The Executor Help Podcast

When families fight over an estate, most people assume the only path forward is court. But what does that process actually do to a family? In this episode, David speaks with Bruce Young, founder of Collective Agreement and a Certified Executor Advisor, about what really happens when estate disputes turn into legal battles. Together they explore: why estate conflicts become so emotional how litigation can take on "a life of its own" why families often stop speaking afterward and what collaborative law offers as an alternative to court David also shares personal reflections from his own seven-year family estate battle and the lasting impact it had on relationships. A thoughtful conversation about conflict, communication, and the hidden cost of fighting over an estate. For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

Many people know they should talk with their family about important things. They just don't know how to begin. In this short episode, David talks about why these conversations often feel harder than they need to be—and why most families are not avoiding the conversation as much as they are afraid of starting it the wrong way. He shares three simple ways to begin without making it heavy, formal, or overwhelming. A calm reminder that sometimes the hardest part is simply opening the door. For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

What does it really feel like to lose a mother?   In this episode, David speaks with Chelsea Ohlemiller, author of Now That She's Gone.   She shares her personal experience of losing her mother and what grief has actually been like for her.   This is not a conversation about fixing grief or moving on quickly. It's about what the experience really feels like—day to day, over time, and in ways people don't always talk about.   Chelsea puts words to emotions many people struggle to explain.   A calm and honest conversation for anyone who has lost a parent—or wants to better understand someone who has.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

Why do some things only become clear later?   In this episode, David shares a personal reflection about his mother.   He talks about the small things that stayed with him. The quiet moments. The way she showed up, and what he understands now that he didn't see at the time.   He also reflects on something he sees often in his work—how, after someone is gone, it's not the paperwork people remember.   It's the conversations they didn't have.   This is a simple and honest episode about memory, perspective, and what we carry with us over time.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

Why do families fight over things after someone dies?   In this episode, David speaks with Daniel Glazier, a personal property appraiser who has been in thousands of homes helping families deal with what's left behind.   They talk about a part of estate settlement many people don't expect.   It's not the paperwork.   It's the stuff.   Furniture. Keepsakes. Personal items that carry meaning.   Daniel shares why this becomes so difficult for families, how emotions often outweigh financial value, and what people can do ahead of time to make things easier.   A practical and eye-opening conversation about what really creates tension—and how to avoid it.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

What happens when everything starts falling on you?   In this episode, David talks about the moment many people quietly step into a role they didn't choose.   The one who handles things.   The one others rely on.   The one who keeps everything moving.   At first, it feels like helping. But over time, more and more responsibility starts to land on one person.   David reflects on what that feels like—and the part people don't always see.   A calm and honest conversation about responsibility, pressure, and why carrying everything alone isn't the only way.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

In this episode, David speaks with Valerie Oldfield, a death doula who helps families through serious illness, planning, and grief.   They talk about why these conversations feel so hard to start—and what happens when we avoid them.   Valerie shares simple ways to begin. Not in a heavy or overwhelming way, but through small, honest conversations.   She also explains how planning ahead can be one of the most caring things you do for your family.   A calm and practical conversation about fear, preparation, and making things easier for the people you love.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

Why do strong people feel alone?   In this episode, David talks about something many people don't say out loud. What it feels like to always be the one others rely on.   The one who listens. The one who handles things. The one who doesn't fall apart.   Over time, that strength can create distance. Not because people don't care—but because they assume you're fine.   David shares a calm reflection on what happens when strength becomes something you carry alone, and why connection still matters.   A simple reminder that being strong doesn't mean doing everything by yourself.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

What really matters at the end of life?   In this episode, David speaks with Robert Christopher Coppes, author of Impressions of Near-Death Experiences.   Robert has spent many years studying the stories of people who came very close to death and returned.   Many say the experience changed how they see life.   They often lose their fear of death. They feel a deep sense of love and connection with others.   Many also describe something called a life review, where they see how their actions affected other people.   David and Robert talk about what these stories might teach us about how we live today.   One message comes up again and again.   The small things matter.   A kind word.   A smile.   A moment of care.   Those moments can ripple much further than we realize.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

In this solo episode of the Executor Help Podcast, David reflects on a belief many people quietly carry — that living well is something you earn later, after life becomes more organized, less stressful, and more under control.   Drawing on decades of working with families, David talks about how the pressure to "get everything right" can slowly drain the joy out of ordinary moments.   Many people believe they should have life figured out by now, and when it still feels messy, they assume they're falling short.   This episode explores why living well doesn't require a perfect life. Instead, it comes from staying connected to what matters — even when life is unfinished, imperfect, and unpredictable.   For anyone who feels they're waiting for the right moment to finally enjoy life a little more, this conversation offers a thoughtful perspective.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

Most adults struggle to talk to children about death.   In this episode, David speaks with death doula Sandra Spicer about how stories and books can gently help children understand loss, ask questions, and feel less alone.   If there's a child in your life facing grief — or if you simply want to be better prepared — this conversation offers a calm place to begin.   Sometimes a story can say what we don't know how to say.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

There's a conversation most families know they need to have — about aging, health, responsibility, and what happens when life changes.   But we delay it. We tell ourselves there's still time.   In this episode, David shares what he's seen when families wait too long — not because they don't care, but because no one knew how to begin.   This isn't about fear.   It's about starting gently — before a crisis forces the conversation. If you've been thinking, "We should probably talk about this…"   This episode is for you.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

Have you ever wondered if your aging parent's behavior is more than just forgetfulness?   In this episode, David has a conversation with author Nicole Smith.   Listen in as she pulls back the curtain on the realities of dementia, sharing her personal experience with family chaos, screaming matches, and the conversation that could have changed everything.   If you're navigating elder care or worried about the future, you'll find honest insight and practical guidance here.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

Ever felt weirdly guilty for having a good time when life is heavy or things at home are stressful?   In this episode, David gets honest about why joy isn't something you should feel bad about or push off until things get easier.   He shares real stories and gentle reminders that laughter and happiness are what keep us going—even when we're juggling responsibilities or dealing with big life changes.   If you need permission to enjoy the good moments, you seriously don't want to miss this one.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

Grief can leave us frozen, overwhelmed by decisions we never wanted to make alone.   In this episode, David sits down with funeral pre-planner Deborah Pagliuca, who reveals the realities families face and offers compassionate, practical advice on how to ease their burden by planning ahead.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

Many people don't choose to become "the responsible one."   It just happens — slowly, quietly — until they're the one everyone depends on.   In this episode, David speaks to the invisible weight so many people carry in their families and their lives.   The organizing. The calming. The holding it all together.   The part no one sees — the tiredness, the quiet strain, the feeling of being strong for too long.   This is a gentle, reflective conversation about:   why we keep carrying more than we should how that weight shows up in our bodies and relationships and what changes when we finally name it   This episode isn't about fixing anything.   It's about noticing what you've been holding — and giving yourself permission to be human inside it.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

Who says your best years aren't still ahead of you?   On this episode, David and guest Jeff Singal who is a men's midlife compass (ikigai) coach. Jeff opens up about what finally helped him find joy, meaning again, even after a ton of setbacks.   There's real talk about friendships, tiny steps toward a fresh start, and even a new song to get you motivated.   If you want some inspiration (and a reminder you're not alone), this episode's for you.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

What truly matters when it comes to legacy?   In this season premiere, David shares honest reflections from years spent with families navigating loss and responsibility.   It's not about paperwork or money—it's about connection, laughter, and presence.   This episode is an invitation to rethink how you prepare for the future, emotionally as much as practically.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

What does legacy really mean as you grow older—and how do you make sure you're not just shuffling through life?   Join David and men's life coach Orest Komarnyckyj for an honest, open dialogue about finding purpose after 50, handling medical setbacks, and the mental and physical shifts men rarely talk about.   Perfect for both men and women, this episode offers a window into life's second act, with candid advice for making every day count.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

Have you ever wondered how creativity can help you move through grief?   This episode explores the powerful connection between art and healing.   Join David as he has a conversation with Noemi Beres, a self-taught artist who turned to mixed media collages to process deep personal loss, shares her journey—and discover how you, too, can find comfort and self-expression in even the toughest times.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

What Would Happen If You Couldn't Speak for Yourself? Have you ever wondered who would look after your life's details if you couldn't?   In this episode David has a conversation Jody Maffett, who was thrust into that exact situation when her father suffered a traumatic brain injury.   Hear how she turned a family crisis into a heartfelt – and surprisingly funny – journal that's helping families be better prepared for the unexpected.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

Let's be real—the holidays aren't always merry and bright, especially when you're dealing with loss.   If the idea of festive parties and traditions feels more overwhelming than exciting, this episode with Carol Banens author of Grieving Through the Holidays is for you.   She's sharing honest stories, practical tips, and simple ways to handle holiday grief without all the fake cheer.   Give it a listen—you're not alone.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

Are you feeling overwhelmed with aging parents, caregiving, and legacy planning?   You're not alone.   In this episode, David sits down with Laura Tamblyn Watts, one of Canada's leading experts on aging and author of Let's Talk About Aging Parents, for a real, heartfelt conversation packed with practical advice and surprising truths.   If you want to feel more prepared—and less alone—this is an episode you can't miss.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

Are you listed as an executor in someone's will—or think you might be someday?   Discover the one tiny detail that can save you weeks of stress, expensive headaches, and family arguments.   In this episode, David shares real listener stories and breaks down the practical tips you need to avoid common estate pitfalls.   Don't let small oversights cause big problems—tune in to get clear, real-world advice that every executor should know.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

What if estate planning didn't have to feel cold and clinical?   On this episode, discover how Adria Ferrier, founder of Elayne, turned heartbreak into a mission—and built an innovative platform that transforms legacy and loss into something deeply human.   If you want to rethink how families navigate one of life's toughest moments, this conversation will change your perspective.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com  

Have you ever struggled to talk about death or support someone grieving?   This episode is for you.   Join David and death doula Marlene Morrow as she shares her journey, the moving work she does, and essential wisdom about advanced care planning, supporting children, and how we can all bring more comfort during life's hardest transitions.   Listen in—this conversation could change the way you think about death, dying, and living fully.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

Did you know your funeral could become your greatest act for the environment?   Join David as he has a conversation about the world of green burial with Sasha Honsl from Green Burial Ottawa Valley.   Learn what makes green burials different, why they matter, and how they just might be the ultimate gift back to Mother Nature.   If you care about your legacy—and the planet—don't miss this episode.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

What if talking openly about death could actually help you live a fuller life?   Join David for a conversation with hospice social worker Lisa Pahl, co-creator of the Death Deck.   Discover how humor, honesty, and heartfelt stories can break the stigma around end-of-life discussions—and why these conversations might be the key to deeper connections with your loved ones.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

Have you ever wondered how people find their way forward after losing someone they can't live without?   In this episode, David is joined by Carol Banens—grief coach and author—who opens up about losing her husband, the unexpected realities of grief, and the gentle steps she took to rediscover joy.   Tune in for real talk about grief that goes beyond clichés, and practical tips to help you or a loved one find light again.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

What happens when grief follows you to work?   In this episode, David sits down with Janet Gwilliam-Wright and Mekel Harris of Bloomwell—two compassionate experts helping employers and employees navigate the storm of loss.   If you've ever wondered how workplaces can become truly supportive environments in the toughest times, you'll want to tune in.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

If you think legacy is only about wills and wealth, think again.   Join David as he has a conversation with legacy coach Kelly Campbell.   Kelly reveals how personal tragedy, family challenges, and hard-won wisdom led her to redefine what legacy means—both for herself and those she helps.   You don't want to miss this moving and practical conversation.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

On this episode David is joined by Katelyn Magnuson—financial expert and host of the Wealth Witches Podcast—for an honest conversation about the importance of estate planning and what really happens when families avoid those difficult conversations about death and money.   Katelyn opens up about her own family's approach: how watching her parents take proactive steps to organize their estate brought her peace of mind, while her in-laws' reluctance to plan for the future causes ongoing stress.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

In this “Best of” edition The Executor Help Podcast , we're diving headfirst into those tricky, emotional waters: sibling rivalry, family feuds, and inheritance showdowns.   David has conversations with estate planning expert Jeffrey Condon and veteran mediator Charles Ticker—two guys who have seen more family drama over cottages and cold hard cash than a season of reality TV.   Get ready to hear jaw-dropping real-life stories, unpack some expert advice with a dash of humor, and maybe, just maybe, pick up a tip to keep your own family from turning what should be an inheritance into a courtroom cage match.   Spoiler alert: it's not all about the money… but sometimes it really is.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

This is a best of Executor Help Podcast Episode and here's why it is worth another listen.   David revisits his conversation with Dr. Riley Moynes, author, speaker, and creator of the groundbreaking "The 4 Phases of Retirement."   If you missed it the first time around—or even if you've already listened—this episode is absolutely worth another spin.   Why hit replay?   Riley goes deep into the often-overlooked psychological journey of retirement, moving far beyond the financial aspects most people focus on.   He explores what really happens when the vacation phase fades, shares eye-opening statistics about mid-life transitions (did you know divorce rates for retirees have skyrocketed?), and offers practical strategies to find renewed purpose and meaning in life after work.   His four-phase model has resonated with millions, and his advice on service, legacy letters, and introspection is the kind of wisdom you'll want to share with friends and family.   Whether you're approaching retirement, supporting a loved one on this path, or advising others in this stage of life, Riley's compassionate, actionable advice is invaluable.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

Imagine having a superpower that makes you the coolest person in your grandchild's life.   That's what being a grandparent's all about, in this Best of Executor Help Podcast David has a conversation with Shirley Hershey Showalter co-authored of the book, The Mindful Grandparent, The Art of Loving Our Children's Children.   Tune in to learn more about the profound impact grandparents can have and discover practical advice for nurturing these invaluable relationships.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

In this Best of Episode of The Executor Help Podcast, David explores the thought-provoking book "Die With Zero" by Bill Perkins.   David discusses how the book challenges traditional views on saving and legacy, urging listeners to focus on living fully and using wealth to create meaningful experiences, nurture relationships, and make a positive impact during their lifetime.   Reflecting on a personal story, David encourages listeners to consider how their financial decisions align with their values and long-term goals.   Tune in for insights on balancing financial security with fulfillment, and learn why rethinking your estate planning might lead to a richer life   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

Most people avoid talking about death—but what if facing it head-on is the greatest gift you can give your family?   In this episode, David chats with Julie Saeger Nierenberg about her book "Journey's End," the power of end-of-life planning, and the importance of having the hard conversations now.   If you want to learn what it takes to create a sense of comfort and support at life's most difficult moment, don't miss this discussion—full of wisdom, honesty, and practical ideas.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

In this episode, David is joined once again by Emily Bouchard—social worker, blended family expert, and author of "The Beginner's Guide to Purposeful Prenups"   After discussing the complexities of blended family estate planning in their last conversation, David and Emily have a conversation on another tricky topic: prenuptial agreements.   Emily breaks down the true purpose of prenups, moving beyond the typical perception that they're all about money or distrust.   They explore how starting honest, sometimes uncomfortable conversations about values, money, and future plans can not only strengthen relationships but also make estate planning easier down the road.   If you've ever wondered how to approach this delicate subject with a partner, what role families should play in the process, or how to make sure everyone's interests are protected, you'll want to tune in.    For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

In this episode David Edey has a conversation with Emily Bouchard, an expert on family dynamics in estate planning. She is co-author of Estate Planning for the Blended Family.   They discuss the complexities of estate planning for blended families—covering everything from updating beneficiaries to navigating difficult family conversations and making sure all loved ones are considered and protected.   Emily shares real-life examples, common pitfalls, and actionable advice on managing everything from power of attorney and medical decisions to fostering open, honest communication within blended families.   Whether you're in a stepfamily, planning for remarriage, or facing estate challenges, this episode is packed with wisdom and practical tips for a more peaceful family future.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

If tomorrow was your last day, what would matter most?   Join David and guest Peter Christman on This Best Of: Executor Help Podcast for a heartfelt episode exploring business exits, personal epiphanies, and the importance of living—and leaving—a life of value.   Peter opens up about his own mortality, the power of honest conversations, and the poem that shaped his outlook forever.   This is one conversation you—and your legacy—can't afford to miss.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

Grief isn't just about death—it's woven into the fabric of everyday life, and we often wear masks to hide it.   On this episode, join David and grief expert Edy Nathan author of It's Grief for an open, compassionate conversation about navigating loss, honoring your feelings, and finding small ways to move forward.   Edy brings empathy and hope to a subject we often avoid.   You'll hear personal stories, practical advice, and why sharing your feelings—even just with yourself—matters more than you think.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

If you've ever wondered how to navigate the darkest moments of life, this episode is for you.   Join David as he has a conversation with Rachel Schneider author of The Widow Chose Red.   Rach recounts her experience of losing her husband to ALS, raising young sons as a single mother, and discovering ways to celebrate life amid heartache.   It's a conversation full of honesty, hope, and practical advice for anyone supporting a loved one through illness or loss.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

Have you ever wondered why some families lose their wealth—and their connections—after just a generation or two?   On this episode, David has a conversation with wealth psychology coach Shayla T Locklear , as she peels back the curtains on what really keeps a legacy alive.   It's not just about smart investments or ironclad wills; it's about trust, purpose, and the messy, very real emotions that tie families together or tear them apart.   Whether you have a little or a lot, this episode will get you thinking about what you want to leave behind.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

When life pushes you to the edge—career changes, family illness, overwhelming responsibility—how do you find your way back to what makes you happy?    David has a conversation with Minnelle Williams from Ending Well with Minnelle.   Hear how a journey from funeral homes to international travel led her to help others write their legacy stories and live with purpose.   You'll laugh, reflect, and maybe even rethink how you prepare for the future.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

Ever thought settling an estate was just paperwork? Think again. In this episode, David has a conversation with author Gina Brown reveals the tangled web of grief, family drama, and even pet dilemmas that unfolds when a loved one passes away.   Drawing from her own experience—and a hundred stories she gathered from friends.   You will laugh, cry, and think twice about what really happens when the will is finally read.   Tune in and get a behind-the-scenes look at the inspiration behind The Sugar Bowl Feud!   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

In this episode David has a conversation with Julie Sager Nierenberg, the author of "Daddy, This Is It."   In her heartfelt book, Julie opens up about her emotional journey of being with her father during his final days.   It's a touching and genuine portrayal of saying goodbye to someone you love.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

In this episode David has a conversation with Estrella Quiroz, the cofounder of Last Farewells—a platform that helps people leave lasting, meaningful messages for loved ones after they're gone.   Estrella shares the deeply personal story that inspired this venture and talks about finding joy and purpose in the face of life's toughest moments.   So Tune in to have your perspective on life, death, and legacy turned inside out   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

In this episode David  has a conversation about the complexities of family, money, and legacy with Ruschelle Khanna author of Inherited Trauma and Family Wealth.   They discuss the impact of inherited trauma on how families handle wealth and the importance of having open conversations about money.   Learn how early experiences shape our money habits and the challenges posed by sudden wealth.   Whether you're navigating difficult family dynamics or planning for future generations,   Get advice on fostering healthier financial relationships and creating a lasting legacy.   Tune in to transform your approach to family wealth!   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

In this episode David's guest is Robin Nathaniel, a TEDx speaker and social media leader.   Robin shares his personal journey through family trauma and loss, emphasizing the importance of leaving conversations on a positive note, whether with close loved ones or strangers.   Listen in as Robin highlights the dangers of pride and the need for reconciliation, urging listeners to overcome barriers to rebuild connections.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

In this episode David has a conversation with Dr. John Horton, co-author of "Good to Go."   Dr. Horton shares compelling stories from his 50 years of medical practice.   They discuss the five key understandings that can guide us to a dignified departure.   How nurturing our relationships and finding inner peace can transform our final moments into something as beautiful as our first.   Tune in to discover how to approach life's last chapter with wisdom and tranquility.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

In this episode David learns about the essence of legacy, business planning, and leadership.   His guest is Steve Ramona, a passionate entrepreneur who learned from his father the profound impact of serving others.   They explore the significance of having a solid plan for business growth, the importance of mentorship, and fostering a team-centered culture.   Discover why treating your employees well can significantly impact your legacy and learn how to communicate effectively to ensure your company thrives after your departure.   Tune in for insights that can redefine your approach to business and life.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com