Relationships Through the Looking Glass

Here is a draft podcast description thanking listeners and signing off: After over 100 episodes and 4 incredible years, the time has come to bring the Wonderland - Beyond The Looking Glass podcast to a close, at least for now. When we started this podcast back in 2020, we never imagined the community and conversations it would create. We set out to have balanced talks, share some laughs, and impart relationship lessons, but it turned into so much more. The open and thoughtful dialogue in each episode encouraged vulnerability, reflection, and growth not just for us, but for thousands of you listeners as well. Many of you have reached out over the years to share how an episode or concept profoundly shifted your perspective or improved your relationships. Know that you all have also left an indelible mark on us. We are so grateful for every like, subscribe, review, and message. Thank you for welcoming us into your lives through your earbuds each week - it has been an honor. The connections, understandings, and wisdom forged here will stay with us well beyond this farewell. While we may be signing off for now, remember that each ending opens the door for new beginnings. We hope you'll carry the lessons from Wonderland with you moving forward and pay them forward. Perhaps our paths will cross again down the rabbit hole someday soon. Until then, from the bottom of our hearts, thank you, and may you always be the main character in your story! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throughthelookingglass/message

Have you ever felt the sting of betrayal erode your trust and cast a shadow over your relationships? You're not alone. Betrayal trauma can leave deep wounds, impacting our ability to connect and build relationships. Join us as we delve into the complex dynamics at play, explore practical tools for healing, and offer real-life stories of resilience and growth. We talk about: How betrayal trauma impacts relationships Strategies for rebuilding trust and intimacy Tips for navigating triggers and communication breakdowns The power of self-compassion and forgiveness Whether you're still reeling from a fresh betrayal or seeking to heal from past experiences, Come join the conversation and explore, learn, and grow. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throughthelookingglass/message

Having “the talk” to determine if you and your potential partner are on the same page about relationship hopes, expectations, and boundaries is crucial, yet often awkward. When is the optimal time to initiate this critical conversation before assumptions derail a promising connection's growth? This episode discusses how defining the relationship too hastily can activate avoidant behaviors. However, clear communication early on alleviates ambiguity about needs and compatibility. This episode offers guidance on broaching topics like time spent together, integrating with friend groups, social media habits, expressions of intimacy, future goals, and unusual deal breakers. While no magic formula exists, typically these talks happen once mutual care is established but before attachments form. Your unique pace and priorities should drive timing. We hope to provide advice on framing discussions in constructive ways that honor each person's expectations. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throughthelookingglass/message

Do you ever feel like new relationships accelerate from 0 to 60 before you even put on your seatbelt? One minute you're in “just talking” territory, the next there's a toothbrush at their place and they're booked to meet your family at Christmas. Or does the pacing drag like molasses, plagued by ambiguity, hesitation and walls up high? What defines healthy pacing when you're getting to know someone new? How can you even tell in those critical early stages if this thing has the velocity to go the distance or will inevitably run out of fuel...or worse, crash and burn? In this episode, we're talking about the speed of new relationships. We'll map the major milestones, discuss red and green flags for alignment potential, and teach you how to pump the brakes or hit the gas according to your own needs and compatibility. Relationships falter when we silence our authentic voices, so make sure you are using yours. Only you can dictate the right speed limits for your journey. Let's make sure you end up safely at your desired destination. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throughthelookingglass/message

Dating can be hard enough as it is. But when you also live with mental health struggles, it can bring added layers of complexity to an already tricky landscape. Whether it's anxiety convincing you that you're unlovable, depression sapping your energy to put yourself out there, or the stigma surrounding disorders keeping you guarded...how do you brave the dating world when your own mind puts up obstacles? In this episode, we'll hear from folks who have been there. Like many, they once saw their mental health status as a liability in finding love, but they've since learned how to approach dating in a healthy, empowering way. We'll talk openness versus oversharing, setting boundaries, self-compassion, tuning into your needs, and other tips. While there are certainly challenges, you absolutely can date successfully while also prioritizing your mental wellbeing. It's about finding the balance between accepting your needs and believing you deserve fulfilment. There will be trial and error, but through communication, self-awareness, and showing yourself grace, dating can teach you invaluable lessons about resilience. You are SO much more than your diagnosis or struggles.  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throughthelookingglass/message

Today we're diving into the delicate art of dating someone who has been through a divorce. Now, dating can be tricky enough, but when your romantic interest is carrying the baggage of a previous failed marriage things get even more complex. How do you avoid the landmines? When is the right time for them to open up about their past relationship? How do you know if they're truly ready to commit to someone new? We'll explore all this and more in today's show. Whether you're currently seeing a divorcée or considering it, this episode is filled with practical tips from relationship experts and others who have been there first-hand. You'll learn red flags to watch out for, how to have the ‘ex' talk, and ways to tell if your partner is still emotionally tied to their former spouse. We'll also discuss how to integrate into this new type of blended family if kids are involved. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throughthelookingglass/message

After a break, your hosts are excited to reunite and bring you into a new phase of thoughtful relationship discussions here in Wonderland!  In this premiere episode, we'll reflect on time apart, what we've learned, and how we can come back together with renewed commitment, compassion and tools for deep relating. Just like in any relationship, breaks can become breakthroughs if the reunion is intentional.  We'll talk about aligning values, defining boundaries, balancing autonomy with closeness, communicating clearly, and approaching reconciliation with care. How do we build back trust and intimacy? How do we grow together? Welcome back to Wonderland!  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throughthelookingglass/message

In this episode, the gentlemen have an expressive conversation about the views of Black Men in today's society and how they have been impacted by racism. They provided insight on ways to address it moving forward and the importance of Brotherhood and how to handle these complex, century-old issues faced by Black Men in America. Get ready for "Exit Wounds," a mini-series that shines a light on the issues impacting Black men and the world around them. Through candid conversations, we create a safe space where Black men can share their stories, build community, and empower themselves and others. Our aim is to facilitate dialogue and promote change. Join us each week as Markis from "Through the Looking Glass" leads a panel of influential men who are making a difference in their communities. Mr. Blackovation from "All Things Black Podcast" and Chris and Earnell, the "Wildcat Therapist," will also be joining us to provide their unique perspectives on the issues at hand. Together, we will explore the topics that matter most to Black men and work towards creating a space where our voices can be heard. Don't miss out on this honest and impactful series. #podcastersofinstagram #podcasting #blackpodcasters #podcastrecommendation #newepisode  #blackmenpodcasters  #eachoneteachone  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throughthelookingglass/message

This episode is based on the quote of the late civil rights activist Malcolm X, "The most disrespected woman in America is the Black Woman." The panel talks about their experiences and how their views of the world through the lens of a Black Women is one that is full of complexities and harsh truths. This mini-series Un:Scripted takes all the narratives and scripted responses and throws it out the window. We are here to talk about real issues impacting the Black Woman and our community. Women's empowerment, strength, and support are things that all women seek. However, when it comes to black females sisterhood is attacked and many times black women are placed in scenarios to promote conflict within.   Society has created stereotypes that facilitate expectations and begin to shape how black women are seen in the world, damaging our relationships with others and connection to one another. That's why this mini-series is so important. Join Me and Keisha as we welcome Dani (The host of My Survivor Voice Podcast) and Marlowe (The Woke Therapist) as we talk about some of these stereotypes and hurtful biases and the importance of authentic sisterhood of black women, Un: Scripted.  Come check us out and learn more about the hosts and our origin story. website: www.thelookingglass.fans - Instagram: @thelookingglasspodcast - FB Group and Page: Relationships Through Looking Glass Podcast - TikTok: thelookingglasspod Dani's socials: @mysurvivorvoice (IG) and trulydani_elle (Twitter). Marlowe socials: @thewoketherapist (on all platforms) --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throughthelookingglass/message

In this episode, the gentlemen take a deep dive into the challenges in society that challenge the roles of masculinity, specifically for the Black Man. This conversation gets deep and honest. Get ready for "Exit Wounds," a mini-series that shines a light on the issues impacting Black men and the world around them. Through candid conversations, we create a safe space where Black men can share their stories, build community, and empower themselves and others. Our aim is to facilitate dialogue and promote change. Join us each week as Markis from "Through the Looking Glass" leads a panel of influential men who are making a difference in their communities. Mr. Blackovation from "All Things Black Podcast" and Chris and Earnell, the "Wildcat Therapist," will also be joining us to provide their unique perspectives on the issues at hand. Together, we will explore the topics that matter most to Black men and work towards creating a space where our voices can be heard. Don't miss out on this honest and impactful series. #podcastersofinstagram #podcasting #blackpodcasters #podcastrecommendation #newepisode  #blackmenpodcasters  #eachoneteachone  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throughthelookingglass/message

In this episode of Un:Scripted we talk about what is means when you are "called" to be his wife? What does that mean? In the Black community, is religion used to keep people in unhealthy relationships? Let's talk about... This mini-series Un:Scripted takes all the narratives and scripted responses and throws it out the window. We are here to talk about real issues that impact the Black Woman and the community we belong to. Women's empowerment, strength, and support are things that all women seek. However, when it comes to black females sisterhood is attacked and many times black women are placed in scenarios to promote conflict within.   Society has created stereotypes that facilitate expectations and begin to shape the way black women are seen in the world which damages our relationships with others and connection to one another. That's why this mini-series is so important. Join Me and Keisha as we welcome Dani (The host of My Survivor Voice Podcast) and Marlowe (The Woke Therapist) as we talk about some of these stereotypes and hurtful biases and the importance of authentic sisterhood of black women, Un: Scripted.  Come check us out and learn more about the hosts and our origin story. website: www.thelookingglass.fans - Instagram: @thelookingglasspodcast - FB Group and Page: Relationships Through Looking Glass Podcast - TikTok: thelookingglasspod Dani's socials: @mysurvivorvoice (IG) and trulydani_elle (Twitter). Marlowe socials: @thewoketherapist (on all platforms) Link to the clip: https://www.tiktok.com/@_leahholderfield/video/7200173179564723499?_r=1&_t=8ZveYzN8PFK --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throughthelookingglass/message

This episode the gentlemen take a deep dive into Fatherhood and what it means to them. Get ready for "Exit Wounds," a mini-series that shines a light on the issues impacting Black men and the world around them. Through candid conversations, we create a safe space where Black men can share their stories, build community, and empower themselves and others. Our aim is to facilitate dialogue and promote change. Join us each week as Markis from "Through the Looking Glass" leads a panel of influential men who are making a difference in their communities. Mr. Blackovation from "All Things Black Podcast" and Chris and Earnell, the "Wildcat Therapist," will also be joining us to provide their unique perspectives on the issues at hand. Together, we will explore the topics that matter most to Black men and work towards creating a space where our voices can be heard. Don't miss out on this honest and impactful series. #podcastersofinstagram #podcasting #blackpodcasters #podcastrecommendation #newepisode  #blackmenpodcasters  #eachoneteachone  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throughthelookingglass/message

In this episode of Un:Scripted we welcome Ress and Ashley from the SheWolf Alchemy Podcast to discuss the importance of balancing masculine and feminine energy in our lives, both internally and externally. These lovely ladies join Michelle, Keisha, and Dani as we discuss the concept of masculine and feminine energy. We explain how finding a balance between these energies is crucial for our overall well-being and the health of our relationships with ourselves and others. We also discuss how society often places a higher value on masculine energy, which can lead to an imbalance and suppression of our feminine qualities. However, the narrative of Black women being too masculine has caused an ongoing rift between men and women. While discussing the highlight and importance of vulnerability and embracing our "soft" side we also explain that vulnerability while often seen as a weakness, it is a strength that allows us to connect with others on a deeper level and foster more meaningful relationships. This mini-series Un:Scripted takes all the narratives and scripted responses and throws it out the window. We are here to talk about real issues that impact the Black Woman and the community we belong to. Women's empowerment, strength, and support are things that all women seek. However, when it comes to black females sisterhood is attacked and many times black women are placed in scenarios to promote conflict within.   Society has created stereotypes that facilitate expectations and begin to shape the way black women are seen in the world which damages our relationships with others and connection to one another. That's why this mini-series is so important. Join Me and Keisha as we welcome Dani (The host of My Survivor Voice Podcast) and Marlowe (The Woke Therapist) as we talk about some of these stereotypes and hurtful biases and the importance of authentic sisterhood of black women, Un: Scripted.  Come check us out and learn more about the hosts and our origin story. website: www.thelookingglass.fans - Instagram: @thelookingglasspodcast - FB Group and Page: Relationships Through Looking Glass Podcast - TikTok: thelookingglasspod Dani's socials: @mysurvivorvoice (IG) and trulydani_elle (Twitter). Marlowe socials: @thewoketherapist (on all platforms) --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throughthelookingglass/message

This week the panel talks about the impact of Mental Health on Black men and the struggles of seeking help. Get ready for "Exit Wounds," a mini-series that shines a light on the issues impacting Black men and the world around them. Through candid conversations, we create a safe space where Black men can share their stories, build community, and empower themselves and others. Our aim is to facilitate dialogue and promote change. Join us each week as Markis from "Through the Looking Glass" leads a panel of influential men who are making a difference in their communities. Mr. Blackovation from "All Things Black Podcast" and Chris and Earnell, the "Wildcat Therapist," will also be joining us to provide their unique perspectives on the issues at hand. Together, we will explore the topics that matter most to Black men and work towards creating a space where our voices can be heard. Don't miss out on this honest and impactful series. #podcastersofinstagram #podcasting #blackpodcasters #podcastrecommendation #newepisode  #blackmenpodcasters  #eachoneteachone  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throughthelookingglass/message

This episode focuses on the way society works to put black men and women against one another. Creating this "battle of the sexes". The question is ...is there really a battle between us or is it really a series of misunderstandings, hurt, and historical trauma. This mini-series Un:Scripted takes all the narratives and scripted responses and throws it out the window. We are here to talk about real issues that impact the Black Woman and the community we belong to. Women's empowerment, strength, and support are things that all women seek. However, when it comes to black females sisterhood is attacked and many times black women are placed in scenarios to promote conflict within.   Society has created stereotypes that facilitate expectations and begin to shape the way black women are seen in the world which damages our relationships with others and connection to one another. That's why this mini-series is so important. Join Me and Keisha as we welcome Dani (The host of My Survivor Voice Podcast) and Marlowe (The Woke Therapist) as we talk about some of these stereotypes and hurtful biases and the importance of authentic sisterhood of black women, Un: Scripted.  Come check us out and learn more about the hosts and our origin story. website: www.thelookingglass.fans - Instagram: @thelookingglasspodcast - FB Group and Page: Relationships Through Looking Glass Podcast - TikTok: thelookingglasspod Dani's socials: @mysurvivorvoice (IG) and trulydani_elle (Twitter). Marlowe socials: @thewoketherapist (on all platforms) --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throughthelookingglass/message

This week the panel asks, "What is Brotherhood?" Get ready for "Exit Wounds," a mini-series that shines a light on the issues impacting Black men and the world around them. Through candid conversations, we create a safe space where Black men can share their stories, build community, and empower themselves and others. Our aim is to facilitate dialogue and promote change. Join us each week as Markis from "Through the Looking Glass" leads a panel of influential men who are making a difference in their communities. Mr. Blackovation from "All Things Black Podcast" and Chris and Earnell, the "Wildcat Therapist," will also be joining us to provide their unique perspectives on the issues at hand. Together, we will explore the topics that matter most to Black men and work towards creating a space where our voices can be heard. Don't miss out on this honest and impactful series. #podcastersofinstagram #podcasting #blackpodcasters #podcastrecommendation #newepisode  #blackmenpodcasters  #eachoneteachone  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throughthelookingglass/message

This mini-series Un:Scripted takes all the narratives and scripted responses and throws it out the window. We are here to talk about real issues that impact the Black Woman and the community we belong to. Women's empowerment, strength, and support are things that all women seek. However, when it comes to black females sisterhood is attacked and many times black women are placed in scenarios to promote conflict within.   Society has created stereotypes that facilitate expectations and begin to shape the way black women are seen in the world which damages our relationships with others and connection to one another. That's why this mini-series is so important. Join Me and Keisha as we welcome Dani (The host of My Survivor Voice Podcast) and Marlowe (The Woke Therapist) as we talk about some of these stereotypes and hurtful biases and the importance of authentic sisterhood of black women, Un: Scripted.  Come check us out and learn more about the hosts and our origin story. website: www.thelookingglass.fans - Instagram: @thelookingglasspodcast - FB Group and Page: Relationships Through Looking Glass Podcast - TikTok: thelookingglasspod Dani's socials: @mysurvivorvoice (IG) and trulydani_elle (Twitter). Marlowe socials: @thewoketherapist (on all platforms) --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throughthelookingglass/message

In this episode, the Wonderland Crew is led by Keisha as she introduces her clip that focuses on who you build relationships with? Some people may not be sent to you for smashing but as an aid to "upgrade" your life. What happens when you mismanage a relationship that was not meant to be more than a "help" and not a sexual relationship? Through honest and insightful conversations , we identify common triggers for negative behavior and discover strategies for checking our impulses in order to create more fulfilling relationships. Tune in to learn more about self-awareness, impulse control, and accountability. https://www.instagram.com/reel/CopRdoajhQJ/?igshid=NTU1Mzc3ZGM= --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/throughthelookingglass/message

How fast do you open up to new potential partners? Are you someone who offers access to yourself at 100% from day 1? We discuss the importance of making sure you know who you are allowing into your world, to share your story, to access your energy. Markis leads this conversation to find out what the Wonderland Crew feels about access levels when going into relationships.   Whether you're currently in a long-term partnership or seeking to build a new relationship, this episode offers valuable insights on how to create an environment where both partners feel secure and loved. Clip Link: https://www.tiktok.com/@kamiecrawford/video/7079103204960619822 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

The feeling of being chosen in a relationship is a powerful one. In this episode, we explore the concept of being chosen by your partner in a relationship. The Wonderland Crew shares their insights on what it means to be chosen, how it impacts our sense of self-worth and how it affects the dynamics of our relationships. We discuss the importance of feeling valued and appreciated by our partners, and how being chosen can contribute to a stronger emotional connection.Through our own experiences and laughs we will talk about what it means to be one of the chosen ones (according to our views and life stories)! Whether you're currently in a long-term partnership or seeking to build a new relationship, this episode offers valuable insights on how to create an environment where both partners feel secure and loved. Clip Link:https://www.tiktok.com/@cass_dow/video/7152561853539945774 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

In this episode, Chris shares his weekly pic with the Wonderland crew to tackle the question of whether or not anything in life truly matters. Is it possible that, when you look at life from a certain perspective, nothing really does matter? Through candid conversation and personal anecdotes, they delve into the various ways in which people find meaning and purpose in their lives. They explore the idea that what matters most to one person may not be the same for another, and how our perspectives can shift over time. Join the conversation by questioning what truly matters. Tune in to this episode to gain a new perspective on life's big questions. Clip:https://www.youtube.com/shorts/4PtDKhwuSWo The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic experience. The podcast will look at how our perceptions of ourselves and the world around us impact how we relate to one another. With a male and female perspective from guests in different fields and life experiences, we aim to use real-world examples of how the looking-glass self-theory has an impact on all relationships. We will address societal, cultural, and mental health concepts in everyday terms as we work towards personal growth that allows us to build authentic relationships and attract connections meant for us. While there may have been mental health concepts discussed, this podcast is not meant to be a substitute for diagnosis or mental health care. If anything in this episode triggered you, please seek the care of a professional mental health provider in your area. Come check us out and learn more about the hosts and our origin story. website: www.thelookingglass.fans - Instagram: @thelookingglasspodcast - FB Group and Page: Relationships Through Looking Glass Podcast - TikTok: thelookingglasspod --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

Does it feel like you're wasting your time in a relationship that's going nowhere? This episode we'll discuss Keisha's pick in what wasting time looks like. We talk about signs, how to address them and what actionable advice you can take to move forward. Plus, stories from the crew and how we all have been in similar situations, so you can learn from our experiences. We answer the question about whose fault it is when you are stuck in a fruitless relationship! Clip:https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cn8U53VAefg/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic experience. The podcast will look at how our perceptions of ourselves and the world around us impact how we relate to one another. With a male and female perspective from guests in different fields and life experiences, we aim to use real-world examples of how the looking-glass self-theory has an impact on all relationships. We will address societal, cultural, and mental health concepts in everyday terms as we work towards personal growth that allows us to build authentic relationships and attract connections meant for us. While there may have been mental health concepts discussed, this podcast is not meant to be a substitute for diagnosis or mental health care. If anything in this episode triggered you, please seek the care of a professional mental health provider in your area. Come check us out and learn more about the hosts and our origin story. website: www.thelookingglass.fans - Instagram: @thelookingglasspodcast - FB Group and Page: Relationships Through Looking Glass Podcast - TikTok: thelookingglasspod --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

This week on our podcast, we'll be discussing those relationships that might have been worth fighting for. We'll explore when to stay and when to leave, helping you reflect on the choices you've made in your past relationships and think about how they may or may not have been the right ones. So let's talk – did you ever regret leaving a relationship too soon? #Relationships #Choices #Regret Clip: https://www.instagram.com/reel/CnpCxPQqeS_/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic experience. The podcast will look at how our perceptions of ourselves and the world around us impact how we relate to one another. With a male and female perspective from guests in different fields and life experiences, we aim to use real-world examples of how the looking-glass self-theory has an impact on all relationships. We will address societal, cultural, and mental health concepts in everyday terms as we work towards personal growth that allows us to build authentic relationships and attract connections meant for us. While there may have been mental health concepts discussed, this podcast is not meant to be a substitute for diagnosis or mental health care. If anything in this episode triggered you, please seek the care of a professional mental health provider in your area. Come check us out and learn more about the hosts and our origin story. website: www.thelookingglass.fans - Instagram: @thelookingglasspodcast - FB Group and Page: Relationships Through Looking Glass Podcast - TikTok: thelookingglasspod --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

Do you know the difference between someone who is compatible with you and someone who is suitable? Does it matter? In this week's episode, we discuss the difference as it relates to long-term relationships. We also talk about reasons you put in the work and fight for a relationship and ways to identify connections that are only meant for a season. Clip link: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRsY6MrH/ The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic experience. The podcast will look at how our perceptions of ourselves and the world around us impact how we relate to one another. With a male and female perspective from guests in different fields and life experiences, we aim to use real-world examples of how the looking-glass self-theory has an impact on all relationships. We will address societal, cultural, and mental health concepts in everyday terms as we work towards personal growth that allows us to build authentic relationships and attract connections meant for us. While there may have been mental health concepts discussed, this podcast is not meant to be a substitute for diagnosis or mental health care. If anything in this episode triggered you, please seek the care of a professional mental health provider in your area. Come check us out and learn more about the hosts and our origin story. website: www.thelookingglass.fans - Instagram: @thelookingglasspodcast - FB Group and Page: Relationships Through Looking Glass Podcast - TikTok: thelookingglasspod --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

We're Backkkkkk....with our 1st episode of Season 5! Who is your #1? This episode talks about time importance of priorities in relationships. Come join in on the conversation and learn what the Wonderland crew feels is important and what priority they feel they should be. Chris leads this episode so come on in and join the conversation. Clip link: https://youtube.com/shorts/RGq5qR4F3GU The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic experience. The podcast will look at how our perceptions of ourselves and the world around us impact how we relate to one another. With a male and female perspective from guests in different fields and life experiences, we aim to use real-world examples of how the looking-glass self-theory has an impact on all relationships. We will address societal, cultural, and mental health concepts in everyday terms as we work towards personal growth that allows us to build authentic relationships and attract connections meant for us. While there may have been mental health concepts discussed, this podcast is not meant to be a substitute for diagnosis or mental health care. If anything in this episode triggered you, please seek the care of a professional mental health provider in your area. Come check us out and learn more about the hosts and our origin story. website: www.thelookingglass.fans - Instagram: @thelookingglasspodcast - FB Group and Page: Relationships Through Looking Glass Podcast - TikTok: thelookingglasspod --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

Are some break-ups easier to process and move on from than others? Do you keep a few ex-partners in the "In Case of Emergency, Break Glass"? Come chat with us as we discuss why some people are easier to let go of and others stick with you forever. We are saying goodbye to Season 4 as we close it out with this episode. Come join in on the conversation. The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic experience. The podcast will look at how our perceptions of ourselves and the world around us impact how we relate to one another. With a male and female perspective from guests in different fields and life experiences, we aim to use real-world examples of how the looking-glass self-theory has an impact on all relationships. We will address societal, cultural, and mental health concepts in everyday terms as we work towards personal growth that allows us to build authentic relationships and attract connections meant for us. While there may have been mental health concepts discussed, this podcast is not meant to be a substitute for diagnosis or mental health care. If anything in this episode triggered you, please seek the care of a professional mental health provider in your area. Come check us out and learn more about the hosts and our origin story. website: www.thelookingglass.fans - Instagram: @thelookingglasspodcast - FB Group and Page: Relationships Through Looking Glass Podcast - TikTok: thelookingglasspod --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

How many previous partners have you taken back? Listen to the Wonderland Crew as we discuss the concepts of taking an ex back. Is breaking up with someone an indicator of a healthy relationship; if you can make it work after the break-up? Let's talk about it. Watch the clip here. The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic experience. The podcast will look at how our perceptions of ourselves and the world around us impact how we relate to one another. With a male and female perspective from guests in different fields and life experiences, we aim to use real-world examples of how the looking-glass self-theory has an impact on all relationships. We will address societal, cultural, and mental health concepts in everyday terms as we work towards personal growth that allows us to build authentic relationships and attract connections meant for us. While there may have been mental health concepts discussed, this podcast is not meant to be a substitute for diagnosis or mental health care. If anything in this episode triggered you, please seek the care of a professional mental health provider in your area. Come check us out and learn more about the hosts and our origin story. website: www.thelookingglass.fans - Instagram: @thelookingglasspodcast - FB Group and Page: Relationships Through Looking Glass Podcast - TikTok: thelookingglasspod --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

To smash or not to smash...that is the question. Is there a right or wrong way to enter into a sexual relationship? What about body count...does that still matter? How soon is too soon? So many questions...come listen to the answers. Learn who has a new nickname and who is "persistently" chasing butterflies...oh yeah, and a bit of Sunday school too. Another episode to get you talking; come join in on the conversation. The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic experience. The podcast will look at how our perceptions of ourselves and the world around us impact how we relate to one another. With a male and female perspective from guests in different fields and life experiences, we aim to use real-world examples of how the looking-glass self-theory has an impact on all relationships. We will address societal, cultural, and mental health concepts in everyday terms as we work towards personal growth that allows us to build authentic relationships and attract connections meant for us. While there may have been mental health concepts discussed, this podcast is not meant to be a substitute for diagnosis or mental health care. If anything in this episode triggered you, please seek the care of a professional mental health provider in your area. Come check us out and learn more about the hosts and our origin story. website: www.thelookingglass.fans - Instagram: @thelookingglasspodcast - FB Group and Page: Relationships Through Looking Glass Podcast - TikTok: thelookingglasspod --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

Be careful what you ask for...a phrase we all have heard once or twice. What happens when that "perfect" partner enters your life and is the answer to all your prayers? Screw it up right? What does self-sabotage look like? How do you stop doing it? Oh, and find out who the habitual line-crosser is... The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic experience. The podcast will look at how our perceptions of ourselves and the world around us impact how we relate to one another. With a male and female perspective from guests in different fields and life experiences, we aim to use real-world examples of how the looking-glass self-theory has an impact on all relationships. We will address societal, cultural, and mental health concepts in everyday terms as we work towards personal growth that allows us to build authentic relationships and attract connections meant for us. While there may have been mental health concepts discussed, this podcast is not meant to be a substitute for diagnosis or mental health care. If anything in this episode triggered you, please seek the care of a professional mental health provider in your area. Come check us out and learn more about the hosts and our origin story. website: www.thelookingglass.fans - Instagram: @thelookingglasspodcast - FB Group and Page: Relationships Through Looking Glass Podcast - TikTok: thelookingglasspod --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

This episode, much like all the Mad Hatter episodes, will be exploring some graphic stories and details that may be a trigger so please consider your own trauma stories and experiences when deciding to listen. Mad as a Hatter. Do you know the story behind the phrase? The insanity behind the character? The phrase was used to describe someone who's crazy or prone to unpredictable behavior. Between the 18th and 19th centuries, hatters used Mercury in their creations. The Mercury poisoning resulted in what was believed to be insanity and chaotic behavior; thus, “Mad as a Hatter”, was born. The following stories are my picks for further discussion. How the impact of mental health, relationship challenges, and circumstances can lead to murder. While it goes without saying that a mental health diagnosis does not create a murderer. However, in these cases, a diagnosis left untreated, the opportunity, and the right catalyst can create a monster. Won't you come with me as we enter Wonderland After Dark? Don't worry, it won't hurt. Episode 4 John Allen Muhammad This episode is dedicated to the victims of John Allen Muhammad and Lee Malvo (known and unknown) A memorial to the victims of the D.C. area sniper attacks is located at Brookside Gardens in Wheaton, Maryland.[An additional memorial was constructed in 2014 in the government plaza of Rockville, Maryland. References/Resources https://www.stalkingawareness.org https://injepijournal.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s40621-021-00330-0 https://jaapl.org/content/early/2020/02/05/JAAPL.003929-20 If you are someone you know is in need of help with a domestic violence concern; there is help. 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) TTY 1.800.787.3224 Chat Chat live now --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

The phrases dating and courting are often used interchangeably.  However, is that the correct way? Jump down the rabbit hole with us to hear about what we feel the difference is and why it is important NOT to TAKE a drink from Chris.  Come on in and join the conversation. The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic experience. The podcast will look at how our perceptions of ourselves and the world around us impact how we relate to one another. With a male and female perspective from guests in different fields and life experiences, we aim to use real-world examples of how the looking-glass self-theory has an impact on all relationships. We will address societal, cultural, and mental health concepts in everyday terms as we work towards personal growth that allows us to build authentic relationships and attract connections meant for us. While there may have been mental health concepts discussed, this podcast is not meant to be a substitute for diagnosis or mental health care. If anything in this episode triggered you, please seek the care of a professional mental health provider in your area. Come check us out and learn more about the hosts and our origin story. website: www.thelookingglass.fans - Instagram: @thelookingglasspodcast - FB Group and Page: Relationships Through Looking Glass Podcast - TikTok: thelookingglasspod --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

If you are a regular podcast listener, then you know we use Maya Angelou's wisdom a lot. So much we dedicated a whole episode to her lesson of "When someone shows you who they are, believe them." Who is to blame when you decide to ignore the warnings? Can you ever change someone's behavior? Is it worth it? Come on in and join the conversation. The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic experience. The podcast will look at how our perceptions of ourselves and the world around us impact how we relate to one another. With a male and female perspective from guests in different fields and life experiences, we aim to use real-world examples of how the looking-glass self-theory has an impact on all relationships. We will address societal, cultural, and mental health concepts in everyday terms as we work towards personal growth that allows us to build authentic relationships and attract connections meant for us. While there may have been mental health concepts discussed, this podcast is not meant to be a substitute for diagnosis or mental health care. If anything in this episode triggered you, please seek the care of a professional mental health provider in your area. Come check us out and learn more about the hosts and our origin story. website: www.thelookingglass.fans - Instagram: @thelookingglasspodcast - FB Group and Page: Relationships Through Looking Glass Podcast - TikTok: thelookingglasspod Reference: https://youtu.be/BTiziwBhd54 https://youtube.com/shorts/X-6DEbw9_G8?feature=share --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

This episode, much like all the Mad Hatter episodes, will be exploring some graphic stories and details that may be a trigger so please consider your own trauma stories and experiences when deciding to listen. Mad as a Hatter. Do you know the story behind the phrase? The insanity behind the character? The phrase was used to describe someone who's crazy or prone to unpredictable behavior. Between the 18th and 19th centuries, hatters used Mercury in their creations. The Mercury poisoning resulted in what was believed to be insanity and chaotic behavior; thus, “Mad as a Hatter”, was born. The following stories are my picks for further discussion. How the impact of mental health, relationship challenges, and circumstances can lead to murder. While it goes without saying that a mental health diagnosis does not create a murderer. However, in these cases, a diagnosis left untreated, the opportunity, and the right catalyst can create a monster. Won't you come with me as we enter Wonderland After Dark? Don't worry, it won't hurt. Episode 3 Chris Watts https://www.youtube.comwatch?v=ugoYkx04E2Q This episode is dedicated to the victims Shanann, Bella, Celeste, and Nico --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

In the world of dating in today's age; there are many options you can pick from. We discuss poly, open, long-distance, and age-difference relationships. We talk about what ones each host can and has participated in and the ones that are a hard pass. From relationships to Olaf; this episode is truly a comical trip down the rabbit hole. The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic experience. The podcast will look at how our perceptions of ourselves and the world around us impact how we relate to one another. With a male and female perspective from guests in different fields and life experiences, we aim to use real-world examples of how the looking-glass self-theory has an impact on all relationships. We will address societal, cultural, and mental health concepts in everyday terms as we work towards personal growth that allows us to build authentic relationships and attract connections meant for us. While there may have been mental health concepts discussed, this podcast is not meant to be a substitute for diagnosis or mental health care. If anything in this episode triggered you, please seek the care of a professional mental health provider in your area. Come check us out and learn more about the hosts and our origin story. website: www.thelookingglass.fans - Instagram: @thelookingglasspodcast - FB Group and Page: Relationships Through Looking Glass Podcast - TikTok: thelookingglasspod --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

We all have heard the saying, "Men are from Mars; Women are from Venus." What does that mean for communication? Conflicts in communication can bring abrupt endings. Is it possible that communication could be based more on personality rather than gender? Come chat it up with the Wonderland crew and join in on the conversation. The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic experience. The podcast will look at how our perceptions of ourselves and the world around us impact how we relate to one another. With a male and female perspective from guests in different fields and life experiences, we aim to use real-world examples of how the looking-glass self-theory has an impact on all relationships. We will address societal, cultural, and mental health concepts in everyday terms as we work towards personal growth that allows us to build authentic relationships and attract connections meant for us. While there may have been mental health concepts discussed, this podcast is not meant to be a substitute for diagnosis or mental health care. If anything in this episode triggered you, please seek the care of a professional mental health provider in your area. Come check us out and learn more about the hosts and our origin story. website: www.thelookingglass.fans - Instagram: @thelookingglasspodcast - FB Group and Page: Relationships Through Looking Glass Podcast - TikTok: thelookingglasspod --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

This episode, much like all the Mad Hatter episodes, will be exploring some graphic stories and details that may be a trigger so please consider your own trauma stories and experiences when deciding to listen. Mad as a Hatter. Do you know the story behind the phrase? The insanity behind the character? The phrase was used to describe someone who's crazy or prone to unpredictable behavior. Between the 18th and 19th centuries, hatters used Mercury in their creations. The Mercury poisoning resulted in what was believed to be insanity and chaotic behavior; thus, “Mad as a Hatter”, was born. The following stories are my picks for further discussion. How the impact of mental health, relationship challenges, and circumstances can lead to murder. While it goes without saying that a mental health diagnosis does not create a murderer. However, in these cases, a diagnosis left untreated, the opportunity, and the right catalyst can create a monster. Won't you come with me as we enter Wonderland After Dark? Don't worry, it won't hurt. Episode 2 - Kristen Gilbert This episode is dedicated to the victims, known and unknown. Stanley Jagodowski, 66 / Henry Hudon, 35 / Kenneth Cutting, 41 / Edward Skwira, 69 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

What does healing look like to you? Is it different when you are dating? How do you stay authentic to your healing while allowing yourself to be vulnerable with someone new? Come chat it up with the Wonderland crew and join in on the conversation. The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic experience. The podcast will look at how our perceptions of ourselves and the world around us impact how we relate to one another. With a male and female perspective from guests in different fields and life experiences, we aim to use real-world examples of how the looking-glass self-theory has an impact on all relationships. We will address societal, cultural, and mental health concepts in everyday terms as we work towards personal growth that allows us to build authentic relationships and attract connections meant for us. While there may have been mental health concepts discussed, this podcast is not meant to be a substitute for diagnosis or mental health care. If anything in this episode triggered you, please seek the care of a professional mental health provider in your area. Come check us out and learn more about the hosts and our origin story. website: www.thelookingglass.fans - Instagram: @thelookingglasspodcast - FB Group and Page: Relationships Through Looking Glass Podcast - TikTok: thelookingglasspod --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

Have you ever been told that you have “daddy issues” or been called a “mama's boy” What exactly does that mean? What does it mean for you and your relationships? In this episode, we begin a conversation about what these terms actually mean, ways to identify the behaviors, and how to address them before they hurt your relationship. Spoiler alert…one of the hosts, has both! Can you guess who? The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic experience. The podcast will look at how our perceptions of ourselves and the world around us impact how we relate to one another. With a male and female perspective from guests in different fields and life experiences, we aim to use real-world examples of how the looking-glass self-theory has an impact on all relationships. We will address societal, cultural, and mental health concepts in everyday terms as we work towards personal growth that allows us to build authentic relationships and attract connections meant for us. While there may have been mental health concepts discussed, this podcast is not meant to be a substitute for diagnosis or mental health care. If anything in this episode triggered you, please seek the care of a professional mental health provider in your area. Come check us out and learn more about the hosts and our origin story. website: www.thelookingglass.fans - Instagram: @thelookingglasspodcast - FB Group and Page: Relationships Through Looking Glass Podcast - TikTok: thelookingglasspod --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

This episode, much like all the Mad Hatter episodes, will be exploring some graphic stories and details that may be a trigger so please consider your own trauma stories and experiences when deciding to listen. Mad as a Hatter. Do you know the story behind the phrase? The insanity behind the character? The phrase was used to describe someone who's crazy or prone to unpredictable behavior. Between the 18th and 19th centuries, hatters used Mercury in their creations. The Mercury poisoning resulted in what was believed to be insanity and chaotic behavior, thus, “Mad as a Hatter”, was born. The following stories are my picks for further discussion. How the impact of mental health, relationship challenges, and circumstances can lead to murder. While it goes without saying that a mental health diagnosis does not create a murderer. However, in these cases, a diagnosis left untreated, the opportunity, and the right catalyst can create a monster. Won't you come with me as we enter Wonderland after Dark? Don't worry, it won't hurt. Episode 1 - Jodi Arias Resources mentioned in the episode: Stalking and Harassment https://victimconnect.org/learn/types-of-crime/stalking/ https://nicic.gov/stalking-and-harassment-assessment-and-risk-profile-sharp Domestic Violence https://www.thehotline.org/ 800.799.SAFE (7233) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

Come chat it up with the Wonderland Crew as we talk about the challenges of "Dating After Divorce". We talk about our own experiences and respond to some questions from others. Also, grab some tips for those of you who find yourself in this experience of dating after divorce. The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic experience. The podcast will look at how our perceptions of ourselves and the world around us impact how we relate to one another. With a male and female perspective from guests in different fields and life experiences, we aim to use real-world examples of how the looking glass self-theory has an impact on all relationships. We will address societal, cultural, and mental health concepts in everyday terms as we work towards personal growth that allows us to build authentic relationships and attract connections meant for us. While there may have been mental health concepts discussed, this podcast is not meant to be a substitute for diagnosis or mental health care. If anything in this episode triggered you, please seek the care of a professional mental health provider in your area. Come check us out and learn more about the hosts and our origin story. website: www.thelookingglass.fans - Instagram: @thelookingglasspodcast - FB Group and Page: Relationships Through Looking Glass Podcast - TikTok: MichelleNWonderland --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

We're backkkkkkkkkkk! Season 4 has officially arrived! Come chat it up with the Wonderland Crew as we talk about what being "too" single is. Is that really a thing? Studies suggest that it is. We open the season with a discussion that is full of laughs and revelations that being single too long can actually shorten your lifespan!!! What?! Share your thoughts on the topic? Can being single for too long actually impact your health?? The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic experience. The podcast will look at how our perceptions of ourselves and the world around us impact how we relate to one another. With a male and female perspective from guests in different fields and life experiences, we aim to use real-world examples of how the looking glass self-theory has an impact on all relationships. We will address societal, cultural, and mental health concepts in everyday terms as we work towards personal growth that allows us to build authentic relationships and attract connections meant for us. While there may have been mental health concepts discussed, this podcast is not meant to be a substitute for diagnosis or mental health care. If anything in this episode triggered you, please seek the care of a professional mental health provider in your area. Come check us out and learn more about the hosts and our origin story. website: www.thelookingglass.fans - Instagram: @thelookingglasspodcast - FB Group and Page: Relationships Through Looking Glass Podcast - TikTok: MichelleNWonderland --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

Welcome to the "In-Betweens" a series of episodes between Seasons 3 and 4. Anything goes and the topics will be lighter but just as educational and engaging. This episode welcomes Tim from the "Real Talk with Tim" podcast as we go down the rabbit hole asking the question; is loyalty a learned behavior. We also take a look at the research that suggests cheating could be genetic. Below you will find links to the research references in the episode and Tim's handles to go share some love to his platform. Let's gooooooo.... Don't forget to follow us on our IG, FB, TiksandToks to find out little hints about what is coming up in Season 4! www.thelookingglass.fans References: https://www.labroots.com/trending/genetics-and-genomics/14881/cheating-genetic https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3048999/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

Welcome to the "In-Betweens" a series of episodes between Seasons 3 and 4. Anything goes and the topics will be lighter but just as educational and engaging. This episode is based on a video selection that discussed how "like attracts like". We take you down the rabbit hole in a discussion with Mr. Blackovation about how the main person to blame for our issues with others is....wait for it...OURSELVES! The video we are discussing will be available on our IG and FB. Don't forget to follow us on our IG, FB, TiksandToks to find out little hints about what is coming up in Season 4! www.thelookingglass.fans --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

This is the “official” last episode of our mini-series this season. We had to come back and finish with a merging of two episodes that got you all talking. In this episode we welcome back Davian from Season 1 Episode 6; “Matching Mindsets” and Mr. Blackovation (Darrell Barnes) helps to address the highly debated topic of overly masculine women in the black community and the imbalance that is being caused in relationships. Keisha co-pilots this episode. For me to say I wasn't triggered… would be a lie. Come join the conversation and let's talk about the imbalance, the origins, and the possible results. The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic experience. The podcast will look at how our perceptions of ourselves and the world around us impact how we relate to one another. With a male and female perspective from guests in different fields and life experiences, we aim to use real-world examples of how the looking glass self-theory has an impact on all relationships. We will address societal, cultural, and mental health concepts in everyday terms as we work towards personal growth that allows us to build authentic relationships and attract connections meant for us. While there may have been mental health concepts discussed, this podcast is not meant to be a substitute for diagnosis or mental health care. If anything in this episode triggered you, please seek the care of a professional mental health provider in your area. Come check us out and learn more about the hosts and our origin story. website: www.thelookingglass.fans - Instagram: @thelookingglasspodcast - FB Group and Page: Relationships Through Looking Glass Podcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

Come chat it up with the Wonderland Crew and special guest and longtime friend M.Perry as we look at what vulnerability looks like in the black man. However, somewhere around the 25-minute mark, the train goes off the track. Come listen to an honest conversation between both genders asking and answering some tough questions about relationships. How many "Trigger Moments" can you count? That should have actually been the title! Our final episode for Season 3 is one that will have you engaged and laughing throughout the discussion. Come follow us down the rabbit hole! The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic experience. The podcast will look at how our perceptions of ourselves and the world around us impact how we relate to one another. With a male and female perspective from guests in different fields and life experiences, we aim to use real-world examples of how the looking glass self-theory has an impact on all relationships. We will address societal, cultural, and mental health concepts in everyday terms as we work towards personal growth that allows us to build authentic relationships and attract connections meant for us. While there may have been mental health concepts discussed, this podcast is not meant to be a substitute for diagnosis or mental health care. If anything in this episode triggered you, please seek the care of a professional mental health provider in your area. Come check us out and learn more about the hosts and our origin story. website: www.thelookingglass.fans - Instagram: @thelookingglasspodcast - FB Group and Page: Relationships Through Looking Glass Podcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

The Our House Is On Fire Monthly Series will take a look at various issues impacting the black community. The purpose is to discuss areas that have been overlooked or not given attention to and seek solutions. The goal is healing and moving forward from a place of unity and understanding. This episode is a Podcast Collaboration with Mr. Blackovation, host of the All Things Black Podcast. We will talk about how schemas such as “The Disappearing Black Father” and the “Strong Black Woman” can have lasting negative impacts within our community. We will talk about the origin of the beliefs and mindsets, as well as how awareness of long-term impacts can be the catalyst to change the narrative. Resources referenced in the podcast: Father Statistics Mother Statistics website: www.thelookingglass.fans Instagram: @thelookingglasspodcast FB Group and Page: The Looking Glass Podcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

Live episode April Recap. Topics: S3 E14 - The Aftermath: What Is Your Break-Up Profile? S3 E13 - Recycling Pain in Relationships S3 E12 - Our House Is On Fire - Mental Health and The Community Impact S3 E11 - Creator's Corner Edition - What is Authentic Forgiveness? Guests Host: Marlowe (The Woke Therapist) and she is also the host of the podcast Marlowe and Mimi (guess who Mimi is) :-P The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic experience. The podcast will take a look at how our perceptions of ourselves and the world around us impact how we relate to one another. With a male and female perspective from guests in different fields and life experiences, we aim to use real-world examples of how the looking glass self-theory has an impact on all relationships. We will address societal, cultural, and mental health concepts in everyday terms as we work towards personal growth that allows us to build authentic relationships and attract connections meant for us. While there may have been mental health concepts discussed, this podcast is not meant to be a substitute for diagnosis or mental health care. If anything in this episode triggered you, please seek the care of a professional mental health provider in your area. website: www.thelookingglass.fans Instagram: @thelookingglasspodcast FB Group and Page: Relationships Through Looking Glass Podcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

Come chat it up with the Wonderland Crew as we look at how we handle break-ups. Is the way you handle break-ups healthy? Does it help you move on or does it cause you to linger in a space that is not beneficial for you? Do you know your break-up profile? Let's start a conversation about how the “Aftermath” and spot behaviors in ourselves that may be hindering your growth when relationships end The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic experience. The podcast will look at how our perceptions of ourselves and the world around us impact how we relate to one another. With a male and female perspective from guests in different fields and life experiences, we aim to use real-world examples of how the looking glass self-theory has an impact on all relationships. We will address societal, cultural, and mental health concepts in everyday terms as we work towards personal growth that allows us to build authentic relationships and attract connections meant for us. While there may have been mental health concepts discussed, this podcast is not meant to be a substitute for diagnosis or mental health care. If anything in this episode triggered you, please seek the care of a professional mental health provider in your area. Come check us out and learn more about the hosts and our origin story. website: www.thelookingglass.fans - Instagram: @thelookingglasspodcast - FB Group and Page: Relationships Through Looking Glass Podcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

Come chat it up with the Wonderland Crew as we go down the rabbit hole and seek to learn what it means to "pay pain forward". What are some behaviors that can sabotage new relationships and fresh starts by reliving experiences of the past? Are you making your current partner pay for things your ex did to you? Are you creating a narrative based on transgressions of the past? The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic experience. The podcast will look at how our perceptions of ourselves and the world around us impact how we relate to one another. With a male and female perspective from guests in different fields and life experiences, we aim to use real-world examples of how the looking glass self-theory has an impact on all relationships. We will address societal, cultural, and mental health concepts in everyday terms as we work towards personal growth that allows us to build authentic relationships and attract connections meant for us. While there may have been mental health concepts discussed, this podcast is not meant to be a substitute for diagnosis or mental health care. If anything in this episode triggered you, please seek the care of a professional mental health provider in your area. Come check us out and learn more about the hosts and our origin story. website: www.thelookingglass.fans - Instagram: @thelookingglasspodcast - FB Group and Page: Relationships Through Looking Glass Podcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

The Our House Is On Fire Monthly Series will take a look at various issues impacting the black community. The purpose is to discuss areas that have been overlooked or not given attention to and seek solutions. The goal is healing and moving forward from a place of unity and understanding. This episode is a Podcast Collaboration with Mr. Blackovation, host of the All Things Black Podcast. We will talk about the stigma of mental health and how they impact the black community. We will unpackage the possible reasons and ways to address them while moving forward together.  Resources discussed in the episode: The report referenced in the podcast. The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic experience. The podcast will take a look at how our perceptions of ourselves and the world around us impact how we relate to one another. With a male and female perspective from guests in different fields and life experiences, we aim to use real-world examples of how the looking glass self-theory has an impact on all relationships. We will address societal, cultural, and mental health concepts in everyday terms as we work towards personal growth that allows us to build authentic relationships and attract connections meant for us. While there may have been mental health concepts discussed, this podcast is not meant to be a substitute for diagnosis or mental health care. If anything in this episode triggered you, please seek the care of a professional mental health provider in your area. website: www.thelookingglass.fans Instagram: @thelookingglasspodcast FB Group and Page: The Looking Glass Podcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message

Come chat it up with the creators of the "Relationships Through the Looking Glass" podcast as we welcome Marlowe Valcourt, The Woke Therapist, and Mr. Blackovation (Darrell) back to Wonderland. In this episode, we go down the rabbit hole as we seek to find out what authentic forgiveness is. Michelle and Markis take the episode back to its foundation of freestyle conversations on topics highlighting the importance of honest representation in seeking growth through connection. This season we have focused on healing and healing together. This episode will dig deep into the importance of release and forgiveness for your growth and healing. As always, feedback is always welcomed. Don't be like Pierre!  The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can feel like the most authentic experience. The podcast will look at how our perceptions of ourselves and the world around us impact how we relate to one another. With a male and female perspective from guests in different fields and life experiences, we aim to use real-world examples of how the looking glass self-theory has an impact on all relationships. We will address societal, cultural, and mental health concepts in everyday terms as we work towards personal growth that allows us to build authentic relationships and attract connections meant for us. While there may have been mental health concepts discussed, this podcast is not meant to be a substitute for diagnosis or mental health care. If anything in this episode triggered you, please seek the care of a professional mental health provider in your area. Come check us out and learn more about the hosts and our origin story. website: www.thelookingglass.fans - Instagram: @thelookingglasspodcast - FB Group and Page: Relationships Through Looking Glass Podcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/throughthelookingglass/message