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In this episode of The D Shift, Mardi Winder speaks with financial strategist and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst Donna Cates about the financial decisions in divorce that many people misunderstand and the costly mistakes that can follow.Donna shares her experience working with clients both during and after divorce, explaining how seemingly simple decisions can have long-term financial consequences. From tax implications to retirement accounts, she highlights how what looks “equal” on paper is often far from equal in reality. Mardi and Donna explore why many people feel overwhelmed or unprepared to make financial decisions during divorce, especially when they have not been involved in managing finances during the marriage. They emphasize the importance of understanding your options before agreeing to a settlement and the risks of relying solely on legal advice without financial expertise.This discussion includes:• Why equal asset division does not always mean equal value• Hidden tax consequences that can impact divorce settlements• How retirement accounts are divided and why timing matters• The role of a QDRO and common mistakes people make• Why keeping the marital home is not always the best financial decisionThe conversation also highlights how timing plays a critical role in financial decisions, particularly when it comes to retirement accounts, rollovers, and avoiding unnecessary penalties. Donna explains how missing key steps or delaying important actions can cost both time and money.About the Guest:Donna Cates is the founder of Money Matters Wealth Solutions and a Financial Strategist, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® (CDFA®), and retirement planning specialist who helps women become financially unshakeable. She works with women navigating major life transitions such as divorce, widowhood, retirement, and reinvention, guiding them to build real wealth, real security, and real options. Donna's work isn't about fear-based planning or playing small. It's about clarity, confidence, and the power to choose on a woman's own terms. She believes true financial security is about dignity, peace, and freedom, and that no woman should ever have to rely on someone else to protect her future.For Donna' book “A Woman's Guide To Financial Security And Fair Settlement: Because She Is Her Own Financial Plan (Divorce Decoded)”: https://a.co/d/0dzvMCoqTo connect with Donna: Website: https://moneymatterswealth.com/FB: http://www.facebook.com/MoneyMattersWealth LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/donnacates/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/donnacates Divorce FB: http://www.facebook.com/DivorceDivasAlabama/ Email: donna@wwbpartners.com About the HostMardi Winder is a Strategic Divorce Consultant and High-Conflict Divorce Coach who helps high-achieving individuals navigate divorce with clarity, confidence, and control. Drawing on more than 30 years of experience in mediation, divorce coaching and conflict resolution, she supports clients in making smart decisions while reducing emotional and financial fallout, particularly in high-conflict, high-asset and complex divorces. Mardi is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and the Strategic Divorce Directory, LLC.For Mardi's gift: The Resilience Building Blueprint: A 28-Day Journey To A Stronger You https://www.divorcecoach4women.com/rbbConnect with Mardi on Social Media:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4womenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4womenThanks for Listening!Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.Do you have feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!Subscribe to the PodcastIf you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app.Leave an Apple Podcast ReviewRatings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.
Divorce is already one of the hardest things a person can go through. What makes it worse is finding out months or years later that a financial decision made in the middle of all that pain cost you tens of thousands of dollars in taxes you never planned for. That's what this episode is about.Jamie Lima, CDFA and CFP at Allegiant Divorce Solutions, is back on the show to break down what most people completely miss when divorce and tax season collide. We're talking about filing status, dependent claims, retirement account splits, pension valuations, and the one clause you need in every divorce agreement before you sign anything. This isn't theory. This is the stuff that shows up in real cases and wrecks real financial plans.We walk through a real client situation involving a business, three real estate properties, a 401k, and a distribution nobody saw coming. We get into the QDRO process in plain language, why AI is creating problems in divorce documents right now, and why the number on your pension statement is almost never the right number. If you're going through a divorce, recently finalized one, or know someone who is, this episode is required listening.Watch the full episode on YouTubeConnect with Jamie Lima directly at https://allegiantds.com or find him on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamielima/, Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamiemlima/, Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jamiemlima/, and X: https://x.com/jamiemlimaIf you want to understand how all of this connects to your broader financial picture, book a Power Hour with me at . One hour. Real answers. A plan you can actually use.If this hit home, drop a comment. Tell me where you're feeling it most. I read every single one.New episodes every week on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. Subscribe so you never miss a real conversation.
This episode explores the complexities of market reactions to geopolitical events, the importance of understanding the Quadro in divorce settlements, and the impact on retirement planning. Host Jon Sanchez provides insights into market volatility, negotiation tactics, and legal considerations for retirement assets.Chapters00:00 Market Reactions to Global Events13:17 Understanding the Impact of Divorce on Retirement14:57 The Role of Qualified Domestic Relations Orders (QDROs)27:27 DisclaimerResources & LinksSanchez Gaunt Wealth ManagementConnect with Jon SanchezLinkedInFacebookInstagramYouTube• • Blog
Geopolitical tensions flared over the weekend as military strikes involving the U.S., Israel, and Iran sent shockwaves through global headlines. But how did markets actually respond? We break down the reaction across energy prices, defense stocks, travel shares, and inflation expectations — and what investors should watch in the weeks ahead.Moments like these often raise the same question: what does this mean for my portfolio? Looking at historical data from past geopolitical crises, we discuss how the S&P 500 has typically behaved during periods of uncertainty, why short-term volatility can look very different from long-term outcomes, and how investors can stay grounded by focusing on discipline rather than prediction.Then we turn to the growing conversation around artificial intelligence and jobs. After Block announced significant layoffs with CEO Jack Dorsey pointing to AI as a key driver, we explore whether AI is truly replacing that much human capital — or if other business realities like a weak crypto market, past hiring trends, and stock performance may also be influencing the decision.Finally, Managing Associate Melanie Wells joins the show to discuss what earning the Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® designation adds to financial planning during divorce. Using a real-world style case study, we examine how retirement accounts, pensions, stock options, real estate, and even debt are evaluated — and why in divorce planning, “fair” doesn't always mean “equal.”Join hosts Nick Antonucci, CVA, CEPA, Director of Research, and Managing Associates K.C. Smith, CFP®, CEPA, and D.J. Barker, CWS®, and Kelly-Lynne Scalice, a seasoned communicator and host, on Henssler Money Talks as they explore key financial strategies to help investors navigate market uncertainty. Henssler Money Talks — March 7, 2026 | Season 40, Episode 10Timestamps and Chapters8:14 War Headlines and Wall Street19:08: Discipline Over Drama24:20: Separating Signal from Story 33:59: The Hidden Financial Decisions in DivorceFollow Henssler: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HensslerFinancial/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/HensslerFinancial LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/henssler-financial/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hensslerfinancial/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hensslerfinancial?lang=en X: https://www.x.com/hensslergroup “Henssler Money Talks” is brought to you by Henssler Financial. Sign up for the Money Talks Newsletter: https://www.henssler.com/newsletters/ Certified Financial Planner Board of Standards Center for Financial Planning, Inc. owns and licenses the certification marks CFP®, CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER®, and CFP® (with plaque design) in the United States to Certified Financial Planner Board of Standards, Inc., which authorizes individuals who successfully complete the organization's initial and ongoing certification requirements to use the certification marks.See important disclosures at Henssler.com
AI can explain what a QDRO is — but it cannot protect your financial future. In this episode of We Chat Divorce, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan break down why relying on AI for retirement division in divorce leads to costly, irreversible mistakes. They explain what QDROs actually do, what AI misses, and why verified plan rules, tax impact, and liquidity matter — especially in grey divorce. If retirement accounts are part of your divorce, this conversation will change how you approach every decision. MDS Financial Portrait™ Free MDS Community Source article: https://www.thestreet.com/retirement/gray-divorce-shifts-retirement-one-legal-document-saves-your-401k Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
If you're going through divorce and feeling overwhelmed by the financial decisions in front of you, you are not imagining it. There is far more to divorce financial planning than most people are ever told. Divorce creates financial challenges that most traditional financial advisors simply are not trained to handle, which is why I invited Jamie Lima, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and the founder of Allegiant Divorce Solutions, to the show to help demystify the financial realities of divorce. Jamie explains why dividing assets during divorce is rarely as straightforward as it seems, especially once taxes, retirement accounts, and long-term consequences are factored in. We talk about some of the most common and costly blind spots women face, including critical documents like QDROs, along with who actually carries the tax burden when assets are divided. Throughout the conversation, we come back to one essential truth. You should not be navigating this alone. Divorce requires a team, and having the right financial expertise can protect your future long after the paperwork is signed. What you'll hear about in this episode: What a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst does and why divorce financial planning is different from traditional financial planning (2:02) What a QDRO is, how it works, and why it is essential when retirement accounts and pensions are involved (7:38) How after tax value changes the true worth of assets in a divorce settlement (17:43) The most common financial mistakes people make during divorce and what Jamie wishes everyone knew before signing an agreement (31:28) Learn more about Jamie Lima, CDFA®: After watching her parents go through a divorce at a young age, and experiencing a tremendously expensive and emotionally draining divorce herself in 2017, she launched Allegiant Divorce Solutions as a sister company to her traditional financial planning firm. She recognizes the challenges people face as they decide how to handle their finances during divorce. Her parents struggled, and it was challenging for her as well. Looking back, there were mistakes she made during her own divorce that could have been avoided had she had the support of a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst ®. At present, armed with this ever growing knowledge and almost 20 years of financial planning experience, she is dedicated to helping her clients navigate the complex aspects of divorce and gain a fair settlement, with much less stress. Resources & Links: Get Your Curated Podcast PlaylistFocused Strategy Sessions with Kate The Divorce Survival Guide Resource BundlePhoenix Rising: A Divorce Empowerment CollectiveKate on InstagramKate on FacebookKate's Substack Newsletter: Divorce Coaching Dispatch The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast Episodes are also available YouTube! Jamie's websiteJamie on LinkedIn Jamie on Instagram Jamie on TikTok Jamie on Facebook =================== DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY, COACH, OR THERAPIST IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM. =================== Episode link: https://kateanthony.com/podcast/episode-351-protecting-your-financial-future-during-divorce-with-jamie-lima-cdfa/
Divorce is already brutal. But when the money is handled wrong, it stops being “emotional pain” and turns into “your future just got cut in half.” In today's 12 Days of Giving episode, Jamie Lima is back—and we walk through a real case where a woman was about to sign a settlement that would have effectively given away $300K–$400K she didn't need to lose and forced her to sell the home she desperately wanted to keep for her and her special needs daughter. Jamie breaks down how this client—Mary—came to him at the tail end of her divorce. Attorney in place. Settlement basically done. Everyone “felt” like it was fair. But the numbers didn't smell right. Once Jamie dug into the pension valuation, the 401(k), the house, and the way the QDRO was being handled, it became clear: the math was wrong, the tax advice was off, and she was about to pay the price for other people's blind spots.We get into the uncomfortable truth: most divorce attorneys are not money people. They're experts in law, not in pensions, actuarial tables, tax rules, or QDROs. Yet millions of people just nod along and sign whatever's in front of them—because they're exhausted, emotional, and just want it to be over. That's exactly how life-changing mistakes get locked in for the next 20–30 years.You'll hear how a simple 30-day “divorce clarity” review turned a $2,000 investment into a $400,000 problem avoided, allowed Mary to keep her house, protect her daughter's future, and avoid an unnecessary tax hit that her original advice would have triggered. This isn't theory. This is what it looks like when someone who actually understands the numbers steps into the process.If you're going through a divorce—or you know someone who is—this episode is your wake-up call. Get a second opinion. Stop letting emotions and fatigue make permanent financial decisions. And stop pretending your attorney is your financial planner.
In this episode, host Tracy Ann Moore-Grant discusses the intricacies of drafting a good settlement agreement with attorney Kathryn Harry. They cover essential topics such as the importance of specificity in agreements, the legal requirements for child support, tax considerations in divorce settlements, and the role of Qualified Domestic Relations Orders (QDROs) in dividing retirement accounts. The conversation emphasizes the necessity of legal advice to ensure that agreements are clear, enforceable, and protect the interests of both parties. How to Work with Kathryn HarryIf you're divorcing in Illinois or Georgia, Kathryn can help you prepare a detailed, enforceable, and fair settlement agreement—and make sure your QDRO and financial documents are handled properly.
⚖️ How to Minimize Financial Losses During a Divorce Settlement? | Los Angeles Divorce
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Ready to regain your confidence and clarity during divorce? Join Karen McMahon's High Conflict Divorce Support Group—a 6-session group coaching program designed to help you manage triggers, set boundaries, and take back control. -- In this empowering episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, Karen McMahon sits down with Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® Jacki Roessler to explore what really happens with your money after the ink dries on your divorce agreement. If you're wondering what financial steps to take after divorce, this conversation is your roadmap. Jacki walks you through a strategic post-divorce financial plan—from what to tackle in the first 3 months to a full year out. We dig deep into smart post-divorce money moves, like organizing your settlement paperwork, budgeting for your new reality, managing name changes and property titles, and understanding why delaying your QDRO (Qualified Domestic Relations Order) can be a costly mistake. With nearly 30 years of experience, Jacki shares insider tips on navigating stock options, RSUs, cash flow, taxes, and more. You'll walk away with a clear, actionable post-divorce financial checklist—and a free customizable worksheet to help you rebuild your financial identity with clarity and confidence. Connect with Jacki: Free Gift: Post-Divorce Game Plan - https://www.roesslerdivorce.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/09/post-divorce-gameplan-fillable.pdf Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jackiroessler/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JackiRoesslerCDFA Website:: https://www.roesslerdivorce.com/ Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/divorce-rich-with-jacki-roessler-cdfa/id1735150222 Resources Mentioned in this episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Join the High Conflict Divorce Support Group: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/hcdsg