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Send us a textStriking a balance between too much logic and too much emotion isn't easy. But with a bit of practise you can create what therapists sometimes refer to as the Wise Mind.Support the showJoin our Evolve to Thrive 6 month programme https://therapynatters.comJoin the Patreon community https://www.patreon.com/richardnicholls Social Media Links Bluesky https://bsky.app/profile/richardnicholls.net Threads https://www.threads.net/@richardnichollsreal Instagram https://www.instagram.com/richardnichollsreal Facebook https://www.facebook.com/RichardNichollsAuthor Youtube https://www.youtube.com/richardnicholls TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@richardnichollsauthor X https://x.com/richardnicholls
Send Me a Message! Opposite action is a powerful DBT skill that helps us override our automatic emotional responses by choosing behaviours that counter what we're feeling. This skill works by strengthening neural connections between our prefrontal cortex and amygdala, physically changing our brain to improve emotional regulation.• Identifying what emotion you're experiencing (anxiety, anger, sadness)• Understanding what your emotion is urging you to do (avoid, lash out, isolate)• Consciously choosing the opposite behaviour• Taking action despite emotional discomfort• Reflecting on the outcome and noticing positive effects• Using opposite action to manage impulsivity and emotional reactivity--Follow my journey living with mental illness and the hard-fought lessons learned along the way. Lived experience is the driving force of this podcast, and through this lens, my stories are told. This is a raw, honest, and authentic account of how multiple psychological disorders have shaped my past and continue to influence my future.Support the showTo support the show, CLICK HEREYou can follow me on Instagram: @elliot.t.waters
Kate and Michelle share how they are currently using wise mind in their lives before discussing 3 updates they want to make to how they originally spoke about wise mind in episode 2. They end the episode by sharing 6 new ideas for how to find wise mind that they have not talked about before. Support the showIf you want to sign up for Kate's free DBT peer support group, you can sign up here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/dbt-discussion-group-tickets-518237601617Check out our Etsy shop for DBT-inspired items and our journaling workbook (only $7.50!): https://www.etsy.com/shop/dbtandmeOur book, "DBT for Everyone" is available! Order your copy on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/Dbt-Everyone-Pitfalls-Possibilities-Better/dp/1839975881/Consider providing ongoing support to the podcast by becoming a patron at https://www.patreon.com/dbtandmeYou can join our facebook community here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dbtandmepodcastCheck out our other podcast, The Couch and The Chair, on Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-couch-and-the-chair/id1554159244) or on Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/3MZ8aZPoRKxGmLtFcR4S4O)If you need support/have questions, email us at dbtandmepodcast@gmail.com
Send us a textTo sign up for the online songwriting in process class:https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1376858744569?aff=oddtdtcreatorOn today's show I have Psychologist Dr. Jill Stoddard So much of what goes into a song is the psychology of the songwriter. Mindset is so important to the creative. Today, Dr. Stoddard talks about how to work with our inner critic, why we have it, how to focus on meaning even when your critique is loud. She talks about how important self compassion is to the creative and the wise mind. How persona can help an artist and so much more!More about Jill:https://jillstoddard.com/To find Jill's book:https://www.amazon.com/Imposter-More-Self-Doubt-Imposterism-Successful/dp/1538724790/ref=sr_1_1?crid=QBJQVVVTQCWA&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.t0gJrRrxlr7fbTqpBlq1PA6UmSg3LRmFwVPsRRiQkPNkS5rCe9HIM2zzvrZrw0gcbalD0-zlisuqEpcOscgx8cyeW7zeGdwiSJJtTO6m8AmGoKnflb9bqT2mOyuNBXxzFC2IszG9pjxX0gbcncLqaEH0J_Wz-5PlUeW7AMlW-NqbSUB7cTAngYXrv51YQ936.iml6zLsvasbi9q-BxQCaDOaeAWoajBYcHnKmTlFp71E&dib_tag=se&keywords=imposter+no+more&qid=1748007040&sprefix=imposter+no+mor%2Caps%2C121&sr=8-1To join the weekly writing class: https://buymeacoffee.com/scarlet.keysThe monthly membership:https://buymeacoffee.com/scarlet.keysScarlet's website:https://www.scarletkeys.comScarlet's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scarletkeysofficial/To purchase Scarlet Keys' book "The Craft of Songwriting:https://www.amazon.com/Craft-Songwriting-Music-Meaning-Emotion/dp/0876391927/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2PP55NU6E9ST6&keywords=the+craft+of+songwriting&qid=1659573139&sprefix=the+craft+of+songwritin%2Caps%2C153&sr=8-1Mixed by Peter Sykes: https://www.petersykesmusic.com/Otto Gross: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCMnxx19QD-vxD4wnYGTn3JwScarlet's website: https://www.scarletkeys.comScarlet's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scarletkeysofficial/To purchase Scarlet Keys' book "The Craft of Songwriting:https://www.amazon.com/Craft-Songwriting-Music-Meaning-Emotion/dp/0876391927/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2PP55NU6E9ST6&keywords=the+craft+of+songwriting&qid=1659573139&sprefix=the+craft+of+songwritin%2Caps%2C153&sr=8-1
Today on Integrative Cancer Solutions Dr. Karlfeldt is joined by Dr. Ronald Alexander as they discuss the critical connection between emotional health and cancer treatment. Dr. Alexander, who specializes in psychosomatic and behavioral medicine, explains how emotional congestion—unprocessed feelings like grief, sorrow, anger, and rage—can negatively impact the body's healing processes. He emphasizes that many cancer patients experience this emotional contraction, which affects their nervous system and overall health. Dr. Alexander shares a compelling case study of a breast cancer patient who experienced significant emotional trauma when her husband left her during her diagnosis. Through psychotherapy and mindfulness meditation, she was able to release her emotional congestion, improving her energy levels. During a meditation course, she had a transformative experience visualizing the construction of healthy cells, which contributed to her eventual remission. The podcast highlights the power of daily meditation and visualization practices for cancer patients. Dr. Alexander recommends loving-kindness meditation to generate self-compassion and specific visualization techniques where patients imagine transforming cancer cells into healthy cells. He explains how connecting these visualizations to the heart center through hand placement can enhance the healing process by tapping into the unconscious mind. Dr. Alexander concludes by discussing the spiritual insights that cancer patients often gain through their healing journey, including the importance of living in balance and caring for one's health. He encourages patients to explore their core self and spiritual essence regardless of religious beliefs, and mentions his books "Show and Tell" and "Wise Mind, Open Mind" as resources for people facing health challenges.Dr. Ronald Alexander explains that unprocessed emotions like grief, anger, and rage can create "emotional congestion" that negatively impacts cancer patients' healing processes.A breast cancer patient achieved remission after using psychotherapy and mindfulness meditation to release emotional trauma caused by her husband leaving during her diagnosis.Daily meditation and visualization practices, particularly visualizing the transformation of cancer cells into healthy cells, can support the healing process by shifting patients from emotional contraction to expansion.Dr. Alexander recommends loving-kindness meditation to generate self-compassion and emphasizes connecting visualizations to the heart center through specific hand placements.Cancer patients often gain valuable spiritual insights through their healing journey, including the importance of living in balance and exploring their core spiritual essence regardless of religious beliefs.----Grab my book A Better Way to Treat Cancer: A Comprehensive Guide to Understanding, Preventing and Most Effectively Treating Our Biggest Health Threat - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CM1KKD9X?ref_=pe_3052080_397514860 Unleashing 10X Power: A Revolutionary Approach to Conquering Cancerhttps://store.thekarlfeldtcenter.com/products/unleashing-10x-power-Price: $24.99-100% Off Discount Code: CANCERPODCAST1Healing Within: Unraveling the Emotional Roots of Cancerhttps://store.thekarlfeldtcenter.com/products/healing-within-Price: $24.99-100% Off Discount Code: CANCERPODCAST2----Integrative Cancer Solutions was created to instill hope and empowerment. Other people have been where you are right now and have already done the research for you. Listen to their stories and journeys and apply what they learned to achieve similar outcomes as they have, cancer remission and an even more fullness of life than before the diagnosis. Guests will discuss what therapies, supplements, and practitioners they relied on to beat cancer. Once diagnosed, time is of the essence. This podcast will dramatically reduce your learning curve as you search for your own solution to cancer. To learn more about the cutting-edge integrative cancer therapies Dr. Karlfeldt offer at his center, please visit www.TheKarlfeldtCenter.com
Have you ever felt anxiety, grief, or shame bubbling up and immediately reached for your phone, a drink, or a distraction? That instinct to push away painful feelings is completely normal – but what if that very avoidance is keeping you trapped in unhealthy patterns? In this illuminating episode of The Addicted Mind Plus, hosts Duane and Eric dive into the world of emotional avoidance and reveal why our natural tendency to escape discomfort might be sabotaging our mental health and recovery. When we avoid emotions, we get temporary relief. But those pushed-down feelings don't disappear – they intensify and return stronger than before. This creates a dangerous cycle where we need more and more avoidance behaviors, which can easily develop into addiction. Our brains learn that emotions are dangerous rather than what they truly are: valuable information to help us navigate life. By facing our emotions instead of running from them, we can access our "Wise Mind" – the balanced place where intellect and emotions work together to make better decisions. WORKSHEET: Avoiding Emotions Worksheet The hosts share six practical steps to break free from emotional avoidance patterns: Recognize your avoidance patterns (Do you binge-watch TV when lonely? Overwork to avoid feelings of inadequacy?) Name your emotions (Simply labeling feelings as "sadness" or "anxiety" can reduce their intensity) Practice mindfulness (Learn to sit with discomfort instead of running) Shift to acceptance-based coping (Experience emotions without judgment) Try opposite action (Do the opposite of what avoidance urges) Seek support (Connect with professionals, friends, or community) The good news? With awareness and practice, emotions become less overwhelming over time. You don't have to be controlled by your feelings or constantly run from them. Instead, you can learn to navigate them with courage, make aligned life choices, and experience the richness that comes from emotional wellbeing. Whether you're in recovery, struggling with compulsive behaviors, or simply want to improve your emotional health, this episode offers transformative insights and practical tools to help you face life's challenges with greater resilience. Follow and Review: We'd love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast. Supporting Resources: If you live in California and are looking for counseling or therapy please check out Novus Mindful Life Counseling and Recovery Center NovusMindfulLife.com We want to hear from you. Leave us a message or ask us a question: https://www.speakpipe.com/addictedmind Disclaimer Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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(Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center) To bring attention to the right things in the right way is crucial for our path. Through the mindful contemplation of our experience we can gain insight and develop liberating wisdom.
Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center: dharma talks and meditation instruction
(Insight Meditation Society - Retreat Center) To bring attention to the right things in the right way is crucial for our path. Through the mindful contemplation of our experience we can gain insight and develop liberating wisdom.
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Not all fights are created equal—some bring you closer, and some just make a mess. This week, Sarah breaks down what fair fighting actually looks like (and what it definitely doesn't), sharing her best tips and strategies for handling conflict in a healthier way. Then, she answers some of your questions about conflict: one from someone who always cries during arguments, another from someone struggling with a partner who fights louder (and meaner), and a sibling trying to navigate constant battles with their brother over their aging parents. Let's make conflict productive instead of destructive!Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/This Changes Everything Voicemail: Send in your question by calling or texting (313) 338-8828For a limited time, Wildgrain is offering our listeners $30 off the first box - PLUS free croissants in every box - when you go to Wildgrain.com/TCE to start your subscription.DISCLAIMER: This podcast offers information for educational and entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a qualified mental health provider for medical or mental health concerns. The host, guests, and network disclaim responsibility for any decisions or actions you make based on information provided by this podcast.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In today's episode, we welcome Renee Bellinger, a behavior change coach specializing in menopause and emotional eating. From her beginnings as an educator working with adolescents to becoming a health coach, Renee shares her unique journey and how she found her passion for guiding others through compassionate, evidence-based practices. We dive into the mindset shifts and practical skills needed to make meaningful, lasting changes - whether it's managing emotional eating, navigating menopause, or creating sustainable habits.Renee offers insights on breaking free from the overwhelm of "doing it all" and emphasizes the importance of celebrating small wins. The conversation also explores the role of mindset, the emotional and rational balance needed for behavior change, and the transformative power of embracing imperfections in the journey toward health and wellness.“You are not your emotions. A feeling isn't a fact—it's just a signal inviting you to take action.”- Renee Bellinger“Consistency isn't about doing the maximum; it's about finding ways to engage in any version of the behavior that fits your life.”- Renee BellingerThis week on Here's the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don't Want Life to Suck:Renee's unique journey from education to behavior change coaching.Why behavior change starts with meeting yourself where you are.The challenges of navigating perimenopause and menopause, and how to adapt.How to manage stress by separating feelings from identity.Why sleep, stress management, and mindset are critical during life transitions.Practical strategies for emotional eating, including the importance of “pausing."The role of positive reinforcement and celebrating small wins in behavior change.Insights into DBT (dialectical behavior therapy) and managing emotions effectively.Connect with Renee Bellinger:Renee Bellinger on InstagramRenee Bellinger on TikTokCoach Renee Bellinger WebsiteThanks for tuning in to this week's episode of Here's the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don't Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.Apple Podcasts | SpotifyBe sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us!Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram, Meri on Instagram, and Amy Rudolph on Instagram.
Could the key to finding “the one” be rethinking how we date altogether? This week on This Changes Everything, Sarah is joined by Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu, hosts of the Dateable podcast and authors of the new book Dateable: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Person and Falling in Love. They discuss how to approach love with realism and intention, offering advice on navigating dating apps, managing expectations, and building authentic relationships. Whether you're looking for "the one" or simply want to better understand modern love, this conversation is packed with practical tips and fresh perspectives.Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/This Changes Everything Voicemail: Send in your question by calling or texting (313) 338-8828Pick up Dateable: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Person and Falling in Love: dateablepodcast.com/bookListen to Dateable: dateablepodcast.comKeep up with Julie and Yue :@dateablepodcastFor a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners ten dollars off your first month's subscription and free shipping when you go to Nutrafol.com and enter the promo code CHANGESDISCLAIMER: This podcast offers information for educational and entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a qualified mental health provider for medical or mental health concerns. The host, guests, and network disclaim responsibility for any decisions or actions you make based on information provided by this podcast.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this cozy, reflective episode of This Changes Everything, Sarah invites you to slow down, grab a notebook and a warm drink, and join her in wrapping up the year with intention. Instead of worrying about resolutions, Sarah shares simple, meaningful ways to reflect on 2024 and align your energy for the year ahead.Through thoughtful journal prompts—like uncovering what brought you joy, what drained you, and the lessons you want to carry forward—you'll explore how to set intentions that truly resonate with your values. Sarah also offers practical tips, from morning rituals to habit stacking, to help you create sustainable growth (with plenty of room for messiness and self-compassion along the way).Take a deep breath, get cozy, and let's step into 2025 with clarity and care. This is your moment to embrace gentle, intentional growth—no resolutions required.Call the TCE voicemail line and share your intentions for 2025! (313) 338-8828Sarah's prompts for reflecting and realigning: 1. What brought me joy this year? — Think small moments, not just big milestones. 2. What drained my energy? — Relationships, commitments, habits—be honest. 3. What's one thing I'm proud of? — Even if no one else noticed. 4. What's one hard lesson I learned? — Growth often comes wrapped in discomfort. 5. What—or who—do I need to let go of? — Sometimes releasing creates space for better things.Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/This Changes Everything Voicemail: Send in your question by calling or texting (313) 338-8828Cancel your unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster with Rocket Money. Go to RocketMoney.comTCE todaySave on the perfect gift by visiting AuraFrames.com to get $35-off Aura's best-selling Carver Mat frames by using promo code TCE at checkout.DISCLAIMER: This podcast offers information for educational and entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a qualified mental health provider for medical or mental health concerns. The host, guests, and network disclaim responsibility for any decisions or actions you make based on information provided by this podcast.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Making healthy decisions is one of the most difficult things to do for people struggling with mental illness. Conditions like depression, anxiety, PTSD, ADHD, affect both our conscious thoughts, as well as, our emotional experiences. Living with anxiety or depression can make you doubt your judgment, leading to cycles of poor choices and regret. I've been there, and I've discovered a powerful DBT technique that changed everything. In this episode, I'll teach you the Wise Mind method to balance your emotional and rational minds, helping you make decisions you won't regret later. Get Practical tools for navigating life with depression and anxiety, delivered weekly. 3 Unique ways to work with me Mood Bloom games for depression and anxiety (I have partnered with this brand) Dramatically improve your sleep in 2 steps with my new Sleep Workbook. My book: For When Everything is Burning Connect with me on TikTok Connect on Instagram Disclaimer: This content is not intended to be a replacement for receiving treatment. It is purely educational in nature. My relationship with you is that of presenter and audience, not therapist and client. But I do care. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/scott-eilers/support
Struggling with the pressures of parenthood? Wondering how to support a loved one in a tough relationship? You're not alone! In this week's This Changes Everything, Sarah shares insights on managing the anxieties of caring for others and navigating the chaos of parenting. She educates listeners on the cycle of abuse, offering invaluable tools for recognizing unhealthy patterns and provides a lesson on developing cope-ahead skills to stay grounded during life's challenges. From finding calm in the moment to maintaining healthy boundaries, this conversation is full of practical strategies and compassionate advice.Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/This Changes Everything Voicemail: Send in your question by calling or texting (313) 338-8828DISCLAIMER: This podcast offers information for educational and entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a qualified mental health provider for medical or mental health concerns. The host, guests, and network disclaim responsibility for any decisions or actions you make based on information provided by this podcast.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Follow Him: A Come, Follow Me Podcast featuring Hank Smith & John Bytheway
Dr. Doug Benson continues to explore Moroni's treatise on charity and the warning signs for our days regarding anger, pride, and contempt.SHOW NOTES/TRANSCRIPTSEnglish: https://tinyurl.com/podcastBM48ENFrench: https://tinyurl.com/podcastBM48FRGerman: https://tinyurl.com/podcastBM48DEPortuguese: https://tinyurl.com/podcastBM48PTSpanish: https://tinyurl.com/podcastBM48ESYOUTUBEhttps://youtu.be/_d4DA9UbksQALL EPISODES/SHOW NOTESfollowHIM website: https://www.followHIMpodcast.comFREE PDF DOWNLOADS OF followHIM QUOTE BOOKSNew Testament: https://tinyurl.com/PodcastNTBookOld Testament: https://tinyurl.com/PodcastOTBookWEEKLY NEWSLETTERhttps://tinyurl.com/followHIMnewsletterSOCIAL MEDIAInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/followHIMpodcastFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/followhimpodcastTIMECODE00:00 Part II - Dr. Doug Benson03:22 Loving yourself07:08 Ignore the haters08:28 Faith involves action11:14 Opposition between things13:22 Pride, envy, and contempt15:39 Ether 14:25-15:19 - Anger leads to destruction17:14 Ether 15:22-25 - Drunken with anger18:25 Acting in faith vs acting on emotion19:37 Star Trek or Harry Potter analogy22:55 The Wise Mind and handling anger27:50 Ether 15:16 - Radical Acceptance30:41 He comes to himself32:04 Adversarial relationships35:35 Mindfulness and not acting on negative emotion38:33 Becoming a peacemaker40:27 How does the Book of Mormon compare?45:51 End of Part 2 - Dr. Doug BensonThanks to the followHIM team:Steve & Shannon Sorensen: Cofounder, Executive Producer, SponsorDavid & Verla Sorensen: SponsorsDr. Hank Smith: Co-hostJohn Bytheway: Co-hostDavid Perry: ProducerKyle Nelson: Marketing, SponsorLisa Spice: Client Relations, Editor, Show NotesJamie Neilson: Social Media, Graphic DesignWill Stoughton: Video EditorKrystal Roberts: Translation Team, English & French Transcripts, WebsiteAriel Cuadra: Spanish Transcripts"Let Zion in Her Beauty Rise" by Marshall McDonaldhttps://www.marshallmcdonaldmusic.com
This week, Sarah welcomes Dr. Susie Meister, a PhD in religious studies, to delve into the intricate intersections of religion, politics, and culture as a way to think through the post-election anxiety that many of us are feeling right now, no matter how you voted. Together, they offer practical strategies for managing personal emotions while also encouraging outward action as a way to combat fear and anxiety in meaningful, real-world ways.Listen to more podcasts like this, including Susie and Sarah's The Brain Candy Podcast: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/This Changes Everything Voicemail: Send in your question by calling or texting (313) 338-8828Get 15% off LolaVie with the code CHANGES15 at https://www.lolavie.com/CHANGES15 #lolaviepodWildgrain is offering our listeners $30 off the first box - PLUS a free item in every box - when you go to Wildgrain.com/TCETo get 15% off your next gift, go to UNCOMMONGOODS.com/TCEStop wasting money on things you don't use. Cancel your unwanted subscriptions by going to RocketMoney.com/TCESee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Dialectical Behavior Therapy aims to improve emotional dysregulation through four basic skills modules: core mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness. Learn more about DBT for adults with ADHD from Scott Spradlin, LPC. DBT Skills for ADHD Symptoms: More Resources Download: What Is Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)? Read: Why Dialectical Behavior Therapy Works Read: DBT Plus tDCS May Best Improve ADHD Symptoms in Adults eBook: The Adult's Guide to Stronger Executive Functions Access the video and slides for podcast episode #527 here: https://www.additudemag.com/webinar/dbt-adhd-adult-treatment-guide/ Thank you for listening to ADDitude's ADHD Experts podcast. Please consider subscribing to the magazine (additu.de/subscribe) to support our mission of providing ADHD education and support.
Can pop culture icons like the Muppets aid in self-discovery? Join Sarah as she chats with Tara Giancaspro, the brilliant writer behind xoxo Gossip Giancaspro. They explore her playful perspective on the Muppet Big Three and discuss how we can use pop culture as a fun, wholesome way to help better understand ourselves and one another.Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Subscribe to Tara's Substack: xoxo Gossip GiancasproFollow Tara on Instagram: @sweatylamarrBecome the best version of yourself and get 15% off Ned products with code TCE. Go to helloned.com/TCE or enter code TCE at checkout.This Changes Everything Voicemail: Send in your question by calling or texting (313) 338-8828See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Are we more connected than ever but feeling more isolated? This week, Sarah welcomes Dr. Adam Dorsay to delve into the essence of connection amidst modern distractions like smartphones and social media. They discuss how these digital conveniences often detract from genuine interaction and provide practical tips, such as Dr. Dorsay's FEED model, to help us cultivate meaningful activities and deeper connections with ourselves, others, and the world at large.Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Learn more about Adam Dorsay: https://dradamdorsay.com/Listen to SuperPsyched with Dr. Adam DorsayConnect with Dr. Dorsay on LinkedinRead Super Psyched: Unleash the Power of the 4 Types of Connection and Live the Life You LoveThis Changes Everything Voicemail: Send in your question by calling or texting (313) 338-8828To get 15% off your next gift, go to https://www.uncommongoods.com/TCESee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Ever wondered how to stay true to yourself in the world of dating? Join Sarah as she talks with Rachel DeAlto, a communication and relatability expert, about the importance of authenticity in dating and showing up as your true self. From the best time to share your baggage, to jumping back into the dating pool as a single parent, and so much more in between, Rachel's insights are crucial for anyone navigating relationships in today's world.Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/This Changes Everything Voicemail: Send in your question by calling or texting (313) 338-8828Keep up with Rachel DeAlto: racheldealto.comFollow Rachel on Instagram: @racheldealtoRead: relatable: How to Connect with Anyone, Anywhere (Even If It Scares You)For a limited time, Wildgrain is offering our listeners $30 off the first box - PLUS free croissants in every box - when you go to Wildgrain.com/TCE to start your subscription.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Have time for a quick chat? I wanted to talk to you about a confusing but important part of trauma work: Navigating the distinction between trauma brain and wise mind. In this mini episode, I am walking you through how to identify when trauma brain is taking over and how to reconnect with your wise mind for better decision-making and coping. If you've ever struggled with knowing which voice to trust, I'm offering practical strategies to help you navigate the maze. Friendly neighborhood reminder: This is hard stuff and you don't always have to figure it out alone. Consider this your standing invitation to join us for Tuesday Group. This is the kind of thing we will be talking about and figuring out together every week. Group is here to support you on your journey toward healing and self-trust.
The JOY Factor: Mindfulness, Compassion, Positive Psychology, Healing, Yoga
Welcome to the first episode of our 4 part series on using Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) for stronger relationships! In this episode, we dive into the foundational skill of mindfulness and the concept of Wise Mind.Key Points:Mindfulness: Understanding the importance of being present in the moment and how it can improve our relationships.Wise Mind: Learning to balance emotion and reason to make sound decisions in our interactions.Practical Exercises: Guided mindfulness practice and tips to access your Wise Mind in daily life.Stay Tuned: Next week, we'll focus on distress tolerance – techniques to manage intense emotions and stressful situations effectively.Connect With Us:Take a DBT Class with us!Join Our Facebook Community
စိတ်ခံစားမှု ကျန်းမာရေးကောင်းမွန်ဖို့ရယ်၊ လူမှုဝန်းကျင်ဆက်ဆံရေးအဆင်ပြေဖို့ရယ် အတွက် အထူးအရေးကြီးတဲ့ စိတ်အခြေအနေတစ်ခုအကြောင်း
'Cultivating a Calm & Wise Mind' - A Dhamma talk given by Ajahn Anan on 30 Jun 2024, translated from Thai to English. To join Ajahn Anan and the Wat Marp Jan Community online for daily chanting, meditation, and a Dhamma talk, you can email wmjdhamma@gmail.com for the link. Daily live sessions at 7.15pm - 9pm, Indochina Time (Bangkok, GMT+7).
Join Pastor Leah as she delves into the intersection of spirituality and mental health through the lens of Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT). This teaching unpacks the "Wise Mind" concept, highlighting how Jesus embodied this balance of emotion and reason in his actions and teachings. Through relatable anecdotes and biblical stories, Leah explorse practical DBT skills like mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotional regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness. Discover how these tools can help us stay grounded, connected, and focused on what truly matters in challenging times. Tune in for an enriching journey towards deeper wisdom and spiritual resilience.Review Leah's notes here and listen to or watch the teaching below.
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Have you ever wondered if your gut feelings are real or just a myth? On today's episode, Dr.Merry is going to her happy place and bringing us the science behind ‘gut feelings'. She helps us to understand what happens inside our body when that gut feeling kicks in, and what else we need to be aware of. Are gut feelings real? Can they be relied on at all times? Are they present-focused, future-focused or can they be both? Are gut feelings ever wrong? What is “The Wise Mind” and how do our emotions play a factor in this? As promised, we've included a great resource from this week's episode below. Check it out and let us know in the comments if it's something you'll be using! We love to hear from you always! ♥️ Listen to the full episode here or watch it on YouTube! "The Wise Mind" Visual: https://shorturl.at/t02fn Dr. Merry's Website: https://drmerry.com Dr. Lin & Associates: http://drlinandassociates.com Gillian's Website: https://gillianmcshane.com
Kate and Michelle talk about practicing mindfulness and wise mind from a spiritual perspective. They discuss 4 key goals of mindfulness, 5 contemplative practices for accessing wise mind, elements of mystical experiences and their personal experiences with practicing mindfulness and wise mind spiritually. Support the showIf you're a mental health professional/student and want to join us to learn more about our insider tips for launching and leading DBT groups, sign up for our next coffee hour group on April 1, 2024 here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/856399653417If you want to sign up for Kate's free DBT peer support group, you can sign up here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/dbt-discussion-group-tickets-518237601617Check out our Etsy shop for DBT-inspired items and our journaling workbook (only $7.50!): https://www.etsy.com/shop/dbtandmeOur book, "DBT for Everyone" is available! Order your copy on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/Dbt-Everyone-Pitfalls-Possibilities-Better/dp/1839975881/Consider providing ongoing support to the podcast by becoming a patron at https://www.patreon.com/dbtandmeYou can join our facebook community here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dbtandmepodcastCheck out our other podcast, The Couch and The Chair, on Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-couch-and-the-chair/id1554159244) or on Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/3MZ8aZPoRKxGmLtFcR4S4O)If you need support/have questions, email us at dbtandmepodcast@gmail.com
Ever feel like your emotions hijack you? Do they jump in the driver's seat and prevent you from thinking rationally? Or do you wish you weren't so factual and could be more sensitive, nurturing, or emotive? In this week's episode, Brett and Christa share how to find a balance between our Reason Mind and Emotion Mind so that we can regularly access our Wise Mind and make more balanced decisions. Do you have feedback or topic requests? Email us at podcast@nystromcounseling.comWe'd love to hear from you!Follow along:InstagramFacebookNystrom & Associates
Words of WelcomeRev. Angela Wells-BeanMeditative Music: Movement I from Moonlight SonataDr. Alexandra CarlsonInvocationMeditative Music: His Eye is on the SparrowDr. Alexandra CarlsonScripture: Romans 12: 2-3 (NSRV)Sermon: "Wise Mind and a Humble Heart"Rev. Angela Wells-Bean, Minister for Congregational CareMeditative Music: I Need Thee Every HourDr. Alexandra CarlsonBenedictionSupport the show
Mindfulness is a critical part of DBT. There are three core skills which include Wise Mind, "what" skills (what you do when practicing mindfulness - observing, describing, and participating) and "how" skills (how you practice when practicing mindfulness - nonjudgmentally, one-mindfully, effectively). Listen to this week's podcast for explanations and examples on how to practice your "what" skills. Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience Way of the Peaceful Warrior Episode 94 - Microanxieties: What can you fix in 5 minutes Episode 101 - Play Your Way to Wellness & Giveaway Week Episode 102 - All Work and No Play & the Giveaway Winners --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stephanie431/message
Discover the transformative power of emotion regulation in this episode, as we explore that module of dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), unveiling skills that help people navigate and transform unwanted emotions. From understanding the benefits of emotions to practicing opposite action and coping ahead, this episode provides valuable insights and practical strategies for managing emotion dysregulation. Tune in to gain useful tools for finding emotional well-being on the path to the wise mind. Faculty: Stephanie Vaughn, Psy.D. Host: Jessica Díaz, M.D. Script Editor: Anderson García, Ph.D. Learn more about ”DBT in Practice: Mastering the Essentials” and earn 5.25 CE credits. Prefer to read? Here's a text version: DBT in Practice: Emotional Regulation and Mindfulness Skills.
Affirming Truths Podcast | Faith| Mental Health | Encouragement
Welcome to this week's bonus episode of Affirming Truths! In this episode, Carla dives into the concept of "wise mind" and shares how it can help combat anxious, intrusive, and limiting thoughts. Inspired by a powerful conversation with one of her clients, Carla provides practical tools and wisdom for transforming your thinking. She introduces the concept of wise mind, which is a balanced state where rational and emotional minds intersect. Carla guides listeners through three key questions to ask themselves when faced with challenging thoughts, emphasizing the importance of aligning thoughts with the word of God. Join Carla as she equips you with the tools to combat negative thinking and find freedom in renewing hope. Get Bible Study 101 here Renewing Hope Info & Enrolment: https://www.carlaarges.com/renewing-hope Did you know that Carla is a Christian Mental Health and Life coach? See if working with her is what you need in your current season. Book a discovery call today! Connect With Carla: Book a Discovery call with me https://calendly.com/cmsarges/discoverycall Come hangout on IG with me @carla.arges Check out my blog and more at www.carlaarges.com Resources: 5 Steps to Building Resiliency Rahab Bible Study Guide 5 Tips for Overcoming a Negative Body Image Who You Say I Am Biblical Affirmation Cards
Lisa sits down with Dr. David Wiss to talk about using nutrition as a healing modality in recovery from addiction and how he invites nuance in as he works with clients who struggle with disordered eating from a mind-body approach. Topics Include: Neurochemistry and hedonic (rewards based) eating Ultra-Processed Food Addiction Qualitative approach to nutrition [5 types of] Restriction vs Dietary Restraint [11:40] Dr. Wiss speaks to the overlap between food addiction and eating disorders, and the difficulty of having open conversations about the topic in the current climate of binary thinking [23:00] Dr. Wiss talks about accessing the “Wise Mind,” not thinking in extremes, and addressing black and white thinking [34:00] Dr. Wiss shares how and why he works with clients to deconstruct old approaches and take the math out of nutrition and how one behavior can be totally functional for one person and disordered for another [47:00] Dr. Wiss explains what it means to be food positive and how he uses that mindset when working with clients [53:00] Dr. Wiss how he has made working with him accessible through his app Wise Mind Nutrition *The views and beliefs of podcast guests do not necessarily reflect the views and beliefs of Lisa Schlosberg or Out of the Cave, LLC. Connect with Dr. Wiss Instagram | Wise Mind Nutrition App | Nutrition in Recovery Purchase the OOTC book of 50 Journal Prompts Leave Questions and Feedback for Lisa via OOTC Pod Feedback Form Email Lisa: lisa@lisaschlosberg.com Become a Member of the Out of the Cave Online Community - Includes Two Live Coaching Calls Monthly Out of the Cave Merch - For 10% off use code SCHLOS10 Socials Instagram Facebook YouTube
This episode is sponsored by Alma. Alma is on a mission to simplify access to high-quality, affordable mental health care by giving providers the tools they need to build thriving in-network private practices. When providers join Alma, they gain access to insurance support, teletherapy software, client referrals, automated billing and scheduling tools, and a vibrant community of clinicians who come together for education, training, and events.Sign up today at https://helloalma.comHow can you achieve emotional and psychological well-being by understanding and integrating the various parts of yourself? Can the Adult Chair help you connect to your Adult part and achieve overall well-being?MEET Jenny JansenJenny Jansen is a Licensed Independent Social Worker of Clinical Practice (LISW-CP) and Certified Adult Chair® Master Coach. Jenny received her Master's Degree in Social Work from the University of South Carolina and worked in community mental health, later obtaining her coaching and master coaching certification in The Adult Chair® model. Jenny has always had a passion for helping and relating to others in vulnerable and meaningful ways. Walking through her own journey of healing and self-discovery, she considers herself a student of life and the love child of all she has learned and encountered, understanding each experience as a gift for her soul's unique purpose. She truly believes we were never meant to do life alone, inspiring her to demonstrate unconditional acceptance and emotional safety for all she meets. She uses a unique blend of tools and techniques, both from her mental health and coaching backgrounds, to help individuals gain self-awareness and courage to release unhealthy patterns and guide them home to their soul's purpose. She empowers her clients to find their truth, connect with their inner knowing, and confidently step into a grounded and conscious life of radical authenticity and meaningful connection with themselves and others. Jenny is the owner of Conscious Living Therapy and Coaching practice and sees individuals, couples, and families virtually on the local and international levels. She currently lives in South Carolina with her dog, Abby. Find out more at Conscious Living and connect with Jenny on, Instagram & FacebookIN THIS PODCAST:What is the Adult Chair model? 1:51How does our Nervous System Regulation work with the Adult Chair Model? 7:53Integrating other therapy models with the Adult Chair Model 20:44What Is The Adult Chair Model?How do our experiences shape who we are?How can you begin to ground yourself into the healthiest version of yourself?What are the 3 stages of the Adult Chair model?How Does Our Nervous System Regulation Work With The Adult Chair Model?Learning to be more aware of how our bodies react to stressThe importance of being present in your pain and your joyDoes self-awareness promote healing?The importance of setting an intention Integrating Other Therapy Models With The Adult Chair ModelWhat is Wise Mind in DBT and how does it overlap with the Adult Chair Model?How to integrate other modalities with the Adult Chair ModelHow to treat trauma with this modelWhat each chair represents and how to integrate other modalities into...
In this episode of Mother Mayhem: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast for Daughters, we're talking about what to say in the moment of a narcissistic attack. Trauma brain wires you for fight, flight, or freeze. We want to invite Wise Mind into the conversation so you can respond with calm resilience. Learn effective strategies and communication techniques for handling narcissistic behavior without losing yourself or cowering to your mom. Gain insights into assertive responses that protect your emotional well-being. Learn how to establish boundaries and maintain your inner strength when confronted with narcissistic behavior Question for the show? Send an email or recorded voice memo to: Heather@DaughtersNPD.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mothermayhem/message
WHYLD - Podcast for Bold Authentic People (And Those Who Wish They Were)
Is “should” still part of your vocabulary? If it's not a F*** YES, it's a F*** NO! In short, we talk about this in the episode:How the way you are eating might reflect your connection with yourself.How a “head person” might find access to their heart's voice.What you might want to know about the local culture before moving to the Azores…In more words:Alexandra “Allie” Elle has not always been this connected with the callings of her inner voice. The passionate writer lived with a severe eating disorder for nearly two decades. The anorexia that had once filled a void, lies slumbering now and serves as a beacon for when Allie strays from her truth. Equipped with a wild curiosity, a fearlessness, and a radical love for what's authentically human, she followed her soul on a nomad journey to self. From Canada, where she grew up, past a small island in the Atlantic, where she leaped and fell, all the way to Poland, where her roots called. Listen to Allie share about her difficulties in navigating cultural clashes, reconciling the intellect and heart, making truthful decisions - and erroring at times. Resources mentioned in this episode:Gabor Maté - www.drgabormate.com“Wise Mind”- Concept of Dialectic Behavior TherapyDo you want to connect with Allie?Instagram: @alexandraelle.writerDo you enjoy WHYLD? Then get in touch! Quick one-stop-shop: www.linktr.ee/whyld.podcast Follow us on Instagram: @whyld.thepodcast Find us on Facebook: @whyld.one Or visit our website: www.whyld.one
Activating 'Wise Mind' ~ Dialectical Behavioral Therapy Tools to Empower Your Well-Being The WISDOM podcast Season 4 Episode 25 ~ Observe and practice mindfulness and living one's truth as a balanced approach to life. This is one of the goals of DBT practice. ~
David became a Registered Dietitian Nutritionist (RDN) in 2013 and founded Nutrition in Recovery, a group practice of RDNs specializing in treating eating and substance use disorders. He earned his Ph.D. in Public Health with a minor in Health Psychology from UCLA by investigating links between adverse childhood experiences and mental health outcomes among socially disadvantaged men. Learn more about the intersection of nutrition and mental health using his new app called Wise Mind Nutrition. We discuss topics including: What led David to develop the Wise Mind Nutrition App? Who is the target audience for his new app? Understanding the importance of nutrition and mental health The five components of the Wise Mind Nutrition App How is this app different from other apps? SHOW NOTES: www.wisemindnutrition.com www.nutritioninrecovery.com https://www.instagram.com/wisemindnutrition/ https://www.instagram.com/drdavidwiss/ ____________________________________________ If you have any questions regarding the topics discussed on this podcast, please reach out to Robyn directly via email: rlgrd@askaboutfood.com You can also connect with Robyn on social media by following her on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and LinkedIn. If you enjoyed this podcast, please leave a review on iTunes and subscribe. Visit Robyn's private practice website where you can subscribe to her free monthly insight newsletter, and receive your FREE GUIDE “Maximizing Your Time with Those Struggling with an Eating Disorder”. Your Recovery Resource, Robyn's new online course for navigating your loved one's eating disorder, is available now! For more information on Robyn's book “The Eating Disorder Trap”, please visit the Official "The Eating Disorder Trap" Website. “The Eating Disorder Trap” is also available for purchase on Amazon.
Hey Heal Squad, by now we know how much our thoughts affect our success, health and wellness. On this All Stars, we dive deep into the world of brain rewiring, personal growth, and harnessing the immense power of your mind with two incredible guests who are masters in their fields, helping millions of people unlock their full potential. Dr. Caroline Leaf's groundbreaking research on neuroplasticity has shown us that we can rewire our brains for positive change, leading to a life filled with purpose and abundance. Gabby Bernstein is literally one of my closest friends who has helped me, personally, through crisis. Her work helps you embrace mindfulness, break free from limiting beliefs, live authentically and stepping true power and potential. Dr. Leaf The Brain Continuously Evolves: the effects of thoughts, actions, and experiences as well as positive and negative influences on brain evolution. Depression and Anxiety as Warning Signals: they serve as warning signals. Neurocycle for Mind Management: Dr. Caroline Leaf's five-step system, to identify root causes of emotions and alter thought patterns. 'Mind Management' for Optimal Performance: it can enhance decision-making, mental performance, and resilience in various situations. Wise Mind and Self-Regulation: Staying in a "wise" state through self-regulation and the neurocycle. Embrace and Manage Emotions: engaging in the neurocycle, seeing emotions as messengers, becoming "thought detectives" and practicing self-compassion. Gabby Bernstein Beliefs Created by Traumatic Events: feelings of separation, superiority, racism, and division, the need to recognize interconnectedness. Empathy and the Lens of Love: recognizing ourselves in others, being compassionate about their pain vs. taking on their energy. Forgiveness Transforms Relationships: prayer, releasing judgment and offering offenders love and freedom from suffering. Surrender to Creative Solutions: releasing control and resistance allows inspired ideas to flow and guide. Affirmations and Prayers: affirmations and prayers are forms of surrender AND tools to heal and manifest. Stillness Inspires Receiving and Change: being in alignment with breath and inner state creates solutions and clears path for positive change. HEAL SQUAD SOCIALS IG: www.instagram.com/healsquad/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@healsquadxmaria APPLE PODCASTS: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/heal-squad-x-maria-menounos/id1320060107 SPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/show/2kXrmaNDQQ4i6prZe6LO89?si=2J2jLRd3RUedGPBgpVLrnQ HEAL SQUAD RESOURCES: Website: www.mariamenounos.com Curated Macy's Page: www.macys.com/healsquad Rosetta Stone: www.rosettastone.com/healsquad Noom: www.noom.com Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/HealSquad?utm_med ABOUT MARIA MENOUNOS: Emmy Award-winning journalist, TV personality, actress, 2x NYT best-selling author, former pro-wrestler and brain tumor survivor, Maria Menounos' passion is to see others heal and to get better in all areas of life. ABOUT HEAL SQUAD x MARIA MENOUNOS: A daily digital talk-show that brings you the world's leading healers, experts, and celebrities to share groundbreaking secrets and tips to getting better in all areas of life. DISCLAIMER: This Podcast and all related content [published or distributed by or on behalf of Maria Menounos or Mariamenounos.com] is for informational purposes only and may include information that is general in nature and that is not specific to you. Any information or opinions provided by guest experts or hosts featured within website or on Company's Podcast are their own; not those of Maria Menounos or the Company. Accordingly, Maria Menounos and the Company cannot be responsible for any results or consequences or actions you may take based on such information or opinions. If you have, or suspect you may have, a health-care emergency, please contact a qualified health care professional for treatment.
Striking a balance between too much logic and too much emotion isn't easy. But with a bit of practise you can create what therapists sometimes refer to as the Wise Mind.Support the showSubmit a question https://richardnicholls.net/question/ Social Media Links Twitter https://twitter.com/richardnicholls Instagram https://www.instagram.com/richardnichollsreal Facebook https://www.facebook.com/RichardNichollsAuthor Youtube https://www.youtube.com/richardnicholls Mastadon https://mastodon.social/@richardnicholls
Dr. Jenna Glover is our guest-host for Pride Week! Today, she breaks down the different "mind states," and how she was able to tap into her own "wise mind" during a particularly difficult period of motherhood.For more Pride content, check out our collection in the app! Start a free 30-day trial here.
In everything, there is something for you. This simple sentence is quite powerful as it reminds us that no matter what finds us, we can use it to our advantage. Today's mindset reset question comes from Georgia in Memphis, Tennessee. She wrote in and said, “Danielle, I am actively working on my mindset. I realized a few months ago that I have spent a lot of my life living through a negative mindset. Something was always wrong. I never felt like good things could or would happen to me. And, drama seems to follow me no matter where I go. I want to change it, but when I looked up what a growth mindset after listening to one of your podcasts I became confused. There's so much information out there. I thought maybe you could make it simpler and perhaps offer a simple exercise that will help me get into a growth mindset. The growth mindset truly resides in the wise mind. Grasping the mind's inner workings beyond how thought is validated, or storytelling patterns of the brain is next-level-life-together mastery, and it starts with getting into the wise mind. The three active states of the mind are the reasonable mind, the emotional mind, and the wise mind. Whether we like it or not, we all actively use each of these states, but most of us tend to gravitate toward one specific area the majority of the time. With the “Wise Mind” we can: Retain or regain calmness in stressful or uncomfortable experiences. Find clarity. Create peace and pleasurable experiences. Hone a deeper understanding of self. Tame the beast of limiting beliefs, thoughts, feelings, and habits. Recognize and regulate emotions. Enhance our relationship with self and others. Grow in emotional intelligence. So, to go back to Georgia's original question, what is a growth mindsey? We want to take the factors of the wise brain and then move them into growth-centered practices. The person with a growth mindset accepts criticism and negativity not as something they are lacking, but instead as constructive feedback. They equate rewards with their efforts and they celebrate their successes, big and small. They see setbacks not as full stops, nor as failures, but as a way to grow in strength and reset where needed. Persistence and an attitude to never give up is always high in their life operations. Asks the question: How can I serve? What more can I do? Am I following my passion? Love this mini reset and want to keep the inspiration and conversation going? Send your request to getyourlifetogethergirlnow@gmail.com. Join the 18.2 K members on Instagram, Facebook, and Tik Tok who are engaging in their own life revolution daily. Like this show? Please leave us a review here – even one sentence helps! Also, please post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally! Sign up for the Get Your Life Together, Girl Insider Email here! Still looking for more? Visit: www.getyourlifetogethergirl.com and the Get Your Life Together, Girl personal development blog. If you are interested in learning more about your emotions, you don't want to miss the NEW You Are Only as Strong as Your Weakest Emotion downloadable journal! Podcast listeners receive a 50% discount off their purchase. Click here to check it out! Join THE GET YOUR LIFE TOGETHER, GIRL COMMUNITY. Sign up for the NEW GET YOUR LIFE TOGETHER, GIRL WOMEN'S CIRCLE MEMBERSHIP! CHECK OUT www.getyourlifetogethergirl.com/womens-circle for more information.
This is part 2 of the 4 part series with Tim and Natasha who share their concerns and challenges with their 6-year-old daughter Rosie. This episode discusses how Tim and Natasha's own childhood experiences and their personalities affect how they in turn parent their own child. Tim and Natasha both feel strongly about not repeating what their own parents modeled. It's harder than you think, to not impose your own issues into parenting. And it doesn't help that children often and easily make the interpretation that they are BAD. Children can feel invalidated when that is not the intention of their parents. And its not only the child that can feel badly about themselves. Parents can also feel judged or struggle to feel good enough as a parent. Takeaways from this session:6:09 Use the expression - when does this work for you and when does this not work for you7:03 Practice being dialectic - use two hands when helping the child become aware of what's happening inside themselves and what's happening outside of them. 7:37 Slow down when dealing with your child. It helps you and it helps them7:56 Playing the Other-Interpretation-Game. 8:49 S.T.O.P. Skill14:25 Telling a child what to do, rather than telling your child what not to do. 17:32 Clarifying the intention of communication 21:05 Being responsible as the adult for your own anger (children don't make us angry, that's how you respond to whatever they are doing)21:50 The three states of mind - Emotion Mind, Wise Mind, Reasonable Mind24:30 Shoulding our children is shaming them - Example of shaming statement31:50 It is very common for children to feel like they are bad - that's shame.Beware of the shame-blame game. 32:50 Using the line: That's a feeling not a factLESLIE-ISM Every quality or behavior we have works for us some of the time and doesn't work some of the time. Whether it is being loud or doing nothing, there are two sides of the coin for each behavior or quality that we have. Ask yourself and ask your child: When does this work for you and when does it not work for youShow Note LinksAn overview of What Dialectic Behavior TherapyThree States of Mind STOP SkillFor a full transcript of this episode and more information about the host visit https://lesliecohenrubury.com/podcast/. You can also follow Leslie's work on Facebook and Instagram. Join the conversation with your own questions and parenting experiencesCredits: Is My Child a Monster? is produced by Alletta Cooper, Dale Rubury, and Leslie Cohen-Rubury. Theme music is by L-Ray Music. Public relations is handled by Tink Media. Transcriptions by Eric Rubury. A special thanks to everyone who contribute
The Modern Therapist's Survival Guide with Curt Widhalm and Katie Vernoy
Teaching Wisdom: Best practices for decision-making to support your clients Curt and Katie chat about decision-making best practices. We look at how we make decisions, what the decision-making process looks like, what can get in the way of effective decision-making, and how therapists can support their clients in making the best possible decisions. This is a continuing education podcourse. Transcripts for this episode will be available at mtsgpodcast.com! In this podcast episode we talk about how therapists can support clients in decision-making When therapists are asked “what do I do?!?” by their clients, we can often redirect our clients back and encourage them to make their own decisions. But what if we could provide them with best practices to support their decision-making process? This workshop is designed to help therapists learn more about how people typically make decisions, the cultural differences that can show up in the decision-making process, and best practices to support clients in making informed decisions. How do we make decisions? · We don't often choose what is in our best interest · Emotions, mood, bias impact how we make decisions · The DBT concept of Wise Mind, is a strong space to make decision · Individual differences, including age, generation, family structures · Cultural differences, including individualistic versus collectivist, tight or loose cultures (how many norms and how strictly they are enforced), cognitive style (wholistic versus analytic) · Intersectionality also plays a part in how these factors can impact decision-making What does the decision-making process look like? · Does a decision need to be made? · Who/what makes this decision? · How is the decision? · How much time and energy are invested in the decision-making? · What are the alternatives? · What could happen if the decision is implemented? · What would happen if I make this decision? · What values are relevant? · What are the tradeoffs? · How acceptable is this decision to the people around me? · Implementation What can get in the way of effective decision-making? · How someone has been parented · Mental health concerns like anxiety · Cognitive biases like confirmation bias, anchoring, and availability bias · Misalignment with values · Errors from Decisive by Dan and Chip Heath: narrow framing, confirmation bias, short-term emotions, overconfidence · Defensive decision-making when there is a lack of resources or safety · Low sleep impacts both at overall cognitive and metacognitive levels What are best practices for decision-making? · Looking at opportunities for moral development when there are misalignments or conflicts between core values when making a decision · From Decisive: WRAP techniques to improve decision-making Receive Continuing Education for this Episode of the Modern Therapist's Survival Guide You can find this full course (including handouts and resources) here: https://moderntherapistcommunity.com/podcourse/ Continuing Education Approvals: Continuing Education Information Stay in Touch with Curt, Katie, and the whole Therapy Reimagined #TherapyMovement: Patreon Buy Me A Coffee Modern Therapist's Survival Guide Creative Credits: Voice Over by DW McCann https://www.facebook.com/McCannDW/ Music by Crystal Grooms Mangano https://groomsymusic.com/
Charlie provides an in-depth discussion of WISE MIND as used in DBT. What is it, why is it so valuable, what are perspectives on it, what are its features, how do you access it and use it? He then discusses a painful example from his own life when he needed wise mind but failed to access it.