly Father. Enjoy, be encouraged and pass this on those those who may be blessed by it!CrossCounsel WebsiteCrossCounsel on Facebook

Hello Everyone,We jump right into a discussion on how we hope that after some time with us, they can start MELTing without us. We discuss recognizing that many things we do to find peace are often only half measures, bringing temporary relief. Ugh, we're not unlike the Israelites of old, those our idols may be more sophisticated than theirs. Still, they fall short. We wrap up talking about how we gravitate toward others, often public figures, to try to make some sense of the voids we feel in our hearts. CrossCounsel WebsiteCrossCounsel on Facebook

Hello Everyone,On this episode, we discuss how important it is to face what needs to be faced in our lives. We talk about how the subconscious tries to trick us into believing that we're doing better than we really are.We talk about how walking to the edge of the cliff staring down and is not enough to find truth and freedom.CrossCounsel WebsiteCrossCounsel on FacebookEvents Page for Chili Cook Off November 9, 2024

Hello Everyone,On this episode, Shane Buol returns! The "No Need for Weed"  (Ep. 155), podcast he first appeared on resonated with many people.We talked about his deeper reflections from that first podcast. We talked about this as an ongoing process as he grows and matures in Jesus.We discussed how others in the CrossCounsel community are connecting with one another to sling more freedom in God's Kingdom - and much more!   CrossCounsel WebsiteCrossCounsel on FacebookEvents Page for Chili Cook Off November 9, 2024

This podcast moves forward into the second half of “Boy MELTs, Meets Girl.” Part 2 picks up with Steve talking about how he dealt with certain issues as a dad with their kids. We talked about AJs adjustment from home school to life as an 8th grader.We talked more about Hillary being married to a guy who has a grip on healthy emotions.You'll hear about the adventure of AJ bringing Hillary home for the first time and how it almost killed him and how he doesn't want to be held to things he said while under the influence of prescription medication. Hillary shares why she broke down and cried after her first Thanksgiving with AJs family. Enjoy!CrossCounsel WebsiteCrossCounsel on FacebookEvents Page for Chili Cook Off November 9, 2024

Hi Everyone!On this podcast you are introduced to AJ & Hillary Freitag. AJ's parents were introduced to principles much like we use in our MELT Process. What the Lord is doing in AJ is just what Hillary hoped and prayed for in a husband. Now they are walking their lives out with Jesus being central to everything in their lives. It's a fun listen!Also, if you are in the Madison area, please consider joining us for our Chili Cook Off Fundraiser. You can scroll down and get more info on our EVENTS page. 

Hi Friends! As we return to our regularly scheduled podcast, we give you a glimpse into our staff meeting where we heard from our staff who traveled to Malaysia. So download this download of great info. We also have a sad update regarding how we've had to pivot with a key staff position. You can also check out our fall class offering for our Level One class that has been helpful for so many. If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!

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Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Jon and Steve chat with Jenni, Brynn and Lucy about the family movie "Inside Out 2" and the lessons it teaches about feelings.If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!

Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Jon and Steve chat with Jenni, Brynn and Lucy about the 2015 family movie "Inside Out" and the lessons it teaches about feelings.A few of the topics covered:0:30 - Meet the panel;7:15 - Movies speak to us9:50 - which emotion do you relate to;22:00 - Bing bong;33:00 - The difference. If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!

Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Jon and Steve talk about the nature of joy, and how it differs from happiness. You won't want to miss it!A few of the topics covered:5:45 - Looking for verifiable evidence;10:45 - Knowing the "right words";15:10 - The woman at the well;18:57 - Consider it all joy;21:45 - Happiness versus joy. If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!

Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Jon and Steve talk about what can be done in the time between sessions, and bring up 3 ways you can prepare for your next session with CrossCounsel. A few of the topics covered:6:30 - Tuned in to the pain;8:48 - What to do in between sessions;13:05 - Social anxiety;24:13 - Jon's experience.If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!

Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Jon and Steve talk about the events of July 13th, and the importance of forgiveness. A few of the topics covered:0:30 - Witty banter and upcoming events;10:05 - A quick word from Steve;12:45 - What are we looking for from our leaders;16:10 - an example of forgiveness;24:25 - Addressing underlying currents. If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!

Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, we finish out interview with Terry Harris, discussing her experience with CrossCounsel, and how that experience influenced one of her novels.  You won't want to miss it!A few of the topics covered:0:30 - Conversation continues;8:25 - What are the takeaways;11:20 - Fictional characters, real resources. If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.You can contact Terry directly at terrytamashiroharris.comYou can also purchase Terry's book, " Love Remains: A Mercy House Novel"on Amazon.Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!

Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, we sit down with Terry Harris to talk about her experience with CrossCounsel, and how that experience influenced one of her novels.  You won't want to miss it!A few of the topics covered:1:00 - Introducing Terry;9:55 - Sharing through characters;12:00 - Love Remains.If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!

CrossCounsel is privileged to bring Training and Ministry in the MELT process to Pastors and leaders in India! Today we will be talking to Sheila who, along with her husband Abraham, have a major influence in the churches in India. Mary and Carol are training a team of ministers who will join them at the ASIA Summit in Malaysia in August.A few of the topics covered:3:25 - Similarities between India and Malaysia;7:55 - Why India needs this ministry;17:45 - Everything is explainable, but not everything is excusable. If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.

Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Jon and Steve finish their discussion with Mary & John Henry, talking about their experience with CrossCounsel, college ministry, and the importance of identity. You won't want to miss it!A few of the topics covered:0:50 - Some questions from Steve;6:00 - Young adults leaving the church;9:50 - The fear of the Lord;15:08 - How to help.If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!

Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Jon and Steve continue their discussion with Mary & John Henry, talking about their experience with CrossCounsel, college ministry, and the importance of identity. You won't want to miss it!A few of the topics covered:0:40 - Conversation continues;2:40 - It's about your story;5:20 - College ministry;11:40 - New starting points;15:45 - Seeds of cultural change;19:00 - Changing methods for changing times.If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!

Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Jon and Steve sit down with Mary & John Henry and talk about their experience with CrossCounsel, college ministry, and the importance of identity. You won't want to miss it!A few of the topics covered:1:40 - Introducing our guests;3:00 - Jon's many nicknames;5:50 - Discussion starts;15:45 - Mary's experience with our online classes. If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!

Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Steve and Jon finish their interview with Pastor Pher from First Free Church.A few of the topics Jon, Steve & Pher cover:0:48 - Discussion continues;11:11 - Welcome home;14:50 - Moses;25:00 - Giving it to God. If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!

Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Steve and Jon interview Pastor Pher from First Free Church, and learn about his journey with CrossCounsel.A few of the topics Jon, Steve & Pher cover:3:40 - Discussion begins;10:00 - Opportunity for growth;21:25 - Jon's thoughts.If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!

Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Steve and Jenni visit Jon for a live recording, and talk about the importance of finding your way home.A few of the topics Jon, Steve & Jenni cover:5:30 - Discussion begins;9:45 - Jon geeks out;16:00 - A community of healing. If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!

Hello friend!  On this episode of the podcast, Steve and Jon finish their discussion about trauma, and it's many facets. A few of the topics Steve & Jon cover:5:50 - Discussion continues;11:50 - Spilled milk;23:10 - Final thoughts. If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!

Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Steve and Jon continue their discussion about something that all of us have experienced: trauma. What is it? How do we start to handle it? Tune in and find out!A few of the topics Steve & Jon cover:1:00 - Discussion continues;12:00 - The depth of pain;18:45 - Interpreting life through the lens of truth. If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!

Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Steve and Jon continue their discussion about something that all of us have experienced: trauma. What is it? How do we start to handle it? Tune in and find out!A few of the topics Steve & Jon cover:7:55 - Discussion continues;10:00 - "Was Jesus traumatized?";13:50 - When to confront someone. If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!

Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Steve and Jon continue their discussion about something that all of us have experienced: trauma. What is it? How do we start to handle it? Tune in and find out!A few of the topics Steve & Jon cover:5:20 - The dollar bill illustration;10:30 - "I have trauma";16:00 - The ingredients of hope. If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!

Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Steve and Jon begin a long discussion about something that all of us have experienced: trauma. What is it? How do we start to handle it? Tune in and find out!A few of the topics Steve & Jon cover:8:40 - Start of the conversation;13:15 - "Shell Shocked";16:40 - A working definition. If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!

Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Steve and Jon continue their discussion with the one and only Dwight Clough and talk about how a Facebook post lead to a discussion about emotional healing, and revering Jesus over scripture. You won't want to miss it!A few of the topics Steve, Jon & Dwight cover:2:30 - Being Mr. Spock;8:10 - The heart is deceitful above all things;15:45 - Emotional faith;20:00 - Quoting the Bible without verses;24:20 - Taking inventory.If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!

Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Steve and Jon sit down with the one and only Dwight Clough and talk about how a Facebook post lead to a discussion about emotional healing, and revering Jesus over scripture. You won't want to miss it!A few of the topics Steve, Jon & Dwight cover:3:33 - Dwight's Background;9:15 - The Facebook post;18:50 - Jesus over scripture;25:20 - Emotion over scripture.If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!

Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Steve and Jon finish their discussion with Kenton and his incredible testimony, and look at the meaning of the Greek word "Ecclasia".A few of the topics Steve, Jon & Kenton cover:0:28 - A quick word from Steve;1:55 - Imputed righteousness;9:00 - "What is missing in the gospel today?";15:55 - Ecclesia.If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!

Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Steve and Jon bring on a special guest to talk about his testimony, and how CrossCounsel helped change his life.A few of the topics Steve, Jon & Kenton cover:2:45 - What is Kenton's world like today;6:15 - Life before Jesus;26:00 - The fear of being alone. If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!

Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Steve and Jon continue to watch and discuss testimonies from Living Water Church, including a testimony from one of our students!A few of the topics Steve & Jon cover:4:45 - Jason's Testimony;16:05 - Shane's Testimony;22:20 - Final thoughts. If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!

On this episode of the podcast, Steve and Jon continue to watch and discuss testimonies from Living Water Church.A few of the topics Steve & Jon cover:3:30 - Jacob's Testimony;18:00 - Mary's Testimony;32:00 - Lie-based pain and truth-based pain. If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!

Hello friend!  On this episode of the podcast, Steve & Jon talk about Steve's trip to Texas, and look at a recent orientation held at Living Water Church, including a powerful testimony of healing. You won't want to miss it!A few of the topics Jon & Steve cover:4:20 - Steve is writing a book;8:10 - A recent orientation;14:50 - A quick history lesson;25:30 - A beautiful testimony. If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!

Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Jon, Steve & Mary look at an article about stress-eating, and discuss it's underlying causes, and how to better handle them. A few of the topics Jon, Steve & Mary cover:9:45 - An interesting article;18:30 - Mustard;20:50 - The strategies of men. If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!

Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Jon, Steve & Mary talk about the all-too-common fear of being found out, and being found lacking. How do these thoughts and feelings affect us?  How do we push back against them? Tune in to find out!A few of the topics Jon, Steve & Mary cover:4:00 - Imposter Syndrome;10:30 - "Do I have what it takes?";15:50 - The cycle of lies. If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!

Hello friend! On this episode of the podcast, Jon, Steve & Mary talk about how being single can sometimes be a struggle, and how we can learn to be more patient and more trusting in God as He refines us in the meantime. A few of the topics Jon, Steve & Mary cover:3:00 - Struggling with singleness;10:50 - A God-shaped hole;18:40 - Letting God refine us.If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!

Hello friend!  On this episode of the podcast, Jon, Steve & Mary talk about CrossCounsel's 2024 Class, and what it means to become a friend of God. A few of the topics Jon, Steve & Mary cover:6:50 - A friend of God;13:55 - Watching the MELT process;23:00 - Millennials. If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details. Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!

Hello friend!  On this episode of the podcast, Jon, Steve & Wes finish their discussion about the pain of betrayal, and how it affects all of us.A few of the topics Jon, Steve & Wes cover:4:50 - Blaming God;9:50 - A sense of entitlement;16:30 - Forgiveness & reconciliation.If you have questions about our ministry, want to know how to donate, or want to schedule a ministry session, please go to crosscounsel.com for more details.Don't forget to hit follow, and we'll see you on the next one!