Raising His Kids

Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions about domestic abuse and high-conflict relationships. Please take care while listening.Ever wondered what would happen if a Karen and a Regina became friends? What if two women, with a complicated history and tied to the same high-conflict co-parent, put aside the past and chose peace, respect, and family?In this powerful episode, I'm joined by Kassandra (you know her from We Are Familyish) and Kelsee—her partner in co-parenting and, yes, the ex-wife of Kassandra's ex-husband.Together, we talk about what it really took to move from mistrust to mutual respect, from surviving to thriving. We open up about our shared experiences with domestic abuse, how we found our way out, and what healing looks like while co-parenting through the chaos.This isn't just a story about high-conflict co-parenting—this is about growth, resilience, and choosing connection over competition. Oh, and did I mention? This episode is also full of giggles—our energy just bounces off each other.If you're walking this blended family roller coaster, this one's definitely for you.Follow & Support:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorKassandra:https://www.wearefamilyish.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wearefamilyish/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheetLinktree: https://linktr.ee/wearefamilyish?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAab_zUtetn9FvRkUala5iIqLzSMPU5E4OZga2AjziwqY3cVQC-wlRlYofEo_aem_rbFsD3NM_A1taDjRMVRqSQSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

In this episode of Raising His Kids, I'm joined by Summer Butler—author, speaker, and family coach—who's dedicated her life to supporting kids and families navigating the blended family roller coaster.Summer shares her heart behind her latest release, Blended: Navigating Life Between Two Homes, a workbook designed specifically for preteens navigating divorce, co-parenting, and life in two households.We talk about the emotional toll of transitions, the things kids feel but often can't express, and how parents can better show up for their children during these changes. Summer also opens up about her own journey growing up in a divorced home, becoming a stepmum, and raising two adult stepsons and an “ours baby.”Whether you're a bio mum, bonus mum, or somewhere in between—this conversation will leave you feeling encouraged and equipped to support your kids with more empathy, awareness, and heart.Learn more about Summer's resources at https://www.blendedbookco.comFollow Summer on Instagram @blendedbookcoFollow & Support:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

What does healing look like when you're still stuck co-parenting with your abuser? In this raw and honest conversation, Toni sits down with Vickie Lynn — survivor, coach, and fierce advocate for mums navigating high-conflict co-parenting with narcissistic exes.Together, they explore the emotional roller coaster of trying to raise emotionally healthy children while protecting them from manipulation, smear campaigns, and trauma — all while being accused of being the “high-conflict” parent. Toni shares parts of her own story too, including the complex dynamics of raising a child who looks like your abuser, parenting as a survivor, and navigating a stepfamily full of tension and judgement.If you're a mum trying to break generational cycles, protect your kids, and still hold space for yourself — this episode is a must-listen.And for stepmums caught in the crossfire or unsure where they fit, this chat brings clarity, validation, and a fresh perspective on building bridges and setting boundaries.Follow & Support:Vickie Lynn: https://stan.store/thesurvivorcenter?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaeuzF7wcKOAf3BFFCvglMxYxQY5d_1ccZ_QJg0YM_3ulrLM0nDJoPY2H1x6Yg_aem_6byLX6TOTprPLxHka1MXGQInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_survivor_center?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

In this episode, Kassandra opens up about the challenges she faces as a military wife in a blended family. From managing a household alone while her husband is deployed, to navigating the complexities of parenting and step-parenting, Kassandra shares her raw and honest feelings about trying to balance it all. Tune in for a candid conversation about who really gets the final say in blended families when you're juggling multiple roles and responsibilities.Follow & Support:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorKassandra:https://www.wearefamilyish.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wearefamilyish/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheetLinktree: https://linktr.ee/wearefamilyish?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAab_zUtetn9FvRkUala5iIqLzSMPU5E4OZga2AjziwqY3cVQC-wlRlYofEo_aem_rbFsD3NM_A1taDjRMVRqSQSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

This week, Jyl and I dive deep into the complexities of blended family life, mental health, and health struggles. I open up about my ongoing battle with chronic pain and the decision to undergo a hysterectomy, as well as how my journey with health impacts my family dynamics. I also share a raw and honest update on where things currently stand in my relationship with lil J.We explore how life often throws unexpected curveballs and how we adjust, even when things don't go to plan. From the highs and lows of motherhood and stepmotherhood to the importance of knowing your limits, this episode is packed with personal stories, reflection, and a whole lot of real talk.Tune in for a heartfelt discussion that will leave you reflecting on your own experiences and the chaos that is life.Follow & Support:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorJyl:https://jylbarlow.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jylbarlow?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

Toni and Jyl unpack the highs and lows of blended family life, sharing practical advice for step-parents, bio-parents, and anyone navigating the complexities of a blended home. They explore the importance of one-on-one time with kids, maintaining strong emotional connections, and coping with transitions—both in family and in life. Jyl also opens up about the challenges of marketing her book after the loss of her mum, and the emotional layers of her relationship with her stepdaughter. This episode offers heartfelt insight and inspiration for anyone juggling family, grief, and growth.Follow & Support:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator Jyl:https://jylbarlow.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jylbarlow?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

Easter in a blended family isn't always sunshine, chocolate, and matching bunny ears. Sometimes it's tears, tension, and total exhaustion.  In this solo episode, I'm sharing a voice-note-style chat straight from the heart—for anyone whose Easter felt heavy, overwhelming, or just a bit off.  We're talking last-minute plan changes, forgotten bags, overstimulated kids, being left out of family lunches, and the emotional whiplash that comes with holidays in a blended home.  And if this year actually felt peaceful for you? I'm celebrating that too.  Take a deep breath, pop your headphones in, and let this be the little bit of validation you didn't know you needed.Follow & Support me here:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

This week, I'm joined by Bella Duncan, the inspiring voice behind A Kid With Two Homes. Bella's parents separated when she was just three years old, and for over 20 years she's lived the reality of growing up between two homes. Now, with degrees in law and psychology, she uses her story to advocate for kids navigating family separation and to help co-parents truly understand the child's perspective.In this episode, Bella shares what it was like growing up with two homes and the emotional weight of not wanting to hurt either parent. She opens up about the guilt that would creep in during everyday moments—like when a kid on the playground would ask which house she liked better—and speaks candidly about what she wishes her parents had done differently so she didn't feel caught in the middle of their divorce.This is a powerful conversation about empathy, reflection, and doing better for the next generation of kids living in blended or separated families.

In this episode, I sit down with Carissa, the founder of Co-Parenting in Harmony, a Facebook group dedicated to helping women find peace in their co-parenting journey. Carissa is preparing to marry her fiancé and blend families with his 19-year-old twins, all while raising her 9-year-old child. We discuss the challenges of introducing a new partner to your kids, setting boundaries as a step-parent, and the emotional complexities of co-parenting with a difficult ex. Carissa shares her journey to reduce conflict in her life and helps others do the same through her support group.If you're navigating the ups and downs of co-parenting or step-parenting, this episode is for you!  

Blended family life isn't always smooth sailing, and today's guest, Erika, knows that firsthand. In this episode, she opens up about the reality of step-parenting with a high-conflict bio mum in the mix, the challenges of co-parenting, and why she chose to disengage to protect her peace.  We also talk about adding an ‘ours' baby into the dynamic—how it shifted relationships, what she wishes she had known beforehand, and how she's making it work.  If you're a stepmother struggling with boundaries, co-parenting drama, or just trying to find balance in it all, this episode is for you! Follow & Support:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

Co-parenting is already challenging, but when a natural disaster hits, everything gets thrown into chaos. In this episode, I'm joined by Bekks to unpack what it was like co-parenting through Cyclone Alfred—navigating custody changes, safety concerns, and high-stress communication with an ex while trying to keep the kids safe.  We also share listener stories from parents who had to make tough calls, stand their ground, or face unexpected co-parenting conflicts when disaster struck. Because when the storm hits, the challenges don't just come from the weather.  Tune in for real talk, real experiences, and the lessons learned from co-parenting through a natural disaster.Follow & Support:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorBekks: https://www.instagram.com/rebekkahlouise?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

In this episode of Raising His Kids, I sit down with Sally, a solo mum by choice, to talk about her incredible journey from co-parenting challenges, to choosing to become a solo mum by choice and everything in between.Sally first became a mum after escaping a DV relationship and navigating a complex custody arrangement with her ex. Over the years, she's faced financial struggles, co-parenting manipulation, and medical disagreements while working hard to protect her son's well-being. Now, as her nearly 16-year-old son starts forming his own opinions—and potentially his first job—we dive into how this impacts visitation and their evolving dynamic.Sally also shares how she later chose to grow her family through IVF, the emotional and financial realities of solo motherhood, and the unexpected gift of connecting with her youngest child's donor siblings. This conversation is raw, insightful, and packed with wisdom for anyone navigating solo parenting, high-conflict co-parenting, or blended family complexities.Topics we cover:

Blended family life comes with its fair share of chaos, but some stories are truly next-level. In this episode, Kassandra from We Are Familyish joins me to share some of the wildest, most unhinged blended family moments—think false assault accusations, unexpected police station visits, wedding crashers, and co-parenting demands that will leave you speechless.  From bio mums using location tracking to show up uninvited to court order claims that don't even exist, we're diving into the kind of drama you just can't make up. If you've ever felt like your blended family roller coaster is out of control, trust me—you're not alone!  Disclosure: We had a bit of lag and some technical difficulties during recording, which made it sound like we were talking over each other at times. I did my best to clean it up, but a few moments couldn't be fully edited out—thanks for bearing with us!Support Us Here: Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorKassandra:https://www.wearefamilyish.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wearefamilyish/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheetLinktree: https://linktr.ee/wearefamilyish?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAab_zUtetn9FvRkUala5iIqLzSMPU5E4OZga2AjziwqY3cVQC-wlRlYofEo_aem_rbFsD3NM_A1taDjRMVRqSQSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

In this episode, I'm joined by Jo, a stepmum navigating life in a neurodivergent blended family. With ADHD herself, a husband managing PTSD, anxiety, depression, and ADHD, and two stepkids with autism, ADHD, and PTSD, Jo's home is full of unique challenges and strengths. We talk about regulation, coping strategies, and how nachoing has helped her set boundaries while still being a supportive stepmum.  We also answer listener questions on navigating neurodivergence in blended families, including co-parenting challenges, diagnosis struggles, and non-medication strategies for ADHD.  I do want to apologise for a few technical difficulties in this episode that I wasn't able to completely remove in editing. Thanks for sticking with me—I promise the conversation is still well worth the listen!  Hit play and let's dive in!  Follow & Support:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

In this episode of Raising His Kids, I sit down with Brittney Phillips from Blending Bravely to talk about why your marriage is the foundation of your blended family. As a certified professional coach, teacher, and somatic healing enthusiast, Brittney has walked the blended family roller coaster herself. From navigating loyalty binds and parenting style clashes to overcoming grief and healing from past trauma, she brings wisdom, experience, and practical advice to the table.  We dive into the challenges that so many blended families face—kids struggling to adjust, co-parenting conflicts, and the constant balancing act of meeting everyone's needs. But at the heart of it all is your marriage. Brittney and I discuss why prioritising your relationship isn't just important for you and your partner, but for the entire family dynamic. We share practical ways to strengthen your marriage, set boundaries, and find joy in the midst of the chaos.  Whether you're in a second marriage, navigating step-parenting struggles, or just feeling like your relationship has taken a backseat, this episode is full of encouragement and real-life strategies to help you and your partner stay connected. Tune in for an honest and insightful conversation about building a blended family on a strong foundation.Follow & Support Brittney here:Website: https://www.blendingbravely.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsmebrittneyp/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itsmebrittneypLinkt.ree: https://linktr.ee/blendingbravely?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaZl1-EeZZm2dfuCsZncKCP6MWk5YUbbkfF8vhXdrG4lD1FBrAhDvhZrdlA_aem_UFyy0MBWgpvwzaTpn121RwFollow & Support Raising His Kids here:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

Blending a family is never easy, but staying organised while juggling parenting, court hearings, and everyday life? That's a whole other challenge. In this episode, I sit down with Ginger Dellaripa, co-founder of *The Family Core*, to talk about how she navigated the chaos of blended family life, gained full custody of her daughters, and found ways to create stability in the midst of uncertainty. This episode was meant to be an interview, but from the moment Ginger and I started chatting, it felt more like catching up with an old friend. You know that feeling when you haven't spoken in ages, but you pick up right where you left off? That was this conversation. Ginger shares her experiences as both a stepmum and bio mum, how she handled co-parenting struggles, and the systems she used to keep everything from spiraling out of control. Whether you're dealing with high-conflict co-parenting, feeling overwhelmed by schedules, or just looking for some practical advice, this episode is for you! 

Valentine's Day can bring out the best—and the absolute worst—in relationships. In this episode, I'm joined once again by Kassandra from We Are Familyish as we dive into the epic Valentine's Day fails from past relationships and the big wins we've experienced now that we're in healthy, happy ones.  We're sharing listener stories and our own personal experiences that highlight just how different love can feel when you're with the right person. From absolute disasters and forgotten gifts to awkward arguments, sweet surprises, and thoughtful gestures, this episode is all about the contrast between toxic love and real, healthy connection.  If you've ever had a Valentine's Day disaster—or finally experienced what it's like to be truly appreciated—you'll definitely relate to this one!  Follow & Support Us Here:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorKassandra:https://www.wearefamilyish.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wearefamilyish/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheetLinktree: https://linktr.ee/wearefamilyish?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAab_zUtetn9FvRkUala5iIqLzSMPU5E4OZga2AjziwqY3cVQC-wlRlYofEo_aem_rbFsD3NM_A1taDjRMVRqSQSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

This week's episode is all about YOU! We're diving into the stepmum anons you've sent in—real stories from stepmums navigating the ups and downs of blended family life. From hilarious moments to tough situations, we're sharing it all and reacting to the experiences that make this rollercoaster so wild.  Grab your coffee or wine and join us for this fun and relatable episode, filled with all the honesty and humour you love!  Want your story shared? Send me a DM and it might make it into the next episode!Follow & Support me:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

In this episode, I'm catching up with my friend and author, Jyl Barlow, to talk about her latest book, Sparent (Spare Parent). Jyl shares what it means to be the "spare parent" in a blended family and how her personal experiences shaped this important work.  We also dive into the next chapter of her blended family journey following the sudden loss of her mother-in-law. Jyl opens up about navigating grief, the unexpected dynamics with her kids and their biological mother, and the challenges that have unfolded since her mother-in-law's passing.  From the emotional fallout to her daughter Amelia taking a step back from the family, this episode offers a raw and real look at the ups and downs of blended family life. Don't miss this heartfelt conversation as Jyl shares her insights on parenting, resilience, and the evolving dynamics of family.  Follow & Support:Jyl BarlowWebsite - https://jylbarlow.com/Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jylbarlow/?hl=enFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/JylBarlow/Raising His Kids https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

In this heartfelt and insightful episode, Toni and Lauren dive into a topic that resonates deeply with many blended families: how life in a blended household affects the 'ours' babies. These children, biologically shared by the couple, grow up in a unique dynamic filled with both blessings and challenges.Toni opens up about her personal experience as an 'ours' baby, offering a raw and honest look at sibling dynamics, age gaps, and the emotional complexities of growing up in a blended family. Lauren adds her perspective, reflecting on her hopes and concerns about raising her daughter in a blended household.Together, they tackle common struggles faced by 'ours' babies and their siblings—like sibling jealousy, time-sharing dynamics, and finding their place in a blended family. You'll also hear moving listener stories that shed light on the realities of raising 'ours' babies in a blended world.Tune in as Toni and Lauren share practical tips to support your 'ours' babies and ensure every family member feels loved, valued, and included. Whether you're navigating co-parenting challenges, sibling rivalry, or simply trying to create harmony, this episode is packed with wisdom and encouragement.  Follow & Support:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

It's a brand-new year and in this episode of Raising His Kids! Toni and Lauren tackle one of the most challenging aspects of stepparenting—resentment. Whether it's feeling overshadowed by the biological mother, dealing with unmet expectations, or struggling with the emotional weight of being a stepmother, resentment is a feeling many of us know all too well.  Toni and Lauren share their personal experiences with resentment, unpack listener questions, and provide strategies to help stepmothers acknowledge and move past these feelings. From setting healthy boundaries and prioritising self-care to letting go of the “first place” mentality, this episode is packed with practical tips to help you navigate resentment and foster stronger relationships within your blended family.  This episode also includes some big news—Lauren shares a personal announcement, while Toni talks about the future of Raising His Kids and her vision for keeping it a safe, supportive space for blended families.Grab your coffee or your wine, and join us for an honest, heartfelt discussion about one of the hardest parts on this Stepmother Rollercoaster.Follow & Support us here:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

Happy New Year and welcome to the first episode of 2025! With Lauren away for this episode, Toni is joined by her good friend Bekks as they reflect on their Christmas and New Year celebrations with their families. In this heartfelt episode, they also share intentions for the year ahead and hear from listeners about their own holiday experiences.  ⚠️ Trigger Warning: Toward the end of the episode, there is a sensitive discussion about miscarriage, as one listener shares the heartbreaking loss of their baby on the cusp of the new year.  Don't forget to check out our Patreon for exclusive access to all the juicy coparenting drama Toni faced over the holidays!  Follow & Support Us:Bekks: Rebekkah-Louise (@rebekkahlouise)Instagram · rebekkahlouise280+ followersRaising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

As we close out 2024, join us for our final episode of the year! This week, we're reflecting on the challenges, wins, and lessons from the past 12 months, sharing what we're leaving behind, and setting intentions for the new year.  We'll dive into personal stories, listener reflections, and heartfelt goals for 2025. From letting go of resentment and grudges to prioritizing self-care and saying yes to new opportunities, this episode is packed with inspiration for stepping into the new year with purpose.  Whether you're ringing in 2025 with champagne, coffee, or a cozy night at home, this episode is the perfect way to reflect, reset, and get ready for a fresh start.  Thank you for being part of our journey this year—we couldn't do this without you! Here's to a new year full of intention, positivity, and maybe just a little less chaos.  Happy New Year from Raising His Kids!Don't forget to join the conversation in our Facebook group and follow us on Instagram to share your 2025 goals and intentions!Follow & Support Us:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

It's Christmas Eve Eve, and we're here to bring some holiday cheer to your ears!

The holiday season is here, and with Christmas just around the corner, we're diving into one of the trickiest parts of blended family life: gift giving. In this episode, we're unpacking how to navigate the complexities of buying gifts in blended families—from who buys for who, to dealing with judgmental kids, to managing awkward situations with exes or their families.  We're answering your listener questions, like:  - Who should the gifts be signed from?  - How do you handle gift money from grandparents?  - What do you do if stepkids criticize or mock every gift?  - Is it weird for kids not to buy gifts for their coparents?  Plus, we're sharing tips to make the season smoother, like setting gift-giving expectations, protecting your peace, and encouraging kids to create thoughtful handmade gifts. Whether you're figuring out how to balance traditions, handle entitlement, or just survive the holiday stress, we've got you covered.  Grab your cocoa or eggnog and join us for this holiday-themed episode!  

It's time to celebrate two incredible years of Raising His Kids! In this special episode, Toni and Lauren reflect on how it all began, sharing hilarious behind-the-scenes moments, including their first recording mishaps and funniest bloopers.  But that's not all! Test your RHK knowledge alongside them as they tackle trivia questions about the podcast's most popular episodes, listener favorites, and memorable moments. Plus, they share some of their own blended family chaos from the past year—because what's a celebration without a little real-life chaos?  And, of course, they answer your listener questions, diving into the highs, lows, and laughs of stepparenting, co-parenting, and blended family life.  Join us for a fun, heartfelt look back and an exciting glimpse into what's next for Raising His Kids. Here's to another amazing year of connection, laughter, and support!  Grab your coffee or your wine and hit play now!  Follow & Support us here:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator(Don't forget to leave us a 5-star review and tell us what you want to hear more of in the year ahead!)Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

In this episode, Lauren is joined by Kristen Skiles, the voice behind the ‘Stepmomming'' blog and host of the ‘Stepmomming Made Easy' podcast, to explore “outsider syndrome”—a common but rarely discussed challenge for stepmoms. As the holiday season approaches, this feeling of exclusion can intensify, especially during family traditions and gatherings. Kristen shares her personal experiences, practical tips, and mindset shifts to help stepmoms navigate these tough moments and find their place in the family dynamic.  Whether you're feeling like a bystander in your own home or struggling with holiday traditions that make you feel disconnected, this episode offers relatable insights and actionable advice to help you move forward.Find Kristen Here:https://stepmomming.com/https://www.instagram.com/stepmomming/?hl=enSupport Us Here:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

In this special Thanksgiving-themed episode, we're diving into the power of gratitude in stepparenting. Whether it's the family we've gained, the lessons we've learned, or the small moments that remind us why we do what we do, finding gratitude can help us navigate the ups and downs of blended family life.  Lauren leads today's discussion as Toni battles a sore throat (but don't worry—she still shares what she's grateful for!). Together, we explore your heartfelt responses to what stepparenting has made you thankful for, from building strong bonds to discovering personal growth and resilience.  If you're in a challenging season right now, we hope this episode inspires you to reflect on the positives, no matter how small they may seem. Gratitude doesn't have to be grand—it can simply be a moment of connection, a lesson learned, or the love we've built within our families.  We're so grateful for you, our listeners, and the incredible community you've helped us create. Thank you for sharing your stories and reminding us that we're all in this together.  To our American listeners, Happy Thanksgiving! Whether you have the kids or are enjoying some quiet time, we hope you can find a moment to reflect on what you're grateful for today.  Grab your coffee or your wine, and let's get into it!  Follow & Support Us:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni is joined by Kassandra from @WeAreFamilyish to kick off a series of holiday-themed episodes. With Lauren away, Kassandra shares her unique perspective on navigating the festive season, reflecting on her journey from being a stepmum to blending traditions in her "familyish" setup today. Together, they dive into the pressures of managing multiple households, merging family traditions, and setting boundaries to keep the season merry and bright.Toni and Kassandra explore everything from the magic of Elf on the shelf & December 1st boxes to creative ways to blend traditions across different families. If you're curious about their new holiday gift exchange idea, you'll definitely want to tune in. They also tackle some juicy listener questions around custody schedules, co-parenting holiday disputes, and how to keep things fair for all the kids involved.For the extra chismosa (that's Spanish for gossip) and Kassandra's cheeky take on handling those "mythical creature" challenges that every blended family faces between homes, be sure to check out our exclusive content over on Patreon.Follow & Support Raising His Kids here:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorFollow & Support Kassandra here:https://www.wearefamilyish.com/blog/page/2https://www.instagram.com/wearefamilyish/Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni and Lauren revisit one of their most popular topics: all the things you wish you could say to ‘Karen'—the high-conflict biological mother who makes coparenting a challenge. It's been a while since the first round of venting back in Episode 29, “Gloves Off: StepMoms Speak Up - What You Wished You Could Say,” so it's time for a refresh!Lauren and Toni dive into candid listener responses, sharing the unfiltered thoughts, frustrations, and truths stepmums hold back for the sake of peace. From double standards and child support battles to never-ending pick-up drama, nothing is off the table. And yes, some of these confessions might even be their own! Want to know for sure? Join their Gold Tier Patreon for the full scoop.Grab your coffee or wine, and get ready for some laughs, relatable rants, and maybe even a little cathartic release. Whether you're navigating the emotional roller coaster of blended family life or just need to know you're not alone, this episode is for you.*Note: This episode is a bit shorter than our usual ones, but it definitely gets straight to the point!*Follow & Support Us:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

In this episode, Toni and Lauren dive into the unique sibling dynamics of blended families, focusing on the connections and challenges between bio, step, and half-siblings. They explore distinct sibling types—bio siblings who share both parents, step-siblings who live together through marriage, and half-siblings who share one parent, with at least one child often navigating two households. From competition and jealousy to personality differences and varied parenting styles, Toni and Lauren discuss common struggles and share practical strategies to foster healthy sibling bonds.Listen in as they share listener stories, answer questions on managing sibling conflict, and offer insights on helping kids build connections at their own pace. Whether you're a stepmother, biological mother, or navigating the blended family journey in any role, this episode offers relatable stories and advice to support positive sibling relationships. Grab your coffee or your wine, and join us for a thoughtful conversation on Raising His Kids! Follow and Support us here: Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

Thanks for sticking with us through 100 episodes! In this milestone celebration, Toni and Lauren dive headfirst into the spooky, chaotic, and sometimes downright terrifying realities of stepmotherhood.  In honour of Halloween, we've themed this episode accordingly, sharing the creepiest, funniest, and most intense listener-submitted stepmum horror stories. From awkward run-ins with exes to bone-chilling custody battles—including every mother and stepmother's worst nightmare—no story is off-limits!  You'll hear about:  -

In this episode of *Raising His Kids*, Toni and Lauren explore one of the toughest challenges for stepmums: building meaningful connections with stepkids, especially when loyalty binds them to their biological mum. We unpack what loyalty binds are, why they happen, and how they can create emotional distance. Toni and Lauren share practical tips for fostering trust, staying patient, and creating safe spaces—without forcing a bond or feeling like you're competing with their mum. Tune in as we answer listener questions about rejection, overstepping boundaries, and dealing with bio-mums who stir the pot. If you've ever felt like an outsider in your blended family, this episode will remind you that connection takes time, and you're not alone in the journey.Support & Follow us:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

In this heartfelt episode, Toni and Lauren dive into a topic that's rarely discussed but deeply felt—losing friendships after divorce or when stepping into the role of a stepmother. They share their own personal stories about how life changes can create distance in old friendships and explore why relationships sometimes dissolve during these transitions.  From navigating grief to building new support systems, Toni and Lauren offer practical tips on how to rebuild your social circle with friendships that align with where you are now. If you've felt the sting of shifting relationships or the isolation that can come with blending families, this episode is for you. Tune in, take a deep breath, and know you're not alone.  Follow & Support us:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

In this episode of Raising His Kids, we're diving headfirst into the chaotic, heartwarming, and sometimes downright hilarious world of Reddit's "Am I the A**hole" (AITA) stories – blended family style! After a small tech hiccup with our first attempt, we're back with a brand new batch of Reddit stories that are sure to resonate with all the stepmums, stepparents, and blended families out there. From boundary battles to holiday dilemmas, these stories explore the complexities of navigating life in a blended family, and trust us, Reddit never disappoints.Tune in as Lauren and Toni read and react to a series of Reddit AITA posts and share their own insights, laughs, and advice on these wild situations. Follow and support us here:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

In this week's episode of *Raising His Kids*, we're giving you a special peek into exclusive content that didn't make it into our main episodes. You'll hear a compilation of never-before-heard moments from Episode 57, 62, and 63 — from our New Year's catch-up and Lauren's surgery before Valentine's Day, to candid talks about burnout, stepmom guilt, and everything in between.This episode is a taste of what we share weekly with our Patreon subscribers. For more behind-the-scenes moments, personal updates, and bonus content like this, make sure to subscribe to our Patreon!So grab your coffee or your wine, and let's dive in!Follow & Support us here:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

In this episode of Raising His Kids, Lauren & Toni dive deep into the world of triggers—those unexpected moments that can catch you off guard and leave you feeling overwhelmed. Whether it's something your stepchild says, a comment from their biological parent, or just the pressures of a blended family, triggers can take a toll on your emotional well-being.Join Toni and Lauren as they share personal stories of their own triggers, answer listener questions, and provide practical tips for managing and healing from these challenging moments. From setting boundaries to seeking professional support, we've got the advice you need to navigate your emotional landscape with confidence.If you're struggling to manage triggers in your stepparenting journey, this episode is packed with tools and insights to help you move forward with grace and resilience.Don't forget to subscribe, leave a 5-star review, and follow us on Instagram for more stepmum support! Find us here:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni and Lauren explore the importance of creating and blending traditions in your family. Whether you're starting from scratch or combining traditions from different backgrounds, it can be both challenging and rewarding. They also take a moment to recognize National Stepfamily Day on September 16th in the USA and share how it could be the perfect opportunity to start a new tradition with your blended family.Tune in as they discuss personal stories, offer practical tips, and read listener submissions on the traditions that have helped strengthen family bonds. Whether it's around holidays, birthdays, or everyday moments, you'll find inspiration and guidance on making traditions work for your unique situation.If you've been wondering how to navigate traditions in your blended family, this episode is for you!Find, Follow & Support us here:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

In this episode of *Raising His Kids*, Toni and Lauren explore the often complicated topic of blended family weddings. From figuring out how much to involve the kids to navigating relationships with biological parents, they share their own wedding experiences and offer practical advice for making your big day go smoothly.They also answer listener questions on dealing with tricky wedding scenarios unique to blended families. Whether you're planning a large wedding or thinking about eloping, this episode offers insights into how to make your wedding day a celebration that reflects your unique family.If you're in the middle of wedding planning in a blended family, this episode will give you the guidance you need to move forward with confidence.Support us here:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni and Lauren explore the unique challenges and joys of being an every other weekend stepmother. They share personal experiences, offer tips on maximizing the limited time with the kids, and discuss how to navigate the complexities of this role. Whether you're an every other weekend stepmother or looking to better understand these dynamics, this episode has something for everyone.Plus, they answer listener questions, such as whether every other weekend is considered visitation or custody and how to handle having no say in decisions.Join Toni and Lauren as they uncover the realities of every other weekend stepparenting. And don't miss out on exciting updates happening on their Patreon starting September 1st!Support Raising His Kids Here:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

In this special bonus episode of Raising His Kids, we honour Australian Father's Day, coming up on the 1st of September. Toni sits down with Mark, a dedicated bio dad who has full custody of his son. Mark shares his powerful journey of stepping into full-time parenting, overcoming challenges, and the deep love that drives him every day.Before diving into Mark's story, Toni discusses an important issue—men's mental health, particularly around Father's Day. With suicide rates among Australian men significantly higher than women, this episode sheds light on the pressures and struggles that many fathers face, especially during this time of year.Mark also answers listener questions, offering insights on his experience in the court process, managing relationships, and how he navigates the complexities of full-time fatherhood. Whether you're a dad, stepmum, or someone navigating blended family life, this episode offers support, encouragement, and a reminder that you're not alone.Don't miss this heartfelt conversation as we celebrate the resilience and dedication of fathers everywhere.If you want to follow Mark and reach out to him or if you just want to support his business you can find him here:Mark's Personal Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mark_rains___/?igsh=aHJ4dDdlMThudzBhRains Rainzy Business Page:https://www.instagram.com/rainsrainzy/?igsh=MnI1bThuamppMWhoFor our Australian listeners there is also the Promo Code: Toni24https://rainzyrainsaustralianclothingco.square.site/?cc=Toni24Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

In this episode, Toni and Lauren explore the often challenging yet rewarding journey of finding positivity in stepparenting. We know it's not always easy, but there are so many ways to focus on the positives and build a fulfilling family dynamic.We dive into listener responses and hear how some of you find joy in the little moments, like a heartfelt "I love you" or a big hug from your stepkids. We also discuss how to maintain your peace when the challenges of coparenting feel overwhelming. From disengaging when needed to creating your own little world within your blended family, we cover it all.Tune in as we answer your questions about preserving peace and staying positive, even when the going gets tough. Remember, it's easy to get caught up in the negativity, but holding onto those positive moments can remind us why we're on this journey.How to find us: Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni welcomes Jasmine Yow, a dedicated stepmum coach who specialises in supporting childless stepmums as they navigate the transition into biological motherhood. Jasmine's work is transformative for many women, helping them unravel complex emotions and build cohesive family cultures amidst the challenges of blended life.Join us as Jasmine shares her insights on the common struggles stepmums face when they add their own babies into the mix, how these challenges affect family dynamics, and practical strategies to manage the emotional rollercoaster that often accompanies this journey. From creating unity within the family to fostering open communication, Jasmine provides valuable advice that every stepmum needs to hear.We also dive into some listener questions, exploring topics like dealing with resentment towards stepkids after having your own child, managing insecurities when it's your first baby but not your husband's, and overcoming feelings of being ‘ripped off' in your first biological experience.Whether you're a stepmum on the brink of adding your own little one to the family or simply looking to find peace in your blended family life, this episode is packed with wisdom and actionable advice. Tune in for an honest, heartfelt conversation and discover the support you need to thrive in your unique family journey.Don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and join us for more episodes filled with insights into the blended family rollercoaster.Links to connect with Jasmine:https://www.instagram.com/jasmineyow/?hl=enhttps://www.facebook.com/jasmine.yow/https://drive.google.com/file/d/1yZ4RZDEZ0z2-klFk3mrJjElcPOAlnOlC/viewSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni and Lauren dive into everything you need to know to get ready for the new school year, whether you're a seasoned pro or new to the back-to-school chaos.What We Cover:- Tips for getting your kids back into school routines- Fun ways to celebrate the last days of summer- Navigating the financial aspects of back-to-school season with your coparent- Listener questions about handling school supplies, splitting costs, and making the most of the back-to-school experienceJoin us as we share our personal routines, listener tips, and strategies to ensure a smooth transition from summer break to the classroom. Whether you have the kids the day before school starts or not, you can still be a part of their back-to-school excitement.And don't forget to check out our Patreon for exclusive content and behind-the-scenes goodies. Grab your coffee or your wine, and let's get this school year off to a great start!If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a 5-star review and follow us on all social media platforms at @raisinghiskids.Follow Us:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

In this episode, your hosts Lauren and Toni dive into the exciting and sometimes daunting world of Blended Family Vacations. With summer in full swing in the northern hemisphere for Lauren and planning underway in the southern hemisphere for Toni, this episode is packed with tips and advice to ensure your family trip is memorable, fun, and stress-free.Toni shares her experience planning a big family trip, while Lauren talks about her upcoming vacation. Together, they provide practical suggestions for involving everyone in the planning process, setting clear boundaries, and being flexible with custody schedules. They also explore the importance of creating new vacation traditions, taking alone time when needed, and being prepared for changes in plans.Listener questions cover a range of topics, including whether it's okay to plan a vacation without 'his kids', how to handle vacation expenses in blended families, and tips for convincing a co-parent to allow a longer trip. Toni and Lauren also discuss the financial responsibilities of childless stepmoms, deciding between family trips and solo vacations, room arrangements for kids, and handling being called "mum" when you're not the biological mother.Tune in for all this and more, and don't forget to check out their Patreon for exclusive content and join their Facebook group for ongoing discussions and support from other stepmoms. Grab your coffee or wine, and let's get started on planning the perfect blended family vacation!Find & Support Us Here:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

Today, Lauren & Toni are bringing a bit of festive cheer to your summer (or summer planning) with a special episode all about planning your holiday schedule with your co-parent now.It might seem a little early to be thinking about the holidays, but trust us, planning ahead can make a huge difference, especially in a blended family. The holidays can be magical but also stressful, so we're here to help you get a head start on your co-parenting holiday schedule. In this episode, we share tips on navigating the tricky parts of holiday planning, from coordinating schedules with your partner and their ex to making sure the kids have a joyful and memorable time. We've got lots of great advice and some personal stories to share, so grab your coffee or your wine, get comfy, and let's start planning for a stress-free, joyous holiday season!We'll cover:- How to bring up holiday plans with your co-parent early- The importance of getting plans in writing- How to handle budget constraints while preparing for the holidays- Setting firm boundaries and making necessary compromises- Personal stories and listener questions to guide you through your planningPlus, we have a special gift for you—a free holiday planning template, available via the link in our Instagram bio. We also share a heartfelt Stepmoms Anon story from one of our listeners that you won't want to miss.Tune in and let us help you make this holiday season the best one yet. Happy planning and bye for now!Find & Support us: Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

Toni and Lauren delve into different coparenting styles, with a spotlight on parallel parenting. This episode, a winner of our Patreon vote, is packed with valuable insights for those navigating high-conflict coparenting situations.We'll cover the three main types of coparenting—cooperative, conflicted, and parallel—based on information from the familyassist.gov website. Toni and Lauren share their personal experiences and discuss how these styles manifest in their own blended families. Focusing on parallel parenting, they highlight essential elements for your parenting plan or court orders to ensure effective parallel parenting.The hosts also address listener questions on topics such as the necessary shared information in parallel parenting, handling a non-cooperative coparent, transitioning from co-parenting to parallel parenting, and managing communication through court apps.Tune in for a comprehensive discussion on parallel parenting and practical tips to make it work, all aimed at keeping the peace and prioritizing the well-being of your children.Where you can find us & support us:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

In this episode, Toni and Lauren dive into the inspiring world of stepmum wins. We're revisiting this popular topic to share new stories and celebrate the successes of stepmums in our community.We kick off the episode by following up on our last episode with a listener response that touches on the complexities of summer holiday plans and co-parenting dynamics. Hear how one stepmum navigates the challenges of a high-conflict bio mum and strives to create memorable summer experiences for her stepdaughter.Then, we share a collection of incredible stepmum wins from our listeners. From small daily victories to significant milestones, these stories highlight the positive impact and love that stepmums bring to their blended families.Grab your coffee or wine, get comfortable, and join us for an episode filled with stepmum successes and heartfelt stories. You're not alone on this rollercoaster—we're all in it together.Support Us Here:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

Toni and Lauren dive into the seasonal breaks from school, exploring the unique challenges and rewards that come with having the kids home. With Toni in Australia just starting winter break and Lauren in the USA kicking off summer break, they discuss how custody schedules can change dramatically, sometimes even disappearing altogether during these long breaks.They share personal experiences on how their families are handling these changes, including adjustments to custody schedules and the financial implications that come with school breaks. Lauren brings up the often-overlooked topic of additional payments expected during school breaks and whether these costs are accounted for in child support.The episode also features listener questions, where Toni and Lauren address real-life scenarios sent in by their audience. From funky schedules and summer camp fees to co-parenting conflicts and unexpected changes in communication with the kids' other parents, they provide insights and advice on navigating these complex situations.Tune in for a candid discussion filled with practical tips and heartfelt advice. Whether you're sipping coffee or wine, join Toni and Lauren as they tackle the nitty-gritty of school breaks in blended families. Remember, if you're struggling with school breaks, you're not alone.Support our Podcast:Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni and Lauren dive into one of the most challenging aspects of blended family life: transition days. These days can be tough on everyone, especially the kids, but with the right approach, they can be much smoother and less stressful.Join Toni and Lauren as they share practical tips and tricks to help make transition days easier for your family. They also discuss the top four phrases to avoid saying to your child during these times to prevent emotional manipulation and ensure your child feels loved and supported.Plus, we have exciting news to share! Thanks to your amazing support, we've reached 10,000 downloads and are already on our way to 15,000! Don't forget to subscribe, like, and review our podcast to keep supporting our blended family community.Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations

In this heartfelt episode of Raising His Kids, Lauren and Toni provide crucial advice for new stepmothers. Tune in as they address common concerns like expressing love to stepchildren, adjusting to custody schedules, navigating court proceedings, and building relationships with children influenced by negative perceptions.You'll hear seasoned stepmoms share their wisdom, including tips on patience, setting boundaries, and managing expectations. This episode is packed with practical advice and supportive insights, making it a must-listen for both new and experienced stepmoms.Join the conversation and discover helpful strategies to navigate the unique challenges of step-parenting. Don't forget to check out our Patreon for unedited episodes and join our free Facebook group for ongoing support and community.Raising His Kids: https://raisinghiskids.my.canva.site/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaa_DJPPjVXUICfG2osbftxYJAw6dX0a0ajyQdis4317ndikWcx-CQrV3x4_aem_AWpIBMCZzQL60BCybo8GvLLLErIUmE8Pt1wvvylUXkFqmhiYC4eJUy0qFm4v-_ocZhTGMPyzHXkZv3fs3RWvvUbqFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/56nZsJ1M4e7NumVf/?mibextid=adzO7lFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/raisinghiskids?mibextid=LQQJ4dInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisinghiskids?igsh=eG9nOXNuZTR3MjdlThreads: https://www.threads.net/@raisinghiskidsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@raisinghiskids?_t=8mbr7JFEBAc&_r=1Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/RaisingHisKids?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/raising-his-kids/donations