The Cycle Breaker Podcast

In this episode of Parenting with Understanding, Marcela discusses the essential elements of teaching kindness to children. She emphasizes the importance of secure attachments, the role of mirror neurons in emotional development, and the need for parents to foster receptiveness over reactivity. By creating a fun and enjoyable environment, parents can build strong interpersonal relationships with their children, ultimately leading to the development of empathetic and kind individuals.

In this episode of Parenting with Understanding, Marcela discusses the challenges of raising kind children, emphasizing the importance of self-kindness and understanding one's own mind through the concept of mind sight. Drawing on the work of Dr. Daniel Siegel, she explains how children's behaviors are influenced by their beliefs about themselves and how parents can help them develop a positive self-perception. The episode also introduces practical tools like the Wheel of Awareness and the SIFT process to foster emotional awareness and kindness in children. If this episode helped you understand your child more deeply, you'll love Marcela's free class. In this class, you'll learn the Parenting With Understanding™ System of Needs so you can:✅ Stop yelling and respond calmly even during your child's chaos.✅ Know exactly how to say “no” and still get your child to listen.✅ Raise an emotionally healthy child who's ready for the real world.

n this episode, Marcela shares how kids can heal from hard times like yelling, divorce, or even losing a pet. She tells real stories and explains why kids act out—and what parents can do to help. If this episode helped you understand your child more deeply, you'll love Marcela's free class. In this class, you'll learn the Parenting With Understanding™ System of Needs so you can: ✅ Stop yelling and respond calmly even during your child's chaos. ✅ Know exactly how to say “no” and still get your child to listen. ✅ Raise an emotionally healthy child who's ready for the real world.

This episode helps parents understand why their child's behavior is not the real problem. Marcela shares two simple ways to help kids calm down and listen better. Want to stop angry reactions and become the calm parent your child needs? Join Marcela's free class and learn: ✅ How to stay calm when your child is having a hard time. ✅ How to get your child to listen—even when you say "no." ✅ How to raise kids who feel safe, loved, and ready to face the world. Tap here to watch the free class now

In this episode, Marcela shares how kids build emotional health, even when they cry or get upset. She explains how parents can help their child feel safe, calm, and understood during hard moments.

Marcela talks about how parents can feel calmer and happier by giving themselves what they needed as kids. She shares how this helps children behave better too.

Marcela talks about why parents lose their cool even when they know better. She shares how to stay calm and help kids listen without yelling.

Marcela explains why kids have big behaviors like hitting or yelling and what parents can do to help. She shares real stories and simple tips to stay calm and support your child when they're upset.

This episode helps parents understand why yelling and power struggles keep happening at home. Marcela explains that your child's behavior isn't the problem, and shows how to fix it so you can have more peace with your kids. Want to stop angry reactions and feel calm even when your child is upset? Sign up for Marcela's free class and learn the Parenting With Understanding™ System to help your kids listen, build a happy home, and raise confident children. Click here to join the free class now!

This episode helps parents see that their child's behavior is not the real problem. Marcela shows what kids really need and how to use kind and clear rules to help them grow.

Sometimes kids act out, but it doesn't mean they're bad. In this episode, Marcela explains what your child's behavior really means and how you can help them feel safe and understood. ✨ Free Class Invitation If you're tired of yelling and want to feel calm, confident, and close to your kids — this free class is for you. You'll learn the Parenting With Understanding System of Needs, a proven method to help you: ✅ Respond to your child's needs accurately every single time ✅ Spot a power struggle coming and calm things down before they get wild ✅ Correct any behavior for the long term, so you see less of it ✅ Become a secure parent who calmly responds instead of reacting

This episode helps parents learn how to stop yelling and fighting with their kids every day. Marcela shares real stories and shows how to help kids behave better by understanding what they need. Tired of yelling, repeating yourself, and feeling frustrated when your child doesn't listen? In this FREE class, you will learn:✅ How to stop reacting in frustration and start responding calmly.✅ The exact words to say so your child listens—without threats or punishments.✅ How to raise an emotionally healthy child who is confident and accountable.

Many parents feel like they are always putting out fires—tantrums, power struggles, and kids who just won't listen. In this episode, Marcela shares how to prevent misbehavior before it starts, so parenting feels calmer and easier. Tired of yelling, repeating yourself, and feeling frustrated when your child doesn't listen? In this FREE class, you will learn: ✅ How to stop reacting in frustration and start responding calmly. ✅ The exact words to say so your child listens—without threats or punishments. ✅ How to raise an emotionally healthy child who is confident and accountable.

Many parents want to teach their kids right from wrong, but they don't want to scare them or break their confidence. In this episode, Marcela explains the difference between discipline and punishment and shares practical ways to guide kids without fear or shame.

Some kids just can't sit still! They jump, climb, run, and crash into things all day long. In this episode, Marcela shares why these kids act this way and how parents can help them feel calm—without yelling or punishments.

Getting your child dressed, brushing their teeth, or eating breakfast shouldn't feel like a battle—but for parents of sensitive kids, it often does. In this episode, Marcela shares why picky kids struggle with daily routines and gives simple ways to make mornings, meals, and bedtime easier.

Disciplining kids can feel really hard. In this episode, Marcela shares how parents can set rules and teach their kids without yelling, punishments, or hurting their bond. Want to Stay Calm and Discipline With Love? If you find yourself snapping, yelling, or falling into old patterns, you're not alone. That's why Marcela created a FREE class to help you break free from angry reactions and discipline in a way that works—without damaging your connection. ✅ Learn the 4 steps to go from reactivity to calm responses.✅ Get kids to listen—even when you say "no."✅ Raise emotionally strong kids who feel secure and loved.

When kids get really angry, they don't always know how to calm down. In this episode, Marcela shares how parents can use their child's love language to help them feel safe, loved, and ready to talk instead of yell.

In this episode, Marcela shows how every child has a special way they want to feel loved, and when parents learn that language, the home fills with smiles and warm hugs. She explains simple steps that help kids feel safe and happy, so they listen better and share more. Join Our Free Class: Do you want to handle big conflicts calmly and help your children stay kind and confident? In our Free Class, you will learn: ✅ Overcome Angry Reactions: Stay cool when your kids fight.✅ Communicate Assertively: Guide them to listen, even with a “no.”✅ Raise Emotionally Healthy Children: Teach them to handle real life with bravery and respect. Click here to sign up

Marcela shows how to help kids fix their fights without mom or dad rushing in.She shares easy ways to teach them talking, sharing, and finding a fair plan together.Join Our Free Class: Do you want to handle big conflicts calmly and help your children stay kind and confident? In our Free Class, you will learn: ✅ Overcome Angry Reactions: Stay cool when your kids fight.✅ Communicate Assertively: Guide them to listen, even with a “no.”✅ Raise Emotionally Healthy Children: Teach them to handle real life with bravery and respect. Click here to sign up

Join Our Free Class: Want to stay calm when your kids fight and raise them to be kind and brave? In our Free Class, you will: ✅ Overcome Angry Reactions: Stay cool during big sibling fights.✅ Communicate Assertively: Guide your kids to listen, even when you say “no.”✅ Raise Emotionally Healthy Children: Teach them to handle real life with confidence and respect. Click here to sign up

Marcela shows how to help siblings like each other and fight less.She shares simple steps to make kids feel loved, share better, and enjoy time together. Join Our Free Class: Want to stop yelling and help your kids feel safe and close? In our Free Class, you will: ✅ Overcome Angry Reactions: Stay calm, even when kids argue.✅ Communicate Assertively: Guide them so they listen, even with a “no.”✅ Raise Emotionally Healthy Children: Teach them to be kind, brave, and ready for the real world. Click here to sign up

Marcela shows how to talk so kids listen the first time. She shares easy ways to stay calm and use kind words that help children follow directions. Join Our Free Class: Want to stop losing your cool and help your child feel safe and loved? In our Free Class, you will: ✅ Overcome Angry Reactions: Stay calm even during big meltdowns.✅ Communicate Assertively: Get your child to listen, even when you say “no.”✅ Raise Emotionally Healthy Children: Teach them to grow brave and kind for the real world. Click here to sign up

Marcela talks about 3 simple steps to make 2025 your easiest year as a parent.She shows how to help your child calm down, feel safe, and learn better ways to act. Join Our Free Class to Learn More: Want to stop yelling and help your child feel happy and understood? In our Free Class, you will: ✅ Overcome Angry Reactions: Stay calm even when things get wild.✅ Communicate Assertively: Help your child listen, even when you say "no."✅ Raise Emotionally Healthy Children: Teach them to be brave and kind in the real world. Click here to sign up for the Free Class

Marcela talks about a new way to become a calmer mom or dad in 2025. She shows four easy steps to stop yelling, help kids listen, and enjoy more fun at home. Join Our Free Class to Learn More: Want to stay calm and help your child feel safe? In our Free Class, you will: ✅ Overcome Angry Reactions: Find out how to keep your cool when chaos hits. ✅ Communicate Assertively: Learn to talk so your child actually listens, even when you say “no.” ✅ Raise Emotionally Healthy Children: Get the tools to help them grow strong and kind. Click here to sign up for the Free Class

In this episode, Marcela shares how to make Christmas morning more peaceful for sensitive kids. She shows simple steps to help stop tears and bring more smiles and hugs. Join Our Free Class to Transform Your Parenting! Do you want to stop yelling and help your child feel loved and safe? In our Free Class, you will: ✅ Overcome Angry Reactions: Learn our Parenting With Understanding system to stay calm during your child's chaos. ✅ Communicate Clearly: Find out how to talk so your child listens, even when you say “no.” ✅ Raise Emotionally Healthy Children: Know what is needed to help your kids grow up confident and ready for the real world. Click here to sign up for the Free Class

In this episode, Marcela shows how to fix things when you've yelled at your child and feel bad. She tells simple steps to help you and your child feel safe and loved again. Join Our Free Class: Do you want to stop angry reactions and bring peace to your home? In our Free Class, you will: ✅ Overcome Angry Reactions: Learn our Parenting With Understanding system to stay calm during your children's chaos. ✅ Communicate Clearly: Understand what to say so your kids listen, even when you say “no.” ✅ Raise Emotionally Healthy Children: Know how to help your kids grow confident and ready to face the real world. Click here to sign up for the Free Class

In this episode, Marcela shares how she's learning to be a better mom while also growing herself. She tells simple stories and gives easy tips to help other parents like you. Join Our Free Class to Transform Your Parenting! If you're feeling overwhelmed or unsure, it's okay to ask for help. That's why Marcela created a Free Class just for you. In this class, you will: ✅ Overcome Angry Reactions Learn our signature Parenting With Understanding system to stay calm when your kids are upset. ✅ Communicate Clearly Find out how to talk so your children listen to you, even when you say "no." ✅ Raise Happy, Strong Children Learn what it takes to help your kids grow up confident and responsible. Imagine This: Feeling sure about how you parent. Having a home filled with peace and understanding. Building a strong, loving relationship with your child. You and your child deserve that.

In this episode, Marcela shares three special gifts you can give your kids that money can't buy. She tells stories about her own family and how these gifts bring joy and love during the holidays. Join Our Free Class: Do you want a happier, more peaceful home? Marcela invites you to join her Free Class where you can learn the Parenting With Understanding system. In this class, you will: ✅ Overcome Angry ReactionsLearn how to stay calm when your children are upset. ✅ Communicate AssertivelyFind out how to talk so your kids listen, even when you say "no." ✅ Raise Emotionally Healthy ChildrenLearn how to help your kids grow up confident and responsible. Imagine starting the new year with a closer connection to your children.

In this episode, Marcela shares three ways to set rules without yelling at your child. She tells stories and gives easy tips to help parents guide their kids calmly. Join the Free Class: Do you want to feel more confident as a parent? Marcela invites you to join her Free Class. In this class, you will: ✅ Overcome Angry ReactionsLearn how to stay calm when your child is upset. ✅ Communicate ClearlyFind out how to talk so your child listens, even when you say "no." ✅ Raise Happy, Confident KidsLearn how to help your child grow up strong and responsible. Imagine your home filled with peace and understanding. You and your child deserve that.

Do you want to build these qualities and more? Join Marcela's Free Class where she teaches the Parenting With Understanding system to help you break free from angry reactions and raise confident children. In this class, you will: ✅ Overcome Angry ReactionsLearn how to stay calm during your children's chaos. ✅ Communicate AssertivelyUnderstand what to say so your children listen even when you say "no." ✅ Raise Emotionally Healthy ChildrenKnow how to help your kids face the world with confidence and self-accountability.

Want to Parent Without Yelling? Do you want to parent your children without yelling but find it difficult in the heated moment? I've created a Free Class just for you. In this class, you'll learn how to break free from angry reactions so you can parent your children with peace and accountability. Here's What You'll Gain: ✅ Overcome Angry Reactions Learn our signature Parenting With Understanding system to have calm responses during your children's chaos. ✅ Communicate Assertively Gain an understanding of what you need to communicate so your children listen to you, even when you give them a "no." ✅ Raise Emotionally Healthy Children Know what is needed to raise kids who can face the real world with confidence and self-accountability. Join Me You don't have to do this alone. Let's take this journey together. Click here to sign up for the free class

In this episode, Marcela shares four signs that show your child feels safe with you. She tells stories and gives simple tips to help parents build a strong bond with their children. Hello, my name is Marcela Collier, head coach of HIC Parenting Education Agency ——————————————————————————————— Do you want to break free from yelling at your kids and raise emotionally healthy children? Start Here: https://enroll.hicparenting.com/join

In this episode, Marcela shares four simple steps to help your sensitive child feel safe, even when you're feeling upset. She tells stories and gives easy tips to help you and your child feel better together. Join the Free Class: If you're ready to learn more, join Marcela's free class! In this class, you will: ✅ Learn how to stop angry reactions and stay calm during your children's tough moments. ✅ Find out how to talk so your kids listen to you, even when you say "no." ✅ Know how to help your children grow up happy and confident.

In this episode, Marcela shares 4 important lessons she learned while raising her autistic son. These lessons helped her stay calm, understand her child better, and build a stronger connection. If you want to learn how to break free from angry reactions and raise emotionally healthy children, join Marcela's free class. You'll discover how to stay calm during your child's toughest moments, communicate so they listen, and raise confident kids who are ready for the real world.

In this episode, Marcela explains why many parents feel stuck in their parenting and how to break free by focusing on connection, not control. She shares simple steps parents can use to calm down, connect with their kids, and stop the power struggles. Ready to stop reacting with anger and start raising secure, emotionally healthy children? Join Marcela's free class where you'll learn her Parenting With Understanding system. In this class, you'll discover how to: Stay calm even during your child's chaos. Communicate so they listen to you, even when you give them a “no.” Raise emotionally strong children who are confident and self-accountable.

In this episode of "Parenting With Understanding," Marcela Collier helps parents learn easy ways to help their sensitive kids with big changes like potty training and stopping pacifier use. She shares kind and smart tips that make these steps simpler and happier for kids and parents.

In this episode, Marcela reveals four hidden reasons why children may grow up feeling scared of their parents and shares practical steps to create a safer, more connected relationship. Whether you have a sensitive or neurodivergent child, you'll gain insight into breaking free from common parenting patterns. Free class to help you break free from angry reactions and find peace in your parenting journey. This class gives you the tools to create a calm and connected relationship with your child, even if they're neurodivergent or highly sensitive. CLICK HERE to access this free class

In this episode of "Parenting With Understanding," join Marcela as she coaches Maya, a mom struggling with her highly sensitive daughter's daily routine challenges. Discover practical strategies to transform resistance into cooperation by addressing sensory sensitivities, enhancing predictability, and fostering emotional regulation. CLICK HERE to access our free Class to learn the Parenting With Understanding™️ System to Break Free from reactivity, bring peace to your parenting, and raise emotionally healthy children. ✅You will learn our signature Parenting With Understanding system to overcome angry reactions and have calm responses during your children's chaos. ✅Gain an understanding of what you need to communicate assertively with your children so they listen to you even when you give them a “no.” ✅Know what is needed to raise emotionally healthy children who can face the real world with confidence and self-accountability.

Discover practical strategies to help your sensitive or neurodivergent child navigate transitions between caregivers smoothly. CLICK HERE to access our free Class to learn the Parenting With Understanding™️ System to Break Free from reactivity, bring peace to your parenting and raise emotionally healthy children. ✅You will learn our signature Parenting With Understanding system to overcome angry reactions and have calm responses during your children's chaos. ✅Gain an understanding of what you need to communicate assertively with your children so they listen to you even when you give them a “no.” ✅Know what is needed to raise emotionally healthy children who can face the real world with confidence and self-accountability.

Our latest podcast episode explores practical strategies to transform sibling rivalry into harmony. Tune in as Marcela shares insightful tips to help your children resolve conflicts and strengthen their relationships, fostering a more peaceful home environment. CLICK HERE to access our free Class to learn the Parenting With Understanding™️ System to Break Free from reactivity, bring peace to your parenting and raise emotionally healthy children. ✅You will learn our signature Parenting With Understanding system to overcome angry reactions and have calm responses during your children's chaos. ✅Gain an understanding of what you need to communicate assertively with your children so they listen to you even when you give them a “no”. ✅Know what is needed to raise emotionally healthy children who can face the real world with confidence and self-accountability.

ADHD Parenting: Secrets to Maintaining Your Cool Discover effective strategies for maintaining calm as a parent with ADHD, especially when your child is having a tough time. CLICK HERE to access our free Class to learn the Parenting With Understanding™️ System to Break Free from reactivity, bring peace to your parenting and raise emotionally healthy children. ✅You will learn our signature Parenting With Understanding system to overcome angry reactions and have calm responses during your children's chaos. ✅Gain an understanding of what you need to communicate assertively with your children so they listen to you even when you give them a “no”. ✅Know what is needed to raise emotionally healthy children who can face the real world with confidence and self-accountability.

Discover effective strategies for maintaining calm as a parent with ADHD, especially when your child is having a tough time. CLICK HERE to access our free Class to learn the Parenting With Understanding™️ System to Break Free from reactivity, bring peace to your parenting and raise emotionally healthy children. ✅You will learn our signature Parenting With Understanding system to overcome angry reactions and have calm responses during your children's chaos. ✅Gain an understanding of what you need to communicate assertively with your children so they listen to you even when you give them a “no.” ✅Know what is needed to raise emotionally healthy children who can face the real world with confidence and self-accountability.

Join Marcela Collier as she explores the complexities of after-school transitions, particularly for neurodivergent children. Discover practical strategies to ease your child back into home life smoothly and reduce stress for both you and your child. CLICK HERE to access our free Class to learn the Parenting With Understanding™️ System to Break Free from reactivity, bring peace to your parenting and raise emotionally healthy children. ✅You will learn our signature Parenting With Understanding system to overcome angry reactions and have calm responses during your children's chaos. ✅Gain an understanding of what you need to communicate assertively with your children so they listen to you even when you give them a “no.” ✅Know what is needed to raise emotionally healthy children who can face the real world with confidence and self-accountability.

Are you caring for a sick loved one while juggling parenting and everything else? If yes, then this episode is right for you. Marcela interviews Marilyn Yelder, the author of the book ‘Believing Beyond The Diagnosis' where she shares what she learned after caring for years for her husband with cancer while being a mother, a daughter, an employee, and a friend. Click Here to get the book ‘Believing Beyond The Diagnosis' by Marilyn Yelder. Click Here to follow Marilyn Yelder on Instagram.

Marcela Collier sits down with Mikki Roberts to explore her journey from chaos to calm as a work-from-home mom. Tune in to hear how personalized coaching from HIC Parenting was a game-changer in her life, transforming her parenting approach and her home-based business. Do you want to break free from reactivity, bring peace to your parenting and raise emotionally healthy children? CLICK HERE to access my Free Class to learn our Parenting With Understanding™️ System that took 14,151 parents from chaos to peace.

In this episode of the "Parenting with Understanding" podcast, Marcela Collier shares five simple steps to help parents overcome guilt and reconnect with the joy of parenting. Learn how to handle parental guilt with empathy, clear expectations, and practical strategies for a peaceful parenting journey. Would you like to Bring peace to your parenting and raise emotionally healthy children? CLICK HERE to access our FREE class, where you'll: ✅You will learn our signature Parenting With Understanding system to overcome angry reactions and have calm responses during your children's chaos. ✅Gain an understanding of what you need to communicate assertively with your children, so they listen to you even when you give them a “no.” ✅Know what is needed to raise emotionally healthy children who can face the real world with confidence and self-accountability.

Are you dreading the shift from lazy summer evenings to strict school nights? You're not alone! Transitioning your kids back to school routines doesn't have to be a battle. Today, I'm sharing four things I am doing with my twins to make this back to school transition a lot smoother. TAP HERE to learn how to break free from reactivity, bring peace to your parenting, and raise emotionally healthy children with the Parenting With Understanding™️ System of Needs, which has transformed the lives of 14,151 parents within two weeks of applying it. This is a Free Class.

If you are parenting a highly aggressive child who hits, throws, bites, or breaks things, on this podcast episode, Marcela and Gabriel, The Indomitable Black Man, came together to share their experience living and working with highly aggressive children. You will learn what to do in the aggressive moment to calm things quicker without joining your child's aggression. Want to break free from parental reactivity, bring peace to your parenting, and raise emotionally healthy children? CLICK HERE to access Marcela's free class to learn her Parenting With Understanding™️ System, break free from reactivity, and raise emotionally healthy children with empathy and accountability.

In this episode of the "Parenting with Understanding" podcast, Marcela Collier delves into four common childhood wounds that unconsciously influence parenting styles. She offers insightful strategies for parents to recognize and heal these wounds, ensuring they foster emotionally healthy environments for their children to thrive. Want to break free from reactivity and raise emotionally healthy children? CLICK HERE to sign up for free class to learn the system that took 14,151 clients from angry parents to peaceful parents with empathy and accountability.

Do you want to be a calm parent but struggle to remain patient when your children refuse to do things? Today, Marcela is guiding you through 4 things she does daily to stay calm in tricky parenting situations with her children. Ready to break your cycle of reactivity, bring peace to your parenting and raise emotionally healthy children? CLICK HERE to discover how to do it in Marcela's free class.