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3-minute parenting tips and ideas to help families be more successful. No technical jargon, just common-sense, practical advice you can apply today.

Dr. Roger Smith


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    Expand Their World: The Power of Hospitality | Episode 385

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2025 4:21


    Want your kids to have a "huge world" instead of a "small world"? Dr. Roger Smith on Parenting Matters Now reveals how practicing hospitality—inviting diverse people into your home—can profoundly broaden your children's intellectual, emotional, and philosophical horizons. Discover how simple connections can open their minds and foster understanding. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    An Earthy Approach to Calm: Grounding for You and Your Child | Episode 384

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2025 3:34


    Are you or your child struggling with anxiety? Dr. Roger Smith introduces an often-overlooked practice: grounding. In a world where we're rarely in direct contact with the earth, discover the potential therapeutic benefits of simply touching the ground. Learn why encouraging your child to go barefoot, play in the dirt, and connect with nature might be a powerful, yet simple, way to promote well-being and alleviate sensory deficits. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Beyond Their Years: Nurturing Your Child's Maturity | Episode 383

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2025 4:54


    Is your child maturing at the pace you hoped for? Join Dr. Roger Smith on Parenting Matters Now as he shares actionable strategies to foster your child's growth. Discover the powerful impact of involving five non-parental adults in their lives and the art of asking open-ended questions to encourage critical thinking and deeper connection. Learn how broadening their experiences with diverse individuals can unlock their full potential and help them blossom into well-rounded, mature individuals. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    The Risky Business of Raising Kids | Episode 382

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2025 4:43


    Are you teaching your children to play it safe, or empowering them to take calculated risks and innovate? Dr. Roger Smith challenges common parenting advice, arguing that fostering a risk-taking mindset is crucial for children to become problem-solvers, dreamers, and leaders. Discover how overprotection, premature rescuing, and excessive praise can hinder their development, and learn practical ways to encourage adventure and resilience in your kids.   Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Navigating Conflict: A Lifelong Skill | Episode 381

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 4, 2025 1:53


    Do you ever find yourself in a tug-of-war with your kids? In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith tackles the inevitability of conflict in families. Discover how you can transform disagreements into valuable learning experiences, teaching your children essential skills like active listening and clear communication without accusations. Learn why fostering conflict resolution in childhood is one of the most impactful gifts you can give your kids, preparing them for healthy relationships throughout their lives. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    The Power of Names | Episode 380

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2025 3:03


    Ever considered the stories behind the names all around us? In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith shares a unique perspective from Palm Springs, California. He explains why understanding the significance of names—from streets to cars to even your child's own name—can be a powerful tool to help kids connect with and understand the world around them. Discover how explaining these simple connections can create "mental hooks" for learning and add value to your child's identity. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Hot Tub Safety for Kids | Episode 379

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 30, 2025 2:22


    Ever wondered if it's safe for your kids to join you in the hot tub? In this concise episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith breaks down the potential dangers of hot tubs for small children and offers crucial advice for parents. Learn why children's bodies react differently to temperature and what to watch out for to ensure a safe and fun experience. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Grandparent Gauntlet: Navigating Family Dynamics | Episode 378

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2025 3:52


    Are you struggling to set boundaries with well-meaning but sometimes overbearing grandparents? Dr. Roger Smith of Parenting Matters Now delves into the common "landmines" that can arise with in-laws and grandparents. Learn how to foster open communication, manage expectations around rules, gifts, and traditions, and maintain that crucial grandparent-grandchild bond without undermining your role as a parent. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Are You Accidentally Fueling Your Child's Anxiety? | Episode 377

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2025 3:05


    Is your child experiencing anxiety, fear, or worry? Dr. Roger Smith of Parenting Matters Now explores how common household habits, like constant news consumption, can unknowingly contribute to your child's anxieties. Learn how to create a more calming home environment and help your children put stressful events into perspective, fostering a sense of safety and well-being. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com

    Beyond Car Care: Teaching Kids Responsibility | Episode 376

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 23, 2025 2:51


    Does the thought of your kids pumping gas or checking the oil sound like a distant dream? Dr. Roger Smith of Parenting Matters Now shares how everyday tasks, like car maintenance, can be powerful training grounds for teaching children responsibility, independence, and a "take care of things" mindset. Discover how to empower your kids from a young age, ensuring they're well-equipped for adulthood, just like Zig Ziglar's philosophy on training employees. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

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    When Rules Are Broken | Episode 375

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2025 2:49


    Do you ever break your own rules? Dr. Roger Smith opens this episode of Parenting Matters Now with a relatable moment of almost setting muddy boots on the dinner table, highlighting how easily we can slip up. This leads to a crucial discussion: how do we react when our children break rules? Dr. Smith encourages parents to look beyond the behavior itself. Sometimes, rule-breaking isn't rebellion, but a result of carelessness, distraction, or even a valid underlying reason. Learn why it's essential to wisely evaluate the situation and understand what's truly going on with your child, rather than immediately imposing consequences. Discover the power of extending the same grace to our children that we often give ourselves when we unintentionally break our own guidelines. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Understanding Your Child's "Tired" Phase | Episode 374

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2025 2:50


    Is your child constantly saying "I'm tired"? If they're between 10 and 14, Dr. Roger Smith explains why it's likely more than just a complaint! In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, discover the neurodevelopmental shifts happening during pre-pubescence and puberty that genuinely increase a child's need for sleep. Learn how their developing emotional brain influences their expression of fatigue, and why compassion and providing downtime are crucial. Understand the internal changes your child is experiencing, even before external signs of puberty appear, and how to best support them through this naturally exhausting stage of growth. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    The Power of "I Can" | Episode 373

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2025 2:21


    This episode of Parenting Matters Now with Dr. Roger Smith tackles a crucial question: How do we help our children embrace challenges and grow through them? While the value of doing hard things is undeniable—it's where true growth happens—Dr. Smith focuses on the "how." He emphasizes the profound impact of mindset, referencing the timeless wisdom: "He who wins is he who thinks he can." Discover why instilling hope and confidence in your child's ability to conquer difficult tasks is paramount, and how your own modeling of this "can-do" attitude is key. As Henry Ford famously said, "Whether you think you can or you think you cannot, you are right." Tune in to learn how to inspire your child to believe in themselves and find the worth in every challenge. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Is Grammar Really That Important? | Episode 372

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2025 3:28


    Do you find yourself battling your child over grammar? Dr. Roger Smith dives into a surprising question: how much does grammar truly matter in the grand scheme of parenting? Using a humorous anecdote, he illustrates when perfect grammar is essential and when it might be secondary to bigger goals. Discover why preserving your relationship with your child should always take precedence over a grammar tussle. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Talking About Loss: Navigating Grief with Your Children | Episode 371

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2025 3:22


    Death is an uncomfortable but unavoidable part of life. In this episode Dr. Roger Smith tackles the difficult topic of discussing death and grief with your children. Learn how to address questions, foster healthy grieving, and support your kids through loss, whether it's a beloved pet, a family member, or even the "death of a dream." Discover how open conversations can help children cope and move forward. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Sing Your Way to Stronger Family Bonds! | Episode 370

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2025 3:16


    Ever wondered how music can transform your parenting? Join Dr. Roger Smith as he reveals the incredible power of singing with your children. From soothing tantrums to building lasting memories, discover why a family sing-along, no matter your vocal talent, is a powerful tool for connection and comfort. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com

    Blessing Your Children: The Power of Intentional Words | Episode 369

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2025 3:53


    Do your children truly feel blessed by your words? In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith goes beyond simple praise to explore the profound impact of intentional blessings. Discover how specific, heartfelt words can be a springboard for your child's life, inspiring them with a sense of adoration and purpose. Learn practical ways to craft meaningful affirmations, even if it feels uncomfortable at first. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com

    Habit Forming: Guiding Kids to Good Routines | Episode 368

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2025 3:39


    Habits often get a bad rap, but what if they're the key to smoother parenting? In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith reveals how to proactively shape your children's positive habits, from tidiness to kindness. Learn effective, repetitive strategies that build "muscle memory" for good behavior, saving you from constant nagging and fostering independent, responsible kids. Tune in for practical, few-minute parenting advice! Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com

    The Ripple Effect: Helping Kids Own Their Mistakes | Episode 367

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2025 3:30


    Ever wonder what happens when your or your child's mistakes create a mess for others? In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith shares a real-life observation that highlights the ripple effect of our actions. Learn practical ways to help your kids own their missteps, understand the impact of their choices, and take responsibility for making things right – all without anger or condemnation. Tune in for quick, actionable parenting advice! Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com

    Gather 'Round: The Power of Fire for Family Connection | Episode 366

    Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2025 2:44


    What's the unique value of gathering around a fire with your children? On this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith explores the almost magical quality of fire to foster connection and storytelling within families. Discover how a simple fireplace, fire pit, or campfire can become a powerful tool for parents to open up communication, encourage listening, and share family or historical narratives. Dr. Roger Smith discusses how the mesmerizing nature of flames can create an environment ripe for deeper connection and transformative moments with your children. Tune in to learn how to intentionally create these "fire opportunities" to strengthen your family bonds. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com

    Beyond the Floaties: Why Your Child Needs to Swim | Episode 365

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2025 3:36


    Ever wondered why teaching your kids to swim is so important? On this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Rogers Smith dives into why swimming is more than just a safety precaution. Discover how learning to swim can open up a world of opportunities for your children, contribute to their life experiences, and even their sense of purpose. Dr. Miller shares practical advice on how to start, even if your little ones are just beginning in the bathtub, and emphasizes the importance of creating positive early experiences with water. Learn why this essential skill is crucial, not just for safety around pools and open water, but for a richer, more fulfilling life. Tune in for valuable insights on helping your children become comfortable and confident in the water. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    The Spanking Question: A Nuanced Look at Corporal Punishment | Episode 364

    Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2025 5:33


    Spanking: a parenting hot topic. Join Dr. Roger Smith for a nuanced discussion that goes beyond the typical pro vs. con debate. Regardless of your stance, Dr. Roger Smith asks you to consider the underlying principle: that pain can be a form of communication. Explore the intention behind corporal punishment as a language to establish boundaries, emphasizing that it should be rooted in love and training, never retaliation or anger. Learn to discern when physical correction might be used carefully and when it's crucial to transition to more effective, less "noxious" methods that foster self-control as children mature. Prepare for a thought-provoking perspective on this sensitive subject and share your thoughts respectfully.  Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Beyond Bad Behavior: Could Fear Be the Real Issue? | Episode 363

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2025 3:35


    Have your child's misbehavior or harsh words ever left you wondering what's really going on? Join Dr. Roger Smith for a thought-provoking look at the surprising role fear can play in our children's actions. Discover how insecurity and the fear of rejection can drive kids to "do or say things that offend" or that they later regret. Learn to look beyond the surface behavior and identify the underlying fear, enabling you to respond with understanding and guidance instead of just correction. Tune in for insights on fostering your own emotional stability and helping your child navigate their fears in healthy ways. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Laundry Lessons: Empowering Kids with Essential Life Skills | Episode 362

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2025 2:13


    Is your teen still relying on you for laundry? Join Dr. Roger Smith  for a quick dose of essential parenting advice. Discover why teaching your children to do laundry, from matching socks as toddlers to independently washing and ironing as teens, is a crucial life skill you're not doing them any favors by skipping. Learn how to involve kids at every age, turning everyday chores into valuable training for adulthood. Tune in to empower your children with independence, one wash cycle at a time. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Winnie the Pooh's Parenting Wisdom: Cultivating Gratitude in Kids | Episode 361

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2025 3:20


    Can Winnie the Pooh teach us about raising grateful kids? Join Dr. Roger Smith for quick, insightful parenting advice. Discover how A.A. Milne's Piglet, with his small heart and vast gratitude, offers a powerful lesson for parents. Learn practical exercises to model and cultivate an "attitude of gratefulness" in your children, helping them see beyond themselves and appreciate the good around them. Tune in for actionable tips to nurture this vital character quality. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Like Parent, Like Child? The Power of Parental Influence | Episode 360

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2025 3:09


    Do children truly follow in their parents' footsteps? Join Dr. Rogers as he explores the popular sayings "like father, like son," "chip off the old block," and "apples don't fall far from the tree." While acknowledging that children can forge their own paths, Dr. Roger Smith emphasizes the powerful influence parents have on their kids' character – both the good and the bad. He encourages parents to honestly evaluate their own traits and set character-based goals for self-improvement, recognizing that they are constantly "reproducing" themselves in their children. Discover why working on your own growth is a vital part of raising the next generation. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Unexpected Connections: Finding Wisdom in a Chance Meeting | Episode 359

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2025 3:18


    Ever strike up a conversation with a stranger and find unexpected inspiration? Join Dr. Roger Smith as he shares a chance encounter at an airport gate with a young woman on her way to Midland, Texas. Discover how a simple conversation about life, dreams of becoming a nurse, and a powerful Teddy Roosevelt quote led to a moment of connection and a reminder that meaningful moments can happen anywhere. Tune in for this quick dose of parenting wisdom and a heartwarming story about the richness strangers can bring to our lives. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Discovering Friendship and Knowledge in Unexpected Places | Episode 358

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2025 3:38


    What's the real value of a friend? Dr. Roger Smith introduces a friend, a shrimping expert, and shares how unexpected friendships can enrich your life and broaden your understanding of the world. Discover the surprising things you can learn from those around you and why exposing your children to diverse individuals is a crucial part of their growth. Tune in for insights on the power of connection and the wisdom found in everyday encounters. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com

    Love That Protects: Addressing Mistakes Without Shame | Episode 357

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2025 2:24


    What does it truly mean to love your children? In this episode, Dr. Roger Smith explores whether your children truly feel your love through your actions. Drawing from the idea that love covers wrongdoings, he poses a crucial question: Are you more inclined to protect your child's mistakes with their sense of shame in mind, or do you tend to expose and weaponize them? Dr. Smith clarifies that addressing wrongdoing is essential, but the key lies in how you do it. Discover the difference between exposing and quietly correcting, and how the latter fosters a deep sense of being loved and protected. Tune in to reflect on how your actions communicate love to your children. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    The Father's Influence: Why Dad Matters in the Home | Episode 356

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2025 9:23


    Does a dad really make a difference?  Dr. Roger Smith speaks directly to fathers about their vital role in the home. While acknowledging single-parent households, this episode focuses on empowering dads to increase their influence on their children's development, self-confidence, and ability to handle life's stresses. Discover simple yet powerful ways fathers can connect, even if they've felt emotionally distant. Dr. Smith shares practical tips, from bedside chats and playtime to being present and truly listening. Learn how building a healthy, caring relationship through small, consistent efforts can create a lasting positive impact and foster a stronger family. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    The Parental Shift: From Control to Connection in the Teen Years | Episode 355

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2025 3:20


    Navigating the turbulent teenage years? Feeling frustrated by the shift in your parenting role?  Dr. Roger Smith introduces the crucial concept of the "parental shift." Discover why the control you had with your newborn naturally diminishes as they grow, especially into their teens. Learn the key to a smoother family dynamic: transitioning from control to influence. Dr. Smith explains how building a strong relationship based on trust, respect, and communication becomes your most powerful tool. If you're experiencing conflict and resistance with your teenager, you might still be in the control zone. Tune in to understand how to cultivate influence and foster a healthier connection. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    The Self-Confidence Secret: Lifting Others to Lift Your Child | Episode 354

    Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2025 3:10


    Want to boost your child's self-confidence? Join Dr. Roger Smith on Parenting Matters Now for a quick yet powerful insight. Discover the surprising secret to building genuine self-assurance in your kids: helping them focus on others. Learn how giving children opportunities to assist others, do favors, and volunteer not only benefits those they help but also profoundly increases their own sense of self-worth and competence. Plus, understand the crucial role of your own perception in fostering their confidence. Tune in to learn how lifting others can truly lift your child. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com

    The Unfinished Story: Seeing Your Child's Full Potential | Episode 353

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2025 4:25


    Ever look at your child and feel like you're only seeing an unfinished picture? Join Dr. Roger Smith on Parenting Matters Now as he uses a surprising analogy – a reclaimed 3,000-gallon milk tank – to illustrate the ongoing process of raising children. Discover how to look beyond their current imperfections and focus on their potential. Learn the importance of patience, understanding their developmental stage, and nurturing their growth to help them complete their unique story and discover their mission in life. Tune in for insights on how to be the "conditioner" who guides them towards their full capacity. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com

    Beyond the Thermometer: Taking Action in Your Parenting | Episode 352

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2025 4:08


    Are you a thermostat parent or just a thermometer? Join Dr. Rogers Smith on Parenting Matters Now for quick, actionable parenting advice. Learn how to move beyond simply labeling your child's behavior and instead, like a thermostat, initiate positive changes to help them grow. Discover practical ways to respond to challenging situations and guide your children towards desirable behavior, one small step at a time. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com

    The Parent's Role in Preventing Bullying | Episode 351

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2025 4:27


    Worried about bullies? What if the issue starts at home? Dr. Roger Smith of Parenting Matters Now tackles the challenging topic of children who exhibit bullying tendencies. Learn to recognize the mindset of a bully and understand that parents have a vital role in training their children away from this behavior. Discover practical ways to cultivate kindness from toddlerhood, emphasizing empathy and consideration for others. Understand why rewarding kindness is a powerful tool in preventing aggression and building a foundation for compassionate interactions. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com

    Don't Underestimate the Little Things | Episode 350

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2025 3:40


    What truly shapes your child's future success and resilience? It might not be what you think. Dr. Roger Smith of Parenting Matters Now dives into the often-underestimated power of the "small things" in life. Learn why being "extraordinary at the ordinary" – those consistent, everyday interactions – has a monumental impact on a child's development, even from infancy. Discover how your daily routines and responses are laying the groundwork for their confidence, emotional strength, and ability to tackle life's challenges. Tune in to shift your perspective and appreciate the extraordinary power of the ordinary. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com

    Connecting at the Table | Episode 349

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2025 7:00


    Want to unlock a simple yet powerful key to your children's future? Dr. Roger Smith from Parenting Matters Now reveals why mealtime is one of the most important times in your family. Forget just getting food on the table – this episode provides practical, easy-to-implement ideas to transform your dinner table into a hub of connection, conversation, and fun. Learn how to ditch the distractions, spark engaging discussions, and cultivate gratitude, ultimately creating lasting positive impacts on your children. Tune in to discover how to make your next mealtime truly matter. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com

    The Balance of Boundaries: Rules vs. Values in Parenting | Episode 348

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2025 6:12


    Is it better to be a "rock" or "go with the flow" when parenting? Dr. Roger Smith of Parenting Matters Now explores the delicate balance between firmness and flexibility in raising children. Learn how to navigate the shift from strict rules for young children, who need clear boundaries, to guiding teenagers with underlying values rather than rigid regulations. Discover how to gradually transition your children towards independence, preparing them for the real world while maintaining your core principles. This episode provides insights into fostering self-control and wise decision-making, moving from parental control to lasting influence. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    When Kids Struggle With Friendships: A Parent's Guide | Episode 347

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2025 6:11


    Join Dr. Roger Smith of Parenting Matters Now as he tackles the heartbreaking challenge many parents face: helping a child who struggles to make friends. In this insightful episode, Dr. Smith offers a compassionate approach to understanding the root causes of friendship difficulties and provides practical strategies for parents. Learn how to respond with empathy rather than rushing to solutions, why friendship-building is a long-term process, and discover specific conversation techniques you can teach your child. Dr. Smith shares a particularly valuable insight about training children to ask questions about others rather than focusing on themselves—a simple yet powerful skill that can transform social interactions. Whether your child is shy, socially awkward, or simply in a challenging social environment, this episode provides the tools you need to help them develop meaningful connections. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    The Art of Listening to Your Child: Building Connection Through Attention | Episode 346

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2025 5:12


    Join Dr. Roger Smith of Parenting Matters Now as he explores the often overlooked parenting skill of truly listening to your child. In this insightful episode, Dr. Smith distinguishes between different types of listening situations and offers practical guidance on how to respond appropriately to each. Learn why eye contact can be more important than verbal feedback, how to avoid turning conversations into interrogations, and why respecting your child's dreams—even seemingly impossible ones—builds crucial trust. Dr. Smith shares wisdom on creating meaningful connections through attentive listening, whether your child is simply chatting or sharing something they consider important. Discover how your facial expressions, body language, and quality of attention can build a bridge to your child's heart and mind in ways that words alone cannot. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com

    Finding Calm Through Grounding: A Natural Approach to Anxiety | Episode 345

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2025 3:34


    If you or your child experiences anxiety, you might find relief through a simple yet powerful practice that connects you directly with the earth beneath you. The therapeutic technique of "grounding" or "earthing" involves direct physical contact with the earth's surface—walking barefoot on grass, sand, or soil. This connection with nature has been shown to help reduce stress hormones and promote a sense of calm and stability for many people. For children especially, the sensory experience of feeling different natural textures underfoot can redirect their focus away from anxious thoughts and back to present-moment awareness. This physical connection provides both a literal and metaphorical grounding effect during moments of emotional turbulence. While not a replacement for professional treatment when anxiety is severe, these grounding practices can be a helpful addition to your wellness toolkit, offering a moment of pause and reconnection when anxiety begins to rise. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com

    Expanding Horizons: How Hospitality Opens Your Child's World | Episode 344

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2025 3:47


    Every parent stands at a crossroads of influence—will your child grow up with a limited view of the world, or will they develop a rich understanding of diverse cultures, perspectives, and experiences? One of the most powerful ways to expand your child's horizons happens right at your own table. When you welcome others into your home—people from different backgrounds, generations, or life experiences—you're creating living lessons in empathy and connection that no textbook can match. Through hospitality, your child witnesses meaningful conversations, hears diverse viewpoints, and learns that differences enrich rather than threaten. These moments teach them to move beyond comfort zones, ask curious questions, and see the humanity in everyone they meet. The simple act of sharing your space and breaking bread with others can transform your child's understanding of the world—not through abstract lessons, but through authentic human connections that gradually expand the boundaries of their worldview. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com

    Gathering at the Table: Creating Meaningful Family Mealtimes | Episode 343

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2025 7:00


    In the rhythm of family life, few moments hold as much potential for connection as the simple act of sharing a meal together. These daily gatherings around your table offer far more than just physical nourishment—they create space for stories, laughter, and the kind of conversations that weave your family's unique tapestry. Consider transforming your mealtimes from routine necessities into meaningful rituals. Create an atmosphere that invites presence—perhaps with a special playlist softly playing, phones tucked away, or candles occasionally lit. The goal isn't picture-perfect dining but rather an environment where everyone feels welcome to bring their whole selves to the table. These shared meals become anchors in your family's collective memory—the place where inside jokes are born, where challenges are processed together, and where your children learn they belong to something larger than themselves. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Mirror Moments: When Teen Attitudes Reflect Our Own | Episode 342

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2025 5:57


    When tension rises and your teenager's attitude seems unbearable, pause for a moment of honest reflection. Could their defensive posture be a response to something in your approach? The teenage years bring a natural push for independence alongside rapidly changing emotions and perspectives. In these challenging moments, the question worth asking isn't just "Why won't they listen?" but "Am I truly hearing what they're trying to say?" Communication breakdowns often occur when teenagers feel their thoughts and feelings are dismissed before being understood. By stepping back and genuinely seeking to understand their perspective—without immediate judgment or correction—you create space for authentic connection. This doesn't mean accepting disrespect, but rather recognizing that meaningful dialogue requires both parties to feel valued. Sometimes, the most powerful parenting tool isn't asserting authority but demonstrating the humility to listen first. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Nurturing Greatness: From Ordinary Childhood to Extraordinary Impact | Episode 341

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2025 4:44


    Every person who has changed our world—whether through science, art, leadership, or compassion—once sat at someone's dinner table, played in someone's backyard, and was tucked in at night by someone who loved them. The extraordinary journey begins in ordinary moments. When you introduce your child to heroes and their stories, you're planting seeds of possibility. These aren't just tales of fame; they're blueprints for character, perseverance, and purpose. By sharing these stories, you help your child see beyond current limitations toward their own potential for impact. The greatest gift isn't preparing your child for celebrity, but nurturing the qualities that create meaningful lives: courage, creativity, compassion, and conviction. Whether or not their name becomes widely known, these qualities will ensure their life brings significance—to their community, their loved ones, and to a world waiting for their unique contribution. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com

    The Joy of Growing Families: Embracing the Adventure | Episode 340

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2025 4:14


    The arrival of your first child transforms your world completely—shifting priorities, reshaping routines, and opening your heart in ways you never imagined possible. As your family grows, so too does the rich tapestry of relationships, experiences, and learning opportunities within your home. Many parents discover unexpected benefits as their family expands. Older children often develop nurturing qualities and responsibility as they help with younger siblings. The home becomes filled with diverse personalities, creating a dynamic environment where children learn vital social skills naturally through daily interactions. While larger families certainly come with financial considerations and logistical challenges, many parents find the rewards—the bonds between siblings, the shared memories, the love multiplied—bring immeasurable richness to family life that transcends material calculations. The decision to grow your family is deeply personal, shaped by your unique circumstances, values, and vision for your life together. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    The Art of Listening: Understanding Your Child's Unspoken Needs | Episode 339

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2025 4:54


    Not all cries for attention come with words. Some children demand center stage, while others retreat into silence—but both are ultimately seeking the same thing: to be truly heard and understood. Each child communicates differently. The loud, animated child might seem obvious in their desire for attention, but the quiet, withdrawn child often needs listening just as deeply. Their signals might be subtler—a lingering glance, a hesitant approach, or a sudden change in behavior—but they're no less powerful. Being a vigilant listener means looking beyond the surface. It's about creating space where your child feels safe sharing their inner world, whether that's through direct conversation or by carefully observing the nuanced ways they attempt to connect. Your attentiveness sends a profound message: "Your thoughts, feelings, and experiences matter to me." In a world that often rushes past children, this simple act of genuine listening can be the most powerful form of love. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com

    Navigating Disappointment: A Lifelong Learning Journey | Episode 338

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2025 5:43


    Here's a thoughtful rewrite: Navigating Disappointment: A Lifelong Learning Journey Disappointment is an unavoidable companion on life's path—for both parents and children. How we learn to process these moments can shape our resilience, emotional intelligence, and future success. Children experience disappointment differently at various developmental stages. A toddler's crushed cookie might feel like the end of the world, while a teenager's missed opportunity carries more complex emotional weight. Understanding disappointment requires addressing both the cognitive and emotional landscapes of the experience. The cognitive side involves helping children understand the situation rationally: Why didn't things go as expected? What can be learned? The emotional side requires validation, empathy, and gentle guidance through the very real feelings of sadness, frustration, or anger. Your role isn't to eliminate disappointment but to teach children how to move through it. By modeling healthy responses, providing emotional support, and helping them develop perspective, you're equipping them with a crucial life skill that extends far beyond the immediate moment of letdown. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com

    The Heart of Discipline: What Children Need When Behaviors Challenge | Episode 337

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2025 5:36


    When your child tests boundaries or melts down, what they're truly seeking goes deeper than we often realize. Yes, they need clear guidance – what we call discipline – but this isn't synonymous with punishment. True discipline comes from the word "disciple" – it's about teaching, guiding, and mentoring. During challenging moments, your child needs to feel your steady presence as both their boundary-setter and their advocate. They need to know that even when their behavior isn't acceptable, your commitment to them remains unshakable. This balanced approach sends a powerful message: "I care enough about you to stop behaviors that won't serve you well, and I'm right here helping you learn better ways." This communicates that you're not working against them but rather standing firmly on their team – sometimes as coach, sometimes as cheerleader, but always as their most devoted supporter. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com

    Nurturing Greatness: From Ordinary Childhood to Extraordinary Impact | Episode 336

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2025 4:45


    Every person who has changed our world—whether through science, art, leadership, or compassion—once sat at someone's dinner table, played in someone's backyard, and was tucked in at night by someone who loved them. The extraordinary journey begins in ordinary moments. When you introduce your child to heroes and their stories, you're planting seeds of possibility. These aren't just tales of fame; they're blueprints for character, perseverance, and purpose. By sharing these stories, you help your child see beyond current limitations toward their own potential for impact. The greatest gift isn't preparing your child for celebrity, but nurturing the qualities that create meaningful lives: courage, creativity, compassion, and conviction. Whether or not their name becomes widely known, these qualities will ensure their life brings significance—to their community, their loved ones, and to a world waiting for their unique contribution. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com

    The Curious Mind: How Children Make Sense of Their World | Episode 335

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2025 6:01


    Children truly are natural learners, approaching the world with wide-eyed wonder and boundless curiosity. Their developing minds aren't just passively absorbing information—they're actively seeking to understand everything around them. At the heart of this learning process lies the powerful tool of questioning. Those endless "why" questions that sometimes test your patience? They're actually your child's brain building neural pathways and creating understanding. Each question represents their mind working to connect new information with what they already know, helping them construct their understanding of how the world works. When children ask questions, they're not simply gathering facts—they're processing information, identifying patterns, and creating meaning. This questioning nature is the engine that drives their cognitive development, turning everyday experiences into valuable learning opportunities. By encouraging and thoughtfully answering their questions, you're not just providing information—you're nurturing their natural learning process and helping them develop the critical thinking skills they'll use throughout life. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com

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