Podcasts about Disenfranchised grief

In this episode of The Broken Pack: Stories of Sibling Loss, Dr. Angela Dean talks with surviving sibling Dr. Ken Doka, the grief scholar who coined the term disenfranchised grief. Ken is Frank and Dot's kid brother. His brother Frank, thirteen years older, died a few years ago after an illness. He spoke about the relationship of his living sister Dot, who helped raise him.Together Dr. Doka and Dr. Dean talk about why the sibling bond is so often overlooked, how grievers process loss in different and equally valid ways, and what it means to enfranchise your own grief when no one around you names it.In this episode you will:Hear how Dr. Doka came to study grief, and his own experience of losing his brother Frank.Learn why the sibling bond is the longest relationship most people have, and why it is so often disenfranchised.Learn the difference between instrumental, intuitive, and dissonant grieving, and why no single style is the right one.Be inspired to enfranchise your own grief, create your own ritual, and find a grief professional who actually fits.Connect with Dr. Ken Doka:Kenneth Doka at TAPS: https://www.taps.org/kennethdokaHospice Foundation of America: https://www.hospicefoundation.orgContent warning: This episode discusses the death of an adult sibling from illness, childhood cancer and pediatric illness, perinatal loss including miscarriage and stillbirth, twin loss, and a brief reference to a murder in the host's extended family.Mentioned in the show:Hospice Foundation of AmericaAssociation for Death Education and Counseling (ADEC)The Compassionate FriendsThe Surviving Sibling's Bill of RightsIf you are struggling, in the United States you can call or text 988 for the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. The Crisis Text Line is available by texting HOME to 741741.Send us Fan MailSupport the showIf you would like more information or to share your own sibling loss story, please contact Dr. Angela Dean at contact@thebrokenpack.com or go to our website, thebrokenpack.com. Please like, subscribe, and share! Please follow us:Facebook:  @BrokenPackInstagram:  @thebrokenpack TikTok: @the_broken_packYouTube: @thebrokenpackSign-up for Wild Grief, our newsletter: https://thebrokenpack.substack.com/ Thank you!Angela M. Dean, PsyD, FT, GTMR 

In this episode of The Broken Pack: Stories of Sibling Loss, Dr. Dean talks with surviving sibling Anne Pinkerton, author of Were You Close? A Sister's Quest to Know the Brother She Lost. Anne's brother David, twelve years her senior and an elite athlete and radiologist, died suddenly in 2008 after falling while hiking a 14er in the Colorado mountains. More than seventeen years later, Anne shares how losing the big brother she worshipped reshaped her understanding of sibling loss, continuing bonds, and the power of writing through grief.Anne and Dr. Dean unpack the question that gives the book its title, "Were you close?"  as well as why it's far too blunt a tool for the complexity of any relationship. They talk about the hierarchy of grief that pushes surviving siblings to the margins, the disorienting limbo of those first days, the strangeness of out-aging an older brother, the small signs Anne takes as a hello from David, and how a bereavement writing group became an MFA and, eventually, a published memoir.In this episode you will:Hear Anne's story of losing David and what it means to be a surviving sibling nearly two decades on. Learn why "Were you close?" and questions like it can leave grieving siblings feeling unseen  Be reminded that there's no timeline for grief and how writing through grief aids memoriesExplore how  joy and gratitude can grow alongside the loss.Connect with Anne Pinkerton:Website: https://annepinkertonwriter.com Read  the bookInstagram: @annepinkertonwriter Faceboo: TikTok: @annepinkertonwriter Send us Fan MailSupport the showIf you would like more information or to share your own sibling loss story, please contact Dr. Angela Dean at contact@thebrokenpack.com or go to our website, thebrokenpack.com. Please like, subscribe, and share! Please follow us:Facebook:  @BrokenPackInstagram:  @thebrokenpack TikTok: @the_broken_packYouTube: @thebrokenpackSign-up for Wild Grief, our newsletter: https://thebrokenpack.substack.com/ Thank you!Angela M. Dean, PsyD, FT, GTMR 

Send us Fan MailIn this mini-series episode, I revisit one of the top ten most listened-to episodes of the podcast: my conversation with Stephanie Sarazin on Ambiguous Grief — the grief that arises from losing someone who is still alive.Stephanie is a writer, researcher, and ambiguous grief guide, and the author of Soulbroken: A Guidebook For Your Journey Through Ambiguous Grief, winner of the 2023 Nautilus Books Gold Award. She shares how her own mid-life trauma led her to define ambiguous grief for the first time: grief triggered by the loss of a loved one who is still living, where hope remains part of the grieving process.We explore why this form of grief is so rarely named, why so many people feel they don't have the right to grieve, and what it means to mourn someone who hasn't died.Listen to the original episode: Episode 83 — Stephanie Sarazin | Understanding Ambiguous Grief, and you can find all of Stephanie's information, including the links to her website and book, on the same link.If this podcast is helping you, please consider leaving a 5-star review — it helps more people find this content when they need it most.Chapters:00:00:00 - Welcome00:00:49 - Today's episode00:01:27 - Welcome to the Mini Series00:02:50 - Top 10 - Number 1000:03:08 - About Stephanie Sarazin00:03:29 - Ambiguous Grief00:04:51 - Stephanie's book Soulbroken00:06:26 - What resonated with me00:07:01 - Why it resonated with listenersSupport the show

In this episode, Pediatric Nursing Editor Dr. Tedra Smith, talks with 2025 Donna Wong Award winner Briana Keller, a PhD Candidate at the University of Alabama in Tuscaloosa, Alabama, about her article published in the November/December 2025 issue titled “'I Can't Complain Because at Least I Still Have My Child': Disenfranchised Grief Among Mothers of Chronically Ill Adolescents.” Ms. Keller discusses the intangible and often overlooked loss parents of chronically ill children may experience, and emphasizes the importance of recognizing and supporting that grief. Initially set out to explore ambiguous loss amongst chronically ill adolescents, she explains how interviews with caregivers unearthed a less discussed hurt – disenfranchised grief. She shares her experiences in studying this topic, including one particular interview in which a mother felt she could not complain because at least she still had her child. Ms. Keller continues on to discuss how health care providers can support both parent and child from diagnosis and beyond.Briana P. Keller, Med, is a PhD Candidate at the University of Alabama in Tuscaloosa, AL.Tedra Smith, DNP, CRNP, CPNP-PC, CNE, CHSE, is a Professor and the Interim Assistant Dean for Graduate Clinical Education at The University of Alabama at Birmingham School of Nursing and serves as the Editor of Pediatric Nursing.© Jannetti Publications, Inc.All rights reserved. No portion of this podcast may be used without written permission.To learn more about and subscribe to Pediatric Nursing, the premier resource for evidence-based clinical information, research studies, and advances in child health care, visit http://pediatricnursing.net/Music by:Scott Holmeshttp://www.scottholmesmusic.com

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Today's conversation explores grief that is often overlooked, minimized, or misunderstood - the loss of a close friend. While friendships can be some of the most meaningful relationships in our lives, the grief that follows their loss is not always acknowledged or supported in the ways it deserves. In this interview, I'm joined by Hannah Rumsey, who shares the story of her friend Lauren and the significant impact her death had on her life. Together, we explore disenfranchised grief; grief that is not fully recognized by society, and how that lack of acknowledgment can deepen feelings of isolation. We also examine how grief evolves over time, how loss can shape identity, and why creating spaces for people to feel seen, heard, and supported is so important. This episode is a heartfelt conversation about friendship, love, loss, and the courage it takes to move forward when life changes in an instant. In This Episode, We Discuss: What disenfranchised grief is and why it matters The unique pain of losing a close friend How societal norms can minimize certain types of grief The evolving nature of grief over time Identity shifts after loss The importance of community, validation, and support

In this episode of The Grief Lounge, I'm talking about a type of grief that so many of us experience, but rarely have the words for… disenfranchised grief.Have you ever felt like you were grieving something deeply, but couldn't really talk about it? Like it mattered so much to you, but didn't seem to matter to anyone else? Maybe you've felt unseen, dismissed, or even questioned yourself and wondered if you're overreacting.I've been there.In this episode, I'm sharing some of my own experiences of grief beyond death. Things like divorce, infertility, IVF, the loss of friendships, pet loss, and even the impact of the pandemic. These are all real losses, but they're often not recognised in the way that grief “should” be, which can leave you feeling like you have to carry it quietly on your own.I talk about how grief isn't just emotional, it lives in the body too. When we push it down or minimise it, it doesn't just disappear. It stays with us. It builds. And over time, it can come out in ways we don't always expect.This episode is about giving you language for those invisible losses. It's about helping you understand that your grief is valid, whether it's connected to love, relationships, identity, missed milestones, or a life that didn't turn out the way you thought it would.I also touch on why this kind of grief can feel so isolating, how society can unintentionally minimise certain losses, and why having safe spaces to talk, process and be seen is so important.If you're carrying something that feels heavy but hard to explain, I want you to know this…You're not too much.You're not overreacting.And you're not alone.Not all grief is visible, and not all loss is understood. But that doesn't make it any less real.If this resonates with you, you'll always have a space here.If you would like to connect you can contact me via my website www.thegriefcoachuk.com or via instagram @the_grief_coach_ukPlease join our grief community on facebook https://www.facebook.com/groups/thegrieflounge/

Grieving the Unseen Loss: Understanding Grief After Betrayal Summary In this episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis reflect on the powerful insights emerging from the 2026 Human Intimacy Conference, with a particular focus on grief following sexual betrayal. While much of the field has emphasized trauma and post-traumatic stress, this conversation highlights a critical gap: the profound and often unaddressed grief experienced by both betrayed and betraying partners. Drawing from early data on the Grief After Betrayal Impact Scale, MaryAnn shares a striking finding—the most significant loss reported is not just the relationship, but the loss of self, including identity, trust in oneself, and a coherent sense of reality. The discussion explores how betrayal creates a “collapsed self,” alters one's perception of a partner, and leads to ongoing grief that can persist for decades. The episode introduces emerging frameworks for understanding betrayal-related grief, including stages of emotional shock, internal conflict, withdrawal, rage, and eventual reclamation. Dr. Skinner and Marianne emphasize that grief is not a single event but a long-term process, often unfolding over years as individuals grieve not only what happened, but what could have been. A key theme is the importance of giving grief a voice in safe relationships. Healing is accelerated when individuals are witnessed, validated, and supported—whether by a partner, therapist, or trusted connection. Without this, grief often becomes prolonged and isolating. The conversation also raises important clinical and societal implications, including the need for better training, expanded research, and more effective support systems—particularly in faith communities, where many individuals report feeling misunderstood or unsupported. Ultimately, this episode reframes betrayal recovery by integrating grief as a central component of healing, calling for a more compassionate, relational, and research-informed approach to addressing the deep emotional losses that accompany betrayal. Click here to take the Grief After Betrayal Impact Scale References (Note: These are foundational and aligned with concepts discussed in the episode—ideal for podcast notes and future academic integration.) Jennifer J. Freyd (1996). Betrayal Trauma: The Logic of Forgetting Childhood Abuse. Harvard University Press. Judith Herman (1992). Trauma and Recovery. Basic Books. Susan Anderson (2010). The Journey from Abandonment to Healing. Berkley Books. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross & Kessler, D. (2005). On Grief and Grieving. Scribner. William Worden (2009). Grief Counseling and Grief Therapy. Springer Publishing. Bessel van der Kolk (2014). The Body Keeps the Score. Viking. Stephen W. Porges (2011). The Polyvagal Theory. Norton. John Bowlby (1980). Attachment and Loss: Vol. 3 – Loss. Basic Books. Pauline Boss (1999). Ambiguous Loss. Harvard University Press. Kenneth J. Doka (1989). Disenfranchised Grief. Lexington Books.  

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What's the episode about? In this episode, hear Nina Vaswani on young men and grief during in imprisonment, childhood bereavement, masculinities and grief, trauma informed practice, comics for education and research, disenfranchised grief, grieving a death you have caused, and public health responses to grief Who is Nina? Nina is Senior Research Fellow at the Children and Young People's Centre for Justice, University of Strathclyde.  Her key research interests are the experience and impact of loss, bereavement and trauma in young people and how these experiences interface and shape contact with the justicesystem.  Of particular interest is the overrepresentation of young men in justice-settings, and how their exposure to loss, bereavement and trauma might shape their developing masculinities identities, behaviours and outcomes. As a result, she is also interested in institutional and organisational responses to trauma, and the realities of trauma-informed approaches in practice.  Nina was also the PI on Men Minds, a coproduced research project exploring masculinities and mental health with marginalised young men.Resources When People Die Men Minds comic, whichopens with a story of bereavement in prison  The prevalence study isopen access and is available here. How do I cite the episode in my research and reading lists?To cite this episode, you can use the following citation: Vaswani, N. (2026) Interview on The Death Studies Podcast hosted by Michael-Fox, B. and Visser, R. Published 2 January 2026. Available at: www.thedeathstudiespodcast.com, DOI: 10.6084/m9.figshare.31224109 

Womanhood Wellness is where functional medicine meets feminine wisdom—guiding you to balance hormones, awaken libido, and prepare for pregnancy with intention. Join today.What if the hardest part of trying to conceive isn't your body, but the silence around what you're actually feeling?In this episode, Dr. Leah sits down with Dr. Andrea Liner, a licensed clinical psychologist who specializes in reproductive mental health. She's also an IVF mama who navigated nearly four years of infertility, including misdiagnosis, two egg retrievals, and being told at 32 that she needed an egg donor.The trying to conceive journey brings up emotions most people don't know how to name, let alone process. Dr. Andrea walks through the mental traps that commonly keep couples stuck, the relationship dynamics that shift under pressure, and what actually helps when nothing is going according to plan.You'll Learn:[00:00] Introduction[02:60] Dr. Andrea's nearly four-year fertility journey[15:27] The mental toll on high-functioning achievers who can't muscle their way through infertility[17:44] How fertility struggles permeate every aspect of your daily life and identity[18:45] The existential questions that surface when you feel like a failure at what matters most[24:29] When sex becomes a chore rather than a fun activity that cultivates connection and brings new life into the world[27:13] The worst things people say and how to navigate relationships during infertility[37:34] First steps for navigating pregnancy loss[40:55] The shame of struggling in pregnancy when you fought so hard to conceiveConnect on a deeper level with Dr. Andrea by joining her mailing list.Find more from Dr. Andrea:Flux Psychology | WebsiteReproductive Psychology | InstagramFind more from Dr. Leah:Dr. Leah Gordon | InstagramDr. Leah Gordon | WebsiteWomanhood Wellness | WebsiteFind more from Dr. Morgan:Dr. Morgan MacDermott | InstagramDr. Morgan MacDermott | WebsiteUse code HEALTHYMOTHER and save 15% at RedmondFor 20% off your first order at Needed, use code HEALTHYMOTHERSave $260 at Lumebox, use code HEALTHYASAMOTHER

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Join Sascha and Hannah Rumsey of Friends Missing Friends as we talk about the beauty and joy of having very dear friends and the disenfranchised heartbreak that can come along when those friends die. In a heteronormative world that likes to make hierarchies of our losses, I was so happy to spend time hearing about Hannah's dear friend Lauren. In Hannah's grief journey she began Friends Missing Friends (a podcast, a community and a collective) where she helps folks find community while working through this particular note of loss. 

Dr. Jessica Lamar, Licensed Mental Health Therapist, explores unseen wounds and understanding disenfranchised grief and betrayal trauma. What is disenfranchised grief, and why does it matter? Dr. Lamar overs betrayal trauma, emotional and psychological impact, healing, and support strategies. She and Tami then answer participant questions about grief and boundaries, conversations and resources that are available to help navigate grief.    TAKEAWAYS: [:30] Intro. [2:58] Defining ambiguous loss – am I even in grief?  [4:40] Disenfranchised grief is a loss that is not openly acknowledged, socially validated or publicly mourned.  [6:02] Examples of disenfranchised grief as it relates to betrayal trauma. [11:30] Ambiguous losses that are associated with betrayal trauma.  [13:56] When betrayal occurs, the resulting grief is often disenfranchised.  [15:47] Statements that are commonly heard in disenfranchised grief.  [18:36] The psychological and emotional impact of disenfranchised grief.  [24:12] Strategies for empowering ourselves after loss.  [27:34] Common ways we invalidate grief after betrayal. [29:45] How can I validate myself in my grief?  [37:04] Interventions to help navigate disenfranchised grief.  [41:35] What resources are available to better understand and process grief.  [44:20] What dialog can we use to better communicate with extended family members who will not allow space for grief?  [47:35] How can I navigate anticipatory grief when I don't know what is actually going to happen?  [48:55] How can I ever start dating again after betrayal?  [50:49] What if the person who feels unsafe to me is a therapist?  [52:28] What is appropriate to say to our adult children?    RESOURCES: Seekingintegrity.com Email Tami: Tami@Seekingintegrity.com Sexandrelationshiphealing.com Intherooms.com Out of the Doghouse: A Step-by-Step Relationship-Saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating, by Robert Weiss Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency, by Robert Weiss Sex Addiction 101: A Basic Guide to Healing from Sex, Porn, and Love Addiction, by Robert Weiss Cruise Control: Understanding Sex Addiction in Gay Men, by Robert Weiss Seeking Integrity Podcasts are produced in partnership with Podfly Productions.    QUOTES "When a loss isn't socially recognized, the grieving process can be isolating and difficult to navigate."  "The lack of validation can make the pain even more isolating."  "When we are alone with our betrayal trauma and our grief, we can start to invalidate our own feelings."  "Navigating disenfranchised grief and betrayal trauma requires real, intentional effort to heal."  "No one has the right to tell people what is or isn't a loss."   

We are so happy to invite you to a wonderful conversation with Dr. Elliott Kronenfeld who is interested in building relationships on curiosity and intention across the lifespan. Dr. Kronenfeld's books, Couples by Intention: Crafting and Cultivating Relationships that Matter! and Unspoken Loss: Men, Infidelity, and Disenfranchised Grief are widely available. We spoke with him about so much. If your curiosity is piqued, here are a few links: Disenfranchised Grief by Doka and Women, breast cancer survivorship, sexual losses, and disenfranchised grief – a treatment model for clinicians by Pillai-Friedman and Ashline. Listeners, if you'd like to get in touch with Dr. Eliot Kronenfeld, you can find more about him here. You can also follow him on Instagram, TikTok, LinkedIn, and Bluesky! If you want to catch up on other shows, just visit our website and please subscribe! We love our listeners and welcome your feedback, so if you love Our Better Half, please give us a 5-star rating and follow us on Facebook and Instagram. It really helps support our show! As always, thanks for listening!

Regular listeners of the podcast will be well aware that grief comes in an endless number of forms for different people. But one type of grief is often overlooked. What happens when someone you know dies and your grief of them is complicated or perhaps even refuted by other people who are grieving the same loss? On this episode of Changing Lives, we're going to look into disenfranchised grief. Written by: Lee McConnellSources:9 Types of Grief People May ExperienceDisenfranchised Grief: 22 Examples, Signs, and TipsSupport the showListen on 91x FMYou can listen to episodes of "Changing Lives" on 91x FM each Monday (except for holidays) at 9:05am. Hospice Quinte is grateful to the support that 91x FM provides in producing the "Changing Lives" podcast.About Hospice QuinteHospice Quinte provides individuals, their families, and caregivers with compassionate end of life care, by attending to their physical, psychosocial, and practical needs, and offering empathetic care to those who are grieving through visiting hospice services and support groups. All Hospice Quinte programs and services are provided by compassionate, well-trained volunteers and staff at no charge to the individual or their family. Hospice Quinte serves a population of over 102,000 in Quinte West, Belleville, Deseronto, Tyendinaga Township and the Tyendinaga Mohawk Territory. To find out more visit HospiceQuinte.ca.

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When we lose someone, we love, we often say we have a broken heart—but what if that's not just a metaphor?In her new book “The Grieving Body: How The Stress of Loss Can Be An Opportunity For Healing” University of Arizona Professor of Psychology Mary Frances O'Connor shares groundbreaking insights into the biological and physiological impacts grief has on our bodies. O'Connor reveals how profound loss can lead to serious medical conditions, from heart attacks to immune system breakdowns, and explains why grieving can make us more vulnerable to diseases like cancer, pneumonia, and even autoimmune disorders.Drawing on her personal experiences and extensive research, O'Connor outlines why our medical system—and society at large—needs to rethink how we support grieving individuals. She makes a powerful case for viewing grief not only as an emotional experience but as a medical event deserving careful monitoring and intervention, similar to pregnancy or chronic illness.

Send us a textWe're diving into the concept of disenfranchised grief—the “silent sorrow”, as I sometimes call it. This is grief that's often not openly acknowledged, socially validated or publicly mourned, which makes it especially challenging to navigate.In this conversation we're chatting about various examples of disenfranchised grief that are long overdue for some validation—think: the loss of an ex-partner or estranged family member, unrecognized or invalidated relationships, losses that are considered “less significant” than a death, stigmatized losses, losses of a job or sense of identity, major life transitions, and more.This is truly such an underrated yet incredibly important type of grief to acknowledge, so I'm also offering some insight into how to cope and navigate this. And, as always, giving you some practical coping strategies along the way.My mission with this topic is to validate your experience and loss, and provide you tools, support, and mindset shifts to help you navigate this complex form of grief. Start your next evolution and transformation here: https://losses-become-gains.showitpreview.com/transformation Start finding relief here: https://losses-become-gains.showitpreview.com/relief-in-griefWork with me: Micro-Moments for Transformation: https://lossesbecomegains.com/transformation 14-Day Relief in Your Grief Challenge: https://lossesbecomegains.com/relief-in-grief Work with me one-on-one: https://lossesbecomegains.com/work-with-tara Connect with me further: Leave a voice note through Speakpipe! https://www.speakpipe.com/LifeWithGrief Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lossesbecomegains/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lifewithgriefpodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/losses.become.gains Website: https://lossesbecomegains.com/ Shop the LBG Daily Journal: https://lossesbecomegains.com/journal By accessing this Podcast, I acknowledge that the entire contents are the property of Tara Accardo, or used by Tara Accardo with permission. Except as otherwise provided herein, users of this Podcast may ...

Today's podcast answers the question of what are some concrete steps someone can follow in grieving a disenfranchised loss such as the loss of a normal childhood. The submitter of the question is feeling stuck in the healing work and don't know if they have even started grieving. Sometimes when we have started grieving, we might feel disoriented and not quite sure where we are in the process. Today's podcast discusses finding the beginning and the end of this process and making sure certain steps are worked towards and accomplished.

Today's podcast answers the question of what are some concrete steps someone can follow in grieving a disenfranchised loss such as the loss of a normal childhood. The submitter of the question is feeling stuck in the healing work and don't know if they have even started grieving. Sometimes when we have started grieving, we might feel disoriented and not quite sure where we are in the process. Today's podcast discusses finding the beginning and the end of this process and making sure certain steps are worked towards and accomplished.

Anticipatory Grief, Complicated Grief, Disenfranchised Grief... we cover it all + Rachael's explanation for her fascination with grief and all things *bittersweet* We're nearing the end of season 9! Thank you for all of your support this season + beyond! Please don't forget to check out our Patreon for bonus episodes + more! And follow us on Instagram. Please check out the amazing sponsors mentioned in this episode: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠PROGRANULIN INFORMATION NAVIGATOR⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ A resource for FTD clinical trial and genetic testing info. ⁠⁠⁠⁠MAKE TIME WELLNESS⁠⁠⁠⁠ (Use code REMEMBERME for 25% off your order -- we personally love the Rhodiola gummies!) ____ The Remember Me Podcast + Community provides resources, connection and understanding for families, caregivers and people affected by Frontotemporal Dementia. For all things RM, join us over on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠PATREON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, visit our website www.remembermeftd.com or follow us on Instagram! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/rememberme/support

Join host Alora McKinley on the Pet Care Report podcast as she speaks with licensed professional counselor Mamie Jones about the emotional impact of pet loss. They discuss why grief over pets is often misunderstood, how to acknowledge and cope with these feelings, and the importance of workplace support for grieving pet owners. Mamie also shares useful rituals and resources for pet parents dealing with loss.  (01:25) Why Pet Loss is Often Overlooked (03:14) Acknowledging and Honoring Your Grief (05:33) Rituals to Cope with Pet Loss (07:20) Finding Support and Community (11:40) Impact of Pet Loss on Workplace Needs (13:17) Final Thoughts and Takeaways Follow Mamie Jones: https://mamiejonestherapy.com Follow our Dog Health Host, Alora Mckinley, at https://www.instagram.com/centerfyr_gsp Want to see more from Pet Summits? Subscribe to the PetSummits YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@PetSummits Check out the latest free events here: https://petsummits.com/events/

In this episode, John Gerardi interviews Jennifer Butcher, the founder of Rachel's Vineyard in Fresno, a retreat program dedicated to post-abortion healing. They explore the origins of the ministry, its unique approach to spiritual and emotional recovery, and how it supports those struggling with the impact of abortion. From personal storytelling to memorial services, Jennifer explains the transformative power of these retreats and the importance of approaching the abortion conversation with compassion and understanding.

Stephanie Rodriguez is a certified Grief Counselor with specializations in Child and Adolescent Grief and Animal Companion Loss Support. She has been a practicing Grief Counselor, Support Group Facilitator, Death Midwife, and End-of-Life Speaker and Educator since 2004. We chat about pet hospice, decision making process for euthanizing your pet, disenfranchised grief, rituals for honoring your pet, adapting to a new loss, and  navigating your grief.Hope this episode helps you or a loved one! Enjoy!__________________________Connect with Stephanie!WebsiteTiktokYouTubeFacebookInstagramCheck out Fiama Lore, my brand & web design studio for disruptors in sex-positive and death-positive spaces

The conversation in episode 7 explores the concept of disenfranchised grief, which refers to grief that is not acknowledged or recognized by society. Examples include grief over unmet expectations in parenting, miscarriage, the loss of a loved one during the pandemic, loss of a sibling, and the end of a marriage. The discussion highlights the judgment and lack of empathy that often accompany disenfranchised grief, as well as the importance of creating a relational home for grief. The hosts share personal experiences and discuss the complexity and longevity of grief, emphasizing that there is no defined timeline for healing contrary to popular belief. MC and Tracy reflect on the different stages of grief, comparing them to the growth and development of a child. They discuss the challenges and demands of early grief, the changes and adjustments that come with time, and the ongoing need for support and understanding. The conversation also explores disenfranchised grief in relation to the loss of older family members and the absence of mentors and role models. Join ⁠Keep Grief Weird on Substack⁠ for exclusive episode notes, resources, and opportunities to connect! Instagram: - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@keepgriefweird⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@mc.phd ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@shutterbean⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thehandwritingclub⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@mc.phd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X: - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@shutterbean⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Facebook: - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@tracyshutterbean⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@emseyphd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Others: - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Handwriting Club Substack Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Handwriting Club Etsy Shop⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Handwriting Club Newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Music kindly provided by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Tom Rosenthal⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. The song excerpted at the beginning and end of each episode is "⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Have We Met Before? feat. Fenne Lily"⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ from the album ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Z-Sides⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, released in 2018. MC McDonald and Tracy Benjamin host Keep Grief Weird, produced by Jake Youmell. For questions, stories, or comments, please reach out via DM on Instagram (⁠⁠⁠⁠@keepgriefweird⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠) or email at ⁠⁠⁠⁠keepgriefweird@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/keepgriefweird/message

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Episode Description: Disenfranchised GriefIn this episode, we delve into the concept of disenfranchised grief—a type of grief that is not acknowledged or validated by society. This can occur when the loss is not publicly recognized, the relationship to the deceased is not socially sanctioned, or the griever's mourning process is stigmatized or misunderstood. Join us as we explore the emotional and psychological impact of disenfranchised grief, share personal stories, and provide strategies for coping with this unique form of sorrow.For more resources and free downloads to support your journey through disenfranchised grief, visit [Wolfie's Wish](https://wolfieswish.com). Here, you'll find a wealth of information and tools designed to help you navigate this challenging experience and connect with a community that understands. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We know, we know, no one wants to talk about the end of life, death, or dying. But we are all going to die at some point, so let's put it all out in the open. How do the aged population think about death? Do they get lonely when those around them cross to the other side? Drs. Heard & Heard-Garris explore their mothers' experiences and feelings of grief, loss, and the trope of being a “strong Black woman.” In this episode of Flesh 'N Bold, our hosts explore who helps the helper b.k.a the strong Black woman, when she needs help, what about what to do when the future you expected is taken from you, and how do you avoid isolation? Listen up, grab your friends, your family, and your significant others and let Drs. Heard & Heard-Garris walk you through this interesting penultimate act with their mothers. And always, please like, share, and discuss!Producers: Nevin J. Heard and Nia J. Heard-Garris Music: “Clay”; “LA”; “Sneak Chase” by Podington BearReferencesMourning me: An interpretive description of grief and identity loss in older adults with mild cognitive impairment (MCI) (uvic.ca)Disenfranchised Grief and Nonfinite Loss as Experienced by the Families of Death Row Inmates - Sandra J. Jones, Elizabeth Beck, 2007 (sagepub.com)https://scholar.google.com/scholar?hl=en&as_sdt=0%2C24&as_vis=1&q=help-seeking+behaviors+of+Black+women&btnG=#d=gs_qabs&t=1714084107992&u=%23p%3DS8Z9q15Wt9oJ https://scholar.google.com/scholar?hl=en&as_sdt=0%2C24&as_vis=1&q=grief%2C+strong+Black+women&btnG=#d=gs_qabs&t=1714084424140&u=%23p%3DQSZPuW9cEegJ https://www.caregiver.org/news/tips-supporting-senior-widowed-parent/ https://www.google.com/search?q=Nonfinite+grief+AND+aging&rlz=1C1CHBF_enUS893US893&oq=Nonfinite+grief+AND+aging&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUyBggAEEUYOTIHCAEQIRigATIHCAIQIRigATIHCAMQIRigATIHCAQQIRigAdIBCDMwMjVqMGo3qAIAsAIA&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8

How would you feel if your loss and grief wasn't openly acknowledged, and you were forced to grieve in private without the support that other grievers receive? In this episode, we introduce you to Ally, who has been living with disenfranchised grief since her boyfriend died in 2020. We felt it was important to shed some light on this type of grief to help others have a better understanding of it. We would really appreciate if you could rate and review our podcast, and spread the word so that more people know it exists. We'd love to help as many grievers as possible through this hardest time of their lives. Visit our websites: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠carolyngowercoaching.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠johnpolocoaching.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to learn more about our work. For added support in a caring community, join our FREE Facebook Group by clicking here : ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/696138811624151/?ref=share⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ WOULD YOU LIKE TO HELP US KEEP OUR PODCAST GOING? MONTHLY SUPPORTERS receive the following: $4.99 USD - Receive our deepest gratitude for your support & buy a coffee for John and a green tea for Carolyn to keep us going while we're recording.  $9.99 USD - Receive our deepest gratitude PLUS extra perks that will only be available to our supporters. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠johnpolocoaching.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to become a My Person Died Too supporter.

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The reality for Black individuals and families living in the U.S. is that death happens more often and earlier on than for their white counterparts. In the last two decades, these higher rates of mortality resulted in 1.63 million excess deaths for Black Americans compared to white Americans. Doneila McIntosh brings her personal and professional experiences with this reality to her work as a researcher studying the intersections of disenfranchised grief among African American families. Disenfranchised grief occurs when a loss isn't recognized or seen as valid, often the result of stigma. The disenfranchisement of Black grief is rooted in racism, which influences both the disproportionate rates of mortality and the lack of support for grief and grief expression.  Doneila McIntosh is a doctoral student at the University of Minnesota in Family Social Science with an emphasis in Marriage and Family Therapy. Doneila has a Master of Divinity (M.Div.) in Theological Studies and a Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology (M.A.). Prior to becoming a psychotherapist, she worked as a chaplain for nearly 10 years. We discuss:  Doneila's current research on understanding the impact of disproportionate rates of death and grief in the African American community.  Her personal and professional motivation to do this work.  The desecration of sacred Black grief spaces.  How structural racism leads to Doneila and other researchers having to “prove” the reality of disproportionate rates of death for Black people living in the U.S.  The disenfranchisement of African American grief.  How the language we use to talk about grief is rooted in culture and how that can be a strength.   The gap in the research literature about Black and African American grief.  Culturally specific interventions to support grief.  How culture shapes grief expression.  Doneila's work to become literate in the historical & current context of Black grief and the cultural strengths she uncovered along the way.  How her family honors her grandfather's legacy.  Follow Doneila on IG @doneila_mcintosh

We wrap up National Adoption Month with a discussion about disenfranchised grief and some highlights and lessons learned during 100 episodes of the Open Adoption Project podcast (so far). Disenfranchised grief is grief that is not recognized as valid by society, and is prevalently experienced in the adoption community. We talk about how those who adopt can better understand grief experienced by adopted people and first parents, and how this understanding can counter shame and create stronger bonds. We also share what our most downloaded episode is, and a handful of some of the most impactful interviews we've done since starting the show in 2021. We'll be back in the new year with our fifth season. Happy Holidays and thanks for learning with us!

There's a name for grief we don't feel like we're allowed to have or that is not acknowledged by society, it's called disenfranchised grief. It's what I've felt this week in the wake of the loss of Esther The Wonder Pig. I never "met" Esther and yet feel the deep sorrow as the result of her passing. I'm sure many of her 1.5 million followers do too. Disenfranchised grief is what you may feel for a patient of yours that dies, an animal that gets adopted from your shelter or a research animal you've had to euthanize. It's legitimate grief  and this episode will help you understand it and yourself more. 

Tune in to hear:- What life journey brought Kathi to a place where she focused on grief professionally?- Why did Kathi experience guilt and shame around her lack of financial literacy in a moment of crisis?- People often say very inappropriate things when they are struggling to address the grieving, even if well-intentioned. Why is this the case and what can be done about it?- Why something as simple as asking a deceased person's name can be so meaningful to their loved ones.- What does it mean to be "grief literate?"- What is it about the unique combination of loss and money that makes us so reticent to talk about it?- What is "disenfranchised grief" and how can loved ones, advisors or others avoid falling prey to this phenomenon?- How does Kathi work with advisors who are a bit hesitant to talk about grief and other intimate topics?- What are some best practices / things to say when talking to someone who is actively grieving?- How can we strike a good balance between sitting with someone in their grief and offering optimism? Is this hopeful perspective often more hurtful than it is helpful?https://www.kathibalasek.comOrion Portfolio Solutions, LLC, an Orion Company, is a registered investment advisor. Custom Indexing offered through Orion Portfolio Solutions, LLC a registered investment advisor. Orion Portfolio Solutions, LLC, is a subsidiary of Orion Advisor Solutions, Inc. (“Orion”). Please visit https://orion.com/OCIO/custom-indexing for more information on Custom Indexing. Compliance Code: 2174-OAS-8/8/2023Ad Compliance Code: 2120-OPS-8/2/2023Connect with UsMeet Dr. Daniel CrosbyCheck Out All of Orion's PodcastsPower Your Growth with Orion

Many childless women feel the heaviness of grief as they begin to accept a very different future than they imagined they'd have.   In this episode, you will discover:What is disenfranchised grief and how to know if you are stuck in itThe mistakes you might be making to avoid processing your griefThe obvious and not-so-obvious things that childless women grieveThe first step to moving forwardExclusive podcast for navigating grief as a childless woman: sherijohnson.ca/secret-podcast/Follow Sheri on Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoachingKey topics:00:00 Disenfranchised grief: How childless women cope.02:56 Some of the lesser known things childless women grieve11:58 What is disenfranchised grief15:15 The mistakes childless women make in order to fix the problem of disenfranchised grief 17:20 How to actually begin healing from your grief

Sorry!!! I don't have a new episode this week so here is one of my faves back from my early days. You can find me here: https://linktr.ee/nikkithedeathdoula Go to https://betterhelp.com/nikkithedeathdoula for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help #sponsored   Music: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/3495-cheery-monday --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/nikkideathdoula/support

FEATURED GUESTS: Renee Turner, Ph.D., LPC-S, RPT-S™, is an author and speaker specializing in treating children and adults with grief and childhood trauma. Her advanced training includes EMDR, SE, Integral Breath Therapy, and various expressive therapy modalities. She is passionate about helping others navigate through grief and soul pain associated with disenfranchised grief and loss, complex trauma, and identity and spiritual issues. In her clinical work, Renee integrates existential, gestalt, embodiment, and expressive therapies to create a dynamic and experiential form of therapy. She is the co-editor of the book Disenfranchised Grief: Examining Social, Cultural, and Relational Impacts (2023).  LISTEN & LEARN:  How Dr. Turner defines disenfranchised grief.  The power of connecting what is happening within the body to that which is not spoken or expressed.  Framing therapy as a co-creative space.  The role of shadow in parts work with gestalt therapy.  Dr. Turner's Website:  www.drreneeturner.com Dr Turner's Email: drreneeturner@gmail.com Her new book Disenfranchised Grief: Examining Social, Cultural, and Relational Impacts (2023) RESOURCES MENTIONED ON THE SHOW: SESSIONS AT THE SUMMIT: Friday June 2nd, 2023 8:30AM-9:30AM KEYNOTE The Magic of Curiosity: Facilitating Relational Embodiment With Gestalt Play Therapy Friday June 2nd, 2023 10:00AM - 5:15PM Claiming Lost Parts: Using Gestalt Play Therapy to Address Disenfranchised Grief --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reina-lombardi5/support

Do you ever wonder if your grief around your infertility or IVF experience is valid? This is an aspect of disenfranchised grief. Join me today as I explain this incredibly nuanced topic and provide you examples to help better understand the topic to provide more support to yourself and others.   

An expert on disenfranchised grief, Laverne McKinnon is a Japanese American Career and Executive Leadership Coach who supports ambitious, driven people who have hit a speed bump regain momentum and make their next big move. For a significant part of her career, Laverne was a successful programming executive with stints as Senior Vice-President of Drama Development at CBS, and as Executive Vice-President of Original Programming & Development at EPIX. She was also Head of Television at Charlize Theron's production company, Denver and Delilah. Laverne is the Executive Producer of the Netflix series GIRLBOSS and co-founder of K&L Productions, a film & television company created with Kay Cannon. Laverne is also a certified grief counselor, a cognitive behavioral therapist and neuro-linguistics practitioner, and a Reiki master-in-training. Laverne is an adjunct professor at Northwestern University's MS Leadership for Creative Enterprises program where she teaches courses in Persuasion & Pitching and Ethics. During episode 501 of Moxielicious®, Laverne McKinnon and I talk about how to navigate disenfranchised grief. More specifically, we discuss: What it means to go for a “moonshot” How grief, specifically disenfranchised loss, impacts our work and our wellbeing What most people get wrong about disenfranchised grief Why emotional intelligence is essential to navigating disenfranchised grief (our own grief and the grief of our clients or employees) Resources Mentioned in This Episode: Learn more about Laverne and her approach to disenfranchised grief here. Connect with Laverne on Facebook and Instagram. Please leave a review and subscribe to Moxielicious® via Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, Google Play, or Spotify so you never miss an episode!

Today's episode focuses on losses that aren't commonly considered losses, and for that reason, they often lead to disenfranchised grief. The losses I discuss on this episode are pet loss, divorce, job loss, loss of health or way of life, loss of faith, and loss of non-existent experiences. Contact: www.starfishcounseling.biz

I continue this miniseries on losses that can result in disenfranchised grief by focusing on pregnancy loss. CW: Pregnancy loss Contact Info: lori@starfishcounseling.biz; www.starfishcounseling.biz

Pets often add Structure Socialization Like humans, there are triggers all around that remind you of your pet Sights, sounds, smells Rituals You may second guess yourself or feel guilt if you had to make an end-of-life decision or if the death was particularly premature The loss of a child's pet may trigger a sense of guilt and helplessness as the child grieves The loss of a pet may trigger memories of prior losses and open old wounds This was the only secure relationship I ever had. Death of your parent's pet The loss of a pet may trigger reflection on your own mortality TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Introduction 00:38 Human Pet Bond 07:35 Impact of Pet Loss 15:50 Grief and Disenfranchised Grief 30:00 Coping Strategies Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Introduction 00:38 Human Pet Bond 07:35 Impact of Pet Loss 15:50 Grief and Disenfranchised Grief 30:00 Coping Strategies

Today I talk about disenfranchised grief, which is a type of grief that not a lot of people know about. I also talk about how loss by suicide relates to disenfranchised grief. TW: Suicide, loss by suicide Resources: 1. American Foundation for Suicide Prevention - www.afsp.org 2. National Mental Health Hotline - Call or text 988 in the United States Contact Info: lori@starfishcounseling.biz or starfishcounselingforgl@gmail.com

How do we heal from painful experiences while holding onto our relationship with God? What about when the place we came to heal is the same place that has injured our hearts? There are many Christians who find themselves lost in loss. Healing is a path and without direction we will remain stuck. Marilyn Kriete joins the channel to share her experience of disenfranchised grief. She interweaves trauma into her story and describes how it creates a specific type of loneliness. We will be discussing her upcoming book "the box must be empty" as we navigate through her journey towards greater healing. *For those who are interested in her experience of the events that preceded and followed the 2003 Henry Kriete Letter, we discuss her experience in a new series called "Off the Record". In the Off the Record, we discuss personal experiences of loss, controversial issues, and Patreon Q&A. Patreon Members will also receive early access and exclusive access to content not released publicly. www. patreon.com/kylespears 0:00 Intro 3:00 Why did you write "The Box Must Be Empty" 24:00 How did you come to the understanding that you were stuck in grief? 32:00 What things that muffle grief? What are things that provide voice for grief? 41:00 How do people find safety for their grief journey? Marilyn's Website https://marilynkriete.com Paradise Road: A Memoir https://www.amazon.com/Paradise-Road-Memoir-Marilyn-Kriete-ebook/dp/B0912MW8PV/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=paradise+road&qid=1663074304&rnid=2941120011&s=books&sr=1-1