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Transform your parenting experience in 3 months or less - guaranteed! Start here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop Wondering if your parenting approach is setting your child up for success? This video breaks down the 4 main parenting styles backed by decades of psychology research and reveals their long-term impacts on children's development. As a mother of 4, I've navigated the same uncertainties you face daily. Discover which parenting style leads to the healthiest adult outcomes and learn simple adjustments you can make today that will significantly benefit your child's future. Understanding these research-backed styles has given me confidence in my parenting decisions—and it can do the same for you. New to my podcast? If you want to take the stress, frustration, and overwhelm out of parenting by learning how to promote better behavior in your child, you're in the right place. I'm a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I share the psychology-based strategies that I use to parent with intention and confidence. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention. Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel. If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional.
Become an amazing parent today! Start here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop What if speaking sweetly to your child could build—or break—their trust in you? Research shows children without secure attachments often develop adult relationship issues. But parents worry: can I speak warmly AND maintain boundaries? In this video, I'll share exactly how to communicate with kindness while still raising respectful, well-behaved children. You'll get practical examples for speaking sweetly without being a pushover, plus understand the concerning impacts of harsh communication on your child's development. Learn the balance that creates both connection AND respect! New to my podcast? If you want to take the stress, frustration, and overwhelm out of parenting by learning how to promote better behavior in your child, you're in the right place. I'm a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I share the psychology-based strategies that I use to parent with intention and confidence. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention. Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel. If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional.
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Is gentle parenting just permissive parenting in disguise? This episode reveals a powerful framework for meeting both your needs and your child's, creating cooperation without sacrificing connection. Is gentle parenting the same as permissive parenting? No, gentle parenting is not the same as permissive parenting. Gentle parenting focuses on meeting both the child's and the parent's needs with respect and empathy. Permissive parenting prioritizes the child's desires without setting appropriate boundaries or considering the parent's needs. Parents can be gentle without being permissive by understanding and meeting their own needs, as well as their child's needs. Why don't logical consequences and offering limited choices always work? Logical consequences and offering limited choices don't always work because they are often strategies to control a child's behavior rather than addressing the underlying needs driving that behavior. When a child is acting out, they may be seeking connection, autonomy, or have other unmet needs. Logical consequences and choices don't meet these needs, so the behavior continues. How can I set effective limits without sliding into permissiveness? To set effective limits without becoming permissive, understand that your needs matter just as much as your child's. Identify the underlying need you're currently trying to meet with a limit, and identify strategies that honor both your needs and your child's. This prevents you from prioritizing the child's desires while neglecting your own needs, which is characteristic of permissive parenting. What's the difference between a natural consequence and a logical consequence? A natural consequence is what naturally occurs as a result of an action such as touching a hot stove and getting burned. A logical consequence is an action that a parent takes as a result of an action, such as taking away screen time because a child didn't do what they were told. How can I meet both my needs and my child's needs in challenging situations? Meeting both your needs and your child's needs starts with identifying the underlying needs driving the behavior in challenging situations. If a child is stalling at bedtime, they may need connection. A parent can meet this need by spending time with the child before bed, reading an extra book, or engaging in a quiet activity together. This could the child's need for connection, while also meeting the parent's need for the child to go to bed at a reasonable time. What's the underlying cause of my child's resistance to everyday routines? The underlying cause of a child's resistance to everyday routines is often an unmet need. For example, resistance to putting on shoes may stem from a need for autonomy (if the child wants to do it themselves), or connection (if they want you to do it for them). By recognizing the need, you can find ways to involve the child in the process, such as letting them choose which shoes to wear, giving them a sense of control and making the routine more cooperative. Is there an alternative to the four traditional parenting styles? Yes, there are alternatives to the four traditional parenting styles (neglectful, authoritarian, permissive, and authoritative). Dr. Diana Baumrind, who created the styles, also found a 'harmonious' method where parents consider the child's ideas as just as important as their own, which sounds a lot like Gentle Parenting - but she decided not to research it further! What you'll learn in this episode In this episode, we challenge the common misconception that gentle, respectful parenting is the same as permissive parenting.
The 60s produced a Baby Boom generation that catalyzed the dawn of a new era—the space age, the age of television, the global age, and the beginnings of civil rights. At the same time, a new paradigm for parenting was unfolding that put emphasis on permissiveness, defined by what it permitted – the free and unfettered impulses of children. Others worried that the wildness of children, personified by the characters in Maurice Sendak's 1963 classic children's book, Where the Wild Things Are, was destructive, disruptive and disrespectful. Where the Wild Things Were: Boyhood and Permissive Parenting in Postwar America (NYU Press, 2025) centers on the exploding, contentious national conversation about the nature of childhood and parenting in the postwar US emblematized by Dr. Spock's Baby and Child Care. Renowned scholar Henry Jenkins demonstrates that the language that shaped a growing field of advice literature for parents also informed the period's fictions—in film, television, comics, children's books, and elsewhere—produced for and consumed by children. In particular, Jenkins demonstrates, the era's emblematic child was the boy in the striped shirt: white, male, suburban, middle class, Christian, and above all, American. Weaving together intellectual histories and popular texts, Jenkins shows how boy protagonists became embodiments of permissive child rearing, as well as the social ideals and contradictions that permissiveness entailed. From Peanuts comic strips and TV specials to The Cat in the Hat, Dennis the Menace, and Jonny Quest, the book reveals how childhood and the stories about it became central to Cold War concerns with democracy, citizenship, globalization, the space race, science, race relations, gender, and sexuality. Written by a former boy in a striped shirt, Where the Wild Things Were explores iconic works, from Mary Poppins to Lost in Space, contextualizing them through a critical but respectful engagement with the core animating ideas of the permissive imagination. Peter C. Kunze is an assistant professor of communication at Tulane University. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/american-studies
The 60s produced a Baby Boom generation that catalyzed the dawn of a new era—the space age, the age of television, the global age, and the beginnings of civil rights. At the same time, a new paradigm for parenting was unfolding that put emphasis on permissiveness, defined by what it permitted – the free and unfettered impulses of children. Others worried that the wildness of children, personified by the characters in Maurice Sendak's 1963 classic children's book, Where the Wild Things Are, was destructive, disruptive and disrespectful. Where the Wild Things Were: Boyhood and Permissive Parenting in Postwar America (NYU Press, 2025) centers on the exploding, contentious national conversation about the nature of childhood and parenting in the postwar US emblematized by Dr. Spock's Baby and Child Care. Renowned scholar Henry Jenkins demonstrates that the language that shaped a growing field of advice literature for parents also informed the period's fictions—in film, television, comics, children's books, and elsewhere—produced for and consumed by children. In particular, Jenkins demonstrates, the era's emblematic child was the boy in the striped shirt: white, male, suburban, middle class, Christian, and above all, American. Weaving together intellectual histories and popular texts, Jenkins shows how boy protagonists became embodiments of permissive child rearing, as well as the social ideals and contradictions that permissiveness entailed. From Peanuts comic strips and TV specials to The Cat in the Hat, Dennis the Menace, and Jonny Quest, the book reveals how childhood and the stories about it became central to Cold War concerns with democracy, citizenship, globalization, the space race, science, race relations, gender, and sexuality. Written by a former boy in a striped shirt, Where the Wild Things Were explores iconic works, from Mary Poppins to Lost in Space, contextualizing them through a critical but respectful engagement with the core animating ideas of the permissive imagination. Peter C. Kunze is an assistant professor of communication at Tulane University. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/history
The 60s produced a Baby Boom generation that catalyzed the dawn of a new era—the space age, the age of television, the global age, and the beginnings of civil rights. At the same time, a new paradigm for parenting was unfolding that put emphasis on permissiveness, defined by what it permitted – the free and unfettered impulses of children. Others worried that the wildness of children, personified by the characters in Maurice Sendak's 1963 classic children's book, Where the Wild Things Are, was destructive, disruptive and disrespectful. Where the Wild Things Were: Boyhood and Permissive Parenting in Postwar America (NYU Press, 2025) centers on the exploding, contentious national conversation about the nature of childhood and parenting in the postwar US emblematized by Dr. Spock's Baby and Child Care. Renowned scholar Henry Jenkins demonstrates that the language that shaped a growing field of advice literature for parents also informed the period's fictions—in film, television, comics, children's books, and elsewhere—produced for and consumed by children. In particular, Jenkins demonstrates, the era's emblematic child was the boy in the striped shirt: white, male, suburban, middle class, Christian, and above all, American. Weaving together intellectual histories and popular texts, Jenkins shows how boy protagonists became embodiments of permissive child rearing, as well as the social ideals and contradictions that permissiveness entailed. From Peanuts comic strips and TV specials to The Cat in the Hat, Dennis the Menace, and Jonny Quest, the book reveals how childhood and the stories about it became central to Cold War concerns with democracy, citizenship, globalization, the space race, science, race relations, gender, and sexuality. Written by a former boy in a striped shirt, Where the Wild Things Were explores iconic works, from Mary Poppins to Lost in Space, contextualizing them through a critical but respectful engagement with the core animating ideas of the permissive imagination. Peter C. Kunze is an assistant professor of communication at Tulane University. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/intellectual-history
The 60s produced a Baby Boom generation that catalyzed the dawn of a new era—the space age, the age of television, the global age, and the beginnings of civil rights. At the same time, a new paradigm for parenting was unfolding that put emphasis on permissiveness, defined by what it permitted – the free and unfettered impulses of children. Others worried that the wildness of children, personified by the characters in Maurice Sendak's 1963 classic children's book, Where the Wild Things Are, was destructive, disruptive and disrespectful. Where the Wild Things Were: Boyhood and Permissive Parenting in Postwar America (NYU Press, 2025) centers on the exploding, contentious national conversation about the nature of childhood and parenting in the postwar US emblematized by Dr. Spock's Baby and Child Care. Renowned scholar Henry Jenkins demonstrates that the language that shaped a growing field of advice literature for parents also informed the period's fictions—in film, television, comics, children's books, and elsewhere—produced for and consumed by children. In particular, Jenkins demonstrates, the era's emblematic child was the boy in the striped shirt: white, male, suburban, middle class, Christian, and above all, American. Weaving together intellectual histories and popular texts, Jenkins shows how boy protagonists became embodiments of permissive child rearing, as well as the social ideals and contradictions that permissiveness entailed. From Peanuts comic strips and TV specials to The Cat in the Hat, Dennis the Menace, and Jonny Quest, the book reveals how childhood and the stories about it became central to Cold War concerns with democracy, citizenship, globalization, the space race, science, race relations, gender, and sexuality. Written by a former boy in a striped shirt, Where the Wild Things Were explores iconic works, from Mary Poppins to Lost in Space, contextualizing them through a critical but respectful engagement with the core animating ideas of the permissive imagination. Peter C. Kunze is an assistant professor of communication at Tulane University. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/new-books-network
The 60s produced a Baby Boom generation that catalyzed the dawn of a new era—the space age, the age of television, the global age, and the beginnings of civil rights. At the same time, a new paradigm for parenting was unfolding that put emphasis on permissiveness, defined by what it permitted – the free and unfettered impulses of children. Others worried that the wildness of children, personified by the characters in Maurice Sendak's 1963 classic children's book, Where the Wild Things Are, was destructive, disruptive and disrespectful. Where the Wild Things Were: Boyhood and Permissive Parenting in Postwar America (NYU Press, 2025) centers on the exploding, contentious national conversation about the nature of childhood and parenting in the postwar US emblematized by Dr. Spock's Baby and Child Care. Renowned scholar Henry Jenkins demonstrates that the language that shaped a growing field of advice literature for parents also informed the period's fictions—in film, television, comics, children's books, and elsewhere—produced for and consumed by children. In particular, Jenkins demonstrates, the era's emblematic child was the boy in the striped shirt: white, male, suburban, middle class, Christian, and above all, American. Weaving together intellectual histories and popular texts, Jenkins shows how boy protagonists became embodiments of permissive child rearing, as well as the social ideals and contradictions that permissiveness entailed. From Peanuts comic strips and TV specials to The Cat in the Hat, Dennis the Menace, and Jonny Quest, the book reveals how childhood and the stories about it became central to Cold War concerns with democracy, citizenship, globalization, the space race, science, race relations, gender, and sexuality. Written by a former boy in a striped shirt, Where the Wild Things Were explores iconic works, from Mary Poppins to Lost in Space, contextualizing them through a critical but respectful engagement with the core animating ideas of the permissive imagination. Peter C. Kunze is an assistant professor of communication at Tulane University. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/communications
The 60s produced a Baby Boom generation that catalyzed the dawn of a new era—the space age, the age of television, the global age, and the beginnings of civil rights. At the same time, a new paradigm for parenting was unfolding that put emphasis on permissiveness, defined by what it permitted – the free and unfettered impulses of children. Others worried that the wildness of children, personified by the characters in Maurice Sendak's 1963 classic children's book, Where the Wild Things Are, was destructive, disruptive and disrespectful. Where the Wild Things Were: Boyhood and Permissive Parenting in Postwar America (NYU Press, 2025) centers on the exploding, contentious national conversation about the nature of childhood and parenting in the postwar US emblematized by Dr. Spock's Baby and Child Care. Renowned scholar Henry Jenkins demonstrates that the language that shaped a growing field of advice literature for parents also informed the period's fictions—in film, television, comics, children's books, and elsewhere—produced for and consumed by children. In particular, Jenkins demonstrates, the era's emblematic child was the boy in the striped shirt: white, male, suburban, middle class, Christian, and above all, American. Weaving together intellectual histories and popular texts, Jenkins shows how boy protagonists became embodiments of permissive child rearing, as well as the social ideals and contradictions that permissiveness entailed. From Peanuts comic strips and TV specials to The Cat in the Hat, Dennis the Menace, and Jonny Quest, the book reveals how childhood and the stories about it became central to Cold War concerns with democracy, citizenship, globalization, the space race, science, race relations, gender, and sexuality. Written by a former boy in a striped shirt, Where the Wild Things Were explores iconic works, from Mary Poppins to Lost in Space, contextualizing them through a critical but respectful engagement with the core animating ideas of the permissive imagination. Peter C. Kunze is an assistant professor of communication at Tulane University. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/popular-culture
Send us a textIn this episode, we speak with Amanda Diekman about how her parenting changed when her six-year-old son went into autistic burnout. He lost verbal communication, stopped eating most foods, and couldn't follow basic routines. Faced with a crisis, Amanda chose to stop trying to fix him and instead removed demands to create safety.She explains how this shift became the foundation of low-demand parenting—an approach that prioritizes accommodation, reduces expectations, and gives children more agency. We discuss the fear many parents feel when stepping outside conventional norms, how control-based parenting damages relationships, and why even “high-functioning” children may be silently struggling.Amanda also shares how living in a community centered around disability shifted her perspective on independence and success. We cover specific strategies, including how her family uses language like “you're forcing me” to signal power imbalances, and how she reframed daily routines to support healing.Low-demand parenting isn't just for neurodivergent children—it challenges the broader parenting culture and offers a different way to relate to our kids.
A new MP3 sermon from Benoni Bible Church is now available on SermonAudio with the following details: Title: Permissive Parenting vs Persistent, Patient & Proper Parenting | Kevin Swanson Speaker: Kevin Swanson Broadcaster: Benoni Bible Church Event: Conference Date: 9/20/2024 Length: 77 min.
A new MP3 sermon from Benoni Bible Church is now available on SermonAudio with the following details: Title: Permissive Parenting vs Persistent, Patient & Proper Parenting | Kevin Swanson Speaker: Kevin Swanson Broadcaster: Benoni Bible Church Event: Conference Date: 9/20/2024 Length: 77 min.
A new MP3 sermon from Benoni Bible Church is now available on SermonAudio with the following details: Title: Permissive Parenting on the Rise | Kevin Swanson Speaker: Kevin Swanson Broadcaster: Benoni Bible Church Event: Sunday Service Date: 9/20/2024 Length: 54 min.
A new MP3 sermon from Benoni Bible Church is now available on SermonAudio with the following details: Title: Permissive Parenting on the Rise | Kevin Swanson Speaker: Kevin Swanson Broadcaster: Benoni Bible Church Event: Sunday Service Date: 9/20/2024 Length: 54 min.
Is trying to be the 'nice parent' turning you into the wrong kind of parent? In this engaging start to Season 7, Steve and Mary Alessi dive into the perils of permissive parenting and show you how to lay a solid foundation for your children. You'll discover the lessons they've learned on their own parenting journey, why they chose their parenting styles, and the importance of confronting conflict rather than avoiding it.You'll learn why establishing boundaries is crucial for healthy child development and how permissiveness can actually harm a child's sense of security and understanding of authority...and yes, we even dive into the potential perils of allowing insecurities about identity and gender to go unchecked. Discover how to provide your kids with clear guidance, set the right standards, and foster a sense of security and purpose.Want to Ask the Alessis a question or leave a comment? Email: info@alessifamilybusiness.com Social: DM on Instagram or Facebook YouTube: Reply on our Community post Voicemail: Leave a voicenote Text: Text our Podience Textline 302-542-0800 ***SHOP OUR FAMILY BUSINESS STORE!***New Yappuccino Mugs are HERE! ***Listen to MY MORNING DEVOTIONAL**** ***JOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS!** Subscribe on this app Follow Us on Instagram and Facebook Subscribe on YouTube Leave a review
Send us a Text Message.Gentle Parenting. Permissive Parenting. Authoritative Parenting. The misunderstanding and noise behind parenting styles is confusing and stressing out an entire generation of well-intentioned but misinformed parents.That's where Rebecca Giannini helps! Rebecca is a mother of two, relationship and parent coach, and founder of The Present Parents. In this episode, Rebecca breaks down the four principles for healthy relationships:Everyone deserves to be listened to when they're strugglingEveryone deserves to be spoken to with respect, even when the speaker is upsetEveryone deserves their body safetyEveryone deserves their boundaries to be respectedWe also reveal some personal parenting struggles we have been battling and seek Rebecca's sage guidance in resolving them through the lens of her principles.After listening to this episode, you will understand the distinct difference between permissive and gentle parenting. You will also be well-equipped on how to enforce boundaries and implement natural consequences for optimal outcomes. The end result is eliminating unwanted behaviors while developing emotionally intelligent children who can communicate well and achieve greater success.***Rebecca has generously extended a 15% discount off her private and group coaching to our listeners! Apply code MOTR at checkout here!***Support the Show.DONATE (Thank you!!
Mark and Janie chat about how parents can avoid the downfalls of permissive parenting.
Unlock the secrets of empowering parenting! Explore how to nurture your child's autonomy while offering the support they need. Listen now to this newest installment on parenting styles.
In Episode 105, Kyle and Sara, LPCs, interview Sarah Rosensweet, a Peaceful Parenting Coach. She discusses how Peaceful Parenting isn't permissive at all and how she is passionate about helping parents reimagine what it could look like in their families. She explains how parenting her kids this way has helped her raise children that are generous and kind, both with themselves and with others. Get our video courses at https://art-of-raising-humans.newzenler.com.View the full podcast transcript at: https://www.parentinglegacy.com/isnt-peaceful-parenting-really-just-permissive-parentingVisit our website and social media channels for more valuable content for your parenting journey.Resource Website: https://www.parentinglegacy.comVideo Courses: https://art-of-raising-humans.newzenler.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/artofraisinghumansInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/artofraisinghumansPodcast Website: https://www.theartofraisinghumans.comThe Art of Raising Humans podcast should not be considered or used as counseling but for educational purposes only.
Apathy and permissive parenting is on the rise. Parents less and less love their children enough to discipline them. And, parents less and less love God and honor God enough to correct them. This was Eli's problem, and God brought an end to Eli's household, entirely. They all died. Here, we present a practical guide to discipline and teaching your children to obey their parents and to honor God. This program includes: 1. The World View in 5 Minutes with Adam McManus (Iran attacked Israel; Fox & Friends co-host Lawrence Jones is unapologetic Christian) 2. Generations with Kevin Swanson
Apathy and permissive parenting is on the rise.--Parents less and less love their children enough to discipline them. And, parents less and less love God and honor God enough to correct them. This was Eli's problem, and God brought an end to Eli's household, entirely.--They all died. Here, we present a practical guide to discipline and teaching your children to obey their parents and to honor God.--This program includes---1. The World View in 5 Minutes with Adam McManus -Iran attacked Israel- Fox - Friends co-host Lawrence Jones is unapologetic Christian---2. Generations with Kevin Swanson
A new MP3 sermon from Generations Radio is now available on SermonAudio with the following details: Title: Permissive Parenting on the Rise - Eli’s Problem Speaker: Kevin Swanson Broadcaster: Generations Radio Event: Radio Broadcast Date: 4/15/2024 Length: 32 min.
A new MP3 sermon from Generations Radio is now available on SermonAudio with the following details: Title: Permissive Parenting on the Rise - Eli’s Problem Speaker: Kevin Swanson Broadcaster: Generations Radio Event: Radio Broadcast Date: 4/15/2024 Length: 32 min.
How to Split a Toaster: A divorce podcast about saving your relationships
In this episode of How to Split a Toaster, Seth and Pete dive into the challenging topic of how divorce impacts children. They're joined by special guest Cathy Himlin, a reunification/conjoint family therapist, to discuss the child-centered approach in divorce parenting and what parents need to know to maintain a healthy connection with their kids.Seth, Pete, and Cathy explore how parents' grief, anxiety, and emotions during the divorce process can affect children. They discuss the concept of "emotional contagion" and how kids pick up on and model their parents' behavior and feelings. Cathy shares insights from her work in court-involved family therapy, explaining how she helps children who have rejected a parent due to the emotional fallout of divorce.Questions we answer in this episode:How do my emotions during divorce impact my children?What can I do to help my kids cope with the changes and stress of divorce?How can therapy assist in repairing the parent-child relationship after a divorce?Key Takeaways:Be mindful of how your emotions and behaviors affect your children during divorceFocus on your children's needs and create a safe space for them to express their feelingsSeeking professional help, like reunification therapy, can be crucial in maintaining and repairing parent-child bondsThroughout the episode, Seth, Pete, and Cathy provide valuable advice and strategies for parents navigating the challenges of divorce with their children. They emphasize the importance of validating children's emotions, offering sincere apologies when necessary, and consistently working to maintain a strong, supportive parent-child relationship.This episode is a must-listen for any parent going through a divorce who wants to better understand their child's perspective and learn practical ways to help them cope with the emotional impact of this significant life change.Plus, we answer a listener question about social investigations!Links & NotesLearn more about Cathy at Himlin ConsultingSchedule a consult with SethGot a question you want to ask on the show? Click here! (00:00) - Welcome to How to Split a Toaster (00:27) - Meet Cathy Himlin (01:04) - Parental Grief Impacting the Kids (04:10) - Chidren Impacted from High Conflict Divorces (06:13) - Impact Down the Road (07:28) - Working with Kids Who Reject Parents (09:01) - Getting Them in the Car (10:17) - Court-Involved (12:29) - Triggers for Court-Ordered (13:17) - When It's Weaponized (14:03) - Different Reasons for Rejection (16:36) - Through the Process (19:58) - When the Child Feels Heard (21:07) - Feeling Pain (22:20) - Apologies (24:14) - Language of an Authentic Apology (28:37) - With Different Ages (32:44) - Permissive Parenting (36:20) - Finding Cathy (38:09) - Listener Question (44:41) - Wrap Up
Today, we're examining a crucial aspect of child development: the impact of parenting styles on our children's future. Focused on the stark differences between permissive parenting and the research-backed success of authoritative parenting, we delve into why setting boundaries is not just about discipline, but about fostering resilience, emotional intelligence, and social competence.
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Elizabeth Passarella, magazine writer and the author of the essay collections It Was an Ugly Couch Anyway and Good Apple (Thomas Nelson, 2023), discusses the phenomenon of excessively permissive parenting and its connection to gentle parenting, while listeners share how they're balancing discipline with the need to teach their children boundaries and how to work through their feelings.
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In this podcast I discuss Permissive Parenting. What does it look like? What are the consequences of permissive parenting in adulthood? How can you help yourself now? The link to the original blog, video and other links: https://deborahbyrnepsychologyservices.com/understanding-the-permissive-parenting-style/
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In this episode, Amanda Diekman, an eminent advocate for low-demand parenting, discusses her own experiences as an autistic adult, and how it has shaped her parenting style. She also explains the core principles of low-demand parenting and emphasizes on building trustful relationships by being creatively supportive to meet the child's distinctive needs. We also look into the parental process of accommodating a child's neurodiversity, experiencing a sense of deep 'why', and their own need within it. We talk about: [6:40] What is low demand parenting and how did came to adopt it [10:35] How she grew low-demand parenting from watching her children [11:55] The breakdown that changed things with her middle child [17:00] What happens in the nervous system of a PDA [19:30] The continuum of resistance when being told what to do [23:30] How to handle family demands in parenting [29:00] Getting assessed when there are challenges [35:30] Handling a hungry kid who won't eat because they're experiencing it as a demand [37:40] When dropping the demand for the child creates more of a demand for a parent [41:50] The deep ‘why' [47:10] Struggling doesn't mean you're doing anything wrong [50:55] The difference between low demand parenting and permissive parenting [54:40] Advice to her younger parent self With two Duke degrees, countless academic papers, and a Masters in Theology under her belt, it seemed she was on a steady path. But in 2020, when her child went into severe autistic burnout, and she was diagnosed with PTSD from parenting, everything in her life changed. She reworked her parenting approach and her self-care rhythms based around radical acceptance. From this experience, the low demand approach was born. Resources mentioned in this episode: Free ‘How to Stop Yelling' Course: www.sarahrosensweet.com/yelling Join us on Patreon: www.patreon.com/peacefulparenting Newsletter: www.sarahrosensweet.com/newsletter Connect with Amanda Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lowdemandamanda Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lowdemandamanda YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Lowdemandamanda https://www.amandadiekman.com/ Connect with Sarah Rosensweet Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahrosensweet/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/peacefulparentingfreegroup Website: https://www.sarahrosensweet.com Book a short consult or coaching session call: https://book-with-sarah-rosensweet.as.me/schedule.php
Aiming for Biblical Families (AFBF). This is week 1's teaching of an 8-week series taught by my dad. We will only release 7 of the 8 episodes. Show notes below. Show Questions are below that. You can reach me Timonspodcast@gmail.com "Aiming for Biblical Families (10/23) Before we start this parenting series we want disclose some things to you. First, we want to lower your expectations. If you're looking for logical or behavioral methods to get a quick-fix for problem children, you will be disappointed. You need to think long-term, decades, to see the value of your investment. Your family is worth the investment. Second, you must remember that we are flawed individuals and are still growing as parents. We have made plenty of mistakes. We are not your model the Lord is. But we want to help you incorporate the things we've done right and avoid the things we've done wrong. Jesus must be the center of your marriage and your family. He has all the correct answers, we do not. Third, those of you who are foster parents should know that my wife and I have had no experience raising foster kids. These classes will be helpful; but, they will be insufficient for some of the deeper trauma that foster kids have suffered. Basically, they have experienced abandonment. The best you can do is strive to give them a safe family structure in which they can flourish and heal. Fourth, in the 1990's we were heavily influenced by a teaching series called “Growing Kids God's Way.” The teaching we received in this series averted us from making multiple mistakes in parenting. I didn't agree with everything in the curriculum; but, much of it was very insightful. Unfortunately, that ministry was erased because of alleged financial misdealings. Dr. Dobson, who once headed up Focus on the Family ministries, was highly critical of Growing Kids. Dobson, in my opinion, sometimes took ideas from secular psychology and white-washed them with biblical concepts. He also has been accused of inappropriate behavior. I don't know how accurate any of these accusations are, you can still find helpful teaching in both camps. And this relates to what we are going to teach. We want to be helpful; but we are fallible. You must decide what is best for your own family . After all, you are the best candidate for raising your own children. Week 1: Authoritarian versus permissive parenting. Authoritarian and permissive parenting are two competing models of parenting that will destroy your family. Over the past 40 years, I have seen devout Christian parents operate in both extremes. I have received disapproval from parents who said I was too strict. I have received disapproval from parents who said I was not strict enough. Unfortunately, those accusers now have broken families. What I want you to aim for is a biblical model that avoids both extremes. Authoritarian parenting focuses mainly on rules and outward behavior only. The motivation used by parents is fear, “You will do what I say, or else you will be punished.” So the child complies in order to avoid conflict, or they are obedient out of fear of reprisal for breaking the rules. This kind of parenting does not teach principles, nor does it elevate virtue. The child will be compliant outwardly; but, inwardly he will yearn for rebellion. One outcome, as the child ages, is fear of failure. He must be successful in order to prove he is worthy of parental approval. Another outcome may be that he will begin to see everyone as morally inferior, because everyone falls short of his family's high standards. Or he may become so hateful towards his upbringing, that he rejects all forms of authority. Authoritarian parents can become verbally abusive, emotionally abusive, and even physically abusive. Permissive parenting is not concerned with suppressing evil or elevating good, it focuses on developing a positive environment for the child. This sounds good at first; but, it usually leads to the kind of parenting that is centered on the child at the expense of morality. This eventually leads to a child that is egocentric, manipulative and destructive. If the child doesn't get what he wants he will throw a tantrum until the parent complies. Permissive parents become exhausted trying to satisfy the wants and desires of the child and will usually give in to the child to avoid conflict. This leads to toleration of wrong behavior as a coping mechanism. Toleration of rebellion will destroy family relationships and family members. As the child ages, he will not only demand whatever he wants from his parents, he will also expect people outside of his family to placate his every demand as well. Families and communities that bolster this thinking eventually spiral into hedonism and lawlessness. There are shades and variations of each extreme. What we want to do to is avoid extremes of either type of parenting. What we want to do is raise children who love the Lord and love their family. We want them to do what is right morally because it flows out of a heart that is captured by the Lord. Here is an example of authoritarian parenting. In 1 Samuel 14, king Saul makes a rash vow. He lays down rules that have nothing to do with scripture, forcing all his fighting men to obey a law he made up on the spot. His son Jonathan violates that vow accidentally. He didn't hear the mandate that king Saul had made. When king Saul realized that Jonathan had defied his command, he declared that he would execute Jonathan for disobeying his vow. This is an example of authoritarian leadership. The rules weren't necessarily based on scriptural principles, yet defying those rules leads to severe punishment. At the end of 1 Samuel chapter 2, we find the opposite model of permissive parenting. Eli has raised sons that were permitted to do pretty much whatever they wanted. It was eventually too late. In verses 22 – 26 we see Eli rebuking his adult sons. But by then they would not listen to the voice of their father. They had become so corrupt that God put a death sentence upon them. Here is what we and our children need to aim for: He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the LORD require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God? Micah 6:8 Justice is not focused on a penal code (like authoritarian parents are), it puts broken things back in order. Mercy does not ignore rebellion (like permissive parents do), it is loyal love for God and others. We must walk humbly with God. Our dependency is on God: not the slum-life of our present cultural norms or a particular denomination's religious slavery" . Questions: These questions are not meant to dishonor your parents, your parents did the best they could. Were you raised in either extreme, the authoritarian or permissive model? Are you apt to mimic either extreme? How can you avoid either extreme? What can you redeem from your upbringing? What should you change?
On today's episode, we'll be exploring the differences between non-coercive, conscious parenting and permissive parenting. So many people get confused by collaboration and mutuality with kids and think it points to a free-for-all, hands-off approach. Here we explore the fears that often prevent parents from embracing non-coercive conscious parenting and emphasize how societal norms and pressures can make parents feel that they must maintain control and authority at all times. We offer a perspective towards an alternative, more connected approach and bust some of the myths that we encounter when we share that we are non-coercive, conscious parents.--If you want to be on our newsletter and get an announcement each time a new episode is released, please send us your email information to Rythea@crocker.comGet in touch with Rythea and Cara, buy our books and watch our content at https://linktr.ee/yourkidsdontsuckFind all our episodes at https://rss.com/podcasts/yourkidsdontsuckIt's important and essential to put our voices (Rythea and Cara) in a context. We are two white, cis-gender, straight, middle-class women living with financial and societal privilege. Because of this, our perspectives are limited and do not reflect the realities of all our listeners. This podcast will feature guests with expertise around conscious parenting who differ in gender, race, class, abilities, sexual orientation, and histories from us, to broaden the conversation and reflect the lives of as many people as possible. 25% of the proceeds of this podcast will go to creators of color who have been mentors and influences on our work and in our growth as parents. You can donate to this podcast by going to https://linktr.ee/yourkidsdontsuck
H: You know, parenting styles are like ice cream flavors. Everyone has their favorite, and no one really agrees on which one is the best. But the good news is, there's no one-size-fits-all when it comes to parenting. So, let's explore a few different scoops of parenting styles and see which one tickles your taste buds.H: First up, we have "Attachment Parenting." It's like the gelato of parenting styles - sweet, warm, and oh-so-intimate. Attachment parenting is all about forming a close emotional bond with your child. You're like Batman and Robin, inseparable! But, just like gelato, it can get a bit sticky at times. Critics say attachment parenting might make your child a bit too clingy.H: On the other hand, we've got "Authoritative Parenting." This is like the classic vanilla ice cream of parenting styles - a solid choice. It's all about setting clear rules and expectations while still being warm and loving. Think of it as adding some rainbow sprinkles of discipline. But beware, too much vanilla can get a bit boring, and too many sprinkles can be overwhelming.H: "Permissive Parenting" is the triple-scoop sundae of parenting styles. It's all about saying "yes" more than "no" and letting your child explore life without many restrictions. Your kid gets the cherry on top! But, as any ice cream aficionado will tell you, too many toppings can lead to a bellyache. Critics argue that permissive parenting may lead to spoiled children.H: "Authoritarian Parenting" is like eating broccoli ice cream – not really ice cream at all! It's all about strict rules and high expectations. Your kid will definitely know the difference between right and wrong, but it might not be the most fun flavor. Too much of this, and you might be facing a rebellion worthy of a superhero origin story.H: And then there's "Helicopter Parenting." Think of it as the whipped cream and chocolate syrup on your ice cream. They're always there, hovering, ready to swoop in at any moment. Helicopter parents are like your own personal entourage. But, just like too much whipped cream, it can smother the joy out of any ice cream cone.H: Alright, let's not forget "Free-Range Parenting." It's like going to an ice cream shop with endless options. Free-range parents allow their children to explore the world with minimal hovering. They're all about independence and self-discovery, like trying all the flavors at an ice cream parlor. However, just like too many choices can lead to decision fatigue, critics worry that this style might not provide enough structure.H: So, what's the scoop? The truth is, no one style is perfect, just like no single ice cream flavor can satisfy all your cravings. The best approach is a bit like making a banana split, taking a little from each flavor to create your own unique blend that works for you and your family.H: Thanks for joining us on this flavorful journey through parenting styles. Remember, there's no one right way to parent, and what works best for you is like your own secret recipe. Until next time, keep parenting with a spoonful of love, a dash of patience, and a sprinkling of humor.
So what do lions, and lambs have to do with parenting style? How that parenting style affects children?And how is that all relate to boundaries? Inspired by the book "Raising Lions" by Joe Newman, in this episode of the Playground Talks podcast, you will explore the different parenting styles (permissive, authoritative, and authoritarian) and the delicate balance between child autonomy and parental authority. Check out this short and sweet episode and hear the pitfalls of being too permissive or authoritarian and the benefits of authoritative parenting. Additional resources:#31 The Art of Effective Parenting Communication!#24 Tammy afriat Interview in "Foreign-Born Mama" podcast host by Nurzhan Sterbenz; Discussing Parenting Styles, Setting Boundaries, Career Shifting, And Parenting In Different Culture!Types of Parenting Styles and Effects On Children (NCBI)As a certified parent coach, I want to empower you to own your parenting style! So how can you connect with me? Visit the Bonding Boost website Connect on Instagram Book your free 30 min session today!
Chatting with CandiceDr. Shefali Episode Run Time: 35:52Dr. Shefali is a clinical psychologist, three-time New York Times best-selling author, and CEO of Conscious Coaching Institute. In this episode, she explains new and modern ways far from what we're used to, Eastern Spirituality, and that it's okay for boys to cry.00:00 00:37 Gentle Parenting, Conscious Parenting, Permissive Parenting 02:06 Balance Between Freedom and Unconditional Love 07:20 Struggle With Commitment and Over romanticizing 09:53 Navigating the Trap of Bad Teachers 12:34 Modeling Authenticity 15:19 Concepts of Eastern Spirituality 18:48 “Be Nice” is the Worst Advice 22:19 Connection Before Correction 25:58 Reacting VS Responding 27:35 Authoritarians on Gentle Parenting 29:27 Abuse and That One Comment that Sticks 31:54 Boys Can Cry 33:43 Dr. Shefali's Favorite Moment 35:07 Where to Find Dr. ShefaliWhat is Gentle Parenting, Conscious Parenting, and Permissive Parenting?Conscious parenting encompasses gentle parenting, but it's not just the focus. The focus is not to be gentle to the child, it's much more than that. It's about really understanding the parents' own ego patterns and how they're bringing their own unconscious “crap” to the dynamic and how to stop doing their toxic behavior so they can truly meet the needs of the child before them, because that's what a child needs to flourish and become empowered and successful. Permissive parenting is just negligent parenting; it's nothing to do with conscious parenting. People think conscious parenting is like permissive parenting because Dr. Shefali talks so much about letting go of this delusion of control but that doesn't mean you let it go and completely ignore the needs of your children. Links and ResourcesWebsiteInstagramMeta-DescriptionNewly mom of two Candice talks all about parenting with clinical psychologist and NYT best-selling author Dr. Shefali Tsabary.Support the show
Narcissism lives in all of us to some degree as on a spectrum. And it's easy to see how having even a tinge of narcissism could have been a valuable survival tool over the ages. But like with everything, there is a limit to what is healthy and what is toxic. Psychologist and author of Rethinking Narcissism Dr. Craig Malkin talks about the extroverted narcissist, i.e. “the narcissist we all know and loathe”, but says there are others. And like with most things there is an equal and opposite thing that compliments it. Meet the narcissist and its foil, the echoist. A match made in heaven? Not even close. Malkin describes his echoist relationship with his narcissist mother, the barriers people have to getting out of toxic relationships, the importance of anger and how a certain medication can help - if the narcissist actually thinks they need it. If you have questions or guest suggestions, Ali would love to hear from you. Call or text her at (323) 364-6356. Or email go-ask-ali-podcast-at-gmail.com. (No dashes) **Go Ask Ali has been nominated for a Webby Award for Best Interview/Talk Show Episode! Please vote for her and the whole team at https://bit.ly/415e8uN by April 20, 2023! Links of Interest: Dr. Craig Malkin Rethinking Narcissism: The Secret to Recognizing and Coping with Narcissists Instagram YouTube The Communal Narcissist: A New Kind of Narcissist? (Psychology Today) The Most Narcissistic U.S. Presidents (Pew Research, 2013) Malignant Narcissism: Does the President Have it? (Psychology Today, 2020) CREDITS: Executive Producers: Sandie Bailey, Alex Alcheh, Lauren Hohman, Tyler Klang & Gabrielle Collins Producer & Editor: Brooke Peterson-Bell Associate Producer: Akiya McKnightSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this COR Parenting Conversation, Caley tackles a common misperception that Conscious Parenting is Permissive Parenting. She explains a practical, applicable tool to help parents set limits with their children in a way that empowers parents to be confident, compassionate leaders. For more information about The Limit Setting Guide or the COR Community, head to: www.caleykukla.com/cor.
Oh no!!!! Is this PERMISSIVE parenting?!?!? (dun dun DUN!!!!!)
What can we learn about parenting from Blockbuster and Netflix? Link To Article About Blockbuster and Netflix I'm sure that based on the title of this episode, you may be a little confused about a thing or two. Blockbuster isn't the first thing one would think of when trying to navigate the struggles of parenting. Come along with me while I explain an analogy that ties together fear based parenting, and good old Blockbuster! Think about it this way. What used to happen if you returned a movie to Blockbuster after your allotted rental time? You got charged a late fee right? And I'm guessing it didn't make you feel great. Now think about what often happens when a child misbehaves or makes a mistake - if they get yelled at and talked down to all the time, it gives them the same negative feelings… So what can we do to help our kids understand that they need to be held accountable, but still foster a relationship of love, mutual respect, understanding and connection? We don't need to get rid of expectations or boundaries by any means. But instead of using the fear of being in trouble as a motivator - we let them know that we are a safe place they can come to. And when they do mess up, we can trust that they have the strength and resilience to overcome their mistakes. We can have discussions and hold to expectations while still letting them knowwe love, respect and support them. Ready to schedule a strategy call? Click Here
Psychologists say that there are basically only 4 parenting styles - permissive, authoritative, neglectful and authoritarian. Which one are you and which one is best? Tune in this week to find out.
Lots to talk about on the show today: —Many in the United States have felt the Brits were “overreacting” to the death of the late Queen Elizabeth, but I disagree. A life devoted to country and family is worth honoring. They got it right. —Tucker Carlson goes after teachers who are sexualizing students —CEO of “Beyond Meat” has a story that you can't make up and finally…Proverbs 22:6 says, “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.” However, many parents today are struggling to discipline their children with any manner of consistently. Not only does this go against Scripture, but it is also harming our children. Today I'll be talking a bit about parenting and why discipline is really translated LOVE. SHOW NOTES --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/heidistjohn/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/heidistjohn/support
If you're listening to this podcast, you're probably already at least somewhat versed in the styles of positive, gentle, respectful or responsive parenting. But whatever you call it, there are many societal misconceptions about what these styles are. Here to help me bust some myths and dig into the research and brain science behind why we're shifting past behaviorism is Sarah R. Moore. From intergenerational transmission of parenting styles, redefining our goals, and the importance of strengthening mental and emotional health in our children, you won't want to miss this deep dive into WHY these new parenting styles are effective. And go ahead and share this episode with anyone in your life who isn't quite on board with positive parenting or feels it's too permissive. This is a safe space free of shame and judgment - we're all just doing the best we can! Want to get more from Dr. Sarah Bren? ✨ Follow Dr. Sarah on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drsarahbren/ ✨ Subscribe to the weekly newsletter: https://drsarahbren.com/join-newsletter ✨ And check out her website for more free parenting resources: https://drsarahbren.com/resources
Dr. RJ discuses the difference between the philosophy he created, Relationship-centered Parenting, and permissive parenting.
Hello Cycle Breakers! We are excited to bring you a special bonus episode! Today we are completing our 2 part series on the 4 parenting styles. In this episode, we are breaking down the differences between authoritative and permissive parenting, and why people often confuse the two. If you're ready to start elevating your parenting we invite you to take advantage of High Impact Club's mother's day sale! This is your opportunity to create your own bundle of 3 or more products and get 30%OFF. Click the link in the description below to shop our catalog of all areas of parenting. Remember, if you have any High Impact Club product you are able to join our private HIC Cycle Breaker Facebook group. And if you liked this episode, please subscribe and leave a review, we would love to hear from you! Don't forget to follow us on all social media platforms @highimpactclub and @rachlynnrogers Click here to get your own bundle of 3 or more products and get 30%OFF HIC Cycle Breaker Facebook Group
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One of the most common misconceptions about parenting in a way that allows children to express all feelings is that kids basically get to do whatever they want. But that could not be further from the truth; allowing all feelings never means allowing all behaviors! The truth is that boundaries are essential in parenting … but actually setting them can be exhausting! If you've ever asked your child repeatedly to stop jumping on the couch only to have them ignore you, you know what I'm talking about; the struggle is real. If setting boundaries with your child feels frustrating, this week's episode is for you. I'll empower you with answers to questions like: What is a boundary (and what isn't)? Why are boundaries necessary? Which common boundary-setting mistakes might you be making? And if boundaries are so important, WHY do our kids push back on them so much? Setting healthy, effective boundaries is essential to raising healthy kids. And after today's episode, you'll know how to do this in a way that feels good for you and your child, which is a game changer. You've got this! FREE Mindset Shifts to Transform Your Parenting: https://www.raisedresilient.com/mindset Connect with me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/raisedresilient/
Today I'm talking about how we can parent in a gentle and respectful way without being permissive. It is possible to model good boundaries and limits with our children without harshness or punishments. In fact, setting limits early and often can strengthen our relationships and develop our children's emotional intelligence. Thanks for joining me. If you're ready to get your kids listening so you don't have to shout, and instead you can start enjoying being a parent, then get signed up to my next virtual Peaceful Parenting Masterclass.
In this episode, the second in our three-part series on parenting styles, we discuss the permissive, or as we like to call it, the "Pushover" parenting style. Join us as we discuss how being a permissive parent affects children and whether it's a good choice of style for your blended family. If you and your partner have different parenting styles, or if you'd like a more in-depth look at the best parenting style for a blended family, download our FREE video lesson HERE To subscribe to our newsletter, click HERE Read our blog for more blended family content HERE
Is permissive parenting really all that bad? Learn how detrimental it really is on this episode of the Have a New Kid by Friday Podcast. Show Sponsored by Revell, a division of Baker Publishing Produced by Unmutable™
This episode features audio from one of our webinar presentations. Chris Burritt, D.O. and Alberto Foglia, M.D. discuss the care of Dr. Foglia's patient, Mario. He was a hyperactive, aggressive, and angry three-year-old boy who terrorized other children in his pre-school. The presentation and discussion demonstrate the powerful effects of medical orgone therapy but also highlight a key aspect: the importance of distinguishing primary healthy expressions and emotions from secondary unhealthy ones. Listen in to hear how Dr. Foglia helps Mario and his mother and demonstrates the importance of setting boundaries and asserting natural parental authority when raising children. Question or Comment? A Different Kind Of Psychiatry ACO - Orgonomy.org
Summary:In today's episode of The Tragedy Academy, Jay speaks with the author, schoolteacher, and single father of three children, Kent Lawlor. Kent details his journey full of peaks and valleys, both figurately and literally. He shares his experiences in raising three children as a single father, how that affected his mental well-being, and his action to become a better person and parent.Key Points:
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Do you sometimes feel helpless wishing you'd understand your child better? Wishing you had some hack, tip or magic word that would help you in parenting. In today's episode, we will help you become an empowered parent. To equip you with the right tools that can help you understand your child better. For this we have with us today kiva Schuler all the way from Boston USA. She is the co-founder of Jai institute of Parenting that helps Parents, grandparents and coaches mentor n caregivers in helping them raise kids right. We spoke about: Is there a better way to discipline children which replaces punishments and consequences? When Conscious Parenting becomes Permissive Parenting where to draw the line? How can creating boundaries through peaceful communication help us in this problem. What does a peaceful parenting model mean and how to equip yourself with it to achieve the much deserved mental peace. what is empowered Parenting and how is it the Antidote to the dominant power parenting model. P.s. Here is a research-backed tool derived from the experience of hundreds of parents and its free. It includes 8 secret rules for communication with examples. Download it below. FREE E-BOOK: 8 SECRETS FOR COMMUNICATING WITH TWEENS AND TEENAGERS. P.p.s If you are a Parent to a pre-teen, teenager or a parent coach then this is for you. Here is a another surprise join me for a free workshop on the 30th of April at 12:30 IST. Here i will talk about the causes of common clashes between parents and teens. And how can proper communication help you in dealing with teen behaviours like arguing, disrespectful parenting, rebel, not listening until you've said the 4th time and lost your cool. FREE WORKSHOP- “secrets to communication with teenagers” MY COURSE for parents of tweens and teenagers. From “instructional to conversational” parenting. https://doctormommyspeaks.graphy.com/courses/from-instructional-to-conversational-parenting-for-teenagers Find all the goodies here. https://linktr.ee/Doctormommyspeaks You can connect with kiva schuler on https://www.jaiinstituteforparenting.com/ and with me at @doctormommyspeaks on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, Linkedin. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/doctormommyspeaks/message
Who would have thought I needed a sleep coach with no longer having babies and toddlers? Well, with the move and Leilani having worry/concern for me leading up to my surgery, we started a habit of bed sharing, which first started in hotel stays. This is when I reached out to none other than Whitney Weber, a certified sleep coach, for help in getting Leilani back into her own bed. Whitney Weber Resources:Website: When Skies Are GreyFollow Whitney Weber in IG: @whitney.weber6815 SLUMBERPODHatch Baby Rest Sound Machine, Night Light and Time-to-Rise Sign up for the next DAC Bootcamp Follow me on Social Media:Amy on IGAmy on Facebook Resources:AmyLedin.comLean Bodies Consulting (LBC)LBC University
There are some parents who have children but do not take on the responsibility of child training. They keep letting go of things they should focus on in the raising of their children. On this week's episode of Parenting Corner, I spoke on permissive parenting: what it is and its likely effects. Take a moment to listen and don't forget to send in your feedback --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/oluwapelumi-janet/message
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As many countries are still in lockdown or entering a second lockdown, many parents find that staying home with their kids is not an easy job, to say the least. And that's especially true if you're trying to set boundaries all they long. So, naturally, some parents tend to get more and more chill with those boundaries, sometimes to the point of giving them up.But, is that even a problem? Maybe fewer boundaries are the sane way to go? What's so wrong about being your child's best friend and eliminating the hierarchy?That's the topic of this episode, as we explore the negative effects of what is known as permissive parenting.**Feeling alone? In need of support? Please join my Facebook community today and be a part of a growing group of like-minded parents who believe in the power of positive, connected parenting - click here to joinSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/my/profile)
Permissive parenting is a type of parenting style characterized by low demands with high responsiveness. Permissive parents tend to be very loving, yet provide few guidelines and rules. These Parents do not expect mature behavior from their children and often seem more like a friend than a parental figure. Since these parents have few requirements for mature behavior, children may lack skills in social settings. While they may be good at interpersonal communication, they lack other important skills such as sharing.Do you know your Parenting Style?
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Show Notes Respectful Parenting is NOT Passive Parenting Setting Limits is an Important Part of Life Janet Lansbury on Boundaries How to Set Effective Limits with Your Child Differences in Traditional, Permissive, and Positive Parenting The Authoritative Parenting Style Gentle Parenting FAQ Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. -Galatians 5:22-23
Excessive permissiveness in parenting is not good for our children. We are in the business of training our children in the way of doing things and acting in every situation.
In episode 84 we explore the 4 styles of parenting: authoritarian, permissive, neglectful, and authoritative. We examine how to recognize each style and how each style effects the child. 1) Authoritarian Parenting – strict, rely on obedience. Structure. Rules and structure are good but typically authoritarian's take it too far. How to recognize Authoritarian parenting? – Do you use punishment to get your kids to do something you ask? – Not alot of being warm and fuzzy toward the child – Do you have strict rules that need to be followed? – Use the term “Because I said so” What does Authoritarian parenting do to kids? Low self-esteem difficulty in social situations misbehaving outside of parental site fearful or shy associate obedience with love 2) Permissive Parenting – also known as indulgent, responsive but not demanding, avoid confrontation, lack of structure. This style is nurturing and loving but doesn't provide any structure. How to recognize Permissive parenting? – Do you avoid conflict with your child? – You want to be their friend rather than parent – Use rewards or bribes to get them to do things What does Permissive parenting do to kids? Teens are 3X more likely to engage in underage heavy alcohol consumption poor social skills lack of discipline poor academic performance lack of motivation problems with authority 3) Neglectful / Uninvolved – probably the most harmful. It's typically not cause by children's behavior. Parents with this style need help. The good news is that it can be helped. How to recognize Neglectful / Uninvolved parenting: – Do you know what is going on in your child's life? – Is the home a safe place? – Do you spend a lot of time away from home leaving the child alone? – Do you spend any time …
In episode 84 we explore the 4 styles of parenting: authoritarian, permissive, neglectful, and authoritative. We examine how to recognize each style and how each style effects the child. 1) Authoritarian Parenting – strict, rely on obedience. Structure. Rules and structure are good but typically authoritarian's take it too far. How to recognize Authoritarian parenting? – Do you use punishment to get your kids to do something you ask? – Not alot of being warm and fuzzy toward the child – Do you have strict rules that need to be followed? – Use the term “Because I said so” What does Authoritarian parenting do to kids? Low self-esteem difficulty in social situations misbehaving outside of parental site fearful or shy associate obedience with love 2) Permissive Parenting – also known as indulgent, responsive but not demanding, avoid confrontation, lack of structure. This style is nurturing and loving but doesn't provide any structure. How to recognize Permissive parenting? – Do you avoid conflict with your child? – You want to be their friend rather than parent – Use rewards or bribes to get them to do things What does Permissive parenting do to kids? Teens are 3X more likely to engage in underage heavy alcohol consumption poor social skills lack of discipline poor academic performance lack of motivation problems with authority 3) Neglectful / Uninvolved – probably the most harmful. It's typically not cause by children's behavior. Parents with this style need help. The good news is that it can be helped. How to recognize Neglectful / Uninvolved parenting: – Do you know what is going on in your child's life? – Is the home a safe place? – Do you spend a lot of time away from home leaving the child alone? – Do you spend any time …
Proverbs has wisdom passed down from father to son. Chapters 1-9 are King Solomon's wisdom passed to his children. Three kinds of parents 1. Uninvolved - not engaged in teaching, discipline, play 2. Over-involved - takes over the child's life and decisions; rescues from every struggle 3. Involved - balanced in child's life - playing, teaching, discipline, but allows child to be his or her own person; allows child to learn from mistakes. Three kinds of Parenting: a. Permissive Parenting – loving, accepting, but not holding standards b. Authoritarian Parenting – heavy on rules, accountability, punishment, but light on love, encouragement. c. Authoritative Parenting – brings the strengths of both, provides structure, rules, firmness, accountability, but balanced with encouragement; focused on the relationship. Rules without relationship result in rebellion; relationship without rules results in chaos. The goal of Christian parenting is to raise adults who love & glorify God with their lives. Discipline Children are sinful and need correction and discipline Folly is bound up in the heart of a child, but the rod of discipline will drive it far away. (Proverbs 22:15) Discipline is loving to your child Whoever spares the rod hates their children, but the one who loves their children is careful to discipline them. (Proverbs 13:24) Steps in discipline 1. Be clear about your expectations - you cannot discipline if you have not told them what you expect and what they can expect 2. Give a warning or reminder if appropriate 3. Give appropriate discipline - Be consistent, follow through, be loving, not angry. The goal is correction and teaching. Discipline maintains the relationship. Punishment excludes relationship. Discipline and age Infants and toddlers - Focus is on meeting needs. No concept of disobedience, only redirection is appropriate. Preschool age 18 months to 5 years - Focus is on discipline. Use redirection, timeout, physical discipline is light. An 18 month to two year old understands "no", some things are off limits. A 4-5 year old understands rules. School age 5-11 - Focus is on training, teaching how to be responsible. Corporal punishment reserved for outright defiance or harming others. Loss of privileges increases as children approach adolescence. Teenagers - loss of privileges. Speaking of teenagers, King Solomon in those 1st 9 chapters to his children spent 2 1/2 chapters warning his sons against sexual sins. We have to discuss how God intended and did not intend sex with adolescents. "The talk" needs to take place between you and your 10 yr old, then in more detail at 12ish and 14ish. Spiritual maturity - sin, confession, repentance, faith 1. When they make mistakes, usher your child to the cross. Tell them of your own sins, that we all sin and are in need of forgiveness. 2. Help them understand that sins hurt relationships and reconciliation is needed by confession and repentance. 3. Help them find relief from sin and shame by faith in Jesus' sacrifice. We are presenting God to our children. God is using you to prepare them for their own relationship with Him. Teach young children the beauty and majesty of God, his power and creativity. Teach school age children about the love that Jesus demonstrated for them. Teach adolescents about the mercy and forgiveness found in Jesus. Walk them into God's presence.
I Samuel 2:12-17 I Samuel 2:22-25 Eli was high priest and his sons ministered as priests. But they made people's offerings about themselves instead of God. Eli threatened, but did very little. God spelled out his expectation, gave warning, spelled out the consequences for their disobedience and then carried out his discipline against them and their father, Eli. Eli's (lacking) discipline against his sons - Gave warning, but had no follow through The lack of parental discipline ruined a family - not just the sons. God's discipline against Eli's sons -Set expectations -Gave warning -Stated consequences -Carried out discipline God carried out judgment against Eli's sons for their disrespect, and against Eli for not disciplining his sons. God held Eli accountable for his responsibility to be a parent. Proverbs 3:11, 12 My son, do not despise the Lord ’s discipline, and do not resent his rebuke, because the Lord disciplines those he loves, as a father the son he delights in. Discipline is an act of love. -It shows kids that you care about them. -It develops their ability to relate to other people and to God. Three kinds of Parenting: a. Permissive Parenting – loving, accepting, but not holding standards b. Authoritarian Parenting – heavy on rules, accountability, punishment, but light on love, encouragement, focus on the quality of relationship. c. Authoritative Parenting – brings the strengths of both, provides structure, rules, firmness, accountability, but balanced with encouragement, the relationship, etc. Christian parents are images to God, to relate God’s righteousness, holiness, and children respond to parents who are balanced images of God. 4 Stages of Parenting - Discipline Years (1-5) - Training Years (5-12) - Coaching Years. (12-18) - Friendship Years (18+) You cannot do friendship first. Kids need someone to be in charge of them until they have the wisdom and discipline to be in charge of themselves. Discipline Years Discipline should be - Consistent - Progressive - Private punishment - Done in love The days are long, but years are short. Training and Coaching Years You can't address every little thing with your kids. What to address: - Disobedience - Dishonesty - Disrespect Don't bail. Let 'em fail. We all feel protective of our kids and there will be times that we need to step out and be their advocate, but... Kids need to figure out how to deal with difficult people. They need to learn how to respond to unfair circumstances. They need to figure out that their sins have consequences. The stakes are MUCH lower at 8 than at 18. They will not know how to be an adult if they've had no experience. Teach them to listen to God. Let them pray about and make their own decisions Speak to them about God's calling on their lives and His purpose.
More important than what kids want is giving them what they need. Find out why in this episode.
Join Jim Burns as he discusses why we have to take back the ground that we have surrendered to permissive parenting and examine why it is so important to teach our kids to respond correctly to authority, and to develop character.
Join Jim Burns as he discusses why we have to take back the ground that we have surrendered to permissive parenting and examine why it is so important to teach our kids to respond correctly to authority, and to develop character.
Join Jim Burns as he discusses why we have to take back the ground that we have surrendered to permissive parenting and examine why it is so important to teach our kids to respond correctly to authority, and to develop character.
Join Jim Burns as he discusses why we have to take back the ground that we have surrendered to permissive parenting and examine why it is so important to teach our kids to respond correctly to authority, and to develop character.
Join Jim Burns as he discusses why we have to take back the ground that we have surrendered to permissive parenting and examine why it is so important to teach our kids to respond correctly to authority, and to develop character.
Join Jim Burns as he discusses why we have to take back the ground that we have surrendered to permissive parenting and examine why it is so important to teach our kids to respond correctly to authority, and to develop character.
Join Jim Burns as he discusses why we have to take back the ground that we have surrendered to permissive parenting and examine why it is so important to teach our kids to respond correctly to authority, and to develop character.
Join Jim Burns as he discusses why we have to take back the ground that we have surrendered to permissive parenting and examine why it is so important to teach our kids to respond correctly to authority, and to develop character.
Join Jim Burns as he discusses why we have to take back the ground that we have surrendered to permissive parenting and examine why it is so important to teach our kids to respond correctly to authority, and to develop character.
Join Jim Burns as he discusses why we have to take back the ground that we have surrendered to permissive parenting and examine why it is so important to teach our kids to respond correctly to authority, and to develop character.
Join Jim Burns as he discusses why we have to take back the ground that we have surrendered to permissive parenting and examine why it is so important to teach our kids to respond correctly to authority, and to develop character.
Join Jim Burns as he discusses why we have to take back the ground that we have surrendered to permissive parenting and examine why it is so important to teach our kids to respond correctly to authority, and to develop character.
Join Jim Burns as he discusses why we have to take back the ground that we have surrendered to permissive parenting and examine why it is so important to teach our kids to respond correctly to authority, and to develop character.
Join Jim Burns as he discusses why we have to take back the ground that we have surrendered to permissive parenting and examine why it is so important to teach our kids to respond correctly to authority, and to develop character.
Join Jim Burns as he discusses why we have to take back the ground that we have surrendered to permissive parenting and examine why it is so important to teach our kids to respond correctly to authority, and to develop character.
Join Jim Burns as he discusses why we have to take back the ground that we have surrendered to permissive parenting and examine why it is so important to teach our kids to respond correctly to authority, and to develop character.
Join Jim Burns as he discusses why we have to take back the ground that we have surrendered to permissive parenting and examine why it is so important to teach our kids to respond correctly to authority, and to develop character.
Join Jim Burns as he discusses why we have to take back the ground that we have surrendered to permissive parenting and examine why it is so important to teach our kids to respond correctly to authority, and to develop character.
Join Jim Burns as he discusses why we have to take back the ground that we have surrendered to permissive parenting and examine why it is so important to teach our kids to respond correctly to authority, and to develop character.
Join Jim Burns as he discusses why we have to take back the ground that we have surrendered to permissive parenting and examine why it is so important to teach our kids to respond correctly to authority, and to develop character.
Join Jim Burns as he discusses why we have to take back the ground that we have surrendered to permissive parenting and examine why it is so important to teach our kids to respond correctly to authority, and to develop character.
Join Jim Burns as he discusses why we have to take back the ground that we have surrendered to permissive parenting and examine why it is so important to teach our kids to respond correctly to authority, and to develop character.
Join Jim Burns as he discusses why we have to take back the ground that we have surrendered to permissive parenting and examine why it is so important to teach our kids to respond correctly to authority, and to develop character.
Join Jim Burns as he discusses why we have to take back the ground that we have surrendered to permissive parenting and examine why it is so important to teach our kids to respond correctly to authority, and to develop character.
Join Jim Burns as he discusses why we have to take back the ground that we have surrendered to permissive parenting and examine why it is so important to teach our kids to respond correctly to authority, and to develop character.
Join Jim Burns as he discusses why we have to take back the ground that we have surrendered to permissive parenting and examine why it is so important to teach our kids to respond correctly to authority, and to develop character.
Join Jim Burns as he discusses why we have to take back the ground that we have surrendered to permissive parenting and examine why it is so important to teach our kids to respond correctly to authority, and to develop character.
Join Jim Burns as he discusses why we have to take back the ground that we have surrendered to permissive parenting and examine why it is so important to teach our kids to respond correctly to authority, and to develop character.
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