The Heart of the Matter - Dr. Darren Weissman

Join Dr. Darren as he guides you into the Heart of the Matter of going from audio to visual. This will be my last show of the 2015 as I'm looking forward to spending quality time with my family for the rest of the year. In 2016, The Heart of the Matter Show will be switching its syndication to a Video Stream/VLOG like you've never experienced. I'll post the details of the Video Version of The Heart of the Matter on my Dr. Darren Weissman Facebook Page and Twitter. Wishing you and yours a very Healthy and Happy Holiday Season and New Year filled with Infinite Love & Gratitude! Dr. D

  The real power in life is not what happens to us, but rather, how we respond to the circumstances we face . . . a choice of love or fear. Love inspires us to question fear, keep our heart open, and dive into the stress that is impacting our body, relationships, and the world we share. Love is a personal choice with collective consequences. What do you choose? A life that perpetuates a struggling and suffering or one that inspires a new and fresh breath of hope, dignity, and oneness. Imagine being able to envision beyond what's currently being seen, listen beyond what's currently being said, and choose beyond the catastrophic consequences that we as humankind are individually and globally facing. Choosing love requires you to be courageous while you take a compassionate look in the mirror. Join Dr. Darren as he dives into the heart of the matter of choosing love in a world that is facing terrorism.

Words are like the two edges of a sword . . . They can destroy or empower. The words we think and speak have a powerful life force for creation. What if you could see the energy behind your words and even more, how they command, are responded to, and manifest your reality?  Would use your words more carefully?  Join Dr. Darren as he dives into the Heart of the Matter of using words as a method for influencing the health of the cells of your internal world and influencing the health of your relationships creating our external world.  

Recent studies reveal that new love - wild, reckless, and passionate love - has pain-relieving powers akin to morphine. Even further, A serious, tongue-tangling kiss triggers a whole spectrum of physiological processes that can boost your immunity as well as directly enhance your body's peak potential for healing and regeneration. This week's Heart of the Matter Show will dive into the power of passion and its intimate connection to healing and living to your fullest potential. Join Dr. Darren for another deep dive into the source of owning your power.    

Do you have a rosy outlook and see the glass as half-full rather than half-empty? If so, your good attitude may have even more benefits than you think. A growing number of scientific studies suggest optimistic people tend to live longer and have better physical and mental health than pessimistic people. On Today's Heart of the Matter we're going to reveal the science and spirit behind a smile.  Join Dr. Darren as we smile our way to health. Infinite Love & Gratitude!    

Do you suffer with pain? Have you attempted to do things to make the pain go away, however no matter what you've done your body continues to scream? What if the root of your suffering resided in your emotions? Join Dr. Darren as he helps you to get to the heart of the matter of emotional pain . . . healing what matters. Healing emotional pain can directly influence chronic inflammation, lowered immune function, increased blood pressure, altered brain chemistry, and increased tumor growth. Call in to experience a transformation in the emotional and physical pain your body has been expressing.    

Change can be scary. Based upon the way circumstances are lining up, change can trigger anxiety and worry as well as anger and helplessness. Regardless, hope lives in change. A seed planted in the darkness of fertilized soil (shit!) grows towards the light. So do we. Nobody chooses to be stressed, let alone the painful changes that lead to stress, however your choice and power comes from not what happens to you, but how you respond. As with anything that has endured the stress of change – such as a tree that endures a storm – your strong roots will grow deeper and protective bark will grow thicker. Hope is your nature! This week's Heart of the Matter will empower you to experience hope in change  

Self-discovery is an act of finding out or learning for the very first time something about yourself and life that you were previously unable to recognize. Aristotle said. “Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.” This means that you need to know who you are then everything is open to you. Without self-discovery you don't know what direction life is taking you. You also don't know what you want to do in life and will not to be able to make important decisions. Life, in its mysterious ways gives us many opportunities to discover the wisdom of our bodies, the nature of our personalities, and the powerful blessing of love. Are you ready to discover the blessing of love buried within you? Join Dr. Darren as he takes you on a journey of discovering the power with you to reconnect, balance, and thrive.

The real power in life is not what happens to us, but rather, how we respond to the circumstances we face . . . a choice of love or fear. Are you ready to take a heart-felt dive into the consciousness of our world today? Join me as we create a personal and collective view of the mindset that perpetuates a struggling and suffering life or one that inspires a new and fresh breath of hope, healing, dignity, and oneness. Imagine being able to envision beyond what's currently being seen, listen beyond what's currently being said, and choose beyond the catastrophic consequences that we as humankind are individually and globally facing. This Heart of the Matter Show will take a loving and compassionate look in the mirror. Call in with your quesitons and concerns and Dr. Darren will compassionately guide you in creating a LifeLine Impact.  

Do you ever feel like you self-sabotage when it comes to money? What's one money belief that's holding you back? Be honest with yourself . . . Doesn't matter where you're at on your financial journey, there's always a next level of depth for all of us.  Ever wonder if you've got some old money beliefs from your childhood that hold you back? If so, I think you're really going to love this week's Heart of the Matter Show lasering in on money beliefs that may be holding you back, and how to change them from the inside out. This show will empower you to take action steps that shift limiting beliefs into infinite potential. Keith is ready to shift his limiting beliefs. Are you? Infinite Love & Gratitude!  

Have you been attempting to attract more money into your life, without any real success? Well, how would you like to know what the main ‘hidden' reason for this is? In 9 out of 10 cases, it's that one or more of the beliefs you have about yourself has taken over your perception. What's most important to understand is that the beliefs that are at the root of overwhelm and financial stress are invisible to our naked eye . . . they are subconscious in nature. When these subconscious core limiting beliefs are activated we automatically begin to perceive ourselves and the world through a lens of the past. As a result, the past repeats itself . . . again and again and again. This pattern is not only reactive in nature, but is a powerful and empowering signal that you now have the conscious ability to awaken a power that you'd otherwise would have never known. Join Dr. Darren as he takes you into the Heart of the Matter of abundance. What would your life be like if you had the ability to transform stuck limiting beliefs into conscious abundance?  Tune in to find out. Infinite Love & Gratitude!    

It's been said that the body is a reflection of the mind. The memories stored in our subconscious mind directly influence the health and healing of our bodies. This week's Heart of the Matter Show will focus in on osteoporosis. Do you struggle and suffer with osteoporosis? Are you fearful of slipping and fracturing a hip? Millions of people are facing this degenerative disease process and searching for alternative ways to enhance the strength of their bones. Listen in as Dr. Darren shares with you the role that the subconscious mind plays in the degernative disease process of osteoporosis and how you can enhance your body's natural ability to heal through activating the fullest potential of your subconscious mind. Kim Harding is ready to get to the Heart of the Matter of Osteoporosis. Are you? Infinite Love & Gratitude!  

Do you struggle with Analysis Paralysis? Do you have big dreams, however, you're not able to come to a solid decision as how to fulfill those dreams? Analysis paralysis or paralysis by analysis is an anti-pattern, the state of over-analyzing (or over-thinking) a situation so that a decision or action step is never taken, in effect paralyzing the outcome. Life becomes over-complicated, with too many detailed options, and as a result, choices are never made and action is never taken. People stuck in the pattern of analysis paralysis often seek the optimal or "perfect" solution upfront, and as a consequence never leave the starting gate.  Allison Mueller is ready to get to the Heart of the Matter and go through the portal of Analysis Paralysis to discover her heart's greatest desire and fulfill her dreams. Are you? Infinite Love & Gratitude!  

One of the most common phenomena many people face is a chronic pattern of dysfunctional relationships. The person's partners share consistent similarities, such as physical and/or emotional abuse, unavailability,substance abuse, instability, narcissism etc. And each relationship eventually ends badly because of these repetitive dynamics. After a while, such destructive patterns -- objectively obvious to others -- start to become apparent even to the person who's been stuck in the pattern. The question is, "Why would anyone persist in pursuing relationships that are doomed to failure? What's going on here?" Angela Martinez is ready to dive into the Heart of the Matter of Changing Relationship Attractor Field From Fear to Love. Are you?

Do you struggle with your weight? Have you dieted, exercised, taken pills, had surgery, been hypnotized, lasered, and still your body continues to express a pattern that goes beyond your conscious reach?  We all have seen it on national TV . . . people are able to lose a massive amount of weight when they take action, however maintaining an optimal weight is something that most are unable to achieve. What's below the surface of this suffering pattern? Join me and Karla Anderson as we dive into the Heart of the Matter of hiding, excess weight, and being our authentic self. Karla said, "I am ready to be me!" Are you? Infinite Love & Gratitude!

"My fitness studio seems to be slowing down. My numbers for classes are lower than ever. I have such a gift of service through my classes and I truly want to help more people. I feel stuck, frustrated and worried and unable to get out of it to think of a creative solution to get more people in my doors. Infinite love and gratitude."  Are you stressed about money? Is your business flowing at its fullest potential? Have you done all that you know how to do, but still find yourself stuck and stressed about how to grow your business? Join me as I take Andrea Stewart into the Heart of the Matter of Getting More People in Your Door . . . Building a Thriving Buisness. Andrea's ready to have a thriving business. Are you? Infinite Love & Gratitude  

So often the negativities of life become the norm of how we wake up, go to bed, eat, drink, work . . .  do do do . . . drive to work, drive home, numb ourselves with TV, wine, pot, sex . . . do do do . . . pay our bills, worry about money, parents, body image . . . do do do . . . eat more, sleep more, escape more . . . more, more, more . . . WTF! (Willng to Feel!) Life is a freaking trip. So many reasons to give up, get lost, and be done with it all. Yet, you know deep in your heart is a part of you dying to live. Today's show is dedicated to Darla Turner. Darla is sick and tired of being negative and ready, willing, and able to dive into the Heart of the Matter of getting extra credit because she's ready to smile for real! Are you? Infinite Love & Gratitude  

So many of us focus a lot of inner energy on finding the feelings of what it means to truly love ourselves no matter what. As we reach the heart of the matter, it's common that old injuries and nagging symptoms flare up. WTF! (Want To Feel!) Is there a correlation between the physical symptoms of the body and choosing to shine?  Join me as I guide Bradley Morris through a Heart of the Matter journey of the subconscious story of physical symptoms and change. Bradley has been exploring what it means to love himself unconditionally and coincidently (or not) found an old shoulder injury resurfaced. He's fascinated and open to the magical ways of healing and is wanting a LifeLine to love himself no matter what! Are you? Join us as I lead Bradley into a portal that will forever change the way he views himself and life. Infinite Love & Gratitude!

Have you heard the saying, “A comfort zone is a beautiful place, but nothing ever grows there”? It can be difficult to shake the anxiety that often goes with doing things we're not used to or comfortable with, precisely because we have either little or poor experience with whatever is outside our comfort zone. However, learning to push those boundaries for yourself is helpful for advancing and succeeding both in your career and your personal life. Join Dr. Darren as he helps you to understand the aspects of your subconscious mind that keep you comfortable being uncomfortable and even more a simple, fast, and natural way for breaking through to a fun, confident, and flowing life. Infinite Love & Gratitude!  

Do you struggle with being overweight? Have you dieted, exercised, used hypnosis, or even had surgery to help you to break this suffering pattern? Join Dr. Darren as he dives into the Heart of the Matter of Using Weight As A Protection From Others. Dr. Darren will help you to appreciate and unwrap the gift in strange wrapping paper of being overweight. Inside this pattern of reactive thinking and behavior you'll discover an infinite potential of optimal health, juicy intimacy, and authentic expression. Infinite Love & Gratitude!

Psychologists generally define forgiveness as a conscious, deliberate decision to release feelings of resentment or vengeance toward a person or group who has harmed you, regardless of whether they actually deserve your forgiveness. Just as important as defining what forgiveness is, though, is understanding what forgiveness is not. Experts who study or teach forgiveness make clear that when you forgive, you do not gloss over or deny the seriousness of an offense against you. Forgiveness does not mean forgetting, nor does it mean condoning or excusing offenses. Though forgiveness can help repair a damaged relationship, it doesn't obligate you to reconcile with the person who harmed you, or release them from legal accountability. Instead, forgiveness brings the forgiver peace of mind and frees him or her from corrosive anger. While there is some debate over whether true forgiveness requires positive feelings toward the offender, experts agree that it at least involves letting go of deeply held negative feelings. In that way, it empowers you to recognize the pain you suffered without letting that pain define you, enabling you to heal and move on with your life. Join Dr. Darren as together we dive into the healing power of forgiveness.      

Grief is a normal and natural response to loss. Though we often expect to grieve the death of a family member or friend, many other significant losses can also trigger grief. Examples include: The end of a relationshipA move to a new communityA much-anticipated opportunity or life goal is suddenly closed to usThe death of a petSomeone we love contracts a potentially life-threatening illness Grieving such losses is important because it allows us to ‘free-up' energy that is bound to the lost person, object, or experience—so that we might re-invest that energy elsewhere. Until we grieve effectively we are likely to find reinvesting difficult; a part of us remains tied to the past. Grieving is not forgetting. Nor is it drowning in tears. Healthy grieving results in an ability to remember the importance of our loss—but with a newfound sense of peace, rather than searing pain. Join Dr. Darren as he guides us into the Heart of the Matter of the role our subconscious mind plays with Healthy Grieving. Infinite Love & Gratitude!

Does someone else's bullying personality make you feel worthless? Do you mistake people's antics for subtle insults? This Heart of the Matter show will highlight some ways to remain unaffected by the way others treat you, weather it's a weird look, a teasing remark, or direct criticism. Even further, Dr. Darren will take you on a deep dive into the heart of the matter of living life spiritually to see, feel, and hear those painful and insecure reactive parts of your self and others from a compassionate, powerful, and grateful vantage point. Infintie Love & Gratitude!

Are you open to embracing your shadow to discover your light? Are you willing to fully embrace your soul's journey to awaken the freedom of authentic expression, love, and healing?  So often we look outside of ourselves for esteem and worth and when people don't like us or confront our views we fearfully change direction. Symptoms of the body and life stress represent a meaningful conversaton that is here to awaken each of us to living an intentional life. Join Dr. Darren as we dive into the Heart of the Matter of making choices from our soul.  What others choose is their own journey. What we choose is our destiny. Infinite Love & Gratitude!

Take 2!!! Because of the glitch it the matrix from last week's show we're going at it again:) Nothing about life or love is irrational or pathetic. Persistence, determination, and discipline combined with a clear vision creates a yellow brick road to authenctic, genuine, reciprocal, yummy, and delicious relationships. In love and in life our vulnerability is one of our greatest strengths. We often believe that we risk too much by being vulnerable, but, in fact, the opposite is true. When we build a wall around us to protect ourselves from our big, bad fears, we miss out on so much.    When we live with the mindset that something may be taken from us (physically or emotionally), or that we need to be in control of everything that happens, we endure fear on a daily basis. It's exhausting to live this way. It makes us cynical, suspicious, and unable to follow our hearts because we are afraid of what might happen. Join Dr. Darren as he dives into the Heart of the Matter of letting love rule!

  Stress affects your brain and body. Too much of it can have a fatal effect. Here's what you can do to relax. Psychological stress doesn't just put your head in a vice. New studies document exactly how it tears away at every body system—including your brain. But get this: The experience of stress in the past magnifies your reactivity to stress in the future. So take a nice deep breath and find a stress-stopping routine this instant. Join Dr. Darren as he dives into the Heart of the Matter of Stress and throws you a LifeLine of self-love!

There is an inherent nature of love, compassion, kindness, and gratitude that each and everyone of us knows in our core. It is our nature is to be loved and be lovable. We began life with confidence, clarity, and a compassionate heart that was bathed in a mother's love and swaddled in our own innocence. Each and every emotion is love being expressed the best way it knows how. Love's energy creates movement. Movement is change. Change is the essence of life! Our intention for this Heart of the Matter Show is to learn and grow from the limiting beliefs that have perpetuated separation, misunderstanding, fear, and hatred for thousands of years. Join Dr. Darren as he leads you into the Heart of the Matter of Love is My Religion. 

All pain has its purpose. Sometimes there is an obvious cause and effect and others the meaning and purpose of pain is illusive to the naked eye. This show will help us to turn pain into a journey of self-love. Think of your body as a computer in which all information is stored. You (as your mind), are the person operating your computer. Sometimes your computer expresses symptoms of a virus or crashes from too many programs running because you haven't updated your software to the lastest model. Our intention for this Heart of the Matter Show is to use The LifeLine to awaken a new understanding of pain and even more, reprogram the old subconscious programs. Our journey together will reveal the invisible truth of physical pain and as a natural by-product of the process itself,  heal it. Quickly and naturally. 

Do you want to believe that you are powerful or would you rather know that you are powerful? There is a significant and important difference between believing and knowing. One that many people overlook and even more often dismiss. Beliefs are place holders for knowing. Our intention for today's show will help you get to the Heart of the Matter of knowing the power you possess to live true to your greatest and fullest potential.

We've all heard the saying ‘laughter is the best medicine' and like most of these sayings it has some truth in it. The positive effects of laughter and a sense of humour cover not only the psychological but also the physical and the lifestyle aspects too. Humour and laughter are infectious and can bring people together and make them forget their troubles and one of the best tools to maintain a positive outlook and good health.  Laughter is correlated with mental health and has many social and interpersonal benefits. With all these benefits, laughter is an antidepressant, pain killer, workout, stress reliever and a great way to make friends and strengthen bonds. And best of all – it's free! Join Dr. Darren into the heart of the matter of laughter. Infintie Love & Gratitude :-)

Focusing on opportunities rather than on problems is the key to an abundant mindset and life. Throughout history those who have had the vision to see and the courage to act have found that economic downturns present limitless opportunities. Those that thrive stay focused on those opportunities and find ways to capitalize on them. Join Dr. Darren as he dives into the Heart of the Matter of Abundance . . . Abundant health, wealth, and relationships. This show will help you to gain clarity of how your subconscious mind causes you to think, feel, and react in a stuck way and even more a way to change these limiting patterns.

Join Dr. Darren as we build off of last week's Heart of the Matter Show of Healing Pain with Infinite Love & Gratitude. One of the 5 tips he shared was to Reject Rejection. Let's dive deeper into the Heart of the Matter of the protective nature of rejection. Our intention for this show is to learn how to heal self-rejection and transform what you thought was wrong into knowing all is well. Are you ready to dive into the subconscious mind of rejection and discover a powerful mind, body, and relationships?

So many people live on pain meds or attempt to escape emotional pain through addiction. There's another way. It's called The LifeLine Technique. Join Dr. Darren as he dives into the Heart of the Matter of pain. Emotional, physical, financial, and spiritual pain all have their root within the subconscious mind. What does it take to transform the root of pain so that you can heal from within? This show will take you into the deep and wide patterns of the mind that when triggered cause suffering. You can change these patterns.   

Are you experiencing everything that you are "intending" for your life? Whether or not you are "conscious" of it...you are. The Power Of Intention NEVER fails or misses it's target. It delivers to you perfectly and precisely and with unwavering certainty, precisely what you ask...without fail. You only need become "conscious" of how to "ask" in a way that provides "desired" results. Expanding your awareness with regard to The Power of Intention could prove to be one of the most beneficial and enlightening of all the Power Principles IF you discover as so many do that you are "subconsciously" creating your life. Join Dr. Darren and Master LifeLine Practitioner/Hypnotherapist Leslie Chiappetti as they take you into The Power of I Am.  This show will be Life Changing! The Power Of Intention Provides Outcomes Physically, Financially, Relationally, Emotionally and Spiritually Just As You Intend...Now You'll Understand How and Why. 

Are you watering the seeds of your dreams and vision for an abundantly healthy and happy life? What subconscious patterns are living in your mind causing you to feel like you're never going to fulfill what it is and who it is you desire to be and have? Join Dr. Darren as he takes you into the Heart of the Matter of Manifestation. Those people that are thriving in the world use a specific process to attract and shift into the highest vibration of self-love and self-worth. You can do it too! The carrot you've been chasing is in your heart . . . let's get to the Heart of the Matter!

Join Dr. Darren for his very first Heart of the Matter Show on Blogtalk Radio!!!!  With new beginnings comes great adventure, opportunity, and fun for everyone. In what way are your emotions driving you? Dr. Darren will help you to get to the Heart of the Matter of what's keeping you stuck in patterns of self-destruct, limiting beliefs, and stress. He will use The LifeLine Technique and the power of Infinite Love & Gratitude to create a life of passion and purpose. Are you ready to live a life of passion and purpose?  A life of passion of purpose awakens the feeling of total engagement and alignment with an activity and relationships so that you don't notice anything outside of what you're doing; you forget time and you forget yourself . . . this is your nature!