Podcast appearances and mentions of William J Doherty

In this episode April Bordeau and family therapist, Teresa Haskins, explore the signs and benefits of seeking family therapy, exploring how it can be a powerful tool for improving communication, resolving conflicts, and enhancing overall family dynamics. Whether you're struggling with ongoing conflicts, experiencing a challenging transition, or simply looking to strengthen relationships, family therapy offers a space for healing and growth. We'll discuss the various benefits of family therapy and why it's an essential aspect of mental health and well-being. Join us as we emphasize that therapy is not about fixing one person but changing family dynamics. Topics discussed:When is it time for family therapy?What does family therapy address?What is the role of each family member?Common mythsPractical TipsAction Items:Call Care to Change to get connected with an experienced family therapist who can assess the family's needs.Read the book "Parenting from the Inside Out" by Daniel J. Siegel to understand how past trauma can impact family dynamics.Read the book "Intentional Family" by William J. Doherty  to learn about building a healthy family culture.Follow Care to Change on Facebook  https://www.facebook.com/CaretoChange.org/Follow Care to Change on Instagram @care_to_changeSee our YouTube page hereIf you would like someone to come speak to your group about anxiety, depression or mental health, contact us for more details.If you are struggling and ready to take a step toward freedom, schedule an appt today.

My journey in the Marriage and Family Studies world has been influenced by lots of amazing mentors, from John Gottman to William Doherty, to Brene Brown. Through their teachings, reading all their books, and my own experience and introspection, I came to understand the importance of fighting for your marriage. It's a powerful way to approach your relationships and explore where a consumer mindset may be undermining your marriage. Fighting for your marriage will allow you to show up fully with your partner, and it can transform the way you experience fulfillment in the most important relationship you will take on. In this episode, I share what getting support for your marriage looks like, how it works, and how being intentional of who you let into your inner circle is one of the most important decisions you will make.  Through getting the right kind of support, you can access your highest level of marital happiness and make choices that create the outcomes you've always hoped for. Tune in this week to learn how.  WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER How to assess if family and friends are Marriage Builders or Marriage Underminers. Soft reasons for divorce and Hard reasons for divorce. The importance of building a community of good mentors, and how to be a life-long learner. How to assess your counselor or therapist if they are operating from a Personal Satisfaction bias or a Fighting for Your Marriage bias. What happens when you fully understand and practice self-reflection and the power of thought work in your marriage.  FEATURED ON THE SHOW Book, Take Back Your Marriage by William J. Doherty, PhD; offers practical tools for sticking together in a world that pulls us apart. A wise and timely book of advice on marriage from one of America's favorite therapists. Book, Atomic Habits by James Clear. An easy and proven way to build good habits and break bad ones. Website, Italy Retreats for Women - Make Life Sweet trips to Tuscany, Italy with Maria and Gina. Website, Danielle Vaughn Coaching for parents, young adults and older teens wanting support in dating, marriage, and building that dream in your heart. Come check out the Dare Greatly Society. Stream more of Danielle's music on Spotify find more original music as well as new releases shared on the podcast.  Grab the Cheat Sheet for Parenting Teens and Young Adults here!

This week we're exploring the idea that if you water and care for your lawn, you'll find that the grass is greener right where you are. In essence, if you tenderly care for your marriage and water it with the Word it will grow and thrive. The statistics of marriage that were mentioned can be found below 67% or 2/3 of second marriages end in divorce in comparison to 50% of traditional marriages. For third marriages that statistic of divorce is 74% or around 3/4! The Marriage Study mentioned was a 2002 study by the Institute for American Values by Linda J. Waite, Don Browning, William J. Doherty, Maggie Gallagher, Ye Luo, and Scott M. Stanley. A part of the study found that two out of three unhappily married adults who avoided divorce or separation ended up happily married five years later. Want to connect on a deeper level and also get FREE resources? Check out our linktree Click HERE!

Clients often seek therapists' input for dealing with ethical dilemmas in their lives, but there is little guidance for therapists in how to do this. The Ethical Lives of Clients: Transcending Self-Interest in Psychotherapy (APA, 2021) shows therapists how to serve as ethical consultants who help clients balance their personal needs with their sense of responsibility to others. Dr. Bill Doherty blends decades of clinical experience with personal and philosophical insights to frame the skills and knowledge therapists need to act as ethical guides while respecting client autonomy. He calls for a shift from psychotherapy's individualistic focus towards a more relational one that includes ethical connections to others. Doherty presents the LEAP‑C model, a framework for ethical consulting that utilizes the traditional therapeutic skills of listening, exploring, affirming, and offering perspective, while also challenging clients to recognize ethical issues they don't perceive. Using detailed case examples, Doherty provides a roadmap for addressing common client dilemmas, such as keeping and ending commitments, having affairs, lying, and deceiving, and causing psychological or physical harm to others. He also provides guidelines for citizen therapists to lend their expertise to help solve larger societal concerns, such as political polarization and police–community relations. Karyne Messina is a licensed psychologist and psychoanalyst at the Washington Baltimore Center for Psychoanalysis and am on the medical staff of Suburban Hospital in Bethesda, Maryland. She is the author of Resurgence of Populism: A Psychoanalytic Study of Projective Identification, Blame Shifting and the Corruption of Democracy (Routledge, 2022). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/psychoanalysis

Clients often seek therapists' input for dealing with ethical dilemmas in their lives, but there is little guidance for therapists in how to do this. The Ethical Lives of Clients: Transcending Self-Interest in Psychotherapy (APA, 2021) shows therapists how to serve as ethical consultants who help clients balance their personal needs with their sense of responsibility to others. Dr. Bill Doherty blends decades of clinical experience with personal and philosophical insights to frame the skills and knowledge therapists need to act as ethical guides while respecting client autonomy. He calls for a shift from psychotherapy's individualistic focus towards a more relational one that includes ethical connections to others. Doherty presents the LEAP‑C model, a framework for ethical consulting that utilizes the traditional therapeutic skills of listening, exploring, affirming, and offering perspective, while also challenging clients to recognize ethical issues they don't perceive. Using detailed case examples, Doherty provides a roadmap for addressing common client dilemmas, such as keeping and ending commitments, having affairs, lying, and deceiving, and causing psychological or physical harm to others. He also provides guidelines for citizen therapists to lend their expertise to help solve larger societal concerns, such as political polarization and police–community relations. Karyne Messina is a licensed psychologist and psychoanalyst at the Washington Baltimore Center for Psychoanalysis and am on the medical staff of Suburban Hospital in Bethesda, Maryland. She is the author of Resurgence of Populism: A Psychoanalytic Study of Projective Identification, Blame Shifting and the Corruption of Democracy (Routledge, 2022). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/new-books-network

Clients often seek therapists' input for dealing with ethical dilemmas in their lives, but there is little guidance for therapists in how to do this. The Ethical Lives of Clients: Transcending Self-Interest in Psychotherapy (APA, 2021) shows therapists how to serve as ethical consultants who help clients balance their personal needs with their sense of responsibility to others. Dr. Bill Doherty blends decades of clinical experience with personal and philosophical insights to frame the skills and knowledge therapists need to act as ethical guides while respecting client autonomy. He calls for a shift from psychotherapy's individualistic focus towards a more relational one that includes ethical connections to others. Doherty presents the LEAP‑C model, a framework for ethical consulting that utilizes the traditional therapeutic skills of listening, exploring, affirming, and offering perspective, while also challenging clients to recognize ethical issues they don't perceive. Using detailed case examples, Doherty provides a roadmap for addressing common client dilemmas, such as keeping and ending commitments, having affairs, lying, and deceiving, and causing psychological or physical harm to others. He also provides guidelines for citizen therapists to lend their expertise to help solve larger societal concerns, such as political polarization and police–community relations. Karyne Messina is a licensed psychologist and psychoanalyst at the Washington Baltimore Center for Psychoanalysis and am on the medical staff of Suburban Hospital in Bethesda, Maryland. She is the author of Resurgence of Populism: A Psychoanalytic Study of Projective Identification, Blame Shifting and the Corruption of Democracy (Routledge, 2022). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/psychology

================================================== ==SUSCRIBETEhttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCNpffyr-7_zP1x1lS89ByaQ?sub_confirmation=1================================================== == DEVOCIÓN MATUTINA PARA ADULTOS 2022“NUESTRO MARAVILLOSO DIOS”Narrado por: Roberto NavarroDesde: Chiapas, MéxicoUna cortesía de DR'Ministries y Canaan Seventh-Day Adventist Church 13 DE OCTUBREREMAR CONTRA LA CORRIENTE«Háganlo todo sin quejas ni contiendas, para que sean intachables y puros, hijos de Dios sin culpa en medio de una generación torcida y depravada. En ella ustedes brillan como estrellas en el firmamento», Filipenses 2: 14-15, NVINO HACE MUCHO LEÍ ACERCA DE LAS CAUSAS que propiciaron la caída del Imperio romano. De verdad que me parecia estar leyendo el periodico de hoy. Según escribió Edward Gibbon, en su monumental obra History of the Decline and Fall of the Roman Empire (Historia de la decadencia y caída del Imperio romano), los cinco factores más importantes fueron: el colapso de la institución familiar; la pérdida del sentido de la responsabilidad individual; el aumento excesivo de los impuestos y del control gubernamental; la excesiva búsqueda de placeres hedonistas, violentos e inmorales; y la decadencia de la religion*¡Qué interesante! El imperio más poderoso del mundo antiguo cayó, no por el poder de los ejércitos invasores, sino por la pérdida de sus valores morales y religiosos. ¡Vaya desafío para nosotros hoy! ¿Cómo criaremos a nuestros hijos en una cultura como la nuestra, que a lo malo le llama bueno, ya lo bueno le llama malo?Dios está buscando hoy hombres y mujeres que «hayan llegado al reino en una hora como esta». Hombres y mujeres que se atrevan a salirle al paso a la ola de ataques que amenazan con destruir a nuestras familias. La pregunta es cómo lo haremos.Lo haremos viajando no con la corriente, sino contra ella. Este hecho lo ilustra muy bien el doctor William J. Doherty por medio de la analogía del Río Misisipi. Dice el doctor Doherty que si tú te sientas en una canoa en algún punto del curso superior del Misisipi-por ejemplo, en Saint Paul, Minnesota- y no haces nada para mantenerte en ese punto, gradualmente viajarás rumbo al sur hasta finalmente llegar a Nueva Orleans. «Si quieres moverte hacia el norte, o incluso permanecer en Saint Paul —escribe Doherty, debes remar duro y tener un plan». **¡Qué manera tan gráfica de ilustrar una gran verdad! Formar un hogar hoy sin «remar duro», y sin contar con un plan, equivale sencillamente a «viajar rumbo al sur»; es decir, hacia la pérdida de valores y de significado.¿Y qué significa «remar duro»? Significa que lucharemos para que nada nos impida dar a Dios el lugar central en nuestros hogares. Significa, también, que levantaremos una muralla que mantengamos fuera de nuestros hogares los valores de una sociedad secular que nos quiera vender la idea de que es posible la felicidad sin Dios. Significativo, como lo dice nuestro texto para hoy, que nos atreveremos a brillar «como estrellas en el firmamento» en medio de una generación torcida y depravada. Hoy quiero ser, Señor, una de esas estrellas que brillan para ti, comenzando en mi propio hogar.*Citado por Stephen Covey, Los 7 Hábitos de las Familias Altamente Efectivas, Golden Books, 1997, p. 133. **William J. Doherty, La Familia Intencional, Quill, 2002, p. 7.

Bio:  Mike McNulty, PhD is a psychotherapist specializing in couples therapy, and the founder of The Chicago Relationship Center, and practices in Evanston and Highland Park, IL. Dr. McNulty is a senior certified Gottman relationship therapist and master trainer for The Gottman Institute, who leads workshops for couples and professionals in the United States, Ireland, and Sri Lanka. He has traveled to Sri Lanka 22 times since the 2004 tsunami to provide training to paraprofessional counselors.   (Please listen to the podcast episode or read the transcript to hear explanations, stories, and examples.)   In this episode, Dr. Michael McNulty and Dr. Jessica Higgins discuss:  What is ambiguous loss? How ambiguous loss affects the grieving process and how to address this type of loss. What to do when we have different perspectives and/or a different positions on an issue (i.e. like how to deal with Covid-19). How couples with different perspectives can work together and support each other.  When problems become gridlocked and the stress and disconnect that results. What helps us be more flexible and creative, so that we can cope better and be more resilient together.  How to build rituals for connection, meaning and significance. “Grief becomes frozen. People do not know what they are grieving, and how to begin to move forward with life.”      Mentioned:  Coping with Uncertainty During COVID-19: An International Gottman Trainer Shares Their Perspective by Dr. Michael McNulty (Article) Ambiguous Loss Dr. Pauline Boss' website Chicago Relationship Center  Website The Gottman Institute Website Dr. Susan Johnson Website The Intentional Family: Simple Rituals to Strengthen Family Ties by William J. Doherty (book) Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl (book) Gottman Card Deck   Connect with Dr. Michael McNulty Email: mikemcnultyphd@gmail.com Website: Chicago Relationship Center    Connect with Dr. Jessica Higgins:   Facebook: facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship  Instagram: instagram.com/drjessicahiggins  Podcast: drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts  Pinterest: pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation  LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins  Twitter: @DrJessHiggins  Website: drjessicahiggins.com   Email: jessica@drjessicahiggins.com     If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the “Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins” button here.  Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship.  Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here.  Thank you!   If you are interested in developing new skills to overcome relationship challenges, please consider taking the Connected Couple Program or engaging in relationship coaching work with me. 

WHEN THE WORLD FEELS LIKE A SCARY PLACE: Essential Conversations for Anxious Parents & Worried Kids by Dr. Abigail Gewirtz “I cannot imagine a more timely book for parents in these troubled times - [It] informs, supports, and prods parents to manage our own fears and learn practical skills to help our kids grow up confident and resilient in a sometimes-scary world.” -William J. Doherty, PhD, author of Take Back Your Kids: Confident Parenting in Turbulent Times In the new book - WHEN THE WORLD FEELS LIKE A SCARY PLACE: Essential Conversations for Anxious Parents & Worried Kids (On sale June 9, 2020; Paperback Original - Dr. Abigail Gewirtz - a child psychologist and leading expert on families under stress - provides a roadmap for parents wondering how to best help their children through this and other stressful times. Dr Gerwirtz provides tools to address tough conversations with kids from ages 3 to 18. This is a must-read - providing a pathway of strategies for adults to talk with their children about scary world events! In), Dr. Abigail Gewirtz, an award-winning child psychologist and leading expert on families under stress, offers parents a clear and practical guide to discussing these sensitive topics in a calm, reassuring, and productive way that will help kids comprehend and process the world around them. Dr. Gewirtz sets the stage by giving parents tools to understand their own feelings before turning to their children’s. Here she explains: · How what happens in the world can affect parenting · Why a parent’s background and personal experience affect their responses to stress · How a parent’s anxiety transmits to their children This is followed by a series of real-world essential conversations, actual dialogue scripts, talking points, prompts, and insightful asides. Each is tailored for different ages from three to eighteen and guides parents towards a constructive conversation without sparking anxiety in their children. And Dr. Gewirtz’s sound advice can be put into action right away; for example: Let the child lead the conversation (and don't tell more than the child needs to know) as well as Check in with yourself to make sure your own anxiety doesn't color the conversation. She also offers: · Exercises to help parents balance the desire to protect children with the need to nurture independence · Techniques to dete

William J. Doherty is an educator, researcher, therapist, speaker, author, consultant, and community organizer. Bill shares his work in the field of relationships and how the interactions of many have been enriched by creating accountability and responsibility in each member of different groups, bringing them closer instead of highlighting their differences. Creating bridges and bonds between citizens is the key to solve current social hardships. Be inspired by this passionate talk about our most candent social topics and get good ideas and tips to face everyday obstacles.   Key takeaways: [1:05] Bill Doherty’s career briefing. [1:40] Why is Bill in the business of relationships? [2:11] Bill’s current projects. [3:16] Why are people so polarized? [4:40] Tribalism vs. the sense of loss of community. [5:17] Bonding and bridging social capital. [6:03] Lack of trust throughout different areas. [8:45] Bringing groups together that could not solve the problem on their own. [9:50] We need each other to accomplish our goals. [10:25] Sexism in healthcare. [14:27] How can polarization be shifted? [15:38] Advice to someone facing a difficult conversation.   Mentioned in this episode: Relational Rounds at Primary Care Progress Primary Care Progress on Twitter Join Better Angels

Imagine this scenario: Two women from Ohio are sitting together at a table. One voted for Donald Trump, the other for Hillary Clinton. They're talking politics to each other. And actually listening. This is the premise of a social experiment called "Better Angels." The project is working to rebuild civil dialogue in America after the election, with hopes of getting the country to move beyond polarization and stereotypes. New report from #BetterAngels: "Who We Are: A Message from Trump and Clinton Supporters from Southwest Ohio" https://t.co/m3eW0h5rMV — Better Angels (@iavbetterangels) February 17, 2017 On this episode of Indivisible, host Kerri Miller talks with two women who took part in the experiment. We'll also hear from University of Minnesota professor Dr. William J. Doherty, the professor who facilitated the project, about what it takes to have a productive dialogue in a time of deep division. Is it enough to tolerate different points of view? Or does a vibrant democracy require us to really listen and respect what we're hearing? We also follow up on the news of Attorney General Jeff Sessions recusing himself from any investigations into the Trump campaign amid accusations of his own pre-election discussions with Russia. Kerri interviews Democratic Senator Al Franken -- one of the first politicians to criticize Mr. Sessions’ activities. Here are some tweets from this episode: Indivisible Week 6: Can We Reunite America?