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Healthy relationships don't just happen — they have to be protected.In this episode, we discuss the intentional ways couples can protect their relationship and marriage from unhealthy influences, spiritual attacks, poor boundaries, emotional division, and outside interference.We break down the importance of boundaries with the opposite sex, protecting your partner publicly and privately, being careful who you allow access to your relationship, and why communication, prayer, and unity matter so much.This conversation is for couples who want to build relationships that are strong internally and protected externally.What You'll Learn in This EpisodeWhy protecting your relationship requires intentional effortHow boundaries protect trust and unityWhy outside influences can slowly damage relationshipsThe importance of protecting your spouse publicly and privatelyHow spiritual warfare can affect marriages and relationshipsWhy communication and consideration matter deeplyHow to build a relationship rooted in unity and protectionWho This Episode Is ForCouples wanting stronger marriages and relationshipsMen and women preparing for marriageCouples working on communication and boundariesAnyone seeking healthier, more intentional relationshipsprotect your relationship, marriage advice, relationship boundaries, healthy marriage habits, protecting your marriage, communication in relationships, spiritual warfare relationships, emotional intimacy, healthy relationships, relationship discipline, couples communication, god centered relationships, protecting your spouse, marriage self improvement, avoiding relationship problems, social media and relationships, building strong relationships, healthy couples habits

Many men are silently carrying pain they don't know how to express.In this episode, we explore the signs that a man is crying out for help — even when he never says the words directly. From emotional shutdown and isolation to anger, burnout, and hopelessness, we break down how internal struggles often show up externally.We also discuss practical ways men can begin healing themselves, as well as how friends, family, and loved ones can provide meaningful support during dark seasons.This is a conversation about awareness, healing, and helping men realize they don't have to suffer alone.What You'll Learn in This EpisodeThe hidden signs a man is mentally or emotionally strugglingWhy many men avoid asking for helpHow stress and emotional pain show up in men differentlyWhat men can do to begin healing and rebuildingThe role of purpose, discipline, and faith in recoveryHow loved ones can support struggling men effectivelyWhy silence and isolation can become dangerousWho This Episode Is ForMen battling emotional pain, burnout, or hopelessnessMen who feel isolated or mentally exhaustedFriends and family supporting struggling menWomen wanting to understand men's emotional challengesAnyone passionate about mental health and healingmen's mental health, men are crying for help, depression in men, signs a man is struggling, helping struggling men, emotional health men, men suffering in silence, burnout in men, men and emotional pain, purpose and healing, mental health awareness, healing for men, masculine emotional health, emotional support for men, stress in men, men self improvement, supporting struggling men, how to help depressed men

Not every man is ready to date — but many do it anyway… and end up wasting a woman's time.In this episode, we break down the behaviors, patterns, and mindsets that lead men to enter relationships they're not prepared for. From lack of purpose to emotional immaturity, empty promises, and misuse of time — we highlight the real ways time gets wasted and how to fix it.stop wasting her time, signs he is wasting your time, dating advice for men, men not ready for relationship, relationship red flags, emotional maturity men, intentional dating, masculine development, men self improvement, unhealthy relationship patterns, commitment issues men, how to know if he is serious, relationship accountability, modern dating problems, choosing the right partner, dating mistakes men make, men growth mindsetThis episode is about accountability, awareness, and growth — helping men become more intentional and helping women recognize when they need to walk away.What You'll Learn in This EpisodeHow to know if you're not ready to date or marryThe most common ways men waste women's timeWhy lack of direction creates unhealthy relationshipsHow emotional immaturity shows up in datingThe role of discipline and self-control in relationshipsHow to become more intentional and accountableHow women can identify red flags earlierWho This Episode Is ForMen who are dating or considering relationshipsMen struggling with purpose or consistencyWomen who feel drained or led onAnyone seeking healthier, more intentional relationships01:35 Introduction To Topic – Stop Wasting Her Time05:25 Your Neediness Waste Her Time12:32 Your Fleshly Desires Waste Her Time18:54 Getting It Out Your System Waste Her Time23:54 Your Empty Promises Waste Her Time32:00 Your Irresponsibility Waste Her Time38:40 Your Lack of Faith In God Waste Her Time46:54 Your Money Waste Her Time50:22 Your Lack of Purpose Waste Her Time56:22 Your Brokenness Waste Her Time

The habits you build today become the man you are tomorrow.In this episode, we break down the concept of muscle memory and how it applies far beyond the physical — into your relationships, your self-control, and your walk with God. When pressure hits, you don't rise to the occasion… you fall back on what you've practiced.We share practical tools to help you build habits that align with your future goals so that your default reactions become disciplined, intentional, and aligned with purpose.What You'll Learn in This EpisodeWhat muscle memory looks like in everyday lifeHow habits shape your future decisionsWhy repetition creates automatic behaviorHow to build self-control through consistencyHow to apply discipline in relationshipsHow to strengthen your spiritual habits with GodPractical systems for building better habitsWho This Episode Is ForMen focused on self-improvement and disciplineMen working to build better habitsMen strengthening their spiritual walkWomen seeking to understand men's growth journeyAnyone serious about long-term personal development0:00 Introduction – What Muscle Memory Means for Your Life13:10 Faith Muscle Memory 34:53 Relationship Muscle Memory 53:27 Sexual Control Muscle Memory muscle memory habits, habit building, self discipline for men, men self improvement, discipline and consistency, self control habits, spiritual discipline, christian self improvement, habits and success, personal development habits, building better habits, mental discipline men, long term success habits, godly discipline, consistency mindset, habit formation, training your mind, men growth mindset

There are seasons in a man's life where he needs to step back from everything — not to run away, but to grow.In this episode, we break down the real meaning behind “going ghost” and why it can be one of the most important decisions a man makes in his journey. From healing past wounds, to building his future, to deepening his relationship with God — intentional separation can be the foundation for transformation.We also explore how this impacts relationships and how both men and women can better understand these seasons.What You'll Learn in This EpisodeThe true meaning of “going ghost” for menWhen stepping away is necessary vs unhealthyThe 3 key seasons a man must separate to growHow healing requires distance and reflectionWhy building your life demands focus and disciplineHow solitude strengthens your relationship with GodHow to re-enter life stronger and more alignedWho This Episode Is ForMen pursuing growth, discipline, and purposeMen in healing or rebuilding seasonsMen seeking spiritual clarity and directionWomen wanting to understand men's life phasesAnyone navigating transformation and personal development

God is always speaking — often through the creative thoughts, ideas, dreams, and inspiration that move through your mind and heart.In today's episode, we share personal stories of how we've heard God speak creatively and how we've learned to steward those ideas with responsibility, discipline, and faith.We'll talk about how to recognize God's voice, how to separate divine nudges from random thoughts, and how to honor God by actually implementing the creative ideas He gives you. Whether you're an artist, entrepreneur, parent, leader, or someone simply wanting clarity, this episode will help you understand the role creativity plays in your spiritual journey.How to recognize when God is speaking through your ideasThe difference between random inspiration and divine creativityHow to steward God-given creativity with wisdomHow to take action on creative thoughts without fearHow to partner with God in your creative callingPractical habits that help you hear God more clearlyPersonal stories of hearing God through creativityFollowers of Christ who want deeper spiritual clarityAnyone wanting to hear God's voice more clearlyCreative people who want directionPeople stepping into purpose or callingEntrepreneurs, leaders, and dreamers seeking divine guidancehearing God's voice, god given creativity, god speaks through ideas, christian inspiration, spiritual discernment, creativity and faith, how to hear God, divine purpose, stewarding creativity, christian self improvement, god given gifts, spiritual creativity, hearing God in daily life, partnering with God, faith based creativity, god given calling, idea stewardship, Christian podcast episode, creativity and spiritualityEpisode Summary:In this episode, we explore how God uses creativity to communicate, inspire, and direct our lives. Through personal experiences and practical teaching, we share how to recognize creative thoughts that come from God and what it means to steward those ideas with maturity and intention.Key Takeaways:Creativity is one of God's primary communication toolsIdeas require stewardship, not just inspirationDiscernment grows through practiceGod often speaks softly, creatively, and consistently

Are you worried she's more interested in your money than your heart?In this episode, we unpack why so many men end up in relationships where they're valued for their wallet instead of their character. You'll learn how to identify early red flags, how to set stronger boundaries, and how to attract a woman who genuinely wants you — not your financial provision.Whether you're dating, looking for a wife, or already in a relationship or marriage where you feel used, this episode will give you the clarity, confidence, and tools you need to build real emotional connection instead of transactional relationships.What You'll Learn in This Episode:How to tell if she's using you for moneyThe psychology behind “provider-only” relationshipsHow men accidentally attract gold digger behaviorWhat high-value women actually want from menHow to set boundaries without being controllingHow to develop qualities women respect beyond moneyReal stories of men who ignored red flags (and what happened)A framework for choosing the right womanWho This Episode Is For:Men who want real, meaningful relationshipsMen who feel unappreciated or financially usedMen looking for wives or long-term partnersMen working on self-improvement and masculine identity

How do you go from a man without purpose or a clear future, to one full of vision and direction? How do you go from a child who faced nothing but rejection to a man who is followed by hundreds of thousands of people? How do you go from a lost sheep to the shepherd that guides a flock of God's children? That is the story of Pastor James Edwards of  ⁨@tfcchouston⁩  . A man who lived a life of rejection, lust, and street dreams. Now a man of vision, power, and love that has fully submitted his life to God. This episode is all about the story, process, and heart of "becoming" as a man. You can read Pastor James book "Secret of the Soul Tie" Here:https://www.pastorjamesedwards.church/store/p/audiobookYou can listen to Pastor James preach every Sunday at 9 & 11am CST at Transforming Faith Christian Center in Houston, TX or online  ⁨@tfcchouston⁩ You can also tune in to Grace & Truth Talks - The podcast with Pastor James Edwards & his wife Pastor Tiffany Edwards Here:https://www.instagram.com/graceandtruthtalks/?hl=enPastor James Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/pastorjamestfcc/?hl=en

It's one thing to get her, but how do you keep her? How do you keep a woman satisfied and happy throughout the course of a relationship. Women often times say "keep that same energy", but what does that actually mean for men? How do we maintain and even elevate in our relationship over time without allowing things to grow comfortable or performative.In this episode Rex & Myles dive deep into what it means to "Keep that same energy" for their partners and how other men can get a gameplan to do the same.

What happens when a man knows how to manipulate so well that he shows all the right signs? Does all the right actions, but the motive is all self-serving. In this episode Myles & Rex address a new game that is being played by using intentionality as a way to manipulate women into letting their guard down. We discuss the spiritual implications of living this way as a man and the cheat code to discern the truth behind a person's motives.

Why do men get married? What are the real reasons men hold off on marriage or finally propose after a lot of pressure? In this episode Rex & Myles discuss some of the prevalent reasons men choose to get married and the real life consequences of choosing to get Married for all the WRONG reasons. They also show the distinct difference between the implications of the wrong reasons vs. doing it for the sole RIGHT purpose. Looking to enhance your energy, performance, and mental accuity? Grab your Natural E-Man from the link below!https://naturaleman.com/?affiliate_id=4300052&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAadCSwTcHG10kQILGPOWkel6hSMr7n0X3pcaMTqCgkUnJoAd0S8xv23ot2IpuQ_aem_aLRABEHop5_PhgWTyQtkvg

What is going on in her head when she starts going silent in the relationship? Why do women decide to stop talking? Is it a sign things are coming to an end? Is it a trauma response? Or is it simply her just taking time to think before she speaks?In this episode Rex & Myles get the woman's perspective straight from the source with our special guest Coach Lauren Jackson. With her experience in coaching couples as well as her own lived experiences, Lauren gave wisdom that the fellas needed to hear straight from a woman's mouth!

Money plays an important role in a man's life. When the finances aren't on point or there is worry about them, men often shut down. Silence becomes our language for a number of reasons. In this episode Rex & Myles dive deep into why men go silent with their finances and what the consequences are of continued suffering in the dark.

Men often get to a point in relationships where they feel the best option for them is to withhold their words and go completely silent. This happens for a number of reasons where it be feeling unheard, childhood trauma, fear of rejection or any combination of factors. In this episode Rex & Myles get vulnerable about why we shut down as men, how we can navigate it, and ultimately the dangers of remaining silent in our relationship.

Playing it safe will only ever get a man so far. What are the things in your life that are a safety net for you, but are actually becoming hinderances to your progress? In this episode Rex & Myles breakdown the safety nets in their life that they have had to battle in order to grow into the men they are today.

In this powerful episode, we dive into part 2 of why men need therapy now more than ever. From emotional resilience to breaking generational cycles, Myles & Rex have an honest, unfiltered conversation about mental health, masculinity, and the importance of seeking help. Too many men still suffer in silence. Our mission with this podcast is to help men grow into their highest potential—mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually. Therapy is not a weakness; it's a strength. Tune in to hear personal insights, real talk, and the tools men need to thrive in today's world.Like, comment & subscribe to stay up to date on everything Let's Talk Like Men!

In this powerful episode, we dive into why men need therapy now more than ever. From emotional resilience to breaking generational cycles, Myles & Rex have an honest, unfiltered conversation about mental health, masculinity, and the importance of seeking help.Too many men still suffer in silence. Our mission with this podcast is to help men grow into their highest potential—mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually. Therapy is not a weakness; it's a strength. Tune in to hear personal insights, real talk, and the tools men need to thrive in today's world.Like, comment & subscribe to stay up to date on all the latest happenings with Let's Talk Like Men Podcast!

In this episode, we're diving into 6 common things men do in relationships that secretly (or not-so-secretly) drive their partners crazy. From communication slip-ups to emotional blind spots, we're breaking it all down with real talk and a little humor. Whether you're in a relationship or just trying to understand women better, this one's for you.Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more honest conversations about male personal development, dating, and everything in between.

Was the victory worth everything you had to lose just to say you won? What did it cost you to stay where you were? What did you lose trying to win the world but losing your spirit?

How do you make a man feel emotionally safe with you? Men's emotional safety opens the door for him to be vulnerable and transparent without fear of harm. Emotionally security also improves a man's mental health. In this episode we dive deep into the 6 key ways a woman can be a safe space for her man.

With the changing dynamics in dating, more and more couples are finding each other in different places across the world. Long distance can be a significant challenge that causes many relationships to fail. Rex & Myles both breakdown their extensive experience being in long distance relationships and how they were able to navigate them. What were the things that caused the most problems? How did you overcome them to make it this far with your partners? We give you all the tips you need and more in this episode!

Everybody thinks they have faith in God until it gets put to the test. What happens when life gets real and the going gets tough? How strong is your faith? In this episode Rex & Myles address the moments in their life when there faith was tested and the lessons they learned about whether their faith was sound or shaky.

6 key things women do that will turn off a good man. Finding the right partner is difficult. The last thing you want to do when you come across a good person is turn them off by not being prepared for them. In this video we give 6 things women do that annoy and turn off good men.

How do you set expectations and boundaries for a relationship headed towards marriage? You both know you want to be married, but you have not made that commitment yet before the court & God. Yes you are the woman I want to marry, but you're not my wife yet! Let's talk about it!

Men go through a lot of battles in life & a spiritual war is destined to be one of the toughest ones. In this episode we break down the causes and effects of spiritual trauma and how a man can find his true power in getting right with God.

Growing up in poverty, being expected to be a breadwinner, losing trust in people over money...these are just a few of the things that cause men to have a trauma when it comes to money. Today we get transparent and vulnerable on our own experiences with money and how some of those experiences have left scars that we are still healing from today.

Every man must face his relationship trauma in order for him to develop into the man he needs to be. It impacts him in every area of his life and will haunt him in hidden ways until he uncovers the root. In this episode we dive deep into our own experiences at a young age with relationships whether it be with parents, partners, or interpersonally. Our journey as men has been shaped both positively & negatively by those experiences and we need to spend some time breaking them down so we can be built back up.

Every man must face his sexual trauma in order for him to develop into the man he needs to be. It impacts him in every area of his life and will haunt him in hidden ways until he uncovers the root. In this episode we dive deep into our own experiences at a young age being introduced to the idea of sex and how our journey as men has been shaped both positively & negatively by those experiences.

There are 6 critical mistakes that we make as men when we hit the dating scene. These 6 things impact our ability to develop & keep strong relationships that actually lead to long term success. Rex & Myles break down these critical mistakes in order to give men the information they need to succeed in the dating scene, and not scare anybody along the way.

Our alignment with the word of God as Men is the most critical decision we could ever make. As leaders we must first learn to follow and be submissive. The question is, who are we being submissive to and who are we allowing to lead us? In this episode we break down the immediate and long term aftermath of a man getting himself right with God. While this journey is not always an easy one for the earthly heart...it is still a necessary one for the righteous man.

After a divorce or break up the most common question is how long should you wait before you go back on the dating scene. Break ups are difficult and serious thought is needed into when you put yourself back on the market.

He is dealing with multiple girls at the same time sexually, but only focuses on one romantically? How does this work and is it a "guy thing".

What are the main reasons you can't leave your toxic relationship?

What are the things we do on a daily basis that sabotage our life and limit our success? As part 2 of our Self-Inflicted wounds series, we address not only the beliefs but the behaviors that have held us back in life. Honest & transparent conversation you will be able to relate to your own life and apply for better results.

What do you do when you are dealing with a partner who is self absorbed and selfish?

Managing the expectations we place on our selves can hold us back as men. Limiting beliefs, unrealistic standards, & traumatic experiences all put men in a place where we cannot grow into our best selves. In this episode we dive deep into some of our limiting beliefs and how we are learning to manage them.

How do you change things you don't like about your life as a man? What steps can you take that will allow you to grow & develop into who you want to be? We will give you 6 direct and simple steps that men can use to get out of their old ways and into newer ones.

What makes a relationship fall apart after it was going so good for so long? Why do relationships end when two people love each other? There has to be a reason why love just might not be enough to keep it together. In this episode Rex & Myles break down what the little things are that get in the way & ultimately break things up for good.

Love languages are super important for couples to understand, but what happens when you and your partner's languages don't align? Rex & Myles provide tips and advice to a viewer on how to navigate this dynamic and align with your partner.

What are the key things every woman wants out of a man? Women have specific needs that as men & women date they need to be aware of each other's desires. The longer you interact the easier it is to forget the little things. Today we will dive in to a great conversation to identify those little things that have helped or harmed us in our relationships past and present. It's the little things that make the biggest difference!

6 Little Things That Make A Big Difference To A Man! Every man needs a few key things from his partner. If a woman can show up and display these things it will allow that man to flourish in every area of his life even further. The little things are the things that actually make the biggest difference in the long run.

How do you deal with everyone depending on you? That is the topic of discussion for today and an issue so many people face. The responsibility when your family, friends, & peers look to you to resolve issues, provide financial support, or sacrifice your time & effort for them. This is a weight like no other and requires an intensive conversation to truly provide transparency & advice on how to navigate this dynamic. Rex & Myles also review their time at DreamCon 2024 and address a hot topic surrounding intimacy & love languages amongst romantic partners.

How do you with the responsibility of being a believer in God? Following God's word can feel like a lot of pressure & expectation to live up to. In this episode we break down the weight that comes from being a Godly man & how you can better navigate this pressure so you can come closer to God. Pastor Douglas Wray of Impact Church Houston provides us with valuable insight, experiences, & scripture that bring this episode full circle.

All men need help and advice on how to control their temptations. Whether it be the temptation of women, food, substances or environments we all fall victim to our flesh in certain areas. There is a weight you carry when trying to deny your flesh of its desires. In this episode Myles & Rex break down the keys to this journey and the impact of the weight your flesh puts on you.

How does a man properly deal with the weight of leadership in their relationship? We give 6 areas that we carry weight when it comes to leadership romantically and how we can address the root issues. This conversation and series is meant to help bring awareness and transparency to common male problems and then give a safe space for healing and action moving forward. No more weight on our shoulders that don't need to be there.

Childhood trauma has impacted the lives of every man and inhibits our ability to grow as individuals and leaders. What is childhood trauma? How has it shown up in your life and impacted your interaction with others? How can we overcome what has happened in order to move forward and be our best selves? These are questions that Myles & Rex will answer in this episode through personal conversations on their own traumas from growing up. Through transparency this episode will relate to men struggling to overcome their traumas and put you on the right path towards healing.

How do you know she is the one? The one to marry? The one to birth your children? The one to settle down with forever? This episode discusses exactly how you can identify the signs that she is a keeper and that you need to get serious about marriage. Rex uses 8 signs from his own Fiancé that he utilized to make a wise decision on proposing to her. We also discuss a hot topic surrounding how fancy is too fancy for a first date?

After spending the first two episodes of this series discussing the signs for men...it was time to address the ladies. Men often struggle being able to identify if a woman is actually worth their time. In this episode Rex & Myles dive deep into the characteristics men need to look out for when choosing a woman because money women are not the one! They also discuss a hot topic surrounding the dynamic of a man buying your partner a drink when they are out with their friends.

This episode continues our SIGNS series where we discuss the signs that you as a man just aren't the one yet. There may be some shortcomings, insecurities, or areas for improvement that you need to address before you can become the man & partner you desire to be. That is what we will discuss in this episode where we dive deep into the key signs you are not ready yet to be "The One". We also discuss hot topics around natural vs lab vs moissanite engagement rings & address a letter about a young man who is unsure about the woman he is preparing to marry.

Myles & Rex debut their new series “The SIGNS” with a powerful episode discussing the signs you are maturing into a healthy man. It can be difficult to evaluate whether you are growing as a person and if that growth is headed in the right direction. The guys take the time in this episode to break down the key signals that you are on the right path. They also discuss a hot topic surrounding the Passport Bro's trend. They also respond to a Let's Talk Letter from a man who cannot let go of his past lover even though he is now in a good relationship.

One of the most controversial & engaging conversations today is how to manage finances in a relationship. Myles & Rex seek the advice & experience of Lonnie & Latoya Walker who have been married 23 years and have successfully developed a plan for their roles & finances for their marriage. In this episode they also discuss a hot topic around "The Bare Minimum" in a relationship & a Letter asking how a young man or young woman can best prepare themselves for their future partner.