Faith Fatherhood Work

In this episode, Peter talks about the importance of solitude in our life and shares a few simple, practical ways for us as men to quiet the noise. We also read Psalm 23 and Psalm 46 to help us usher in this necessary spiritual practice in our everyday lives.

What role do elders play in our lives, and why do we need them? In this episode, we explore the value of having older men who are full of wisdom and experience to guide us through life. While mentors are important, there's something uniquely powerful about learning from elders—those who have walked many seasons and still live with faith, generosity, and passion. We dive into how their stories, presence, and perspectives can deeply shape us, helping us grow in our faith, family, and work. Join us as we reflect on the need for elders and the profound impact they have on our journey.

In this episode, we'll hear from Peter as we close out the final essay in Vol I of Kinsmen Journal written by Morgan Snyder of Wild at Heart. Morgan invites us to ask the hard questions of ourselves. What will be remembered about us when we're gone? What will our family and closest friends say?   Also, Peter shares about upcoming events for KINSMEN, including in SW Missouri, as well as elsewhere. Be sure to sign-up for the KINSMEN emails at kinsmen.org/subscribe to stay informed of events.   Links:   Becoming Good Soil

In this episode we hear from Peter on the subject of Courage, as well as an essay on Worship from Kinsmen Journal – Volume I. At a recent gathering, Peter spoke on the importance of pursuing what is hard and difficult, and that it often takes courage from each of us to do what's necessary. He presents an alternative definition for the word, not one based on heroics, but one that's a response from a life that's consecrated to God. Also, his essay on worship could be an applicable reset on how our worship unto God is about him and it's a privilege to rest and worship in his presence, particularly in our local church.

In this episode, Peter reads a timely letter written for the church about men. The letter is rooted in the Gospel and expounds on three observations regarding men, society, and the church. This is one of the most important episodes to date, so please share it and discuss with others.

In this episode, Peter gives some exciting updates on KINSMEN as we head into the new year. Also, we continue our plumblines series with two essays as we hear from Jon Carlos Velez through his words on the subject of expression as well as Lee Domingue as he writes and speaks on Legacy. Enjoy this rich episode as we near the end of reading through Kinsmen Journal Vol I.

Plumblines: An essay on Holy vs. Worldly Ambition   In this essay, we continue our plumbline series as we measure ourselves as men to what God's word intends. Today's episode centers on the subject of Ambition. What is it? How do we use it for good or for self? We hear from Brian Tome, pastor of Crossroads Church in Cincinnati, OH and founder of Man Camp. We also share the opening pages of the chapter titled The Shadow of Ambition in Jon Tyson's most recent book, Fighting Shadows. Ambition is a gift, created by God and infused into the hearts of men. Listen in as we learn how it can be shaped for God's glory. The Aggressive Life Podcast Man Camp

In this episode, we kickoff our Plumblines section of Kinsmen Journal with an original essay from author and psychotherapist Jay Stringer on the subject of desire. This topic is one that can quickly lead to discussions about shame and what men shouldn't be doing. Instead though, Jay invites us to explore the subject further and consider desire through a different lens. Jay's book, Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing is regarded as one of the foremost resources on the subject. This is an episode not to be missed, though it may be sensitive for listeners under 13.

In this episode, Peter shares some timely thoughts and encouragement surrounding the political and divisive state where we find ourselves in America. First though, we look to scripture for wisdom and truth as we read Jesus' words from The Sermon on the Mount.

In this two-essay episode, we wrap up the Work section of Kinsmen Journal, Vol I with two rich essays on revisiting what can be essential in carrying out the assignment and work before us. The topics: consistent friendship with others, and a strategy to balance the demands of work and everyday life. Hal Easley shares about the simple, yet profoundly impactful weekly breakfast he's been attending for decades. The compounding effect of this commitment to showing up has influenced each area of his life, and he encourages us to do the same. And Kevin Harris reminds each of us to consider what matters most, and how we balance the pull of work and family.

In this episode, we hear from our friend Dave Hataj. Dave is a second-generation machinist and owner of Edgerton Gear in Edgerton, WI. Dave's story is a common one, leaving town to pursue something bigger and better, only to end up back in his hometown, leading the family business. The journey has certainly had considerable heartache, but Dave's faithfulness and grit has led to a life more fulfilling than he ever could have imagined, running a gear shop and serving his community. This episode will encourage and inspire each of us as we're reminded that all work unto God is sacred work.   Good Work – Link to book Craftsman with Character

In this episode, we gain a better understanding of how God is using men who are led by His Spirit to accomplish His work. To quote the essay, “God does not anoint who you pretend to be or who people perceive you to be. God anoints who you were hand-crafted to be.” This is a glimpse into the richness of this essay that will quickly encourage you as you grow in your faith.  

In this episode we hear from Tom Nelson, pastor, and founder of Made to Flourish, an organization that empowers pastors and their churches to integrate faith, work, and economic wisdom for the flourishing of their communities. Tom eloquently shares why the work we do is both holy and an essential form of worship. This essay is a necessary reminder of what each of us carry as salt and light in the communities we serve, and in our workplaces.   Links to the following organizations:   Made To Flourish Faith Driven Entrepreneur C12 Convene

In this episode, Ashton Owens, tells some of his story through his essay. Ashton is a serial entrepreneur and marketing executive. His pursuits are extensive, but his leadership of Triple Threat Creative is his primary focus. From designing and launching brands, to developing the creative through videography, design and story-telling. Triple Threat is made up of designers, film makers, and marketers who are passionate, driven, and always pushing the envelope.   Ashton's story is one of triumph, heartache, and family.   https://www.linkedin.com/in/ashtonowens/ https://www.triple-threat.co/

In this episode, we open the Work section of Kinsmen Journal Vol I with an essay on who we are, and in particular, who we are in our work. Jeremy Wells is a brand strategist on hotelier headquartered in the Midwest. His words are timely as we consider the brand we're building in the marketplace, starting with the most frequent question we ask of others, “What do you do?”   Jeremy challenges us to consider the deeper questions related to our work and the brand we carry as believers. He leads with a series of questions we should be asking of ourselves:   Who am I? Why am I here? What then should I do?   Also, Peter gives an update on Season II of the podcast, as well as gatherings being hosted for me in and throughout the Midwest.   Links:   https://longitudedesign.com/ https://kinsmen.org/gatherings https://www.linkedin.com/in/wellsjeremy/

In this episode, we continue our discussion on the importance of words in our Words to Live By section of Kinsmen Journal. Likewise to last week, we ask the same four questions geared towards men. This week we have the five remaining words from Vol I: Grace, Heart, Meek, Steadfast and Sabbath. Scripture has much to say about the words we speak and the context for their importance. This episode is not to be missed and is a perfect companion to Volume I in print and for group discussion.

In this episode, we discuss the importance of words in our Words to Live By section of Kinsmen Journal. We ask the same four questions geared towards men for each of the following words: Abide, Consecrate, Covenant and Exalt. Scripture has much to say about the words we speak and the context for their importance. This episode is not to be missed and is a perfect companion to Volume I in print and for group discussion.

In this episode we briefly wrap up our commentary on the Fatherhood section of Volume I. In doing so, we provide some timely resources for you to explore in the new year. Also, we introduce an essay on desire by Jay Stringer. Jay is a psychotherapist and challenges each of us on the way in which we think about the subject of desire in our lives. This is a powerful essay and an episode that's not to be missed as we start the new year.

In this episode, we hear a poignant essay by Dr. Jon Spence. Jon writes about the legacy of his late father, Dr. Robert Spence, who was an anchor in the Springfield, MO community for nearly five decades. Jon's words are rich with wisdom as we learn about the importance of transitioning well, setting a proper goal, seeing people for their uniqueness and value, as well as why it's essential we invite others in and ask for help.

In this episode, we combine two essays into one. Starting with a conversation on America's pastime, and why fun and joy with our kids can be found in unexpected places. We close the episode with a timely essay by Dr. Tim Elmore, who's known as one of the foremost leaders on the study generational differences and communication. Tim provides wisdom to us as parents, reminding us of some important tools to help shape the lives of our children.

In this episode, we wrap up the mini-series on the essay Redeeming Fatherhood. In it, Peter shares more of his personal story as well as some practical ways to engage in the dialogue of forgiveness, as well as he recites writings from Jon Tyson's Intentional Father that can be a helpful tool in honoring the men in our lives.

In this episode, we continue the discussion on the subject of forgiveness and its role in our lives as men, particularly as fathers. Also, Peter gives some exciting updates on what's on the horizon for Kinsmen Journal in the next few months.

Forgiveness. It's the foundation of our Christian faith. We simply can't give what we don't have. As followers of Jesus, we've been forgiven of much, as God's grace is abound in each of our lives, yet we often find it difficult to extend forgiveness to others, whether we realize it or not. In this multi-episode discussion in the Fatherhood section of Volume I, Peter shares more of his personal story of faith, and how God continues to refine us throughout our entire lives. 

In this brief episode, Peter shares thoughts on recent gatherings for men called Kinsmen: Table. He also opens the dialogue as to how we can better create environments for men to find community-based on Dietrich Bonhoeffer's Life Together. Peter also shares about personal transition and what's ahead for Kinsmen, which is very exciting.

Is fear holding you back? In this episode, Dr. Jarrett shares personal stories of how God has shaped his life through wilderness and adventure. Accepting the invitation by God to take risks with him is the impetus for a fulfilled and adventurous life. This episode will cultivate a deeper sense of how God desires to be intimately involved in each area of our life, and seeing God as a good and perfect father will result in a proper understanding of his unique desire to connect with each of us.

In this episode, we explore the subject of suffering, particularly regarding a man who deeply desires to become a father. Justin Skinner shares a heartfelt and honest account of what experiencing more than 15 years of infertility looks like. This episode is important for each of us to hear as we sometimes can be left with more questions than answers when people face such difficulty and hardship. In the midst of our pain though, there is hope. God, in his mercy and grace, invites us into the continued healing and restoration of our lives. Enjoy this powerful and necessary lament from a fellow brother in Christ.   Links   Justin's LinkedIn   https://www.linkedin.com/in/justin-skinner-8876754a/   To Light Their Way – A collection of prayers and liturgies for parents   https://www.tyndale.com/p/to-light-their-way/9781496454003  

In this episode, we open the Fatherhood section of Kinsmen Journal – Volume 1, with a story about fatherhood, healing, and the power of presence in a boy's life. Chris Bryant shares about his grandaddy “Mitch,” and the pivotal moments that helped him rebuild his life at 40. Chris's story is a powerful reminder of what happens when we make ourselves available to the lives of others, particularly our children and our grandchildren. Often times the deposits we make as fathers into the lives of our family aren't fully realized until our children are much older, but this shouldn't detract us from the value of our consistent presence each day. Our duty, our ongoing responsibility is to show up each and every day. Enjoy this episode and a much needed reminder, the seemingly insignificant moments we share with our kids, compounded over years, will shape the rest of their lives.

In this episode, we revisit the Faith themes we've explored through the first section of Volume 1. Peter provides some practical resources and reads for recommendation as well as a reflection on a sermon studying the life of the prophet Jeremiah that was written nearly 30 years ago. Enjoy and be encouraged as Peter commissions the audience to take bold risks for the Gospel and just like Jeremiah bought the field at Anathoth in response to God's direction, we too can partake in the Kingdom now through obedience and surrender in our own lives. Books: Life Together Mere Christianity Never Give In The Search for God and Guinness The 5 Masculine Instincts Known After You Believe A Long Obedience in the Same Direction  

In this episode, Dick Foth graciously reminds each of us to the importance of faith that endures. Dick has exceeded his 80th trip around the sun, so his words are rich with wisdom and depth. He emphasizes the importance of Friendship, Truth, Story, Belief, and Eternity. Dick's voice exudes peace and it's an invitation to pause and listen, settle in as this is an episode worth listening to again and again.

Discover the key to maintaining and strengthening your integrity as Dr. Jim Bradford joins us in this powerful episode, sharing his wisdom on character development and personal growth. Together, we tackle the tough questions that help test and solidify our own character, ensuring we remain resilient in the face of life's challenges.  As we explore the impact of our behavior on those around us, particularly our children, Dr. Bradford emphasizes the importance of accountability, prayer, and the grace of Jesus in preserving and rebuilding our integrity. Listen and be inspired to face life's trials head-on, walking a path of righteousness and leaving a lasting, positive impression on those around you.

I'll never forget the moment I first laid eyes on the stunning work of Master Penman Jake Wideman. It was an experience that would lead us on a journey to collaborate on the Kinsman Journal together. In this heartfelt episode, I'm excited to introduce you to my dear friend Jake, one of only nine Master Penman living today, as we discuss the beautifully intertwined aspects of his life, work, and faith. Together, we'll dive into his captivating Hymn series, an artistic exploration driven by the profound words and stories of sacred hymns. Join us as we discuss the impact these timeless pieces have had on countless lives and how creating them has been a rewarding and powerful experience for Jake. You'll be encouraged by our conversation about God's love, protection, sacrifice, and the assurance we can find in these beloved hymns. Finally, we'll touch on the importance of creativity for men and the significant role it plays in our work and home lives. Discover how Jake and his wife, Hannah, have used their creative gifts to deepen their faith and strengthen their marriage.

Chesterton. Lewis. Merton. In this episode, Chase quotes timely passages from well-known theologians to inspire our formation as men, particularly the role of what shapes character in our lives as men. Chase writes as both a pastor and a father, deeply convinced that character is possible, through Christ. For additional conversations from Chase, be sure to check out his podcast and most recent published book where he further delves into the subject of masculinity. Pastorwriter.com The Five Masculine Instincts

There's something about heroic wartime lore that awakens something within a man. In this episode, Stephen Mansfield so eloquently challenges each reader to consider the subject of surrender and its place in your development and fulfillment as a man. Stephen's written extensively on history and faith, and his award-winning style is on full display in this poignant and timely essay. Additional resources by Stephen worth exploring include: The Great Man Podcast Men on Fire The Search for God and Guinness

We've seen the headlines, many men are lonely, and most who are don't realize it. In this episode, Paul Harris shares a personal story of what happens we open the door to new friendships, and sometimes it can come in unexpected places. For additional resources on this subject and others related to men and boys, here are some books / articles worth exploring, particularly from a data and development standpoint, not necessarily for a spiritual or theological position. Of Boys and Men by Richard Reeves The Boy Crisis by Warren Farrell

Where does our identity come from? In this episode, writer, musician, and friend Sam DeFord writes unpacks the transformational understanding of Sonship. If we know who we are and whose we are, then everything else will ultimately fall into place. This episode is rich in our understanding of God's intent for each of us as sons, we're adopted into the family, by God's lavish grace and forgiveness.

What guides the direction you're going? Do you know why you believe what you believe? We unpack the statements that've helped frame the direction of Kinsmen Journal. We also tell more of the origin story of how this publication came to be. If you're currently in the ideation process, with a vision on the horizon, this is an episode that you're sure to glean from. Peter tells the story of how the book The Revenge of Analog: Real Things and Why They Matter, by David Sax was the catalyst to this publication.

Welcome to the start of the Faith Fatherhood and Work podcast!  We are glad to have you and excited for our journey.