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Are you yelling everyday and then feeling the guilt and shame that follows?  We have all been there and today we will learn how to yell-bust once and for all! Let me know your biggest takeaway. Also, feel free to go to www.herbalfacefood.com and use the coupon code Harmony20 for 20% off your first order to support the show. Subscribe on Apple! Subscribe on Android! Join my FREE parenting bootcamp! Let's Connect! Here's where you can find me: Learn more at https://www.coachingkelly.com. Find me on Instagram! Find me on Facebook!

In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher Podcast, we explore how to take control of overwhelming emotional reactions—like anger, frustration, and yelling—by learning how to identify and change the thoughts behind them.Using a practical, step-by-step system, this episode walks through how to isolate a single unwanted behavior, define a better outcome, and build a mental plan to respond differently—even in high-stress moments.In this episode, you'll learn:How to identify and “pin down” specific negative thoughtsWhy trying to fix everything at once doesn't workHow to “begin with the end in mind” and define a better responseThe role of intentional thinking in emotional self-controlHow to find better thoughts that lead to better actionsHow to apply these tools in real-life parenting and stressful situationsThis episode also introduces the concept of seeking miracles in difficult moments, helping you expand your thinking beyond automatic reactions and into intentional, faith-centered responses.These teachings are rooted in gospel-centered principles and are designed to help individuals strengthen their relationships, improve emotional regulation, and develop lasting self-mastery.This podcast is created by individuals who strive to live by the principles taught in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and apply them in practical, life-changing ways.

Sometimes our kids react as if we're being harsh, saying things like "stop yelling at me"... even when you're not yelling at all! When that happens, it can feel confusing, frustrating, and even discouraging. But what looks like an illogical reaction is often not even about what you're saying (or how you're saying it). Instead, it's about what's going on for the child. In this episode, you'll hear: • Why kids with big emotions are likely to interpret neutral or helpful input as criticism or pressure • Why our automatic reactions make sense, but don't work • The simple way to respond differently in the moment so that things defuse more quickly (and you build long-term resilience) -- FREE: Does your child have a narrow zone of tolerance? Talk to Rachel about getting support

We're airing a re-run today of one of our most popular podcast episodes with Dr. Laura Markham.Most parents think that if our child would just "behave," we could maintain our composure as parents. The truth is that managing our own emotions and actions is what allows us to feel peaceful as parents. Ultimately we can't control our children or the hand life deals them—but we can always control our own actions. Parenting isn't about what our child does, but about how we respond."In this podcast we interview one of our FAVOURITE parenting experts Dr. Laura Markham, Clinical Psychologist, best-selling author of the book "Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids" and "Peaceful Parents, Happy Siblings" and founder of AHA!Parenting where we talk about how to keep our cool as parents! Want more of Dr. Markham?! Use code ICPSAVE30 to TAKE 30% OFF her courses: Peaceful Parents, Happy Siblings: https://instituteofchildpsychology.com/product/peaceful-parent-happy-siblings-how-to-stop-the-fighting-raise-friends-for-life/ How to Raise an Emotionally Healthy Child: https://instituteofchildpsychology.com/product/how-to-raise-an-emotionally-intelligent-child/Interested in more from the Institute? The Parenting Handbook: Your Guide to Raising Resilient Children is the ultimate guide to nurturing emotional regulation, resiliency, connection, and well-being in children. Find out more here Our parenting membership comes with over 90 Parenting & Mental Health Courses and more!. Click here Our professional membership offers affordable, accessible training all in one spot for mental health professionals! Find out more hereWe have amazing free parenting content on:YoutubeInstagramFacebook Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I know, but there are so many things that need to be yelled: We're getting swallowed up by a new sinkhole, there are guys driving around that want to put you on a t-shirt, and MISS TESCMACHER!!!!

Ever tried to calm your child's meltdown, only to watch it escalate before your eyes? Parenting today means juggling intense emotions. Kids are facing social pressure, school stress, and digital overload, leaving many dads feeling unsure how to help when feelings run high. If you've ever wished you had a roadmap for navigating your child's big emotions without making things worse, you're not alone. By listening to this episode, you'll discover: how to avoid common mistakes that escalate kids' emotions, learn a practical 4-step framework to help your child feel heard and understood, and gain real-life strategies for staying calm and connected with both toddlers and teens. Hit play now to start building the confidence and connection you need to turn emotional chaos into calm, supportive moments your family will thank you for. ----- Want to learn strategies to stay calm, get our 7 Step Guide to Stop Yelling here: https://dadcentral.ca/7-step-guide-to-stop-yelling/ ----- Timestamps: 00:00 – Escalation: Why Parent-Child Interactions Can Make Emotions Bigger 00:12 – Introduction to The Dad Central Show & Episode Overview 01:04 – The Reality of Kids' Big Feelings Today 02:20 – Why Big Feelings Get Bigger 03:04 – Understanding Kids' Brain Development and Emotional Responses 04:33 – Why Logic Doesn't Work When Emotions Are High 05:52 – Four Common Mistakes Parents Make During Meltdowns 10:12 – The Dad Central 4-Step Framework Overview 11:01 – Step-By-Step: Applying the 4-Step Framework with Examples 14:18 – Real-Life Application: Toddlers vs. Teens 17:16 – Recap and Key Takeaways 17:59 – Resource Recommendation: Dad Mentor Community 18:28 – Final Words & Episode Close ----- "Dad Central is a podcast that supports fathers in navigating fatherhood, reducing stress, building confidence, managing parenting stress, and improving parenting skills, including discipline, co-parenting, custody issues, calm parenting, and effective communication with children, to foster happy children and strong parent-child relationships."

You love your kids. You've read the parenting books. You know the strategies. And yet… there are moments when the noise is relentless, the fighting won't stop, and it feels like every single thing is on you. That's when something snaps. In this episode, we're digging into something deeper than “just stress.” Because stress alone doesn't cause the reaction. What actually fuels those yelling moments is the meaning your brain assigns to the chaos — and for so many overwhelmed moms, that meaning is: I'm completely alone in this. We're talking about how that interpretation turns normal kid behavior into a full nervous system emergency — and how to interrupt it before it spirals. If you've ever wondered why you still yell even though you “know better,” this episode will help you understand what's really happening inside your brain — and how to create change that actually lasts. What We Cover in This Episode Why chaos at home can feel like abandonment — even when no one is actually abandoning you How your brain assigns meaning to situations faster than you can consciously catch it The neuroscience behind emotional regulation and neural pathways (and why yelling becomes a habit) Why yelling “works” in the short term — and why that's exactly why it repeats The three practical steps to interrupt the “I'm alone” narrative in the moment How relationship building starts with taking responsibility for only your 50% Why This Matters Mom mental health isn't about becoming perfectly calm all the time. It's about understanding what's happening under the surface so you can respond differently. When your brain interprets chaos as proof that you're alone, it activates survival mode. And in survival mode, you don't access parenting strategies — you access fight-or-flight. But interpretations can be questioned. Neural pathways can be rewired. Emotional regulation is a skill that grows with awareness and practice. You are not broken. You are not failing. Your reactions aren't random. They're patterned — and patterns can change. This episode will help you see how your interpretations shape your stress response and give you parenting strategies that support both relationship building and self-care in the real moments that matter most. Resources Mentioned The Courage to Be Disliked by Ichiro Kishimi The Regulated Mom Experience (priority waitlist link) If this episode resonated with you, take a minute to subscribe and leave a review. It truly helps more overwhelmed moms find the parenting support they need. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Send a textMost moms I meet already know the parenting techniques.They've read the books.Taken the courses.Practiced the scripts.And often, they can stay calm when there's no pressure.But when life squeezes you — Monday morning rush, bedtime battles, work deadlines, no support — something takes over.You snap.You yell.You lose control.And the conclusion most moms reach is:“It's because I'm overwhelmed.”In this episode of the Zen Supermom Podcast, we unpack why that explanation makes sense — but still doesn't fully solve the problem.You'll learn:• why stress triggers yelling but isn't the real root• why trying to control life more actually makes things worse• how childhood stress patterns show up in parenting• why your kids are watching your reactions more than your words• and what it really takes to stay calm under pressureThis isn't about becoming a perfect parent.It's about understanding what actually drives your reactions — so you can change them.If you've ever thought:“I know better… so why do I still lose it?”This episode is for you. Watch the free Mommy Tantrum Masterclass HERESupport the showHi, I'm Alena - founder of Zen Supermom and creator of the IDTR method (Intergenerational Developmental Trauma Repatterning). I work with thoughtful, committed parents who have already tried to understand themselves - and still find themselves reacting under pressure in ways they don't want. My work focuses on changing the underlying pattern that formed early, shows up in the nervous system under stress, and gets passed on to the next generation unless addressed as a whole.

It happens to us all - You yell, shame, hurt, or otherwise show up in a way you don't love as a parent. It's normal to lose it with your kid. It's part of being in a relationship with anybody. There are times when we get upset and create a disconnection, or rupture, with the other person. What's important is how you choose to handle it afterward. You'll Learn:Why saying “I'm sorry” is so important (and why it's only one piece of repair)4-step formula for a repair conversation (with examples)What you need to do before you have this conversation with your kidHow to repair after a longer period of time when you weren't showing up as the parent you want to beWhen you create a rupture in your relationship with your child, you first have to forgive yourself. Then, it's time to apologize and reconnect with your kid.---------------------------------------You know what this looks like…Your kid keeps complaining about what you're serving for dinner.Or they keep asking for something over and over, even though you already said no.Or they start hitting their sibling while you're trying to make an appointment on your phone. You lose your compassion and patience and get angry, overwhelmed, irritated, or frustrated. You get dysregulated, short-tempered, and disrespectful toward your child. It's normal to lose it with your kid. It's part of being in a relationship with anybody. There are times when we get upset and create a disconnection, or rupture, with the other person. What's important is how you choose to handle it afterward. What It Feels Like For Your KidChildren are very self centered. That's their natural way of viewing the world. They're pretty sure the world revolves around them. So when they notice that you're mad, they will automatically think that they are the reason. And further, they'll think that something is wrong with who they are. They don't know how to separate their core self from their behavior yet. They internalize our anger, and it's very easy for them to go into shame. This means that when you yell or get upset, you have to go back and give your child some understanding of why you behaved the way you did. We call this repair. You explain to them that you were in a big feeling cycle, and you didn't use your tools of taking a pause or deep breathing or moving your body or whatever you typically use to calm yourself. The conversation is about repairing your relationship with your child, as well as their self-esteem and internal self-talk (basically your kid's relationship with themself). When To RepairHere are some signs that your child might need a repair conversation with you. You might notice that they:Seem deflatedWithdraw from youLook confused by your face or your behaviorCryRun awayGet more aggressiveWhen you act out your big feelings on your kid, it activates their stress response. They go into fight, flight, freeze, faint, or fawn. Anytime you notice that you've created a rupture, go make a repair. If you're at the beginning of your Calm Mama journey, you'll probably have to do this a lot. You haven't developed the skills yet, and that's okay. You are still learning. Another thing to note is that the repair conversation should happen separately from parenting, limit setting, or correction. You might feel tempted to say something to your kid like, “I'm sorry I yelled, but I wouldn't yell at you if you would just put your pajamas on.” Discussion about your child's behavior is a whole different conversation. You are responsible for how you respond to misbehavior. Repair is the time for you to fix your mistake and reconnect.How To Apologize and Reconnect with Your KidRepair is the act of returning to a moment of disconnection, taking responsibility for your behavior, and acknowledging its impact on your child. You caused a problem with your behavior, and it is your responsibility to make it right. You're essentially saying to your child, “Hey, I know that happened. I was wrong. I'm sorry, and I'm working on it.”But it's not enough just to say, “I'm sorry.” We also want our kids to have a chance to talk about how they felt in that moment and have their feelings acknowledged. We want them to understand that your behavior was not about them. Remember, it's not your kid's job to forgive you and make you feel better. You have to do that work for yourself first. Take the time to reflect, get calm, and forgive yourself for your mistake. When you're ready, you are the one who should initiate the repair conversation. Don't wait for your kid to come to you. Whether it's the same day or a couple of days later, come back to the incident in a timely manner. Step 1: Narrate the moment of disconnection. Let your child know that you've been thinking about what happened. Talk about how you acted out.Step 2: Take responsibility. This is the “I'm sorry.” Before you go into this conversation, make sure that you are truly ready to take responsibility for your behavior without blaming, criticizing, or trying to assuage your own guilt. You have to be neutral and compassionate toward yourself. Be ready to receive your child's story and experience of your behavior (which can be really uncomfortable). Step 3: Acknowledge the impact on your child. You can say things like, “I bet that was really hard for you,” or “I wonder if you felt hurt or scared by the way I acted?” Invite them to tell you how they felt and what it was like for them. Ask simple questions to help them name the emotions. Then, validate their feelings. Step 4: Now what? Make a commitment, and make amends. Let your kid know that you're working on staying calm. Find out if there's anything you can do to make things better. Let them make a request, and try to respect it. Here's an example: Step 1: I've been thinking about what happened yesterday when we were rushing to get ready for school. I yelled at you. Step 2: That was my fault. I'm sorry. I should not have done that. Step 3: I would imagine you felt very scared when I was yelling at you. Did you feel scared? (Yes, I don't like it when you yell). Yes, of course it's scary when you see me yell. That must have been really difficult for you to feel like I didn't love you or care about you. I am sorry. Step 4: I want you to know that I'm working on staying calm. Is there anything you want me to do to make things right?What a beautiful thing in your relationship if you can be neutral and open enough to receive your child's pain - even if you're the one who caused it. What a gift to let them have a voice and the power to communicate the hard things that they've experienced - even if those things were done by you. The goal is to help your child not internalize the shame that makes them think, “I'm not good enough,” “There's something wrong with me,” or “I'm worthless.” We want our kids to know that, at their core, they are good, worthy, loved, forgiven, accepted, and safe. We want them to know that our anger is not their fault and that they can make requests of us (and of others).We are human. We make mistakes, and we can fix our mistakes. And that's a powerful thing.Related Episodes:Episode 158: Guilt & Self-ForgivenessEpisode 194: Attachment BasicsEpisode 161: Radical Self Love (part of the the “How to Heal” series)Free Resources:Get your copy of the Stop Yelling Cheat Sheet!In this free guide you'll discover:✨ A simple tool to stop yelling once you've started (This one thing will get you calm.)✨ 40 things to do instead of yelling. (You only need to pick one!)✨ Exactly why you yell. (And how to stop yourself from starting.)✨A script to say to your kids when you yell. (So they don't follow you around!)Download the Stop Yelling Cheat Sheet hereConnect With Darlynn:Book

Have you ever noticed that your kids only seem to listen when you raise your voice, and wondered if there's a better way to get through to them? Many dads feel trapped in a cycle of stress and yelling, worried that their explosive moments are hurting their relationship with their children and leaving everyone feeling disconnected. If you want to move from feeling overwhelmed and reactive to being calm and present, this episode will help you understand why this happens and give you steps to change it. You'll learn: How to recognize the real reasons behind your stress and explosive reactions, Discover practical tools to help you stop yelling and respond calmly, and Understand the long-term impact of your parenting style on your children's trust and emotional safety. Tune in now for real-world strategies that make parenting feel lighter. Playing this episode could be your first step toward a calmer home and a stronger bond with your kids! ----- Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction 00:14 - Show overview, host intros, episode theme: explosive to calm. 02:30 - Importance of managing anger and stress for dads. 03:39 - Why dads explode. 06:16 - Recognizing stress, building dad self-awareness. 08:04 - Cost of yelling. 10:03 - Iimpact of yelling on children. 12:38 - Emotional responses vs. what kids need in tough moments. 13:23 - Tools: pause, name feelings, lower volume, repair. 18:17 - Recap main takeaways, calm parenting wins. 18:59 - Dad Mentor Community. 19:31 - Closing: progress over perfection, presence, self-compassion. ----- "Dad Central is a podcast that supports fathers in navigating fatherhood, reducing stress, building confidence, managing parenting stress, and improving parenting skills, including discipline, co-parenting, custody issues, calm parenting, and effective communication with children, to foster happy children and strong parent-child relationships."

When you lose your temper with your kid, it doesn't feel great. But it IS totally normal.Perfection is not possible, in parenting especially. All parents lose their temper and speak or act harshly towards their kids from time to time.You'll Learn:Unhealthy ways parents often handle a rupture10 benefits of repair conversations for kidsHow to lead a repair conversation with your child (and what to expect when you do)In this episode, I'm sharing what's really going on when you lose your temper and what to do after the dust settles.-----------------------------------When You Lose Your TemperFirst, let's get clear on one thing.No one can make you angry. Not even your kid.Anger is an emotion that comes from your thoughts about a situation or behavior.And getting angry isn't actually the problem.What really matters is how you handle the moments when anger takes over and you lose your temper.These moments are sometimes called “ruptures”, because they interrupt the connection between parent and child.When you speak or act harshly towards your child, you create a negative impact and disconnection in your relationship.Have A Repair ConversationWhen you do lose your temper, it's time to take responsibility for your actions and repair the rupture (in the same way we would guide our kids to take responsibility for the impacts of their behavior)."Repair" is the conversation you have with your child in order to mend the disconnection between you.These conversations teach your kids how to resolve conflict, empower them to make mistakes and repair them and create more emotional safety and connection in your home.A repair conversation has three parts:Acknowledge what happenedRecognize the impact your behavior had on themRepair your mistakeAnd in between, you hold plenty of space for your child to process and respond.I'll walk you through these three parts in more detail and show you how to have a repair conversation with your kids that actually restores connection and strengthens your relationships.There is no "right" outcome for these conversations. They can be awkward and don't always go smoothly. But, I promise, the benefits outweigh the discomfort.Listen in to learn how so that you'll be ready the next time you lose your cool.Free Resources:Get your copy of the Stop Yelling Cheat Sheet!In this free guide you'll discover:✨ A simple tool to stop yelling once you've started (This one thing will get you calm.)✨ 40 things to do instead of yelling. (You only need to pick one!)✨ Exactly why you yell. (And how to stop yourself from starting.)✨A script to say to your kids when you yell. (So they don't follow you around!)Download the Stop Yelling Cheat Sheet hereConnect With Darlynn:Book a complimentary session with DarlynnLearn about the different parenting programs at www.calmmamacoaching.comFollow me on Instagram @darlynnchildress for daily tipsRate and review the podcast on Itunes

Ever feel like you are a mean mom? The difference between being mean and being firm can be confusing. A lot of moms think that when they are firm with their children, they are being mean.You'll Learn:How to tell the difference between firmness and meanness as a momWhat to do when you've been mean toward your kidWhy building firm, strong leadership in your family is so importantGet clear on the difference between being firm and mean and what to do when you've actually been mean with your child.-------------------------------------The Difference Between Being Mean & FirmI want you to know…Using a firm voice isn't mean.Keeping people safe isn't mean.Having limits isn't mean.Enforcing your boundaries isn't mean.Following through on consequences isn't mean.Being mean is when you hurt your child's body. It's when the moment of holding their arm to protect yourself or others becomes you squeezing too hard, or shoving their body away.Being mean with your mouth is when you personalize your kid's behavior or mistakes and say something about them as a person.There might be a moment or many moments when you've been physical with your child in a way that crossed a line. Or moments when you've called your child a mean name. Or lectured them into shutdown mode. Cornered them with your rage.Lectures are often mean.Insults are mean.Name calling is mean.Physical aggression is mean.Threats are mean.Sometimes rescuing your kid from a mistake is mean.What To Do When You've Been a Mean MomAs you hear me share examples in this episode, you might be flooded with shame and guilt.The way to get out of that shame and guilt is to talk about these moments. To find out what was going on for you in that moment. To be tender enough with yourself that you can say what you did, and ALSO explore what led up to that moment. You can't change something if you won't look at it.The best thing you can do is find your firm, strong, leadership voice as a mom. Get clear on what is and what is not allowed in your family. Be firm, without being harsh.I'll leave you with this quote from one of my clients who said “Firm limits are the shortcut to the behavior you want without making your kid feel like shit in the process”. Yep. Firm, but not mean. You've got this.Free Resources:Get your copy of the Stop Yelling Cheat Sheet!In this free guide you'll discover:✨ A simple tool to stop yelling once you've started (This one thing will get you calm.)✨ 40 things to do instead of yelling. (You only need to pick one!)✨ Exactly why you yell. (And how to stop yourself from starting.)✨A script to say to your kids when you yell. (So they don't follow you around!)Download the Stop Yelling Cheat Sheet hereConnect With Darlynn:Book a complimentary session with DarlynnLearn about the different parenting programs at www.calmmamacoaching.comFollow me on Instagram @darlynnchildress for daily tipsRate and review the podcast on Itunes

This episode features some of the most powerful messages from when parenting and resilience educator Maggie Dent came to the house. Maggie’s got some simple, immediately actionable ideas that can radically change your experience as a parent (and theirs). Key Takeaways: Build your tribe, not your village Focus on connection, not perfection Create pockets of joy to protect your family from the tough days Invaluable insights into behaviour by understanding how teenage brains work. LINKS Listen to the full episode with Maggie Dent here Find out more about Maggie's books and seminars here Sign up to the Better Than Yesterday newsletter Watch episodes of Better Than Yesterday on YouTube Watch full stories recorded live at Story Club on YouTube Get tickets for our next Story Club show Get Osher's latest book "So What? Now What?" here Send a pic of what you're looking at to sendosheremail@gmail.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

One thing moms struggle with is feeling bad about their progress in becoming calm and showing up calm with their kids. We all know we aren't at our best when we're stressed, overwhelmed and reactive. But knowing how to calm down in the moment isn't always as easy as it sounds.You'll Learn:Why you become reactive and yell, threaten or ice your kid outThree steps to pause and get back to calmClues you need a Pause BreakWhat to do after you've reacted in a way you don't loveI'm walking you through my 3-step process to catch yourself, pause and get back to feeling calm.---------------------------------------Why Do I Still Get So Mad?All moms experience really tough parenting moments. Moments when you've been stuck in what I call Mad Mom SyndromeYou know what I'm talking about. Moments when your child is a bit off track and you get upset and all of a sudden you are yelling, threatening, and lecturing, followed by guilt and rushed apologies.Moments you are worried that the behavior you see in the present is a predictor of the future, so you act super strict and controlling.Moments when you are frustrated and say a snide or mean remark to your kid.Then, when you have a mad mom episode and act in a way you don't think you should, a lot of criticism, guilt, and doubt pours in. You feel bad that you aren't calm or think you should be getting there faster. But here's the thing…Becoming calm is a PROCESS. It's a PRACTICE. It's something you work on over time. Some days it's easy, and some days it isn't. All of that is ok.These types of moments are a clue that you are in your stress cycle and feeling emotionally overwhelmed. Your brain is convinced that the circumstance is an emergency. Then, the brain activates a BIG, INTENSE STRESS RESPONSE.You become super reactive and respond to your children with stress, anxiety, frustration or anger. Then they escalate their stress behaviors and the next thing you know you are in a chaotic argument with your kids. The 3 Stages of Becoming CalmBecoming Calm is a process. It takes time. Be gentle with yourself. When you feel yourself spiraling, CATCH YOURSELF AND PAUSE. This is simple but not easy, and it comes in stages.Stage 1 - The AFTER. When you're first starting out, you may only catch yourself after you've yelled or gotten upset. Stage 2 - The DURING. After a while, you'll catch yourself while you are yelling or acting upset. Stage 3 - The BEFORE. Eventually you start to catch yourself before you yell or act out your frustration/overwhelm. This is the goal that you're working towards. No matter what stage you're in, to get out of Mad Mom Syndrome and get back to feeling calm, you need the Pause Break. There are also 3 steps to the Pause Break:Step 1: STOPDon't Talk. Don't Engage. You can stop yourself at any point when you notice you are in your stress response and are seeing signs of Mad Mom Syndrome.Step 2: DELAYDon't decide. Don't act. Don't do anything about the situation (unless it's a true emergency). Give yourself time to think and get calm.Step 3: RESETActively do something to calm your stress response. During a "Reset", you will move your body,

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In this episode I'm sharing with you my definition of CALM and giving you my go-to strategy for getting to calm using a tool I call The Pause Break. You'll Learn:Why Mad Mom Syndrome happensWhy your kid's behavior triggers such strong feelingsHow your stress response influences your actionsThe 3 simple steps of The Pause Break that you can do anytime, anywhereThe Pause Break allows you to access calm, even in the middle of a moment when you feel overwhelmed or angry.----------------------------------------Before we get to that, let's talk about what the absence of calm looks like. I know you've been there, and so have I. Get Calm with the Pause BreakShowing up when you aren't feeling calm looks a little different for everyone, but you might find yourself:yellingsaying mean thingsmaking threatsrescuingbribingbeing rough with your kid's bodygiving in to your kid's demandsfeeling exhaustedlecturingtalking a lotshutting downnot following through on consequencesnot taking care of yourselfsleeping poorlygrumpiness that you can't shakeescalating things when your kid gets upsetshutting your kid down…generally acting in ways you don't love.When you have a mad mom episode, it's easy to beat yourself up and tell yourself things like I'm a bad mom or I'm messing up my kids. Which makes you feel guilty, embarrassed, ashamed, frustrated and confused. The more negative thoughts you have, the more defeated, discouraged, and guilty you will feel. And when you feel bad, it's hard to change your behavior. So you end up yelling again.I call this Mad Mom Syndrome, and it is a vicious cycle of negative thoughts leading to negative feelings leading to negative actions and then back again. So how do you break that cycle?That's what we're diving into for these 30 minutes. The Pause Break is the single most important tool I teach. It is where all of your personal growth happens. It's the space where change occurs. If you only take one thing away from this podcast episode, I hope it's this: You can always take a PAUSE BREAK. It's the first, and most important, step towards CALM.Listen to the full...

Today, I'm getting pretty personal about things I experienced in my childhood and how trauma informed my parenting. We'll also talk about some ways to feel better and heal from traumatic experiences in your past.You'll Learn:How trauma in your childhood can impact your parentingMy story of childhood trauma and healingHow learning the language of feelings is like talking about waterWhy healing your trauma and taking good care of your nervous system is so important for your kidsHow to start your own healing journeyPlease note, this is a really emotional episode, for me and possibly for you listening. If you feel stressed, embarrassed or overwhelmed at any point, please stop reading or listening, and take care of yourself. ---------------------------------------My best friend, Tiffany Howsam, is here with me today. Tiffany is a licensed marriage and family therapist, as well as a certified life coach. We've been friends for almost 20 years, and she has created a safe place for me and been a big part of my healing and parenting journey. How Trauma Informed My ParentingWhen my son Lincoln was 4 years old, he was having major meltdowns, getting in trouble at preschool and being aggressive. And I was screaming all the time.There were times that I felt like a victim, like I was being abused by my son. When I told Tiffany this, she explained that it was not normal to feel this way and that I didn't have to continue feeling this way. That is when I realized I needed some help. One of the first parenting workshops I attended was also my first experience with inner child work. I realized that when Lincoln was being aggressive, I felt like I was in danger, being attacked. As a result of my adverse childhood experiences, I never really felt safe in my body, environment or relationships. Everything always felt dangerous, so I was constantly seeking security and a sense of control. I tried to find the rules of how I was supposed to live, and it often showed up as perfectionism. I wanted to crack the code on everything - figure it out so I could do it “right” and be safe. This trauma also showed up for me in the form of eating disorders, people pleasing and a high sense of vigilance, When I had kids, there were so many decisions to make, and I didn't feel like I knew the right answer to any of them. And when it came to behavior, I didn't know how to not yell at them. So I'd yell. Then I'd feel ashamed and beat myself up, tell myself that they were bad. When you don't have good parents, you actually don't know what else to do. There's no template to follow.As parents, we can have the best intentions. Then, we're triggered and an old wound or stress response comes back up, and we're in it, doing the thing we don't want to do. There are so many things I went through that I wanted to protect my kids from. I made their emotional health my #1 parenting goal, which meant that I lowered my standards in other areas. I just wanted them to feel safe and held and cared for. How I'm Healing From Childhood TraumaThere are several choices I made and strategies I used over the past 15-ish years to help me out of the trauma response, overreactivity and toxic stress. A lot of my childhood stress came from growing up in an unpredictable environment. When I was a kid, I never knew what was happening. There was so much confusion, and nobody talked to me about it. As a mom, I became really focused on not having chaos in our family. I wanted everything to be simple and flow smoothly. When my kids were young I was doing a lot of healing work, and I needed routines...

In order to feel less stressed (and stop yelling), you've got to learn to understand and care for your nervous system. You'll Learn:The two parts of your nervous system and how they work togetherWhy managing your stress is so importantSignals that you're in a stress responseSome of my favorite mini stress resets (and where you can get a list of them for free)I'm zooming out to talk about the bigger picture of your entire central nervous system. And I'll show you how you can use your own nervous system to calm yourself more quickly.-------------------------------------------Your Nervous System ExplainedThere are two main parts of your nervous system. The first is your sympathetic nervous system. You might also have heard this talked about as your fight/flight/freeze/faint/fawn response). The second part is your parasympathetic nervous system, which includes the vagus nerve. The two parts work together to help you respond to stressful situations and then decrease that stress response, kinda like a teeter totter. One is activated at a time, while the other is decreased. Think of your nervous system as an information highway running through your body at all times. It takes in information through your senses and tells the brain how to respond to what you are experiencing. Neurons (brain cells) carry this message all throughout your body. If your brain interprets any of this information as dangerous, it triggers your stress response and activates the sympathetic nervous system. To your brain, a threat can be something like a kid spitting in your face or getting a bad grade or spilling juice all over the table. Stress juice floods your body, giving you the oomph to respond to the danger. When your stress response is activated, there is a period of time where you aren't able to regulate your nervous system. When that threat has passed, you start to come back online and your parasympathetic nervous system comes into play. The parasympathetic nervous system is your best friend when it comes to managing your stress response. It has its own network of nerves and helps relax your body after periods of stress or danger. It typically activates on its own after a stressor, but when we have triggers coming at us all the time (like in parenting life), it gets weakened and doesn't respond as well. That's why you need tools to reset the system on your own. When we talk about calm and taking pause breaks to reset, the parasympathetic nervous system is the piece that we're resetting. Chronic StressYour stress response is healthy and necessary. But often, our brains misinterpret things (like spilled juice being a life-or-death emergency). Parenting is a lot. What ends up happening is that you have a lot of demands and stressors coming at you one after the next, and you don't always have enough time to recover from them.This causes us to be chronically stressed. We constantly have stress juice pouring through our bodies, and it makes it really difficult to stay calm.This is what's going on when you find yourself getting angry and annoyed about every single thing your kid does. You've probably been in an activated stress response for a while, so you are dysregulated. As a mom, you're dealing with stressors all day long, especially if you have more than one kid. But there are little breaks in between.Our goal is to practice getting ourselves into the parasympathetic nervous system so that we can more easily recover from stress. We want that teeter totter to go easily up and down so that we flow smoothly between the two states of stress and non-stress. The way to do this is to...

I want to let you in on a little secret. You don't yell because there's something wrong with you (or your kids). You yell as a response to stress and what your brain perceives as a threatening situation. In this episode, I'm talking about the stress cycle - what it looks like, why it happens and how it shows up in your parenting. You'll Learn:How stress shows up and why we feel activated even if we're not actually in dangerWhat the parenting stress cycle is and how to know if you're in one3 ways to get out of the stress cycleBut it's not healthy for us to live in a state of chronic stress. Let's break the cycle.------------------------------------Before we get into the details, I want you to first imagine walking your dog at night and seeing a pack of coyotes. They start chasing you. Your brain activates the stress response, quickly assesses the threat and decides that you should RUN.You get back home, come in and close the door. You are technically safe, but your body doesn't know that yet. It still has all of the stress juice running through your system.Once you are inside and safe, it's time to deal with the stress that has accumulated in your body. You do that by getting your breath back, telling someone what happened, getting a hug, shaking, crying. Stress cycle complete. YAY!Now imagine that instead you come inside, but before you get a chance to deal with the stress juice, there is a new stressor. You walk into the house and your kids are arguing and your husband is yelling at them. Then you head to the kitchen and notice the dishes piled in the sink and there isn't any meat thawed for dinner. Stressful situations keep popping up and the stress juice continues building up inside you. 2 key parts of the stress cycleNotice that there are two parts of the story above: the actual threat of the coyotes and what happens after. The stressor.The stressor is the external situation that is happening around you. This can look like your child screaming, crying, being aggressive, arguing with you, peppering you with questions, blaming you for things, etc. The stress response.This is the stress juice. It's a sort of chemical cocktail of hormones and neurochemicals that course through your body and create your stress response. And it's not a bad thing. It helps us respond to our environment and keep ourselves safe. But it's not healthy for us to live in a state of chronic stress. When stress juice builds up in you and isn't released, it can make you more reactive, less effective and clouds your thinking.The problem many parents face is that we are constantly surrounded by stressors, but we don't give ourselves a chance to release the stress juice and reset.Sometimes, we don't even realize that stress is building up inside of us. We think we're handling things well until something unexpectedly sends us over the edge. Parenting stress cyclesThink about some of the stressors above. If you were out in the world and another adult was screaming at you or being aggressive toward you, it would likely mean that you are in a threatening situation and that you need to do something to protect yourself.So when your kid is screaming, crying or complaining, your brain can't tell the difference. It thinks you're being attacked, and your stress response is activated.Aggressive behavior isn't the only thing that triggers us, though. You might also notice yourself reacting to things like dilly dallying, rudeness, bad grades or your kid just being grumpy. These behaviors activate us because we feel we're being threatened not physically, but socially. As a community-based species, we fear rejection from...

Mornings don't have to feel chaotic, rushed, or exhausting.If you're tired of repeating yourself, hunting for shoes, and carrying every school detail in your head, this episode is for you.In this episode, Diana shares a simple but powerful system called the launch pad, a practical way to reduce morning stress, help kids build independence, and create calmer starts to the school day without perfection or Pinterest pressure.What You'll Walk Away WithWhat a launch pad is and why it worksHow to stop being the family's reminder systemWhat to include so nothing gets forgottenHow to set it up without spending money or overcomplicating itHow to adapt the system for younger or neurodivergent kidsWhy resetting it the night before changes everythingIf you want smoother mornings, fewer meltdowns, and a home that supports you instead of draining you, this episode will help you create a system that actually works and keeps working.What can you expect from this podcast and future episodes?15-20 minute episodes to help you tackle your to-do listHow to declutter in an effective and efficient wayGuest interviewsDeep dives on specific topicsFind Diana Rene on social media:Instagram: @the.decluttered.momFacebook: @the.decluttered.momPinterest: @DianaRene Are you ready for a peaceful and clutter-free home? Watch my FREE training video “Chaos to Calm” to learn how it's possible! And find all of my resources here.

“Fix it, change it, stop it, solve it” is a phrase I use often in my coaching. When you say it out loud, it captures that feeling we have as parents when our kids behave in a way that leaves us feeling overwhelmed, angry or worried. In this episode,you'll learn:How to view your kid's big feelings as an opportunity instead of a threatThe question to ask yourself as you move your child through their dayHow to validate feelings in the midst of out-of-bounds behavior5 ways to help your kid manage their big feelings What I hope you take away from this episode is it's actually good for kids to feel upset and have you be okay with their feelings. You do not need to fix your kid's feelings. You only need to acknowledge them.----------------------------------------"Fix it, change it, stop it, solve it" is an emotional and physical response to what our kids are doing, and our brain jumps in and tries to fix, change, stop or solve the situation. Your Kid's Big FeelingsThe most common time I see parents experience this reaction is during a Big Feeling Cycle. When your kid has big feelings, they might express them in ways that are overwhelming to you. The tendency is often to try to shut down their behavior. But because that behavior is a reaction to how they're feeling, we end up shutting down their feelings, too.The problem with jumping in to fix/change/stop/solve is that you miss an opportunity to connect with your kids and to help them connect with themselves and learn how to process their own negative emotion. What “Fix it, change it, stop it, solve it” Looks LikeHere are some things I see parents do when they don't like the way their child is expressing their emotion. Minimizing. When our kids are upset, we want to say, “Oh honey, it's not that big of a deal. It'll work out.” This sounds like a nice thing to say, but your child is left feeling like you don't understand. It feels like a really big deal to them. We want to validate the emotion and acknowledge the intensity of their feelings instead of minimizing it. Comparing. This looks like, “This sort of thing happens all the time,” or, “Other kids don't complain about this,” or “This wasn't a big deal to your brother.” It happens when you think their feelings aren't warranted or justified. We're trying to get them to think and feel differently but, again, we're doing it by shutting down their feelings. Ignoring. There might be times when you need to take a break to calm yourself before dealing with a situation. Ignoring is different. This is another way of shutting your kid down, and it makes them feel unheard, unfelt, unseen and unvaluable. Your child might think, “Mom only wants to talk to me when I'm happy.”Talking about their feelings is how they'll learn to deal with them. Weaponizing gratitude. Gratitude is an incredible emotion. I love it. Weaponizing gratitude is when we use it to bypass negative emotion. You cannot get rid of sadness by thinking grateful thoughts. We have to feel the sadness (or anger or worry) and acknowledge it before we allow the brain to find another perspective. Indulging. Sometimes, you might try to change the circumstance to make your kid feel better. Maybe you tell them they can skip practice or promise to go get ice cream afterwards. Instead of letting them feel upset, indulging tries to give them a positive feeling so they forget about the uncomfortable feeling. Logic-ing. This looks like...

Today I'm talking about misbehavior and the #1 reason it is so hard for parents. Misbehavior creates a lot of conflict in families. It's one of the main reasons parents yell.You'll Learn:Why misbehavior often feels like an emergency (even though it's usually not)How to recognize your body's stress response and be aware of your reactionsDifferent ways to think about misbehavior - and prevent your stress response from kicking inSimple steps to use limits and rules to effectively manage behaviorIf you've ever thought “If they would just listen and stop acting out, I wouldn't have to yell!” this episode is for you!-----------------------------------------Maybe your brain has offered you the solution of getting your kids to behave better by having more rules and more limits and more consequences. By being more strict. Many parents think the answer to misbehavior is in having better routines, or being more consistent, or being more firm.The problem with this solution is that it doesn't address the roots of misbehavior.In this episode, I'm sharing why it's so triggering and upsetting for you, and some concrete and practical steps to handling misbehavior without resorting to lecturing, avoiding, yelling, threatening or shaming. Surprise! It all starts in your brain.As a parent, your child's behavior often activates your stress response. Your brain wants to INTERPRET your kid's behavior as a DANGER to your physical or emotional safety. It will TRICK you into thinking that your kid's behavior is a threat to you.It will tell you that you need to protect yourself. Get bigger. Get louder. Fight back. Run away. And that can make it hard to remain calm.But when you can understand what's driving the behavior and view it as an opportunity rather than a problem, you can head off the stress response and feel more calm in the situation.Related Episodes:Episode 62: Parenting Stress Cycles [Part 3] Free Resources:Get your copy of the Stop Yelling Cheat Sheet!In this free guide you'll discover:✨ A simple tool to stop yelling once you've started (This one thing will get you calm.)✨ 40 things to do instead of yelling. (You only need to pick one!)✨ Exactly why you yell. (And how to stop yourself from starting.)✨A script to say to your kids when you yell. (So they don't follow you around!)Download the Stop Yelling Cheat Sheet hereConnect With Darlynn: Book a complimentary session with DarlynnLearn about the different parenting programs at www.calmmamacoaching.comFollow me on Instagram @darlynnchildress for daily tips Rate and review the podcast on Itunes

It's mid-December, everyone's running on fumes, and your child just screamed "I hate you." And even though you know it's the exhaustion talking, it still stings because you're killing yourself to make the holidays special, and this is what you get in return. The truth is, the holidays amplify everything: the excitement, the overstimulation, the meltdowns, and yes, the hurtful words our kids don't fully understand yet. But here's what I've learned after years of navigating big emotions with my own strong-willed kids: how we respond in these moments matters more than we think, and there are ways to handle it that actually strengthen our relationship with them instead of damaging it. This is an encore episode from March 2023, and I'm bringing it back because this message feels especially timely right now. I'm sharing audio from an Instagram Live I recorded about an experience with my son six years ago, and then I'll walk you through three things I've learned about what to do when your child says they hate you or uses other big, hurtful words that land like a punch. In this episode, you'll discover:

Feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, or stuck in cycles of yelling and guilt? You're not alone—and there is another way. In this short mini episode, Hunter Clarke-Fields invites you to Mindful Parenting Live, a free, four-day online series happening January 5–8. You'll learn practical, mindfulness-based tools to help you parent with more calm, connection, and confidence—even in the middle of tantrums, defiance, and daily chaos. Hunter also shares a real-life story from a mom who transformed her parenting experience by making small, mindful shifts—and how calm stopped feeling like a fantasy and started feeling possible.

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Send us a textYou've read the books. You know child psychology. You understand that your kids are supposed to test boundaries, move at their own pace, have big emotions… and most of the time you are the calm, patient mom.Until you're tired. Rushed. Overwhelmed. Hungry. Late for school again.And then you yell. Just like your mom yelled at you – even though you promised yourself you'd be different. You keep thinking:“I don't need more theory. I just need the tools!”In this episode of the Zen Superman Podcast, I break down why more information is not the answer – and what “tools” actually mean when it comes to stopping mommy tantrums for good.We talk about:Why your logical, super‑educated brain “checks out” when you're triggeredHow your unhealed inner child hijacks your body and reactions in secondsThe concept of “1,000 paper cuts” generational developmental trauma – even if you had a “good” childhoodWhy classic therapies and more parenting courses often don't touch this patternThe 2 pillars you really need instead:Healing your inner child (so she stops taking over)Mental Fitness: rewiring your autopilot so you don't repeat how your parents handled stressWhat changes when you build a healthy blueprint of unconditional love + boundariesWhy “I'll fix it later when they're older” is one of the most expensive lies we tell ourselves as momsIf you're the mom who says:“I know what I should do, but in the moment I just lose it.”“I'm terrified I'm becoming my mom – and my kids will sit in therapy because of me.”“I've done all the parenting courses, but I still don't have the tools that actually work under pressure…”…this episode was recorded for you. Listen now and start breaking the generational cycle – without trying to be a perfect, always‑nice mom.FREE TRAINING FOR MOMS WHO YELLGrab the free Mommy Tantrum Training I mention in this episode anSupport the showPrefer watching this podcast on video? Find us on YouTube!Zen Supermom YouTube Channel About the Author:Alena Gomes Rodrigues is a mommy tantrum specialist and the founder of the Zen Supermom method. She's definitely NOT a supermom. But through her own journey as a recovering perfectionist, hyper-achiever, and a 'Momzilla', she discovered the most effective strategy and tools to help busy moms stop yelling at their kids and set & keap healthy boundaries so that they stay calm, at peace, and happy no matter how stressful their life gets.Want to know HOW? And WHY you can't stop yelling/stressing? Get the new Yelling Breakthrough here. Have feedback & comments? Email hi@zensupermom.comLearn more about the Zen Supermom Method and the author of this podcast on the Zen Supermom webZen Supermom Cafe FB Community: JOIN US HERE Music by HarumachiMusic from ...

Stop Yelling at Your Customers! | The Podcast for Used Car Dealers S4 E84Are you yelling at your customers? You may not realize it and you may be doing just that. Take a careful look at the way you behave around them AND at the marketing you use. Watch this episode for our thoughts on the subject, and then tell us about your ideas in the comments! Don't miss an episode! Subscribe to Down Payment now! Visit all our sites at:YouTube - @DownPaymentPodcastYouTube - @cardealeru5061X - @DownPaymentPodInstagram - @DownPaymentPodcastDon't forget to like and subscribe! #carsales #usedcar #usedcarsforsale ##autosales #automobile #auto #cardealer #cardealership #preownedcar #secondhandcar #buyherepayhere #managmenttraining #manager #managertraining #denver

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Let's be honest, no parent wakes up thinking, “Today I'm going to lose it with my kids.”But by mid-morning, the chaos hits, stress builds, and suddenly you're yelling louder than you meant to, and the guilt floods in.In this episode of the Building Resilience Podcast, Leah Davidson unpacks what's really happening when you lose your cool and why yelling isn't a sign of being a “bad parent,” but rather a cue from your nervous system that it's overwhelmed and braced for danger.You'll learn how to create emotional safety for your kids (and yourself), even when you mess up, and how to repair connections afterward in a way that actually builds resilience and trust.Leah walks you through her simple Safety Sequence to help you stay grounded in the moment, plus practical nervous-system-based tools to reduce yelling, strengthen boundaries, and reconnect with compassion.We'll explore:Why yelling is a nervous system response, not a moral failureHow to use Leah's Safety Sequence (Am I safe? Do I feel safe? Relax the body)The power of repair and reconnection after ruptureHow to balance boundaries with emotional validationDaily micro-practices to reduce stress and increase calm at homeCOMMUNITYNERVOUS SYSTEM JOURNALING CLUB : Doodle, journal and heal in community.Join here: https://www.skool.com/nervous-system-journaling-club/aboutMENTAL HEALTH STATIONERY - RESILIENT BRILLIANCE PRODUCTS:1) RESILIENCE JOURNAL: A guided journal for emotional well-being and nervous system care Amazon US - https://a.co/d/7DpuyVj2) MY SAFE SPACE : AFFIRMATION AND JOURNAL PROMPT SETAmazon US - https://a.co/d/2mANQs4LET'S STAY CONNECTEDINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/leahdavidsonlifecoaching/FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/leahdavidsonlifecoaching Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses how parents can break the cycle of yelling at their children by practicing mindfulness. She emphasizes the importance of being aware of one's inner voice, challenging critical thoughts, and developing skills like mind sight and emotional regulation. Marcela also shares insights on how curiosity and compassion can transform parenting approaches, leading to more peaceful and understanding interactions with children. If you're ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child's behavior isn't the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you'll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don't wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn't need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

We all lose our temper sometimes. That's part of being human—and part of being a mom. But what happens next matters most. Because repair, not perfection, is what builds real trust with our kids. In this week's episode, I'm joined by Devon Kuntzman from Transforming Toddlerhood to talk about one of the most healing and hopeful skills a parent can learn: how to reconnect after those hard moments. Devon shares a simple, four-step framework for circling back after we've yelled or overreacted—so instead of getting stuck in guilt, we can model accountability, empathy, and growth. Even though Devon primarily teaches parents of toddlers, this conversation applies beautifully to kids of all ages (trust me—my teen and tween are proof!). In this episode, you'll learn:

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Are your kids' fights setting off your emotions—and the whole house?Most parents try to “fix” kids' behavior to feel better. In this video, Greg & Rachel flip the script: change your emotional state first, and your family dynamics follow. You'll learn how to stop masking (“trying to stay calm”) and start being emotionally authentic—so you model regulation your kids can actually imitate.We unpack practical tools to raise your family's emotional thermostat—even on low-sleep, low-food days: breathing exercises, light movement, gratitude micro-meditations, future journaling, and morning routines that shift your biochemistry fast. You'll discover why sleep and nutrition are foundational, how to process triggers and “memorized emotions,” and how to radiate steadiness kids naturally copy.Big idea: Nothing gets better until you do. When you upgrade your inner state, parenting gets easier, marriage gets warmer, and home feels safe again. This is how you cultivate a family culture of peace, courage, and joy—without pretending or suppressing.Try this today (1-minute reset): Stand tall, inhale 4, hold 4, exhale 6 (x6 rounds). Add one gratitude sentence and smile on purpose. Notice the shift—then go connect.Key Takeaways✅ Nothing gets better until you do — when you raise your state, your family follows.✅ Kids imitate without regulation — they copy your energy, good or bad.✅ Trying to “stay calm” is masking — practice authentic emotional expression.✅ Sleep & food drive mood — protect your physiology to parent better.✅ Quick resets work — breathing, movement, posture, and gratitude change your state fast.✅ Every family has an emotional thermostat — set yours higher on purpose.✅ Mentor, don't micromanage — see misbehavior as a cry for help and coach skills.Memorable Quote:

Welcome to For Word, the platform dedicated to guiding you towards better spoken performance. We're constantly looking at techniques to add more vocal variety to how we talk by incorporating more softness and firmness to our, furrowing eyebrows, smiling, raising and lowering pitches, adding pauses in order to convey frustration, sadness, joy and nervousness. Let's see how these elements of contrast and body language can lead to richer expression.In this video, we're especially paying attention to softness, firmness and volume.#performance #poetry #speaking

Does your child's behavior sometimes trigger such an instant, overwhelming reaction that you find yourself yelling before you even realize what happened? That moment when your jaw clenches, your shoulders tense, and suddenly you're saying things you wish you could take back? You're experiencing what millions of parents face daily - a nervous system response that happens faster than conscious thought. This episode reveals the science behind why willpower alone isn't enough to stop yelling, and introduces you to specific, learnable skills that can transform how you respond to your child's most challenging moments. You'll discover what's actually happening in your body during those triggered moments, why suppressing your anger isn't the answer, and how your emotional responses are teaching your child crucial lessons about handling life's difficulties. Most importantly, you'll learn practical techniques that work in real parenting situations - not theoretical advice that falls apart when your preschooler has a meltdown in the grocery store. This summary episode makes all the research from several much longer episodes available for time-strapped parents. If you want to learn more, these episodes will help:056: Beyond “You're OK!”: Modeling Emotion Regulation082: Regulating emotions: What, When, & How129: The physical reasons you yell at your kidsQuestions this episode will answerWhat is emotional regulation and why do parents struggle with it?Emotional regulation is monitoring, evaluating, and modifying emotional reactions to accomplish your parenting goals. Parents struggle because stress triggers happen faster than rational thought. Why do I yell at my child even when I don't want to?Your sympathetic nervous system floods your body with stress hormones before your rational brain registers what's happening, making yelling an automatic response. What are the best emotional regulation techniques for parents?Simple grounding techniques like conscious breathing, body awareness, and reappraisal strategies that work with your nervous system instead of against it. When you use these techniques makes all the difference. How do I stop yelling as a parent without suppressing my emotions?Learn to acknowledge your emotions while using grounding techniques to create space between your automatic reaction and your chosen response. Does yelling at your child affect them long-term?Yes, children learn emotional regulation by watching how you handle intense moments. Your responses teach them whether emotions are safe or dangerous. How can I improve my emotional regulation as a busy parent?Practice recognizing your body's early warning signals and use quick techniques like one conscious breath or muscle awareness throughout the day. This will help your body to learn the skills when the stakes are lower, so they'll be more accessible in the difficult moments. What...

Do you ever end the day feeling guilty for yelling, wishing you could take back the words you said in frustration?  You're not alone.  That was me, and it's so many Catholic moms who struggle with overreacting, losing patience, and feeling disconnected from the very people we love most. Now, as a life coach I'm on a mission to help as many Catholic homeschooling moms as possible calm down and enjoy their kids and homeschooling, whether you come work with me or not. Which is why I'm releasing for the first time to the public, the audio of a live masterclass I offered two years ago called How to Stop Yelling and Start Connecting! During the masterclass, I opened up about my own journey from chaos and disconnection to peace and connection in our home.  I taught about the root causes behind why we yell, what's really happening inside when you lose your temper. And I shared the first steps you can take to begin breaking free from the cycle of regret. If you long to stop overreacting, rebuild trust with your kids, and feel more confident as the mother God created you to be, this episode will show you the way forward. So please grab your earbuds and join me for: The How to Stop Yelling and Start Connecting Masterclass! Join RECLAIM The Stop Yelling Challenge HERE! Doors close Friday, September 5, 2025 at midnight Eastern time.

You know that moment when you've asked your kid to get off the couch for the fifth time, and suddenly you're yelling way louder than you meant to? Then you spend the rest of the day feeling like the worst mom in the world?Yeah, me too. And apparently, so does literally every mom I talk to.Here's what you'll learn in this episode:

Clinical psychologist and author of the bestselling Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids, Dr. Laura Markham joins me for a rich conversation about what peaceful parenting really means — and how it can help you set firm, loving limits while staying deeply connected to your child.   Together we explore:   Why connection, not control, is the true foundation of cooperation and emotional resilience.   What setting limits with empathy looks like in real life (and why it's not the same as being permissive).   The surprising way laughter can help your child release built-up stress and unshed tears.   Practical tools to respond to big feelings like anger, sadness, and aggression — without adding more fuel to your child's fire.   Why behaviorism often oversimplifies how kids learn and grow and what advances in neuroscience reveal are how humans actually learn best.   Why the goal of parenting isn't perfectly calm, compliant kids — but helping them build the neural wiring for lifelong emotional regulation.   If you've ever felt torn between being “too strict” or “too soft,” or overwhelmed by the endless parenting advice out there, this episode will help you zoom out, get grounded, and focus on what really matters for your child — and for you.     LEARN MORE ABOUT MY GUEST:   https://www.peacefulparenthappykids.com/  

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2653: When parenting feels like balancing on the edge, Alyssa of Your Unbusy Life.com reveals how setting clear boundaries, not relying on willpower, can help you stop yelling and create a calmer home. Learn how to recognize your limits, communicate them to your kids, and prioritize your well-being so everyone benefits from a more peaceful, connected family life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://yourunbusylife.com/stop-yelling-at-your-kids/ Quotes to ponder: "I cannot handle their playlist on repeat for 40 minutes at full volume. I can handle it for 40 minutes at low volume, or I can take it at high volume for 10 minutes." "If you say, 'I am about to lose patience with you,' watch how fast they start to reform." "You need to know that, and then build that into your days." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2653: When parenting feels like balancing on the edge, Alyssa of Your Unbusy Life.com reveals how setting clear boundaries, not relying on willpower, can help you stop yelling and create a calmer home. Learn how to recognize your limits, communicate them to your kids, and prioritize your well-being so everyone benefits from a more peaceful, connected family life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://yourunbusylife.com/stop-yelling-at-your-kids/ Quotes to ponder: "I cannot handle their playlist on repeat for 40 minutes at full volume. I can handle it for 40 minutes at low volume, or I can take it at high volume for 10 minutes." "If you say, 'I am about to lose patience with you,' watch how fast they start to reform." "You need to know that, and then build that into your days." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Laura Markham to unpack the often messy world of sibling dynamics—especially when one or more kids are neurodivergent. We talk about why peaceful parenting starts with connection, how to handle those inevitable "it's not fair!" moments, and how to repair after conflict. Laura shares thoughtful, practical strategies for supporting each child's unique needs while nurturing more positive sibling relationships, even when things feel really hard. About Dr. Laura Markham Dr. Laura Markham is the author of Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids: How To Stop Yelling and Start Connecting, Peaceful Parent, Happy Siblings: How To Stop the Fighting and Raise Friends for Life, and The Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids Workbook: Using mindfulness and connection to raise resilient, joyful children and rediscover your love of parenting. Dr. Laura Markham earned her PhD in clinical psychology at Columbia University and has worked as a parenting coach with countless families across the world. Over 170,000 moms and dads enjoy Dr. Laura's free weekly coaching posts via email. You can sign up on any page of her website, Peacefulparenthappykids.com, which serves up Aha! Moments for parents of babies through teens. Dr. Laura's aspiration is to change the world, one child at a time, by supporting parents. The proud mother of two thriving young adults who were raised with her peaceful parenting approach, she lives with her husband in New York. Things you'll learn from this episode Why parenting that prioritizes connection over strategy lays the foundation for healthy sibling dynamics How self-regulation in parents shapes the emotional tone and effectiveness of conflict resolution between siblings Why it's important to embrace sibling conflict as a normal and teachable part of growing up, while guiding repair and emotional processing How acknowledging each child's unique needs and avoiding comparison fosters a sense of fairness and individual worth Why modeling compassion, calm, and appropriate behavior teaches kids how to navigate conflict and build emotional intelligence How recognizing the goodwill in children and validating their feelings helps strengthen sibling bonds, even during tough moments Resources mentioned Dr. Laura Markham's Peaceful Parent Happy Kids website Raising Peaceful Siblings with Tools to Ease Jealousy and Build Connection (Free Guide) Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids: How to Stop Yelling and Start Connecting by Dr. Laura Markham Peaceful Parent, Happy Siblings: How to Stop the Fighting and Raise Friends for Life by Dr. Laura Markham Dr. Laura Markham on Facebook Dr. Laura Markham on Instagram Self-Compassion for Tough Moments Printable Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It's The Troy Lee Designs Race Tech Blair Matthes Project where industry insiders Daniel Blair and Steve Matthes dig in on a multitude of topics. With some more faces joining the fray and some big rumor mill news afoot, there's plenty to break down ahead of Round 6 of AMA Pro Motocross.

BUY THE SLOW LIVING BOOK HERE! Do you ever find yourself yelling and instantly regretting it? In this episode, we're digging into why we yell—hint: it's rarely about what's actually happening in the moment. We'll talk about how yelling often stems from unprocessed emotions like fear, anxiety, and stress, and how it can leave lasting impacts on those around us. If you've ever felt stuck in a cycle of reactivity, you're not alone—and you're not broken.Things like journaling and “pattern interrupts” can help you pause, reflect, and reset before the yelling starts. It's important to remember to learn how to identify your emotional triggers, interrupt automatic responses, and start to healing old patterns - no matter how you were raised. This episode is a must-listen for anyone ready to break the cycle and create a calmer, more conscious response to life's pressures.Past Episodes You May Love: Episode 8: Dealing with Overwhelm in Uncertain TimesEpisode 27: Creating StabilityEpisode 33: Healing Childhood TraumaEpisode 57: Protecting Your EnergyEpisode 71: Self-LoathingWant to know more about living a slowed down life?!Simple Shortcuts to Peace Course - https://stephanieodea.com/peaceNew Year, New You Mini Challenge - https://stephanieodea.com/newyouJoin me for my LIVE Masterclass - https://stephanieodea.com/masterclass/Website - https://stephanieodea.comBlog - https://stephanieodea.com/blog/Slow Living Podcast - https://stephanieodea.com/podcastSpeaking Opportunities - https://stephanieodea.com/speaking/Coaching Opportunities - https://stephanieodea.com/coaching/Courses - https://stephanieodea.com/courses/Contact - stephanieodea.com/contact/

Yelling. Threatening. Bribing. Scolding. Commanding. Controlling. There is a better way. It's time to put those tools down... ...and pick up some good ones. And these new tools? They are better. Listen in. Go deeper with Sean at www.SaveMyFamily.us Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Yelling. Threatening. Bribing. Scolding. Commanding. Controlling. There is a better way. It's time to put those tools down... ...and pick up some good ones. And these new tools? They are better. Listen in. Go deeper with Sean at www.SaveMyFamily.us Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

6-23 Papa & Silver Show - Hour 4: Heliot Ramos shakes his chest and Bob Myers finally tells Stephen A. Smith to stop yellingSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Listen in as Jim & Lynne Jackson, Connected Families Co-Founders, teach the parenting concept “Slow, Low, & Listen.” This simple tool can help you develop and maintain an emotionally safe presence for your kids. Jim and Lynne will equip you with the understanding you need to apply the concept next time you feel your emotional […]