Optimal Relationships Daily

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2758: Jen shares five practical habits that help parents reduce stress and rediscover joy in raising kids. From carving out daily self-care to building meaningful family connections, creating morning routines, practicing gratitude, and unplugging from social media, she shows how small changes can create big emotional resilience and peace at home. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://thistimeofmine.com/stop-being-a-stressed-parent/ Quotes to ponder: “You can't manage stress if your cup isn't full. Period.” “The first hour or two sets the tone for the whole day. So make it count!” “When you're able to develop an attitude of gratitude you will be able to strengthen your emotional resilience and increase your capacity to handle stress.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2757: Kristena Eden offers compassionate guidance for parents navigating divorce, focusing on how to protect children from unnecessary pain during this difficult transition. She emphasizes the importance of reassurance, healthy routines, and respectful co-parenting, while also urging parents to model forgiveness, resilience, and emotional stability for their children's well-being. Her insights highlight both practical steps and deeper emotional principles that help families heal and move forward. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://corelivingessentials.com/divorce-and-our-kids/ Quotes to ponder: "Your patience, reassurance, and listening ear can minimize tension as your children learn to cope with these new circumstances." "Let them know it is not their fault that you are getting a divorce. This decision is entirely between the two of you." "The biggest way to find peace and share with your kids is to forgive. Forgiveness is for you not the person who hurt you." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2756: Cylon George explores how true companionship thrives through mutual strength, shared silence, forgiveness, and space for individuality. He reminds us that real love goes beyond sentiment, inviting us to see and accept our partners as they are while encouraging growth, humility, and deep connection. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.spirituallivingforbusypeople.com/the-art-of-companionship Quotes to ponder: “Lean on your companion when you need encouragement and support. Allow them to lean on you when they're stuck.” “You were made for more than yourself. You were made for relationship.” “Real relationships challenge us and help us grow.” Episode references: The Way to Love by Anthony De Mello: https://www.amazon.com/Way-Love-Anthony-Mello/dp/038524939X Letters to a Young Poet by Rainer Maria Rilke: https://www.amazon.com/Letters-Young-Poet-Rainer-Rilke/dp/0486422453 The Book of Joy by Dalai Lama and Desmond Tutu: https://www.amazon.com/Book-Joy-Lasting-Happiness-Changing/dp/0399185046 The Art of Loving by Erich Fromm: https://www.amazon.com/Art-Loving-Erich-Fromm/dp/0061129739 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2755: Cylon George reflects on the quiet epidemic of loneliness in a world full of artificial substitutes for connection. Through his own marriage and personal struggles, he explores the vulnerability, laughter, and openness that form the foundation of true companionship, reminding us that deep human connection is not optional but essential. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.spirituallivingforbusypeople.com/the-art-of-companionship Quotes to ponder: "Open up to each other with compassion, patience, and non-judgement." "Our desire for connection is not optional, it's a real need." "Companions learn to do this together. They laugh freely and often. They bring out laughter in each other." Episode references: The Book of Joy: https://www.amazon.com/Book-Joy-Lasting-Happiness-Changing/dp/0399185046 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2754: Evan Marc Katz explores the confusing dynamic of a man who acts like a devoted partner yet resists the label of “boyfriend.” He highlights both the red flags of someone unwilling to meet a partner's needs and the positive signs of genuine care, ultimately encouraging honest communication to uncover whether the relationship has a strong future or an inevitable ceiling. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/he-acts-like-a-boyfriend-but-he-doesnt-like-the-title Quotes to ponder: “If he's acting like a boyfriend, what's the harm of calling you his girlfriend?” “One of my dating credos is ‘believe the negative, ignore the positive.'” “You might be waiting your whole life to hear some words that shouldn't cost all that much to say.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2753: Sara Stanizai shares practical and compassionate ways to set healthy boundaries without guilt or unnecessary conflict. By identifying your true feelings, offering clear options, reinforcing positive behavior, and withholding energy from negative interactions, she shows how you can protect your well-being while maintaining respectful and supportive relationships. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.prospecttherapy.com/blog/2018/7/14/the-nice-persons-guide-to-setting-boundaries Quotes to ponder: "Person interrupting you? Ignore. Then keep talking." "When they don't get what they're looking for, the hope is that they'll eventually stop." "If you notice that someone did respect your limits on time, energy, emotional labor, or money, especially without asking, point it out!" Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2752: Mark Fisher breaks down how to reshape your fitness journey by aligning workouts with your actual lifestyle, personality, and goals. This practical, mindset-first approach helps you build habits you'll actually stick with, without guilt, pressure, or one-size-fits-all thinking. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://markfisherfitness.com/make-working-out-work-for-you/ Quotes to ponder: "Working out should work for you, not the other way around." "Consistency beats intensity when it comes to making progress." "There's no moral value in doing a certain kind of workout, or not doing it." Episode references: Bright Line Eating: https://brightlineeating.com/ Atomic Habits: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Habits-Proven-Build-Break/dp/0735211299 Gretchen Rubin's Four Tendencies Quiz: https://gretchenrubin.com/four-tendencies/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2751: Many people are quietly struggling with social anxiety, and it may be showing up in our everyday manners. Dr. Margaret Rutherford explores how our increasing reliance on screens and hesitation to commit to social events can leave us isolated, and offers a simple exercise to challenge avoidance and build confidence. Her reflections invite us to face discomfort with honesty and take small steps toward connection. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/are-we-losing-our-manners-how-to-confront-social-anxiety/ Quotes to ponder: "Not responding, not committing is a choice." "If you stay uncommitted, silent, you're actually committed to hiding." "Everyone else has their own insecurity. Everyone." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2750: Children often reach out about bullying only after trying, and failing, to handle it themselves. Amy Burzinski reminds us that the most powerful support parents can give is calm listening, thoughtful communication with schools, and modeling resilience. Her insights highlight how to help kids feel heard, safe, and empowered, even when we can't control others' behavior. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://parentingsimply.com/you-can-prevent-bullying-what-parents-need-to-know/ Quotes to ponder: “Chances are, your child is coming to you because they've exhausted their own options and need your help.” “The best help is simply having an adult to listen to them, and following up to see if the behavior stopped or was continuing, and giving further advice.” “Friendship is about quality, not quantity, and if you look at it that way, every child can be popular.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2749: Rose Lounsbury shares practical strategies for helping children release their attachment to material possessions with less struggle. By blending empathy, playful techniques, and gentle guidance, she shows parents how to teach kids that letting go can feel positive and empowering. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://roselounsbury.com/teaching-kids-to-let-it-go/ Quotes to ponder: “Kids often have a hard time letting go of things because they see their stuff as an extension of themselves.” “When kids see that their things can go on to make someone else happy, it's a lot easier for them to let go.” “Always let your kids know that the final decision is theirs.” Episode references: The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up: https://www.amazon.com/Life-Changing-Magic-Tidying-Decluttering-Organizing/dp/1607747308 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2748: Steve Pavlina explores practical ways to handle challenging relationships with relatives, emphasizing boundaries, self-respect, and conscious choice. He shows how shifting perspective can reduce stress and create more harmonious interactions, whether that means improving the relationship or letting go of unhealthy ties. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2005/08/dealing-with-difficult-relatives/ Quotes to ponder: "Every interaction you have with a relative is an opportunity to grow." "The key is to remember that you always have a choice in how you respond." "You cannot control how others behave, but you can control your own behavior and your own state of being." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2747: Eddie Corbano highlights the most damaging mistakes people often make after a breakup, showing how these behaviors can keep you stuck in pain and dependency. By avoiding these pitfalls, you open the door to healing, reclaiming your self-worth, and moving toward real emotional freedom. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lovesagame.com/have-you-made-these-mistakes-after-your-relationship-break-up/ Quotes to ponder: "Most people think they're moving on when in reality they're just staying stuck." "You cannot heal in the same environment where you got sick." "Every time you put your ex on a pedestal, you put yourself in the gutter." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2746: Dr. Jenny Brockis explores why so many of us struggle to remember names and offers practical, science-backed strategies to get better at it. From attention and anxiety to visualization and repetition, these techniques help foster stronger social and professional connections. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drjennybrockis.com/2010/3/29/sorry-what-did-you-say-your-name-was-how-to-remember-peoples-names-more-easily/ Quotes to ponder: "Remembering another person's name is important in both social and business situations." "Sometimes we get so hooked up on having to say our own name we forget to listen or take in the other person's name." "If all else fails, then you can simply ask the person their name." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2745: Dr. Susan Chanderbhan highlights how intentional questions can uncover deeper values, life goals, and emotional needs while dating. Her approach empowers individuals to move past surface-level attraction and determine whether a relationship has long-term potential. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.chandpsych.com/blog/8-questions-to-ask-when-dating-d8n5m Quotes to ponder: "Dating is not just about enjoying each other's company; it's about assessing long-term compatibility." "Understanding someone's priorities can prevent disappointments and conflicts later on." "Asking the right questions early helps avoid misunderstandings and wasted time." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2744: Briana Harry reveals how her morning routine serves as a sacred ritual for connecting with her highest self. Through meditation, journaling, and mindful movement, she demonstrates how intentional daily practices nurture clarity, presence, and self-alignment. Read along with the original article(s) here: http://www.yemash.com/writers-corner/my-highest-self-morning-routine Quotes to ponder: "By waking up earlier, I give myself the gift of presence before the noise of the world begins." "My morning routine allows me to show up for myself first, so I can show up for others with more clarity and intention." "Each ritual is an offering to my highest self, a reminder that my peace and balance matter." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2743: Diana Kirschner shares four practical strategies to protect your peace, strengthen your boundaries, and reclaim your power when dealing with a narcissist. She offers clear tools to shift the dynamic, reduce conflict, and create healthier interactions without losing yourself in the process. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lovein90days.com/how-to-deal-with-a-narcissist-four-powerful-ways/ Quotes to ponder: "One of the best ways to deal with a narcissist is to stop feeding them the drama they crave." "When you refuse to react, you take away their power." "Boundaries are your best friend when it comes to dealing with a narcissist." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2742: Sara Watkins sheds light on a lesser-discussed challenge of parenting: the anxiety and emotional exhaustion that come from socializing with other parents. For introverts, these encounters can feel like a minefield of forced small talk, awkward silences, and unseen pressures, making what should be casual interactions feel anything but. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://introvertdear.com/news/when-the-scariest-part-of-parenthood-is-socializing-with-other-parents/ Quotes to ponder: "It's not the playdates or the birthday parties themselves that exhaust me - it's the other parents." "I don't want to be rude or cold. I just find all the small talk and the constant social performance draining." "As much as I want to support my child's social life, sometimes I feel like I need a support group just to survive it." Episode references: Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking: https://www.amazon.com/Quiet-Power-Introverts-World-Talking/dp/0307352153 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2741: Shawna Scafe reveals how even the chaos of renovating a basement with toddlers can become a meaningful learning experience for the whole family. From teamwork and responsibility to creativity and resilience, kids pick up lifelong skills when they're invited into the process, not just as observers, but as tiny, snack-fueled apprentices. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://simpleonpurpose.ca/renovations-with-kids/ Quotes to ponder: "Renovating your home can be a metaphor for renovating your life." "I remembered my own childhood, the pride of holding a metal, pingy hammer with two cautious hands to swing at the nail he designated as ‘my job'." "I hope they can learn that they are in control of more things in life than they will want or realize." Episode references: The Enneagram Institute: https://www.enneagraminstitute.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2740: Jaime reflects on how joining her husband's creative project brought both excitement and conflict, ultimately teaching them the importance of intentional connection. By rediscovering the power of dreaming together and supporting each other's goals, she shows how couples can strengthen their bond, rebuild trust, and create a shared vision for the future. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.keepthrifty.com/marriage-lesson-mini-retirement/ Quotes to ponder: “Dreaming together and supporting each other in our dreams is what led us here. It's what saved our marriage years ago when we thought we were going to end up separated.” “When we support each other in accomplishing those dreams, we work together, we create together, we succeed together.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2739: Jaime shares the emotional highs and lows of supporting her husband's mini-retirement, from pursuing new dreams together to facing unexpected conflicts and feelings of invisibility. Through open communication and small, thoughtful gestures, they rediscover how to stay connected and supportive in the midst of life's big changes. Her story highlights both the challenges and rewards of navigating transformation as a couple. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.keepthrifty.com/marriage-lesson-mini-retirement/ Quotes to ponder: “Every week brings a new challenge in our marriage. It's exciting and exhausting. There are tears and laughter.” “When I was able to bring my vision to life, Chris could see it and support it. He stopped backpedaling, and we were able to move forward together!” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2738: Heather Gray highlights how honoring a partner's needs strengthens intimacy and builds emotional security. By choosing acceptance over resistance, couples foster respect, reduce power struggles, and create lasting connection. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.gottman.com/blog/why-you-need-to-accept-your-partners-needs/ Quotes to ponder: "Accepting your partner's needs is a way of showing respect for them and the relationship." "When both partners are willing to accept influence, they are more likely to find win-win solutions." "Rejecting influence is essentially rejecting your partner." Episode references: Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love: https://www.amazon.com/Eight-Dates-Essential-Conversations-Lifetime/dp/1523504463 The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: https://www.amazon.com/Seven-Principles-Making-Marriage-Work/dp/0553447718 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2737: Evan Marc Katz highlights how difficult it can be to navigate relationships with partners who are unclear about their desires, especially regarding commitment and family. He emphasizes the importance of character, consistency, and responsibility as early markers of a trustworthy partner, offering women practical insights to avoid wasting years on the wrong person. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/how-can-i-identify-and-avoid-men-who-dont-know-what-they-want Quotes to ponder: “Cheating is never an acceptable response to a failing relationship.” “A man of character does what he says and says what he means.” “If conversations make him uncomfortable and he can't discuss important topics without getting overheated or shutting down, he may be a good guy, but he'll be a terrible husband.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2736: Andy Hill explains how a Dependent Care FSA can provide significant tax savings for families with daycare expenses, while also highlighting the importance of planning ahead for its “use it or lose it” rules. He expands on other workplace benefits like 401(k) matches, HSAs with their triple tax advantage, and employer-provided perks that can help families save money and build long-term wealth. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://marriagekidsandmoney.com/dependent-care-fsa Quotes to ponder: “Like the Flexible Spending Arrangement (or Account), it is essentially a separate account where you can save pre-tax money for use on qualified expenses.” “Remember that an FSA is a ‘use it or lose it' program.” “Your HSA contributions are tax-deductible and your investments grow tax-free. And you can withdraw your money, tax-free at any time as long as you're using the funds for qualified medical expenses.” Episode references: IRS Qualified Medical Expenses List: https://www.irs.gov/publications/p502 Lively HSA: https://livelyme.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2735: Dr. Mariette Jansen explores how strained mother-daughter relationships can be softened by shifting focus from trying to change the other person to adjusting one's own responses. Through her client Trish's story, she shows how acceptance, setting conversational boundaries, and understanding generational differences can replace conflict with deeper connection and love. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drdestress.co.uk/how-improve-my-relationship-with-my-mother/ Quotes to ponder: "Unfortunately, Trish wants to change her mum. But one of the principles in the ‘instruction book of life' is that you can only change yourself." "Her children are great to her and the approval of a grandmother is actually irrelevant." "Two different experiences, valid in their own right." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2734: Children today are increasingly exposed to risk factors for eating disorders, but as Crystal Karges explains, prevention starts at home. By modeling a healthy relationship with food, rejecting diet culture, and teaching body diversity, parents can create a nurturing environment that protects their children's self-esteem and overall well-being. Her guidance empowers families to focus on resilience and holistic health rather than blame or restriction. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.crystalkarges.com/blog/can-i-prevent-my-child-from-developing-an-eating-disorder Quotes to ponder: "Biology loads the gun and environment pulls the trigger." "There is NO wrong way to have a body." "By being the role model for a healthy relationship with food, you can create the nurturing environment your child needs." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2733: Alyssa challenges the belief that moms must choose between caring for themselves and being present with their kids. By reframing self-care as essential for patience, joy, and modeling healthy boundaries, she shows how tending to your own needs makes you a better parent and teaches children resilience and balance. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://yourunbusylife.com/false-choice-me-time-mom-time/ Quotes to ponder: "It's not a choice between me time vs. story time. It's a choice between snapping mommy and snuggle mommy." "You know what you're modeling to your kids? That being a mom is such an important task, that they better give up everyone and everything they love and spend twenty years as the household drudge." "Really, the point of taking care of yourself is so that you can take care of the kids." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2732: Sara Stanizai explains how impostor syndrome goes beyond simple self-doubt, often leaving high-achievers feeling undeserving of their success and disconnected from their own accomplishments. She highlights how bicultural and immigrant communities experience this even more deeply, caught between family expectations and mainstream measures of success, which can lead to isolation, anxiety, and burnout. With practical insights on recognizing signs and seeking support, her work offers a path toward reframing self-worth and grounding it in personal values. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.prospecttherapy.com/blog/2020/3/3/what-is-impostor-syndrome-and-how-do-i-fix-it Quotes to ponder: "I literally don't know what I'm doing, and sooner or later they'll figure that out." "When your primary support system (your family) doesn't know how to validate your success, you can start to believe it doesn't count." "Therapy will also move your measures of success internally, toward your own values and goals, instead of focusing on external factors,  like other people's opinions, your bank account, or your professional roles." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2731: Dr. Jennifer Jill Harman challenges the popular notion of "closure" by revealing its psychological ambiguity and emotional elusiveness. Through personal reflection and psychological theory, she suggests that seeking definite answers after heartbreak may do more harm than good, and that true healing comes from embracing uncertainty, not resolving it. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.luvze.com/i-need-closure-why-it-is-not-possible-to-get-it/ Quotes to ponder: "Closure has never really been defined." "Some therapists have gone so far to state that true closure is a 'myth' and impossible to achieve." "The take-home message is to be OK with not knowing 'why' things ended." Episode references: The Power of Now: https://www.amazon.com/Power-Now-Guide-Spiritual-Enlightenment/dp/1577314808 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2730: Keith Wilson explains why talking about feelings can be so difficult, tracing the process from raw emotion to the words we use to describe it. He highlights how mislabeling emotions, subconscious associations, and the fear of humiliation often complicate self-expression, while also reminding us that the right listener can make vulnerability both possible and deeply healing. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://medium.com/hello-love/why-is-it-hard-to-talk-about-feelings-2747a1e90c1f Quotes to ponder: "Having the right word changes how your message is received as well as your own understanding of the feeling." "So, anyone who claims they can talk about their feelings is wrong. There is always a point beyond which they can't because feelings originate in that place beyond words and personal understanding." "Sometimes the reason it's hard to talk about your feelings is because you haven't found the right person to talk to, but keep looking." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2729: Keith Wilson explores why expressing emotions can be so challenging, even for those who are emotionally intelligent. He highlights common barriers like fear of rejection, conflict avoidance, and low self-esteem, while also unpacking the deeper complexity of how raw sensations become personal feelings and then words. His insights offer a clearer understanding of both our own struggles with communication and the compassion needed when others wrestle with theirs. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://medium.com/hello-love/why-is-it-hard-to-talk-about-feelings-2747a1e90c1f Quotes to ponder: "Some feelings are so hideous you'd rather they never saw the light of day." "You took a raw experience, made it into a personal experience, and then packaged it for others." "It's like your teacher said in math class, show your work. It's not enough in math class to have the right answer, you need to be able to demonstrate how you arrived at the answer." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2728: Krista O'Reilly-Davi-Digui encourages us to pause when life feels overwhelming and return to simple, grounding practices. By focusing on what truly matters and stripping away the noise, she shows how reconnecting with the basics can restore clarity, peace, and a sense of direction. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.alifeinprogress.ca/get-off-track-get-back-basics/ Quotes to ponder: “When life feels too much, go back to the basics.” “Pull back. Breathe. Reorient yourself toward what matters most.” “The basics bring you back home to yourself.” Episode references: Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less: https://www.amazon.com/Essentialism-Disciplined-Pursuit-Greg-McKeown/dp/0804137382 The Happiness Project: https://www.amazon.com/Happiness-Project-Revised-Aristotle-Generally/dp/0062414852 The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up: https://www.amazon.com/Life-Changing-Magic-Tidying-Decluttering-Organizing/dp/1607747308 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2727: Charlene Jimenez shares the lessons she's intentionally passing on to her daughters as a highly sensitive parent, from creating a safe emotional home to teaching them the power of saying no. By embracing sensitivity as strength, she shows how parents can nurture self-acceptance, resilience, and balance in their children. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://highlysensitiverefuge.com/highly-sensitive-parent-teach-kids/ Quotes to ponder: "Self-acceptance is a powerful thing, and I worked too hard and too long to learn that lesson." "My home is a place where my children are allowed to be emotional, sensitive, and feeling." "It requires strength to say no, but I want my daughters to know from the beginning that they can - and should." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2726: Adina Soclof explains how empathy strengthens parent-child relationships by helping children regulate emotions, build resilience, and develop social and academic skills. She addresses common barriers parents face, such as empathy feeling unnatural, permissive, or limiting, and offers practical examples of how to combine empathy with guidance, boundaries, and respect. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://parentingsimply.com/how-to-use-empathy-in-the-most-difficult-parenting-situations/ Quotes to ponder: "Children of empathetic parents are better able to manage their own difficult emotions, can soothe themselves, and get angry less often." "When parents listen and empathize, it does not mean that they are condoning negative behavior." "It is important to remember that empathy does not mean that you agree with what your child is telling you." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2725: Rachel Jones offers practical strategies to help children embrace decluttering without conflict, focusing on building lifelong habits around responsibility and organization. By modeling behavior, breaking tasks into manageable steps, and connecting cleaning with meaningful rewards, she shows parents how to make tidying up less overwhelming and more empowering for kids. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://nourishingminimalism.com/encourage-kids-clean-declutter/ Quotes to ponder: “Helping them to establish routines teaches them habits that will last a lifetime and will keep their space from ending up an overwhelming mess.” “Specific directions make it clear what you expect from them. With time and practice, they'll know what to do.” “Some are more prone to organization than others, but generally speaking, kids aren't born knowing how to clean and manage stuff.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2724: Alysha Jeney explores the stigma around being labeled “too needy” in relationships, showing how fear of rejection often leads people to suppress their true needs. She emphasizes that wanting reassurance and security is natural, and the key lies in expressing these needs vulnerably and responsibly, creating space for deeper connection rather than conflict. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/too-needy/ Quotes to ponder: “You have the right to feel secure in your relationship, and believe it or not, we have to work together in order to achieve mutual security!” “You will always be perceived as ‘too needy' or too much if you choose to not express your fears and needs in a calm, vulnerable way.” “This version of requesting your needs is not ‘too needy;' they are normal and healthy.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2723: Danielle Dowling highlights how craving alone time in a relationship doesn't mean something is wrong, it can actually be a sign of balance and self-care. She shares five subtle indicators that space might be needed, from bickering over small things to losing touch with your passions, and encourages open communication to keep individuality and connection thriving. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://introvertdear.com/news/signs-alone-time-relationship/ Quotes to ponder: "Don't let what you love to do slip because of time spent with who you love." "If you no longer feel like yourself, but rather, like one-half of a partnership, then you likely need some time alone." "Distance actually can make both your and your partner's hearts grow fonder when that space is created with intention and communication." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2722: Dr. Diana Kirschner explores the growing trend of couples living together before marriage, highlighting surprising research on break-up rates, divorce, and the hidden emotional toll, especially for women. She emphasizes that lasting success in cohabitation depends less on convenience and more on a deep level of commitment, communication, and willingness to work through inevitable challenges. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lovein90days.com/living-together-before-marriage/ Quotes to ponder: "About 53% of all first marriages were preceded by living together." "Most current studies show that if a person has lived with multiple partners, she/he will likely end up in a break-up or divorce." "A couple that is living together has to be more willing to work on the inevitable differences, disappointments, and setbacks that inevitably occur." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2721: Melissa Josue offers a thoughtful lens on relationship insecurity, encouraging readers to explore the deeper emotions behind jealousy or discomfort when remnants of a partner's past remain in the present. Instead of assuming lingering attachments, she emphasizes the importance of communication, self-awareness, and asking for reassurance to foster emotional clarity and trust. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://melissathelovecoach.com/my-boyfriend-still-has-his-ex-wifes-stuff/ Quotes to ponder: "He assured me he wasn't keeping it out of sentiment or pining for the past." "You have beliefs about these objects in his house and about what those objects mean. Are those beliefs TRUE?" "If you're feeling insecure, it's ok to ask for reassurance." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2720: Nicholas Kraft captures a moving dialogue between Denis Waitley and Patty Aubery, showing how gratitude, resilience, and perspective shape a fulfilling life. Their exchange offers powerful reminders that even in difficult times, we can choose growth, connection, and joy. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://livehappy.com/when-denis-met-patty/ Quotes to ponder: "Gratitude is the beginning of greatness." "You can't always control what happens to you, but you can control how you respond." "Happiness is not a destination; it's a way of traveling." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2719: Evan Marc Katz shares a revealing coaching experience with a man who blames women for his dating struggles, highlighting the deeper truth that real change begins within. His story serves as a mirror, urging us to question where in our own lives we might be playing the victim instead of taking ownership and adapting for better results. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/why-certain-men-will-never-do-well-with-women-and-what-you-can-learn-from-them Quotes to ponder: “I hate to tell you, my friend, but the problem isn't with all the women in Seattle. The ONLY thing we can do is change how YOU'RE approaching dating.” “What I'm telling you, James, is that you're the common denominator in your life.” “Your job isn't to CHANGE men. It's to become the kind of woman who UNDERSTANDS men, ATTRACTS men, KEEPS men happy, and CHOOSES good men.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2718: Kristena Eden explains how different parenting styles shape children's emotional strength, confidence, and ability to thrive. She emphasizes the importance of building an authoritative approach rooted in warmth, guidance, and respect, while also encouraging parents to understand their children's unique needs and abilities to create a nurturing environment for growth. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://corelivingessentials.com/how-to-talk-so-your-kids-will-listen-and-listen-when-your-kids-talk/ Quotes to ponder: "Showing them respect is the best way to teach them to respect others." "The biggest way to increase trust is to avoid being critical, but if there is a concern, discuss it and work together for solutions." "If their needs are fulfilled they are a lot happier and a lot less rebellious." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2717: Kristena Eden explores how shifting our focus from control to connection can transform the way children respond to us. Drawing from a teacher's raw memoir of classroom struggles, she illustrates how authoritarian approaches often backfire, while attentive listening and trust-building open the door to cooperation, self-belief, and stronger relationships. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://corelivingessentials.com/how-to-talk-so-your-kids-will-listen-and-listen-when-your-kids-talk/ Quotes to ponder: “Time and time again I had been told, ‘Those students are worthless and disrespectful children.'” “My ideal classroom, a pleasant place for learning, had become a war zone.” “They lash out or they turn so far in that they are very hard to reach. They lose their identity and their belief in themselves.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2716: Shawna Scafe explores how romantic comedies shape our expectations of love, often leaving us disappointed when reality doesn't match the script. She highlights the importance of moving beyond fairytale ideals and instead cultivating relationships rooted in authenticity, effort, and genuine connection. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://simpleonpurpose.ca/how-romcoms-ruin-our-relationships/ Quotes to ponder: "Romcoms are basically the coles notes of the whole messy process of building a relationship." "We make a mental checklist of how our life should look, and then we use it against our actual life." "The happiest relationships are the ones where we don't rely on each other for our happiness but we add to each other's happiness." Episode references: The Conscious Parent: https://www.amazon.com/Conscious-Parent-Transforming-Ourselves-Empowering/dp/1897238452 Hold Me Tight: https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Me-Tight-Conversations-Lifetime/dp/031611300X The Happiness Project: https://www.amazon.com/Happiness-Project-Aristotle-Generally-Satisfying/dp/006158326X Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2715: Kyle Benson highlights three subtle yet destructive betrayals, emotional cheating, conditional love, and emotional withdrawal, that often go unrecognized in committed relationships. By exploring how everyday disloyalties erode trust and intimacy, he offers couples practical steps to rebuild connection and commitment before deeper damage takes hold. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.gottman.com/blog/3-betrayals-ruin-relationships-arent-infidelity/ Quotes to ponder: "Anything that violates a committed relationship's contract of mutual trust, respect, and protection can be disastrous." "Couples that unconditionally love each other live by the motto, 'baby, when you hurt, the world stops and I listen.'" "Emotional withdrawal sets in when bids are ignored." Episode references: What Makes Love Last?: https://www.amazon.com/What-Makes-Love-Last-Betrayal/dp/1451608489 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2714: Dr. Allison Niebes-Davis shares how shifting from blame-filled “you statements” to empowering “I statements” can transform communication and reduce defensiveness in relationships. By owning our emotions and reframing difficult conversations, we create space for healthier dialogue, deeper connection, and greater understanding in both personal and professional settings. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drallisonanswers.com/relationships/the-communication-strategy-that-can-change-your-relationships/ Quotes to ponder: "I statements provide an opportunity to talk about our emotional experience in a healthy way, reducing blame and finger pointing, warding off defensiveness and escalation." "I statements take ownership of the way we feel and acknowledge our experience as OUR experience, nothing more, nothing less." "Even if you just place the words 'I feel' in front of whatever you were originally going to say, that can diffuse the tension enough to make some headway." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2713: Susan Chanderbhan explores two crucial aspects of emotional well-being: recognizing the often-hidden signs of emotional abuse in relationships and offering meaningful support to loved ones struggling with mental health challenges. Her insights remind us that abuse doesn't always leave visible scars and that true support comes from listening, educating ourselves, and encouraging professional help when needed. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.chandpsych.com/blog/is-your-relationship-emotionally-abusive-6-sure-signs & https://www.chandpsych.com/blog/mental-healthcare-supporting-your-loved-one Quotes to ponder: "Physical wounds heal, but emotional scars can last for years." "Extreme jealousy or possessiveness is another form of emotional abuse." "Educating yourself, listening, and encouraging your loved one to get help are key elements to helping them through their struggles." Episode references: National Alliance on Mental Illness: https://www.nami.org National Institute of Mental Health: https://www.nimh.nih.gov Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2712: Michael Smith warns how unchecked college costs and easy credit can derail young adults before they start, then lays out practical ways parents can prepare kids early to make smarter, lower-cost education choices. You'll hear strategies for building money skills, comparing true ROI of schools and majors, and pursuing scholarships and alternative paths that keep opportunity high and debt low. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.financialfinesse.com/2012/06/08/i-dont-want-my-kids-to-be-crushed-by-student-loans-do-you/ Quotes to ponder: "It's becoming increasingly common for me to see people who are paying more each month in student loan payments than they are for rent." "Is there a benefit for paying $60,000 per year that you can't get by paying $5,000 - $10,000?" "One of the best gifts you can give your children is to help them avoid a lifetime of debt after graduation." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2711: Cari Dugan reflects on the deep meaning of marriage vows as she recounts her journey with Michael through financial struggles, sickness, and seasons of growth. Her story illustrates how love becomes more tangible in hardship and how true commitment is forged by choosing to serve and support each other in both the beautiful and the difficult moments of life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ericalayne.co/marriage-diaries-weight-vows/ Quotes to ponder: "We had nothing but we had each other. I still look back at that time in our life as a time when life was beautiful." "I always knew Michael loved me but it was during that time that his love was made concrete. I could visibly see it. I could feel it in a way that I couldn't before." "I think it was then that I learned that it is possible to still love even when we are on the brink of ourselves." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2710: A calm and intentional evening routine can transform mornings from chaotic to smooth. Cara Harvey shares practical strategies for prepping ahead, like setting out clothes, packing bags, and planning time blocks, while also reminding moms to carve out time for personal growth, self-care, and reflection. Her approach balances household organization with mental well-being, helping moms end the day with peace and purpose. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://apurposedrivenmom.com/evening-routine-stay-at-home-moms/ Quotes to ponder: "Prepping for tomorrow really allows you to start your day with ease because you have things done and know what to expect." "I like to close out my day with time for me and, as a stay at home mom, it's very important you do the same." "By ending your day for you, you'll go to bed with less anxiety, more peace and feeling jazzed about the next day." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2709: Cara Harvey emphasizes the importance of an intentional evening routine for stay-at-home moms, noting that it sets the stage for calmer mornings and less stress. By breaking the evening into three parts, closing out today, preparing for tomorrow, and making space for yourself, she shows how small, consistent actions can reduce decision fatigue and build a sense of progress and flexibility. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://apurposedrivenmom.com/evening-routine-stay-at-home-moms/ Quotes to ponder: "A good evening routine will set up your day for success." "This is not the time to complete your entire to do list, berate yourself for ‘not doing enough', or feel like a failure, this is the time when you get done what you know will decrease your stress and set you up for success tomorrow." "Remember, there is power in a checklist." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2708: Shelby Forsythia explores the often-overlooked emotional toll of breakups, contrasting them with the grief of death. While death halts a shared future, breakups add the unique pain of witnessing an ex continue building a life without you. She calls for greater societal recognition of breakup grief, encouraging empathy, acknowledgment, and the space to honor what was lost. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://medium.com/@shelbyforsythia/the-crucial-difference-between-a-death-and-a-breakup-12c84747d538 Quotes to ponder: "Death is different than a breakup. They both hurt in totally different ways. Them still being alive just gives us new things to grieve." "With death, you mourn the future. But in a breakup, you mourn the future and then have to watch your ex live a new future without you." "We need to honor our breakups, not just in the moments they happen, but as they continue to impact our lives." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices