Podcasts about Positive discipline

Today we are unlocking why yelling seems to work with our kids and how to find the balance between kindness and firmness that creates sustainable, effective parenting. Some key aspects we will cover today include:When children push boundaries, they're actually seeking clarity and predictability, not testing our patience.Children are wired to test boundaries to see what happens when they do.Yelling "works" only because kids finally know you mean it, not because of the volume.When we're overly gentle without clearly set boundaries, we set ourselves up to yell.  Why? Well, it's kinda like the universe maintains a balance between kindness and firmness—falling too far into permissiveness leads to explosive firmness.Today I'll teach you the CEO approach to replace yelling at your kids, with a new way to be kind and firm at the SAME time. Replacing yelling requires learning how to mean what you say and say what you meanIf you want to understand the CEO approach and get beginning tools for better communication, check out Episode 71: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/71-3-steps-that-get-kids-to-listen/id1682538739?i=1000665256022. Join me next week where we'll be talking about how to control your anger as a parent without yelling.✨Want more?1) Use this link for a FREE 20 min clarity call with Sustainable Parenting.2) Download the FREE pdf. on getting kids to listen.3) Buy a 3 session Coaching Bundle (saving you $100) - for THREE 30-min sessions 1:1 with ME, where we get right to the heart of your challenges, and give you small, powerful shifts that make a huge difference fast.

In this episode, I wrap up the Positive Discipline for Teenagers book series with a deep dive into our unresolved teen issues—and how they sneak into our parenting. I reflect on my own experiences and share powerful tools to support healing, self-awareness, and courageous parenting. If you've ever wondered why certain challenges with your teen hit so hard, this conversation will help. I'm inviting you to shift from reactive to reflective, from fearful to courageous. Tune in to gain clarity, connection, and practical steps forward in your parenting journey. For more info and resources, go to: https://www.besproutable.com/podcasts/eps-583-positive-discipline-for-teens-part-7-are-your-issues-getting-in-your-way/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ever felt like the consequences you're using just aren't working?Maybe you've taken away screen time, treats, or even big events—only to see the same behavior again. It can feel frustrating and confusing when nothing seems to make a difference.In this episode, we take a closer look at why some consequences fall flat, and how small, thoughtful changes can lead to big results. You'll hear Sean's story—how he moved from taking away a big event to finding calmer, more connected ways to guide his child's behavior.After listening, you'll walk away with: • Three common mistakes that can make consequences less effective • A simple way to use small, step-by-step consequences that help kids learn • Ideas for keeping limits firm while still showing care and connectionThis conversation gently unpacks how effective consequences can support your child's growth while also keeping your relationship strong. It's not about punishment—it's about teaching, guiding, and growing together.✨Want more?1) Use this link for a FREE 20 min clarity call with Sustainable Parenting.2) Download the FREE pdf. on getting kids to listen.3) Buy a 3 session Coaching Bundle (saving you $100) - for THREE 30-min sessions 1:1 with ME, where we get right to the heart of your challenges, and give you small, powerful shifts that make a huge difference fast.

This week we dive into some of the scarier challenges parents face while raising tweens and teens. As usual, I emphasize the importance of building relationships, life skills, and personal growth. This episode discusses heavy topics like lack of friends, bullying, drug use, sex, suicide, and more, based on chapter 13 of the 'Positive Discipline for Teenagers' book by Jane Nelson and Lynn Lott. I advocate for open communication, harm reduction, curiosity, and providing unconditional love and support to help adolescents navigate these challenges. Can't wait to hear what you think - Find more show notes and info about our sponsors at https://www.besproutable.com/podcasts/eps-579-positive-discipline-for-teens-part-6-handling-scary-behaviors/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ever found yourself repeating the same instruction fifteen times, feeling like your words have become the Charlie Brown "wah-wah" sound to your children's ears? You're not alone in this frustrating cycle.Ready to stop wasting breath on endless reminders?  Today's empowering episode will uncover the 3 fundamental reasons children don't listen and provides transformative solutions that create immediate results.  These evidence-based approaches create sustainable changes that honor both parent and child needs. Try them this week and experience the difference between suffering in circles and parenting with purpose. The sweet spot of effective parenting lives at the intersection of kindness and firmness – not in harsh discipline or permissiveness. These practical techniques create this balance, resulting in children who listen more effectively while maintaining their sense of autonomy and respect. Parents report "jaw-dropping" results when implementing these strategies, transforming morning routines and bedtime battles into smoother, more peaceful experiences.Want personalized support for your unique family challenges? Reach out for a free clarity call through the link in this episode's description. And if you've found value here, please take a moment to leave a five-star review sharing what this episode meant to you!✨Want more?1) Use this link for a FREE 20 min clarity call with Sustainable Parenting.2) Download the FREE pdf. on getting kids to listen.3) Buy a 3 session Coaching Bundle (saving you $100) - for THREE 30-min sessions 1:1 with ME, where we get right to the heart of your challenges, and give you small, powerful shifts that make a huge difference fast.

“Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?” Matthew 7:3-5    "Every useless help is an obstacle to the child's development." Maria Montessori    Submit a Podcast Listener Question HERE!    Pilar joins us back on the podcast to explore way that adults unintentionally can become obstacles in a child's development, what this does to a child, and how we can avoid offering useless help.   Pilar Bewley is an AMI-certified guide for Primary and Elementary levels and a Positive Discipline facilitator. After spending over a decade teaching in Montessori classrooms, Pilar began homeschooling her children in 2019.  Her passion for making Montessori education accessible inspired her to create Mainly Montessori, where she mentors parents who choose to homeschool using Montessori principles. Connect with Pilar on Instagram at @mainly.montessori.homeschool or visit her website at www.mainlymontessori.com.    Episodes to help you further explore Freedom and Discipline:  Episode 30 – Freedom and Discipline with Claire Paglia  Episode 133 – Freedom and Responsibility with Sr Mary Teresita  Episode 134 – Freedom and Responsibility for the First Plane Child  Episode 135 – Freedom and Responsibility for the Second Plane Child  Episode 139 – What to Try When it Seems to be Failing? With Cathy Johanni  Episode 141 – Normalization with Claire Paglia and Sr Maria Teresita      Purchase the book Discovery of the Child to learn more.       BECOME AN ORGANIZATION MEMBER!  Organization Members are any entity (church/parish, school, regional group, diocese, etc.) that either offers CGS and/or supports those who serve the children as catechists, aides, or formation leaders) Organization Members also receive the following each month:  Bulletin Items - 4 bulletin articles for each month. We have a library of 4 years of bulletin items available on the CGSUSA Website.  Catechist In-Services to download TODAY and offer your catechists. We have six in-services available on the website.  Assistant Formation - prayer service, agenda, talking points, and handouts.  Seed Planting Workshop - prayer service, agenda, and talking points.  Family Events: downloadable, 1/2 day events for Advent, Christmas/Epiphany, and Lent.  Catechist Prayers and prayer services  and so much more!  Click Here to create your Organizational Membership!      AUDIOBOOK:    Audiobook – Now Available on Audible  CGSUSA is excited to offer you the audio version of The Religious Potential of the Child – 3rd Edition by Sofia Cavalletti, read by Rebekah Rojcewicz!  The Religious Potential of the Child is not a “how-to” book, complete with lesson plans and material ideas. Instead it offers a glimpse into the religious life of the atrium, a specially prepared place for children to live out their silent request: “Help me come closer to God by myself.” Here we can see the child's spiritual capabilities and perhaps even find in our own souls the child long burdened with religious information. This book serves as a companion to the second volume, The Religious Potential of the Child 6 to 12 Years Old. The desire to have this essential text available in audio has been a long-held goal for many. The work of many hands has combined to bring this release to life as an audiobook.    Find out more about CGS:       Learn more about the Catechesis of the Good Shepherd     Follow us on Social Media-  Facebook at “The United States Association of the Catechesis of the Good Shepherd”  Instagram-  cgsusa  Twitter- @cgsusa  Pinterest- Natl Assoc of Catechesis of the Good Shepherd USA  YouTube- catechesisofthegoodshepherd 

Happy 5th Anniversary of Failing Motherhood!Welcome to the LAST episode, #200.If there's one thing I will be known for, let it be this mindset shift. And in this episode, I don't just explain it, but I share a clip from a coaching call where we apply it in real time to a common frustration.IN THIS EPISODE I SHARED:How to recognize when you're having "first thoughts"Creative ways to problem solve struggles with cleaning up their own thingsHow to take your power back + no longer feel like the victimDON'T MISS:What I'm going to be working on in the future!// YOUR NEXT STEPS //#1 - Leave a review in Apple podcasts if you have grown as a parent while listening and share it with a friend to help us celebrate!#2 - Stay connected through email newsletters by registering for any of these FREE downloads- PDF Guide for MORE Patience: www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/patiencePDF Guide on Managing BIG Emotions: www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/emotionsMasterclass on the Kind + Firm Approach your Strong-willed child needs: www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/confident// MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE //GAME CHANGER: Free Live Class on Tuesday, May 29th - register here: https://www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/game-changer// CONNECT WITH DANIELLE //Website: parentingwholeheartedly.comIG: @parent_wholeheartedlyAPPLY: parentingwholeheartedly.com/applySend us Fan Mail over Text.Support the showSTART HERE:CALM + CONFIDENT: THE MASTERCLASS Master the KIND + FIRM Approach your Strong-Willed Child Needs WITHOUT Crushing their Spirit OR Walking on Eggshells *FREE* - www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/confident

This episode is a dive deep into the concept of mistaken goals in parenting teens, exploring how our kids' challenging behaviors are often rooted in unmet needs like attention, power, revenge, assumed inadequacy, and excitement-seeking. I break down each mistaken goal, sharing how parents can recognize the hidden messages behind their teen's actions and respond with empathy, connection, and positive discipline. If you're struggling with power struggles, risky behavior, or feeling disconnected, this series is for you. Listen now to gain practical strategies and fresh insights that will transform your relationship with your teen. For more information and show notes, go to: https://www.besproutable.com/podcasts/eps-574-positive-discipline-for-teens-part-5-why-do-they-act-like-that/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Become an amazing parent!  Start here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop In this episode, I tackle those frustrating parent-child standoffs when your child flatly refuses to do something you've asked. As your anger rises and anxiety builds, how you handle this pivotal moment matters deeply. I'll guide you through 3 proven steps to navigate these daily confrontations without resorting to yelling, harsh punishments, or the ineffective "because I said so." These strategies, which I teach in my parent coaching program, will transform how you handle resistance and help you confidently overcome these challenging moments using positive parenting techniques that actually work. New to my podcast?  If you want to take the stress, frustration, and overwhelm out of parenting by learning how to promote better behavior in your child, you're in the right place.  I'm a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I share the psychology-based strategies that I use to parent with intention and confidence. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional.

Unlock your parenting potential! Start here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop In this episode, I tackle that critical moment when your child tests boundaries and consequences hang in the balance. Your next move - whether to follow through, back down, or ignore what happened - fundamentally shapes your parent-child relationship. I'll reveal the most common mistake parents make with consequences and how to avoid it completely. While setting boundaries is essential for raising well-adjusted children, many parents feel uncomfortable using consequences with their kids. The good news? When done correctly, consequences become a supportive teaching tool that transforms discipline into an opportunity for growth - the hallmark of truly amazing parenting. New to my podcast?  If you want to take the stress, frustration, and overwhelm out of parenting by learning how to promote better behavior in your child, you're in the right place.  I'm a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I share the psychology-based strategies that I use to parent with intention and confidence. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional.

Ever feel so stuck in frustration and Annoyance - in parenting? Today I will be giving you 1 key tool that I believe is the secret to decreasing frustration (even if your kids don't change)!Key topics we will cover include:• Children's behavior isn't a sign of parental failure. It's a normal part of development• "A child's job is to test rules and boundaries to see what happens when they do"• Lowering expectations doesn't mean abandoning standards for respectful behaviorJoin our lunch and learn workshops held monthly on Wednesdays at noon. Find information at sustainableparenting.com/workshop-4✨Want more?1) Use this link for a FREE 20 min clarity call with Sustainable Parenting.2) Download the FREE pdf. on getting kids to listen.3) Buy a 3 session Coaching Bundle (saving you $100) - for THREE 30-min sessions 1:1 with ME, where we get right to the heart of your challenges, and give you small, powerful shifts that make a huge difference fast.

Transform your parenting experience in 3 months or less - guaranteed! Start here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop Wondering if your parenting approach is setting your child up for success? This video breaks down the 4 main parenting styles backed by decades of psychology research and reveals their long-term impacts on children's development. As a mother of 4, I've navigated the same uncertainties you face daily. Discover which parenting style leads to the healthiest adult outcomes and learn simple adjustments you can make today that will significantly benefit your child's future. Understanding these research-backed styles has given me confidence in my parenting decisions—and it can do the same for you. New to my podcast?  If you want to take the stress, frustration, and overwhelm out of parenting by learning how to promote better behavior in your child, you're in the right place.  I'm a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I share the psychology-based strategies that I use to parent with intention and confidence. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional.

Have you ever wished you had more purpose in your daily family time?  Maybe you are tired of battling with your kids over WHY you set the boundaries you set.  And maybe you are finally ready to focus on the long-term character qualities you want your kids to have when they are 25.Today we explore how creating a family mission statement provides direction for making parenting decisions and helps articulate values that guide your family. This approach transforms difficult conversations with children by referencing shared values rather than arbitrary rules.By the time you finish listening, you will know:• Why a Mission Statement for your Family is valuable, and can decrease daily arguments. • How to use your mission statement as a reference point during difficult discussions about privileges or behavior.• Consider resources like "Choose Intentionally" character cards to help discuss values with children.: https://chooseintentionally.com/collections/all/products/copy-of-family-intention-kit-1If you enjoyed this episode, remember to subscribe, leave us a review and share it with others that you think would benefit from sustainable parenting. And if you've been wanting to dive in deeper, you can always make a clarity call with me via the link below.✨Want more?1) Use this link for a FREE 20 min clarity call with Sustainable Parenting.2) Download the FREE pdf. on getting kids to listen.3) Buy a 3 session Coaching Bundle (saving you $100) - for THREE 30-min sessions 1:1 with ME, where we get right to the heart of your challenges, and give you small, powerful shifts that make a huge difference fast.

In this episode of the Joyful Courage Podcast, I dive into chapters 10 and 11 of Positive Discipline for Teenagers by Jane Nelsen and Lynn Lott. I explore what the chapters share about building strong relationships with teens, prioritizing life skills over punishment, and creating supportive structures. I also share practical strategies for managing teen tech use while balancing connection and boundaries. Tune in for empowering parenting tips that support positive discipline and intentional adolescent growth. For more info and show notes, go to: https://www.besproutable.com/podcasts/eps-570-positive-discipline-for-teens-part-4-life-skills-and-navigating-screens/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Become an amazing parent today!  Start here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop What if speaking sweetly to your child could build—or break—their trust in you? Research shows children without secure attachments often develop adult relationship issues. But parents worry: can I speak warmly AND maintain boundaries? In this video, I'll share exactly how to communicate with kindness while still raising respectful, well-behaved children. You'll get practical examples for speaking sweetly without being a pushover, plus understand the concerning impacts of harsh communication on your child's development. Learn the balance that creates both connection AND respect! New to my podcast?  If you want to take the stress, frustration, and overwhelm out of parenting by learning how to promote better behavior in your child, you're in the right place.  I'm a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I share the psychology-based strategies that I use to parent with intention and confidence. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional.

Mother's Day is the perfect time to address the overwhelming stress and guilt many moms experience when they feel like they're barely treading water in the repetitive cycle of parenting tasks. Let's stop believing the lie that you're somehow doing motherhood worse than everyone else and talk about practical tools to release guilt and reduce stress in the process.By the time you finish listening, you will learn:• The problem centers around one word: "should" - which adds weight and pressure to everything we do.• How to give yourself back your power and agency.• Ways to see guilt like an option on a sushi conveyor belt - we can observe it without selecting it.• How to replace "but" with "and" in our self-talk, to eliminate the guilt cycle.• The importance of deciding what truly matters to YOU, not what social media suggests.• Permission to make personal choices about what's worth your energy and what isn'tJoin us next episode where we'll tackle how to make a family mission statement to create more teamwork and cooperation in your family. Be sure to subscribe and leave a review so we can hear from you.✨Want more?1) Use this link for a FREE 20 min clarity call with Sustainable Parenting.2) Download the FREE pdf. on getting kids to listen.3) Buy a 3 session Coaching Bundle (saving you $100) - for THREE 30-min sessions 1:1 with ME, where we get right to the heart of your challenges, and give you small, powerful shifts that make a huge difference fast.

In Episode 568, I dive into Part 3 of Positive Discipline for Teens, exploring family meetings, special time, and the difference between empowering and enabling teens. I share real stories, powerful parenting shifts, and practical strategies to build connection, trust, and resilience. If you're ready to stay curious when furious comes first, nurture independence, and create a thriving family dynamic, this episode is a must-listen! Tune in and grow alongside your teen! For more show notes go to: ⁠https://www.besproutable.com/podcasts/eps-568-positive-discipline-for-teens-part-3-centering-encouragement/ ⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Are you tired of your kids fighting with each other constantly?And do you find it especially frustrating because having your kids be friends is one of your TOP parenting goals?Friend, in today's episode we will give you new tools and perspectives to have more calm in your home and: • Avoid being the constant judge & jury of sibling fights.• Empower kids to express feelings and solve problems with one another.• Create a tangible tools for conflict resolution.• Build healthy relationships between your children.If you haven't yet, be sure to subscribe so you don't miss future episodes helping you parent in ways that are kind and firm at the same time. You can also leave feedback by going to the bottom of the episode descriptors, clicking on the fifth star, and leaving a comment.✨Want more?1) Use this link for a FREE 20 min clarity call with Sustainable Parenting.2) Download the FREE pdf. on getting kids to listen.3) Buy a 3 session Coaching Bundle (saving you $100) - for THREE 30-min sessions 1:1 with ME, where we get right to the heart of your challenges, and give you small, powerful shifts that make a huge difference fast.

I hope you'll tune in this week as I highlight chapters 4, 5, and 6 of Positive Discipline for Teens by Jane Nelsen and Lynn Lott. These chapters dig into powerful mindset shifts around mistakes, motivation, and communication—areas where so many of us Gen X parents were shaped differently. When stress hits, it's easy to default to what we know. But there's a different way. Let's explore how connection, curiosity, and emotional growth can transform how we show up for our teens. Find the full show notes here: https://www.besproutable.com/podcasts/podcasts/eps-566-positive-discipline-for-teens-part-two-the-mindset-shift/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Are you tired of fighting with your partner because they are too strict, and they call you too soft?  This is the episode for you! Today we explore how to stop fighting with your spouse about parenting by focusing on the equilibrium between kindness and firmness. When one partner shifts toward a more balanced approach, the other naturally follows, creating healthier family dynamics and more effective parenting strategies.We will cover: • Finding middle ground between overly kind and overly firm parenting styles.• The counter-intuitive truth: changing yourself is the key to changing your partner.• Understanding the natural parenting equilibrium that pulls couples in opposite directions.• Implementing the "Two Lists" exercise from Positive Discipline to align on challenges and long-term character goals.Join me next week when I'll be discussing the "Five F-words of sibling fights!"✨Want more?1) Use this link for a FREE 20 min clarity call with Sustainable Parenting.2) Download the FREE pdf. on getting kids to listen.3) Buy a 3 session Coaching Bundle (saving you $100) - for THREE 30-min sessions 1:1 with ME, where we get right to the heart of your challenges, and give you small, powerful shifts that make a huge difference fast.

In this episode, I'm sharing my thoughts and insights on the first three chapters of Positive Discipline for Teens by Dr. Jane Nelsen and Lynn Lott. We are focusing on the transition into adolescence - It's not about rebellion or bad behavior; it's brain development, identity, and change. I'll share real stories and insights to help you recognize the signs and feel more confident parenting your teen. If you're wondering, “Is my child becoming a teen?”—this episode is for you. Tune in and feel more connected, informed, and supported. Find more show notes and info about sponsors at: https://www.besproutable.com/podcasts/eps-564-positive-discipline-for-teens-part-one-transitioning-into-adolescence/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop Learn how to transform your child's demanding behavior into positive leadership skills using the proven 5 C's parenting framework. These evidence-based strategies will help you respond effectively while nurturing your child's natural assertiveness in a healthy way. New to my podcast?  If you want to take the stress, frustration, and overwhelm out of parenting by learning how to promote better behavior in your child, you're in the right place.  I'm a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I share the psychology-based strategies that I use to parent with intention and confidence. I help parents move from feeling exhausted and at wit's end, losing their cool, yelling, and wishing parenting was easier, to feeling calm and confident, effectively managing any challenging parenting situation, and actually enjoying time spent with their kids. The practical positive discipline tools I teach based on my 5 C's parenting framework can get you there. ------------------------------------------- Let's connect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlindsayemmerson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlindsayemmerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/@drlindsayemmerson ------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: The advice provided on my channel is different from therapy and does not substitute for professional psychological treatment or other types of professional advice or intervention.  Never disregard the advice of a medical professional or postpone seeking professional medical advice related to anything you hear on this channel.   If you or your child have concerns or need further parenting or personal support, please contact a physician or other qualified local health professional.

Do you hate when your kids don't seem to “get it”?   Like when you have clearly explained why they should be more kind, or shown them how to share, or tried to talk them down from the upset…all to have it get you nowhere?  Today, I'm gonna unpack why this common error I call "parenting from the neck up" just doesn't land.  And the good news is … you will get so much more cooperation and change in behavior when you have an alternative to this error.  Let's dive in and clarify:• What actually helps, when children are resistant, emotional, or defiant (RED), and their brains are not logical.• Why it's important to stop arguing the "lyrics" (content), and listen to the "music" (feelings). • How to use emotional attunement for better results. Also- I'm sharing a personal example of when I was reeeeeealy parenting from the neck up and super frustrated.   If I can turn it around- friends, you can too! And join me next week for how to end battles with your partner, over parenting.✨Want more?1) Use this link for a FREE 20 min clarity call with Sustainable Parenting.2) Download the FREE pdf. on getting kids to listen.3) Buy a 3 session Coaching Bundle (saving you $100) - for THREE 30-min sessions 1:1 with ME, where we get right to the heart of your challenges, and give you small, powerful shifts that make a huge difference fast.

As parents, we must stay engaged in our teens' world—especially when it comes to online influences. In this episode, I dive into the powerful Netflix series Adolescence, exploring themes of teen isolation, cyberbullying, and the dangerous pull of toxic masculinity. We'll discuss how to help our boys navigate these challenges with curiosity, open conversations, and Positive Discipline. Join me as we unpack the "manosphere" and its impact while offering tools to foster emotional intelligence and resilience in our sons. Let's raise thoughtful, empathetic young men—together. Tune in now! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Hey parents—this episode is a must-listen. I share a powerful conversation that reminded me of the real work of parenting teens: not making it worse. Our kids are going through huge growth, and we often react to just the "tip of the iceberg." I unpack what's really going on underneath, how to handle big mistakes with kindness and firmness, and how to stay connected without falling into control or fear. It's messy, real, and full of tools to support you. Let's navigate this ride together. Find more show notes and information about our offers and sponsors at https://www.besproutable.com/podcasts/eps-559-the-tension-of-positive-discipline-and-our-teens-risky-behaviors/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Rage is rarely discussed in parenting circles, yet many mothers experience moments of intense anger toward their children that leave them feeling guilty, confused, and deeply ashamed. As a licensed therapist and parent who's navigated these turbulent emotions firsthand, I'm pulling back the curtain on this taboo topic with complete honesty.During this raw conversation, I share my personal experiences with mom rage, including moments I'm not proud of and the violent thoughts that shocked me as a typically gentle person. The paradox is striking: I've never felt more anger toward anyone than my own children, yet simultaneously have never felt more profound love for any human beings. This contradiction lies at the heart of the parenting journey for many of us.The breakthrough moment came with one simple realization: unmet needs fuel our rage. When we're chronically sleep-deprived, nutritionally depleted, lacking adult connection, and missing a sense of accomplishment, our capacity for patience evaporates. Rather than suggesting unrealistic self-care solutions, I offer two practical approaches that transformed my experience: self-compassion and boundary-setting. Learning to drop the "shoulds" from my internal dialogue and creating a personal mantra—"All I can do is all I can do and that is enough"—became oxygen to my overwhelmed mind. Similarly, establishing healthy boundaries around what I could realistically give to my children prevented the resentment that fueled my anger.Whether you've experienced fleeting moments of rage or struggle with ongoing anger toward your children, this episode provides a judgment-free space to understand these emotions and practical tools to manage them. If you've found value in these insights, please take a moment to rate, comment, and subscribe to the Sustainable Parenting Podcast so you don't miss our upcoming discussion on "self-care bulldozing."✨Want more?1) Use this link for a FREE 20 min clarity call with Sustainable Parenting.2) Download the FREE pdf. on getting kids to listen.3) Buy a 3 session Coaching Bundle (saving you $100) - for THREE 30-min sessions 1:1 with ME, where we get right to the heart of your challenges, and give you small, powerful shifts that make a huge difference fast.

Raising teens is messy—and that's okay! In this episode, I dive into the book Positive Discipline for Teenagers by Jane Nelsen, sharing how you can stay connected, set boundaries, and foster independence during these challenging years. I talk about how brain development, social-emotional growth, and individuation shape your teen's behavior—and why nurturing a strong relationship is key. Whether you're new to Positive Discipline or just need a refresher, tune in for insights, real-life stories, and practical tips to support your teen's journey. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Help! New baby coming and I don't know how to prepare my older child!In this episode, Hannah and Kelty from Right From the Start join me to talk about how to support older siblings when a new baby is introduced. This includes giving kids information and showing them how their lives will change once a new baby comes home. Hannah & Kelty are twins, coaches and speakers behind the parenting movement Upbringing. Certified in Simplicity Parenting, Positive Discipline and trained in Nonviolent Communication and Foundations of the respectful parenting approach, RIE (“rye”), Upbringing empowers parents in over 100 countries to show up + grow up alongside their kids when it comes to daily discipline. Check out their Right From the Start Course For New + Expecting Parents, designed to help you focus on what's important so you and your babySubscribe to the Core4 Connector weekly newsletter to get more tips, tricks and strategies to help you win the toddler years! Sign up ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠!⁠⁠March 20, 2025Episode 230How to Prepare and Support Siblings for a New Baby with Hannah and Kelty from Right From the StartAbout Your Host:Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed is mom to three girls, a Vermont based Early Childhood Educator and the founder of Core4Parenting. She is the passionate mastermind behind the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™, a birth-to-five, soul and science based framework that empowers toddler parents and educators  to turn tantrums into teachable moments. Through keynotes, teacher training, and her top-ranking podcast, Transforming the Toddler Years, she's teaching the 5 Executive Functioning Skills kids need to navigate our ever-changing world.Ready to raise world-ready kids who change the world? Visit⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.caratyrrell.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠to begin your Collaborative Parenting journey!

 Hoping for a Calm and Fun Spring Break? In this episode, I'm sharing my top three strategies for family vacation success that work even when you're stressed, sick, or tired.By the time you finish listening, you'll know:Two easy games that can make car rides more fun for everyone Simple ways to talk with your kids about what to expect at busy places like theme parks or water parks Gentle tips for keeping bedtime routines familiar, even when you're away from home ✨ "Would You Rather" Game✨ SP Curated List of Helpful Items to Purchase ✨Want more?1) Use this link for a FREE 20 min clarity call with Sustainable Parenting.2) Download the FREE pdf. on getting kids to listen.3) Buy a 3 session Coaching Bundle (saving you $100) - for THREE 30-min sessions 1:1 with ME, where we get right to the heart of your challenges, and give you small, powerful shifts that make a huge difference fast.

My guest today is Julietta Skoog, my co-founder and the Early Years Lead here at Sproutable. We're talking about perfectionism and pressure on high achieving middle schoolers. Julietta and I discuss high achieving kids and the connection between extracurriculars and academics. We compare overachieving and being an efficient student and how much pressure some middle schoolers are under. Julietta shares about growth mindset and the antidote for perfectionism. We wrap up chatting about our modeling and “living out loud.”  Takeaways from the show High achieving middle school students We can't always help our kids tune out distractions or pressure, but we can help our kids reframe  Extracurriculars and academics  Being an efficient student versus being an overachieving student  The high pressure (and even burn out) on middle schoolers  The fear of “what if I never figure it out?”  Reconciling parental expectations with school expectations and what their own expectations are for themselves  Studying for a test versus studying to learn & retain knowledge  Things can still be hard and uncomfortable even when we're using our Positive Discipline parenting tools and doing it “right” - sometimes we just have to sit with the discomfort and the challenge  The importance of a growth mindset  “The antidote for perfectionism is I love you no matter what” When kids stop trying because of pressure from perfectionism  Modeling and “living out loud” For more show notes, including transcripts, visit our website here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Busy family life can feel like a juggling act, but tools exist to simplify and organize it all. Jessica Etting, co-founder of Jam (https://www.jamfamilycalendar.com/) shares how her app helps families manage schedules and responsibilities smoothly.By the time you finish listening, you'll know: • How your family can have less stress with a centralized family communication tool. • Features of Jam and how it aids in organization.  If you're ready to streamline your family life, find Jessica's app at https://www.jamfamilycalendar.com/ and use the code “Jam 20” for a special discount! ✨Want more?1) Use this link for a FREE 20 min clarity call with Sustainable Parenting.2) Download the FREE pdf. on getting kids to listen.3) Buy a 3 session Coaching Bundle (saving you $100) - for THREE 30-min sessions 1:1 with ME, where we get right to the heart of your challenges, and give you small, powerful shifts that make a huge difference fast.

Traditional discipline isn't working—so what should we do instead? In this episode, Joshua Stamper, educator and co-author of The Language of Behavior, shares how he transformed school discipline by replacing punishment with relationship-driven strategies.

“God did not give us a spirit of cowardice, but rather a spirit of power and of love and of self-discipline. II Timothy 1:7    Submit a Podcast Listener Question HERE!    Today we continue season 5 of the podcast with our series on Freedom and Responsibility.  Pilar and Anna help us dive into what freedom and responsibility look like for the second plane child, the 6 to 12 year old and how our work specifically in CGS can aid a child's development in freedom and responsibility.   Pilar Bewley is an AMI-certified guide for Primary and Elementary levels and a Positive Discipline facilitator. After spending over a decade teaching in Montessori classrooms, Pilar began homeschooling her children in 2019.  Her passion for making Montessori education accessible inspired her to create Mainly Montessori, where she mentors parents who choose to homeschool using Montessori principles. Connect with Pilar on Instagram at @mainly.montessori.homeschool or visit her website at www.mainlymontessori.com.    Anna Hurdle is a catechist and formation leader at levels I, II and III. She is a retired elementary Montessori guide and coordinator of CGS at her parish in Charlotte, NC. Anna serves the National Association through the Episcopal Committee and the Formation Advisory Council.      Books you may be interested in:    Nurturing the Whole Child by Gianna Gobbi    Positive Discipline in the Montessori Classroom  The Discovery of the Child    Carolyn Kohlhaas's blog The Wanderings of Sheep in the Atrium:  Freedom and Limits Series:  Freedom within Limits  "Can" and "May"  Belonging  Staying on the Path  The Collective Interest  A Place of Work  Additional Limits  True Freedom    Podcast Episodes you might be interested in:  Episode 30 – Freedom and Discipline with Claire Paglia  Episode 41 – The Elementary Aged Child with Anna Hurdle  Episode 49 – Four Planes of Development with Claire Paglia  Episode 115 – CGS in the Episcopal Church with Anna Hurdle and Donna Turner  Episode 122- Welcoming the Level 2 and 3 Child with Lynne Worthington and Anna Hurdle  Episode 123- Welcoming the Level 2 and 3 Child PART TWO with Lynne Worthinton and Anna Hurdle  Episode 124- The Work of the Second Plane Child with Cathy Johanni and Anna Hurdle    BECOME AN ORGANIZATION MEMBER!  Organization Members are any entity (church/parish, school, regional group, diocese, etc.) that either offers CGS and/or supports those who serve the children as catechists, aides, or formation leaders) Organization Members also receive the following each month:  Bulletin Items - 4 bulletin articles for each month. We have a library of 4 years of bulletin items available on the CGSUSA Website.  Catechist In-Services to download TODAY and offer your catechists. We have six in-services available on the website.  Assistant Formation - prayer service, agenda, talking points, and handouts.  Seed Planting Workshop - prayer service, agenda, and talking points.  Family Events: downloadable, 1/2 day events for Advent, Christmas/Epiphany, and Lent.  Catechist Prayers and prayer services  and so much more!  Click Here to create your Organizational Membership!      AUDIOBOOK:    Audiobook – Now Available on Audible  CGSUSA is excited to offer you the audio version of The Religious Potential of the Child – 3rd Edition by Sofia Cavalletti, read by Rebekah Rojcewicz!  The Religious Potential of the Child is not a “how-to” book, complete with lesson plans and material ideas. Instead it offers a glimpse into the religious life of the atrium, a specially prepared place for children to live out their silent request: “Help me come closer to God by myself.” Here we can see the child's spiritual capabilities and perhaps even find in our own souls the child long burdened with religious information. This book serves as a companion to the second volume, The Religious Potential of the Child 6 to 12 Years Old. The desire to have this essential text available in audio has been a long-held goal for many. The work of many hands has combined to bring this release to life as an audiobook.    Find out more about CGS:       Learn more about the Catechesis of the Good Shepherd     Follow us on Social Media-  Facebook at “The United States Association of the Catechesis of the Good Shepherd”  Instagram-  cgsusa  Twitter- @cgsusa  Pinterest- Natl Assoc of Catechesis of the Good Shepherd USA  YouTube- catechesisofthegoodshepherd 

In this episode, we explore the roots of childhood disrespect and the transformative strategies that can cultivate cooperation and connection between parents and children. By shifting focus from reactions to understanding underlying emotions, parents can address issues with more empathy and effectiveness. 

Ever find yourself unsure of what to do when your toddler's curiosity turns into mischief at home?In this episode, I share simple ideas for staying calm and connected when your little one's adventures lead to messes or unexpected surprises—like unrolling all the toilet paper or climbing on furniture.By the time you finish listening, you'll learn:• The importance of close supervision for kids under six• Practical strategies for positive engagement• Motivations behind attention-seeking mischief• Methods for creating clear boundaries with empathy• Tips for navigating chaotic gatherings with grace• Proactive approaches to fostering sustainable parentingTogether, we'll explore why toddlers love to test and explore their world—and how we can guide them in ways that feel kind and respectful.✨Want more?1) Use this link for a FREE 20 min clarity call with Sustainable Parenting.2) Download the FREE pdf. on getting kids to listen.3) Buy a 3 session Coaching Bundle (saving you $100) - for THREE 30-min sessions 1:1 with ME, where we get right to the heart of your challenges, and give you small, powerful shifts that make a huge difference fast.

In this episode of The Complicated Kids Podcast, I welcome Julianne Reilly, a clinical social worker with deep expertise in working with parents, educators, and children. Together, we chat about the concept of Positive Discipline, a framework rooted in Adlerian psychology. Julianne shares how it emphasizes belonging, significance, and mutual respect while equipping parents to navigate challenges with kindness and firmness. Our conversation touches on real-life parenting moments—tantrums, meltdowns, and setting boundaries—and explores the internal work parents must do to model respect and connection. We unpack why managing unpleasant emotions is key for both children and adults, and how parents can shift their perspectives to foster growth and resilience in their families.  To find out more about Julianne, visit her website at www.juliannereilly.com. About your host, Gabriele Nicolet Join Gabriele Nicolet, podcast host, parenting life coach and speech therapist, weekly for practical strategies and tips on raising complicated kids. Learn how to go from surviving to thriving and create a family culture in which every family member can feel valued, seen and heard. With a practical, relationship-based, family-friendly approach, Gabriele provides tools and insights parents need to create a more balanced and fun family life.If you've been listening and wondering what next steps to take to help your child, I am here for you. Maybe you're wondering whether your kiddo needs a speech and language evaluation, or occupational therapy, or some behavioral intervention to deal with picky eating, anger, meltdowns, hitting and biting. With over 20 years of experience, my knowledge of child development and the available options goes deep. Maybe you just want some practical tips on how to get through the day and feel like a better parent. We can unpack that too. Sound good? Learn more at www.gabrielenicolet.com. Complicated Kids Resources and Links:

Are you tired of seeing your child struggle with making good choices?  Do you wish you could help them develop the skills they need to make smart decisions in the future?  In this episode, Dr. Lindsay explores practical strategies and techniques to help your child make informed choices and develop a strong sense of self-confidence.  From weighing pros and cons and knowing right from wrong, we'll cover it all.  By the end of this episode, you'll be equipped with the knowledge and tools you need to support your child in making smart choices that will benefit them for years to come.  So, if you're ready to help your child thrive, keep watching!

In this heartful episode of the Heartful Parent Podcast, I'm hoping to help you start off 2025 right by sharing the power of positive discipline, the support coaching can provide, and the incredible community within the Heartful Parent Academy.  I have the privilege to be joined by three amazing moms—Nicole, Kate, & Ali—who open up about their personal parenting journeys. They share the ups and downs, the lessons learned, and how one-on-one coaching and support through the Heartful Parent Academy have helped them embrace a more connected, intentional approach to parenting. I am honored to have walked alongside these awesome women on their parenting journey, and this conversation honestly feels like a chat among friends as these moms talk about the real-life impact of positive discipline, the importance of self-care, and how the Heartful Parent Academy's community has been a source of strength and inspiration.  In this episode, you'll find practical tips, encouragement, and reminders that no matter your situation, you do not have to parent alone.  Reach out. I would love to hear from you, christy@theheartfulparent.com Resources: theheartfulparent.com Get Academy support (Now through February 4, get 20% off our VIP option!): theheartfulparent.thrivecart.com/vipsale Set up a FREE coaching discovery call with Christy: heartfulsavvy.as.me/Discovery Follow Christy @theheartfulparent | Join the Heartful Parent Academy with code PODCAST

If all your weekend plans seem held hostage by your strong-willed child's mood, you're not alone.In this episode, I name the extra challenges you face on the weekend and specific strategies to tackle them for good, unlocking actual freedom and possibilities to be spontaneous or just enjoy each other and relax! IN THIS EPISODE I SHARED:Why what we think we want isn't what we actually wantTwo goals to go into every weekend withHow to stop power struggles before they startDON'T MISS:Powerful realizations a client shared that transformed her mindset // CONNECT WITH DANIELLE //Website: parentingwholeheartedly.comIG: @‌parent_wholeheartedlyAPPLY: parentingwholeheartedly.com/applySend us Fan Mail over Text.Support the showSTART HERE:CALM + CONFIDENT: THE MASTERCLASS Master the KIND + FIRM Approach your Strong-Willed Child Needs WITHOUT Crushing their Spirit OR Walking on Eggshells *FREE* - www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/confident

In this special two-part milestone episode of the Heartful Parent Podcast, I'm taking a walk down memory lane with the top 10 moments from the first 100 episodes of the podcast! These clips capture the messages I try to convey with each and every episode. It is my goal to fill your parenting toolbox, have thought-provoking conversations, and most of all empower you to parent with more love, joy, and connection. And most of all, to remind you each week that we were never meant to do this alone. Whether you've been with me from the beginning or are just starting your heartful parenting journey, this is the perfect episode to reflect on the lessons we've shared and the incredible community we've built.  I hope this two-part episode helps you revisit some fan-favorite interviews and reflect on some of ‘ah-ha!' and ‘what the f**k?' moments we've had on the pod. I'm so grateful for you, each and every listener that has listened, subscribed, and shared an episode with another parent. I look forward to the next 100 episodes of supporting you on this beautiful, messy, and rewarding parenting adventure! Follow Christy @theheartfulparent | Join the Heartful Parent Academy with code PODCAST Resources:  Childhood Narcissism by Dr. Mary Ann Little Positive Discipline by Dr. Jane Nelsen   Full Episdoes:  #10 Ep 71 | Conscious Parenting with Yolanda Williams #9 Ep 26 | Strangers Aren't the Problem with Paul Renfro #8 Ep 17 | Overwhelmed & Underwater: The Mental Load with Laura Danger #7 Ep 86 | No Apology Needed: Navigating Motherhood & Career with Megan Whiteside #6 Ep 30 | Are Sleepovers Safe?  #5 Ep 65 | Parenting in the Digital Age: Navigating Screens & Connections  with Joey Odom #4 Ep 27 | Be Heartful & Mindful When Posting Pictures Online with Fareedah Shaheed #3 Ep 53 | Don't Raise a Narcissist with Dr. Mary Ann Little #2 Ep 56 | Marriage, Parenting, & Personal Growth with Jonas Keating #1 Ep 2 | Positive Discipline with Dr. Jane Nelsen  

Tired of power struggles and shouting matches in your parenting journey? You're not alone. This episode of Mom Essentials dives into real-life tools to help you keep your cool and build deep connections with your kids. My guest, Camilla Miller, shares her journey of discovering the Language of Listening approach, a game-changing method to stop yelling, foster self-esteem, and understand your child's behavior. Learn how small shifts can make a huge difference in your parenting experience! To find out more about Camilla, check out her links:  Facebook Instagram LinkedIn Upcoming Courses Join the C.A.L.M. Parenting Facebook Group Now! Essential Minute

We all dread it - the inevitable meltdown of EPIC proportions. It's survival mode, and no one is immune.In this episode, I share why I disagree with typical advice (and even Dr. Becky) on how to manage these meltdowns/outbursts, why it's OK to walk away, and what to do when you can't. IN THIS EPISODE I SHARED:An analogy to help illustrate your responsibilityWhy staying WITH your child might actually backfireHow to “leave” the room without physically leavingDON'T MISS:Mantras to adopt that speak to your nervous system // CONNECT WITH DANIELLE //Website: parentingwholeheartedly.comIG: @‌parent_wholeheartedlyAPPLY: parentingwholeheartedly.com/applySend us Fan Mail over Text.Support the showSTART HERE:CALM + CONFIDENT: THE MASTERCLASS Master the KIND + FIRM Approach your Strong-Willed Child Needs WITHOUT Crushing their Spirit OR Walking on Eggshells *FREE* - www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/confident

Listener Question: How do I convince my partner, or my child's teacher, that traditional forms of punishment don't work? Get your parenting question answered, email me christy@theheartfulparent.com Rate, review, and share! We are not meant to parent alone.  The Heartful Parent Academy is a great way to find support. Use code PODCAST to get your first month for only $7. Join HERE.

On this week's pod, I reflected on the inspiring work of Dr. Baxley and Dani Ferrigno. Their mission aligns with Sproutable's core values: fostering dignity, respect, and compassion while equipping parents with tools grounded in Positive Discipline. I also addressed a parent's concern about their discouraged teen grappling with school and existential doubts about capitalism. Teens often feel overwhelmed by systemic flaws, but this can be an opportunity to connect and explore solutions together. I encouraged parents to validate their kids' feelings, stay curious, and model engagement with societal challenges while fostering empowerment. Ultimately, parenting is messy, and there are no perfect answers. But by staying compassionate, curious, and open, we can guide our kids through challenges and learn from their fresh perspectives. You've got this! Let's keep showing up for our teens and ourselves. Find all the show notes and info about our sponsors at: https://www.besproutable.com/podcasts/eps-532-moving-through-existential-crisis-and-adolescence/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

… seems timely, right?My guest today, Dr. Tovah P. Klein, Ph.D. is the author of Raising Resilience: How to Help Our Children Thrive in Times of Uncertainty. In her role as a researcher and professor and in direct care with parents and children for over thirty years, Klein has helped to define what every child needs to thrive, regardless of their life situations.In our episode today, Dr. Tovah breaks down the 5 critical pillars that are the roots of resilience our kids need to be okay when things are not okay. She shares strategic ways to change how we react to our kids' negative emotions and how to feel much more equipped to know what to focus on. IN THIS EPISODE, WE COVERED...What Resilience is NOT and how our good intentions backfireThe 5 Critical “Roots of Resilience” we can instillThe recipe for our kids to love themselves for who they areDON'T MISS-A pep talk if your child is rigid and/or loses it when things don't go their way and you fear they're on track to be entitled, spoiled or selfish! // CONNECT WITH DR. TOVAH KLEIN //Website: TovahKlein.comUSA Today Bestselling Book, RAISING RESILIENCEInstagram- @tovahklein I believe in you + I'm cheering you on.Come say hi!  I'm @‌parent_wholeheartedly on Insta.Apply to work together: parentingwholeheartedly.com/ApplySend us Fan Mail over Text.Support the showSTART HERE:CALM + CONFIDENT: THE MASTERCLASS Master the KIND + FIRM Approach your Strong-Willed Child Needs WITHOUT Crushing their Spirit OR Walking on Eggshells *FREE* - www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/confident

Listener Question: How do we create a whole-family strategy? How do we choose and implement parenting strategies with both parents on board? Get your parenting question answered, email me christy@theheartfulparent.com Rate, review, and share! We are not meant to parent alone.  The Heartful Parent Academy is a great way to find support. Use code PODCAST to get your first month for only $7. Join HERE.

No couple goes into parenting as a perfectly united front. Every parent runs out of steam, hits a wall, and loses it from time to time. Good parents ask good questions like “How can I help my partner when things are going off the rails without stepping on their toes?”Before you hop in the car and start parenting extra challenging behaviors in front of extended family this holiday season, have this important conversation with your partner to set you both up for much more success. IN THIS EPISODE I SHARED:The ONE question to ask your partnerWhy you're actually not failing, and what failing really looks likePractical strategies to inspire you to put a new plan in placeDON'T MISS:A better story to tell yourself that gives you permission to tag in/out in the first place // MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE //Other recommended Failing Motherhood episodes:Ep. 53 from 11/23/21 - Parenting Around FamilyEp. 61 from 3/8/22 - How to Get on the Same PageEp. 123 from 9/26/23 - Good Cop/ Bad Cop: The Broken Record RelationshipEp. 129 from 11/7/23 - Best BOOKS for Strong-Willed KidsEp. 131 from 11/21/23 - Best GIFTS for Strong-Willed Kids (unconventional, practical and long-lasting ideas that are still fun to open!)Ep. 133 from 12/5/23 - Boundaries with Parents with Jamie Cooper // CONNECT WITH DANIELLE //Website: parentingwholeheartedly.comIG: @‌parent_wholeheartedlyAPPLY: parentingwholeheartedly.com/applySend us Fan Mail over Text.Support the showSTART HERE:CALM + CONFIDENT: THE MASTERCLASS Master the KIND + FIRM Approach your Strong-Willed Child Needs WITHOUT Crushing their Spirit OR Walking on Eggshells *FREE* - www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/confident

Listener Question: How much should I push my child to succeed? Should I be a tiger mom? Am I doing her a disservice by being laid back and not pushing her to do more? Get your parenting question answered, email me christy@theheartfulparent.com Rate, review, and share! We are not meant to parent alone.  The Heartful Parent Academy is a great way to find support. Use code PODCAST to get your first month for only $7. Join HERE.  

I tell clients it's OK to let their kid hit, scratch and scream....and here's why.If you focus on telling your child NOT to feel their feelings in such a big way - they often just feel those feelings even MORE.  Instead - today's episode will help you understand how, when and WHERE to allow your child to express their aggression or angry feelings.  And I promise you it still fits into our philosophy here at Sustainable Parenting - which focuses on using kindness and firmness at the SAME time.As you listen in today, you will leave with:Practical tools and strategies designed to empower you to handle parenting challenges with confidence and warmth. If you're eager to make parenting more sustainable and enjoyable, my transformation program offers further support, allowing you to implement these techniques effectively and ensure your children learn independently within a loving framework.  Head over to https://sustainableparenting.com/mentor for more information or to schedule a clarity call with me. Let's take this journey together towards parenting with grace and structure, as we validate our children's emotions while maintaining healthy boundaries.✨Want more?1) Use this link for a FREE 20 min clarity call with Sustainable Parenting.2) Download the FREE pdf. on getting kids to listen

What's wrong with sharing pictures on Facebook so grandparents can see the kids?As parents in 2024, we're in uncharted waters trying to navigate our own internet use, let alone our kids'.My guest today, Sarah Adams, is an online safety advocate and expert, exploring the state of parental public oversharing, child exploitation and minor security on social media.While diving into the harsh realities of the Internet in 2024, she defines some key terms we should know, the impact of the pandemic, and whether private accounts are really private.IN THIS EPISODE, WE COVERED...Beyond the digital footprint - 5 risks to consider when sharing onlineContent she considers to be exploitative and what to do about itAlternatives ways to stay in touchHow to talk to your kids about YouTube channels you can't supportDON'T MISS-Questions to ask yourself before hitting POST// CONNECT WITH SARAH ADAMS//Website: www.kidsarenotcontent.comInstagram: @‌mom.unchartedTikTok: @‌mom.uncharted I believe in you + I'm cheering you on.Come say hi!  I'm @‌parent_wholeheartedly on Insta.Apply to work together: parentingwholeheartedly.com/ApplySend us Fan Mail over Text.Support the showSTART HERE:CALM + CONFIDENT: THE MASTERCLASS Master the KIND + FIRM Approach your Strong-Willed Child Needs WITHOUT Crushing their Spirit OR Walking on Eggshells *FREE* - www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/confident