The Journey Beyond Divorce

Take a look at the experiences in your life and ask yourself how those experiences have shaped your life. Are you letting them control how your life is seen or looking for opportunities for lessons and growth? Every experiences serves a purpose to get you ready to move along your journey, but it's your decision. Once you get through the storm, you can look back and embrace the experiences that have taken place. Maybe it's time to celebrate the challenges that have occurred due to your experiences. Remember diamonds are created through pressure. Many love diamonds but fail to see the pressure that took place to produce the items many love. Why not take the same outlook for the growth that has taken place in your life? If you're struggling and don't know how to get from where you are to thriving, send me an e-mail at hdcc1923@gmail.com or send a DM to either 2 Native Sons on Instagram or Facebook. Music (Lost in Dirt by Lil Plug) sourced from https://www.slip.stream/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

How often do you find yourself selling yourself short as a result of the fear of showing up as your true, authentic self? Society has given us false statements that hinders how we show up. The big one is "Fake it till you make it" and not understanding the power of the energy you put off and how others can sense that. Why do we want to hide behind a mask instead of being vulnerable and transparent? Play big and show up as your true self so that someone else has permission to do the same. Your story is meant to be shared and heard by others. Don't sell yourself short. If you're struggling and don't know how to get from where you are to thriving, send me an e-mail at hdcc1923@gmail.com or send a DM to either 2 Native Sons on Instagram or Facebook. Music (Bar None) sourced from https://www.slip.stream/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

When you look at your life, what voice is being projected from you? Do you trust your voice as you speak, or have you come to believe that your voice does not matter? The journey beyond divorce is a time to dig and find the person you probably lost because of what others spoke or told you regarding a marriage. I had the pleasure of having an outstanding conversation with Kelley Sgroi, which her journey has led her to assist others reconnect with themselves and use the voice they were given. In this episode, Scott and Kelley talk about: · The power of being present. · Finding your voice and trusting it. · Overcoming the script that others have given you. · Rediscovering your purpose. · The power of finding yourself. · The power of perception and making sure you see your true self. Memorable Quotes “I had to learn to have a voice, to trust that voice, & to recognize that I had a say in everything.” “If you're expected to make me happy than you also have the power to make me miserable.” Links to Resources Kelley Sgroi: Facebook | IG | E-mail Kelley's conversation with Dr. G on Moving Upstream without a Paddle. If you enjoyed this episode, #beafriendtellafriend while hitting that subscribe button! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

What story has arisen as a result of the journey your on? Maybe you feel your story isn't good enough to be shared or heard by others. In this episode, Scott had the pleasure of spending time with Sunny Rivera to reflect upon her journey and the power she possesses within her story. In this episode, Scott and Sunny speak about: · We all have many chapters to build upon. · The feeling of not being wanted. · Understand that others will project upon you their insecurities. · Having been through things to love/except self. · Lessons for each of us and the importance of self love. Memorable Quotes “You'll never forget as that's your scar. That's a story.” “If I wasn't able to work on or deal with, it was going to continue.” Links to Resources Sunny Rivera: IG | Facebook If you enjoyed this episode, please hit that subscribe or follow button! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

How often are you embracing the challenges that arise and looking at the opportunity to grow and level up? Life is a game, which the journey will provide the chances to collect lessons to level up. I had the pleasure of having Erin Poredos, a phenomenal Self-love and Divorce Recovery Coach, which she shares some valuable insights and nuggets that she gained from her journey. As a result of her journey, she has a passion to help other not not to experience the feelings she had. In this episode, Scott and Erin talk about: Understand the ability you possess to level up through the game of life. Screw the script and start living the life true to yourself. Share your beautiful story, and understand the power you possess by sharing. Freedom that you give yourself by showing up as your true self. The power of experiences and providing space to others and yourself, while getting away from the script. Memorable Quotes “Screw this, screw the script, screw everything as I don't want anyone else feeling this way.” “You always have a choice.” Links to Resources Erin Poredos: Facebook | Instagram | YouTube | Website If you enjoyed this episode, please hit that subscribe/follow button! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

What would life look like if you stopped carrying around a bag full of regrets and dislike for yourself? Sometimes you have to go through an unpacking process to see what belongs to you and what others made you believe belonged to you. The power of finding someone to assist in the unpacking process is huge as you may not know what to ask yourself. Lisa Concepcion was a phenomenal guest for the show and provided some takeaways and potential perspective shifts that you may need to write down and think about. Lisa's experiences and journey has given her tools that she has been able to provide to others to build their own map to walk along the journey. Lisa has a heart and passion to help others along their journey and be the partner to help hold the flashlight while you look around your life. If you would like to connect with Lisa, you can visit her website at lovequestcoaching.com, find free resources through her YouTube channel at The Lisa Concepcion, or on Instagram at lisathelovecoach. She also was featured on the Moving Upstream without A Paddle with Dr. G. The video can be found on the Dr. Garrett Goggans Facebook page which took place on 31 March 2021, or found from the following link (2) Facebook. I want to thank you for your support. I can be reached at tjbd0711@gmail.com, which I would love to hear feedback from you my family. I have also created the ability for you, my family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow me to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value I provide while continuing to make this content. #beafriendtellafriend by sharing the podcast with those that could benefit coming along the journey and looking for a tribe. Link to resource: If you're looking for coaching or need to discover a way to get from your baseline to thriving, you can reach me at tjbd0711@gmail.com, Facebook-Scott Brandt, Instagram-snbrandt26, or TikTok-scottbrandt26. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

How have your kids been within the midst of the divorce? Kids are very resilient, but as adults, we need to look at ourselves and see how our actions and words my be effecting our kids. The pain you may be experiencing isn't fun to deal with, but your kids need you at your best. Getting to your best requires that you find your tribe to lift you up. Along with being mindful of your kids, look internally to your mindset and how that may be effecting your body. Jessica Dawn Russell provided some great info that can be of value to others that may need some assistance with the parent/child relationship. Her parent's divorce created the foundation to build upon for her heart story and passion to focus on kids during a divorce. If you would like to speak with Jessica, she can be reached through reunificationservices.com or on FB under Jessica Dawn Russell. I want to thank you for your support. I can be reached at tjbd0711@gmail.com, which I would love to hear feedback from you my family. I have also created the ability for you, my family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow me to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value I provide while continuing to make this content. #beafriendtellafriend by sharing the podcast with those that could benefit coming along the journey and looking for a tribe. Link to resource: If you're looking for coaching or need to discover a way to get from your baseline to thriving, you can reach me at tjbd0711@gmail.com, Facebook-Scott Brandt, Instagram-snbrandt26, or TikTok-scottbrandt26. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

What experiences are you overlooking that could be the point of starting the growth you need? We are quick to brush situations off, but fail to see how those times could be just what's needed. You're either growing or dying, so grab life and grow the way you want to. Let's go! Shout out to our sponsor, Jasper Axelrad with Tobala's Food for Thought. Tobala has a passion and heart for the community and who they are really separates them from many other businesses. You can find Tobala on Facebook, https://www.tobalacuisine.com/ or reach them at 719-301-7066. Collaboration is a beautiful thing, which allows everyone of us to get much further than if we went alone. I want to thank you for your support. I can be reached at tjbd0711@gmail.com, which I would love to hear feedback from you my family. I have also created the ability for you, my family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow me to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value I provide while continuing to make this content. #beafriendtellafriend by sharing the podcast with those that could benefit coming along the journey and looking for a tribe. Link to resource: Go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/afterdivorcegll to join the tribe and find others that have been on the same island you've found yourself on. If you're looking for coaching or need to discover a way to get from your baseline to thriving, you can reach me at tjbd0711@gmail.com, Facebook-Scott Brandt, Instagram-snbrandt26, or TikTok-scottbrandt26. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

Your story is powerful, but what keeps you from finding the message that needs to be heard by others? When you understand the power to help others create change, through your story, you start to look for ways that it can be shared. Before the story can be extracted and be a gift to be shared, there are somethings that you must work through to ensure you show up powerful. Let's go! Shout out to our sponsor, Jasper Axelrad with Tobala's Food for Thought. Tobala has a passion and heart for the community and who they are really separates them from many other businesses. You can find Tobala on Facebook, https://www.tobalacuisine.com/ or reach them at 719-301-7066. Collaboration is a beautiful thing, which allows everyone of us to get much further than if we went alone. I want to thank you for your support. I can be reached at tjbd0711@gmail.com, which I would love to hear feedback from you my family. I have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow me to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value I provide while continuing to make this content. Share the podcast with those that could benefit coming along the journey and looking for a tribe. Link to resource: Go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/afterdivorcegll to join the tribe and find others that have been on the same island you've found yourself on. If you're looking for coaching or need to discover a way to get from your baseline to thriving, you can reach me at tjbd0711@gmail.com, Facebook-Scott Brandt, Instagram-snbrandt26, or TikTok-scottbrandt26. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

We may be looking at a puzzle needing a piece that's missing potentially. Sometime we are holding the piece, while other times it's a story of someone else. Most of the time it's right around us, we just need to do a little deep dive or listening to the conversations taking place. Let's go! Shout out to our sponsors, Jasper Axelrad with Tobala's Food for Thought and The Chicken Coop. Tobala and The Chicken Coop have a passion and heart for the community and who they are really separates them from many other businesses. You can find Tobala on Facebook, https://www.tobalacuisine.com/ or reach them at 719-301-7066. The Chicken Coop can be found on Facebook and reached at 719-495-3189. Collaboration is a beautiful thing, which allows everyone of us to get much further than if we went alone. I want to thank you for your support. I can be reached at tjbd0711@gmail.com, which I would love to hear feedback from you my family. I have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow me to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value I provide while continuing to make this content. Share the podcast with those that could benefit coming along the journey and looking for a tribe. Link to resource: Go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/afterdivorcegll to join the tribe and find others that have been on the same island you've found yourself on. If you're looking for coaching or need to discover a way to get from your baseline to thriving, you can reach me at tjbd0711@gmail.com, Facebook-Scott Brandt, Instagram-snbrandt26, or TikTok-scottbrandt26. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

What are you doing to build your relationship and mental capital? These are two important assets that you have control over to increase. If you don't know yourself, how do you expect to connect with others? We all are some have some sort of personality color that dictates how we interact with the world and the interaction the world has with us. Let's go! Shout out to our sponsor, Jasper Axelrad with Tobala's Food for Thought. Jasper has passion and heart for the community and who they are really separates them from many other businesses. You can find Tobala on Facebook, https://www.tobalacuisine.com/ or reach them at 719-301-7066. Collaboration is a beautiful thing, which allows everyone of us to get much further than if we went alone. I want to thank you for your support. I can be reached at tjbd0711@gmail.com, which I would love to hear feedback from you my family. I have also created the ability for you to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow me to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value I provide while continuing to make this content. #Beafriendtellafriend and share the podcast with those that could benefit coming along the journey and looking for a tribe. Link to resource: Go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/afterdivorcegll to join the tribe and find others that have been on the same island you've found yourself on. If you're looking for coaching or need to discover a way to get from your baseline to thriving, you can reach me at scottbrandt1126@gmail.com, Facebook-Scott Brandt, Instagram-snbrandt26, or tjbd0711@gmail.com. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

We all have lenses that we are looking through and seeing the world. How you see the world can effect you in your daily interactions. When it comes to challenges, how do you go after the challenge? Previous relationships can start to effect our lenses and requires that we start do the inner work on ourselves. Let's go! Shout out to our sponsors, Jasper Axelrad with Tobala's Food for Thought and The Chicken Coop. Tobala and The Chicken Coop have a passion and heart for the community and who they are really separates them from many other businesses. You can find Tobala on Facebook, https://www.tobalacuisine.com/ or reach them at 719-301-7066. As for the Creative Collaborations group, the website can be found at creativecollaborationsco.com and FB group www.facebook.com/groups/840338926715355. The Chicken Coop can be found on Facebook and reached at 719-495-3189. Collaboration is a beautiful thing, which allows everyone of us to get much further than if we went alone. I want to thank you for your support. I can be reached at tjbd0711@gmail.com, which I would love to hear feedback from you my family. I have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow me to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value I provide while continuing to make this content. Share the podcast with those that could benefit coming along the journey and looking for a tribe. Link to resource: Go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/afterdivorcegll to join the tribe and find others that have been on the same island you've found yourself on. If you're looking for coaching or need to discover a way to get from your baseline to thriving, you can reach me at scottbrandt1126@gmail.com, Facebook-Scott Brandt, Instagram-snbrandt26, or tjbd0711@gmail.com. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

We all possess a message that someone else needs to hear. Why does it seem so difficult for us to et out of our own way and share with others? Stories show we are human and allow us to connect differently than if we just stay surface level. Hopefully after this episode you look at your message in a different light. Let's go! This episode is powered by Pod Decks. Get your Pod Decks today at poddecks.com and use code Letsgo26 for 10% off your order! You can also use the following affiliate link https://powered-by-pod-decks.peachs.co/a/scott-brandt. Shout out to our sponsors Rock City Cafe and The Chicken Coop. Rock City Cafe and The Chicken Coop have a passion and heart for the community and who they are really separates them from many other businesses. Rock City Cafe can be found on Facebook and can be reached at 719-424-7151. The Chicken Coop can be found on Facebook and reached at 719-495-3189. Collaboration is a beautiful thing, which allows everyone of us to get much further than if we went alone. I want to thank you for your support. I can be reached at tjbd0711@gmail.com, which I would love to hear feedback from you my family. I have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow me to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value I provide while continuing to make this content. Share the podcast with those that could benefit coming along the journey and looking for a tribe. Link to resource: Go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/afterdivorcegll to join the tribe and find others that have been on the same island you've found yourself on. If you're looking for coaching or need to discover a way to get from your baseline to thriving, you can reach me at scottbrandt1126@gmail.com, Facebook-Scott Brandt, Instagram-snbrandt26, or tjbd0711@gmail.com. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

Why does it seem to be easier to show up as an imposter than your true self? How you show up and accept yourself, is what effects everything else in your life. Who are you missing out on impacting because you're scared to be vulnerable, playing big, and being true to yourself? Let's go! This episode is powered by Pod Decks. Get your Pod Decks today at poddecks.com and use code Letsgo26 for 10% off your order! You can also use the following affiliate link https://powered-by-pod-decks.peachs.co/a/scott-brandt. Shout out to our sponsors, Jasper Axelrad with Tobala's Food for Thought, Rock City Cafe, and The Chicken Coop. Tobala, Rock City Cafe, and The Chicken Coop have a passion and heart for the community and who they are really separates them from many other businesses. You can find Tobala on Facebook, https://www.tobalacuisine.com/ or reach them at 719-301-7066. As for the Creative Collaborations group, the website can be found at creativecollaborationsco.com and FB group www.facebook.com/groups/840338926715355/ Rock City Cafe can be found on Facebook and can be reached at 719-424-7151. The Chicken Coop can be found on Facebook and reached at 719-495-3189. Collaboration is a beautiful thing, which allows everyone of us to get much further than if we went alone. I want to thank you for your support. I can be reached at tjbd0711@gmail.com, which I would love to hear feedback from you my family. I have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow me to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value I provide while continuing to make this content. Share the podcast with those that could benefit coming along the journey and looking for a tribe. Link to resource: Go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/afterdivorcegll to join the tribe and find others that have been on the same island you've found yourself on. If you're looking for coaching or need to discover a way to get from your baseline to thriving, you can reach me at scottbrandt1126@gmail.com, Facebook-Scott Brandt, Instagram-snbrandt26, or tjbd0711@gmail.com. This is an affiliate link for Single On Purpose: Redefine Everything. Find Yourself First. by John Kim. By clicking the link, you help me continue to make this content: https://amzn.to/2NSsM8m This is an affiliate link for The Buddha and the Badass: The Secret Spiritual Art of Succeeding at Work by Vishen Lakhiani. By clicking the link, you help me continue to make this content: https://amzn.to/3bMv6Gv --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

What are you pushing out onto others? Are you focused on looking through the small lenses you possess or are you working to look at the bigger picture? Many times we say we want one thing, but our thoughts and feelings show up to cause bigger issues. Be mindful that what you feed will grow and thrive. Let's go! This episode is powered by Pod Decks. Get your Pod Decks today at poddecks.com and use code Letsgo26 for 10% off your order! You can also use the following affiliate link https://powered-by-pod-decks.peachs.co/a/scott-brandt. Shout out to our sponsors, Jasper Axelrad with Tobala's Food for Thought & Rock City Cafe. Tobala & Rock City Cafe have a passion and heart for the community and who they are really separates them from many other businesses. You can find Tobala on Facebook, https://www.tobalacuisine.com/ or reach them at 719-301-7066. As for the Creative Collaborations group, the website can be found at creativecollaborationsco.com and FB group www.facebook.com/groups/840338926715355/ Rock City Cafe can be found on Facebook and can be reached at 719-424-7151. Collaboration is a beautiful thing, which allows everyone of us to get much further than if we went alone. I want to thank you for your support. I can be reached at tjbd0711@gmail.com, which I would love to hear feedback from you my family. I have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow me to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value I provide while continuing to make this content. Share the podcast with those that could benefit coming along the journey and looking for a tribe. Link to resource: Go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/afterdivorcegll to join the tribe and find others that have been on the same island you've found yourself on. If you're looking for coaching or need to discover a way to get from your baseline to thriving, you can reach me at scottbrandt1126@gmail.com, Facebook-Scott Brandt, Instagram-snbrandt26, or tjbd0711@gmail.com. Patrick Murakami link for the 5 tips towards friendship: https://patrickmurakami-9883.medium.com/5-tips-for-friendships-and-how-to-build-long-lasting-relationships-9872c9e83a37 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

Conversations are an aspect of life that can allow u o look at a situation through a different perspective. What comes out of the conversation can be unique, which Dennis highlights some items to consider when working on ourselves. Many try to push against change, but we have to understand that change is the only consistent in life. Embrace the change as it can open up the possibility for growth to take place. Let's go! This episode is powered by Pod Decks. Get your Pod Decks today at poddecks.com and use code Letsgo26 for 10% off your order! You can also use the following affiliate link https://powered-by-pod-decks.peachs.co/a/scott-brandt. Shout out to our sponsors, Jasper Axelrad with Tobala's Food for Thought, Rock City Cafe, and The Chicken Coop. Tobala, Rock City Cafe, and The Chicken Coop have a passion and heart for the community and who they are really separates them from many other businesses. You can find Tobala on Facebook, https://www.tobalacuisine.com/ or reach them at 719-301-7066. As for the Creative Collaborations group, the website can be found at creativecollaborationsco.com and FB group www.facebook.com/groups/840338926715355/ Rock City Cafe can be found on Facebook and can be reached at 719-424-7151. The Chicken Coop can be found on Facebook and reached at 719-495-3189. Collaboration is a beautiful thing, which allows everyone of us to get much further than if we went alone. I want to thank you for your support. I can be reached at tjbd0711@gmail.com, which I would love to hear feedback from you my family. I have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow me to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value I provide while continuing to make this content. Share the podcast with those that could benefit coming along the journey and looking for a tribe. Link to resource: Go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/afterdivorcegll to join the tribe and find others that have been on the same island you've found yourself on. If you're looking for coaching or need to discover a way to get from your baseline to thriving, you can reach me at scottbrandt1126@gmail.com, Facebook-Scott Brandt, Instagram-snbrandt26, or tjbd0711@gmail.com. This is an affiliate link for Single On Purpose: Redefine Everything. Find Yourself First. by John Kim. By clicking the link, you help me continue to make this content:https://amzn.to/2MvJMkp --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

How subjective are you when it comes to art and life? There is beauty in everything, and art is just one of those things that create amazing beauty which is all based on how we are viewing life. Become the master artists and create your masterpiece, which as your working on your art share it with others. You have a story to share, which you never know what an individual needs to hear. You could provide that one degree of change that the individual needs to create a springboard towards change. Let's go! This episode is powered by Pod Decks. Get your Pod Decks today at poddecks.com and use code Letsgo26 for 10% off your order! You can also use the following affiliate link https://powered-by-pod-decks.peachs.co/a/scott-brandt. Shout out to our sponsor, Jasper Axelrad with Tobala's Food for Thought. You can find them on Facebook, https://www.tobalacuisine.com/ or reach them at 719-301-7066. As for the Creative Collaborations group, here is the website creativecollaborationsco.com and FB group www.facebook.com/groups/840338926715355/ Thank you to our next sponsor, Rock City Cafe. Both Tobala and Rock City Cafe have a passion and heart for the community and who they are drives really separates them from many other businesses. Rock City Cafe can be found on Facebook and can be reached at 719-424-7151. Collaboration is a beautiful thing, which allows everyone of us to get much further than if we went alone. I want to thank you for your support. I can be reached at tjbd0711@gmail.com, which I would love to hear feedback from you my family. I have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow me to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value I provide while continuing to make this content. Share the podcast with those that could benefit coming along the journey and looking for a tribe. Link to resource: Go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/afterdivorcegll to join the tribe and find others that have been on the same island you've found yourself on. If you're looking for coaching or need to discover a way to get from your baseline to thriving, you can reach me at scottbrandt1126@gmail.com, Facebook-Scott Brandt, Instagram-snbrandt26, or tjbd0711@gmail.com. Latest blog posts https://www.buymeacoffee.com/scottbrandt26/grab-whatever-you-want --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

How are you building with your blocks that you've been given while playing in your sandbox? The amazing thing that has taken place is many of us are building from an instruction booklet that doesn't belong to us. Time to break down the structures and find our blocks that are ours to build a foundation upon. Let's go!    This episode is powered by Pod Decks. Get your Pod Decks today at poddecks.com and use code Letsgo26 for 10% off your order! You can also use the following affiliate link https://powered-by-pod-decks.peachs.co/a/scott-brandt.  Shout out to our sponsor, Jasper Axelrad with Tobala's Food for Thought. You can find them on Facebook, https://www.tobalacuisine.com/ or reach them at 719-301-7066. As for the Creative Collaborations group, here is the website creativecollaborationsco.com and FB group www.facebook.com/groups/840338926715355/  I want to thank you for your support. I can be reached at tjbd0711@gmail.com, which I would love to hear feedback from you my family. I have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow me to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value I provide while continuing to make this content.  Share the podcast with those that could benefit coming along the journey and looking for a tribe.  Link to resource:  Go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/afterdivorcegll to join the tribe and find others that have been on the same island you've found yourself on.  If you're looking for coaching or need to discover a way to get from your baseline to thriving, you can reach me at scottbrandt1126@gmail.com, Facebook-Scott Brandt, Instagram-snbrandt26, or tjbd0711@gmail.com.  Another avenue to provide support to check out my blog posts https://www.buymeacoffee.com/scottbrandt26 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

Just a little bonus with a great friend and mindset engineer, Dr. G. Have you ever looked at yourself as a battery and the energy your producing as said battery? The power of creating a tribe, with a mastermind mentality, is huge as the more batteries come together, the bigger the battery that is created.  This episode is powered by Pod Decks. Get your Pod Decks today at poddecks.com and use code Letsgo26 for 10% off your order! You can also use the following affiliate link https://powered-by-pod-decks.peachs.co/a/scott-brandt. Shout out to our sponsor, Jasper Axelrad with Tobala's Food for Thought. You can find them on Facebook, https://www.tobalacuisine.com/ or reach them at 719-301-7066. As for the Creative Collaborations group, here is the website creativecollaborationsco.com and FB group www.facebook.com/groups/840338926715355/ I want to thank you for your support. I can be reached at tjbd0711@gmail.com, which I would love to hear feedback from you my family. I have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow me to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value I provide while continuing to make this content.  Share the podcast with those that could benefit coming along the journey and looking for a tribe. Link to resource: Dr. G's podcast can be found at the following link https://open.spotify.com/show/6NUMnolwNutdQROH5a05I6?si=8p5CtmeUQ5uXvIBn-mVoQQ Go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/afterdivorcegll to join our tribe and find others that have been on the same island you've found yourself on. If you're looking for coaching or need to discover a way to get from your baseline to thriving, you can reach me at scottbrandt1126@gmail.com, Facebook, Instagram, or tjbd0711@gmail.com. Another avenue to provide support to check out my blog posts https://www.buymeacoffee.com/scottbrandt26 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

Are you living within and having a life guided by your W.H.Y? Many times we are living life on the terms of others, or believe that we are living out our W.H.Y. Along with your W.H.Y, everyone of else has a brand that individuals will use to form their opinion of who you are. We still have to be our true selves, but how do individuals feel when they are around you? This episode is powered by Pod Decks. Get your Pod Decks today at poddecks.com and use code Letsgo26 for 10% off your order! You can also use the following affiliate link https://powered-by-pod-decks.peachs.co/a/scott-brandt. Shout out to our sponsor, Jasper Axelrad with Tobala's Food for Thought. You can find them on Facebook, https://www.tobalacuisine.com/ or reach them at 719-301-7066. As for the Creative Collaborations group, here is the website creativecollaborationsco.com and FB group www.facebook.com/groups/840338926715355/ I want to thank you for your support. I can be reached at tjbd0711@gmail.com, which I would love to hear feedback from you my family. I have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow me to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value I provide while continuing to make this content. Share the podcast with those that could benefit coming along the journey and looking for a tribe. Link to resource: Go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/afterdivorcegll to join our tribe and find others that have been on the same island you've found yourself on. If you're looking for coaching or need to discover a way to get from your baseline to thriving, you can reach me at scottbrandt1126@gmail.com, Facebook, Instagram, or tjbd0711@gmail.com. Another avenue to provide support to check out my blog posts https://www.buymeacoffee.com/scottbrandt26 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

Pivots can be a surprising action that you may not have been ready for. How often do you fight trying to stay the course, when a little pivot could be all that you need? Sometimes change can be scary, but change is the main consistent in our lives. With change you also need to look at the relationship with self. This episode is powered by Pod Decks. Get your Pod Decks today at poddecks.com and use code Letsgo26 for 10% off your order! You can also use the following affiliate link https://powered-by-pod-decks.peachs.co/a/scott-brandt. Shout out to our sponsor, Jasper Axelrad and Tobala Cuisine, which is a local food truck within Colorado Springs. She is making a pivot for the wintertime with Tobala's Food for Thought. You can find them on Facebook, https://www.tobalacuisine.com/ or reach them at 719-301-7066. As for the Creative Collaborations group, here is the website creativecollaborationsco.com and FB group www.facebook.com/groups/840338926715355/ I want to thank you for your support. I can be reached at tjbd0711@gmail.com, which I would love to hear feedback from you my family. I have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow me to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value I provide while continuing to make this content. Share the podcast with those that could benefit coming along the journey and looking for a tribe. Link to resource: Go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/afterdivorcegll to join our tribe and find others that have been on the same island you've found yourself on. If you're looking for coaching or need to discover a way to get from your base line to thriving, you can reach me at scottbrandt1126@gmail.com, Facebook, Instagram, or tjbd0711@gmail.com. Another avenue to provide support to check out my blog posts https://www.buymeacoffee.com/scottbrandt26 This is an affiliate link for Becoming Supernatural: How Common People Are Doing the Uncommon by Dr. Joe Dispenza. By clicking the link, you help us continue to make this content: https://amzn.to/3pUjruA --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

This episode is powered by Pod Decks. Get your Pod Decks today at poddecks.com and use code Letsgo26 for 10% off your order! You can also use the following affiliate link https://powered-by-pod-decks.peachs.co/a/scott-brandt. Shout out to our sponsor, Jasper Axelrad and Tobala Cuisine, which is a local food truck within Colorado Springs. She is making a pivot for the wintertime with Tobala's Food for Thought. You can find them on Facebook, https://www.tobalacuisine.com/ or reach them at 719-301-7066. How often have you experienced having thoughts and than other things start to occur that align with your thoughts? Your mind is a powerful tool that you possess, but it can become overwhelming if you aren't aware. Looking long and hard behind the curtain is a task that must occur to change how you are tacking your thoughs. Miriam and I want to thank you for your support. You can reach us at tjbd0711@gmail.com, which we would love to hear feedback from you our family. We have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow us to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value we provide while continuing to make this content. Share the podcast with those that could benefit having us along their journey and looking for a tribe. Link to resource: Go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/afterdivorcegll to join our tribe and find others that have been on the same island you've found yourself on. If you're looking for coaching or need to discover a way to get from your base line to thriving, you can reach out to Scott at scottbrandt1126@gmail.com, Facebook, Instagram, or tjbd0711@gmail.com. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

This episode is powered by Pod Decks. Get your Pod Decks today at poddecks.com and use code Letsgo26 for 10% off your order! You can also use the following affiliate link https://powered-by-pod-decks.peachs.co/a/scott-brandt. Shout out to our sponsor, Jasper Axelrad and Tobala Cuisine, which is a local food truck within Colorado Springs. She is making a pivot for the wintertime with Tobala's Food for Thought. You can find them on Facebook, https://www.tobalacuisine.com/, or reach them at 719-301-7066. We all have our own experiences and lenses through which we view life. Are you honoring those experiences to see how you can create more growth and progress for yourself as an individual? Remember we all have our lenses which we are looking through, and we must take the time to step around to see how others are viewing life. Miriam and I want to thank you for your support. You can reach us at tjbd0711@gmail.com, which we would love to hear feedback from you our family. We have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow us to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value we provide while continuing to make this content. Share the podcast with those that could benefit having us along their journey and looking for a tribe. Link to resource: Go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/afterdivorcegll to join our tribe and find others that have been on the same island you've found yourself on. If you're looking for coaching or need to discover a way to get from your base line to thriving, you can reach out to Scott at scottbrandt1126@gmail.com, Facebook, Instagram, or tjbd0711@gmail.com. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

This episode is powered by Pod Decks. Get your Pod Decks today at poddecks.com and use code Letsgo26 for 10% off your order! You can also use the following affiliate link https://powered-by-pod-decks.peachs.co/a/scott-brandt. Shout out to our sponsor, Jasper Axelrad and Tobala Cuisine, which is a local food truck within Colorado Springs. She is making a pivot for the wintertime. You can find them on Facebook, https://www.tobalacuisine.com/, or reach them at 719-301-7066. This was a great episode where I reflect on my journey and the shifts that have taken place. You never know what will arise from a conversation with others. Your journey is your journey, which includes challenges to create growth and your wins. There were some great conversations that took place with the audience watching the livestream. Miriam and I want to thank you for your support. You can reach us at tjbd0711@gmail.com, which we would love to hear feedback from you our family. We have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow us to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value we provide while continuing to make this content. Share the podcast with those that could benefit having us along their journey and looking for a tribe. Link to resource: Go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/afterdivorcegll to join our tribe and find others that have been on the same island you've found yourself on. If you're looking for coaching or need to discover a way to get from base line to thriving, you can reach out to Scott at scottbrandt1126@gmail.com, Facebook, Instagram, or tjbd0711@gmail.com. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

This episode is powered by Pod Decks. Get your Pod Decks today at poddecks.com and use code Letsgo26 for 10% off your order! You can also use the following affiliate link https://powered-by-pod-decks.peachs.co/a/scott-brandt. Shout out to our sponsor, Tobala Cuisine, which is a local food truck within Colorado Springs. Jasper Axelrad runs an outstanding food truck and her staff is top notch. You can find them on Facebook, https://www.tobalacuisine.com/, or reach them at 719-301-7066. How often have you wanted to accomplish something, but it comes across your lap in a way that doesn't match you vision? You have t look at every opportunity and consider if regret will occur if you don't take advantage of the given opportunity. Don't get to the end of life and have regrets you have to face for not doing what you wanted. You can reach us at tjbd0711@gmail.com, which we would love to hear feedback from you our family. We have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow us to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value we provide while continuing to make this content. Share the podcast with those that could benefit having us along their journey and looking for a tribe. Link to resource: Go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/afterdivorcegll to join our tribe and find others that have been on the same island you've found yourself on. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

This episode is powered by Pod Decks. Get your Pod Decks today at poddecks.com and use code Letsgo26 for 10% off your order! You can also use the following affiliate link https://powered-by-pod-decks.peachs.co/a/scott-brandt.  Shout out to our sponsor, Tobala Cuisine, which is a local food truck within Colorado Springs. Jasper Axelrad runs an outstanding food truck and her staff is top notch. You can find them on Facebook, https://www.tobalacuisine.com/, or reach them at 719-301-7066.     Memories can hold a unique part within our lives. We have to understand that memories are part of the journey, which occurred at one point of the journey for one reason or another. Miriam shares what she is starting to see when looking at past memories, along with how she views them. We also discuss three small important things to keep in mind going into the next relationship regardless the status of the relationship.  You can reach us at tjbd0711@gmail.com, which we would love to hear feedback from you our family.  We have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow us to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value we provide while continuing to make this content.  Share the podcast with those that could benefit having us along their journey and looking for a tribe.  Link to resource:   Go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/afterdivorcegll to join our tribe and find others that have been on the same island you've found yourself on.  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

This episode is powered by Pod Decks. Get your Pod Decks today at poddecks.com and use code Letsgo26 for 10% off your order! You can also use the following affiliate link https://powered-by-pod-decks.peachs.co/a/scott-brandt. Shout out to our sponsor, Tobala Cuisine, which is a local food truck within Colorado Springs. Jasper Axelrad runs an outstanding food truck and her staff is top notch. You can find them on Facebook, https://www.tobalacuisine.com/, or reach them at 719-301-7066. The power of your thoughts and stacking those thoughts. Were the focus goes, the energy flows. Are you always finding the negative in everything or are you able to find the positive even if it seems like it's not there? You can reach us at tjbd0711@gmail.com, which we would love to hear feedback from you our family. We have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow us to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value we provide while continuing to make this content. Share the podcast with those that could benefit having us along their journey and looking for a tribe Link to resource: Go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/afterdivorcegll to join our tribe and find others that have been on the same island you've found yourself on. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

This episode is powered by Pod Decks. Get your Pod Decks today at poddecks.com and use code Letsgo26 for 10% off your order! You can also use the following affiliate link https://powered-by-pod-decks.peachs.co/a/scott-brandt.   Shout out to our sponsor, Tobala Cuisine, which is a local food truck within Colorado Springs. Jasper Axelrad runs an outstanding food truck and her staff is top notch. You can find them on Facebook, https://www.tobalacuisine.com/, or reach them at 719-301-7066.   Miriam and I want to thank everyone for your support. It's always a great thing to reflect on what has taken place to see if there is a chance to grow or a lesson that wasn't visible during the time. Miriam and I reflect on the last six months, while discussing things not well known by many. It was interesting to get Garrett's perspective on the live stream we accomplished with the podcast, as he stated we touched on some intense aspects. We don't hold back as we want to be transparent and vulnerable with you are family.  You can reach us at tjbd0711@gmail.com, which we would love to hear feedback from you our family.  We have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow us to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value we provide while continuing to make this content.  Share the podcast with those that could benefit having us along their journey and looking for a tribe.  Let's go!   Link to resource:   Go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/afterdivorcegll to join our tribe and find others that have been on the same island you've found yourself on. Miriam's episode on Danielle McCarthy's podcast https://open.spotify.com/episode/0dXdWX8EZfUuCJ727tAORk?si=tQowoa4LQpKeqXXFF3SrDg --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

This episode is powered by Pod Decks. Get your Pod Decks today at poddecks.com and use code Letsgo26 for 10% off your order! You can also use the following affiliate link https://powered-by-pod-decks.peachs.co/a/scott-brandt. Shout out to our newest sponsor, Tobala Cuisine, which is a local food truck within Colorado Springs. Jasper Axelrad runs an outstanding food truck and her staff is top notch. You can find them on Facebook, https://www.tobalacuisine.com/, or reach them at 719-301-7066. It's interesting to see how much of what we need to do occurs on the inside.  We have been programmed that we need to change the outside world to change our inside, but it has to occur in reverse.  Are you at a place that you're able to give yourself space and trust yourself, or is there more work that you have to accomplish?  You can't compare yourself to others and must understand that your healing occurs at it's own pace, Miriam and I want to thank everyone for your support.  You can reach us at tjbd0711@gmail.com and we would love to hear from our family.  We have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow us to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value we provide while continuing to make this content.  Share the podcast with those that could benefit having us along their journey and looking for a tribe.  Let's go! Link to resource: Go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/afterdivorcegll to join our tribe and find others that have been on the same island you've found yourself on. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

This episode is powered by Pod Decks. Get your Pod Decks today at poddecks.com and use code Letsgo26 for 10% off your order! You can also use the following affiliate link https://powered-by-pod-decks.peachs.co/a/scott-brandt. Shout out to our newest sponsor, Tobala Mexican Cuisine, which is a local food truck within Colorado Springs. Jasper runs an outstanding food truck and her staff is top notch. You can find them on Facebook, https://www.tobalacuisine.com/, or reach them at 719-301-7066. It's always a great time to have others come onto the show to share their perspective for the given topic. I had the pleasure to co-host on Garrett's podcast, so it was great to have him fill in for Miriam. The power of our mindset is a beautiful thing to behold, and Garrett provides great insight from his life and his journey as a mindset coach. This is an affiliate link for Think Like A Monk: Train Your Mind for Peace and Purpose Everyday by Jay Shetty. By clicking the link, you help us continue to make this content:https://amzn.to/34THVMK This is an affiliate link for Moonshots: Creating a World of Abundance by Naveen Jain. By clicking the link, you help us continue to make this content:https://amzn.to/2TRv7jL Garrett's podcast can be found at the following link:https://open.spotify.com/show/6NUMnolwNutdQROH5a05I6?si=2ZpDfa2kSEKcifO0jpQy-w Danielle's podcast can be found at the following link: https://open.spotify.com/show/7hHejI8bHu4jKfuy9HmUHV?si=8YSMdiEnTwC7PDACUFe6hg Miriam and I want to thank everyone for your support. You can reach us at tjbd0711@gmail.com and we would love to hear your feedback on the show. We hit our 250 listens goal, so now we are waiting for the 10th family member to provide us feedback no matter good, bad, or indifferent and as a thank you we will send a book that has impacted us during our journey. We have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow us to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value we provide while continuing to make this content. We would greatly appreciate the support by reviewing, liking, sharing, and subscribing to the podcast. Let's go! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

This episode is powered by Pod Decks. Get your Pod Decks today at poddecks.com and use code Letsgo26 for 10% off your order! You can also use the following affiliate link https://powered-by-pod-decks.peachs.co/a/scott-brandt. Shout out to our newest sponsor, Tobala Mexican Cuisine, which is a local food truck within Colorado Springs. Jasper runs an outstanding food truck and her staff is top notch. You can find them on Facebook, https://www.tobalacuisine.com/, or reach them at 719-301-7066. Life will always provide the opportunity to learn from a given situation. If you don't learn the first time, the lesson will continue to show up. Miriam speaks about a situation that provided a major lesson for her life, while knowing that growth is a continual process. We discuss what we have learned and worked on that will come into the next relationship. As we can at times, we end the show on some random information that is vital to understand as we need to start changing paradigms. Miriam and I want to thank everyone for your support. You can reach us at tjbd0711@gmail.com and we would love to hear your feedback on the show. We hit our 250 listens goal, so now we are waiting for the 10th family member to provide us feedback no matter good, bad, or indifferent and as a thank you we will send a book that has impacted us during our journey. We have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow us to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value we provide while continuing to make this content. We would greatly appreciate the support by reviewing, liking, sharing, and subscribing to the podcast. Let's go! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

This episode is powered by Pod Decks. Get your Pod Decks today at poddecks.com and use code Letsgo26 for 10% off your order! There are times that the little things get overlooked, which may need your attention. Sometimes an outside perspective is what's needed to provide fuel to the flickering flame that needs to be lite. Our special co-host, Lauren Chessmore with Clarity for Your Chaos, provides some great nuggets to consider and provides insight into her passion focused upon professional organization. This topic regarding organization can at times get paced on the backburner when it could be the action that needs to occur in your life. If you would like to reach out to Lauren, she can be contacted through several different channels: 719-660-0678, Instagram-clarity4yourchaos, Facebook-clarity for your chaos, e-mail: clarity4yourchaos@gmail.com, and www.clarityforyourchaos.com This is an affiliate link for Married to Distraction: How to Restore Intimacy and Strengthen Your Partnership in an Age of Interruption by Edward M. Hallowell. By clicking the link, you help us continue to make this content:https://amzn.to/37ip13R Miriam and I want to thank everyone for your support. You can reach us at tjbd0711@gmail.com and we would love to hear your feedback on the show. We hit our 250 listens goal, so now we are waiting for the 10th family member to provide us feedback no matter good, bad, or indifferent and as a thank you send a book that has impacted us during our journey. We have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow us to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value we provide while continuing to make this content. We would greatly appreciate the support by reviewing, liking, sharing, and subscribing to the podcast. Let's go! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

This episode is powered by Pod Decks. Get your Pod Decks today at poddecks.com and use code Letsgo26 for 10% off your order! Your perspective is a powerful force. So what thoughts are you stacking? This comes from Tim Storey that many sit in their setback, than start to settle in their setback (you create a discount version of yourself at this stage, which leads to cementing yourself in your setback. Titus Kleppinger shared a very powerful perspective regarding his journey and I believe this is one that many don't consider. Grateful for the relationships we are developing and allowing others to share and be vulnerable. If you would like to contact Titus, he following are the ways to reach him: theglowcenter.com, titus@theglowcenter.com, and by phone at 719-229-1110. Miriam and I want to thank everyone for your support. You can reach us at tjbd0711@gmail.com and we would love to hear your feedback on the show. We're excited for our upcoming 6 week workshop starting on 17 Oct. If you feel you're on a island that you can't get off or no one else has been on, we're excited to offer an intimate setting to help you overcome the mental barriers holding you back. To register, click on the following link and you only need to purchase one ticket for the entire workshop https://www.eventbrite.com/e/after-divorce-catalyst-workshop-tickets-122097309339 We have hit over 250 listens, so now we are waiting for the 10th family member to provide us feedback no matter good, bad, or indifferent and as a thank you send a book that has impacted us during our journey. We have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow us to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value we provide while continuing to make this content. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

This episode is powered by Pod Decks. Get your Pod Decks today at poddecks.com and use code Letsgo26 for 10% off your order! When you hear of attraction vs. chasing, what comes to mind? We must be mindful of what trouble spots we may have had, and look at ways to improve. Within this episode, we discuss seven things to consider when being single, and possibly even while in a relationship. Always look for ways to create improvement within your life. Miriam and I want to thank everyone for your support. You can reach us at tjbd0711@gmail.com and we would love to hear your feedback on the show. We're excited for our upcoming 6 week workshop starting on 17 Oct. If you feel you're on a island that you can't get off or no one else has been on, we're excited to offer an intimate setting to help you overcome the mental barriers holding you back. To register, click on the following link and you only need to purchase one ticket for the entire workshop https://www.eventbrite.com/e/after-divorce-catalyst-workshop-tickets-122097309339 We have hit over 250 listens, so now we are waiting for the 10th family member to provide us feedback no matter good, bad, or indifferent and as a thank you send a book that has impacted us during our journey. We have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow us to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value we provide while continuing to make this content. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

It's a beautiful thing to sit and speak with others. How often are you quick to judge someone else because they are not the typical individual you interact with? I had an enjoyable time speaking with Flip, who runs the Podcast called WEYT. We spoke on his journey beyond divorce along with some in-depth items dealing with mindset. I would highly suggest that as an individual, speak with a stranger to find out what they dream about and what makes them unique. Flip's social media and podcast can be found at the following locations: Ig: @weytshow Fb: WEYT YouTube: WEYT Show Podcast - Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/weyt/id1517547847?uo=4 Google - https://www.google.com/podcasts?feed=aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy8yMjEyYjgwNC9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw== Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/1dWxLcxWGuz9qoKnY7sSRf Anchor - https://anchor.fm/weyt Overcast - https://overcast.fm/itunes1517547847 Pocket Cast - https://pca.st/9qdnlxfr Breaker - https://www.breaker.audio/weyt Radio Public - https://radiopublic.com/weyt-WYKLOd This is the website where I do my #Wellness #coaching. Check it out. I'd love to hear from you. https://www.sweatnationworld.com/weyt Miriam and I want to thank everyone for your support. You can reach us at tjbd0711@gmail.com and we would love to hear your feedback on the show. We're excited for our upcoming 6 week workshop starting on 17 Oct. If you feel you're on a island that you can't get off or no one else has been on, we're excited to offer an intimate setting to help you overcome the mental barriers holding you back. To register, click on the following link and you only need to purchase one ticket for the entire workshop https://www.eventbrite.com/e/after-divorce-catalyst-workshop-tickets-122097309339 We have hit over 250 listens, so now we are waiting for the 10th family member to provide us feedback no matter good, bad, or indifferent and as a thank you send a book that has impacted us during our journey. We have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow us to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value we provide while continuing to make this content. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

This episode is powered by Pod Decks. Get your Pod Decks today at poddecks.com and use code Letsgo26 for 10% off your order! This episode was produced after a big presentation at 1,000,000 Cups to share our journey, the podcast, and the workshop starting 17 Oct.  You have to take the time to celebrate the wins no matter how big or small.  As a result of being on a high from speaking, we decided to draw a card from the Pod Decks Episode Deck and discuss five things we're excited about.  The progression taking place for our journey is exciting and we are grateful to share it with you our family.  It was special to hear others open up about their experience with divorce, and was eye opening to see how individuals will open up and be vulnerable when shown it's ok.  On a side note, Miriam may or may not have compared her feeling to being on a certain drug.  Continue to show up and have fun.   This is an affiliate link for The Buddha and The Badass by Vishen Lakhiani. By clicking the link, you help us continue to make this content: https://amzn.to/3mOXyff Miriam and I want to thank everyone for your support. You can reach us at tjbd0711@gmail.com and we would love to hear your feedback on the show. We have hit over 250 listens, so now we are waiting for the 10th family member to provide us feedback no matter good, bad, or indifferent and as a thank you send a book that has impacted us during our journey. We have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow us to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value we provide while continuing to make this content. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

This episode is Powered by Pod Decks. Get your Pod Decks today at poddecks.com and use code Letsgo26 for 10% off your order! Sometimes we can get wrapped in with a given situation that we may forget whom else gets effected by our decisions. The forgotten middle individual is our kids, which at times how they are felling and their thoughts are an after thought. Imagine what it would be like for you to experience rapid change with little to no answers or others not considering you as an individual. As adults, we have to be mindful of our actions and words spoken during the challenging time of the journey beyond divorce. It takes work and dedication to help the children traverse a situation that many times ends with them blaming themselves. This is an affiliate link for the Tascam Headphones. By clicking the link, you help us continue to make this content: https://amzn.to/2HgfvmT Miriam and I want to thank everyone for your support. You can reach us at tjbd0711@gmail.com and we would love to hear your feedback on the show. Once we hit 250 listens, we will provide a book that has helped us on our journey to the 10th family member that provides us feedback no matter good, bad, or indifferent. We have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow us to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value we provide while continuing to make this content. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

Sometimes we have to discuss a topic that many may want to run from. You may look back at your past relationships and sex may have been a point of friction. Everyone possesses a sex language, just like a love language. If you understand yourself better when it comes to sex, you have the ability to express what you desire or need. Understanding what language your partner speaks also provides another tool to enhance your relationship. Sex is a beautiful thing and a great way to deepen a relationship. Just another topic within the communication spectrum. This is an affiliate link for the Blue Yeti Mic. By clicking the link, you help us continue to make this content: https://amzn.to/3ivmINL   Erotic blueprint quiz can be found at the following site: https://missjaiya.com/ Miriam and I want to thank everyone for your support. You can reach us at tjbd0711@gmail.com and we would love to hear your feedback on the show. Once we hit 250 listens, we will provide a book that has helped us on our journey to the 10th family member that provides us feedback no matter good, bad, or indifferent. We have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow us to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value we provide while continuing to make this content. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

How many of you get upset and don't embrace the challenges present on your journey? Understand the challenges are there to assist in creating growth and provide lessons to learn from. It's truly exciting to watch the growth of others and hearing about the lessons being learned. Miriam shares her outlook for the new book that has just be opened as a result of her divorce finalizing. We never know what may come out o a situation, but once through the storm we can start looking back to see what has come into our lives as a result of the storm we just went through. Gratitude is very powerful and is uniquely presented to us when we least expect it at times. Miriam and I want to thank everyone for your support. You can reach us at tjbd0711@gmail.com and we would love to hear your feedback on the show. We have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow us to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value we provide. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

Life can be full of twists and turns, but one consistent is the aspect of competition whether that be with ourselves or someone else. Sometimes we have to keep score, while other times call for collaboration to occur. A relationship is a place that requires collaboration instead of competition, but often to we keep a mental track of what as taken place to hold it over the head of the other person? If score is goin to be kept, create a gratitude list for what the other person brings to the table. It's all about a change in perspective. Miriam and I want to thank everyone for your support. You can reach us at tjbd0711@gmail.com and we would love to hear your feedback on the show. We have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow us to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value we provide. Here is the link for our friend Garrett Goggans's podcast, that Miriam and I had the pleasure of being special co-host on: https://anchor.fm/w-garrett-goggans/episodes/Finding-Success-After-Divorce-eiir30. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

We need to start getting real and showing up as our true selves. Miriam shares the joy of wanting the chapter to be closed, but life decides to give her a test. She spoke of the power of stepping back and understanding that things happen when it's meant to happen. Sometimes we have to look at things differently and consider if our actions are truly giving us what we want or holding us back. Miriam and I want to thank everyone for your support. You can reach us at tjbd0711@gmail.com and we have also created the ability for you our family to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support . Also, here is a link for another podcast that our friend Garrett Goggans hosts that we had the pleasure of being special co-host on https://anchor.fm/w-garrett-goggans/episodes/Finding-Success-After-Divorce-eiir30. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

How often do you keep reflecting upon a certain topic and don't understand why it keeps surfacing? This week's episode was a topic that Scott has been juggling for a couple weeks. How many of you feel that you must lean on other things or individuals to feel completed? This is a major paradigm shift that must take place to find true happiness. We must understand that we complete ourselves, while others are meant to compliment us. If we can adjust our thinking and hold onto this perspective, Scott believes that relationships would be less stressed induced. This is a step that is enhanced by taking on the journey of personal development. Miriam and I want to thank everyone for your support. You can reach us at tjbd0711@gmail.com and we would love to hear your feedback on the show. We have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow us to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value we provide. Garrett's podcast link https://anchor.fm/w-garrett-goggans/episodes/How-Thoughts-Become-Things-ehlas6 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

We have to understand that stories have been told to us that really effects how we handle a situation. Miriam expressed that she felt bad for not feeling bad when the year anniversary arrived when her ex decided to walk away. That speaks volumes to just what has been programmed into our belief systems. It's ok to be ok, as we have to embrace our feelings and emotions and understand that each of us deal with a situation differently. Thank you Paul for being our special co-host for the episode while Scott was out for other obligations. We truly enjoy being able to spotlight others and their experience with the journey beyond divorce. Miriam and I want to thank everyone for your support. If there is anything that you as our audience would like to discuss or have us speak on or provide feedback on the show, we can be reached through e-mail at tjbd0711@gmail.com. We have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow us to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value we provide. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

How many of you have started to see that a lot of what needs to take place is an inside job that we must accomplish? We can find others that inspire us, but we must complete the work for change to occur. The same can be said for our mindset. We have programming that we must look at from a different angle and see if it is a benefit for us. You either have a fixed or a growth mindset, but you get to decide what type of mindset you possess. You're either growing or dying. Miriam and I want to thank everyone for your support. If there is anything that you as our audience would like to discuss, have us speak on, or provide feedback on the show, we can be reached through e-mail at tjbd0711@gmail.com. We have also created the ability for you, our family, to provide a monthly contribution at the following link https://anchor.fm/beyond-divorce-journey/support. The monthly contribution would allow us to increase the production of the show and continue to enhance the value we provide. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

How often does a situation come to an end, but you feel there is still something missing? Many times we try to look outward from ourselves hoping to find what we need to fill a hole. Closure is an action that can be difficult to achieve as it's an act that we must give ourselves. It's interesting to start seeing how many actions are an inside job we must provide to ourselves. You may not be at the point of getting closure, which is ok. Closure is a process that each of us must go through until we are ready to go inward and accept what we need. As Miriam states "give yourself grace" and continue on your journey at your pace. Respect the journey as it will help promote growth but you must to the work necessary to receive your growth. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

Sometimes you have to come to the table and look in the mirror, which can be a difficult task. A deep dive may need to take place, or a situation arise, to start getting to the core. Miriam gets raw and vulnerable within the episode, which she understands someone else may be facing a similar situation. We have to be willing to face difficulties to help promote growth, but it may take finding someone else to push us to face the difficulties. We recently have setup the ability for you to provide a monthly contribution, which allows us to continue to provide value to you, our audience and family. You can reach out to us at tjbd0711@gmail.com. Thank you for your support and allowing us to walk with you on your journey. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

How often have you found yourself fighting against a paradigm that was programmed into your mind at an early age? What comes to your thoughts when you hear the term selfish and forgiveness? Being selfish has always been frowned upon, but if you put yourself on the back burner, how can you pour into others? We have to adjust our thinking with the term selfish. As for forgiveness, we have to start with ourselves to be whole and have the ability to forgive the other party. Forgiveness starts with understanding that we have a responsibility for an action taking place. These are two tough ideas to focus upon, but truly a game changer when we can shift our thinking. Thank you to our special co-host, Patrick Murakami, for joining us and sharing his perspective. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

Communication is a foundational brick for a highly effective relationship. But how often do we take the time to actually listen to the other person, and see where they are coming from? Love languages are an aspect that many times is overlooked, or we try to project what speaks to us onto others. How well do you know yourself so that you can express what you desire? How often do you take the time to figure out what makes the other individual light up and feel loved or appreciated? Just another part of the journey to find out who you are and what can be strengthened going forward. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

How many of you have certain topics that are tough to speak on or hear spoken about? I've heard it spoken by Jim Kwik that what you resist will persist in showing up. Divorce is tough to navigate, and than you throw the topic of money on top of everything else, you may become overwhelmed. Money is a topic many would rather not speak on because there is a weird relationship between humans and money. Consider your mindset with money and ask yourself why you may have certain beliefs towards money. Thank you to our special co-host, Danielle McCarthy, and the outlook she brings towards the idea of money. The divorce process presents an opportunity to accomplish a deep dive on your beliefs and the stories you tell yourself. If you would like to speak with Danielle, you can reach her at damccarthyfr@gmail.com. Embrace the journey and love yourself. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

Think about all the big situations in life and how often you have to figure things out on the fly. If only we had a rulebook that would provide clarity on the situation. But than how fun would that be if we had to live by a rulebook. Miriam and I speak on the ability to start creating your own rulebook while traveling on your journey. Maybe you settled and have regrets of the actions taken, but in your newest chapter of life you get to work to create the ending you've thought about. Remember no one knows everything, but listen and gather the tools that will benefit you on your journey. Love the process and the results will come. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support

Fear is a powerful emotion, but we have to be careful of the potential control within our lives. You get to choose if you're going to run or embrace the fear, but how do you want to stack your actions? Fear will always be present, so let's start embracing the fear. We are all on a journey experiencing different emotions, but coming together can ease the journey of pushing the boulder uphill. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneybeyonddivorce/support