Let's Talk Like Men

In this episode, we're diving into 6 common things men do in relationships that secretly (or not-so-secretly) drive their partners crazy. From communication slip-ups to emotional blind spots, we're breaking it all down with real talk and a little humor. Whether you're in a relationship or just trying to understand women better, this one's for you.Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more honest conversations about male personal development, dating, and everything in between.

Was the victory worth everything you had to lose just to say you won? What did it cost you to stay where you were? What did you lose trying to win the world but losing your spirit?

How do you make a man feel emotionally safe with you? Men's emotional safety opens the door for him to be vulnerable and transparent without fear of harm. Emotionally security also improves a man's mental health. In this episode we dive deep into the 6 key ways a woman can be a safe space for her man.

With the changing dynamics in dating, more and more couples are finding each other in different places across the world. Long distance can be a significant challenge that causes many relationships to fail. Rex & Myles both breakdown their extensive experience being in long distance relationships and how they were able to navigate them. What were the things that caused the most problems? How did you overcome them to make it this far with your partners? We give you all the tips you need and more in this episode!

Everybody thinks they have faith in God until it gets put to the test. What happens when life gets real and the going gets tough? How strong is your faith? In this episode Rex & Myles address the moments in their life when there faith was tested and the lessons they learned about whether their faith was sound or shaky.

6 key things women do that will turn off a good man. Finding the right partner is difficult. The last thing you want to do when you come across a good person is turn them off by not being prepared for them. In this video we give 6 things women do that annoy and turn off good men.

How do you set expectations and boundaries for a relationship headed towards marriage? You both know you want to be married, but you have not made that commitment yet before the court & God. Yes you are the woman I want to marry, but you're not my wife yet! Let's talk about it!

Men go through a lot of battles in life & a spiritual war is destined to be one of the toughest ones. In this episode we break down the causes and effects of spiritual trauma and how a man can find his true power in getting right with God.

Growing up in poverty, being expected to be a breadwinner, losing trust in people over money...these are just a few of the things that cause men to have a trauma when it comes to money. Today we get transparent and vulnerable on our own experiences with money and how some of those experiences have left scars that we are still healing from today.

Every man must face his relationship trauma in order for him to develop into the man he needs to be. It impacts him in every area of his life and will haunt him in hidden ways until he uncovers the root. In this episode we dive deep into our own experiences at a young age with relationships whether it be with parents, partners, or interpersonally. Our journey as men has been shaped both positively & negatively by those experiences and we need to spend some time breaking them down so we can be built back up.

Every man must face his sexual trauma in order for him to develop into the man he needs to be. It impacts him in every area of his life and will haunt him in hidden ways until he uncovers the root. In this episode we dive deep into our own experiences at a young age being introduced to the idea of sex and how our journey as men has been shaped both positively & negatively by those experiences.

There are 6 critical mistakes that we make as men when we hit the dating scene. These 6 things impact our ability to develop & keep strong relationships that actually lead to long term success. Rex & Myles break down these critical mistakes in order to give men the information they need to succeed in the dating scene, and not scare anybody along the way.

Our alignment with the word of God as Men is the most critical decision we could ever make. As leaders we must first learn to follow and be submissive. The question is, who are we being submissive to and who are we allowing to lead us? In this episode we break down the immediate and long term aftermath of a man getting himself right with God. While this journey is not always an easy one for the earthly heart...it is still a necessary one for the righteous man.

After a divorce or break up the most common question is how long should you wait before you go back on the dating scene. Break ups are difficult and serious thought is needed into when you put yourself back on the market.

He is dealing with multiple girls at the same time sexually, but only focuses on one romantically? How does this work and is it a "guy thing".

What are the main reasons you can't leave your toxic relationship?

What are the things we do on a daily basis that sabotage our life and limit our success? As part 2 of our Self-Inflicted wounds series, we address not only the beliefs but the behaviors that have held us back in life. Honest & transparent conversation you will be able to relate to your own life and apply for better results.

What do you do when you are dealing with a partner who is self absorbed and selfish?

Managing the expectations we place on our selves can hold us back as men. Limiting beliefs, unrealistic standards, & traumatic experiences all put men in a place where we cannot grow into our best selves. In this episode we dive deep into some of our limiting beliefs and how we are learning to manage them.

How do you change things you don't like about your life as a man? What steps can you take that will allow you to grow & develop into who you want to be? We will give you 6 direct and simple steps that men can use to get out of their old ways and into newer ones.

What makes a relationship fall apart after it was going so good for so long? Why do relationships end when two people love each other? There has to be a reason why love just might not be enough to keep it together. In this episode Rex & Myles break down what the little things are that get in the way & ultimately break things up for good.

Love languages are super important for couples to understand, but what happens when you and your partner's languages don't align? Rex & Myles provide tips and advice to a viewer on how to navigate this dynamic and align with your partner.

What are the key things every woman wants out of a man? Women have specific needs that as men & women date they need to be aware of each other's desires. The longer you interact the easier it is to forget the little things. Today we will dive in to a great conversation to identify those little things that have helped or harmed us in our relationships past and present. It's the little things that make the biggest difference!

6 Little Things That Make A Big Difference To A Man! Every man needs a few key things from his partner. If a woman can show up and display these things it will allow that man to flourish in every area of his life even further. The little things are the things that actually make the biggest difference in the long run.

How do you deal with everyone depending on you? That is the topic of discussion for today and an issue so many people face. The responsibility when your family, friends, & peers look to you to resolve issues, provide financial support, or sacrifice your time & effort for them. This is a weight like no other and requires an intensive conversation to truly provide transparency & advice on how to navigate this dynamic. Rex & Myles also review their time at DreamCon 2024 and address a hot topic surrounding intimacy & love languages amongst romantic partners.

How do you with the responsibility of being a believer in God? Following God's word can feel like a lot of pressure & expectation to live up to. In this episode we break down the weight that comes from being a Godly man & how you can better navigate this pressure so you can come closer to God. Pastor Douglas Wray of Impact Church Houston provides us with valuable insight, experiences, & scripture that bring this episode full circle.

All men need help and advice on how to control their temptations. Whether it be the temptation of women, food, substances or environments we all fall victim to our flesh in certain areas. There is a weight you carry when trying to deny your flesh of its desires. In this episode Myles & Rex break down the keys to this journey and the impact of the weight your flesh puts on you.

How does a man properly deal with the weight of leadership in their relationship? We give 6 areas that we carry weight when it comes to leadership romantically and how we can address the root issues. This conversation and series is meant to help bring awareness and transparency to common male problems and then give a safe space for healing and action moving forward. No more weight on our shoulders that don't need to be there.

Childhood trauma has impacted the lives of every man and inhibits our ability to grow as individuals and leaders. What is childhood trauma? How has it shown up in your life and impacted your interaction with others? How can we overcome what has happened in order to move forward and be our best selves? These are questions that Myles & Rex will answer in this episode through personal conversations on their own traumas from growing up. Through transparency this episode will relate to men struggling to overcome their traumas and put you on the right path towards healing.

How do you know she is the one? The one to marry? The one to birth your children? The one to settle down with forever? This episode discusses exactly how you can identify the signs that she is a keeper and that you need to get serious about marriage. Rex uses 8 signs from his own Fiancé that he utilized to make a wise decision on proposing to her. We also discuss a hot topic surrounding how fancy is too fancy for a first date?

After spending the first two episodes of this series discussing the signs for men...it was time to address the ladies. Men often struggle being able to identify if a woman is actually worth their time. In this episode Rex & Myles dive deep into the characteristics men need to look out for when choosing a woman because money women are not the one! They also discuss a hot topic surrounding the dynamic of a man buying your partner a drink when they are out with their friends.

This episode continues our SIGNS series where we discuss the signs that you as a man just aren't the one yet. There may be some shortcomings, insecurities, or areas for improvement that you need to address before you can become the man & partner you desire to be. That is what we will discuss in this episode where we dive deep into the key signs you are not ready yet to be "The One". We also discuss hot topics around natural vs lab vs moissanite engagement rings & address a letter about a young man who is unsure about the woman he is preparing to marry.

Myles & Rex debut their new series “The SIGNS” with a powerful episode discussing the signs you are maturing into a healthy man. It can be difficult to evaluate whether you are growing as a person and if that growth is headed in the right direction. The guys take the time in this episode to break down the key signals that you are on the right path. They also discuss a hot topic surrounding the Passport Bro's trend. They also respond to a Let's Talk Letter from a man who cannot let go of his past lover even though he is now in a good relationship.

One of the most controversial & engaging conversations today is how to manage finances in a relationship. Myles & Rex seek the advice & experience of Lonnie & Latoya Walker who have been married 23 years and have successfully developed a plan for their roles & finances for their marriage. In this episode they also discuss a hot topic around "The Bare Minimum" in a relationship & a Letter asking how a young man or young woman can best prepare themselves for their future partner.

Myles & Rex bring on finance coach Nikki' Clayton to dive deep into the world of investing! It's one thing to make & save money. It is a whole other thing to learn how to make your money work for you! The principles given in this episode will allow you to evaluate your financial future and get to work! They also discuss hot topics like 20 v 1 dating videos & a letter from Myles himself!

Excited to have two amazing Credit Experts on this episode as we take a deep dive into how to build and/or repair your credit. Lamarr Nash & LaLover Horace have many years of experience in not only perfecting the use of their own credit, but also in helping others do the same. In this episode they provide countless insight into the credit game and how you can play it to win! Myles & Rex engage these two in a Hot Topic around discussing credit scores on a first date, & how to manage financial obligations in a relationship.

Kicking off a month of financial education Myles & Rex discuss personal finance & Budgeting. Financial Coach Ikechi Ukazu provides an enormous amount of education and game to every man who is looking for guidance on getting their personal finances together. They also discuss hot topics such as dating when your are broke & how to deal with financial transitions in a relationship.

In this episode Rex & Myles recap their recent trip into the "M.E.N.S.S. Cave Event". A safe space for black men of all ages to dive deep into the things we are all dealing with in life. They have an amazing recap and conversation around male love languages, a man's need for validation & father wounds. They also address a Hot Topic surrounding advice from a 2x divorced woman & respond to a Letter from a viewer whose partner cannot seem to change.

Rex & Myles use this episode to challenge single people everywhere to assess whether they are truly ready for love. Many want the aesthetic and the comfort of love, but are not prepared and equipped to be able to love again. Their "Hot Topic" discusses the signs a woman gives when she is about to leave the relationship.

Rex & Myles have a powerful discussion on a man controlling his zipper. This conversation revolves around how and why it is important to control your sexual urges and temptations as a man. They also discuss the idea of "changing when the right person comes along" and why this may not lead to the outcome you desire.

In the 2nd part of our ready for war series Rex & Myles address the ability to be mentally fit & prepared for attacks. They discuss the benefits of being a mentally stable, strategic, & aware man has on the world around you. They also discuss the topic of interracial dating as well as deciding if you should wait on someone to change.

Attacks from the enemy come from far & wide & a man must be prepared. Physical attacks is one way you may be challenged in life. In this episode Rex & Myles discuss why your physical fitness as a man can make a vast difference in the way you move in the world. They also discuss who should defend the family when there is a bump in the night as well as why a man doesn't stay consistent when dating.

Myles & Rex dive deep into the word of God and reference biblical scirptures on male leadership. The Bible is one of the greatest blueprints for how God wants a man to lead himself, his family, & his community. We must be spiritually aligned in our leadership as men. They also discuss how people play themselves or play others. They finally wrap up the episode addressing circumstances where everything makes sense but God has told you to go another direction romantically.

Rex & Myles take on part 3 of their leadership series and address the direct and indirect consequences of poor masculine leadership. Whether the consequences be specific to the individual themselves or the surrounding community...Rex & Myles address it all. They also have discussions around taking a person back after cheating and how to deal with a partner who has an overbearing parent.

Rex & Myles break down the specific steps a man must take in order to become a leader. They provide 6 tangible actions every man can reflect upon and find their strengths and weaknesses in order to better develop their leadership capabilities. They also address living with your partner before marriage & discuss why men turn to alcohol when going through things in their life.

Myles & Rex are back again and are taking a deep dive into masculine leadership. They provide 6 tangible characteristics every man can strive and exhibit as they are on their journey towards being a great leader. They also have conversations about dating when your finances are low & whether a Hoe Phase is necessary on your manhood journey.

Rex and Myles embark on a thought provoking conversation with Western Fashion Influencer Deion King. They discuss everything from how mental health affects relationships, trauma bonding, and racism in the western industry. 

Rex & Myles dive deep into the key signs you should look out for when in a relationship that needs to end. They give you tangible perspectives that will allow you to evaluate and reflect on your situation and understand if you need to take action. They also address whether it is appropriate for Usher & Alicia to embrace romantically on stage, & how to communicate financial struggles to your partner.

Learning how to love again is difficult. It takes very particular steps to ensure you go about healing your broken heart and mind in order to be prepared for your next relationship. Rex & Myles breakdown the key steps to look out for in this episode. They also address how to gift give for your partner, and learning how to let someone go.

Finding a woman with good characteristics is not an easy thing to do in 2024. There are so many influences and traps set up to bring failure when a man is dating. Rex & Myles take a deep dive into the characteristics and actions to look for when trying to identify a good woman. They also dive into social conversations regarding whether a man should still "ask' his girlfriend to be his Valentine, and why a man may be unwilling to commit to a relationship.

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