Killa Konvos is a weekly “girls-talk” about everything pop culture, dating/relationships, wellness and being a 20-something hottie during Quarantine 2020. Kayla will provide you with lighthearted entertainment and firey discussion on pressing topics to help get you through the quarantine. Better prepare yourself for some real $h
For this episode, I sit down the the owners of Century 21 Vox Realty to discuss real estate homeownership and investment tips as well as what its like to run a successful business with your partner. You're not going to want to miss the gems in this episode. Sit back, relax, fill your glass and enjoy .
Are you able to spot the green flags in a potential partner? On this episode, I'm going to share some of my green flags! Sit back, fill your glass and enjoy
Killa returns with her wonderful cohost @shotsofbrandy_ for episode 40. We catch up on previous episodes, making your friends pay for the bday dinner/trip and serious relationships. Sit back and relax and kee kee with the gworls. Special Guest: @shotsofbrandy_
On this episode, Killa and her guest, social worker/teen therapist from Hearts Empowerment, Alexa Chandler discuss men's mental health and positive mental/emotional benefits of therapy. Topics include women's role in men's mental health, imposing unhealthy gender norms on children, the glamorization of being toxic and --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
Newark's very own Boss Blend Coffee owner, Fly said "entreperneurship is spiritual AF" . Fly gives us the real on entrepreneurship (selling coffee online during the pandemic while working retail FT) and her spiritual journey to owning her own coffee shop in downtown Newark !! You don't want to miss this Killa Konvo!!!
Killa is joined by GIRLBOSS, LaToya R. Young, mother, travelista and owner of L'Rose PR. Toya gives us the gems on how to maintain that creative momentum while balancing work/life tings, passion vs. discipline, what inspires her to keep going and her journey to the world of PR with a sprinkle of fangirling for Issa Rae. Are you doubting your ability to work for yourself?? Don't think you have what it takes to start your own media empire? Need a sign to tell you if you should start that business? Well here it is, you don't want to miss this Killa Konvo!!!!
Killa Konvos invites mogul in the making, Kia (IG: @chasingkia) to talk about balancing multiple entrepreneurship ventures, career and relationships in your 20s'. Kia schools us on the importance of speaking power over yourself, believing in yourself no matter what room you're in and living on your own terms. Tune in to hear about Kia's many platforms (Pussy Rap and All of That, Pack Lite and Deconstruction), and her take on Black women setting boundaries in their career, how she uses astrology to keep her grounded, why being a bitch is not always a bad thing and my advice to her about spicing up that dating life!!!
Killa is joined by special guest, entertainer and Irvington, NJ based rapper Scrilla Marley to share his advice for aspiring artists, his music inspiration, his take on the "single until you're married" concept and gift giving.
Getting cheat on feels terrible and HEINOUS act. But lets be real, some of us be letting MFs slide. We not judging over here at Killa Konvos -- but which type of cheating can YOU let go? Financial Cheating? when your man is giving money to/paying for another woman, emotional cheating? Confiding, having intimate moments with another woman or physical cheating ? Committing sexual acts with another woman. Tune for this KILLA ASS konvo.
On this episode, Killa and her girls who are in different stages of their relationship share their perspective on maintaining their appearance in their relationship. Is it okay to "let go" (ie: skip your regular beauty maintenance appointments) because your man prefers your "natural hair"? We discuss happy weight, the importance of staying your own person in a happy relationship and whether its ever okay to "get too comfortable" solely because your man "loves you for who you are".
Have you ever thought about life as a sugar baby? Have your friends or sister/aunties/cousins and them had you wondering?? On this episode, Killa is joined by her girl Heather to talk about dating older men with SHMONEY and how she uses her women empowerment Bootcamp to coach girls who aspire to do the same
On episode 8, we discuss dating boring women (cause Durk said he "don't want an outside bitch he want a homebody" ), stripper girlfriend stories, Sha'Carri Richardson and MORE! Tune in for a Killa Konvo with crxssroads' very own @mizzywreck and @nilecxr. Like & Subscribe.
Coochie Chronicles: Kayla and Tiff talk about common vaginal challenges women face, the importance of catering to your vaginal health as selfcare, holding boys accountable for their hygiene before sex and whats in our "coochie kits". We need to make sure our coochianna is clean and happy - cause if the cat ain't right, you ain't right! Special Guest - @to.phany- Special Guest - @to.phany-
COVID-19 were troubling times for millions of people in many ways. On this episode, Killa and her guests discuss perceptions of the vaccine, their decision to get / not get vaccinated and life after COVID quarantine. Remember when we couldn't imagine life after quarantine? Did you believe we would be wearing masks forever? Were you hesitant to get vaccinated? Are still hesitant? Were you sneaky linking during quarantine? We answer all these questions on Episode 6. DON'T FORGET TO LEAVE COMMENTS AND SUBSCRIBE. Shout out to our sponsor, The Caveman Records. Special Guest - @obeyytiff_ @onlybisi
As a creative, what does support look like to you? Killa and Caveman Records artist Kes Bandz discuss podcasting and music as creative ventures, getting support from your friends and millennial struggle of "wanting it all right now".
Its summer 2021 and it smells like day drinking and vacations every week. A year of quarantine in the house got us falling for airline promos and wanting to say fuck that job for brunch on a Wednesday afternoon. FOMO may have you feeling like you HAVE to go to everything because its been taken away from us for so long but as millennials its important we create good money habits for ourselves -- and that means saying no to trips/brunch etc. On Episode 4, we talk about knowing how and when to say no that trip when you know you need to save money, tips on how to stay in the house (finding new hobbies and creative outlets), dating NY scammers and mug shot tees.
Leave your friends alone and take that drama to your therapist!!! This episode is for the "strong" friend who everyone goes to for advice and the millennial that is focused on building wealth or breaking the chain of toxicity in their family. This episode is allll about investing in yourself by seeking professional help (cause Google ain't always your friend). From hiring therapists and dermatologists to learning about life insurance as a wealth vehicle -- we get into our experience with these services and how we plan to use it to support the well-being of our future selves. Tune into the keys to repair your credit, finding Black women therapists in your area and the difference between term/whole life insurance.
Good girl's trips are a form of self-care. Tune in to hear our keys for a bomb ass, drama-free girl's trip, strip club etiquette with your man and tips on how to get that bae-cation you've always wanted. More travel, more life!
City (Cuffed) Girl Summer: Can You Do BOTH??
Killa invites her girl, chef conoisseur and travellista, Henny to dish allll about travelllllll and financial security in relationships. They share travel stories, getting flewed out, all-expense paid vacationing with bae and the importance of financial security in relationships to keep the good times rolling. Tap in to hear about how YOU can live your best travel life while balancing bills and career. We talk about almost getting kidnapped in Dubai, "flewed out" principles and attracting men who lead and provide.
Somebody said "Saweetie said Take Care, Quavo heard Take Car" LMFAO. Killa invites some new city boyz into the stu to weigh in on BDEtiquette (Big Dick Etiquette), cheating and proper conduct in relationships. Do y'all really think Quavo repoed Saweetie's car? Does he deserve a threesome for paying for you and your homegirls? Was sis wrong for eating that slice of meat the way she did from Salt Bae??? P.S. feeling some kind of way about your girl taking a DRINK from a guy is NOT BDEtiquette. Stay tuned !!
In episode 7, you have stepped into The Gworlsssss Rooooom *Amanda Bynes voice*. Killa and her two special guests Brandy & Carlye aka King Barlye play the dating game, "Tonight Lets Talk" for a quick little kee kee. We dish out how we prepare for dick appointments, using his mom to get into the CRIB and the interconnection between Salt Bae & toxic masculinity ;]. This game brings out Konvos about toxic masculinity, splitting bills, booty games and running trains on men. You'll think you know your friends (or your man) until you play this game -- tune into a krazy Killa Konvo!!!!
Mannnn, f*ck that JOB ... if it isn't serving you. Keep them standards high when it comes to your career, not just men, friends and etc. because what is life if you aren't being fulfilled? Killa is joined by young entrepreneur, Gee Smith to talk about being burnt out entrepreneurs, investing and Killa's All-Star weekend shenanigans.
No matter if you're dating multiple men, have a boyfriend or are in the STREETZ -- maintain a standard sis. Killa and Mani are BACK to talk about dating, standards vs. expectations and more!!!!
Loving yourself in your 20s' is the KEY for success. This episode, Imani, CEO of The Thirst Trap NJ, Realishh Media, and The Educated Black Hottie brand talk about the acts of self care that serve YOU but people really DON'T talk about. Tune in to this self-care episode cause we taking you to CHUCH!
It's the day after Valentine's Day and all the rose-petal decorated hotel rooms are still being reposted from your favorite IG model's Instagram page. You're either in a good mood or you ain't! Killa invites balance coach and a GEM, Lady of Countenance, to talk about boundaries as a form of self care. Lets create a brand new culture surrounding V-Day that isn't hyper focused on someone else making you feel loved and special. Whether you're single, married or dating -- protecting your energy by saying no to the things that don't support your positive energy, high vibrations and loving spirits toward ourselves should always be a priority! Think about how you practice boundaries on the daily. Love yourself first, by learning when to say NO to that shit.
What kind of woman asks her man to finance her personal care (hair, nails, etc.)?? Or bill money? A smart one. Killa brings a special guest in to discuss why women have the RIGHT to ask for financial help from the man she's with, can't leave out the importance of learning pathways to wealth management, financial independence and the spirituality of your relationship with money.
What a time to be alive during the era of the City Girl! But beware ladies, the boyz are up to something also. We don't want any of our City Girls to be bamboozled during this month of love so I brought gangnnem to discuss what a City Boy is and how to spot one. Tune in and listen closely! Zay/ @zz.profit, Brandy / @shotsofbrandy_ and Ernest/ @papinoelle
Killa and her special guest discuss memorable moments from 2020, dating during COVID, therapy and what's to come in the new year
Season 2 kicks off with Killa bringing her special guest to talk about the “why are you single” question that we love to ask on dates because .. WHO EVEN KNOWS?? How does one approach this question? What does it mean to be single in the 2020 pandemic era? Should every girl have a hoe phase? Find out here ..
It's been a helluva year for the world, esp. the Class of 2020! Raise your hand if you were anxious about the economy, finding a job or being able to secure a salary you DESERVE! Killa is joined by Georgia State grad and CEO of Spark your Resume, a career development company, to discuss manifesting your success, tips for securing your dream job and growing a business during the pandemic! Stay tuned for a special discount for his services and take some notes
Girl, just ask that man.. because a closed mouth doesn't get anyyyyything it wants. In this episode, Quarandating Pt2 is joined by Life Coach and Author of ‘M in Man is for Money', Passport Cutty shares her book, experiences in her 20s and helpful words of wisdom about getting the most out of your relationship with husband, boyfriend or whatever! There are soooo many women out here feeling unfulfilled in their relationships simply because they are afraid to ask their men to meet their needs and expectations. Episode 11 is for your awakening and empowerment.. tune in NOW
I can't be a public health baddie (Go Blue!) without speaking on mental health in the Black community. From Swervo's therapy initiative to viral videos of Black fathers encouraging therapy for other men — I touch on the importance of therapy to deal with unresolved trauma and ultimately find true happiness in one's life. Y'all gone love this one
Talking to Girl Bosses just gives me life! That's why Killa Konvos is posted up at The Pynk Unicorn in Jersey City to talk to accomplished entrepreneur, Ashley Jay, @queenashleyjayofficial about her businesses, relationships and believing in your BIG dreams! If you need the motivation and inspiration to make a change in your life whether it be financial, business or even that situationship you just can't let go of
Even though sex sells in this economy, sex education and open convos about sex between parents and children seem to be taboo. So are STDs/STIs in our society. In this episode we talk about the significance of sex education and tell stories about what it should look like and didn't look like in our lives. Just like we should be wearing masks to protect ourselves and others from COVID-19, we MUST wear condoms to protect ourselves and our partners. There's so much more to sex than meets the psyche, especially for women. You're gonna wanna hear this one
I will always cherish Spelman College for bringing me my life long sisters! Killa talks Black women's issues with Realishh CEO, Imani Hightower! This episode highlights the gems brought to us by Mikki Kendall's esteemed book, Hood Feminism. Be sure to listen and pick up a hard copy!! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
Killa talks politics with a very special guest, literally a future lawyer bae about BLM and her activism. We touch on why voting is important yet challenging for many minorities and how its time to CANCEL cancel culture. We are in this together. Let's make it happen ✊
Probably Killa's fave episode thus far!! Listen to a very open discussion about the hot topic on social media — OnlyFans. She is joined by her bestie and bestie's lil sis to talk about OF from a user's perspective and challenge society's stigmatization of women who utilize its benefits. Come ready to
Chileeeee.. the girls dish out everything relationships, quarandating whoopsies and how lessons learned from the past have made us even wiser and badder
Follow me as I guide you through the ocean of emotions I've been facing during this quarantine ESPECIALLY as an unemployed recent grad and how I've been dealing with it day by day. I also highlight the importance of feeling your emotions as a way to come out on top despite little Miss Rona! I'ma put yall on to some helpful, realistic strategies and great resources linked to spiritual wellness! Prepare for some real shit and hope you enjoy!
On the first episode of Killa Konvos, Kayla learns from the younger generation about what the day/time and place you were born says about you! She didn't believe in it before but she does now! Listen to what this one-time reading says about the Virgo podcast host