Podcast appearances and mentions of evan marc katz

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3026: Evan Marc Katz explores why people stay in relationships they already know aren't right, unpacking the fears and emotional habits that keep them stuck. His insights on loneliness, sunk costs, convenience, and self-worth offer a powerful reminder that settling for dissatisfaction often comes from fear of change rather than genuine love. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/understanding-men/why-would-a-man-date-me-if-he-doesnt-think-i-am-the-one Quotes to ponder: “What would you do if you knew you could not fail?” “Anyone who is staying in a dead-end relationship is utterly afraid of failure. What they don't recognize is that being in a bad relationship IS failure.” “Relationships should not be hard. They should be the source of unconditional love, support, laughter, and ease.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2996: Evan Marc Katz cuts through the noise of conflicting dating advice by exposing how much of it is tailored to insecure, inexperienced audiences rather than emotionally mature adults. He argues that genuine, lasting relationships aren't built on manipulation or “power plays,” but on authenticity, confidence, and mutual interest, qualities that naturally filter out the wrong partners. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/understanding-men/how-do-i-make-sense-of-all-the-different-dating-advice-out-there Quotes to ponder: "Just as real men don't play games, use power plays, or try to get the woman to chase them." "At the end of the day, whether it's a man playing games or a woman playing games, one thing is for sure: everybody ends up losing." "I don't view the world based on how I'd LIKE it to be; I pay attention to how it IS and advise on how you can best react to reality." Episode references: Alexa (website analytics): https://www.alexa.com AskMen: https://www.askmen.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Zach sits down with Evan Marc Katz, a dating coach for smart, successful women, and his wife Bridget. The premise alone creates an interesting tension: what does it look like when the guy who coaches women on how to find a partner actually goes home to one? The answer, it turns out, is less glamorous and more grounded than anyone might expect.What surfaces quickly is that Evan and Bridget do not have a fairytale origin story. They were on the same dating site at the same time and never matched. They met at a party, talked for six hours, and built something slowly. Evan, who dated more than 300 people online over a decade, had never stayed in a relationship longer than eight months before Bridget. She, a serial monogamist by nature, had come from a completely different kind of romantic history. The episode moves through how two genuinely different people with different worldviews, different sleep schedules, different appetites for depth, decided to stop scanning for flaws and start building something that actually works. Along the way, Evan makes a sharp case that the qualities dating culture rewards, height, income, shared hobbies, politics, are almost entirely irrelevant to long-term happiness.Bridget holds her own throughout, and some of the episode's best moments come from her plainspoken honesty: she does not love deep conversations on demand, she sleeps until 11 on weekends without apology, and she has no interest in discussing politics with anyone. Far from being a liability, Zach and Evan both recognize this as a kind of relationship wisdom. Bridget is the high-EQ anchor of the marriage, the one who sees everyone's point of view without judgment and never keeps score. Her sign-off captures the whole thing: never keep track, but always be ahead in giving.Key TakeawaysThe traits that attract you to someone (chemistry, common interests, credentials) are almost entirely unrelated to the traits that keep a marriage togetherWhat gets you into a relationship and what sustains it are two distinctly different skill setsChoosing a partner who is good enough without requiring them to change is not lowering the bar, it is setting the right oneThe couple is a unit; when you stop tending the relationship itself, the garden dies even if nothing dramatic happensOne person cannot be everything; healthy relationships require each partner to have a life outside the marriage tooAssuming positive intent when your partner does something frustrating is one of the most practical things you can do dailyCommon interests are probably the least important compatibility factor, and most people treat them like the most importantThe Five C's are what every failed relationship actually failed on: character, kindness, consistency, communication, and commitmentGuest InfoEvan Marc Katz Dating coach for smart, successful women, primarily working with clients in their late 30s through early 70s who are navigating first-time or second-time partnerships. Evan spent over a decade dating online himself before meeting Bridget, which informs a very personal and data-driven approach to his work. He is also the host of his own podcast.https://www.evanmarckatz.com/Bridget Katz Evan's wife of 17 years, together for approximately 19. Bridget brings a grounded, high-EQ perspective to the conversation as someone who has lived alongside a relationship expert without becoming one herself. Her candor and warmth are notable throughout.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2975: Evan Marc Katz unpacks the common frustration that women are expected to change in relationships while men seem to escape scrutiny, revealing that advice is shaped by who actually seeks it. By reframing dating as a matter of personal standards and choices, accept or leave, he challenges listeners to focus on what they can control to build healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/why-do-women-have-to-change-why-do-men-get-a-free-pass Quotes to ponder: "Dating advice is for the person who asks the question. It is not for the man who is the cause of the “problem”." "You can't change men, you can only change how you react to them." "If you're going to be a girlfriend, you need to accept ALL of your boyfriend, warts and all, just as you'd like him to accept you." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2945: Evan Marc Katz challenges the common belief that attracting the right partner is about becoming more impressive. Instead, he explains that lasting relationships come from choosing someone whose energy complements yours, not someone who mirrors your achievements or personality. By shifting your focus from changing yourself to changing your "picker," you can create relationships that feel natural, balanced, and far easier to sustain. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/understanding-men/how-can-you-attract-and-keep-the-right-guy Quotes to ponder: "My mantra to women is to look for a complement, not a clone." "Your biggest problem is not who you are inside. It's your picker." "When you choose someone with complementary energy, the puzzle pieces just fit and the whole thing becomes easy."

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2945: Evan Marc Katz challenges the common belief that attracting the right partner is about becoming more impressive. Instead, he explains that lasting relationships come from choosing someone whose energy complements yours, not someone who mirrors your achievements or personality. By shifting your focus from changing yourself to changing your “picker,” you can create relationships that feel natural, balanced, and far easier to sustain. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/understanding-men/how-can-you-attract-and-keep-the-right-guy Quotes to ponder: "My mantra to women is to look for a complement, not a clone." "Your biggest problem is not who you are inside. It's your picker." "When you choose someone with complementary energy, the puzzle pieces just fit and the whole thing becomes easy." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2895: Evan Marc Katz offers a powerful mindset shift for women frustrated with unclear relationships: stop overanalyzing and let men reveal their intentions through their actions. By doing nothing and observing effort, women can avoid emotional burnout, spot dead-end situations early, and regain control over their dating lives. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/the-most-important-dating-advice-you-will-ever-hear-dont-do-anything Quotes to ponder: "Men reveal themselves in their efforts. Nothing else they do matters." "You don't have to DO anything. Just see what he does, and say yes." "Let him do what he wants. If you like it, stay. If you don't like it, go."

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2895: Evan Marc Katz offers a powerful mindset shift for women frustrated with unclear relationships: stop overanalyzing and let men reveal their intentions through their actions. By doing nothing and observing effort, women can avoid emotional burnout, spot dead-end situations early, and regain control over their dating lives. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/the-most-important-dating-advice-you-will-ever-hear-dont-do-anything Quotes to ponder: "Men reveal themselves in their efforts. Nothing else they do matters." "You don't have to DO anything. Just see what he does, and say yes." "Let him do what he wants. If you like it, stay. If you don't like it, go." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Let's take a deep dive in this week's episode of Deep Diving into Dating and discuss how how dating trends are changing in 2026 and the growing impact of AI on the dating world. Join Matchmaker Jennifer & Founder Sarah Kathryn in the newest podcast hosted by One on One Matchmaking & Eight at Eight Dinner Club.We're also happy to announce our partnership with Evan Marc Katz, a renowned dating coach for smart, strong, and successful women. You can learn more by clicking here.Our goal with Deep Diving into Dating is to share snackable stories about dating and tips on how to be a better dater!Xoxo, your matchmakers!Instagram: @atlantamatchmakerssinglesLinkTree: linktr.ee/1on1matchmakingGive us 5 stars on the Apple Podcast app - because we are amazing and you love us! We know you do! 

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2867: Evan Marc Katz explores the emotional aftermath of dating disappointments through the story of Paul, a good man hardened by repeated heartbreak. Katz challenges women to reflect on their own dating patterns, suggesting that true relationship success lies in both choosing better partners and embodying the generosity they wish to receive. The takeaway is clear: give wisely, love openly, and walk away from those who can't reciprocate. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/understanding-men/you-have-two-choices-choose-better-men-or-treat-men-better Quotes to ponder: "You can literally change the way he acts towards you just by being happier, more playful, more generous and less judgmental towards him." "It's not HIS fault he's taking advantage of you. It's YOUR fault for choosing him and staying with him, the same as it's Paul's fault for perpetually choosing selfish women over givers." "Have you been the 'giver' in relationships and concluded that you're never going to be that way again?" Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2867: Evan Marc Katz explores the emotional aftermath of dating disappointments through the story of Paul, a good man hardened by repeated heartbreak. Katz challenges women to reflect on their own dating patterns, suggesting that true relationship success lies in both choosing better partners and embodying the generosity they wish to receive. The takeaway is clear: give wisely, love openly, and walk away from those who can't reciprocate. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/understanding-men/you-have-two-choices-choose-better-men-or-treat-men-better Quotes to ponder: "You can literally change the way he acts towards you just by being happier, more playful, more generous and less judgmental towards him." "It's not HIS fault he's taking advantage of you. It's YOUR fault for choosing him and staying with him, the same as it's Paul's fault for perpetually choosing selfish women over givers." "Have you been the 'giver' in relationships and concluded that you're never going to be that way again?"  

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2844: Evan Marc Katz shares the powerful story of how his sister found lasting love by challenging her assumptions about men, dating, and online platforms. He contrasts this with another woman stuck in a cycle of frustration, showing that a shift in mindset, not circumstances, often determines success in love. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/why-you-should-ignore-your-previous-experience-with-men Quotes to ponder: "Online dating is creepy." "The only reason she is happily married and househunting today is because she was open to the possibility that her beliefs weren't 100% foolproof."

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2844: Evan Marc Katz shares the powerful story of how his sister found lasting love by challenging her assumptions about men, dating, and online platforms. He contrasts this with another woman stuck in a cycle of frustration, showing that a shift in mindset, not circumstances, often determines success in love. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/why-you-should-ignore-your-previous-experience-with-men Quotes to ponder: "Online dating is creepy." “The only reason she is happily married and househunting today is because she was open to the possibility that her beliefs weren't 100% foolproof.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2826: Evan Marc Katz challenges the romanticized idea that shared hobbies are essential for successful relationships, arguing instead that intense passions often take time and energy away from building intimacy. He emphasizes the importance of compatibility in values and lifestyle over common interests, encouraging listeners to prioritize emotional availability over adrenaline-fueled activities. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/why-people-with-serious-passions-and-hobbies-make-the-worst-partners Quotes to ponder: "Every second you spend apart is a second you could be spending together." "Most of us don't want to come in second to a video game or a cat. Nor should we." "Like life, no relationship is perfect." Episode references: The Plight of the Training Widow (Wall Street Journal): https://www.wsj.com/articles/BL-JB-14152 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2826: Evan Marc Katz challenges the romanticized idea that shared hobbies are essential for successful relationships, arguing instead that intense passions often take time and energy away from building intimacy. He emphasizes the importance of compatibility in values and lifestyle over common interests, encouraging listeners to prioritize emotional availability over adrenaline-fueled activities. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/why-people-with-serious-passions-and-hobbies-make-the-worst-partners Quotes to ponder: "Every second you spend apart is a second you could be spending together." "Most of us don't want to come in second to a video game or a cat. Nor should we." "Like life, no relationship is perfect." Episode references: The Plight of the Training Widow (Wall Street Journal): https://www.wsj.com/articles/BL-JB-14152

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2810: Evan Marc Katz explores the delicate balance between staying open to love and protecting oneself emotionally, validating the emotional risks of vulnerability while offering logical strategies to maintain clarity in relationships. By recognizing early misalignments in values and goals, women can experience deep connection without sacrificing self-respect or long-term happiness. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/how-do-i-remain-open-to-love-and-also-protect-myself-emotionally Quotes to ponder: "It is still 'better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all,' isn't it?" "Even if your theory that 'love is blind' is true, it doesn't mean that it should be impossible to objectively evaluate the quality and compatibility of your relationship." "If he NEVER talks about marriage, kids, family, future, houses, etc…, the writing is largely on the wall. And it's not his fault if you never choose to read it." Episode references: Predictably Irrational: https://www.amazon.com/Predictably-Irrational-Revised-Expanded-Decisions/dp/0061353248

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2810: Evan Marc Katz explores the delicate balance between staying open to love and protecting oneself emotionally, validating the emotional risks of vulnerability while offering logical strategies to maintain clarity in relationships. By recognizing early misalignments in values and goals, women can experience deep connection without sacrificing self-respect or long-term happiness. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/how-do-i-remain-open-to-love-and-also-protect-myself-emotionally Quotes to ponder: "It is still 'better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all,' isn't it?" "Even if your theory that 'love is blind' is true, it doesn't mean that it should be impossible to objectively evaluate the quality and compatibility of your relationship." "If he NEVER talks about marriage, kids, family, future, houses, etc…, the writing is largely on the wall. And it's not his fault if you never choose to read it." Episode references: Predictably Irrational: https://www.amazon.com/Predictably-Irrational-Revised-Expanded-Decisions/dp/0061353248 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2794: Evan Marc Katz explores the blurred lines between casual dating and exclusivity, highlighting how unspoken expectations often sabotage budding relationships. His personal story and candid advice underscore the importance of clearly defined commitments, reminding us that monogamy isn't assumed, it's explicitly agreed upon. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/communication/what-is-the-definition-of-monogamy Quotes to ponder: "Once you're monogamous, you stop seeing other people." "There's no reason a guy can't like/be attracted to/sleep with two women simultaneously. It's up to you whether that's okay with you or not." "Communication, intimacy, commitment, these things look different to everybody."

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2794: Evan Marc Katz explores the blurred lines between casual dating and exclusivity, highlighting how unspoken expectations often sabotage budding relationships. His personal story and candid advice underscore the importance of clearly defined commitments, reminding us that monogamy isn't assumed, it's explicitly agreed upon. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/communication/what-is-the-definition-of-monogamy Quotes to ponder: "Once you're monogamous, you stop seeing other people." "There's no reason a guy can't like/be attracted to/sleep with two women simultaneously. It's up to you whether that's okay with you or not." "Communication, intimacy, commitment, these things look different to everybody." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2772: Evan Marc Katz breaks down why the traits we admire in emotionally available, confident, and independent men are the exact same traits men find attractive in women. Through the story of Jennifer, he shows how dating setbacks shouldn't shake your confidence, but instead reinforce the value of staying grounded, self-assured, and emotionally open, because that's what truly draws in a quality partner. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/whats-attractive-in-men-is-whats-attractive-to-men Quotes to ponder: "If you're committed to being emotionally intelligent about relationships, you know that the next guy has nothing to do with the last guy." "By continuing to live your life, you become more attractive, and a little less accessible, which means a man has to work a bit harder to win you over." "Your strongest move after such an incident is to be like the attractive man: independent, emotionally, intelligent, and confident." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2772: Evan Marc Katz breaks down why the traits we admire in emotionally available, confident, and independent men are the exact same traits men find attractive in women. Through the story of Jennifer, he shows how dating setbacks shouldn't shake your confidence, but instead reinforce the value of staying grounded, self-assured, and emotionally open, because that's what truly draws in a quality partner. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/whats-attractive-in-men-is-whats-attractive-to-men Quotes to ponder: "If you're committed to being emotionally intelligent about relationships, you know that the next guy has nothing to do with the last guy." "By continuing to live your life, you become more attractive, and a little less accessible, which means a man has to work a bit harder to win you over." "Your strongest move after such an incident is to be like the attractive man: independent, emotionally, intelligent, and confident." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2754: Evan Marc Katz explores the confusing dynamic of a man who acts like a devoted partner yet resists the label of “boyfriend.” He highlights both the red flags of someone unwilling to meet a partner's needs and the positive signs of genuine care, ultimately encouraging honest communication to uncover whether the relationship has a strong future or an inevitable ceiling. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/he-acts-like-a-boyfriend-but-he-doesnt-like-the-title Quotes to ponder: “If he's acting like a boyfriend, what's the harm of calling you his girlfriend?” “One of my dating credos is ‘believe the negative, ignore the positive.'” “You might be waiting your whole life to hear some words that shouldn't cost all that much to say.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2754: Evan Marc Katz explores the confusing dynamic of a man who acts like a devoted partner yet resists the label of “boyfriend.” He highlights both the red flags of someone unwilling to meet a partner's needs and the positive signs of genuine care, ultimately encouraging honest communication to uncover whether the relationship has a strong future or an inevitable ceiling. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/he-acts-like-a-boyfriend-but-he-doesnt-like-the-title Quotes to ponder: “If he's acting like a boyfriend, what's the harm of calling you his girlfriend?” “One of my dating credos is ‘believe the negative, ignore the positive.'” “You might be waiting your whole life to hear some words that shouldn't cost all that much to say.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2737: Evan Marc Katz highlights how difficult it can be to navigate relationships with partners who are unclear about their desires, especially regarding commitment and family. He emphasizes the importance of character, consistency, and responsibility as early markers of a trustworthy partner, offering women practical insights to avoid wasting years on the wrong person. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/how-can-i-identify-and-avoid-men-who-dont-know-what-they-want Quotes to ponder: “Cheating is never an acceptable response to a failing relationship.” “A man of character does what he says and says what he means.” “If conversations make him uncomfortable and he can't discuss important topics without getting overheated or shutting down, he may be a good guy, but he'll be a terrible husband.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2737: Evan Marc Katz highlights how difficult it can be to navigate relationships with partners who are unclear about their desires, especially regarding commitment and family. He emphasizes the importance of character, consistency, and responsibility as early markers of a trustworthy partner, offering women practical insights to avoid wasting years on the wrong person. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/how-can-i-identify-and-avoid-men-who-dont-know-what-they-want Quotes to ponder: “Cheating is never an acceptable response to a failing relationship.” “A man of character does what he says and says what he means.” “If conversations make him uncomfortable and he can't discuss important topics without getting overheated or shutting down, he may be a good guy, but he'll be a terrible husband.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today's wonderful treat is an appearance from renowned dating guru Evan Marc Katz, became the world's first dating coach in 2003, specializing in helping smart, successful women create lasting love. He is the author of four books, his Love U Podcast has over 3 million downloads and he has been featured in hundreds of media outlets, including Today, the New York Times, and the Wall St. Journal.Now happily married for 16 years, Evan believes you can find love, no matter where you live, how old you are, or how challenging your previous relationships - and he has the results to prove it. Over 13,000 women have graduated from Love U, Evan's coaching program and community for women. By providing hands-on support, structure and accountability, Evan teaches women to become the CEO of their love lives and attract high-value, commitment-oriented partners. Check out his podcast here: https://open.spotify.com/show/5xQYx9kwPQK6PA7HwlTcDj?si=2517897f7ab84ce3Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent: "Why Does Giving A Gift To Your Avoidant Partner Go So Poorly?"For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/drpsychmom⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/For therapy or coaching, contact us at https://www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com/

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2719: Evan Marc Katz shares a revealing coaching experience with a man who blames women for his dating struggles, highlighting the deeper truth that real change begins within. His story serves as a mirror, urging us to question where in our own lives we might be playing the victim instead of taking ownership and adapting for better results. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/why-certain-men-will-never-do-well-with-women-and-what-you-can-learn-from-them Quotes to ponder: “I hate to tell you, my friend, but the problem isn't with all the women in Seattle. The ONLY thing we can do is change how YOU'RE approaching dating.” “What I'm telling you, James, is that you're the common denominator in your life.” “Your job isn't to CHANGE men. It's to become the kind of woman who UNDERSTANDS men, ATTRACTS men, KEEPS men happy, and CHOOSES good men.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2719: Evan Marc Katz shares a revealing coaching experience with a man who blames women for his dating struggles, highlighting the deeper truth that real change begins within. His story serves as a mirror, urging us to question where in our own lives we might be playing the victim instead of taking ownership and adapting for better results. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/why-certain-men-will-never-do-well-with-women-and-what-you-can-learn-from-them Quotes to ponder: “I hate to tell you, my friend, but the problem isn't with all the women in Seattle. The ONLY thing we can do is change how YOU'RE approaching dating.” “What I'm telling you, James, is that you're the common denominator in your life.” “Your job isn't to CHANGE men. It's to become the kind of woman who UNDERSTANDS men, ATTRACTS men, KEEPS men happy, and CHOOSES good men.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2703: Evan Marc Katz challenges the belief that controlling every detail leads to romantic success, showing that the healthiest relationships grow naturally without overanalyzing or forcing outcomes. By focusing on receptivity instead of control, you create space for genuine connection and allow the right partner to reveal his intentions through consistent actions. This shift from fear-based micromanagement to trust and presence can transform your dating experience. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/want-to-take-control-of-your-love-life-let-go-of-control Quotes to ponder: “In trying to grip the sand too tightly, you're letting it slip through your fingers.” “It might sound crazy, but passivity is the most EMPOWERING stance you can take.” “Trust that the right guy treats you like you deserve to be treated.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2703: Evan Marc Katz challenges the belief that controlling every detail leads to romantic success, showing that the healthiest relationships grow naturally without overanalyzing or forcing outcomes. By focusing on receptivity instead of control, you create space for genuine connection and allow the right partner to reveal his intentions through consistent actions. This shift from fear-based micromanagement to trust and presence can transform your dating experience. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/want-to-take-control-of-your-love-life-let-go-of-control Quotes to ponder: “In trying to grip the sand too tightly, you're letting it slip through your fingers.” “It might sound crazy, but passivity is the most EMPOWERING stance you can take.” “Trust that the right guy treats you like you deserve to be treated.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2681: Evan Marc Katz reflects on how his marriage transformed both his personal and professional life, revealing the depth of real love built on trust, stability, and shared purpose. He explores how the comfort of consistency, not the thrill of mystery, defines lasting romance, and why surrendering to that rhythm can be the most powerful and romantic act of all. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/marriage/what-it-looks-like-when-youre-happily-married Quotes to ponder: "Real love is based on transparency and comfort, not mystery." "You savor the repetitive, deliciously mundane rhythms of survival, and you want to keep surviving." "With my wife, I am bulletproof. Without her, I don't even know who I am anymore." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2681: Evan Marc Katz reflects on how his marriage transformed both his personal and professional life, revealing the depth of real love built on trust, stability, and shared purpose. He explores how the comfort of consistency, not the thrill of mystery, defines lasting romance, and why surrendering to that rhythm can be the most powerful and romantic act of all. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/marriage/what-it-looks-like-when-youre-happily-married Quotes to ponder: "Real love is based on transparency and comfort, not mystery." "You savor the repetitive, deliciously mundane rhythms of survival, and you want to keep surviving." "With my wife, I am bulletproof. Without her, I don't even know who I am anymore." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The original dating coach, Evan Marc Katz returns to share insights on the hot topics. Money, Sex, Communication, and how to navigate today's dating related puzzles.

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2663: Evan Marc Katz explores the emotional and practical dilemma faced by women dating men who openly reject the idea of marriage. Drawing from personal coaching experiences, he challenges the notion of waiting for someone to change and empowers women to take control of their long-term relationship goals before more time is lost. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/marriage/how-long-should-you-stay-with-a-boyfriend-who-does-not-believe-in-marriage Quotes to ponder: "If marriage is important to you, then being with a man who doesn't believe in it is a non-starter." "You're allowed to want what you want. You're just not allowed to expect someone else to provide it if they don't want the same thing." "You can't spend your life hoping that someone else changes; you can only control your own actions." Episode references: Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller: https://www.amazon.com/Attached-Science-Adult-Attachment-YouFind/dp/1585429139 The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman: https://www.amazon.com/Five-Love-Languages-Secret-Lasts/dp/080241270X Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2663: Evan Marc Katz explores the emotional and practical dilemma faced by women dating men who openly reject the idea of marriage. Drawing from personal coaching experiences, he challenges the notion of waiting for someone to change and empowers women to take control of their long-term relationship goals before more time is lost. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/marriage/how-long-should-you-stay-with-a-boyfriend-who-does-not-believe-in-marriage Quotes to ponder: "If marriage is important to you, then being with a man who doesn't believe in it is a non-starter." "You're allowed to want what you want. You're just not allowed to expect someone else to provide it if they don't want the same thing." "You can't spend your life hoping that someone else changes; you can only control your own actions." Episode references: Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller: https://www.amazon.com/Attached-Science-Adult-Attachment-YouFind/dp/1585429139 The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman: https://www.amazon.com/Five-Love-Languages-Secret-Lasts/dp/080241270X Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2643: Evan Marc Katz helps a self-aware woman navigate the conflict between love and ambition in her long-term relationship. Through compassionate questioning, he invites her to weigh the irreplaceable value of emotional safety against her desire for intellectual and professional stimulation, reminding us that no partner can fulfill every need, and that acceptance might be the most underrated form of love. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/chemistry/my-boyfriend-is-wonderful-but-not-ambitious-or-successful Quotes to ponder: "You're not shallow for craving conversation that doesn't revolve around pop culture." "It's a failing proposition to expect one man to be all things to you." "The ability to quote Proust pales in comparison with the person who will drive you to your chemo treatments in thirty years." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2643: Evan Marc Katz helps a self-aware woman navigate the conflict between love and ambition in her long-term relationship. Through compassionate questioning, he invites her to weigh the irreplaceable value of emotional safety against her desire for intellectual and professional stimulation, reminding us that no partner can fulfill every need, and that acceptance might be the most underrated form of love. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/chemistry/my-boyfriend-is-wonderful-but-not-ambitious-or-successful Quotes to ponder: "You're not shallow for craving conversation that doesn't revolve around pop culture." "It's a failing proposition to expect one man to be all things to you." "The ability to quote Proust pales in comparison with the person who will drive you to your chemo treatments in thirty years." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2625: Evan Marc Katz explores the painful but liberating truth about romantic expectations and the importance of mutual desire in relationships. Through a candid coaching conversation, he highlights how fixating on unavailable partners can sabotage love, urging us instead to focus on those who are truly open to loving us back. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/do-you-want-to-date-people-who-dont-want-to-date-you Quotes to ponder: "It doesn't matter what she wanted, there's no relationship to discuss." "You can only be the best person that you can be, and hope to attract the person that wants YOU, flaws and all." "Focus on the men who want you, and you'll find a man you want as well." Episode references: BeachBound: https://www.beachbound.com Match.com: https://www.match.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2625: Evan Marc Katz explores the painful but liberating truth about romantic expectations and the importance of mutual desire in relationships. Through a candid coaching conversation, he highlights how fixating on unavailable partners can sabotage love, urging us instead to focus on those who are truly open to loving us back. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/do-you-want-to-date-people-who-dont-want-to-date-you Quotes to ponder: "It doesn't matter what she wanted, there's no relationship to discuss." "You can only be the best person that you can be, and hope to attract the person that wants YOU, flaws and all." "Focus on the men who want you, and you'll find a man you want as well." Episode references: BeachBound: https://www.beachbound.com Match.com: https://www.match.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2602: Evan Marc Katz offers nuanced advice to women navigating uncertain early-stage relationships, emphasizing the importance of believing a man's reservations while also allowing space for genuine emotional growth. He encourages women to observe actions over words and to remain grounded, reminding us that people often grow into love unexpectedly, if given the time and space. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/how-long-do-i-wait-for-a-man-before-i-feel-im-wasting-my-time Quotes to ponder: "Believe the negatives. Ignore the positives." "You're Ms. Right Now, you want to be Ms. Right, but he's not currently taking applications for that position." "You let him reveal himself in his actions and not just his words. You continue to be the woman that no man can leave." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2602: Evan Marc Katz offers nuanced advice to women navigating uncertain early-stage relationships, emphasizing the importance of believing a man's reservations while also allowing space for genuine emotional growth. He encourages women to observe actions over words and to remain grounded, reminding us that people often grow into love unexpectedly, if given the time and space. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/how-long-do-i-wait-for-a-man-before-i-feel-im-wasting-my-time Quotes to ponder: "Believe the negatives. Ignore the positives." "You're Ms. Right Now, you want to be Ms. Right, but he's not currently taking applications for that position." "You let him reveal himself in his actions and not just his words. You continue to be the woman that no man can leave." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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