Parenting Matters Now with Dr. Roger Smith

Is your child a natural organizer or a whirlwind of chaos? In this episode, Dr. Roger Smith explains that some children are simply wired to be more organized than others. Learn how to train your child's habits while embracing their natural temperament. He shares practical advice for creating a system that works for the whole family and why the most organized person needs to practice grace, not just control. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Getting a bicycle for your child to "grow into" is a mistake many parents make. Dr. Roger Smith explains why size really does matter when it comes to a child's bike. Learn a simple formula to determine the right wheel size for your child's height, ensuring they feel confident and in control as they learn to ride and enjoy their new freedom. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Who is your hero? In this episode, Dr. Roger Smith shares how heroes—from a childhood baseball player to missionaries—inspired his own life. He explains that it's a parent's privilege to help children find admirable heroes and, most importantly, to be a hero for their children. Learn how to live a life worthy of being followed and help your kids find the inspiration they need to grow. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

What do you do when your child makes a huge mistake, has a major disappointment, or gets in an accident? In this episode, Dr. Roger Smith shares a personal story about a fallen tree to explain how parents can calmly help their children navigate life's disasters—big and small. Learn how to manage your own emotions and turn these moments into opportunities for your child to grow in resilience, responsibility, and wisdom. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

When is it safe to introduce your child to a big animal? In this episode, Dr. Roger Smith shares a personal story about how competitive horseback riding taught his children to care for someone or something bigger than themselves. Discover how exposing your kids to animals—even small ones—can help them develop empathy, responsibility, and communication skills, while enriching the entire family's life. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Do you hold your kids back from doing things they see you do? In this episode, Dr. Roger Smith challenges the idea that children are incapable. He argues that by allowing children to engage in tasks that feel "dangerous" (like using a knife with supervision or helping in the kitchen), you build their confidence and teach them to be careful. Learn how to manage your own fear as a parent and help your child grow from minor bumps and scrapes into a capable, adventurous adult. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Ever wonder why your child goes from mimicking your every move to doing the exact opposite? In this episode, Dr. Roger Smith explains that a child's learning process isn't static—it evolves with their developmental stage. Discover the key differences between learning by copying, experimenting, and thinking, and how you can adapt your parenting to support your child's natural curiosity and build a stronger relationship. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Frustrated with your teen's "attitude"? Dr. Roger Smith challenges parents to look inward. He argues that often, the root of teenage disrespect and conflict isn't the teen, but a parent's failure to listen. Discover why shifting your role from talker to listener can create a safe space for your teen to open up and build a stronger, more trusting relationship. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Does it seem like your kids are just along for the ride during shopping trips? In this episode, Dr. Roger Smith discusses the importance of involving children, especially teens, in daily responsibilities like grocery shopping. Learn how treating your kids like comrades and companions instead of just recipients of care can help them successfully transition into adulthood. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Do you want to gain wisdom quickly? In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith shares his secret: compiling powerful quotes from wise people. He's gathered these concise nuggets of wisdom into a book, "Quick Wisdom, Volume One." Tune in to learn how memorizing these quotes can give you instant wisdom and help you make your point in conversations. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Where does food come from? It's a question many kids can't answer. Join us as we discuss why it's crucial for children to understand the food journey, from farm to table. We'll share simple, fun ways to introduce your kids to the origins of their meals—and maybe even learn a thing or two yourself. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Want to raise a bold and brave child? Learn how to let your kids take calculated risks and embrace adventure at every age. Discover how your words and actions can plant a seed of courage that will last a lifetime. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Emotional meltdowns happen. But what's the best way to handle a temper tantrum? In this episode, Dr. Roger Smith shares practical advice on how to respond to your child's emotional outbursts. He explains how to evaluate your own role, preemptively address triggers, and understand why ignoring a tantrum can be the most effective strategy. Learn how to stay in control of your emotions and help your child navigate theirs without a head-to-head battle. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Whether it's a playful nip or a serious puncture wound, knowing how to respond to an animal bite is crucial for your child's safety. Dr. Roger Smith explains the difference between dog and cat bites, when to seek medical attention, and the critical first steps you should always take at home. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Get past the one-word answers and learn the art of fostering open communication with your teen. Dr. Roger Smith shares the importance of listening, creating a safe space, and asking open-ended questions to get to know your child as they grow into an adult. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Is "loving your children equally" a mistake? Dr. Roger Smith argues that focusing on individuality, not equality, is the key to effective parenting. He discusses how understanding each child's unique personality and needs—using tools like the Five Love Languages of Children—is more important than treating them all the same. Learn how to tailor your love, encouragement, and even correction to fit each child, fostering a stronger, more effective parent-child relationship. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

To a child, a small hill can feel like a mountain. Dr. Roger Smith reminds us that what seems insignificant to an adult can be a huge deal to a child. In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, learn to see the world from your child's perspective, offering compassion for their disappointments, fears, and frustrations. Discover why this shift in understanding can help you comfort them and build a stronger connection, rather than reacting with frustration. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Juggling work and travel with family life? In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith shares essential tips for parents who are frequently away from home. Learn how to communicate your love and presence to your children through heartfelt calls, notes, and other special gestures that reassure them of their importance, no matter the distance. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Navigating bullying is tough for any parent. In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith explains that the key to helping your child isn't about confronting the bully—it's about empowering your child. Learn how to foster emotional resilience and take away the bully's power, using insights from expert Brooks Gibbs. Discover why teaching your child a healthy response, rather than retaliation, can make all the difference. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Do you have a bully in your house? Dr. Roger Smith explains the tell-tale signs of a child who is prone to bullying and how parents can stop the behavior. Learn how to train your child to be kind and considerate, rather than aggressive and controlling. It all starts with teaching empathy and the importance of others. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Has your child's boundless imagination ever left you scratching your head? Dr. Roger Smith on Parenting Matters Now dives into the wonderful and sometimes challenging world of a child's mind. Discover why young children perceive the impossible as possible and how their understanding of time, distance, and money differs vastly from an adult's. Learn practical ways to communicate effectively with your imaginative little ones, turning potential misunderstandings into opportunities for connection and growth. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Welcome to Parenting Matters, where Dr. Roger Smith reveals how humor can be a surprisingly serious tool in your parenting arsenal. Discover how a well-placed family joke, like the one about the 100-year-old man, can defuse disagreements, improve communication, and even teach storytelling skills. Learn how to leverage the lighter side of life to foster deeper connections and understanding within your family—without ever using humor to demean or attack. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Ever feel like you're just getting through the day-to-day? Dr. Roger Smith reveals why "being extraordinary at the ordinary" is a powerful mantra for your family. Discover how seemingly small, consistent acts of parenting—from changing diapers to comforting scrapes—build crucial confidence, emotional intelligence, and resilience in your child, far more than grand gestures. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Mealtime isn't just about food; it's one of the most important times for family connection! Dr. Roger Smith shares practical tips to transform your family meals into a rich, positive, and distraction-free haven. Learn how to spark engaging conversations, foster gratitude, and create lasting memories that benefit your children's future. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Do your kids struggle to express their feelings in a healthy way? Dr. Roger Smith explains why teaching emotional vocabulary is key to helping children understand and manage their emotions. Discover a valuable resource for expanding your child's "soul words" and fostering emotional intelligence. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

In part two of "Raising a Renaissance Kid," Dr. Roger Smith from Parenting Matters Now encourages parents to expose their children to a wide array of skills. Discover why early exposure, even without immediate mastery, reduces fear in adulthood. Learn how to create a "skills checklist" for your kids, encompassing everything from practical mechanics to communication, helping them become competent and confident adults. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Dream of raising a "Renaissance man or woman" who can do almost anything? Dr. Roger Smith from Parenting Matters Now shares a crucial skill: mastering the to-do list. Discover how applying the Pareto principle (the 80/20 rule) to prioritize tasks can boost productivity for both you and your children, helping them develop essential life skills and focus on what truly matters. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Want your kids to have a "huge world" instead of a "small world"? Dr. Roger Smith on Parenting Matters Now reveals how practicing hospitality—inviting diverse people into your home—can profoundly broaden your children's intellectual, emotional, and philosophical horizons. Discover how simple connections can open their minds and foster understanding. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Are you or your child struggling with anxiety? Dr. Roger Smith introduces an often-overlooked practice: grounding. In a world where we're rarely in direct contact with the earth, discover the potential therapeutic benefits of simply touching the ground. Learn why encouraging your child to go barefoot, play in the dirt, and connect with nature might be a powerful, yet simple, way to promote well-being and alleviate sensory deficits. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Is your child maturing at the pace you hoped for? Join Dr. Roger Smith on Parenting Matters Now as he shares actionable strategies to foster your child's growth. Discover the powerful impact of involving five non-parental adults in their lives and the art of asking open-ended questions to encourage critical thinking and deeper connection. Learn how broadening their experiences with diverse individuals can unlock their full potential and help them blossom into well-rounded, mature individuals. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Are you teaching your children to play it safe, or empowering them to take calculated risks and innovate? Dr. Roger Smith challenges common parenting advice, arguing that fostering a risk-taking mindset is crucial for children to become problem-solvers, dreamers, and leaders. Discover how overprotection, premature rescuing, and excessive praise can hinder their development, and learn practical ways to encourage adventure and resilience in your kids.   Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Do you ever find yourself in a tug-of-war with your kids? In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith tackles the inevitability of conflict in families. Discover how you can transform disagreements into valuable learning experiences, teaching your children essential skills like active listening and clear communication without accusations. Learn why fostering conflict resolution in childhood is one of the most impactful gifts you can give your kids, preparing them for healthy relationships throughout their lives. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Ever considered the stories behind the names all around us? In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith shares a unique perspective from Palm Springs, California. He explains why understanding the significance of names—from streets to cars to even your child's own name—can be a powerful tool to help kids connect with and understand the world around them. Discover how explaining these simple connections can create "mental hooks" for learning and add value to your child's identity. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Ever wondered if it's safe for your kids to join you in the hot tub? In this concise episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith breaks down the potential dangers of hot tubs for small children and offers crucial advice for parents. Learn why children's bodies react differently to temperature and what to watch out for to ensure a safe and fun experience. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Are you struggling to set boundaries with well-meaning but sometimes overbearing grandparents? Dr. Roger Smith of Parenting Matters Now delves into the common "landmines" that can arise with in-laws and grandparents. Learn how to foster open communication, manage expectations around rules, gifts, and traditions, and maintain that crucial grandparent-grandchild bond without undermining your role as a parent. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Is your child experiencing anxiety, fear, or worry? Dr. Roger Smith of Parenting Matters Now explores how common household habits, like constant news consumption, can unknowingly contribute to your child's anxieties. Learn how to create a more calming home environment and help your children put stressful events into perspective, fostering a sense of safety and well-being. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com

Does the thought of your kids pumping gas or checking the oil sound like a distant dream? Dr. Roger Smith of Parenting Matters Now shares how everyday tasks, like car maintenance, can be powerful training grounds for teaching children responsibility, independence, and a "take care of things" mindset. Discover how to empower your kids from a young age, ensuring they're well-equipped for adulthood, just like Zig Ziglar's philosophy on training employees. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Do you ever break your own rules? Dr. Roger Smith opens this episode of Parenting Matters Now with a relatable moment of almost setting muddy boots on the dinner table, highlighting how easily we can slip up. This leads to a crucial discussion: how do we react when our children break rules? Dr. Smith encourages parents to look beyond the behavior itself. Sometimes, rule-breaking isn't rebellion, but a result of carelessness, distraction, or even a valid underlying reason. Learn why it's essential to wisely evaluate the situation and understand what's truly going on with your child, rather than immediately imposing consequences. Discover the power of extending the same grace to our children that we often give ourselves when we unintentionally break our own guidelines. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Is your child constantly saying "I'm tired"? If they're between 10 and 14, Dr. Roger Smith explains why it's likely more than just a complaint! In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, discover the neurodevelopmental shifts happening during pre-pubescence and puberty that genuinely increase a child's need for sleep. Learn how their developing emotional brain influences their expression of fatigue, and why compassion and providing downtime are crucial. Understand the internal changes your child is experiencing, even before external signs of puberty appear, and how to best support them through this naturally exhausting stage of growth. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

This episode of Parenting Matters Now with Dr. Roger Smith tackles a crucial question: How do we help our children embrace challenges and grow through them? While the value of doing hard things is undeniable—it's where true growth happens—Dr. Smith focuses on the "how." He emphasizes the profound impact of mindset, referencing the timeless wisdom: "He who wins is he who thinks he can." Discover why instilling hope and confidence in your child's ability to conquer difficult tasks is paramount, and how your own modeling of this "can-do" attitude is key. As Henry Ford famously said, "Whether you think you can or you think you cannot, you are right." Tune in to learn how to inspire your child to believe in themselves and find the worth in every challenge. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Do you find yourself battling your child over grammar? Dr. Roger Smith dives into a surprising question: how much does grammar truly matter in the grand scheme of parenting? Using a humorous anecdote, he illustrates when perfect grammar is essential and when it might be secondary to bigger goals. Discover why preserving your relationship with your child should always take precedence over a grammar tussle. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Death is an uncomfortable but unavoidable part of life. In this episode Dr. Roger Smith tackles the difficult topic of discussing death and grief with your children. Learn how to address questions, foster healthy grieving, and support your kids through loss, whether it's a beloved pet, a family member, or even the "death of a dream." Discover how open conversations can help children cope and move forward. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Ever wondered how music can transform your parenting? Join Dr. Roger Smith as he reveals the incredible power of singing with your children. From soothing tantrums to building lasting memories, discover why a family sing-along, no matter your vocal talent, is a powerful tool for connection and comfort. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com

Do your children truly feel blessed by your words? In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith goes beyond simple praise to explore the profound impact of intentional blessings. Discover how specific, heartfelt words can be a springboard for your child's life, inspiring them with a sense of adoration and purpose. Learn practical ways to craft meaningful affirmations, even if it feels uncomfortable at first. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com

Habits often get a bad rap, but what if they're the key to smoother parenting? In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith reveals how to proactively shape your children's positive habits, from tidiness to kindness. Learn effective, repetitive strategies that build "muscle memory" for good behavior, saving you from constant nagging and fostering independent, responsible kids. Tune in for practical, few-minute parenting advice! Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com

Ever wonder what happens when your or your child's mistakes create a mess for others? In this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith shares a real-life observation that highlights the ripple effect of our actions. Learn practical ways to help your kids own their missteps, understand the impact of their choices, and take responsibility for making things right – all without anger or condemnation. Tune in for quick, actionable parenting advice! Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com

What's the unique value of gathering around a fire with your children? On this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Roger Smith explores the almost magical quality of fire to foster connection and storytelling within families. Discover how a simple fireplace, fire pit, or campfire can become a powerful tool for parents to open up communication, encourage listening, and share family or historical narratives. Dr. Roger Smith discusses how the mesmerizing nature of flames can create an environment ripe for deeper connection and transformative moments with your children. Tune in to learn how to intentionally create these "fire opportunities" to strengthen your family bonds. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com

Ever wondered why teaching your kids to swim is so important? On this episode of Parenting Matters Now, Dr. Rogers Smith dives into why swimming is more than just a safety precaution. Discover how learning to swim can open up a world of opportunities for your children, contribute to their life experiences, and even their sense of purpose. Dr. Miller shares practical advice on how to start, even if your little ones are just beginning in the bathtub, and emphasizes the importance of creating positive early experiences with water. Learn why this essential skill is crucial, not just for safety around pools and open water, but for a richer, more fulfilling life. Tune in for valuable insights on helping your children become comfortable and confident in the water. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Spanking: a parenting hot topic. Join Dr. Roger Smith for a nuanced discussion that goes beyond the typical pro vs. con debate. Regardless of your stance, Dr. Roger Smith asks you to consider the underlying principle: that pain can be a form of communication. Explore the intention behind corporal punishment as a language to establish boundaries, emphasizing that it should be rooted in love and training, never retaliation or anger. Learn to discern when physical correction might be used carefully and when it's crucial to transition to more effective, less "noxious" methods that foster self-control as children mature. Prepare for a thought-provoking perspective on this sensitive subject and share your thoughts respectfully.  Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Have your child's misbehavior or harsh words ever left you wondering what's really going on? Join Dr. Roger Smith for a thought-provoking look at the surprising role fear can play in our children's actions. Discover how insecurity and the fear of rejection can drive kids to "do or say things that offend" or that they later regret. Learn to look beyond the surface behavior and identify the underlying fear, enabling you to respond with understanding and guidance instead of just correction. Tune in for insights on fostering your own emotional stability and helping your child navigate their fears in healthy ways. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

Is your teen still relying on you for laundry? Join Dr. Roger Smith  for a quick dose of essential parenting advice. Discover why teaching your children to do laundry, from matching socks as toddlers to independently washing and ironing as teens, is a crucial life skill you're not doing them any favors by skipping. Learn how to involve kids at every age, turning everyday chores into valuable training for adulthood. Tune in to empower your children with independence, one wash cycle at a time. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com