Families for Life

Listen to the new Families for Life Podcast episode tomorrow at oakhillbc.org/f4l or wherever you listen to podcasts. In this final episode of the Forward Together series Pastors Alan and Bryan talk about the future of Oakhill. Don't miss it!

On this special episode of the Families for Life Podcast Pastors Alan and Bryan talk about the new series Forward Together.  This week they discuss the present and how God has blessed Oakhill in many ways.  Even in a season of waiting God has been working.  Find out about the many things we can be thankful for in this episode, while also being encouraged to live a life full of gratitude.  Listen at oakhillbc.org/f4l or wherever you listen to podcasts.

The Families for Life Podcast is back with a special episode.  Jumping off of Sunday's sermon, Pastors Alan and Bryan dig deeper into the recent past of Oakhill.  Why do we have two campuses?  What is our long-term plan?  What should we do in a season of waiting?  Find out in our new episode at oakhillbc.org/f4l or wherever you listen to podcasts.

Why is there so much confusion about discipleship?  In the church we have turned discipleship into a program that must be led by the elite Christian teachers.  Is that what Jesus envisioned for discipleship?  Is there a different way?  In this episode Pastor Bryan attempts to bring some clarity to the issue of discipleship and encourage all believers to become disciple makers. Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org Memory Verse: 1 Timothy 2:1-2 Growing Up by Robby Gallaty Rediscovering Discipleship by Robby Gallaty

What is the deal with discipleship?  Why has the church not been very effective at making disciples?  In this new series Pastor Bryan dives into all things discipleship.  Christians should be known as relational disciple makers.  This was the plan that Jesus used in his ministry and what he commanded us to do as his followers (Matthew 28:18-20).  Join us on this adventure through what it means to be a disciple and how we can become disciple making multipliers. Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org Memory Verse: Matthew 28:18-20 Growing Up by Robby Gallaty Rediscovering Discipleship by Robby Gallaty

Sometimes you just need a lighthearted conversation about movies! In this episode Pastor Bryan and Pastor Evan break down a few of their favorite movies.  Movies provide a window into another world.  While we don't want to find ourselves using movies to escape the pains of reality, they do provide a nice break from time to time.  We hope you enjoy it.  Tell us about your favorite movies at our email address below. Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

Should Christians attempt to enjoy an easy life?  How should we think about trials and suffering in our life?  In this episode Pastor Bryan Gotcher discusses why Christians should seek to not only endure trials but to rejoice in them.  If you have ever wondered, “Does God want me to do hard things for him?” then this episode will hopefully challenge and encourage you. Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org One Man's Wilderness by Sam Keith Scripture References: James 1:2-4; 1:12; John 16:33; 1Thessalonians 4:9-12; Colossians 3:23; Proverbs 16:3; Romans 5:3-5; Romans 12:1; 1 Corinthians 10:13; 1 Peter 4:12-13.

Theology professor Wayne Grudem defines prayer as “personal communication with God”.  How can something so simple be so vital to the Christian walk?  On this episode Pastor Bryan Gotcher discusses the importance of prayer.  He shares the biblical theological framework for prayer as well as things he has learned about prayer from experience.  Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org My House Shall Be Called A House Of Prayer by Jim Cymbala The Cross and The Switchblade by David Wilkerson Spiritual Disciplines for the Christian Life by Donald Whitney The Pattern of Prayer by Bryan R. Gotcher Praying the Bible by Donald Whitney

Brian Van Doren is back!  On this episode we catch up with our former co-host Brian Van Doren who is a pastor in Angleton, Texas.  Bryan & Brian discuss what God has been teaching them.  They talk about what it takes to follow God's call, to persevere in faith, lean into spiritual disciplines, and take sin seriously.  They even include a lesson from a children's rhyme (When God takes me somewhere new, He has good things for me to do!) and a quote from legendary NFL coach Chuck Noll (Champions are champions not because they do anything extraordinary but because they do the ordinary things better than anyone else). Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org 2nd Baptist Angleton Website 2nd Baptist Angleton YouTube VerseLocker App Bible Adventures Robby Gallaty Discipleship Books: Growing Up, Firmly Planted, & Bearing Fruit

According to a Focus on the Family article, “the drop in marital satisfaction after the first baby's birth is a staggering 42% larger among the current generation of parents than their predecessors.”  This combined with a statistic from a Marriage Dynamics article that says, “the divorce rate among couples aged 55-64 has more than double since 1990,” indicates that there are problems in marriages as couples begin to raise children and after they leave the home.  Why are there so many marital problems related to raising children?  Pastor Bryan & Pastor Alan dive into this topic and discuss what it means to keep your marriage a priority as you raise kids.  If you are a parent, you don't want to miss this episode. Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org Resource: Article: Balancing Marriage and Parenting: Keeping Love Alive While You Raise Kids Article: Putting Your Spouse Before Your Kids Scripture References: Ephesians 5:25; 5:28; 5:33; Titus 2:3 Email us directly for more information about free Biblical counseling: Pastor Alan Scott - ascott@oakhillbc.org Pastor Bryan Gotcher - bgotcher@oakhillbc.org

It seems like sex is everywhere! From television commercials to the internet, it can be hard to escape.  The sad reality is that culture doesn't understand the importance or value of sex.  Only when we understand that God created sex for a purpose will we truly see its value.  In this episode Bryan & Alan discuss the purpose of sex and how couples can find true intimacy in their marriage.  Join us on this journey and discover how you and your spouse can have the more intimate and fulfilling relationship. Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org Resource: Book: Preparing for Marriage Book: Hedges by Jerry B. Jenkins Book: Love & Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs Scripture References: Genesis 2:24; Genesis 1:28; Psalm 127:3-5; Proverbs 5:18-19; 1 Corinthians 7:2-5; Ephesian 5:33; Hebrews 13:4 Email us directly for more information about free Biblical counseling: Pastor Alan Scott - ascott@oakhillbc.org Pastor Bryan Gotcher - bgotcher@oakhillbc.org

Finances are the number one issue that married couples fight about and the number two reason for divorce, behind infidelity.  What does this tell us about the importance of finances in marriage?  Couples must learn to work together, communicate, and discover how to use their resources for the glory of God.  In this episode Bryan & Alan give a theological basis for how we need to understand our finances and some practical advice from the Bible on how couples can overcome financial difficulties. Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org Resource: Book: Preparing for Marriage Article: Are Your Bank Accounts Divorced? Article: Money and Marriage: 7 Tips for a Healthy Relationship Scripture References: Psalm 24:1; 1 Chronicles 29:11-16; Luke 16:10-13; Hebrews 13:5; 1 Timothy 6:10; Ecclesiastes 5:10; Matthew 6:19-21; Acts 20:35; Proverbs 11:24-25 Email us directly for more information about free Biblical counseling: Pastor Alan Scott - ascott@oakhillbc.org Pastor Bryan Gotcher - bgotcher@oakhillbc.org

There are no roleless marriages but are the right roles according to scripture.  All husbands and wives have a core role and core response according to the Bible.  Listen as Bryan and Alan break down these roles and response from scripture.  Also, in this episode we cover the always hot button issues of headship and submission.  We hope to correct a lot of misconceptions surrounding these issues. Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org Resource: Preparing for Marriage Six Things Submission is Not Scripture References: Ephesians 5:21-24; 1 Corinthians 11:2-3; Mark 10:42-45; Genesis 2:18; Titus 2:3-5; Proverbs 31:28-29 Email us directly for more information about free Biblical counseling: Pastor Alan Scott - ascott@oakhillbc.org Pastor Bryan Gotcher - bgotcher@oakhillbc.org

It has been said that communication is to the relationship as blood is to the body. Communication nourishes and sustains a relationship.  Take it away and you no longer have a relationship.  Why is it so difficult to have authentic communication in a marriage?  Why is it so difficult to resolve conflict in a biblical way.  Find out in this episode as Bryan & Alan tackle what it takes to have authentic communication in your marriage. Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org Resource: Preparing for Marriage The Silent Marriage Killer – Heather Davis Nelson Put Your Anger to Bed – Marshall Segal Scripture References: James 1:19; Proverbs 1:5; Proverbs 10:19; Ecclesiastes 3:1,7; 1 Corinthians 13:4-7; Ephesians 4:26-32 Email us directly for more information about free Biblical counseling: Pastor Alan Scott - ascott@oakhillbc.org Pastor Bryan Gotcher - bgotcher@oakhillbc.org

Is there something special about marriage?  Just from observing culture you would probably say “no”!  But what does the Bible have to say about marriage.  Over the next several weeks Pastor Bryan & Pastor Alan will dive into what a biblical marriage looks like.  In this first episode we give a biblical basis for marriage and lay the foundation for the rest of the series. Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org Resource: Preparing for Marriage Scripture References: Genesis 2:18, 1:27-28, 1:26-27, 2:21-25; Psalm 127:3-5 Email us directly for more information about free Biblical counseling: Pastor Alan Scott - ascott@oakhillbc.org Pastor Bryan Gotcher - bgotcher@oakhillbc.org

Food seems to have two extremes in our lives.  Either we don't think about it very much or we obsess over it.  Where should Christians come down on this issue? Does God care about what we eat?  Does the Bible have anything to say about food? In today's episode Bryan looks at the scriptures to discover the balance of food in our lives. Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org   Scriptures Referenced: Genesis 1:29; Genesis 9:1-4; Leviticus 11; Mark 7:14-19; 1 Timothy 4:1-5; Acts 10:9-20; Matthew 4:4; Matthew 6:25; John 6:27; 1 Corinthians 8:8-9; 1 Corinthians 10:31 Genius Foods - Max Lugavere Four Signs Food Has Become an Idol - Johh Piper

Happy New Year!  Families for Life Podcast is back for 2023.  Did you make a New Years Resolution?  Have you already given up on it?  On today's episode Bryan discusses what it means to make goals and keep them.  If you ever find yourself struggling with keeping a goal whether it is a spiritual goal or not, this episode is for you!  Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

Are you in the business of busy-ness? It's an easy trap to fall into for a lot of us. Is there a healthy kind of busy in which we can engage? Would you be surprised if the answer is “yes?” Busyness is widespread these days, and as the culture becomes more segmented and the digital and tangible worlds become more enmeshed, we can busy ourselves with things that are really counter productive to our lives. Brian and Bryan springboard off of the ideas in Kevin DeYoung's book Crazy Busy to discuss what types of things we can busy ourselves with, how we can engage in a healthy type of busyness in our lives, and what our priorities are as Christians. Our prayer is that this timely conversation is a big help to you—especially in the seasons of life where our schedules feel like they're bursting at the seams! Resources: Crazy Busy by Kevin DeYoung Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

The Christian life is one of discipleship, but what does that mean? A disciple is a learner, and the Christian disciple is one who is learning to live a transformed life for Jesus Christ. Jesus called 12 men to himself in order to instruct them on what his kingdom would look like, how his people were to live in light of that kingdom, and the hope of life with the Lord for eternity. The initial group of men that Jesus called (minus Judas) were given the ability to understand all that Jesus taught after his resurrection and receiving the Holy Spirit. Their teaching has been handed down through the Scriptures and faithful preaching ever since. Bryan and Brian discuss their perspectives on discipleship and the importance of both learning and leading others in the faith once delivered to the saints. They also offer practical steps for being a disciple and making disciples. We pray this is a helpful tool for you and would appreciate your feedback.   Resources: Spiritual Disciplines for the Christian Life by Donald Whitney  Growing Up by Robby Gallaty  Firmly Planted by Robby Gallaty  Bearing Fruit By Robby Gallaty  Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

This week, Bryan and Brian are joined by Evan Gray for conversation. Evan is the newest member of Oakhill Baptist Church's leadership team, coming on board as the Pastor of Worship. Evan gives his testimony, history in service to the church, approach to worship, and a little about his interests. It is a great time of conversation that will encourage you in your own approach to worshipping the Lord. Thanks for listening! Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

It seems like the "Christmas Season" begins earlier each year. It is exciting in one sense to think about the joy and the festive feeling of this time of year, but the tradeoff is that we can easily lose sight of the reason we're celebrating in the first place. Throughout the history of the Christian church, believers in Jesus have celebrated the advent as a way to prepare our hearts for worship of the coming of our Savior. It also serves as a reminder that one day he will come again, and we hope in eager expectation of that second coming. This week, Bryan and Brian discuss the meaning of advent, the goal behind it, and they offer a handful of ways that you can celebrate with your family to help you focus on the meaning that underlies this entire season of the year. Resources Brian's Advent Blog Advent: The Coming of Jesus (The Village Church) How to Use an Advent Wreath: A Tradition You Will Cherish   The Meaning of the Advent Wreath   Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

In the Gospel accounts we see several moments recorded where Jesus calls men to follow him. This is not just a New Testament experience. Think of God's call to Moses, Gideon, and others in the Old Testament. This week's Families For Life podcast is a special episode examining the call of God. Bryan and Brian discuss the call of God on our lives today and the themes that underly discerning a call. It's not just for ministry, either. We have to be in relationship with God and be seeking his face for big decisions like where you'll live, the choice to go to college, your spouse, and much more. Resources Pastor Brian Van Doren's Blog Pastor Bryan Gotcher's Blog Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

When you think of the word surrender, you may imagine scenes from a battle where one side has given up the fight, and when we talk about the concept of surrender for the Christian we have to recognize that it is much more than that. Bryan and Brian sit down this week to discuss the idea of Christian surrender, how submitting ourselves to King Jesus brings true freedom, and what that looks like in our lives.   Resources Total Surrender by Kevin Smith Table Talk Magazine 2/1/09 Ask Pastor John "Am I Completely Surrendered to Christ"   Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

In his first letter to the Thessalonians, the apostle Paul offers comfort to believers in Jesus when he writes “But we do not want you to be uninformed, brothers, about those who are asleep, that you may not grieve as others do who have no hope.” (1 Thes. 4:13) Death is an inevitable truth of our existence born out of the fall of man, but it is one that believers can face with confidence because of the promises of God that we find in the Bible. This week, Bryan and Brian offer encouraging teaching to help us approach the reality of dying through the biblical worldview. Resources: The Problem of Pain by C.S. Lewis How Long O' Lord by D. A. Carson Website: desiringgod.org Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

This week, Bryan and Brian discuss the top 3 things that get under their skin. Each of them has their own list of pet peeves, along with some bonus irritations from their wives! Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

CONTENT ADVISORY: This episode looks at the topic of evil and discusses current events that may not be suitable for everyone to hear about. Please exercise discretion or pre-screen for younger ears. Every honest person can look around at the world and plainly see the problem of evil. Why does evil exist? What can we do about evil? Are people basically good? In a special Pastors Perspective, Bryan and Brian examine these questions and more with Bibles open to provide a real explanation of how widespread evil truly is, and how the Gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ provides us with hope now in the midst of our reality along with the eternal hope. Resources   Article: "How to Counter Moral Evil: Paideia and Nomos" Systematic Theology by Wayne Grudem Article: "Christ Overcame Evil With Good Do The Same"   Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

Bryan and Brian draw their Understanding God's Word series to a close by pulling everything together to examine how to study the Bible. When we consider the list of tools and topics covered in this series, we should not be intimidated at the thought of Bible study. These episodes are designed to help make studying the Scriptures more accessible to everyone, and to help mature us in our faith through a better understanding of God's Word. So, the men give some application to the material they've been covering throughout this series. If this prompts questions in your mind, or if you have been helped by this series, please let us know at f4l@oakhillbc.org Resources Christian Scripture by David S. Dockery Read the Bible for Life by George Guthrie Creative Bible Teaching by Lawrence O. Richards & Gary J. Bredfeldt Personal Devotion Tabletalk Magazine (Ligioner) Be Thou My Vision: A Liturgy for Daily Worship by Jonathan Gibson  ESV Journaling Bibles Morning and Evening by Charles Spurgeon Free I Book New Morning Mercies by Paul David Tripp  Family Devotion My First Hands on Bible  Jesus Storybook Bible  The Biggest Story Bible Storybook  Jesus the Hero Family Devotion by David Prince One Year of Dinner Table Devotions & Discussion Starters by Nancy Guthrie  Old Story New, New Testament: Ten-Minute Devotions to Draw Your Family to God by Marty Machowski Long Story Short: Ten-Minute Devotions to Draw Your Family to God by Marty Machowski Learning to Study the Bible Knowing the Bible Study Series How to Study the Bible Building a Library ESV Study Bible Holman Bible Handbook Systematic Theology By Wayne Grudem  Commentaries  Christ Centered Exposition Commentary Reformed Expository Commentary Focus on the Bible Pillar Good Websites blueletterbible.org Ligonier.org desiringgod.org gotquestions.org Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

This week on Families For Life, Bryan and Brian continue their series about Understanding God's Word with an examination of the last type of genres found within the Scriptures: the Epistles. The word epistle means “letter,” and the epistles of the Bible are considered the letters found in the New Testament. To paraphrase one pastor, it's like reading someone else's mail. These letters often gave counsel, addressed division or error within a body, or came as personal exhortations. Although they were written with a specific audience in mind at the time, the fact that they are the inspired word of God and we have them in our Bibles means that there is relevant truth for all time to be found for everyone. We'll look at a few examples and discuss some areas where people can get off track in applying them, as well. Resources: Read the Bible for Life by George Guthrie A Basic Guide to Interpreting the Bible: Playing by the Rules by Robert H. Stein  How to Read the Bible for All Its Worth by Gordon D. Fee & Douglas Stuart  Holman Bible Handbook Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

This week, Bryan and Brian return to their examination of Scripture series Understanding God's Word, and this is arguably one of the most difficult aspects to understand–prophecy and revelation. Prophecy uses a lot of metaphorical language, imagery, and symbolism which can lead to misinterpretation and confusion. Prophecy is not merely telling the future. It is the proclamation of God's message. This may prompt a lot of questions, so we have listed a couple of great resources below and we encourage you to engage with us via email at f4l@oakhillbc.org Resources: A Basic Guide to Interpreting the Bible: Playing by the Rules by Robert H. Stein  How to Read the Bible for All Its Worth by Gordon D. Fee & Douglas Stuart  Holman Bible Handbook Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

We are excited to return with another Parenting Profile on Families For Life! This week, Bryan and Brian are joined by Gary and Mallory Bilger to discuss their family history, dynamic, and approach to parenting. They have three children ages 13, 12, and 9 who enjoy participating in the ministries offered to their age groups. Gary is a member of the air national guard, so the family operates with him away at times, and has had to deal with deployment in the past. This, coupled with their deep and abiding faith, has brought their family closer over the years. Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

Bryan and Brian continue their examination of the types of literature found in the Bible as we seek to Understand God's Word. In part 5 of our series, the guys zero in on Job, Psalms, Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, and Song of Songs (or Song of Solomon.) Although songs, poems, and proverbs are sprinkled throughout other places in Scripture, these books of the Bible are commonly considered “wisdom literature.” These sections of Scripture are often very personal, frequently written in light of the author's relationship with God. Many times, and you can especially see this in the Psalms, they are written with God as the audience! Explore these sections of God's Word and look at the idea of wisdom with us this week. Resources An Introduction to Old Testament Poetic Books by C. Hassell Bullock;  A Basic Guide to Interpreting the Bible: Playing by the Rules by Robert H. Stein How to Read the Bible for All Its Worth by Gordon D. Fee & Douglas Stuart How should poetry in the Bible be interpreted? by Got Questions  Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

As we seek to Understand God's Word, we will learn that throughout the history of creation, God has worked through covenants. Bryan and Brian examine the covenants of Scripture, and discuss the laws that arose out of them. Brian Van Doren summed up this episode well when he said that it is like mining for gold. The work may seem tedious, but it reveals great treasure in the end. What are the parts of a covenant? How does the Law of God factor into the covenants that He has delivered throughout history? We examine the current status of God's covenant and how the Law applies to God's people today. Resources discussed or used during this episode include: A Basic Guide to Interpreting the Bible: Playing by the Rules by Robert H. Stein How to Read the Bible for All Its Worth by Gordon D. Fee & Douglas Stuart  What is the law of Christ? by Got Questions  What is the law of liberty? by Got Questions Read the Bible for Life by George H. Guthrie  Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

Stories can be true, and the story of the Bible is true! It is important to understand, though, that the Bible is both a collection of stories and one overarching story. These stories are presented in various literary forms including poetry, historical narrative, parables, and more. Bryan and Brian continue their series of episodes Understanding God's Word with a rapid fire examination of the idea of narrative, what the overarching narrative of the Bible is, and the literary forms that are presented. If you like this episode and you want to go a little deeper in your understanding of this aspect of the Bible, be sure to check out our resource links for helpful tools. Resources How to Read the Bible for All Its Worth by Gordon D. Fee & Douglas Stuart The Method and Message of Jesus' Teaching by Robert H. Stein  Why Four Gospels by Daniel Akin  What is a Parable by Got Questions Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

"Context is key!" What does this mean? In our last episode, Bryan and Brian framed the new series Understanding God's Word and discussed the idea of Hermeneutics so we can begin to develop a framework for meaning when we study the Scriptures. This week, the guys examine how looking into the background of a text to gain the context it was written in can go a long way in understanding because it can provide clues that include audience, language, and history. These components are important for many reasons, but one big reason is that language - even one particular language like English - changes over time. Bryan and Brian explain how to look for context clues and give some examples in this episode! We hope that this series helps to encourage you and build a deeper love for the Bible. Send us your thoughts, questions, and comments to f4l@oakhillbc.org Resources A Basic Guide to Interpreting the Bible - Robert H. Stein Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

Bryan and Brian begin a new series that seeks to Understand God's Word, beginning with a look at hermeneutics, rules, and application. The Ethiopian eunuch in Acts 8 was asked by Philip if he understood the prophecy of Isaiah that the eunuch was reading. The response in Acts 8:31 was “How can I, except some man should guide me?” Philip's guidance led to rejoicing by the Ethiopian once he understood the Gospel and was baptized. Looking at this in our current cultural context, one great challenge for Christianity in the post-modern era is Biblical literacy. The best way that we can combat the problems that arise out of that challenge is regular time in God's Word and a proper interpretation of the Scriptures. Hermeneutics is the science of interpretation, and a Biblical hermeneutic is the way in which we learn the meaning of what we read in our Bible. Thankfully, there are faithful teachers and resources that can help to guide us! We hope that this series helps to encourage you and build a deeper love for the Bible. Send us your thoughts, questions, and comments to f4l@oakhillbc.org Resources A Basic Guide to Interpreting the Bible - Robert H. Stein Hermeneutics by Barry Cooper  What Does Meaning Mean? By John Piper  How Do I Test My Interpretations of the Bible? by John Piper () Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

Bryan and Brian have a Top 3 on deck this week, examining their favorite resources for Christian living. While we never replace the Bible as the only sufficient authority for Christian faith and practice, there are solid resources that can help us to better understand the truths of scripture and how to apply them to our lives. With this in mind, the guys discuss their most impactful resources that they still return to in their Christian walk. We hope you find these lists encouraging! Here is our resources list: Brian Van Doren 3. Revival and Revivalism, Iain Murray  2. The Master Plan of Evangelism, Robert Coleman  1. Spiritual Disciplines for the Christian Life, Donald Whitney   Honorable Mention: Confessions by Augustine   Thoughts for Young Men by J.C. Ryle     Bryan Gotcher: 3. Spiritual Leadership by J. Oswald Sanders  2. Systematic Theology by Wayne Grudem   1. Creative Bible Teaching by Lawrence O. Richards & Gary J. Bredfeldt   Honorable Mention: Leadership Books by Patrick Lencioni   Pilgrim's Progress by John Bunyan   Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

Bryan and Brian return from Summer break and dive into the deepest part of the current cultural pool as they examine the issue of life. What does it mean to be made in the image of God? When does life begin? Most importantly, what does the Bible have to say and have to do with these issues. The decision by the Supreme Court to overturn a monumental decision about “women's reproductive rights” has a lot of folks talking about what happens next. This is a deeply sobering and culturally relevant conversation that is best listened to with maturity. If you usually listen to the podcast with your children, you may want to pre-screen this episode. We pray that God blesses you with this content and equips you to trust in Him and His Word. Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

On this Independence Day special of Families For Life Bryan and Brian discuss the topic of Freedom, comparing the freedom that some nations like the USA enjoy to the true freedom found in Christ. Mature Christians recognize that spiritual freedom and material freedom are two different things, and we can have freedoms and still be enslaved to sin. How should we view patriotism as followers of Jesus? These concepts and more are discussed in this episode. Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

Bryan and Brian dig down into a new Biblical Balance discussing legalism and antinomianism. They have been called the twin heresies, and both have God's law in view. Legalism places an emphasis on God's law that expects more out of the believer than he can possibly bear. Antinomianism (literally “anti law” at its etymological root) downplays God's law upon the life of the believer. How do we navigate the Christian road without steering into one or both of these ditches? What is the proper perspective that a Christian should possess when interacting with God's law? These questions and much more are unpacked in this episode. Don't miss it! Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

Brian and Bryan mix it up this week with an episode dedicated to discussing the top 3 places that each of them have visited. From mission trips to majestic vacations, the guys explain the favorite travel destinations they've experienced, and offer some insights from these trips. Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

Our Hard Talks series wraps up by looking at the conversations that we have with children about the future. These hard talks are to be had over time, and they mature along with your children. So, these conversations look different at different ages, but the subjects are necessary and good. How do we talk to our children about growing up, about death, and about eternity? These are just a few of the facets that they will deal with in the future. Bryan and Brian discuss how we can approach these hard talks with a biblical foundation to build upon. Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

Content Advisory: This episode deals with adult themes. . . This week on Families For Life, Bryan and Brian are joined by guest Matt Higgins. Matt is the Pastor of Worship and Communications at Northwoods church in Evansville, Indiana and he is a certified Biblical counselor.  It's long been one of the hardest of Hard Talks for parents to have, the “sex talk.” With culture pushing disordered sexual behaviors, the conversation may seem more difficult than ever. Take encouragement in the fact that there are more opportunities than ever to teach your kids about a Biblical sexual ethic. How do we avoid falling into the stressful trap of having a one time, exhaustive talk and break the subject into age appropriate, digestible conversations to be had over the course of their childhood. Bryan, Brian, and Matt discuss various aspects of the topic and how we can better handle these discussions in a Biblical way. We hope that this podcast blesses you and helps to better equip you in your efforts to parent Biblically. ARTICLE: There's Something Terribly Wrong With “Euphoria” BOOK: I Can't Say That! Going Beyond The Talk: Equipping Your Children to Make Choices About Sexuality and Gender From a Biblical Sexual Ethic BOOK: God Made Boys and Girls: Helping Children Understand the Gift of Gender  BOOK: God Made All of Me: A Book to Help Children Protect Their Bodies  BOOK: The Wonderful Way Babies Are Made  BOOK: More Than Just the Talk: Becoming Your Kids' Go-To Person About Sex  BOOK: iGen: Why Today's Super-Connected Kids Are Growing Up Less Rebellious, More Tolerant, Less Happy and Completely Unprepared for Adulthood and What That Means for the Rest of Us  Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

The Hard Talks series returns! This week, Bryan and Brian are focusing in on the difficult conversations that parents have to have with their kids around the subject of friendship. What types of friends should we encourage our kids to have? How do we help them navigate friendships as they grow up? All of this and much more are presented in this episode. Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

We're debuting a new feature this week: Parenting Profiles! Bryan and Brian will begin periodically sitting down with folks to discuss their family dynamics, their parenting styles, and most importantly, the biblical principles that shape these aspects of their households. In this first edition, the guys are joined by John and Michelle Luttrell. The Luttrells are active in the life of Oakhill, and have been members of the church for nearly five years. They have two daughters, ages 7 and 4, and the family has enjoyed a unique lifestyle the last two years: traveling extensively across the USA in their 5th wheel. Check out their adventures online at www.called2bfree.tv John and Michelle briefly discuss their family history, share how their biblical worldview forms their approach to marriage and parenting, and offer encouragement to other Christian families. John and Michelle's Recommended Resources The Biggest Story Bible Storybook, Keving DeYoung Truth and Grace Memory Book Set: 3 volumes, Thomas K. Ascol, editor Loving the Little Years: Motherhood in the Trenches, Rachel Jankovic Family Driven Faith, Voddie Baucham Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

The next installment of Hard Talks on the Families For Life podcast focuses on the topic of failure. Bryan and Brian look at the types of failure, some of the different effects that failure can have on our lives, and the lessons we can learn through failure from a Christian context. How can we have a right understanding of failure that we can then build into our children? Gain a better understanding this week. Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

This week, Bryan and Brian examine the topic of another Hard Talk with the subject of character. Did you know that the dictionary definition of character is very simple and vague? It opens true character up to a variety of interpretations. As Christians, we want to define character according to the scriptures, so that we can possess a biblical character that impacts who we are and what we do in a way that honors Christ and blesses others. Listen for encouragement toward the building up of godly character in this episode. Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

Bryan and Brian begin a new series of episodes called ‘Hard Talks.' This is a series of episodes geared toward helping parents to approach difficult conversations with their children on a variety of important topics. This first episode examines a biblical understanding of obedience. Why is it important to be obedient? How do parents train their kids in obedience? If you aren't a parent, there's still wisdom to be gained and we'd love for you to share this resource with others that you think could benefit from them. Thanks for listening! Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

With Brian out welcoming his new daughter, Bryan is joined by Pastor Alan Scott for a Pastor's Perspective on this week's Families For Life Podcast. Pastor Alan discusses “Things I've said a million times,” as he looks at ideas that have shaped his ministry and leadership over the years. It is an edifying and personal discussion about a few of the concepts that have helped Oakhill Baptist Church to follow God and serve our community so far, and will continue to guide us into the future. Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

Bryan and Brian look back on our recent cultural watershed to reflect upon two years since the COVID virus changed the world. How have we moved forward from the days when society had very little information to go on? How do we continue to move forward now? For Christians, part of the answer is rediscovering the importance of coming back to corporate worship in the church building. As a result of these last couple of years, many folks are moving to different churches. Is this a healthy action to take? Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

Brian and Bryan are back with a special for Easter, examining the theology, history, and trends associated with this Christian holiday.  In the midst of this season, how can we focus our hearts on the meaning for our celebration, and what types of things can families do to engage their young people to get excited about the resurrection of Jesus? Find out in this episode! Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org

Bryan and Brian check in on a new Biblical Balance topic on this week's Families For Life. A Christian is referred to at times in scripture as truly free, a co-heir with Christ, and a member of a royal priesthood. In other parts of the Bible, followers of Jesus are called slaves or servants. How do we hold all of this in tension and strike a balance in this life between the liberty we have as Christians and our position as servants of the Lord? Families For Life is a podcast of Oakhill Baptist Church. You can stream all of our episodes in your internet browser on our website http://www.oakhillbc.org/f4l/ or listen on your favorite podcast app! Make sure to rate and review the show. We would also welcome your feedback or future episode ideas in our email inbox at f4l@oakhillbc.org