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Ellie McGrath and Lateva Woolfork meet up each week to discuss the struggles we all face in this Messy Mumlife.

Ellie McGrath


    • Nov 1, 2021 LATEST EPISODE
    • monthly NEW EPISODES
    • 1h 11m AVG DURATION
    • 34 EPISODES


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    Episode 34 - Living in the Twilight Zone

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2021 52:21


    On this week's show - the girls get screwed over by Australian Daylight Savings, Ellie's daughter has yet another creative nickname for her dad, coping with stress, practical self care, the importance of rest, advice for your new mum self, being okay with admitting you're not okay, the worst parenting advice our listeners have ever received. Be sure to follow our hosts on Instagram:Lateva: @theallpurposewomanEllie: @iamelliemcgrath

    Ep 33 - Strap Yourselves in, Guys!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2021 48:48


    In this episode - Lateva returns from a trip in Greece, Ellie's daughter has a new nickname for her dad, the importance of having alone time, finding your best self care practice, how to avoid burn-out and overwhelm, mum guilt, mental health, and letting go of things that no longer serve you.Want to know what your hosts are up to? Follow them on Instagram:Ellie: https://www.instagram.com/iamelliemcgrath/Lateva: https://www.instagram.com/theallpurposewoman/Don't forget to use code THISMESSYMUMLIFE for $$$ of your purchase at Peak Chocolate:https://www.peakchocolate.com.au/

    Season 2, Episode 8 - It's Been a Day!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2021 52:42


    In this episode Lateva and Ellie discuss the difference between introverts and extroverts, carrying the emotional load, practicing self care when your child is sick, sound healing, finding your calm, contraception, therapy and another entry from Ellie's Lockdown Diary.Follow Ellie and Lateva on instagram:@iamelliemcgrath@theallpurposewomanHave a mumlife story you would like to share or just after some life advice? Send us an email or voice memo to thismessymumlife@gmail.com

    Season 2, Episode 7 - Lockdown Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 8, 2021 65:21


    This week Ellie talks to Lateva from lockdown to discuss who's the favourite parent, mum guilt, the sound of your internal voice and tips for emotion wellness during COVID lockdown.Be sure to follow the ladies on instagram:Lateva: @theallpurposewomanEllie: @iamelliemcgrath

    Season 2, Episode 6 - Slidin' into your DMs

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 16, 2021 58:48


    Lateva & Ellie explain their absence, as well as discuss: Seasonal Affect Disorder, dealing with overwhelm, things we all secretly hate about motherhood, and Lateva shares a poop story.

    Season 2, Episode 5 - Put it on the Shelf

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2021 62:05


    On this episode Ellie and Lateva speak with Sarah Carson, a travel blogger who has travelled to over 50 countries with her husband and three kids.Mentions on this episodeSarah Carsonwww.sarahctravels.com

    Season 2, Episode 4 - Shots Have been Fired

    Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2021 68:38


    Ellie and Lateva are joined by the inspirational Jo Betz, creator of Grief - A Guided Journal. Jo shares her own personal story of grief and loss, and how it led her to create something that is now bringing so much comfort to others walking through their own grief journey. Also discussed on this episode: working through emotions, dealing with overwhelm, the importance of Chicken Salt, and Ellie's Mouse Plague story continues...Mentions in this episode:Jo Betz https://www.jobetz.com.auDuopillowhttps://duopillow.com.au/

    Season 3, Episode 3 - Burn Down the House and Start Again

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2021 54:24


    On this week's show the girls discuss: finding guilt-free moments, decisions that make us better mothers, why fathers don't seem to hear as well as mothers do, holistic health, the mass shooting in Lateva's own city, and an update from Ellie on the 2021 Australian Mouse Plague.Mentions in this episode:Lateva's blog Post "I Don't Want to Die from Being Black and Pregnant"https://theallpurposewoman.com/i-dont-want-to-die-from-being-black-pregnant/The 2021 Australian Mice Plaguehttps://www.nbcnews.com/science/science-news/worst-mice-plague-ever-seen-millions-rodents-descend-eastern-australia-rcna513Duopillow - Co-sleeping Pillowhttps://duopillow.com.au/Peak Chocolate - Use code THISMESSYMUMLIFE for 15% off!https://www.peakchocolate.com.au/

    Season 2, Episode 2 - Don't Just Tread Water!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2021 51:04


    This week Lateva and Ellie talk about social hangovers, how the body reacts to suppressed emotion, shielding kids from the internet, body image, and the dreaded mouse plague.Mentions in this episode:All our Shimmering Skies by Trent Daltonhttps://www.goodreads.com/book/show/48814878-all-our-shimmering-skies?ac=1&from_search=true&qid=4g2tbWQMZh&rank=1The Australian mouse plague of 2021https://www.abc.net.au/news/2021-03-18/mice-plague-nsw-worsens-and--affecting-crops/13255486

    Season 2, Episode 1 - We're back, tears are flowing!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2021 62:34


    Ellie and Lateva are back! A lot has happened since they last spoke, and in this episode they discuss walking through grief with children, times of insecurity, and vomit. So. Much. Vomit.Mentions in this episode Grief Journal, by Jo Betzhttps://www.google.com/search?q=grief+journal+jo+betz&oq=grief+journal+jo+betz&aqs=chrome..69i57.3176j0j7&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8Peak Chocolate (use code THISMESSYMUMLIFE for 15% off)https://www.peakchocolate.com.au/

    Episode 24 - And That's a Christmas Wrap!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2020 72:22


    In the final episode of the season, Lateva and Ellie discuss how this crazy year has shaped and changed their lives. Mentions in this episode:Peak Chocolatehttps://www.peakchocolate.com.auP.Volvehttps://www.pvolve.com/The Life Joliehttps://www.thelifejolie.com/

    Episode 23 - Just the Two of Us

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2020 51:04


    In the second-last episode of the season, Lateva and Ellie discuss adjusting from five to six kids, having a husband that doesn't listen and what lengths someone will go to hold on to a secret Santa gift.Peak Chocolatehttps://www.peakchocolate.com.au/nside the Yoga Sutras: A Comprehensive Sourcebook for the Study & Practice of Patanjali's Yoga Sutrasby Jaganath Carrera

    Episode 22 - Managing Stress During the Holiday Period

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2020 64:05


    Charla Joyce joins Lateva and Ellie this week, to talk all about managing stress and how Christmas might look post pandemic. Mentions this episode Charla Joyce - Connected in Communityhttps://www.connectedincommunity.org/How the Yoga Sutras Define Stress:https://shutupandyoga.com/how-the-yoga-sutras-define-stress/?fbclid=IwAR3rXhFGz5-3b17AvihM_yiSjghwaXR9tC5fblAO_T6AP9cZ3epSG__xXBAInsight Timer:https://insighttimer.com/Moshi - the Sleep and Mindfulness App for Kids:https://www.moshisleep.com/Therapy For Black Girls:https://therapyforblackgirls.com/

    Episode 21 - Chocolate Coated Fitness

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2020 60:21


    Ellie and Lateva are joined by Raph Freedman, co-founder of Peak Chocolate, to talk about all things chocolate/fitness. Head over to www.peakchocolate.com.au and use code THISMESSYMUMLIFE for 15% off your purchase!

    Episode 20 - Finding Love After Divorce

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2020 91:20


    In this week's episode, our guest opens up about motherhood, career, divorce, and finding love on the other side.

    Episode 20 - The Fraussie Mum

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2020 70:11


    Would you move across the world after dating someone for two weeks? Iris did, and this week she joins Ellie and Lateva to tell her story and also discuss the struggles of being a creative mum.

    Episode 18 - Facing Anxiety and Fears

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2020 55:15


    After a heavy week, both Ellie and Lateva catch up to discuss their fears and how they manage anxiety.

    Episode 17 - Breaking the Silence on Infertility and Loss

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2020 91:39


    Ellie and Lateva are joined by Kristen, who bravely shares her story of infertility, loss and motherhood.

    Episode 16 - Food glorious food!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2020 93:36


    This week, Ellie and Lateva sit down with Jessy Freimann, a succesful foodblogger and Instagrammer who shares her secret to saving hours in the kitchen every week through her "unconventional" food prepping technique, and also gives the ladies some tips on all things social media.

    Episode 15 - Get to know your hosts!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2020 88:59


    Lateva and Ellie may host a podcast together, but they have never actually met in the flesh. This week they sit down to ask some hard (and not so hard) questions to get to know each other a little better.

    Episode 14 - The Early Childhood Years

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2020 78:06


    This week Donna and Angela, two early childhood educators, join Lateva and Ellie to answer all of their questions about how to best raise and educate children aged 2-5.

    Episode 13 - Stress Less

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2020 72:47


    Lateva and Ellie sit down with Michael Adu, founder of the London Stress Centre, to discuss living with and managing stress and anxiety.

    Episode 12 - Let's hear from the Husbands!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2020 58:10


    Ellie and Lateva sit down with two very special guests this week, to discuss marriage and what it really looks like to love someone through their trauma.

    Episode 11 - Mary's Story

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2020 118:46


    What happens when the man you marry becomes an alcoholic? This week, Ellie and Lateva sit down with Mary Graham, who discusses her husband's battle with alcoholism. Can love really conquer all?

    Episode 10 - Let's Talk About Self Care

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2020 65:43


    Malyssa's world was turned upside down toward the end of her pregnancy. Hear how she went from a stressed-out mama to a self care queen when she sits down with Lateva and Ellie on this week's episode.

    Episode 9 - The Younger Mama

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2020 130:57


    Ellie and Lateva are joined by their guest Starla, to discuss everything from being a young parent, contraceptives, marriage and S.E.X.

    Episode 8 - Lateva's Birth Story

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2020 71:29


    Lateva has had her baby and shares with Ellie the tale of her dramatic birth.

    Episode 7 - Mum Guilt

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2020 87:45


    Lateva and Ellie sit down with friend of the show, Bonnie from episode 2, to discuss all things mum guilt.

    Episode 6 - The Working Mama

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2020 82:06


    Ellie and Lateva sit down with Hyacinth, who discusses juggling motherhood with her busy career.

    Episode 5 - Ellie's Story

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2020 75:35


    Lateva turns the tables on Ellie and interviews HER. We hear how trauma affects her mothering and how she manages anxiety and depression.

    Ep 4 - Kellie the Truth-Bomb Dropper

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2020 99:30


    Ellie announces some big news and we chat with Kellie about everything from homebirthing, finding your mum-tribe, solo parenting, fashion and Juneteenth.

    From Tumultuous Childhood to All Purpose Woman

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2020 72:26


    Ellie sits down with Lateva to discuss how a dysfunctional childhood affects parenting later on in life.

    Let's Talk Antenatal Depression

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2020 59:39


    Ellie talks with Bonnie about her experience with antenatal depression.

    Anxiety in the Time of Corona

    Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2020 35:33


    Ellie McGrath talks all things anxiety with fellow mum, Callie Learmonth.

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