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3-minute parenting tips and ideas to help families be more successful. No technical jargon, just common-sense, practical advice you can apply today.

Dr. Roger Smith


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    Like Sun to Flowers: The Power of Praise | Episode 464

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2026 4:27


    Dr. Roger Smith highlights that praise is essential for a child's development, acting like "sunlight to a flower" to help them truly blossom. By using the Three S's—making praise Specific, Sincere, and Soon—parents can move beyond generic compliments to reinforce genuine growth. This approach focuses on honoring a child's effort and character traits rather than innate traits, ensuring they feel truly valued for who they are becoming. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    The Power of Flexibility: Modeling Adaptability for Your Kids | Episode 463

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 12, 2026 5:06


    Life rarely goes according to plan, and parenting is no exception. Dr. Roger Smith discusses the vital shift from total parental control to fostering flexibility in your children. Using travel mishaps as a metaphor, he explores how parents can model emotional balance when things go wrong—whether it's a spilled glass of juice or a missed opportunity. Learn how to train your children to navigate multiple pathways, handle disappointment without a meltdown, and understand that making a mistake isn't a moral failure. By staying pleasant when you have to "flex," you teach your children the essential life skill of enjoying the journey, even when the path changes. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Beyond the Surface: Looking at Your Child's Heart | Episode 462

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2026 3:01


    We've all heard the saying, "Don't judge a book by its cover," but do we apply it to our kids? Dr. Roger Smith uses a library find to challenge how we react to our children's behavior. Instead of judging outward actions or styles at first glance—which can feel manipulative or lead to harsh labels—he encourages parents to ask deeper questions about motivation and heart. By seeking the "story inside" rather than reacting to the "cover," you preserve the relationship necessary to truly influence your child's character rather than just controlling their conduct. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Expanding Horizons: Why Travel Matters for Your Child | Episode 461

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2026 4:46


    Is travel essential for a child's development? Dr. Roger Smith explores Mark Twain's idea that travel is "fatal to prejudice," explaining how exposing children to different cultures, languages, and perspectives prevents narrow-mindedness. Whether you're crossing an ocean or just visiting the next town over, encountering people who live differently helps children move past assumptions and learn to value others. If you can't hit the road, Dr. Smith shares how to "travel the world in your living room" through books and stories, ultimately teaching your kids the invaluable skill of loving and appreciating a diverse world. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    The Gift of Curiosity: Training Observant Children | Episode 460

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2026 3:09


    Life is far more interesting when we stop to ask "Why?" Using a hidden iron ring on a canal wall in Manchester as an example, Dr. Roger Smith explains how parents can train their children to be world-class observers. This episode explores how to turn everyday walks into "clue-finding" missions, helping kids piece together the history and purpose of the things they see. Learn how simple activities like scavenger hunts and "why" questions build essential life skills—from critical thinking to practical problem-solving—and how your own curiosity is the greatest model for theirs. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Better Together: The Power of Parenting Partnerships | Episode 459

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 2, 2026 5:05


    Parenting isn't a solo act; it's a team sport. Using the analogy of a pair of scissors, Dr. Roger Smith illustrates how two different perspectives—though they may seem opposed—are both necessary to get the job done. This episode explores why mothers and fathers bring unique, essential strengths to the family and how to navigate those differences without seeing your spouse as an opponent. Learn why tending to your marriage is one of the most effective ways to be a better parent and how appreciating your partner's strengths can help you tackle the "grand adventure" of raising children with unity and respect. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    The Path to Forgiveness: Essential Life Skills for Kids | Episode 458

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2025 4:32


    Forgiveness is more than just saying "I'm sorry"—it's a vital life skill that requires empathy and intentionality. Dr. Roger Smith discusses how parents can move beyond "magic words" to help children truly understand the impact of their actions. This episode provides a roadmap for conflict resolution, teaching children how to observe another's feelings, recognize their own role in a conflict, and pursue genuine restoration. Learn how to turn small squabbles over toys or elevator buttons into powerful training moments for giving, receiving, and asking for forgiveness. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Leading from Behind: Empowering Your Child's Independence | Episode 457

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2025 5:27


    True leadership isn't about barking orders from the front; it's about influencing and empowering others to grow. Dr. Roger Smith challenges parents to "lead by walking behind" their children. By providing a safety net rather than a roadblock, you allow your children to exercise curiosity and build confidence. Whether it's letting a toddler take the lead on a hiking trail or tasking a teenager with an independent errand, learn how to manage your own parental anxiety to foster an adventurous spirit. Discover how staying engaged—without being controlling—builds a lifelong relationship where your child feels safe to explore while still valuing your guidance. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Don't Kill the Dream: Raising a "Can-Do" Child | Episode 456

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 26, 2025 3:52


    Are you fanning the flames of your child's imagination or accidentally dousing them? Drawing inspiration from the founder of FedEx—who was told his business plan was impossible—Dr. Roger Smith warns parents against "thinking in obstacles." This episode features the classic poem "Can and Can't" to illustrate the power of perseverance. Learn why your children sometimes need to risk failure to find their mission and how you can be the voice that encourages them to "go for it" rather than the one who says it can't be done. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Fueling Their Passion: Encouraging Your Child's Interests | Episode 455

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2025 2:26


    Whether it's airplanes, robotics, or gardening, your child has unique passions that deserve a launchpad. Dr. Roger Smith explains why it's vital to lean into your child's curiosities, even if they differ from your own. This episode offers practical advice on how to expand their world by seeking out experts, visiting themed locations, and finding books that bring their interests to life. Learn how connecting your child with people who share their enthusiasm can spark a lifelong love of learning and help them dream bigger than ever before. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Bids for Attention: Does Your Child Feel Heard? | Episode 454

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2025 4:54


    Are you missing the subtle signals your child is sending you? Dr. Roger Smith explains that whether a child is acting out or withdrawing, they are often making a "bid for attention." This episode explores how to recognize these overtures—from casual comments to physical distancing—and how to respond in a way that builds connection. Learn why using your child's own words back to them is a powerful tool for validation and how to turn everyday moments, like running errands or bedtime, into intentional opportunities for your child to feel truly seen and heard. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Maps: More Than Just Roads | Episode 453

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2025 4:57


    Which two US states are shaped like an article of clothing? (Hint: one's a mitten, the other's a boot!) Dr. Roger Smith shares his love for maps, not for navigation, but for connection and curiosity. This episode encourages parents to use maps as a tool to teach children their place in the world, visualize relationships (where relatives live), and learn key features like oceans and mountains. Next time you travel, skip the GPS for a moment—pull out a map to show your kids the physical context of their journey and turn geographic facts into fascinating, memorable lessons. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Planting the Seed: Speaking to Your Child's Future Self | Episode 452

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2025 3:22


    Do you have family mantras or sayings? Dr. Roger Smith uses the image of a strong pillar to discuss how common language can be used to inspire greatness in your children. This episode encourages parents to explain and utilize colloquialisms (like "pillar of the community") to illustrate concepts of strength and positive influence. Learn the profound impact of speaking to your children as the adults they will become ("When you are the Daddy...") to plant powerful visions of hope, purpose, and significance in their minds. What gets measured gets done—and what is vividly pictured is more likely to be pursued. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Aim High: Setting Intentional Growth Goals for Your Kids | Episode 451

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2025 3:44


    Are you aiming at nothing and hitting it every time? Dr. Roger Smith shares a powerful framework, inspired by a biblical verse (Luke 2:52), used by friends to ensure their children experience intentional growth each year. This system involves evaluating and setting goals for your child in four key areas: intellectual (wisdom), physical (stature), spiritual (favor with God), and social (favor with man). Learn how to turn this annual "school board retreat" into a collaborative process with your child, helping them develop a proactive, growth-oriented mindset in every area of their life. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    When Kids "Act Up": What Do They Really Need? | Episode 450

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2025 5:36


    When your child is acting out or misbehaving, what is the right response? Dr. Roger Smith clarifies that while children need discipline, it's about much more than just punishment—it's mostly about training. This episode offers essential wisdom on how to respond to misbehavior: Prioritize the Goal: Your motive should always be to help your child grow, not stop them from embarrassing you. Time It Right: When a child's emotion is high, their listening is low. Learn when to remove a child from a situation to help them regain control before initiating training. Stay United: Always make sure your child knows that you are on their team, even when correcting their mistakes. Discover how to use judgment, emotional control, and the right timing to transform misbehavior into an opportunity for growth. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Shepherding the Flock: Meeting the Needs of Multiple Children | Episode 449

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2025 5:16


    How do you give individual attention to the hearts of multiple children? Dr. Roger Smith shares a powerful, structured approach to shepherding each child rooted in the Biblical concept of wisdom, stature, and favor with God and man. This tool, developed by friends, guides parents to annually evaluate their child's needs and set goals in four key areas: intellectual, physical, spiritual (character), and social development. Learn how to create family plans strategically motivated by one child's specific need, knowing that the entire "flock" will benefit and grow together. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    From Childhood to Significance: Fostering Future Greatness | Episode 448

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 8, 2025 4:44


    Will your child be famous one day? While no one knows, Dr. Roger Smith argues that parents can foster the capacity for greatness. This episode encourages parents to expand their children's worldview by introducing them to heroes and significant figures through biographies. Learn how shared reading or audiobooks can inspire children to think larger than their current existence and understand the characteristics that lead to noteworthy lives. The goal isn't fame, but helping your child become significant by catching the "wind" from the lives of others. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    How Many Kids Are Too Many? A Challenging Perspective | Episode 447

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2025 4:17


    Feeling overwhelmed by your current number of children? Dr. Roger Smith issues a direct challenge to consider having more, arguing that the true measure of family size shouldn't be based on the temporary difficulty of the early years. He breaks down the common stages—overwhelming with one, dividing and conquering with two, and feeling outnumbered with three—to reveal the moment of relief: when the oldest child becomes a helpful assistant. Dr. Smith encourages parents to look past the immediate workload and see children as lifelong blessings who enrich your life immeasurably as they mature. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Happiness is What You Bring: Making Joy a Character Trait | Episode 446

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2025 2:49


    Is happiness just a feeling, or can it be a choice? Dr. Roger Smith shares his family's mantra: "You do not find happiness, you take it with you." This episode explores how to treat happiness as a character trait—a quality independent of your circumstances. Learn how to prepare your children to approach potentially disappointing situations by deciding beforehand to make the best of it. By choosing to regulate their feelings and actions, you teach them that true joy comes from an internal commitment, not external expectations. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Choose Your Path: Training Kids to Be Decisive | Episode 445

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2025 4:53


    Are you robbing your children of the chance to make decisions? Dr. Roger Smith emphasizes that decisiveness is a critical character trait that must be developed through practice. Using the simple example of choosing between two paths, he explains why parents must intentionally provide opportunities for decision-making—even small ones, like choosing the color of a cup. Learn how to let your children face the low-impact consequences of their choices (like in board games) and how to talk them through potential outcomes without rescuing them from mild discomfort. This training builds the capacity to navigate life's complex options. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    The Thoughtful Child: Two Simple Daily Exercises | Episode 444

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2025 5:21


    Do you wish your child considered others more often? Dr. Roger Smith defines thoughtfulness as putting other people's needs on the priority list—a desirable trait we can actively help children develop. This episode gives parents two simple, routine exercises: Looking Backward (Bedtime): Ask your child to reflect on their day and identify someone they wish they could have helped or made things better for. This encourages empathy and perspective. Looking Forward (Start of Day/Activity): Challenge your child as they enter a public space (like a store or church) to "look for people you can make smile or make a difference for." This promotes intentional, positive interaction. Learn how to weave these practices into your daily life to cultivate thoughtfulness and inspire an outward-focused mindset in your kids. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Audacious Generosity: Training Kids Beyond Self-Centeredness | Episode 443

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2025 5:23


    Most children start out self-centered, but generosity is a vital character trait we must intentionally cultivate. Referencing the idea of "audacious generosity," Dr. Roger Smith explains that this concept goes beyond just sharing money—it includes being generous with time, kind words, and possessions. Learn how to model and practice generosity, even with abstract concepts like "sharing," by focusing on taking turns and dividing resources. Dr. Smith encourages praising every effort your child makes to consider another's needs, transforming a self-focused mindset into one that makes the world a better place. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Humility is Not Hiding: A Fresh Take on Character | Episode 442

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 24, 2025 5:00


    Is your child truly humble, or just self-centered? Dr. Roger Smith redefines humility not as self-deprecation, but as the courage to be authentically known—the good, the bad, and the ordinary. Sitting in his study, Dr. Smith shares how true humility means being "okay with who I am and how I let you know me." Learn how to train your children to be open, vulnerable, and approachable, whether they are winning a game or losing. This episode challenges parents to create practice situations where children can comfortably let others into their lives, fostering a deeply desirable trait. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Character: Caught and Taught | Episode 441

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2025 3:57


    Is character something children simply pick up, or must it be explicitly taught? Dr. Roger Smith argues that character is best developed when it's both caught and taught. This episode emphasizes that parents must actively place value on desired traits like trustworthiness or integrity. Learn how to use stories and specific language to define these qualities, and most importantly, how to recognize and praise them when you see them demonstrated in your child's life. Discover how to create an environment where strong character is admired, encouraged, and pursued as a valuable prize. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Blessing or Curse? How Your Values Shape Your Kids' Future | Episode 440

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2025 6:55


    Are you passing on blessings or burdens to the next generation? Dr. Roger Smith argues that generational blessings and curses are often practical, tied directly to the values and habits parents live out daily. This episode challenges you to identify your top three core values (like kindness, honesty, or generosity) and intentionally integrate them into your conversations and actions. Learn how to live your life as a springboard of positive values for your children, ensuring your legacy is one of richness in good deeds and character, not chaos or negativity. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Whose Job Is It? Teaching Kids Responsibility for Their Stuff | Episode 439

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2025 5:07


    Do your children take care of their belongings? Dr. Roger Smith shares a guiding family motto: "The more you have, the more you have to take care of." This episode outlines how to intentionally transfer the concept of personal responsibility to your children's possessions, from toys to bikes. Learn how to involve your kids in the repair process when things are broken or neglected—even enlisting experts if needed. Dr. Smith advises starting with small, modeled steps (like cleaning a room together) and gradually creating distance, ensuring your teaching is guided by a positive concern for their future, not punishment. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

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    Tick-Tock, Tiny Tots: Teaching Kids Time Management | Episode 438

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2025 5:54


    Does "just a minute" mean nothing to your child? Dr. Roger Smith explains that the concept of time must be developed through training. This episode provides actionable steps for teaching time management, starting with short, age-appropriate tasks (like 10 seconds for a three-year-old) that end with a desired reward. Learn how to give your child a sense of accomplishment and efficiency, helping them visualize deadlines and stay on task—a crucial skill that starts small and lasts a lifetime. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    From "Don't" to "Do": The Power of Positive Parenting Language | Episode 437

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2025 3:12


    Do you often find yourself giving instructions filled with "don't" and "no"? Dr. Roger Smith challenges parents to adopt a positive communication style. This episode teaches you how to stop barking orders and start framing instructions in terms of the desired behavior. Instead of saying "Don't forget your lunch," learn to say "Remember your lunch." Discover this subtle but powerful shift that assumes competence, focuses on freedom, and fosters a more positive, effective way of giving directions to your children—and everyone else. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Private vs. Public: Teaching Your Kids the Social Filter | Episode 436

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 10, 2025 4:15


    Do your children ever drop embarrassing comments in public? Dr. Roger Smith uses the image of a private hedge to illustrate the difference between conversations appropriate for home and those suitable for the public square. This episode focuses on teaching children the crucial skill of discerning private versus public language and topics. Learn how to explain boundaries, context, and why certain jokes or lingo might be misunderstood outside of your family circle, helping your children avoid awkward situations and honor the family in public. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Are You a Flexible Parent? | Episode 435

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2025 5:06


    Life rarely goes according to plan—from travel delays to spilled orange juice. Dr. Roger Smith argues that flexibility is a vital skill for both parents and children. While the early years require control and rules, this episode explores how to shift your parenting style to train your kids to manage options, cope with disappointment, and adjust when the path changes. Learn to model emotional balance when things go wrong, teaching your child that mistakes are not moral failures and that the ability to flex is key to enjoying the journey of life. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    The Smartphone Question: When and How to Introduce Tech | Episode 434

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2025 10:29


    Should your child get a smartphone? Dr. Roger Smith doesn't offer a simple yes or no, but instead provides crucial questions to help you make this difficult decision. This episode guides you to think about your child's long-term functional needs and whether those needs can be met without a smartphone. Most importantly, you'll learn to evaluate your child's capacity for self-imposed limits and the vital role of parental support systems in navigating the challenges of modern technology. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    The Birthday Blessing: Training Kids to Be Thankful | Episode 433

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2025 6:15


    Children are naturally self-focused, but thankfulness is a skill that can be taught. Dr. Roger Smith shares a powerful family tradition—the "Birthday Blessing"—that trained his children to move from self-centeredness to generosity of spirit. Learn how to implement this simple practice where every family member shares what they value and appreciate about the birthday person. This exercise in expressing positive, specific words to people you can see is the perfect foundation for developing a lifelong attitude of gratitude that extends to all areas of life. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    How to Silence the Whine | Episode 432

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2025 5:45


    Tired of the whine? Dr. Roger Smith tackles this perpetual (but solvable!) problem in communication. This episode offers a direct, two-part strategy: First, stop whining yourself—listen to your own voice to ensure you aren't correcting your child with a whiny tone. Second, address the issue directly and consistently. Learn how to gently yet firmly request a "normal voice," reinforcing appropriate communication while refusing to reward the whine. Dr. Smith provides tips on how to identify the behavior for your child and correct it away from the heat of the moment for long-term success. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Listen Up! Training Your Child to Truly Hear You | Episode 431

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 29, 2025 8:22


    Do you wish your kids were better listeners? Dr. Roger Smith explains that listening is a skill that needs development, especially in the early years. This episode goes beyond simply giving instructions. Learn practical techniques to train your child's attention to detail, from creating "listening games" at public events to telling stories about themselves. Discover how to use their own name and the world around them as positive tools to develop this crucial life skill—making them more attuned to you and their environment. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Broken Things, Better Solutions: A Parent's Guide to Loss and Repair | Episode 430

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 27, 2025 5:56


    Does a broken item immediately trigger your frustration? Dr. Roger Smith shares a personal story about a broken lamp to illustrate a vital parenting lesson: how to handle the emotional loss when things—or even relationships—break. Learn to separate the action from the child's motive, comfort your child (and yourself) through the grief of loss, and then focus on finding creative solutions. This episode gives you a framework for turning an accident into an opportunity for repair, teaching your children resilience and problem-solving skills that last a lifetime. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    The Power of Touch: Filling Your Child's Emotional Tank | Episode 429

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2025 5:16


    Did you know the way you touch your child profoundly affects their emotional health? Dr. Roger Smith explains that touch is one of the most powerful ways to fill a child's emotional tank, but warns that touch used only for anger or discipline can become powerfully negative. He shares a study that ranks different types of touch, revealing that a gentle hand on the head or face is often perceived as the most genuine sign of care and concern. Learn how to use deliberate, positive touch—from holding hands to a comforting head scratch—to continually express your sincere love for your children at every age. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Detective Training: Cultivating Your Child's Curiosity | Episode 428

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2025 3:09


    Are your children good at noticing the world around them? Dr. Roger Smith shares a moment by a canal in Manchester to explain how you can train your kids to be observant detectives. Learn how to use everyday objects and environments—like a mysterious ring on a wall—to encourage curiosity, ask great questions, and piece together the story of their surroundings. Start with scavenger hunts and simple questions to give your children an important life skill: observation. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Travel Is Fatal to Prejudice | Episode 427

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2025 4:46


    Should you travel with your children? Absolutely! Citing Mark Twain, Dr. Roger Smith explains that travel is the cure for bigotry and narrow-mindedness. Discover how exposing your children to different cultures, perspectives, and ways of life—whether through physical travel or imaginative journeys via books—helps them appreciate and love others. Learn how to teach your kids to look past differences in appearance, politics, or fashion to truly value people as they are. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Praise is the Sunlight: How to Encourage Your Child | Episode 426

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2025 4:27


    Do your children need praise? Absolutely! Dr. Roger Smith shares the powerful principle: "Praise is to children as sun is to flowers." He breaks down the three keys to effective praise: it must be specific (focusing on character and effort, not just appearance), sincere (not manipulative), and delivered soon after the desired behavior. Learn how to praise well to help your child grow and blossom into their full potential. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Better Together: Parenting is a Team Sport | Episode 425

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2025 5:05


    Even in a two-parent home, parenting is tough! Dr. Roger Smith uses the illustration of a pair of scissors to show that both parents are essential, even when they approach problems from different angles. He argues that two parents are always better together, and neither perspective is wrong—both are needed to "cut" through the challenges of raising children. Learn why tending to your marriage—appreciating your spouse's unique strengths and fostering communication—is the most crucial part of being a good parent. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Leading From Behind: Empowering Your Children | Episode 424

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 13, 2025 5:27


    The most effective leaders don't always stand in front. Dr. Roger Smith argues that true parental leadership means finding ways to walk behind your children, influencing them while giving them the space to grow. Discover how to foster curiosity and confidence by letting your kids take the physical lead on a hike or even run a simple errand alone, all while remaining engaged and creating a relationship where they choose to look back to you for guidance and safety, not control. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Public Training: Mastering Restaurant Behavior | Episode 423

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2025 5:00


    Does taking your kids to a restaurant stress you out? Dr. Roger Smith argues that difficult restaurant behavior is often a result of a lack of training, not rebellion. Learn how to prepare your children for public success by setting clear expectations before you go. This includes everything from reading the menu and talking to the server to understanding how their behavior impacts others. Start small, build their competence, and turn a stressful meal into a valuable life lesson. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    The Life Skill of Forgiveness | Episode 422

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2025 4:32


    Forgiveness is a difficult but vital lesson. Dr. Roger Smith emphasizes that parents must model and teach their children how to give, receive, and ask for forgiveness. Learn how to use small conflicts—like fighting over a toy—as opportunities to teach your child empathy. By guiding them to understand the other person's feelings and practice the specific components of a sincere apology, you equip them with an essential adult life skill for resolving conflict and redeeming challenging relationships. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Don't Be the Dream Killer: The Power of "Can" | Episode 421

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2025 3:52


    Have you ever told your child their big idea isn't possible? Dr. Roger Smith shares the story of FedEx founder Fred Smith, whose groundbreaking business plan was dismissed by his college professors. He cautions parents against short-circuiting their children's dreams by focusing on obstacles instead of opportunities. Listen to the encouraging poem, "Can and Can't," and learn why your words should fan the flames of imagination and ambition, helping your child's "Can" win the race every time. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    The Teen Driver Plan: Earning Car Access | Episode 420

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2025 3:38


    When your child starts driving, how do you handle car access? Dr. Roger Smith shares a revolutionary family tradition he learned from a friend: making teenagers financially responsible for their miles. Discover how implementing a set cost per mile and involving teens in maintenance can teach crucial life skills—like budgeting, responsibility, and decision-making—long before they buy their own car. Get a plan ready before your oldest child reaches driving age! Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Fueling Your Child's Passions | Episode 419

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2025 2:26


    Does your child have an intense interest—whether it's airplanes, robotics, or gardening? Dr. Roger Smith argues that a child's passions, even if different from your own, are vital to nurture. Learn how to expose your child to their areas of interest, not just through books, but by connecting them with people who love those same things. These encounters will spark curiosity, expand their world, and enrich their learning far beyond the classroom. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Choosing Your "Curricular" Activities Wisely | Episode 418

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 29, 2025 5:36


    What tools are you using to train your children? Dr. Roger Smith argues that youth organizations and extracurriculars—from 4-H to community theatre—should be seen as curricular to a child's development. Learn how to evaluate these activities based on their core values and, most importantly, on your child's needs and the overall impact on your family. He also shares a personal lesson about the need for parents to sometimes say "no" to their own commitments to invest fully in a childhood that has an "expiration date." Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    More Than Roads: The Importance of Maps | Episode 417

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 26, 2025 4:57


    Do you know which two U.S. states are shaped like articles of clothing? In this episode, Dr. Roger Smith shares his love for maps and explains why they're more than just a way to get from point A to point B. Learn how introducing maps and geography to your kids can help them understand their place in the world, connect with family, and develop a sense of curiosity about different places and the people who live there. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Don't Judge a Book (or Your Child) by Its Cover | Episode 416

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2025 3:01


    Ever misjudged a situation based on a first glance? Dr. Roger Smith shares a lesson from a book cover in a library, cautioning parents against judging their children's behavior too quickly. He explains that reacting only to what you see on the surface—whether it's an attitude, a choice, or an action—can damage your relationship and your ability to influence them. Learn to ask more questions, look for what's inside, and preserve the trust you have with your child. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Pillars of the Community: Helping Your Child See Their Future | Episode 415

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 22, 2025 3:22


    Do you talk to your children about who they'll become? In this episode, Dr. Roger Smith uses the image of a pillar to show parents how to use everyday objects to teach their children important life lessons. By explaining the meaning behind common phrases and painting a picture of them as strong, important adults, you can give your child a sense of purpose and direction from a very young age. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

    Aiming for Something: Setting Goals for Your Child | Episode 414

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2025 3:44


    Do you have a plan for your child's growth, or are you just letting things happen? Dr. Roger Smith shares a powerful lesson he learned from friends about intentional parenting. Using a biblical verse as a guide, they set specific goals for their children each year in four key areas: intellectual, physical, spiritual, and social development. Learn how to create a growth mindset for your child and help them "aim at something" to ensure they're always moving forward. Visit me at: https://rogersmithmd.com/ This has been a production of ThePodcastUpload.com 

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