Calmer in Five

IIn today's episode, we explore the calming power of boundaries—and why they're one of the kindest, most respectful ways to care for yourself and your relationships. Far from being walls, boundaries are invitations to connect with clarity and mutual understanding. When we set limits rooted in self-awareness and love, we create the space for calm to thrive. Whether it's saying no, asking for space, or protecting your time, boundaries help reduce stress, prevent resentment, and bring you closer to the life you truly want. Peace begins with knowing where you end and someone else begins. “Every time you set a boundary, you tell the world—and yourself—that your peace matters.” Thanks for Listening! If this episode helped you see your day in a different light, consider sharing it with someone who might be needing a dose of calm. Let's Connect: Instagram: @thom_walters Email: thom@zencommuter.com Support the show: zencommuter.com/support Let me know if you'd like a quick caption or graphic for socials—I'm happy to round it out!

In today's episode, we explore how the simple act of listening can be a powerful tool for creating calm. In a world full of noise, distractions, and constant opinions, truly hearing someone—without jumping in to fix or respond—builds trust, presence, and peace. Whether it's a friend, a loved one, or even yourself, deep listening is one of the most grounding gifts you can offer. Thanks for Listening! If this episode helped you see your day in a different light, consider sharing it with someone who might be needing a dose of calm. Let's Connect: Instagram: @thom_walters Email: thom@zencommuter.com Support the show: zencommuter.com/support Let me know if you'd like a quick caption or graphic for socials—I'm happy to round it out!

In today's episode, I explore the powerful impact that having diverse friendships can have on our sense of calm. When we surround ourselves with people of different backgrounds, perspectives, and experiences, we expand our empathy and reduce our tendency to judge. These connections challenge our assumptions, foster greater understanding, and ultimately help us move through the world with more kindness and compassion—two essential ingredients for a calmer life. Thanks for Listening! If this episode helped you see your day in a different light, consider sharing it with someone who might be needing a dose of calm. Let's Connect: Instagram: @thom_walters Email: thom@zencommuter.com Support the show: zencommuter.com/support Let me know if you'd like a quick caption or graphic for socials—I'm happy to round it out!

Episode Title: The Gratitude Walk: A Simple Exercise for Daily Calm Today's episode introduces a beautifully simple practice to bring more peace into your day—a Gratitude Walk. It's exactly what it sounds like: a walk where your only task is to list all the things you're grateful for. Whether it's your health, a soft breeze, or your favorite pair of shoes, this mindful stroll trains your brain to focus on what's going well. No apps, no pressure—just you, your steps, and your gratitude. Take this moment to ground yourself, reconnect with the present, and build calm one thankful thought at a time. Thanks for Listening! If this episode helped you see your day in a different light, consider sharing it with someone who might be needing a dose of calm. Let's Connect: Instagram: @thom_walters Email: thom@zencommuter.com Support the show: zencommuter.com/support Let me know if you'd like a quick caption or graphic for socials—I'm happy to round it out!

Not Everyone Has a Bed: Reflections on Gratitude Episode Description: In today's episode, I explore how comparison can quietly erode our sense of peace. We're often nudged—by media, culture, and even our own inner voices—to measure our lives against others. But when we chase what we think we lack, we lose sight of what we already have. Sometimes the deepest calm comes not from getting more, but from realizing how much we already possess. Even something as simple—and vital—as a bed can become a reminder of our good fortune. Gratitude begins when we shift from what's missing to what's present. Key Takeaway: Gratitude is a gateway to calm—but only when we stop measuring our worth against someone else's life. Quote to Reflect On: "Comparison is the thief of joy." — Theodore Roosevelt Thanks for Listening! If this episode helped you see your day in a different light, consider sharing it with someone who might be caught in the same cycle of comparison. Let's Connect: Instagram: @thom_walters Email: thom@zencommuter.com Support the show: zencommuter.com/support Let me know if you'd like a quick caption or graphic for socials—I'm happy to round it out!

Small Moments, Big Calm Episode Description: In today's episode, I talk about the quiet power of small moments—the ones we often overlook. A slow sip of coffee. A breath before a meeting. A glance out the window. These tiny pauses may not seem like much, but they can become anchors of calm throughout your day. You don't need a retreat or a silent room to feel peaceful. You just need to notice the stillness that's already there—waiting in the spaces between. Key Takeaway: Lasting calm isn't built in hours—it's built in moments. Catch the small ones, and peace becomes part of your day. Quote to Reflect On: “The present moment is filled with joy and peace. If you are attentive, you will see it.” — Thich Nhat Hanh Thanks for Listening! If this episode brought a little peace to your day, consider sharing it with someone else who might need a gentle reminder to pause. Let's Connect: Instagram: @thom_walters Email: thom@zencommuter.com Support the show: zencommuter.com/support Let me know if you'd like a short social media caption or quote graphic to pair with this one. You're on a roll this week!

Let the Moment Be Enough Episode Description: In today's episode, I invite you to consider a powerful shift: what if you didn't have to get anything out of this moment? Not growth. Not productivity. Not even calm. When we drop the need to constantly optimize or improve every second, we open ourselves to the quiet relief of simply being. This short reflection explores how allowing the moment to be enough can soften tension, ease anxiety, and help you return to peace—without needing to do a thing. Key Takeaway: Peace doesn't always come from doing more. Sometimes it arises the moment you stop trying to change what is. Quote to Reflect On: “The moment is complete. You don't need to add anything to it.” — Inspired by Thich Nhat Hanh Thanks for Listening! If this episode helped you take a breath, consider sharing it with someone who needs a moment of calm. Let's Connect: Instagram: @thom_walters Email: thom@zencommuter.com Support the show: zencommuter.com/support

We lose our level of calm when we scrape and claw to find that one mythical soulmate or that one passion career. What if I told you that there isn't just one perfect person, one perfect job/career? Today I talk about debunking a huge societal belief, one that may be keeping you stressed out. Links from the Episode! Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation)   THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

What if calm was waiting just outside your door—and you didn't need to take your phone with you? In this episode, we'll explore the power of silent, no-input walks and how they help you reconnect with the present moment. Links from the Episode! Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation)   THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

Sometimes the fastest way to calm is the most natural. Today we're talking about barefoot grounding—how a few minutes with your feet on the earth can regulate your nervous system and restore a sense of ease. Links from the Episode! Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation)   THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

Trying to control every outcome can quietly drain your peace. In today's episode, we'll explore how replacing control with curiosity can dissolve tension and help you meet life with a lighter, calmer mindset. Links from the Episode! Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation)   THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

When stress takes over, the breath is your way back to calm. In this episode, we explore diaphragmatic breathing—a simple, natural technique that signals your body to relax. Whether you're new to this practice or need a refresher, you'll learn how to shift your breath and your state of mind in just minutes. Links from the Episode! Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation)   THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

It's human to want connection—but sometimes that desire to fit in pulls us away from who we truly are. In today's episode, we explore the deeper reasons behind our need to belong and how it can create inner tension and stress. You'll also learn 5 simple, powerful ways to honor your true self and let go of the pressure to conform—so you can feel calmer, more confident, and genuinely at peace. Links from the Episode! Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation)   THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

It sure takes a lot of energy trying to read a room in order to fit in: making sure you say the right things, act a certain way. Not only does it take energy, it takes away our level of calm. Do you want to know why? Good. Come listen and find out. Links from the Episode! Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation)   THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

In today's episode of Calmer in 5, we're exploring how to show up for someone who's going through a tough time. Whether it's a friend, family member, or colleague, offering support can feel challenging—especially when you're not sure what to say or do. I'll walk you through four thoughtful ways to support someone with compassion, presence, and care. Links from the Episode! Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation)   THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

Welcome to Calmer in 5. Today's episode is a powerful reminder: you are not broken. So often, we move through life believing there's something wrong with us—something that needs fixing. But the truth is, you are whole just as you are. When we begin to understand and embrace that truth, we stop fighting ourselves. And in that space of self-acceptance, calm naturally begins to rise. Links from the Episode! Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation)   THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

On today's episode of Calmer in 5, we're exploring the powerful connection between self-compassion and calm. When we're unkind to ourselves—through harsh self-talk or impossible expectations—it quietly fuels anxiety and stress. But the good news is, self-compassion is a skill you can grow. I'll share three simple ways to begin treating yourself with more kindness, so you can feel more grounded, supported, and at ease in your daily life. Links from the Episode! Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation)   THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

Welcome to Calmer in Five, where the start to a calmer life is just five minutes away. Today I talk about bringing yourself into the moment to appreciate all the gifts that surround you. And there are a multitude around each of at any moment. Tune in to hear how to access all of them. Links from the Episode! Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation)   THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

Welcome to Calmer in Five, where the start to a calmer life is just five minutes away. Today I talk about taking a look at your life and determining what your defaults are. Don't worry, it's not your whole life, but for now, just a couple of years. We all have personality traits and emotions that we express more than others. But the question is, do these “defaults” add to your level of calm. Let's talk about a starter list as a beginning. Links from the Episode! Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation)   THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

Welcome to Calmer in Five, the show that helps you shift into a more peaceful mindset in just five minutes. Today, we're exploring three simple ways to move from doing mode to being mode—a shift that can ease anxiety, sharpen your awareness, and bring more calm into your day. If you're feeling stuck in productivity overdrive, this quick reset is for you.   Links from the Episode! Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation)   THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

Welcome to Calmer in 5. Thanks for taking a moment to pause with me today. There's an energy in pity that creates distance—it places one person above another, even if unintentionally. It separates us, when what we often need most is connection and understanding. A consistent meditation practice helps us become more present, softening the urge to judge or label. With that awareness, we begin to see life not as something to fix, but something to learn from. Each moment—pleasant or challenging—becomes a quiet teacher, guiding us toward greater compassion, both for ourselves and others. Let's explore that together, right now.   Links from the Episode! Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation)   THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

Welcome to Calmer in 5. I'm glad you're here. Today, we're talking about how a simple shift in perspective can ease our suffering and anxiety. Often, it's not the events in our lives that cause distress, but how we view them. When we learn to step back and see things through a wider, more compassionate lens, we invite calm into our day, even during difficult moments. A gentle heads-up: this episode will include brief reflections on death—not to cause discomfort, but to offer clarity and peace through a deeper understanding of life. Let's take a breath, and begin.   Links from the Episode! Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation)   THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

Welcome to Calmer in 5, where we take just five minutes to help you feel more at ease in your day. Today, we're talking about something many of us do without even thinking—listening to podcasts, audiobooks, or even conversations at 2x speed. It might seem like a great way to get more done, but have you ever noticed how it actually makes you feel? Instead of helping you stay on top of things, it can leave you feeling rushed, overwhelmed, and disconnected from the present moment. So, let's slow down together and explore why faster isn't always better—especially when it comes to your sense of calm.   Links from the Episode! Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation)   THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

Welcome to Calmer in 5, where we make serenity simple—one thought at a time. Today, we're turning our attention to someone who deserves more appreciation—your younger self. No matter what you've been through—joy, hardship, mistakes, or triumphs—every experience has shaped the person you are today. It's easy to look back with regret or judgment, but what if, instead, you offered gratitude? Gratitude for the lessons, the resilience, and even the struggles that brought you here. In this episode, we'll explore how embracing your past with kindness can create a deeper sense of peace in the present. Let's take a moment to thank the person you once were. Links from the Episode! Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation)   THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

Welcome to Calmer in 5, where we make serenity simple—one thought at a time. Today, we're exploring a topic that can have a surprising impact on our peace of mind—cleanliness. For some, a tidy space creates a sense of calm and control, while for others, a little mess is simply part of life. Cleanliness is often seen as a virtue, something that society praises as good and right—but does that make it universally true? In this episode, we'll take a deeper look at what cleanliness means for different people, how it affects our well-being, and whether striving for it is truly necessary for inner peace. Let's challenge the idea that a spotless space automatically leads to a serene mind.   Links from the Episode! Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation)   THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

Welcome to Calmer in 5, where we make serenity simple—one thought at a time. Today, we're talking about something that many of us have a complicated relationship with—crying. Whether it's seen as a sign of weakness, vulnerability, or even something to be ashamed of, society has a way of shaping how we feel about shedding tears. But what if we reframe it? What if crying isn't something to suppress but rather a natural, healthy way to release emotion and find clarity? In this episode, we'll explore what it truly means to cry, why it can make us uncomfortable, and how embracing it can actually bring us closer to peace. Let's take a closer look at the power of tears. Topics Covered: ✅ How society impacts our calm ✅ The importance of revisiting your values ✅ What does crying mean. Links from the Episode! Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation)   THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

Welcome to Calmer in 5, where we make serenity simple—one thought at a time. Imagine yourself on a beach vacation, feeling the warmth of the sun, the gentle ocean breeze, and the ease of being fully present. Now, think about a typical workday, where the same sun shines above, yet stress and busyness seem to take center stage. The only real difference? Your thoughts. Today, we'll explore how retooling our thinking can bring the same sense of calm and presence to our daily lives that we so easily embrace on vacation. Because peace isn't about where you are—it's about how you see it. Let's dive in. Topics Covered: ✅ How are thoughts shape our level of calm ✅ Awareness being the first step to serenity ✅ The value of mindfulness. Links from the Episode! Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation)   THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

There are many days when you might wake up and simply slip into autopilot, not really questioning…anything. Not really looking at your life, not questioning where it's going or what's up ahead. Today I ask you a simple question, one that you may think you have the answer to. But before you say anything, I would encourage you to think a little deeper, looking at all the variables. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation) THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

Feeling overwhelmed? Just one deep breath can bring you back to calm. In this episode of Calmer in 5, we explore the science and simplicity of deep breathing and how it can instantly reduce stress. Thom Walters breaks down why mindful breathing works, how it affects your nervous system, and the easiest techniques you can use anytime, anywhere. Whether you're facing a hectic day or just need a reset, this episode will show you how to harness your breath to find peace in just five minutes. Tune in and discover how something as simple as breathing can transform your day. Topics Covered: ✅ What happens during a fight or flight reaction? ✅ How diaphragmatic breathing triggers the relaxation response ✅ The simple mechanics for taking deep breaths Links from the Episode! Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation)   THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

We all have ideas about what we should do, or have to do. We have ideas about careers, productivity, responsibilities, etc. But did you ever think that all those things you are supposed to do aren't real? They aren't. Most of the things you feel you need to do are thoughts created by you and/or society. And following those directives without thinking about whether or not they mean anything to you, contribute to your stress. Here's an idea; take a day and don't do anything other than what you want to do. Let's talk about it.   Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation) Embracing Discomfort THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

Everything in our bodies and society tells us to avoid discomfort at all costs. But what if that advice isn't the best way to grow. Hint; it isn't. Today I share a great article by Diana Hill that talks about the benefits of leaning into discomfort; and she tells us 6 great ways to do that.   Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation) Embracing Discomfort THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

At times life seems long, and at other times it seems almost fleeting. If we perceive our lives as ending someday, what do we want to accomplish, if anything, in that time? That very question can bring up a great deal of anxiety. So why don't we look t things from a different perspective; ask a different question. With this question answered and explored, we can become a bit (a lot) more peaceful.   Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation) THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

At one time or another, we have all become fully entrenched in our own “stufff”, our own lives. Some people exist fully on that level each day; no judgment. However, if we are to become calmer then one that will benefit us each day, is to connect with the world around us. To that end, I have created an unusual scavenger hunt that will yield incredible results. Wanna hear about it? Come listen. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation) THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

it's human nture to see the world through our eyes; more to the point, through our biases, likes and values. But nature or not, it's not the most serving way to interact with the world. Especially when we try to impress our likes and views on others. Do you want the premise of today's episode? It's real easy; you know nothing. Neither do I. We have borrowed our beliefs from others, and society. To that point, it won't serve anyone to expect the world to be like you. Long story short, let people be happy and enjoy the things they like.   Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation) THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

Some of the greatest pain we will feel comes from distancing ourselves from the world. Think about it. So many people spend their lives trying to belong, whether it is to one person or a group. To feel connected. What if I told you that you could feel happier, less alone, if you would only seek to find connection…but not with just one person, or someone you know, but with everyone. Today I talk about the effort needed to find that bond with people. But I'll also talk about the benefits.   Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation) THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

How we see our life, creates our life. Meaning, if we see our lives as painful, sad and sorrowful, then that is how we will continue to live life. Conversely, and wonderfully, if we see life as full, loving and joyful, that too is what we will experience. So how do we know how we see the world? I have an exercise that helps with that very thing. Come listen. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation) THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

We all have an inner dialog; a worrisome voice that points out things to be afraid of, things to feel bad about. For some people it is just a whisper, almost silent. FOr others, many others, it is booming. Today CI5 is CI20, as I talk about ways to turn down the volume of that nasty voice. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation) THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

There are many days when you might wake up and simply slip into autopilot, not really questioning…anything. Not really looking at your life, not questioning where it's going or what's up ahead. Today I ask you a simple question, one that you may think you have the answer to. But before you say anything, I would encourage you to think a little deeper, looking at all the variables. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation) THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

Maybe it's just me, but I'm thinking many people crave silence, or at least enjoy it. I mean why would so many people like going to the beach or the woods to relax? Wherever you find silence, it's safe to say that you find it, and not the other way around. Sure there are quieter places than others in the world, but for the most part the planet can get pretty noisy. Today I talk about the importance of having a plan for silence. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation) THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

Worthiness is not based on anything you will do. Is that a common belief? Not by a long shot. Society tells us there are many things we need to do to be considered worthy. But you know what I say, you are the one that defines you and everything about you. Such is the case of worthiness. Let's talk about it. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation) THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

We all understand that being kljnd is viewed favorably by society.  But what does that mean, if anything?  As we all know, it will serve us to only acknowledge and appreciate all the aspects of ourselves as we define them, not society.  So the question is, what does kndness mean to you.   Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation) THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!

Many people turn to meditation to help them become calmer; and that's not a bad plan. But it won't always work without the right motivation, and it will never work the same for everyone. Let's finish out the week talking about calm and meditation. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation) THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

This week I have been answering the top five questions people have about becoming calmer. Since a poll was too involved and would take too long, I decided to opt for everyone's best solution; ask Chat GPT. While today's question is a bit like Monday's there is a little bit of nuance to it. The question? How do I stay calm in chaotic environments? Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation) THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

Today, and all this week, I have enlisted the help of Chat GPT. I wanted to answer the top questions people had about becoming calmer. Day three has us thinking about ways to become calmer with the things we do every day. Even though that list is really long, how about I tell you my top three. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation) THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

Today, and all this week, I have enlisted the help of Chat GPT. I wanted to answer the top questions people had about becoming calmer. Next up? Why do I get anxious when I try to relax? Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation) THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

Today, and all this week, I have enlisted the help of Chat GPT. I wanted to answer the top questions people had about becoming calmer. For the next five days I will be answering those questions. Let's start with…How do I calm down in stressful situations? Come listen   Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation) THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

From the day we are born we are judged…and it doesn't let up. If you don't have a method for helping you understand your self worth, then you are bound to base your value on the myriad ratings from the people around you. The trouble is, you lose your sense of calm when your misperceived self-worth is in contrast to what value you have as decided by you. Let's talk about it.   Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation) THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

In our society we are often told to hide or disavow certain emotions; like anger, sadness or anxiety. We are encouraged to only show the parts of us that are lighter and upbeat. But what do you think happens when you mask how you are truly feeling? Not only does it become incredibly tiring, it contributes massively to our level of unrest. Let's talk about it. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation) THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

We definitely have the ability to make choices in our lives; to do what we feel is best. But it may be important to know that there is also something guiding us in the background.  Before we even took human form, in my belief, our souls decided what they wanted to experience.  So they know the destination, and they leave it up to us as to how to get there.  But sometimes if we get lost, they orchestrate things to get us back on track.  Let's listen. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation)   THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

It's safe to say that how you start the day sets the tone for the rest of the day. So wouldn't it be better to spend some time each morning preparing yourself for the day; calmly, I mean. That was rhetorical btw. Let me share with you how I do it. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation)   THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!  

Our minds can hold us captive if we don't take steps to reign them in. Today I talk about the beauty that presents itself when we take a moment to stop and bring ourselves fully into this moment. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation - Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation)   THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter Email: thom@zencommuter.com Instagram: @thom_walters Twitter: @thom_walters Facebook: www.facebook.com/zencommuter Donate: Support the Podcast! Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Rate and review in Apple Podcasts! Calmerin5/review Support the show on Patreon for bonus content!