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Parenting - it's both wonderful and nerve-wracking. But you can break that cycle!If you are a parent who wants to find balance and get to the end of the day with a smile on your face, if you want to understand your children and yourself better, and if you

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    Ep. 69 - Working From Home and Parenting, with Shari Medini

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2021 35:17


    2020 was, perhaps, a pivotal year for work-life balance. So many people had to work from home while taking care of their children 24/7, and even now, as things are re-opening, many businesses are still letting their employees work from home.In this episode of The Apparently Parent Podcast, I'm talking to Shari Medini, who co-authored the book Parenting While Working From Home, a beautiful, simple guide that will help you find the balance between work, parenting, and yourself (never forget yourself).Support the show

    Ep. 68 - Embracing Conflicts

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2021 27:10 Transcription Available


    If you're a parent, you probably experience conflicts between you and your children throughout your day. When to get up, how to dress for school, what to eat, when to do homework, and don't get me started on screen time!Many parents ask me to help them get rid of all the fights and conflicts they have with their children. But I want to offer a different perspective: conflicts are not the bad guy.In this episode you're gonna learn why conflicts can help you raise a more confident child who is more caring and ready for the world, and how you can approach those moments from a better place.Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 67 (Part 2): 9 Ways for Raising Confident Children

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2021 21:36 Transcription Available


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    EP. 67 - 9 Ways to Raising Confident Children (Part 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2021 29:01 Transcription Available


    When asked, many parents say they want their children to be confident. But what does confidence even mean? And how can you nurture this trait in them?This is part 1 of this special episode where I share 9 principles for raising confident children. Don't forget to subscribe and get the next part as soon as it comes out.Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 66 - Help Your Teenager Succeed in Life with Cody Butler

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2021 43:33 Transcription Available


    Ep. 65 - Bringing More Mindfulness to your Parenting

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2021 35:54 Transcription Available


    Again with the mindfulness?? Well, yes. But hear me out. This is not another podcast that will tell you to sit down on the cushion and watch your breath for 30 minutes. Why? Because you don't have time for that, am I right? You're a busy mom, or hustling dad, or whatever you wanna call it. You have kids tugging at your pants, knocking on your bathroom door, and waking you up at hours you never wanted to meet up close.But all of that doesn't mean you can't enjoy the beautiful gifts that mindfulness practice can bring you. In this episode, I'm sharing with you some ways in which you can practice being more mindful and aware while still doing your daily routine with and without your children. As simple as that.Would you become an enlightened Buddha out of those practices? Probably not. But that's not the point anyway. But you very well might become a more attuned parent, more sensitive and open with yourself and your children. And doesn't that mean the world?**Don't forget to download my free mindfulness guide - just click hereSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 64 (Encore): Back to School When COVID is Still Here

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 2, 2021 48:03


    Apparently, we have to start another school year with COVID still present in our lives. When this episode was first published, things looked different. Today we have vaccinations for 12 years old and above, but many children still have to go to school in the shadow of a global pandemic.If you're still worried about sending your children to school (and who can blame you), or you're looking for ways to help your children cope with the anxiety of being back to school these days, this episode is for you.I have gathered the voices of my fellow parenting experts, and each shared a wonderful tip to think about when it comes to this situation. So grab a cup of coffee, kick back, and help yourself help your child.___All The Experts Mentioned in The EpisodeTina Payne BrysonTina Payne Bryson's WebsiteTina's new book: Bottom Line BabyKatherine EndyThe Family Life CoachChristopher HanlonA Dad's PresenceLynn JimenezConnect. Grow. Flow.Lisa HonoldCenter For Online SafetyMary WildeDr. Mary Wilde's WebsiteSarah RosensweetPeaceful ParentingAmy WebbThe Thoughtful ParentSandi SchwartzHappy Science MomBree LeePositive Parenting GroupRachel DuffySagacity LabSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 63 - Communicate to Motivate with Jim Van Allan

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2021 45:39 Transcription Available


    How do you motivate your children? What are the ways by which you can communicate your message to your children, no matter their age, and make them interested in what you have to say?This is not about getting them to listen in a disciplinary kind of way. This is about making a true connection with them, sharing your world with them, and finding ways to convey your message in a motivating way, helping them become who they wish to be.These are the topics I discuss in today's episode with my guest, Dr. Jim Van Allan. Jim is a speaker, trainer, and podcaster with clients across the nation. He runs the successful podcast 'Communicate to Motivate' which discusses developing strong communication skills in all areas of life. Jim is the Vice President of Schools for the Jon Gordon Companies and runs the Positive Schools program. He and his team provide training for all K-12 schools on leadership, communication, and culture. Jim is also a professor of communication studies with Keiser University teaching public speaking, interpersonal communication, and business and professional communication in a fully online setting.Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 62 - Is Parenting without Yelling Possible?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2021 21:30 Transcription Available


    Be honest: how many times during the day do you find yourself yelling, shouting, or just raising your voice at your kids? And when it happens, what do you feel like during, or afterward?In this episode, I'm tackling an aspect of parenting that everybody knows, but most rarely talks about - should we never raise our voices at our kids?Support the show

    Ep. 61 - What's Wrong with Attachment Parenting (part 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2021 32:48 Transcription Available


    This is part 2 of my deep-dive into attachment parenting, a popular parenting method developed by William and Marth Sears. Last week we learned what attachment parenting is and discovered the Seven Baby Bs.In this week I'll show you why I think attachment parenting is not really related to what psychologist say when they talk about attachment. You'll learn what creating a secure attachment relationship with your children really means, how you can foster attachment security without succumbing to the rigidity of the Seven Baby Bs. If you want to create a positive, strong bond with your child, this is an episode you don't want to miss!Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 60 - What's Wrong with Attachment Parenting (part 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2021 34:06 Transcription Available


    It's time to talk about attachment parenting. And more specifically, is it any good? Attachment parenting is a method developed by William and Marth Sears, and is a very popular parenting method these days. Attachment parenting followers focus on a close relationship with the baby and developing sensitive communication with it.Sounds good, no? But the problem is that attachment parenting has its flaws, and it's time to talk about them. This is why I created this podcast episode, which turned out so long I had to split it in two. So this is part 1, where you'll learn what attachment parenting is, what are the Seven Baby Bs (fundamental principles) of the method, and how it came to be. In the next episode, I'll talk about why I think attachment parenting is not really what you need if you want to create a secure attachment with your children.Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 59 - Raising Humans with Heart with Sarah MacLaughlin

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2021 38:45


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    Ep. 58 - How to Ask Your Child to do Something so That They'll Actually Listen

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2021 39:14


    "Please put your shoes on already!" - is that situation familiar? Do you find yourself asking your children to do things over and over again? Do you resort to threats or bribes? Are you already exhausted from the ongoing struggle?Yes, the struggle is real. But in fact, it shouldn't be THAT hard. If only you would know some basic ways to ask your children to do something and actually want to cooperate... Well, this is what I teach you in this episode of The Apparently Parent Podcast.No, this is no magic formula! And you can't make your children 100% compliant (and who would want that anyway?). What you will learn is to differentiate between an instruction and a request, when to use each type and how.Using what you learn in this episode will help you get the cooperation of your children in a much calmer way, and even empower them every now and then.Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 57 - Context is King

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2021 36:46


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    Ep. 56 - The Love Story of a Lifetime with Bethany Saltman

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2021 42:15 Transcription Available


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    Ep. 55 - What Parenting Under Fire Taught Me

    Play Episode Play 18 sec Highlight Listen Later Jul 1, 2021 48:08


    Do you know how they say "when life gives you lemons, make a lemonade?"

    Ep. 54 - 40 Years Old

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 25, 2021 30:02


    In this special episode of The Apparently Parent Podcast, I'm sharing with you some of my thoughts as I arrive at the 40th year of my life. And, not by coincidence, it's also the 1st year anniversary of the podcast.Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 53 - Homeschooling and Music with Gabi Haberer

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2021 45:58


    2020 is a year that will be talked about and remembered for a long time. And I think that one of the main things that we are going to see in the coming years are changes to educational systems and long-held beliefs.When covid hit and lockdowns started to be part of our lives, every parent had to become a kind of a homeschooler. While some of us are happy to bring the kids back to school, some are willing to continue in the homeschooling adventure to some capacity.But doing homeschooling right requires knowledge, support, and understanding. This is why in today's episode I'm talking with Gabi Haberer. Once a school principal and now a homeschooling mom and a proponent of homeschooling, Gabi devotes her career to help parents transition to homeschool via her online community.Join me in this discussion with Gabi about homeschooling, music education, and more.Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 52 - Learning Difficulties with Nicole Santamaria

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2021 42:35


    What do you do if your child is having trouble learning? What do you do if they have all the good intentions but something is stuck or holding them back? In this episode, I'm talking with Nicole Santamaria, OTR/L, about helping children cope with learning difficulties. We're talking about what keeps children from learning, and what can you, as a parent, can do to help. This is especially important as schools are literally changing around us as we are coming to a year after covid-19 started, so there's a lot for you to learn.Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 51 - Parenting the Gifted Child with Dr. Jodi Svendsen

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2021 47:02


    Learning that your child is gifted may seem like good news for many parents. However, giftedness has its problems and struggles as well, and if you don't really understand what are the inner workings of the gifted brain, you're in trouble.Luckily, in today's episode, I'm talking with Dr. Jodi Svendsen, who is an expert on the topic of gifted children. You'll learn what makes the brains of gifted children unique (hint: it's not their super-intelligence), and what parents can do to help their children balance the needs and wants of family, schools, and friends.Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 50 - Time to Time Travel

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2021 33:29


    Welcome to the 50th episode of The Apparently Parent Podcast! Yay! I'm so happy you're here, celebrating this with me. When I started working on this podcast, I didn't think we're going to go through a global pandemic, lockdowns, and all that stuff, but we did, and I think that working on this podcast, putting out a weekly episode even with all that was happening, was one of the things that really helped me manage those tougher times.To celebrate this achievement, I put up a special episode, in which I invite you to travel back in time.You see, in the podcast, I sometimes talk with interesting guests who have something to say about children, parenting, and the in-between. And I have started to ask each guest one specific question at the end of the conversation. And this question goes a little bit like this:If you could go back in time, and meet your younger self, right before you became a parent, what would you like to tell that younger self?I really like this question, because as a therapist, I think this mental time travel can be really powerful. Whether we are moving backward or forward in time, as long as we keep the perspective, we can actually learn a lot and help ourselves in the process.By going back in time and "talking" with your younger self, you can find a new place of compassion, understanding, and wisdom within yourself. You might also see how much you have progressed and grown through the years.In this episode, I invite you to listen to the answers that my wonderful guests have provided to this question. I hope you'd take the time and listen because I'm sure you might find yourself in one or more of the answers.And after you listen, I invite you to think about this question yourself and answer it on your own. Maybe take a piece of paper, or open a fresh page in your journal and write it down. There are no wrong answers here. And, if you want, share it on your social media, who knows, you might inspire someone else (if you do share it, please tag me on Instagram @apparentlyparent or the Apparently Parent Facebook page).Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 49 - ENCORE: Talk About Political Stress with Children

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2021 35:14


    As America is stepping into a new presidency, at the end of a tumultuous couple of weeks, I wanted to re-publish an older episode. This was originally published in the wake of the Black Lives Matter movement after the murder of George Floyd. Back then I wanted to talk about how we, as parents, have a responsibility to address those issues with our children, and proposed some ways to do so.I think it's a good moment in history to address these issues again. Whether you live in the US or not, it's good to be able to talk with your children about what is going on in the political and social spheres of our lives. By creating an open dialogue, you can help your children become more aware and conscious. And I am one who believes that this is important if we want to create a better world.Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 48 - Finding Your Parenting Values

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2021 26:02


    How do you know if you parent the "right" way?Is there a right way? What do you do in order to keep up with what is important to you?It all depends on your ability to identify your parenting values and pursue them. In this episode, I'll show you what parenting values are, and how you can start to identify what they are.Check out my free training on finding your values using the Bull's Eye exercise - https://www.apparentlyparent.com/valuesSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep 47 - You're Setting Your Goals Wrong

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2021 22:50


    Have you ever set a new year's resolution and failed to achieve it? Well, there's a reason for that, and it has to do with how connected you are to your values.In this episode, I will show you what values really mean, and why it is so important to be connected to your real values.  You'll see how it will help you be a better parent and weather emotional storms, and basically build a richer and more meaningful life.If you want my free training on finding your values and building an action plan to achieve them, click here.Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 46 - What 2020 Gave Me

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2020 28:14


    Congratulations! We have officially got to the end of 2020. Who would have thought that this year would turn this way, huh?But it had, and now it's over, and we can start a fresh new year, full of hopes and dreams!But before we make a run into 2021, I believe we should stop for a couple of moments and say goodbye to 2020 by actually looking at the things that it brought us. No, not necessarily the lockdowns, anxiety, and uncertainty. I'm talking about the good stuff.What good stuff? In this episode, I share my own. The things I have learned about myself and my family, and what I want to take with me to the next year.And I want to hear from you as well. What have you learned from 2020? Let me know after you listen to this episode by going to my Instagram account and sharing with me.Have a wonderful 2021!Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 45 - Dadventures with Steve Dypianco

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2020 47:54


    What does it mean to be a dad in the 21 century? What are the differences between being a dad or a mom, if there are any differences at all?These are just some of the questions that I discuss in today's episode with my guest Stephen Dypiangco. Steve is the co-founder of Dadventures (hellodadventures.com), an early stage startup helping parents find fun things to do with their kids, and he shares his story and the story of how his company is helping parents and children create wonderful experiences, covid or not.Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 44 - Psychological Immunity

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2020 26:21


    While the world holds its breath, waiting for the covid-19 vaccinations, it's time to talk about a different kind of immunity - psychological immunity. In this episode, I share with you what does psychological immunity is and why it's so important for your children's lives. You will also learn how to help your children develop psychological immunity.***Want to learn more about helping your children develop psychological immunity? Join my new workshop: 3 Secrets of Confident ParentingSupport the show

    Ep 43. - All You Wanted to Know about Montessori with Charlotte Peck

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2020 51:28


    Montessori. Until a couple of years ago, whenever I heard that word I thought it was some Italian dish that I HAD to try.But then I had children and started to learn about different educational methods and systems, but I never really learned what Montessori really is.But today, my friends, you and I are going deep into the Montessori world, with the help of Charlotte Peck, my guest in this episode. Charlotte is a Montessori educator and consultant helping parents navigate Montessori learning at home, and she's helping us understand what Montessori is (and isn't), what does it look like, and how you can implement some of its child-focused principles in your daily lives.***Join my Facebook group - Navigating Parenting - Raising Secure and Confident ChildrenSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 42 - Ending 2020 with Gratitude (Encore episode)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2020 14:21 Transcription Available


    This episode was originally aired in March 2020, when the covid just started to show its face around the world. Now, as it is Thanksgiving of 2020, which means we are about to close off this year, I thought it's a good time to go back to this talk. Why? Because as crazy, unprecedented, and unpredictable this year had been, we would be wise to see the good alongside the bad.In the episode, I explain why gratitude is such an important trait to cultivate for both our mental and physical well-being and how you can start bringing more gratitude into your lives starting today.Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 41 - Anger Management 101

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2020 47:54


    ANGER. It's time we talk about anger, which is one of the universal, fundamental emotions we have. Anger is perhaps the most scrutinized emotions we have, and parents all over the world teach their children to avoid anger. But, is that wise? Should you teach your children to avoid anger? And what do you do with your own anger?In this episode we'll talk about why anger is such an important emotion, but more importantly, I'll teach you a couple of ways to have more control over your anger. Because while we may not want to disavow and delete the anger from our system (and we really can't do that), we do want to use anger in a positive way (it's possible!) and avoid hurting our loved ones.You'll LearnThe importance of angerHow to use your body to control your angerWhat laughter has to do with itSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 40 - The Change Triangle with Hilary Jacobs Hendel

    Play Episode Play 28 sec Highlight Listen Later Nov 12, 2020 49:17


    Emotions! You can't live with'em, but ya can't get rid of'em. Am I right?!Nah, I'm just kidding, of course. Emotions are one of the most important things in our lives. Emotions make us who we are. And they have a big role in our development and everyday lives.But emotions can also be hard on us. The so-called "negative" emotions such as sadness, anger, or fear can wreak havoc in our days and nights, making our lives miserable. And if you're parents, who have to take care not only of your emotions but those of your kids as well.Well, what if there was a tool that could really help you make sense of your emotions and cope with them when they get a little bit too much?In this episode of The Apparently Parent Podcast, I want to tell you about such a tool. It's called The Change Triangle and it was developed by Hilary Jacobs Hendel, LCSW, who is a guest in this episode. In the episode, Hilary and I talk about the change triangle and how it can play a role in your lives as parents (and also as just human beings with emotions, kids or no kids).Support the show

    Ep. 39 - How Bullying Affect Your Child

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2020 43:13


    It's an important topic that most people don't want to think about. Bullying.Most parents don't want to think of their children as potential bullying victims. But it can happen to everyone. And bullying can take many different forms: physical abuse, verbal abuse, or shunning which is isolating a child from everybody else.Being bullied or shunned like that can take a huge toll on the mental and physical well being of a child. It usually makes a child feel lonely and children may develop what is known as learned helplessness. Children may manifest their stress through physical symptoms such as headaches or tummy aches, and more.In this episode, you will learn what does it feel like to be bullied and shunned, so that you can connect better to the experience of your child, should they ever be in that place.You will also learn the three red flags that could help you realize that something may be wrong, and if that is the case, how to start helping your child.Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 38 – US Elections Special

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 29, 2020 22:48


    Welcome to this special US Elections Episode. At the time this post is published, we are a couple of days before the 2020 elections, and I thought this is a wonderful time to talk about the connection between family and government.When we think about the way parents lead their families, we can see some equivalences with several types of government. So what kind of family do you have? Is it a democracy? Or maybe it's a dictatorship?You'll LearnHow parenting styles shape the relationship with your children?What does it mean to have a democracy vs. a dictatorship in your family?Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 37 - The Happy Child with Matt Larson

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2020 48:03


    Can you learn better parenting skills from an app?Matt Larson thinks so, and he created such an app.Matt is one of the founders of The Human Improvement Project, a non-profit organization that created two apps that help learn the foundations of the child-parent relationship.In this episode, I'm talking to Matt about his mission to help parents improve their skills and how a tech-wiz turned out to be the founder of a parenting knowledge app.***Continue the conversation in my free community: Navigating Parenting - Raising Secure and Confident ChildrenSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 36 - Let Your Children Fail

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2020 22:38


    You are not mistaken. I called this episode "Let Your Children Fail", because that's actually one of the best gifts you can give your children. How so? Well, I don't mean that you should let your children really "fail" all the time, and don't help them. I do mean that you can teach them to appreciate their mistakes and learn from them.Because if you teach your children that they can either succeed or learn something new (as opposed to failing), you will give them a gift for life.***Continue the conversation in my free community - join the Facebook group today by clicking here.Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 35 - Cut Yourself Some Slack

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2020 36:55


    There's a question that I see coming up a lot in parenting groups and forums, which I wanted to address in this episode. It's all about feeling like a bad parent because you get mad and yell. The question can look like this:I want to know the best way to parent. I want to be the best that I can be. But right now I'm feeling like I'm failing. That's because I shout too much. I have a short fuse and is always leads to feeling huge waves of guilt.Sounds familiar?In this episode, we're talking about what can you do with those feelings of mom-guilt or dad-guilt. And especially, we will explore the power of compassion and self-compassion. You will learn how a couple of simple exercises can enhance your self-worth, reduce negative thinking, and eventually make you feel better about your parenting and be able to better show up with your child.***Never parent alone, and continue the conversation. Join my Facebook group Navigating Parenting - Raising Secure and Confident ChildrenSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 34 - Strange Situation with Bethany Saltman

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2020 50:26


    Bethany Saltman is an author, zen-practitioner, writing coach, and a mother. In this episode, I had the pleasure of talking to her about her new book: Strange Situation - A Mother's Journey into the Science of Attachment. In this wonderful tale of becoming a parent, Bethany tells her own story, as well as that of Mary Ainsworth, who is responsible for the vast research of the Attachment Theory as we know it. Together, we discuss her own story of becoming a mom and moving from feeling ashamed and guilty into a more present and accepting place, the difference between "attachment parenting" and the real attachment theory, and more.*** WIN A FREE COPY OF THE BOOK ***Join my free Facebook group today to be eligible to win a free copy of "Strange Situation". The winner will be chosen on October 10th, 2020, so be sure to be a member before that time. Invite your friends for an even better chance of winning the book. All the details are in the group.Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 33 - One Story to Help Your Child

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2020 25:15


    When your children have to face changes, there's one simple thing you can do to help them. And that is to prepare them for that change using the power of stories.In this episode, I will walk you through a simple process that will help you write - yes yes, write - a simple story that will help your child prepare for that change. And believe me, you don't need to be Shakespear.After you listen to the episode, go to the show notes on www.apparentlyparent.com/33 to download a free guide and template for creating such stories.***You don't have to parent alone! Join my free community for positive-minded parents. Just click here and join the vibe.Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 32 - Don't Be Your Child's Best Friend

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2020 26:26


    As many countries are still in lockdown or entering a second lockdown, many parents find that staying home with their kids is not an easy job, to say the least. And that's especially true if you're trying to set boundaries all they long. So, naturally, some parents tend to get more and more chill with those boundaries, sometimes to the point of giving them up.But, is that even a problem? Maybe fewer boundaries are the sane way to go? What's so wrong about being your child's best friend and eliminating the hierarchy?That's the topic of this episode, as we explore the negative effects of what is known as permissive parenting.**Feeling alone? In need of support? Please join my Facebook community today and be a part of a growing group of like-minded parents who believe in the power of positive, connected parenting - click here to joinSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 31 - All You Need to Know About Screen Use with Lisa Honold

    Play Episode Play 23 sec Highlight Listen Later Sep 10, 2020 44:44


    Are you struggling with how your kids use screens? Do you find yourself fighting with them over how many hours of screen they are allowed to use each day? Or what they do online? Well, tune in to today's episode where I'm having a conversation with Lisa Honold.Lisa is a certified Positive Discipline parent educator and an expert on cyber safety. Her work has been featured in The Wall Street Journal and the “Empowered Parenting Summit 2020”. As the Director for the Center for Online Safety, she helps families stop fighting over screen time so they can get back to having fun together.***Continue the conversation in my Facebook group Navigating Parenting - click here to join the groupSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 30 - Do's and Don'ts of Helping an Anxious Child

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2020 36:23


    What are the most important Do's and Don'ts that you HAVE to remember when you want to help your anxious child? I'm glad that you asked - because I have a special episode for you today.This is a recording of a LIVE session that I did in my free Facebook group, in which I talked about The Parenting MAP and how to use it to help your anxious children. We go into the most important do's and don'ts of handling anxiety, so don't miss it!---To join my Facebook group "Navigating Parenting - Raising Secure and Confident Children" click here.Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 29 - Back to School During a Global Pandemic

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2020 47:12


    Worried about how the next school year is going to look like? Afraid to send your kids back to school? Or feeling stressed about another year of remote learning?Worry not, my friends. I've reached out to a dozen parenting experts and asked them to share their advice with you - and I'm sharing all of that wonderful advice in this episode.To download this guide as a PDF file, click hereSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 28 - Do You Know Better Than Your Kids?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2020 23:51


    Do you think that you know better than your kids? Think again.Sometimes, you do know better, but in so many things in life, you are influenced by some inner streams of consciousness that may confuse you or just make you stuck. In this episode, we'll discuss the concept of Pandora's Punching Bag, and how you can release yourself from your inner demons and move towards being the parent you want to be.**Continue the discussion in my free community: Navigating Parenting - Raising Secure and Confident ChildrenSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 27 - Why Does My Child Behave Like That???

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2020 21:52


    Did you ever feel that your child can be such a brat at home and a goody-too-shoes at school, or with grandparents or other children?Isn't it annoying?But other than annoying, it also means something good! It means the connection your child has with you is solid. In this episode, I'll explain exactly how that works.***Join my free Facebook group: Navigating Parenting - Raising Secure and Confident ChildrenSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 26 - How to Behave Appropriately (Dear Apparently Parent)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2020 25:03


    How to resolve the tension between controlling our children and helping them grow freely?In this episode of the podcast, I'm answering a question submitted by a mother of a 2 years old girl, saying "I like the idea of being a 'gardener' in the sense of providing a healthy environment for her to grow and develop. However, there is also the instinct to try to get her to act appropriately" You'll learn how to find what is the right balance FOR YOU, by connecting to your parenting values.**Join my free Facebook group: Navigating Parenting - Raising Secure and Confident Children**Get my free course for finding your parenting valuesSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 25 - The Power of Sportscasting

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2020 30:22


    What simple parenting technique can help you resolve sibling fights; teach your children to solve problems; nurture their empathy muscles; and build their confidence?It's called Sportscasting and it involves a simple trick: narrate what your children are doing, with no judgement. It's a bit more complex than that, though, so tune in to this episode to learn exactly what to do and why it helps.You'll LearnWhat does sportscasting your children's behavior meanHow to use sportscasting in the best of waysWhy sportscasting worksSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 24 - Help Your Child "Get" Money, with Chris Farrell

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2020 54:15


    How comfortable are you with the concept of money and finances? How comfortable do you want your kids to be? If you're anything like me, you'd like your kids to understand money better, and be more comfortable around it than you. And this EXACTLY what my guest today will do for you.Chris Farrell is one of the founders of FUNancial Freedom, a program aimed at 7-17 years old with the goal of helping them be more financially smart. In our conversation, Chris talks about what's wrong with the financial education our children receive, and how this program could help you and them make money a positive part of their lives.** Let's continue the conversion! Join my free Facebook Group today **Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 23 - 5 Things You Shouldn't Tell Your Anxious Child

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2020 33:10


    Dealing with anxiety isn't a walk in the park. Helping your child deal with his or her anxiety can be even harder. But it's one of your jobs as a parent. In this episode, I'll walk you through 5 things that parents tend to tell their anxious children that should really, really refrain from using.Join my free Facebook group - Navigating Parenting - Raising Secure and Confident ChildrenSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 22 - Helping a Child Socialize (Dear Apparently Parent #3)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2020 21:43


    In this episode of The Apparently Parent Podcast, I'm sharing with you my answer to a question of one mom on my free Facebook Group. She asks about her daughter who finds it hard to join social games with her friends unless she was invited by the group. By listening to this episode you'll learn how you can help your own children cope with similar situations using a simple, fun game called "And Then What?"Join the "Navigating Parenting" group and be part of the conversation!Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 21 - When Your Mind is Hijacked

    Play Episode Play 50 sec Highlight Listen Later Jul 2, 2020 22:55


    How many times have you caught yourself in the middle of yelling at your kid, suddenly thinking "who am I?? why am I acting like that?"Be honest: I'm sure it happened more than once. It happens to everybody. But why? Why does it happen? You have all the right intentions, you want to be a positive parent. But every now and then something pushes a button inside of you and you become something else.It's like your mind was hijacked.In this episode I share with you why it happens and how can you use the knowledge of The Parenting MAP in order to get your mind back.Let's Continue The Conversation on The Navigating Parenting Facebook Group Support the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)

    Ep. 20 - When Your Child Doesn't Listen, with Dr. Larry Waldman

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2020 55:08


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