Podcast appearances and mentions of tom gagliano

The Super Bowl is one of the most exciting events of the year in our country. Unfortunately, many lives will be destroyed by gambling excessive amounts of money and this will have devastating consequences. A gambling addiction, or any addiction, is so powerful that the addict forgets the pain it causes themselves, and those they love. The addiction feels like a form of oxygen to the addict where they emotionally feel they can't find happiness without it. Gambling becomes their coping mechanism to deal with the discomforts of life. This podcast will address why some can control there gambling and others destroy their life by gambling uncontrollably. We will discuss what creates all addiction, as well as the solution to not only stopping the addiction but also ‘staying stopped'. It's difficult to understand any addictive disorder. It's like putting together a jigsaw puzzle and it's not easy to see how the pieces fit. In this podcast I will clearly demonstrate how each piece fits by discussing the Problem, the Solution, and how to work the Solution.   Watch: https://youtu.be/z0Yep219cLQ 

We will discuss the ways to create healthy boundaries in our lives, in the work place, as well as with our significant other, friends, parents, and children. We will discuss why it is importnat to understand the difference between selfishness and self-care when setting boundaries. This difference can be confusing if you come from a childhood that didn't model healthy boundaries between the caregivers in our own childhood. We will also discuss how to process uncomfortable feelings with others when boundaries are initially put into place. Learning that uncomfortable conversation, if communicated properly, will create a healthier environment for ourselves and those around us. Watch https://www.transformationtalkradio.com/watch.html 

"Is Your Subconscious Fear Causing You To Fail, Even Before You Try?" It happens this time every year.  Many of us start the New Year with willingness, but seem to lose the zest within a few weeks or months. We set resolutions yet very few see them through, only 8 percent. Will this be yet another year where you make and then break your Resolutions?  The truth is, if you make a New Year's Resolution again this year, you're setting yourself up for failure.  It's not because you are a failure, it's simply because you're not addressing the real problem which is early childhood messages which connects to our adult fears and false pride. Until you do something different, you're going to get the same results, year after year.  But don't beat yourself up, you're definitely not alone, let's work through this process together. Watch https://www.transformationtalkradio.com/watch.html 

What are the characteristics of a narcissist? How does the narcissist destroy their partner's self-worth without them knowing it. What personalities do the narcissist attract? How do narcissist eventually separate their partner from family and friends. What is gas lighting? How and why does a narcissists gaslight those closest to them? Why do they do this to those they love. What is the bill the partner pays, short term and long term, if they stay in a narcissistic relationship. Why is it so important to create healthy boundaries, consequences, and support groups to survive or end a narcissistic relationship? Watch https://www.transformationtalkradio.com/watch.html 

The holidays are a great time of year for many of us but the holidays can create a great deal of stress as well. Who did you want to throw the turkey at this Thanksgiving. Let's discuss the holidays and the unneeded stress we put upon ourselves when we go back to our family of origin. We play roles in our adult life that were created by the messages we received in childhood. What inner voice is commanding us to play these roles and why do we listen? Watch https://www.transformationtalkradio.com/watch.html 

Breakups can be one of the most painful experiences in our lives. After a breakup, many times we go through the grieving stages of denial, anger, sadness, and finally acceptance. It's not healthy to jump into the next relationship until we have time to heal and to take inventory of our last relationship in order to avoid making the same mistakes. Take this opportunity to self-reflect and learn lessons from past behaviors and actions, in order to improve oneself and achieve an enduring relationship in the future.   There is no such thing as a perfect relationship and conflict is inevitable. This podcast will offer strategies on how to communicate with your partner in a healthy way. This is why attending counseling before a major disagreement occurs is very beneficial for a couple. This podcast outlines how a third party can add clarity and serve as a guiding light in a relationship. We will highlight key components that should be addressed in order to prepare the couple on ways to effectively communicate.     Watch https://www.transformationtalkradio.com/watch.html 

Today's youth have received confusing messages, which has led to distorted values and cultivated an anxiety-ridden society. They have gone thru a Covid, a virus that shut our country down. Multiple wars going on in other countries and now hurricanes of unbelievable magnitudes. Many of us have learned to escape with social media. What are the benefits and the cost associated with this. Social media and advertisements are more powerful than ever in deciding the way our children should behave, dress, and act. Many individuals compare themselves to the filtered, “picture-perfect” photos that they see on social media, which can lead to feelings of sadness or inferiority, or anxiety. They have also consciously or subconsciously been enslaved by the number of likes or followers they have on Instagram and Facebook. Through self- awareness and positive actions this podcast will provide the listener with tools to help them battle through their depression on a day-to-day basis. We will then discuss the ways their loved ones can also help those they love gain victory over their fight against depression. We all hurt when those we love suffer. Its important to understand which actions can help nurse them to health and which actions, even with the best of intentions, can actually fuel the person's anxiety and depression. Watch https://www.transformationtalkradio.com/watch.html 

Join me this Tuesday October first on Transformational talk radio at 10 Pacicific 1 Eastern discussing the ways to fix a broken relationship. Many times relationships are destined to fail due to fears of intimacy, poor communication, and lack of healthy boundaries, which are all created by childhood messages and are acted out in adulthood. If there is betrayal in a relationship, it takes courage, willingness and diligence to rebuild trust with the partner. This starts with the willingness to seek help, followed by the willingness to take direction. The good news is devastation can create a miracle. After working through the pain of betrayal, many times I've helped couples find greater intimacy then they ever thought possible. This devastation forces the couple to recognize the areas of the relationship that needed attention, which may have been ignored if the betrayal never occurred. Also we are dealing in an age where digital infidelity is very easy and comes in different shapes and sizes—from emotional affairs to adultery. And now, more and more instances of inappropriate online relationships are surfacing. Digital infidelity is when we use digital products, computers, phones, wristwatches or televisions where we are viewing, listening or writing about sexual innuendo that should only be shared with our significant other. It is betrayal, only its betrayal using digital products. This comes in the form of pornography, sexting, texting, chat rooms etc. Usually, they are kept secret from our significant other and shameful in nature. Watch https://www.transformationtalkradio.com/watch.html 

We are all products of the messages we receive in our lives. None of these messages are as powerful as those we receive in childhood. Tom Gagliano focuses on the messages given to us in childhood, verbal and non-verbal, and how they impact the roles one grows up to play and the ways these roles affect one's intimate relationships. He discusses the steps to identify the roles one plays in order to grow as a person will be outlined, as well as the ‘People Pleaser' and ‘Caretaker' roles. The challenges associated with these roles, as well as ways to overcome these challenges, will be discussed.

Is it different than alcohol? What does it do to motivation? Is addiciton a problem in Bais Yaakov? How should we educate our youth? What's the underlying cause of addiction? and much more.... with Rabbi Berel Wein –  Noted Rav, Historian, Lecturer – 22:18with Rabbi Avrohom Neuberger – Rav of Shaarei Tefillah of New Hempstead, Maggid Shiur for bochurim – 29:56with Dr Leslie Klein – Academic Dean of the Woman Institute of Torah Seminary & College – 43:23with Rabbi Yisroel Grossberg –  Mashgiach Ruchni of Bnos Chaya Academy, Brooklyn – 45:06with Rabbi Moshe Elefant - COO, OU Kosher - 58:16with Mr. Tom Gagliano, MSW - Addictions Expert, Speaker, Coach - 01:06:12 מראי מקומות  

Tom Gagliano is a respected expert and best selling author on Family Dynamics.  He has appeared on The Jenny McCarthy and Dr. Oz Shows.  Tom talks with me about how our earliest childhood relationships impact how much we like ourselves and how we parents, need to wake up!  Your kid is watching and learning.  Tom  explains how he engages easily with teens and adults around the most difficult topics to bring healing. 

Tom Gagliano is a high profile leader in addiction and self-help. Author of the bestselling book, "The Problem Was Me" == Tom is a regular of several shows including, John Fugalsang and many more. We are all going through an intense time right now and relationships can be strained. Tom has incredible insight and gives guidance that can be applied to all our relationships!

Host: Racquel Williams Air Date: 12-8-19 Duration: 30 min Guest: Tom Gagliano, best selling author, graduate of Seton Hall University with a Bachelor's Degree in Marketing. Tom also has a Master's Degree in Social Work from Rutgers University. Tom discusses his two books: "The Problem Was Me"...a book about addiction, and his latest book, "Don't Put Your Crap In Your Kid's Diaper." See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Carol the Coach will be interviewing Tom Gagliano who believes that this is indicative of sexual addiction but it also is an act of power and control. He feels that Harvey is a sexual predator. He believes that men and women are no longer afraid to speak up  and say "No More" to sexual exploitation. Listen as Carol and Tom talk about how the world is changing one voice at a time.

Stop Sabotaging Your Own Intimacy and Learn How to Rekindle Your Love Life with Tom Gagliano Did you know that your relationships with your partner and your children are probably being impacted by the relationships you had as a child? Tom Gagliano explains what you might be doing to create stress and dysfunction in your own relationships, and how to recognize the issues and stop them before they cause lifelong problems. Tom shares his simple system for changing our actions to create peaceful and trustworthy bonds with your loved ones. Tom Gagliano is a life mentor, social worker, relationship coach and author of, "The Problem Was Me". Discover more and visit:
www.thomasgagliano.com Let's Start a Ripple with Kristen and Tom in an open discussion about how to silence your inner critic and create fulfilling and loving relationships in your life! LSAR-001

Stop Sabotaging Your Own Intimacy and Learn How to Rekindle Your Love Life with Tom Gagliano Did you know that your relationships with your partner and your children are probably being impacted by the relationships you had as a child? Tom Gagliano explains what you might be doing to create stress and dysfunction in your own relationships, and how to recognize the issues and stop them before they cause lifelong problems. Tom shares his simple system for changing our actions to create peaceful and trustworthy bonds with your loved ones. Tom Gagliano is a life mentor, social worker, relationship coach and author of, "The Problem Was Me". Discover more and visit:
www.thomasgagliano.com Let's Start a Ripple with Kristen and Tom in an open discussion about how to silence your inner critic and create fulfilling and loving relationships in your life! LSAR-001

Tom Gagliano has worn many hats throughout his career. As a young man, he soon became a successful entrepreneur with a proven track record in small business ventures in the greater New York area. About ten years ago, Tom started to spend less time in the business world and more time helping those who suffered from negative childhood messages. To pursue a dream of helping others, he returned to school to receive an MSW at age 51. His book, The Problem Was Me: How to End Negative Self-Talk and Take Your Life to a New Level, with Dr. Abraham Twerski, is one-of-a-kind. It explores how we sabotage the happiness in our lives simply because we are so afraid of intimacy. We become our own worst enemy as we subconsciously push away our loved ones. Tom helps people understand why we push others away so we can enhance the intimacy in our lives. Today Tom is a life coach, published author, and a key note speaker with a Master's degree in social work. He was a bully as a kid and a recovering addict. He eventually went to addictions to medicate his problems. He realized at an early age he needed to fix what was broken inside of him. He then had two goals. One he wanted to give his children what his father couldn't give me, A SAFE PLACE TO SHARE their FEELINGS WHATEVER THEY MIGHT BE. Next he wanted to help others silence that destructive inner voice they grew up with. Today he facilitates men and women's groups as well as marriage consultations explaining the ways to give parents the tools to give their children the positive and loving messages that may have been denied to them in their childhood. His website is www.theproblemwasme.com. Dr. Wade is clinical psychologist, author, TV host, and motivational speaker, who inspires thousands of people each month with her dynamic range of events and free teleseminar's.

Join Scott Cluthe's Newsletter HERE Please Friend Scott Cluthe on FACEBOOK HERE Scott Cluthe is joined by returning guest Thomas Gagliano. Tom is author of The Problem was Me, which shares his personal voyage of discovery that his addictive acting out was the root of all of his relationship challenges. Tonight we support people in having a brighter and clearer holiday season with our families and friends regardless of past issues. Call in at 347-308-8478. Abraham J. Twerski, M.D. and Thomas Gagliano inspire readers to silence the inner voice of self-doubt and fear and begin living proactive, satisfying lives. Moving past addictive acting out depends on right action and right thinking. With candor and humility, the authors show readers how to work an honest recovery program and break the cycle of addictive acting out. A motivational can-do guide to making the most of one’s life. Thomas Gagliano is a successful businessman and a high profile leader in addiction and self-help therapy. He has been featured as a keynote speaker at many meetings and conferences in New Jersey and greater New York. Abraham J. Twerski, M.D., has been referred to as “Pittsburgh’s most famous psychiatrist.” He is the author of Addictive Thinking and he collaborated with Charles Schulz, creator of the Peanuts cartoon strip, on four books.

Tom Gagliano is a social worker, life coach and author of The Problem is Me about that inner critic that gets in the way of finding hope after a loss. Tom uses his own personal experiences to help others meet their highest potential. https://audio.opentohope.com/2013/02/Tom-Gagliano.mp3