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Where You're Planted features conversations and insights about my personal journey and learning to live in the present moment.

Deborah Ajayi


    • Apr 21, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • monthly NEW EPISODES
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    • 45 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from Where You're Planted

    Rewriting the Rules: Letting Go of Who You "Should" Be

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2025 28:35


    Hi y'all! I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here. This episode is about shedding external expectations and redefining success on your own terms. It's for anyone who feels weighed down by the “shoulds” in life—what you should do, who you should be, and how you should live. Let's unpack where these pressures come from and how to step into a life that feels more aligned with you.I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you.Here's my substack: https://deborahajayi.substack.com/You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast; and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi. I am also on TikTok @__debbajayi.You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg.I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/debbajayi

    Staying in your own lane in the age of social media comparison

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2025 16:30


    Hi y'all! I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here. In today's episode, we talk about something I know so many of us struggle with—learning to stay in our own lane in an era of endless social media comparison. We live in a world where we have instant access to everyone else's highlights—their success, their routines, their seemingly perfect lives. And if we're not careful, it's so easy to feel like we're somehow behind, not doing enough, or just not measuring up. It seems more necessary than ever to drill this into ourselves as social media continues to evolve into a being of its own. So today, let's talk about how to break free from that cycle and refocus on our own path.I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you.You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast; and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi. I am also on TikTok @__debbajayi.You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg.I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/debbajayi

    Exploring the concept of "Self" - self-esteem, self-trust, self-advocacy

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2025 25:34


    Hi y'all! I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here. In today's episode, we delve into the concept of "self" and trying to understand how a concept of self shapes our identity. I focus on self-esteem, self-trust, and self-advocacy, asserting that all are deeply connected--When we value ourselves, we trust ourselves. When we trust ourselves, we advocate for what we need. And when we advocate for ourselves, we reinforce our worth.I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you.You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast; and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi. I am also on TikTok @__debbajayi.You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg.I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) ⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/debbajayi

    From Baddie to Balanced: Redefining Self-Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2025 16:49


    Hi y'all! I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here. In today's episode, we unpack the baddie culture, exploring its impacts on self-esteem, my personal journey shifting from external aesthetics to inner confidence and self-acceptance, and how to embrace a version of self-love that feels authentic and sustainable.I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you.You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast; and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi. I am also on TikTok @__debbajayi.You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg.I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) ⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/debbajayi

    What I learned from my no-spend challenge month

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2025 19:00


    Hi y'all! I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here.  In today's episode, we chat about about my no-spend challenge, recapping my experience: struggles and temptations, lessons and key takeaways, and tips for those wishing to try a challenge like this. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast;  and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi.  I am also on TikTok @__debbajayi. You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :)  ⁠https://linktr.ee/debbajayi

    The no-spend challenge: resetting my relationship with money

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 2, 2025 18:24


    Hi y'all! Happy New Year and welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here.  In today's episode, we chat about the no-spend challenge I am doing throughout January, including discussions on my reasons for doing the challenge, guiding rules, overconsumption and social media, and practical tips for those wishing to participate in the challenge. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast;  and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi.  I am also on TikTok @__debbajayi. You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :)  https://linktr.ee/debbajayi

    I think I'm ugly - unpacking modern beauty standards and habits

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2024 16:14


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here.  So, today I try to explore this feeling of "ugliness" I think most people can relate with when we go without our monthly maintenance appointments - think nails, lash extensions, waxes, etc. What's behind this feeling? I dunno. Let's chat. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast;  and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi.  I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) 

    How are we doing? Reflecting on the current state of the world & how I am choosing to take care of myself

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2024 15:42


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here.  Today, we chat about some things that have been happening in the world lately and how I am trying to stay above it all through inner reflection and self-care. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast;  and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi.  I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :)  https://linktr.ee/debbajayi

    I kinda have no friends ... | Navigating friendships as an adult

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2024 20:24


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here.  I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast;  and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi.  I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) 

    Buying a house, experiencing blocks, balancing privacy and openness | Life updates

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2024 21:19


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here.  I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast;  and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi.  I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) 

    Always waiting for the other shoe to drop | learning how to integrate one's manifestations

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2024 15:12


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here.  In today's episode, we chat about this inability ( I think might be universal?) to really enjoy all the things we manage to manifest because of an immense fear of losing them. We theorize about where this fear stems for as well as some tips about how to manage this fear, move forward, and enjoy all the things we have co-created with the Universe. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast;  and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi.  I am also on TikTok @__debbajayi. You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :)  https://linktr.ee/debbajayi

    Navigating one's authenticity in an era of influencers and rampant overconsumerism

    Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2024 18:26


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here.  In today's episode, I chat about figuring out who I am in an age where we are bombarded by other people's stuff, ideas of who other people are, and rampant overconsumerism. This episode was an attempt to get a grip on and situate myself within the current social landscape--an attempt to reflect on who I was a few years ago when I felt most close to some "authentic" version of myself. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast;  and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi.  I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :)  ⁠https://linktr.ee/debbajayi

    Hello, Hi. I'm Back! Happy New Year? | Why I've been gone

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2024 10:00


    Hello, is anybody here? Hiii, welcome back to the podcast. I have been away for a hot minute, and I discuss why on today's re-introductory episode. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast;  and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi.  I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) 

    Hello & bye again! Let's wrap up 2023!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2023 20:47


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here.  First of all, let me apologize for going AWOL—life has been demanding the last few months and I had to divert my attention elsewhere. However, I am back with one final episode to close up the year. Today, we review 2023 and reflect, touching on the highs and lows and ending with a lot of hope and excitement for 2024. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast;  and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi.  I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :)  https://linktr.ee/debbajayi

    You are not behind

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 22, 2023 11:51


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here.  In today's episode, we get a bit vulnerable. I delve into this idea of “feeling behind,” from where it stems, and how I am changing my own narrative recognizing that I (and really, no one) am not behind in life. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast;  and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi.  I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) 

    "We've been on 7 dates, but she already has my name tattooed on herself" | Here's My Opinion

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 1, 2023 22:12


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here.  I am excited to share another episode of Here's My Opinion - a segment of the podcast where I share my opinion on some wild stuff people have shared on social media platforms such as Reddit. I essentially would share my opinion or advice on what I'd do I found myself in the situation being discussed.  On today's episode, we chat about a person who has only been on 7 dates with a woman who has already tattooed his name on her body, a fiancé re-joining tinder when her partner was away, and a girlfriend who went to a fertility clinic without her boyfriend's knowledge. This is something new I really wanted to try as it allows me to reflect on how I would handle some incredibly tough and heartbreaking situations. I hope you enjoy the first episode in this series. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast;  and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi.  I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) 

    5 Things I'm Doing to Improve my Confidence and Self-esteem

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 18, 2023 29:25


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here.  In today's episode, I share 5 things that I have been doing that have helped to significantly improve my confidence and self-esteem! These are tips I learned through therapy that I feel have a nice blend of practicality with a bit of mindful introspection, as well. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast;  and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi.  I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) 

    "My boyfriend cheated on me with one of his best friends" | Here's My Opinion

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 4, 2023 19:58


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here.  I am super excited to be doing something new on the podcast! Introducing Here's My Opinion - pretty much me sharing my opinion on some wild stuff people have shared on social media platforms such as Reddit. I essentially would share my opinion or advice on what I'd do I found myself in the situation being discussed.  On today's episode, we chat about a person who has been cheated on by her boyfriend and another person who's mother-in-law called off her engagement to her son. This is something new I really wanted to try as it allows me to reflect on how I would handle some incredibly tough and heartbreaking situations. I hope you enjoy the first episode in this series. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast;  and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi.  I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) 

    How I have changed my life through mindset shifts and putting myself out there | Reflecting on 2023 so far

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 21, 2023 23:42


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here.  In today's episode, I reflect on the year so far and how I have managed to transform myself through mindset shifts and embodying the theme I created for 2023. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast;  and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi.  I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :)

    How I've Embraced Being Alone | A Few Enriching Activities to Try Alone

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 30, 2023 18:58


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here.  In today's episode, I chat how I've embraced and learned to love being alone after being alone AND lonely for a number of years. I also share a few enriching activities that I enjoy doing by myself. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast;  and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi.  I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) 

    Five Things I Have Learned from Three Years of Therapy

    Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2023 27:55


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here.  In today's episode, I chat about the five things I've learned from three years of therapy. We touch on self-worth, confidence, inner child work, handling rejection and more. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast;  and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi.  I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) 

    Why getting ghosted doesn't suck that much and how it is a blessing in disguise

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2023 21:37


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here.  In today's episode, I chat about ghosting and why I don't think it sucks as much, and how we can learn to embrace it and change our mindset and the way we react to being ghosted. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast;  and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi.  I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) 

    How I have Learned to Lean Into & Embrace My Singlehood

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2023 19:35


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here.  In today's episode, I chat about how I have learned to embrace and lean into my single hood after years of putting out desperate energy and dating with a lot of anxiety and fear. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast;  and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi.  I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) 

    5 wellness habits that are changing my life and that i cannot live without

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2023 19:51


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here.  In today's episode, I chat about 5 wellness habits that are changing my life and that I cannot do without. The month of March was me primarily challenging myself to develop and build these habits, and I believe that has contributed to my better sense of wellbeing. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast;  and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi.  I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) 

    Celebrating the Podcast's One Year Anniversary | Reflecting and Chatting

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2023 11:07


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here.  On this day, one year ago, I uploaded my first podcast episode. It is crazy to think that my podcast is one year old. Today's episode is a reflective one - looking back on how I started; fighting resistance and fearing what people would think; where I am at now with the podcast; and what the future holds. In any case, I am super grateful to be doing this and building an online community and this podcast would be nothing without my listeners. Thank you and I love you. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast;  and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi.  I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) 

    Tips on How to Handle Rejection in Dating and Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2023 15:55


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here.  In today's podcast episode, I chat about how we can handle rejection in dating and relationships by focusing and remembering a few things. I think these tips will help make rejection (in all facets beyond relationship) a bit easier to handle. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast;  and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi.  I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) 

    Why Compatibility is So Important in Dating and Relationships and How We Can Determine Compatibility Early

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2023 17:46


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here. In today's podcast episode, I chat about another dating/relationship topic that's I've been thinking about recently—compatibility. I try to understand it through definitions, what it means to me intuitively, and how we can determine compatibility with a parter early on in dating. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi. I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg.

    Learning how to practice positive self talk and silence our inner critic

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2023 8:43


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here. I am trying something new with this episode. This is a short form episode and I think it will be part of a new series, which I have yet to name or really figure out. In today's podcast episode, I talk about the inner critic, how being mindful and practice positive self talk can really help to silence that negative voice in our heads. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi. I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg.

    Have dating apps RUINED dating for everyone?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2023 28:33


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here. In today's podcast episode, I ask whether dating apps have ruined dating for everyone? Personally, I don't know. But as with many things in life, there are pros and cons. And in today's episode, I explore some of these. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi. I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg.

    Why having LEVERAGE in DATING is important | how we can create LEVERAGE, get our power back and date CONFIDENTLY

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2023 22:29


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here. In today's podcast episode, I chat about dating and why we need to have leverage in dating; how a lack of leverage or power shows up in dating; and how we can get our power back and date confidently. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi. I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg.

    Why Setting goals is Not Enough | Embodying a Theme for 2023

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2023 20:13


    Hi y'all! Happy New Year and welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here. It's a new year and so naturally we are all setting goals. But on this episode, I am sharing why I'm taking a different approach to goal setting by embodying a “theme” in addition to setting goals. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi. I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg.

    Everything 2022 has taught me | 2022 wrap up

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 30, 2022 28:11


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here. 2022 is almost at its end and what a year it has been! In today's episode, I chat about all the lessons I've learned this year and how they have shaped me as a person on a lifelong journey of inner healing and growth. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi. I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg.

    Are men really trash? | Age gaps in dating? | Dating preferences

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2022 24:22


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here. Today's (bonus) episode is a continuation of last week's episode featuring my brother, Emmanuel. In this episode, we banter about a lot of stuff—dating preferences, appropriate age gaps, and whether or not men are trash.. lol I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi. I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg. Follow Emmanuel on Instagram - @emmanuelajayi_

    Did Rihanna invent bangs? | What are Jordans? | Life as teenage immigrants in Canada

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2022 25:23


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here. In today's episode, I have a special guest—my amazing brother, Emmanuel Ajayi. It was so great to have him on the podcast. We talked about quite a bit of things including our experiences as teenage immigrants in Canada; pop culture and whether or not Rihanna invented bangs; and we laughed about my total ignorance of what Jordans are. This is PART 1 of a longer chat. Come back next week for PART 2 where it gets a bit juicier! I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi. I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg. Follow Emmanuel on Instagram - @emmanuelajayi_

    House Wife or Trophy Wife? | Fine Men and Dating Woes | Social Media Addiction

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2022 36:08


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here. Today's episode features a special guest - my girl Chris (Christabel). We had a blast sitting and talking about everything from adulting, marrying rich, therapy, dating struggles, and social media addiction. This was a super fun episode to record and we hope that you enjoy it. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi. I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg.

    How much money would make you happy? | More Money Chats

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2022 22:55


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here. In today's episode, I reflect on a few more money-related questions in "Your Money or Your Life: 9 Steps to Transforming Your Relationship with Money and Achieving Financial Independence" by Vicki Robin and Joe Dominguez. These questions reflect on topics such as how much money we need to be happy, motivations to save, and comparing earnings between oneself and others. I had a great time thinking through these questions and answering them in this episode. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi. I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg.

    Choosing careers, living my dream life, and more | Money Chats

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2022 24:58


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here. In today's episode, I reflect on a few money-related questions in "Your Money or Your Life: 9 Steps to Transforming Your Relationship with Money and Achieving Financial Independence" by Vicki Robin and Joe Dominguez. These questions reflect on topics such as career paths, the soul's true calling and passion, and living one's dream life. I had a great time thinking through these questions and answering them in this episode. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi. I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg.

    Struggling with self care and wellness | figuring out what self care means to me

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2022 22:58


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here. In today's episode, I talk about my recent and current struggles with self care and prioritizing my wellness in all aspects. I try to figure out what self care means to me, and what activities I can re-incorporate into my life. Ultimately, I reminder myself (and everyone listening) to take life one day at a time and to treat myself with grace and patience. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi. I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg.

    Advice I'd give to my younger self

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2022 22:13


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here. In today's episode, I talk about some advice I'd give to my younger self if I ever got the chance to chat with her. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi. I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg.

    A Few RED FLAGS I've Come Across In Dating | It's wild out here lol

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2022 23:31


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here. In today's episode, I talk about a few red flags I've come across in my several years of dating, especially online dating. These are my personal experiences and opinions, and what might be a red flag for me is a yellow or green flag for you. Take everything with a grain of salt lol. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi. I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR3zLPQjbv3gTcAyhOMUzYg.

    Minimalism, my struggles, and using minimalism as a tool.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2022 16:34


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here. In today's episode, I talk about my self-identification as a minimalist, my struggles with broad definitions of minimalism, and my approach to minimalism as a tool for freedom. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi. I am also now on TikTok @__debbajayi. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice).

    Being an INTROVERT and feeling different | how I manage my energy, time, and wellbeing.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2022 22:17


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here. In today's episode, I talk about introversion and what it's like as an introvert in an extroverted world. I discuss feeling different and not enough, how I outgrew that mindset and where I am now in terms of managing my energy, time, and wellbeing. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice).

    My 20s - Expectations versus Reality

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2022 20:05


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here. Inspired by one of my favourite podcasts, the To be Honest Podcast, I talk about my 20s, the expectations that I had growing up about what being in my 20s would be like versus what my 20s actually are like. It was pretty cool to sit and think carefully about all the things I thought I would have and where I am now. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :) You can also find me on YouTube at Deborah Ajayi (if you'd like to put a face to the voice).

    Sharing Everything! - Body image, dieting, weight loss, and finding healing

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2022 27:23


    Hi y'all! Welcome back to another episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here. In this episode, I share with y'all my toxic history with food, diets, and poor body image. I share how far I've come and how I am healing my relationship with food and my self-talk about the way I see myself and my body, one day at a time. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast and my personal instagram at @__debbajayi. I will be thrilled to chat with you! :)

    Welcome to the Podcast - Introducing myself and the intention behind the podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2022 10:30


    Hi y'all! Welcome to the first episode of the podcast. I am so thrilled and grateful to be here and to have you here. In this episode, I pretty much introduce the podcast and talk about my intentions with the podcast. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share! You can follow the podcast on Instagram at @wyp_podcast and my personal Instagram at @__debbajayi

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