Growing Through It

Have you ever said "yes" when everything in you was saying "no" just because you were scared of disappointing someone, scared of not being liked? Same. And honestly... it's exhausting.Today, we're getting real about people-pleasing and how, for so long, we labeled it as "kindness" or "love," when really, it was fear wearing a mask. Fear of rejection. Fear of not being enough.But here's the hope: Jesus never called us to live for approval, He called us to live in freedom. In this episode, we're talking about how Jesus set the precedent: obedience over being liked. And how learning to walk in that truth changes everything. If you're tired of living for everyone else's opinions… this one's for you.instagram.com/growingthrough.pod

This one's a little different. It's not a typical episode… it's more of a pause.I really felt the Holy Spirit tugging on me to just stop and remember what Jesus did. Not just on Good Friday, but every day — because this story is still changing lives.This episode is an invitation to slow down, reflect, and sit with the love of a God who didn't stay distant, but stepped into our mess. Who chose the cross — not because He had to, but because He wanted to.It's not just a story about pain. It's a love story. And it's for you.Whenever you're listening — today, next week, or months from now, this is your reminder: He came close. He stayed. And He's not finished yet.instagram.com/growingthrough.pod

Today's episode is a big sister Q&A — just real, honest girl talk about the things we all wonder but don't always say out loud. We're talking about losing friendships in your 20's, struggling with lust as a Christian girl, trusting God in waiting seasons, dealing with insecurity, making the first move in dating, and even how to start reading your Bible. I've missed you guys so much, and it feels so good to sit down and just talk again. My heart for this episode is that you leave feeling seen, encouraged, and reminded that God cares about every detail of your life — even the messy parts. Hebrews 10:24-25"And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together... but encouraging one another."instagram.com/growingthrough.pod

Would you still listen to this episode if it had nothing to do with you… but everything to do with God? We live in a world that constantly asks, "What can God do for me?" But what if faith wasn't about what we get, but about who He is? What if we stopped making our relationship with God a transaction and started making it a posture, one of surrender, trust, and devotion? This episode isn't about us. It's about Him. I want to challenge you today: What would your life look like if it was truly less of you and more of God? If you pursued Him, not for blessings, but because He is worthy? If you found contentment in Him alone, even if He never gave you another thing?Because the truth is, we've already been given everything through Jesus. "My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever." Psalm 73:26 instagram.com/growingthrough.pod

Have you ever prayed and thought you heard God speaking, but weren't sure if it was really Him or just your own thoughts? Same. In this episode, we're talking about how to discern God's voice, because the Bible makes it clear—He speaks to all of His children, including you. We'll dive into the different ways God communicates and what it means when He feels silent.instagram.com/growingthrough.pod

It's here—Part 2 of our conversation about dating God's way! In this episode, Drew and I are diving even deeper into what it means to build a relationship that honors Christ. We're answering more of your burning questions, including the concept of “types,” how to seek wisdom from God in relationships, sharing our best (and worst!) dating advice + more!instagram.com/growingthrough.pod

Back by popular demand—my husband Drew joins me on the podcast! Let's be honest: dating can be challenging, especially when the Bible doesn't directly talk about it. So how do we navigate dating in a way that prepares us for marriages that honor God? In Part 1, Drew and I are tackling dating God's way. We're asking each other the tough questions, sharing personal advice, and diving into what Scripture teaches about building Christ-centered relationships. Whether you're single, dating, or married, this episode is filled with practical wisdom and encouragement for your journey.Part 2 Coming Later This Week1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (NIV):"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."instagram.com/growingthrough.pod

Do you ever catch yourself scrolling, comparing, and thinking, “If only I had what they do”? You're not alone. In this episode, we're getting real about grass is greener syndrome — the constant pursuit of “better” that leaves us feeling stuck and ungrateful. Whether it's relationships, career, or just life in general, this mindset can steal your joy and disconnect you from what God has for you right now. We'll break down the symptoms, share biblical truth and talk about how to stop chasing “perfect” and start living content. Let's shift our focus and reclaim our peace in Jesus. "I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation." Philippians 4:12instagram.com/growingthrough.pod

Your season of laziness ends now. If you've been stuck scrolling for hours, struggling to get out of bed, neglecting your Bible, or putting off what God has placed on your heart, this episode is your wake-up call. Together, we'll explore what God's Word says about laziness, how it's holding you back from His plans, and practical ways to break free. With the new year around the corner, it's the perfect time to reset and step into all that the Lord has for you. Don't worry, you're not alone! We're in this together. instagram.com/growingthrough.pod

Have you ever wondered why certain struggles seem to hit harder or come out of nowhere? The enemy doesn't play fair, but he's also predictable—if you know what to watch for. In this episode, we uncover the enemy's strategies and reveal how you can stay one step ahead. Through Scripture and real-world application, you'll learn to recognize his attacks, guard your heart, and walk boldly in God's truth. "In order that satan might not outwit us. For we are not unaware of his schemes."  - 2 Corinthians 2:11Episode Bible Study Notes:1 Peter 5:8 (NIV): "Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour."Sober-mindedness means staying spiritually aware and avoiding distractions that cloud your connection with God.2 Corinthians 2:11 (NIV): "In order that Satan might not outwit us. For we are not unaware of his schemes."Knowing the enemy's strategies helps us stand firm and avoid being caught off guardJames 4:7 (NIV): "Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you."Resisting temptation starts with surrendering fully to God.2. Insights on the Enemy's Tactics:The Roaring Lion: The enemy is compared to a lion because of his strategic, stealthy, and sudden attacks.He often targets us during spiritual weakness or isolation. Just like a lion stalks its prey, satan waits for moments when we let our guard down.Masquerades as Light (2 Corinthians 11:14): satan disguises his attacks to appear harmless or even good, making spiritual discernment essential.3. The Three Temptations (1 John 2:16):Lust of the Flesh: Physical desires that conflict with God's will.Lust of the Eyes: Coveting things we don't have, like wealth or status.Pride of Life: Self-reliance and seeking recognition apart from God.4. Living Wisely and Staying Spiritually Attuned:Ephesians 5:15-16 (NIV): "Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil."Avoiding distractions—whether they're material, emotional, or digital—allows us to hear God more clearly, just as He revealed through moments of stillness in my life. Put on the full armor of God daily.instagram.com/growingthrough.pod

We all face doubt at times, but what do you do when it leaves you feeling stuck and uncertain? When fear makes you question everything you were once so confident God had spoken to you? Today, I'm sharing my journey of how doubt didn't defeat me but instead brought me closer to God. What I thought would stop me in my tracks ended up pushing me further into His purpose. God isn't finished with you yet!instagram.com/growingthrough.pod

Today is part 2, where we wrap up the story of our breakup. We'll discuss why our first breakup wasn't our last and emphasize the importance of waiting for God's perfect timing and not awakening love until it's ready. We'll also share advice for anyone going through a similar situation. Our story is a powerful reminder that you can never go wrong by trusting God.Thank you so much for listening!Song of Solomon 8:4 "Young women of Jerusalem, promise me never to awaken love before it is ready."instagram.com/growingthrough.pod

Drew is joining me on the podcast today, and we're diving into the story of our breakup—a story we've never shared before. It's a powerful testament to how God can redeem even what seems impossible. Whether you're going through a heartbreak, questioning your relationship, or just curious to listen, grab your popcorn because we're about to get real!Part 2 is coming next week!instagram.com/growingthrough.pod

Let's have an open and honest conversation! Today, I'm answering your most requested questions. We'll cover everything from how to fight temptation before marriage and birth control to outgrowing friendships, waiting on your blessing, childhood trauma, and more. Every answer is centered around God's Word because we all know an opinion can be great, but God's Word, we can stand on. Can't wait to chat with you! instagram.com/growingthrough.pod

We've all experienced the disappointment of promising God we won't repeat a mistake, only to find ourselves doing it again. This struggle is part of every believer's journey. Instead of hiding in our shame and guilt, God wants us to come to Him. In this episode, we'll explore repentance and what steps to take when you truly don't know what to do next.instagram.com/growingthrough.pod

Let's be honest—sometimes life can feel overwhelmingly draining. It's as if everything has become too much, leaving us tired and struggling to keep up. Today, I'm sharing my personal journey and how God has been guiding me through this challenge. I've finally uncovered the secret to finding true rest, and surprisingly, it wasn't a secret at all—Jesus simply showed us the way.instagram.com/growingthrough.pod

Are you feeling lost, unsure of why you're here or what you're meant to do? What if I told you that you could discover your purpose today? No more endless searching or wondering what you're supposed to be doing with your life. In this episode, we delve into one of life's most profound questions: What was I made for? Through biblical insights, we reveal what God says about your true calling and how you can align your life with His divine plan.http://instagram.com/growingthrough.podinstagram.com/growingthrough.pod

I'm excited to welcome the most incredible man I know as my first guest—my husband, Drew. Today, we're sharing our journey of how a two-week connection turned into a forever thing. From Drew's testimony and our long-distance relationship to breakups and being unequally yoked, we'll discuss how God saved and transformed us every step of the way. Jesus changed our lives, and our relationship wouldn't be as special without Him. Don't miss this episode!instagram.com/growingthrough.pod

Sometimes we wonder why our relationship with God doesn't quite match up to the descriptions we hear from others. Maybe you've been trying to follow Jesus, but still feel like there's something missing. God longs for a genuine connection with you. Loving Him is crucial, but how do you truly love someone you feel you don't fully know? Trust me, I've been there, and I'm here to share what helped me go from merely knowing about God to genuinely knowing Him.instagram.com/growingthrough.pod

This episode is dedicated to those feeling trapped in repetitive cycles, longing for a fresh start. It's time to finally say goodbye to old habits and embrace the true path that God has laid out for you. Whether you aspire to mirror the likeness of Jesus but are uncertain how, you'll uncover insights on conquering sin, navigating temptation, and letting go of certain people or things. Join us as we explore these topics and so much more.instagram.com/growingthrough.pod

In many instances, when we've faced hardships, we may label ourselves as "broken". We believe we've endured too much, made too many mistakes, and lost all hope. However, let's shift that perspective today. You are not broken; you're simply bent. There's still a journey ahead, and God isn't finished with you yet.instagram.com/growingthrough.pod

In Episode 1, I'll be opening up about my personal journey like never before. It's the first time I'm fully disclosing the ups and downs of my life. For years, I lived in fear and secrecy, but now, I embrace my story without shame. Reflecting on it, I see nothing but God's unwavering love, for me and for all of us, regardless of our past. Jesus rescued me then, and His saving grace continues to save me today. instagram.com/growingthrough.pod