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Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2681: Evan Marc Katz reflects on how his marriage transformed both his personal and professional life, revealing the depth of real love built on trust, stability, and shared purpose. He explores how the comfort of consistency, not the thrill of mystery, defines lasting romance, and why surrendering to that rhythm can be the most powerful and romantic act of all. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/marriage/what-it-looks-like-when-youre-happily-married Quotes to ponder: "Real love is based on transparency and comfort, not mystery." "You savor the repetitive, deliciously mundane rhythms of survival, and you want to keep surviving." "With my wife, I am bulletproof. Without her, I don't even know who I am anymore." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2680: Melani Schweder explores the subtle yet profound impact of everyday language on mental and emotional well-being. By tuning into the words we use, especially in self-talk, she reveals how small shifts in phrasing can boost self-compassion, reduce stress, and support lasting personal growth. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.abrighterwild.com/blog/your-words-matter Quotes to ponder: "Your words have power, and they're always sending messages to others and to yourself." "When you say 'I'm so bad at this,' your brain believes you. When you say 'I'm learning how to do this,' your brain believes that too." "Small shifts in your self-talk can create massive changes in how you feel and how you show up in the world." Episode references: Loving What Is: https://www.amazon.com/Loving-What-Is-Four-Questions/dp/1400045371 The Gifts of Imperfection: https://www.amazon.com/Gifts-Imperfection-Think-Supposed-Embrace/dp/159285849X The Four Agreements: https://www.amazon.com/Four-Agreements-Practical-Personal-Freedom/dp/1878424319 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2679: Melissa Josue offers compassionate insight into the emotional turmoil of dating someone emotionally unavailable, especially post-divorce. Her guidance empowers heartbroken readers to shift focus inward, emphasizing self-worth, healing, and relationship clarity over waiting for someone else's readiness. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://melissathelovecoach.com/will-he-ever-be-ready-to-commit/ Quotes to ponder: "He eventually decided that he doesn't want to be in committed relationship at this time." "Commitment is a choice. And it comes with a very clear attitude and actions." "But don't blame yourself in the least for the choices that he made." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2678: Emma Scheib offers a heartfelt look into parenting a highly sensitive child, sharing her journey of recognizing her daughter's sensitivity as a reflection of her own. By learning to embrace rather than resist these traits, she reveals how sensitivity, often misunderstood, is actually a sign of emotional depth, empathy, and extraordinary perception. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://highlysensitiverefuge.com/highly-sensitive-child-is-normal/ Quotes to ponder: "She is wild. She is beautiful. She is sensitive. She is my daughter." "Being a highly sensitive person is completely normal." "They need to know, in fact, that sensitivity is a gift." Episode references: The Highly Sensitive Person: https://hsperson.com/books/the-highly-sensitive-person/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2677: Crystal Karges shares compassionate, evidence-based strategies to help parents navigate picky eating without pressure or power struggles. By fostering a low-stress, joyful mealtime atmosphere and modeling a healthy relationship with food, parents can empower their children to explore new foods while strengthening family connections. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.crystalkarges.com/blog/preventing-the-chicken-nugget-diet-how-to-raise-a-child-that-will-eat-almost-anything Quotes to ponder: "Children actually have an amazing, innate ability to eat according to what their bodies are needing, and as parents, we need to give them the opportunity to do so." "Offer new foods alongside familiar foods and allow them to decide whether or not they want to try it." "Creating fun traditions at the table, like kid trivia or a dinner theme night, can help bring the joy back to mealtime." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2676: Dr. Diana Kirschner highlights how introverts can thrive in dating by embracing authenticity, shifting focus outward, and using playful flirting to foster connection. Her advice empowers shy individuals to show up as their real selves, free, engaged, and irresistibly alive, while creating space for mutual ease and attraction. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lovein90days.com/5-pieces-best-dating-advice-for-introverts/ Quotes to ponder: "Every person is interesting when they are real." "Being real means you become grounded in knowing that you are beautifully okay just as you are." "The key to feel more confident in that moment is to put your attention OUTWARD." Episode references: The Velveteen Rabbit: https://www.amazon.com/Velveteen-Rabbit-Original-Margery-Williams/dp/0380002558 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2675: Dr. Diana Kirschner shares empowering dating advice tailored specifically for introverts, helping them embrace their natural strengths in love. With actionable tips on confidence, connection, and authentic communication, she shows how quieter personalities can thrive in the dating world. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lovein90days.com/5-pieces-best-dating-advice-for-introverts/ Quotes to ponder: "Introverts actually have a secret edge in dating." "You don't have to be the life of the party to find true love." "Confidence isn't about being loud; it's about owning who you are." References: Love in 90 Days (book): https://www.amazon.com/Love-90-Days-Attract-Soulmate/dp/1594632979 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2674: David and Constantino Khalaf explore how healthy dependence, rather than complete self-reliance, can foster deeper intimacy and emotional connection in relationships. By shifting from “I'll do it myself” to “How can we do this together?”, couples can strengthen their bonds through vulnerability, mutual influence, and intentional acts of connection. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.gottman.com/blog/healthy-dependence-healthy-relationships/ Quotes to ponder: "Depending on others is part of our genetic makeup, our emotional dependence on loved ones remains strong." "Being depended on helps Constantino feel that he is appreciated and useful in our marriage rather than feeling left out or neglected." "Even if David can assert his independence, it doesn't always mean he should." Episode references: Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller: https://www.amazon.com/Attached-Science-Adult-Attachment-YouFind/dp/1585429139 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2673: Dr. Lisa Hoplock explores how the misfortunes of same-gender friends, particularly those viewed as romantic rivals, can trigger feelings of schadenfreude. While this reaction may signal subconscious competition in the mating arena, the research reveals that such glee doesn't necessarily change how we view our own or others' mate value. Listeners are invited to reflect on what these moments of quiet satisfaction might reveal about their own insecurities and social comparisons. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.luvze.com/happiness-at-the-misfortune-of-mate-rivals/ Quotes to ponder: "It's common to laugh at someone's slight misfortune, and we're more likely to do it when it happens to a same-gender friend than an opposite-gender friend." "Participants felt greater happiness at the misfortune of same-gender friends than they did for opposite-gender friends." "Even though women experienced more schadenfreude after imagining that their friend gained 15 pounds, they didn't rate themselves as having a higher mate value than their friend in this scenario." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2672: Colin Wright explores the concept of "history stalking," the habit of deeply researching influential figures to understand their decisions, motivations, and growth. By immersing ourselves in the context behind their lives, we gain perspective on our own paths and the long arc of self-improvement. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://exilelifestyle.com/history-stalking/ Quotes to ponder: "History stalking is a way of studying great and impactful people from the past as if you're their stalker." "Knowing someone's work, their accomplishments, doesn't provide you with enough context to understand why they did what they did." "The more you understand about someone's world, the more sense their choices make." Episode references: Steve Jobs by Walter Isaacson: https://www.amazon.com/Steve-Jobs-Walter-Isaacson/dp/1451648537 Team of Rivals: https://www.amazon.com/Team-Rivals-Political-Abraham-Lincoln/dp/0743270754 Benjamin Franklin: An American Life: https://www.amazon.com/Benjamin-Franklin-American-Walter-Isaacson/dp/074325807X Alexander Hamilton by Ron Chernow: https://www.amazon.com/Alexander-Hamilton-Ron-Chernow/dp/0143034758 The Rise of Theodore Roosevelt: https://www.amazon.com/Rise-Theodore-Roosevelt-Modern-Library/dp/0375756787 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2671: Charlie Brown uses a memorable scene from Ted Lasso to offer a simple yet powerful test for deciding who's worth your time: are they curious, or just judgmental? By highlighting how ego and social media drown out genuine interest in others, she reminds us that curiosity isn't just polite, it's transformational. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://medium.com/mind-cafe/if-you-want-to-know-if-someone-is-worth-your-time-use-the-ted-lasso-curiosity-rule-23311d1ddce3 Quotes to ponder: "Be curious, not judgmental." "If they were curious they would have asked questions. Questions like, have you played a lot of darts, Ted?" "You are not worth my time. You are not important enough. You are not as interesting as me. Bull." Episode references: Ted Lasso (Apple TV+): https://tv.apple.com/us/show/ted-lasso/umc.cmc.vtoh0mn0xn7t3c643xqonfzy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2670: Mike Burns explores how minimalism helps parents strip away distractions and focus more intentionally on raising their children. By guarding time, choosing battles wisely, and clarifying core values, minimalism empowers parents to lead with purpose and presence. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.becomingminimalist.com/own-less-parent-better/ Quotes to ponder: "It is a huge responsibility and we should take it very seriously." "You can't do everything. We have to learn to say 'no' to many good things so we can say 'yes' to the things that are more important to us at that time." "If everything is a big deal, then nothing is a big deal." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2669: Jen shares practical and stress-free ways to prevent summer learning loss in kids without sacrificing summer fun. From quick flashcard sessions to integrating learning into everyday routines like cooking and creative play, her tips help keep young minds sharp while fostering family connection. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://thistimeofmine.com/beating-the-summer-slide/ Quotes to ponder: "Beating the summer slide is easy, but it does take regular, conscious effort." "Reading can be a part of learning time, an afternoon quiet time or even a bedtime routine." "It doesn't have to be anything big to be effective." Episode references: Summer Reading Program - Scholastic: https://www.scholastic.com/site/summer-reading.html Summer Reading Program - Barnes & Noble: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/b/summer-reading/_/N-2o9z Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2668: Eddie Corbano outlines the final steps to end a relationship with clarity, compassion, and integrity. By preparing for tough reactions, staying firm yet kind, and offering closure without false hope, you support both your healing and your partner's, all while setting the stage for genuine emotional recovery. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lovesagame.com/how-to-break-up-with-somebody-in-7-steps/ Quotes to ponder: "Never, ever let there be any doubt that your relationship is over." "You will feel the urge to ease the pain by saying something he/she wants to hear, but this is wrong for two reasons: you are giving false hope and delaying the healing process, and you are getting off your course." "Understanding will not come until later in their recovery. Your goal is to give the feeling of an ending and a goodbye." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2667: Eddie Corbano outlines the emotionally difficult but essential process of breaking up with someone with clarity and compassion. He emphasizes emotional preparedness, certainty in your decision, and respectful communication, offering a framework that minimizes harm while honoring both people involved. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lovesagame.com/how-to-break-up-with-somebody-in-7-steps/ Quotes to ponder: "There is no painless way. It just doesn't exist." "You owe your partner to look them in the eye when you break up with him. It's a question of loyalty and morality, an unwritten law." "Try to be sure that there is no chance of getting things right again." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2666: Steven Zawila reveals how introverts can thrive in the dating world by leaning into their natural strengths, deep listening, thoughtfulness, and emotional depth. Instead of trying to mimic extroverted behaviors, introverts can find lasting love through authenticity and meaningful connection. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://introvertdear.com/news/introvert-dating-better/ Quotes to ponder: "Introverts don't just listen, they absorb, reflect, and empathize." "Small talk is painful for many introverts, but deep, meaningful conversations are their playground." "Introverts take relationships seriously. They're unlikely to play games or pursue someone unless they're genuinely interested." Episode references: Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking: https://www.amazon.com/Quiet-Power-Introverts-World-Talking/dp/0307352153 Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI): https://www.myersbriggs.org/my-mbti-personality-type/mbti-basics/ The Introvert's Way: Living a Quiet Life in a Noisy World: https://www.amazon.com/Introverts-Way-Living-Quiet-Noisy/dp/0399537694 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2665: James Altucher explores the emotional toll of being publicly criticized and offers hard-won wisdom on how to navigate hatred without losing your sense of self. With raw honesty and practical advice, he shows that resilience, detachment, and a commitment to helping others are more powerful than trying to change the minds of those who judge or attack you. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://jamesaltucher.com/blog/when-people-hate-you/ Quotes to ponder: "You've known me for decades. How could you possibly think that?" "They are afraid their view of the world is wrong." "Learning to ignore the haters, not fight them, and just take the very next steps, is the key to success." Episode references: CNBC: https://www.cnbc.com/ Yahoo! Finance: https://finance.yahoo.com/ The Financial Times: https://www.ft.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2664: Logan Allec shares how becoming a parent radically reshaped his financial mindset - from early retirement dreams to prioritizing his child's future. His story highlights the emotional and practical shifts that come with parenthood, including relaxing personal savings goals, focusing on time over money, and investing early in his child's education and financial literacy. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://marriagekidsandmoney.com/having-a-baby-changed-financial-goals Quotes to ponder: "Money is still important, of course, but spending time with my family is now my top priority." "I'm no longer worried about hitting a specific savings target at the end of each month, and I've relaxed my budget significantly since my child was born." "You don't need to worry about a new baby's retirement fund for a while, but you can get their financial life off to a great start by helping them create a Roth IRA as soon as possible." Episode references: 529 College Savings Plan Overview: https://www.savingforcollege.com/intro-to-529s/what-is-a-529-plan Roth IRA: https://www.irs.gov/retirement-plans/roth-iras Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2663: Evan Marc Katz explores the emotional and practical dilemma faced by women dating men who openly reject the idea of marriage. Drawing from personal coaching experiences, he challenges the notion of waiting for someone to change and empowers women to take control of their long-term relationship goals before more time is lost. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/marriage/how-long-should-you-stay-with-a-boyfriend-who-does-not-believe-in-marriage Quotes to ponder: "If marriage is important to you, then being with a man who doesn't believe in it is a non-starter." "You're allowed to want what you want. You're just not allowed to expect someone else to provide it if they don't want the same thing." "You can't spend your life hoping that someone else changes; you can only control your own actions." Episode references: Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller: https://www.amazon.com/Attached-Science-Adult-Attachment-YouFind/dp/1585429139 The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman: https://www.amazon.com/Five-Love-Languages-Secret-Lasts/dp/080241270X Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2662: Rose Lounsbury shares a heartfelt story of teaching her young daughter the value of letting go by guiding her through the overwhelming clutter of her craft supplies. This episode offers a gentle, practical approach to helping kids release attachment to “stuff” and create space for creativity and calm. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://roselounsbury.com/how-i-taught-my-crafty-kid-to-let-go/ Quotes to ponder: "I took a deep breath and did what I do best. I sat down and started sorting." "She told me what to toss and what to keep, but she didn't touch anything." "I learned that minimalism isn't just something I do for myself, it's a legacy I can pass on to my kids." Episode references: The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up: https://www.amazon.com/Life-Changing-Magic-Tidying-Decluttering-Organizing/dp/1607747308 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2661: Allison Carmen explores how teaching children emotional resilience can empower them to face adversity without becoming overwhelmed by fear or despair. By guiding kids to understand that challenges don't define their future and that they can still be okay, parents can cultivate a mindset of hope, adaptability, and inner strength. Read along with the original article(s) here: http://www.allisoncarmen.com/teaching-children-that-when-bad-things-happen-they-still-can-be-okay/ Quotes to ponder: "When we teach our children that they are okay even when life does not go as planned, we empower them to move forward with courage, curiosity and hope." "Sometimes life will bring painful events, but that doesn't mean our whole world is lost or that we are not okay." "The greatest gift we can give our children is the ability to find peace and strength in themselves regardless of life's circumstances." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2660: Shana Olmstead invites us to elevate our relationships by aligning them with our evolving energy, teaching us how to navigate emotional shifts with compassion and clarity. Through her gentle guidance, we learn how to lovingly release relationships that no longer serve us, cultivate healthier boundaries, and make space for the deeply nourishing connections we truly deserve. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://shanaolmstead.com/2018/07/24/friendventory-our-vibe-attracts-our-tribe/ Quotes to ponder: "It can be difficult to admit to yourself that some of these relationships no longer work, especially if they are long time relationships or even family members." "The simple knowledge that the relationship is not feeding your energy system can be very empowering." "You are an amazingly powerful being with the capability to create anything you want to in your life, including amazing and fulfilling soul pod relationships." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2659: Shana Olmstead offers a thoughtful lens on how evolving spiritually often means reevaluating our relationships through a process she calls “friendventory.” By tuning into the energy we feel around others and embracing necessary changes, we make space for higher-vibe connections that support our growth and authenticity. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://shanaolmstead.com/2018/07/24/friendventory-our-vibe-attracts-our-tribe/ Quotes to ponder: "A true soul pod member gives you energy instead of depleting you, is positive and uplifting, like your inner supportive cheerleader, and has your back." "As we increase our consciousness it becomes more and more uncomfortable, until it is impossible, to maintain these relationships." "It is really ok to have awareness of what needs to change for a while before you are actually ready to make a move." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2658: Crystal Karges shares ten deeply personal lessons from her decade-long marriage, revealing how love evolves through adversity, forgiveness, and quiet perseverance. Her reflections offer a heartfelt reminder that love is not just a feeling but a deliberate, ongoing act of grace, patience, and mutual growth, especially in life's most unglamorous moments. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.crystalkarges.com/blog/10-lessons-i-have-learned-about-love-in-a-decade-of-marriage Quotes to ponder: "Love may not always be a romantic gesture of flowers and chocolate. Love acts selflessly, even when the feelings are not there, and shows kindness by doing things that are hard, uncomfortable, and unglamorous at times." "Love is a choice, a decision to give without expectation of reciprocity to another flawed person; but choosing to love is always the best decision." "Like a seed that deepens its roots in the hidden darkness of the soil, so is love that grows steadily in the quiet places." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2657: Keith Wilson explores how restorative justice, typically used in the criminal justice system, can bring meaningful healing and accountability to personal relationships after a betrayal. By focusing on responsibility, clear amends, and mutual participation, this approach offers a path to true reconciliation rather than shallow forgiveness or destructive retaliation. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://medium.com/hello-love/restorative-justice-in-your-relationship-c9f0112d9c10 Quotes to ponder: "Restorative justice is only possible if your wife is ready to take responsibility for the affair." "The best amends are measurable, attainable, and concrete." "If she follows through with her promises, then you let it go. That's your promise." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2656: Ross Enamait delivers a powerful reminder that we each hold the ability to choose how we respond to life's challenges, regardless of circumstance. Highlighting discipline, accountability, and personal responsibility, he argues that lasting change begins with refusing to make excuses and owning every choice. Read along with the original article(s) here: http://rosstraining.com/blog/2008/07/19/the-power-of-choice/ Quotes to ponder: "I do not care who you are, where you are from, or what kind of past you have endured. You still have the power to choose." "Hard work is a choice. Making excuses is a choice. Blaming others is a choice." "If you want to do something, do it. If not, don't. Just don't waste your time coming up with excuses." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2655: Dr. Diana Kirschner offers empowering dating advice for women feeling drained by modern dating apps and bad dates, showing how a shift in mindset can reignite your hope and success in love. With practical tips like lowering expectations, staying playful, and embracing support, she reveals that the path to lasting love starts with joy, commitment, and openness to the unexpected. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lovein90days.com/dating-advice-taking-a-break/ Quotes to ponder: "Don't go into every date hoping this man is your potential husband. So just relax and enjoy the process." "Dating is truly a numbers game, where you want to meet lots of guys to get to the prince." "You can't solve a problem with the same kind of thinking you used to create it." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2654: Adina Soclof emphasizes that self-control is a foundational skill for children's long-term success, both academically and socially. Through real-life strategies and age-appropriate dialogue, she explains how parents can nurture this essential trait in their kids by turning everyday moments into powerful teaching opportunities. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://parentingsimply.com/child-needs-to-succeed/ Quotes to ponder: "Self control is one of the most important character traits that your child needs to succeed." "In essence, managing the waiting in pleasurable ways is the secret to learning self-control." "You can give your child what he needs to succeed by engaging in some constructive dialogue." Episode references: The Marshmallow Test by Walter Mischel: https://www.amazon.com/Marshmallow-Test-Mastering-Self-Control/dp/0316230871 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2653: When parenting feels like balancing on the edge, Alyssa of Your Unbusy Life.com reveals how setting clear boundaries, not relying on willpower, can help you stop yelling and create a calmer home. Learn how to recognize your limits, communicate them to your kids, and prioritize your well-being so everyone benefits from a more peaceful, connected family life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://yourunbusylife.com/stop-yelling-at-your-kids/ Quotes to ponder: "I cannot handle their playlist on repeat for 40 minutes at full volume. I can handle it for 40 minutes at low volume, or I can take it at high volume for 10 minutes." "If you say, 'I am about to lose patience with you,' watch how fast they start to reform." "You need to know that, and then build that into your days." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2652: When partners grow distant, it's easy to feel lost and unsure how to reconnect. Melissa Josue offers compassionate, practical advice on navigating emotional withdrawal, emphasizing healthy communication, respecting boundaries, and recognizing where responsibility truly lies in a relationship. Discover how to foster openness without falling into the trap of trying to rescue or fix your partner. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://melissathelovecoach.com/my-boyfriend-doesnt-talk-to-me-like-he-used-to/ Quotes to ponder: "He's responsible for reaching out and getting help with those things if and when he wants it." "Your openness invites his openness." "We can't be responsible for our lover's emotional journey. Or for his healing. Or for his choices." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2651: Mindful dating, as explored by Ira Israel, invites us to move beyond superficial swipes and scripted encounters to build genuine, compassionate connections. By recognizing our own attachment patterns, projections, and facades, we can approach relationships with greater authenticity, integrity, and patience. Listeners will gain insights into how to cultivate intimacy in today's fast-paced, tech-driven dating culture. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://iraisrael.com/mindful-dating/ Quotes to ponder: “Some people feel as if technology is helping them connect but it can also be argued that Facebook and Twitter delude people into believing they are interacting when they actually are not receiving the tactile affection they crave.” “The problem is as follows: the most propitious tools for making relationships succeed - authenticity and authentic communications, may not be the most alluring traits when dating.” Episode references: The Newsroom (Season 1): https://www.hbo.com/the-newsroom We: Understanding the Psychology of Romantic Love: https://www.amazon.com/We-Understanding-Psychology-Romantic-Love/dp/0062504363 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2650: Understanding jealousy through April Eldemire's insights helps transform it from a destructive force into a path for deeper connection. By identifying personal vulnerabilities, communicating openly, and setting healthy boundaries, partners can build greater trust and intimacy. Listening offers valuable guidance on turning difficult emotions into opportunities for growth and resilience in relationships. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.gottman.com/blog/why-do-we-get-jealous-in-relationships/ Quotes to ponder: "I believe that every person has areas of enduring vulnerability. For a marriage to succeed, these vulnerabilities need to be understood and honored." "Feelings aren't facts. Are you imagining things that aren't really there?" "Show one another how much you value each other by putting your relationship before your work, your coworkers, and your friends." Episode references: The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran (for the “spaces in your togetherness” quote): https://www.amazon.com/Prophet-Kahlil-Gibran/dp/0394404289 Daring Greatly: https://www.amazon.com/Daring-Greatly-Courage-Vulnerable-Transforms/dp/1592408419 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2649: Many of us have a highly sensitive person in our lives, and Cat Rose offers a compassionate guide to better understanding their needs. From creating peaceful spaces to allowing freedom of choice and avoiding harmful phrases, these insights help foster deeper connection and respect rather than just cautious accommodation. Listeners will gain practical tools to support HSPs while building more authentic, balanced relationships. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://highlysensitiverefuge.com/things-every-sensitive-person-needs-from-loved-ones/ Quotes to ponder: "Simply by giving an HSP a little more time to get back to you, or letting us know you aren't in a rush can be a huge relief for us." "Peaceful and quiet environments are where HSPs thrive." "Being a highly sensitive person isn't a choice or something that a person can change." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2648: Many of us judge actions by their results, but Greg Audino invites us to reflect on the power of supporting good intentions, even when outcomes disappoint. Drawing inspiration from Jurassic Park's Dr. Alan Grant, Audino explores how validation of sincere efforts helps build resilience, encourage growth, and foster stronger connections. Learn how reframing your response to intentions, yours and others', can be a transformative practice in relationships and personal development. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://medium.com/@gregglesaudino/jurassic-park-and-when-good-intentions-go-south-c8cd6587424c Quotes to ponder: "Some of the worst things imaginable have been done with the best intentions." "Behavior goes where reinforcement flows." "Supporting good intentions not only goes a long way in encouraging others to continue leading with them, but also propels people to explore how they can achieve better results." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2647: Dr. Kelly Flanagan reveals how recognizing the four distinct types of anger, defensive, frustrated, scared, and righteous, can transform the way we respond to life's challenges. By shifting from impulsive reactions to thoughtful examination, we can break destructive cycles and cultivate greater peace, authenticity, and compassion in ourselves and our communities. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drkellyflanagan.com/the-four-kinds-of-anger-and-how-to-handle-them-better/ Quotes to ponder: "Anger is just an emotion. It's immaterial. It's ephemeral. It's a ghost." "Your Defensive Anger will keep you focused on the problems in everyone else." "Most Scared Anger, when handled well, makes the world a more vulnerable and authentic place." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2646: Cara Harvey highlights the power of teamwork and consistency in creating a bedtime routine that not only helps kids sleep better but also nurtures independence, life skills, and deeper family bonds. By involving both parents when possible, fostering connection through reading, prayer, and song, and sticking to predictable patterns, families can enjoy more peaceful evenings and meaningful moments with their children. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://apurposedrivenmom.com/bedtime-routine-kids/ Quotes to ponder: "When Dad is around he can join in without a hitch." "Each night you go through your routine with your child is another night of teaching them how to take care of themselves." "Never having bedtime battles is awesome, but what is even better is the peace and time you get out of it as a parent." Episode references: 1000 Books Before Kindergarten: https://1000booksbeforekindergarten.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2645: Discover how Cara Harvey shares practical strategies to create a smooth, stress-free bedtime routine for kids. Learn simple steps to reduce chaos, foster connection, and help your children wind down with ease - so evenings become a time of calm rather than conflict. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://apurposedrivenmom.com/bedtime-routine-kids/ Quotes to ponder: “Our kids thrive on the fact that they know what is coming next. Routines give them a sense of security and help them develop self-discipline.” “If there is one thing that I cannot stress enough is how consistency with a bedtime routine has made such a huge impact.” “Each night you go through your routine with your child is another night of teaching them how to take care of themselves.” Episode references: 1000 Books Before Kindergarten: https://1000booksbeforekindergarten.org Baby Sleep Made Simple Program: https://www.babysleepmadesimple.com/programs-2 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2644: Dr. Timothy Loving sheds light on why some newlyweds feel unexpectedly down after their big day, revealing how mindset and expectations around weddings can shape early marital satisfaction. By comparing the perspectives of "blue" brides to those of happier ones, this piece offers clear, actionable insights to help couples better prepare for a fulfilling life together beyond the aisle. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.luvze.com/something-old-something-new-something-borrowed-something-blu/ Quotes to ponder: "Blue brides were more uncertain about what life and marriage has in store for them after the wedding compared to happy brides." "Blue brides view the end of their weddings as a loss rather than a gain, which is not a particularly promising way to start a marriage." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2643: Evan Marc Katz helps a self-aware woman navigate the conflict between love and ambition in her long-term relationship. Through compassionate questioning, he invites her to weigh the irreplaceable value of emotional safety against her desire for intellectual and professional stimulation, reminding us that no partner can fulfill every need, and that acceptance might be the most underrated form of love. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/chemistry/my-boyfriend-is-wonderful-but-not-ambitious-or-successful Quotes to ponder: "You're not shallow for craving conversation that doesn't revolve around pop culture." "It's a failing proposition to expect one man to be all things to you." "The ability to quote Proust pales in comparison with the person who will drive you to your chemo treatments in thirty years." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2642: Eddie Corbano breaks down ten critical red flags that signal a relationship may be deteriorating, urging readers to recognize subtle shifts before it's too late. His insights help listeners build awareness, foster honest communication, and make empowered choices when love starts to fade. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lovesagame.com/10-big-red-flags-your-relationship-is-going-downhill/ Quotes to ponder: "Trust is not only the foundation of a healthy relationship, it is also the glue that holds everything together." "Distance can be physical or emotional, and both are dangerous." "When two people don't talk anymore, their connection dies a slow and silent death." Episode references: Hold Me Tight by Dr. Sue Johnson: https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Me-Tight-Conversations-Lifetime/dp/031611300X Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find - and Keep - Love: https://www.amazon.com/Attached-Science-Adult-Attachment-YouFind/dp/1585429139 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2641: Dr. Margaret Rutherford shines a compassionate light on the hidden roots of common couple conflicts, revealing how everyday arguments often mask deeper needs like trust, gratitude, and vulnerability. Learn five destructive patterns of bickering and five transformative strategies to replace them with understanding, empathy, and emotional connection. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/5-common-ways-couples-bicker-and-fuss-and-five-strategies-to-stop/ Quotes to ponder: "Contempt is the number one communication quality that kills a relationship." "Blame is easy. The second is much, much more vulnerable and thus, more difficult." "People who are truly secure in and of themselves don't have to be right." Episode references: Pia Mellody's Work - Facing Codependence: https://www.amazon.com/Facing-Codependence-What-Really-Recovery/dp/0062505890 The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: https://www.amazon.com/Seven-Principles-Making-Marriage-Work/dp/0609805797 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2640: Elle Martinez reveals a powerful yet often overlooked financial strategy for couples: living on one income while saving the other. Backed by real-life success stories, she explains how this approach can dramatically accelerate financial independence, reduce stress, and create stronger teamwork in your relationship. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://marriagekidsandmoney.com/the-easiest-way-to-build-wealth-as-a-couple Quotes to ponder: "One of the best things you can do is learn to budget and live on one income." "The key factor to retiring early is the percentage of your income compared to your expenses." "You two are an awesome team that can achieve some great things when you work together!" Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2639: Kathy Robinson reflects on the powerful emotional and wellness benefits of reconnecting with family, especially across generations. Her story highlights how simple gatherings rooted in shared heritage can rekindle deep bonds, honor our ancestors, and strengthen the legacy we pass on. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://athenawellness.com/blog/2022/10/1/the-importance-of-gathering Quotes to ponder: "We shared collective memories of the neighborhood, the church, the smell of my grandmother's cooking, family celebrations, how we played in the apartment hallway and ate at the kid's table in the kitchen." "There was also a sense of rejuvenation that lasted long into the week emanating from genuine connection and belonging that comes from being in the community of our extended village." "It doesn't have to be fancy. Our recent gathering was a picnic with a 3' hero and a cooler of beer." Episode references: Ellis Island: https://www.statueofliberty.org/ellis-island Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2638: Shawna Scafe shares how planning solo retreats can empower moms to reclaim time for work, rest, and personal fulfillment. By intentionally stepping away from daily demands, moms can prioritize overdue tasks, enjoy true relaxation, and return home feeling recharged, with a renewed sense of ownership over their schedules. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://simpleonpurpose.ca/mom-retreat-ideas/ Quotes to ponder: "Because nobody is going to just hand you this time, you need to make it for yourself." "No matter what tasks have piled up on the back burner for you, it can be tough to MAKE THE TIME." "Having time blocked off for you allows you to show up and have fun with whatever is happening in your day because you know that time is coming for you to do what YOU need to do." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2637: Adina Soclof offers insight into the temperament trait of sensitivity, helping parents understand and support children who experience the world more intensely. By teaching kids to name and manage overwhelming sensations and emotions, parents can replace frustration with empathy, laying the foundation for emotional intelligence and self-awareness. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://parentingsimply.com/the-sensitive-child-helping-him-reach-his-potential/ Quotes to ponder: "Sensitive kids need to possess in their vocabularies the words that help them communicate their profound emotions and sensations they experience." “You reminded Shane of the prizes she could get if she finishes her work to help cheer her up, that is called being kind.” “Someone called me a complainer. I was really hurt, but I said to myself, ‘that is not true, I usually don't complain, I am going to try not to let what she said bother me.'” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2636: Alysha Jeney explores how feelings of rejection can trigger unconscious behaviors that sabotage connection, especially in close relationships. By encouraging self-reflection and mindful communication, she shows how to turn emotional sensitivity from a source of pain into a pathway to empowerment and deeper understanding. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/things-dont-realize-youre-feeling-rejected-criticized/ Quotes to ponder: "Victimization and empowerment are on the same coin. It can be difficult to flip over, but it's not impossible." "I needed to desperately feel validated and accepted, but because of my unprocessed sensitivities and premature reactions, I wasn't ready to take accountability for what I could control to make it better." "You cannot speed and drive recklessly, while expecting everyone else to abide by the rules." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2635: Melissa Josue offers a powerful reminder that lasting connection thrives on clarity and collaboration. By getting clear on your individual dreams and then intentionally building a shared vision with your partner, you create a meaningful path forward, one that supports both fulfillment and emotional intimacy. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://melissathelovecoach.com/how-to-keep-from-growing-apart/ Quotes to ponder: "Your success and fulfillment comes from fully expressing and living your Vision." "Creating a shared vision is so important because it's about creating a path where you have shared dreams and goals and so you're working toward something together, instead of growing farther apart." "Discontent and frustration are powerful teachers, and with the right tools, can guide us to the deeply fulfilling life and relationship that we really want." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2634: Melissa Josue shares a deeply personal moment of disconnection in her marriage and the powerful realization that helped her shift from self-pity to shared purpose. By embracing the concept of a shared vision, she reminds us that growing together rather than apart begins with taking responsibility for our choices and intentionally co-creating a life with our partner. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://melissathelovecoach.com/how-to-keep-from-growing-apart/ Quotes to ponder: "I needed to recognize that it's a shared journey. Not just my journey, but his journey, his kids' journey, even his exes' journey, too." "If you're not sharing a path or on parallel paths, then you're on diverging paths." "Happiness is an inside job." Episode references: Conscious Dating by David Steele: https://www.amazon.com/Conscious-Dating-Finding-Right-Without/dp/0975500570 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2633: Kyle Benson unpacks how shifting from criticism to expressing vulnerable wishes can dramatically improve conflict resolution in relationships. By identifying the underlying needs beneath frustration, couples foster deeper emotional connection and transform arguments into moments of intimacy and understanding. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.gottman.com/blog/transforming-criticism-into-wishes-a-recipe-for-successful-conflict/ Quotes to ponder: "You are such a baby. You interrupt me and then walk out of the room, which makes me feel like the bad guy. No wonder I don't want to have a baby!" "I want to be able to speak with you about how I feel about having a baby right now without you leaving the room or getting upset with me before I'm done talking." "I want us to discuss issues calmly without either of us raising our voices. That's what I need to stay in the room and truly listen to you." Episode references: Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy (PACT) by Stan Tatkin: https://thepactinstitute.com/what-is-pact/ Daring Greatly by Brené Brown: https://www.amazon.com/Daring-Greatly-Courage-Vulnerable-Transforms/dp/1592408419 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2632: Elly McGuinness explores how self-sabotage in relationships can mirror patterns in our nutritional choices, revealing how unresolved emotional blocks often drive unhealthy habits. By unpacking the subconscious roots of both relationship and food-related behaviors, she offers a path to greater self-awareness and emotional balance. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ellymcguinness.com/blog/sabotaging-relationships-nutrition/ Quotes to ponder: "Many people don't realize that some of the same patterns that lead to self-sabotage in relationships can also show up in their relationship with food." "We often know what to do to nourish ourselves better, but we don't always do it." "Until we resolve these underlying issues, we will likely continue to attract or stay in relationships that are not truly supportive, and we may also continue to sabotage our own health goals." Episode references: Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT): https://www.thetappingsolution.com/ Dr. Nicole LePera - The Holistic Psychologist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2631: Keith Wilson shares a powerful metaphor for emotional healing through a story of helping a hoarder clean his home only to realize that letting go is more than just tidying up. By introducing a physical tool for emotional release, Wilson invites us to consider what grudges, regrets, or emotional baggage we've kept around simply because we haven't emptied our “inner garbage cans.” Read along with the original article(s) here: https://keithrwilson.medium.com/take-out-the-garbage-f761df97f876 Quotes to ponder: "You can't just, one day, say you're going to let go of all your grudges, and be done with them. You can say that, but they come back." "The last thing you'll let go will be the impulse to convince her she's wrong." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices