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Therapy tools to change your life. Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

Elizabeth Choate, MS, LMFT


    • Dec 10, 2023 LATEST EPISODE
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    • 24m AVG DURATION
    • 193 EPISODES


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    Why did God put me with a narcissist?!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2023 14:06


    How and why we end up in a toxic relationship, from a spiritual perspective.

    Listener Question: What is BPD and how can I help my friend?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2023 26:26


    A listener asks about Borderline Personality Disorder, what is it, do I have it, and how to support someone who has it.

    Online Dating Safety For Teens

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2023 13:02


    Have fun & don't get kidnapped!

    "Janie's Story"

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2023 41:43


    A listener reached out with King Baby syndrome.

    Instruction Manual For Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2023 2:39


    Grab yours today on Amazon. Instruction Manual For Life: Be The Best Version of You (Instruction Manual For Life | Module I) https://a.co/d/eU6B5li

    Journaling: How to do it and why you should.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2023 19:31


    Be sure to subscribe to this podcast, subscribers get great perks! Subscribe https://youtube.com/@lizzchoate Sign up for my newsletter: https://www.elizabethlmft.org/

    Detoxify: Navigating Toxic Relationships and Building Healthy Boundaries

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2023 5:48


    Tune in to this eye-opening episode of "Detoxify" to learn how setting boundaries can be an act of self-care and self-preservation. Gain the confidence and tools you need to protect your well-being, cultivate healthier relationships, and create a life free from the toxic influences that hinder your personal growth. Remember, you deserve to be surrounded by people who respect and honor your boundaries. Join me as I navigate the path to healthier connections and embark on the journey of building a life filled with positivity, self-worth, and emotional well-being.

    Letting go is the antidote.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2023 12:25


    Positive Detachment and letting go will help you break the trauma bond.

    Manipulation

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2023 4:04


    Direct and by proxy manipulation are two of many ways others try to change your mind. Knowledge is power.

    Timeline of your life

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2023 0:48


    Learn how to identify what shaped you and what caused those negative beliefs about yourself through the timeline exercise.

    Let's talk on Tik Tok

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2023 1:19


    Your Therapy Tools is on Tik Tok now. I'm excited to talk with you! Find me on tik tok: @lizziechoate3

    Feeling Suicidal ? Take a stick.

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2022 7:41


    The holidays are when suicide awareness should be the highest! If you're suicidal, reach out. You're not alone!! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    Recap of tools to prepare you for power phrases

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2022 25:27


    This episode will help you prepare for an upcoming episode with special guest Dan O'Connor, who will teach us power phrases that will give you back your voice!! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    Exciting Announcement!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2022 2:38


    In an upcoming episode, Dan O'Connor will be joining me to teach us power phrases to use with toxic people. Get ready to take your power back!! Let me know what you'd like for me to ask Dan about: how to respond to gaslighters, what to say to a manipulator, a bullie, a narcissist. Send questions to me here or at elizabethlmft@outlook.com or https://elizabethlmft.org and I promise to keep you anonymous. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    Living Your Values: Communication

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2022 22:06


    Grab your notebook!! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    Why DBT? A Life Worth Living!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2022 3:20


    What does your life look like now? Would you like to improve it? Check out DBT, it is the

    Couple's Quick Tip

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2022 1:35


    Relationship gratitude & making your partner feel loved. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    Values Exploration

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2022 21:03


    Explore values and learn to live your values. Grab your notebook

    Couples/ Marriage: The Four Horsemen

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 7, 2022 17:41


    Is your relationship doomed or can it be healed? Let's start this journey by discussing the four Horsemen of the apocalypse of relationships. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    Why Reframe? Because. . . SCIENCE!!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2022 52:10


    The science behind your thoughts, words, energy, heart, and rewiring your brain to go forward to live out loud and find happiness. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    Anger Management

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 27, 2022 9:33


    Do you have an issue with anger? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    Breaking the trauma bond & Tips on identifying green flags in men.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2022 40:37


    Learn how to break the trauma bonds and how to identify a healthy man when dating. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    Stages of Trauma Bonding & Emasculated Men

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2022 48:54


    Understanding how trauma bonding occurs and effects you. What is an Emasculated man? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    Coping With An Alcoholic

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2022 33:05


    Tips to take care of YOU when you love an alcoholic. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    Is He/She an alcoholic?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2022 44:48


    Alcoholism and self-care for their caretakers. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    Grief Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2022 33:13


    More Information on grief Work. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    Grief Work Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2022 21:22


    Tools and tips to help you with grief when you've lost someone. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    Alcoholic Partner? Stop Caretaking!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2022 51:07


    Information on self-care for those who live with an alcoholic. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    Hierarchy Of Needs

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2022 13:48


    Abraham Maslow's Hierarchy of needs and how it may apply to you. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    STRESS

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2022 57:05


    How STRESS effects your health and what you can do to balance it better. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

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    DBT 22: A.H. and Emotions

    Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2022 44:05


    Breakdown of emotions and a challenge to take a break from your addiction. Maybe you're addicted to people, alcohol, porn, drugs, whatever it is, prove to yourself that you can take your power back! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    Codependency Recap

    Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2022 17:50


    Shine a bright, healing light on your darkness to become whole from within. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    DBT 21 ROUTINE& MYTHS

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2022 33:46


    Building a satisfying life with routine, and challenging myths that hold you back. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    DBT 20 O2E Deeper Dive

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2022 49:30


    This episode breaks down O2E in more detail. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    DBT 19 Observe & Describe

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2022 24:21


    Learn to observe & Describe with your five senses and wise mind. This helps with staying connected rather than detached from your world. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    DBT 18 NJS & OM

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2022 39:25


    Sticky Judgments cause suffering and non-helpful behaviors to linger. Learn how to check yourself and squash that negative filter. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    Self-Care Recap/Check In

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2022 35:00


    How is your self-care? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    Binge Eating 2: Mindful Eating

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2022 37:10


    This is DBT opposite action using mindfulness to manage bingeing. Dr. Albers has incredible tools that flow with DBT. You can access her workbooks and tools at https://eatingmindfully.com/motivation --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    Binge Eating

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2022 24:59


    What is binge Eating and how can you get control back? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    DBT 17 EA, GY, WILLINGNESS

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2022 30:26


    Everyday acceptance, grounding yourself, and willingness as an opposite action. Open those clenched fists to reduce anger. Never forget, You're beautiful like YOU! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    DBT 16 ASK/SAY NO [INTENSITY] & MAKE UP/ BREAK UP

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2022 34:51


    How intensely should we ask for what we want or say No to people? Tools for making up or breaking up. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    DBT GIVE

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2022 9:11


    Gentle, Interested, Validate, Easy Manner. G.I.V.E. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    DBT 14 Let's Review

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2022 46:28


    A recap of key components from Marsha Linehan's DBT workbook. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    DBT XIII COGNITIVE MODIFICATION

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2022 42:13


    Using DBT tools to reframe negative automatic thoughts. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    DBT XII: TRUST & Making Friends

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2022 17:02


    Work smarter, not harder with Wise Mind as you make new friends and learn to trust! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    DBT XI: BO, BM, FAST, VALUES

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2022 37:42


    Grab your notebook and dive into powerful tools for positive change! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    DBT X: STOP

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2022 8:12


    Learn how to STOP to avoid escalation and crisis. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    Narcissists and Your DBT tools.

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2022 50:16


    This episode by special request! Learn to apply your DBT tools when dealing with or healing from an abusive relationship with a Narcissist. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    DBT IX: BPE, ABC, SLEEP

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2022 34:57


    Grab your notebook! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    Developmental Phases and Your Teen

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2022 27:39


    Education on milestones children need to reach to become healthy, functioning adults. Emphasis on teens. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

    DBT VIII Core Beliefs, O2E, and Radical Acceptance

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2022 41:56


    Grab your notebook!! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lizzie-choate/support

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