DeeDee Banks at The Table

What's your assignment? You were called by God as well as Esther! Are you in position to take action to what is going on in your community, city, and state? You may or may not like what God has told me to say to you, so take heed, or get mowed over. A change must come! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deedeebanksatthetable/message

This is about how God uses people in the world who are considered less than, or of a lower class to carry out His mission to save His people. A lesson for all women to learn about in this book. Esther is an example of how are hearts and minds should be as a Queen. I learned so much from this book, and I hope you get something out of this book and this episode part 1. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deedeebanksatthetable/message

The book of Esther teaches Queens how important it is to say no! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deedeebanksatthetable/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/deedeebanksatthetable/support

I will be coming from the book of Esther and how she laid the ground work for what God has called His Queens of the universe to stand up, speak up, work up, and help Him change the face of this nation. The book of Esther is a must read. There is another Queen that is hardly ever talked about who was very powerful and she paved the way for Esther to be in a position for God to use, so stay tuned. I'll be with you shortly. God Bless. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deedeebanksatthetable/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/deedeebanksatthetable/support

Details about our mental state, how we cover them up with masks. We are not our best self because of the world's standards. We allow Zetta men in our lives who are Narc's, or we allow masogynistic men of this world control your mind, and have you dressing, and acting out of who you really are. I hope this episode helps you acknowledge things you may not be aware of. I am not a councelor, or therapist, nor am I perfect. I am an imperfect woman with this imperfect episode that comes from my heart. This platform is for imperfect people like myself who refuses to wear a mask, and are intentional and athenic in all that we say and do. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deedeebanksatthetable/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/deedeebanksatthetable/support

I describe what an insecure woman looks like, a toxic man, a broken man, and a healthy man. What runs a healthy man off, and why you attract bobo the clown. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deedeebanksatthetable/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/deedeebanksatthetable/support

A special message to women who have been considered as" messy mom's" God has a inspiring word for you as you are celebrated on this day. I pray that this day of celebrating you as a mom, or as you celebrate a mother just know how special you are to God, and know that this is the highest position in life to be called upon. Even through our messes, and past and present mistakes we are loved unconditionally by Him. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deedeebanksatthetable/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/deedeebanksatthetable/support

My spiritual brother talked about these things and they opened my eyes helping me to see mistakes I've made in my life. So I'm sharing these things like Watch your money, don't get old in your mind keep yourself looking youthful, deal with your emotional issues, stop acting like a man. Walk in your femininity, and stop choosing a mate based on your flesh! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deedeebanksatthetable/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/deedeebanksatthetable/support

Listen to some tips to help you move forward in your life. Society will keep you stuck if your not watchful of your life and who you surround yourself with. Hope this discussion helps you. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deedeebanksatthetable/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/deedeebanksatthetable/support

We think we may be ready to love or ready for love, but there's some things I want to share with you to think about. Your past can determine your future. I hope this conversation can spark some things to think about when it comes to love. Love is one of God's first Commandments. We were created to love and share love, but many are incapable due to thier past. Love starts in the mirror. Self evaluation. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deedeebanksatthetable/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/deedeebanksatthetable/support

Pray and make wise decisions in the next four months. I have four characteristics of wisdom that the Holy Spirit shared with me that can assist you during these tough times. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deedeebanksatthetable/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/deedeebanksatthetable/support

Listen, do your research. I hope this episode will help you during this time of uncertainty. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deedeebanksatthetable/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/deedeebanksatthetable/support

It's time to heal and move on from our nation that has been shown to harbor hate and prejudice. God blessed us with an opportunity to make a change in ourselves to make this a better nation. The narc has been fired along with his flying monkeys! America stood up and said "no more"! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deedeebanksatthetable/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/deedeebanksatthetable/support

I want to share with you my thoughts of being aware of you as a woman. We have more work to do than ever before at knowing yourself, and your purpose for the world, and not what the world's purpose is for you! We are all Queens, but in order to be conscious it starts from our inner being of knowing why you were created and your purpose. Take this next season of uncertainty to view you, and how you can be an attribute of changing the world to be a better place for our girls, and women who have been broken due the masaganistic, chavanistic and a racist world of men & women who have been constantly taking advantage of us. We need each other more than ever before! God has called on us women the conscious Queen's to make the change to tear break the curse of what the narcissist's have done to destroy our society. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deedeebanksatthetable/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/deedeebanksatthetable/support

You must remove childish attractions and lustful desires that you have not addressed. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deedeebanksatthetable/message

Listen to this episode. Set yourself free from the clowns that don't deserve you. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deedeebanksatthetable/message

Ladies, listen to this episode as I quickly talk about the three characters that Pastor RC Blake's exposed who are dulling the sense of discernment, and caution. I'm sure you have met at least one of these characters if not all three. I hope this helps you to see clearer, and be mindful when you meet these type of guys. Because they are coming in as sheep in wolves clothing destroying families and hearts. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/deedeebanksatthetable/message

I am going to share answers to three questions that were asked about Narc parent(s). I hope they shed some light in your life, and maybe help you recognize what you were dealing with growing up. There is so much to this personality type that I want to share. So listen up, pay attention, dig deep, get healed. God bless.

If you were raised by a narcissist it would explain why you suffer from insecurities, failed relationships, identity crisis etc. Narc parents destroy the lives of their children. Let's discuss and learn more about these family dynamics together.

Most of us are drawn to the outside of a package. Pretty with a beautiful bow on it. We pick it up, drive off when no one is looking. We take it home let it love bomb us, we get good sex, Only to find out when we finally unwrap that package, we have a package of low class, heartless mechanical piece of trash called a narcissist. Now we have to figure out how to get rid of them permanently because they don't love you, you are just part of their supply, but they will stalk you only to reel you back only to kick you in your teeth! We are better than this! Learn to spot them and run fast!

Thus is episode #9 with questions and answers about a narc that you may not have thought about, or you have but couldn't get an answer. They have a behavior pattern that you will see over and over again when you meet one! I hope this episode of questions and answers help you get some type of clarity. You are dealing with Satan! Remember that! Don't be deceived. Read and study about a narc! They are everywhere! Take your power back, or stay powered up if you haven't met one, or if you did you recognized it, and shut it down! Be encouraged all you queens and kings out there who are looking for love. I'll be praying for you and sharing with you all that I can to help you uncover all the demonic tricks the narc has to try to take you out and ruin your life!

These questions and more are asked about the narc's. The what's and why they do things. I hope these questions help you to reflect on your life and self examine if you have been abused by one, or you may currently be in relationships with them.

Questions for people who have dealt with a Narc. I hope these questions and answers help you.

A narc is a backstabber. Listen to this episode! Be empowered my friends. You will eventually thank me for sharing this information with you! Its juicy good!

Why do narcissists get married? Well it sure isn't because they love you!Stacy Rudin has some answers for you! If your married to a narc, or thinking about it, you must be informed and armed to deal with this monster!!!

Here are three great questions that were asked by different people who have either diagnosed one, or had a serious encounter with one. The answers that are given are profound! I hope you enjoy as much as I did reading them!

How do narcissists keep their victim in a relationship with them? Vicky King was in a 28 year marriage with a narc, and she answers this question.

These are just some examples of dealing with a narcissistic person. I have so many examples I will share with you. It's very important that we do some self examinations of ourselves. Who are we? Do we add to others lives? Or do we rob other's from their lives?

I thank God for exposing this demonic personality to me. In my 1st episode dated June 15th I mentioned that this was brought to my attention a year ago but it was really about 4 years ago, and it came to my remembrance one year ago when I had a friend from many years ago exposing these demonic characteristics and the Lord had to shut the friendship down and closed the door forever. You can't be used by God dealing with friends who are only looking to occupy your time only to appease themselves, and your left with a one sided friendship that is hurtful and destructive. I wonder how the First Lady of the United States feels about being married to Presudent Trump. It has to be painful I'm sure, I hope she gets or is letting professional help to deal with a man in this type of magnitude. I have Jesus, and His love for me helped me get healing, and to have discernment to not ever get my heart involved with people who claim to care for me only to add me to their source of supply. I hope you enjoy my episodes about what I have learned about these types of people. So stay safe be wise, and guard your hearts. God bless.

I share some history facts, and talk about preparation for the next few months.

As of today June 3, 2020 all four officer`s have been charged with murder, and will serve serious time! Our young people have demonstrated their courage and power to protest against this horrific crime all over the world! Other races came together in love to stand together with black American's saying "enough is enough"! But! there is something more important that we must do! Listen to this episode!

These are times like never before, and our country will never be like it was. God has a way of getting our attention, and if He hasn't grabbed your attention and you are focused more on how you can go back to work, gather with others and continue doing the things your use to doing. God wants us to look in the mirror and really check ourselves. People are dying by the hour due to the complications of the Corona Virus especially African Americans, Hispanics, and Latio's. We need to be prepared. Not all will die from This , but many will, because the Govenor's across America are ready to re-open regardless of us not having enough testing kits, or a vaccine for this virus. Social media dating sites jumped from 9.3 million to 10 2 million in March so there will be quite a bit of mingling and sexing amongst each other. With this being said beware of two demons. 1.catching the Corona Virus, and 2. getting involved with a narcissist. They will sneak up on you and attempt to destroy you. If you are looking for true love, marriage, or just enjoy dating freely and lovingly. Stay close to home, pray, and give your life to Christ so that you will be led in the right direction. I will be sharing with you how the narcissist makes their moves to destroy you, staying home will keep the virus away from you.

We are suppose to be the greatest nation! The land of opportunities, the land of the free! Are we really now! We have been exposed! Starting from our President Trump! It's praying time family more than ever before!

I talk about being careful since our country has partially opened up being as we are still in a dangerous position by interacting with others. Be careful with Social Media, and the narcissists.

Everyday there are people dying by the 1,000's. We need to take the time right now to be prepared because it's going to get worse before it gets better! Don't be mislead, this was a man made epidemic! There are things we can do to react and keep the virus from attacking us, but NOT CURE It. I'm sharing with you things to think about and to help prepare us for things to look out for. Remember God is in control! Turn to Christ today and Do what your Governor is saying to do so that we will be safe, healed and restored soon. Peace

Our black girls are being targeted in the schools for being who they are. The way they wear their hair, their body shapes, how outspoken and intelligent they are etc. Teachers can't handle these girls so they are kicking them out. When girls get kicked out of school it leads to criminal activities. The girls get arrested, then they have a record . This must be stopped. Women in this country need to help us fight for the rights of the black girls. Stop racism now! We can't afford to leave our girls behind. They need our love and support. When I watched the film PUSHOUT criminalization amongst black girls I became very angry! What must I do to help? What can you do to help?

These young ladies are sharing their life stories about what's been going on in their lives., and how they see their invironment like Human Trafficking, Social Media, education, etc. Hopefully their stories can help others who don't feel comfortable talking about these issues. This interview is from their perspective only, and they are entitled to express how they feel. These are the stories from our Generation Z.

This episode is about protecting our children, having more class in the white house on down to the black house, and how we turn our backs on each other for money, and other important topics we need to talk about.

Changes in taxes, credit scores, the Census, and being prepared for voting.

January 2020 is the beggining of what's about to come so be ready and prepared. President Trump has been acquitted of all accusations of the impeachment trial. So we have to move on and be very mindful of how serious it is for us to get out and vote this year! Census 2020 be counted! E especially African Americans! When they knock on the door don't be sceptical just answer the door and be accounted for! We are missing out on federal monies for programs, and grant money that is available! Why not capitalize on it! Please please please! Wake up everybody no more sleeping or turning a blind eye we need change in our communities and it can't happen without you! I must also talk about our Generation Z. So many young ladies are suffering Openly and in the dark. Bullying, rape, human trafficking, prostitution, drugs, suicide etc.. I will be having interviews with ladies I have met in the comminities surrounding me allowing them to share their stories. Please listen. My First guest is Pinkyred. This podcast has launched. It's called Generation Z

Generation Z is the most diversed generation today that is changing the face of America. They have seen and experienced so much in the world, the USA, and mostly in their communities. From elementary to college they all have stories that need to be told. They are misunderstood because their mindset in so different. During their Era America has experienced quite a bit of things that affected their parents and in turn effected them. Pinky has had traumatic experiences that I want to Share her on my Podcast but she is a upcoming rap artist that we will be hearing about in the near future. This generation needs our help so it's our duty to listen to them and help them to be their best in this broken world of racism, hate, and little knowledge of Jesus Christ. So listen to her story and future guests that will be Sharing their stories right here on my Podcast. Thanks for listening. I apologize for the background interferences that interrupted the segment a few times.

Jealousy and spirits of Rejection causes so much inner pain and will cause you not to have love for others. You become bitter, angry, violent, extremely competitive, have rage and hate. But God loves you and has a solution to help you.

I want to address rejection in our lives and how important it is to get healing from them so that we can recieve all that the Lord has in store for us.

There will be a blessing explosion in 2020 but in order to receive them we must be ready. I have a few suggestions that will put us in position to receive all of them.

Wishing you and yours a Merry Merry Christmas all over the world!

The Christmas season is the time if year for shopping, parties, gathering with friends and family, Also, lots of cooking eating, traveling etc. But is this what it really means to you? Does this make you really happy? Let's rap about it. Contact me at deedeebanksatthetable2020@gmail.com

The Christmas season brings love, joy, compassion, people family, friends and shopping and gift giving. But It also brings sadness to some people due to loneliness, sickness and or death. Christmas changes the atmosphere and it has a different meaning to each one of us. So what does it mean to you? Email me at deedeebanksatthetable@gmail.com