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Why them and not me? It's a question that haunts many first responders after tragic calls. In this episode of the Tactical Living Podcast, Coach Ashlie Walton and Sergeant Clint Walton open up the conversation around survivor's remorse (Amazon Affiliate)—the silent guilt that creeps in when you walk away from something others didn't.
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Enjoy this engaging interview with Jillian Reilly. She has lived a life of listening to her inner voice and empowers others to do the same. In a rapidly changing world with AI infiltrating our lives and our work, it is more important than ever to embrace, or at least begin to develop our internal locus of control. Let's give ourselves permission to emerge as the individuals we yearn to be. Preorder her book here: https://www.amazon.com/Ten-Permissions-Redefining-Adulting-Century/dp/1963827295Connect with Jillian and her work here: LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jillianreilly/website URL: https://tenpermissions.com/TedTalk link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5V8ucQrP0j8Amazon Pre-order link: http://bit.ly/44GUomsLook forward to talking tomorrow.
What if the very thing you're most passionate about is the one thing everyone tells you to walk away from?Have you ever felt the pressure to “have it all figured out” by 18—or even 28? Or questioned whether it's too late to chase that dream burning quietly inside you?In this episode, we dive deep into those very questions with recording artist and creative powerhouse Cassy London. From walking away from a traditional journalism path to pursuing music full-time without any family connections in the industry, Cassy's story is raw, real, and incredibly inspiring. She opens up about the lonely moments, the doubts, the pushback—and what it truly means to choose yourself, even when it's terrifying. With a voice that moves hearts and lyrics rooted in purpose, Cassy doesn't just create music—she creates movements. A fierce advocate for authenticity and artistic integrity, Cassy shares how her faith, her upbringing, and her inner compass helped her navigate rejection, rebranding, and the emotional rollercoaster of building a career in one of the toughest industries in the world.Whether you're 13 or 53, standing at the crossroads of comfort and calling—this conversation will challenge you, ground you, and remind you that growth is messy, but worth it.This one's not just for the aspiring musicians—it's for anyone ready to embrace the unknown with courage and confidence.Quotes:"Confidence truly comes from within. There's no item, there's no look, there's no anything tangible that can make you feel confident, it truly comes from within, and that takes hard work to create." - Cassy London"If you're not growing, what the heck are you doing? Growth should be celebrated." - Cassy London"Trust the process. Truly, truly trust the process and remember that no bad day, bad situation, it's temporary. Things will pass." - Cassy LondonKey Takeaways:Re-evaluate Your Current Path: Ask yourself: Is what I'm doing now aligned with who I truly am or what I genuinely love? Assignment: Journal for 10 minutes about what you would pursue if fear, judgment, or expectations weren't in the way.Audit Your Inner Circle: Cassy emphasized the power of having people around who truly know and support you. Assignment: List your top 5 closest relationships. Do they help you grow, challenge you lovingly, or hold you back?Take a Creative Risk This Week: Whether it's writing, posting something personal, or pursuing a passion project, take one bold action that stretches your creative comfort zone. Task: Share a small piece of your creative work with someone you trust or on social media, even if it scares you.Redefine Confidence as Inner Work, Not Outer Image: Remember, confidence isn't something you wear—it's something you build. Reflection Prompt: What's one area where you've been waiting to “look ready” before acting? How can you start anyway, from the inside out?Celebrate Your Growth and Give Yourself Permission to Evolve: Cassy's journey reminds us: you're allowed to outgrow your past identity. Assignment: Write down 3 ways you've changed over the past year—and give yourself credit for the transformation.Conclusion:Cassy London's story is a powerful reminder that the path to purpose isn't always clear—but it's always worth pursuing. Whether you're discovering who you are or rediscovering what you love, this episode encourages you to choose courage over comfort, authenticity over approval, and growth over fear.
The only permission you need is permission from yourself. It's one of the greatest ways to shift our state.
Summer break is here—but before you fill every day with appointments, activities, and professional development, let's pause. This episode is all about helping you find a better balance between rest, personal growth, boundaries, and just the right amount of planning.Whether you're someone who jumps directly into prep mode or someone who needs some solid nap time or lazy mornings (or both!), this episode will help you use your summer with intention—not obligation.In This Episode, You'll Learn:✅ Why true rest matters—and how to define what that looks like for you ✅ Ways to grow personally that have nothing to do with IEPs or PD hours ✅ How to set boundaries that protect your time (and your sanity) ✅ What a “Do Not Do” list is—and why you need one ✅ How to make peace with not doing all the things this summerMentioned in the Episode:
There are certain times in the year which is often seen as a time for adventure, socialising, or catching up on life's to-do list. But in the middle of the hustle, even during a supposed "break",—many people forget to prioritise themselves. Reclaiming time for yourself during the summer isn't selfish; it's essential. Whether it's an hour a day or an entire weekend, carving out personal space allows you to reset, reconnect, and return to your routines feeling more grounded and energised. This season, let your well-being take the front seat.Key Takeaways1. Give Yourself Permission to Rest- Let go of the pressure to always be productive. Rest is a valid and valuable use of your time.2. Set Boundaries Around Your Time- Protect your schedule from becoming overcrowded by learning to say “no” and prioritising what truly matters to you.3. Design a Mini Personal Retreat- You don't need to travel far to recharge. A quiet day at home or a few hours offline can offer the reset you didn't know you needed.4. Rediscover Joy Through Simple Activities- Reconnect with hobbies and passions you've left behind—or explore new ones. Joyful, creative play is a form of self-renewal.CONNECT ON SOCIAL MEDIA Ig- https://www.instagram.com/drdunni.lifecoach/YouTube- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9C1oJwHyISEuqiX8USaYKgCH- https://www.clubhouse.com/@drdunni-druwaFB- https://www.facebook.com/druwaacademyTwitter- https://twitter.com/drdunniPatreon - https://patreon.com/wellbeing4mothers HOST BIOYour host, Dr Dunni, is the award-winning mum empowerment coach, Family doctor, International speaker, Best-selling author of the book ‘Every Mum is a Super Mum' and a mum herself who is passionate about health and wellbeing. She is proficient in applying natural, scientific, and medical well-being concepts to explain practical ways and strategies in simple terms that promote the overall well-being of body, mind, soul, and spirit, and prevent ill health. This is made available by the provision of online courses, books, coaching and regular events where well-being strategies and tactics are shared to enhance holistic well-being. Learn more at https://www.drdunni.com
In this recap, Lesley and Brad reflect on their convo with Aletta Rochat, a trailblazing and executive presence coach, who shares what it really takes to show up with confidence. Together they unpack why owning your strengths—and saying no when it matters—can shift how you lead, speak, and connect with others. With this episode, you'll leave feeling grounded, energized, and ready to give yourself full permission to belong. If you have any questions about this episode or want to get some of the resources we mentioned, head over to LesleyLogan.co/podcast. If you have any comments or questions about the Be It pod shoot us a message at beit@lesleylogan.co.And as always, if you're enjoying the show please share it with someone who you think would enjoy it as well. It is your continued support that will help us continue to help others. Thank you so much! Never miss another show by subscribing at LesleyLogan.co/subscribe.In this episode you will learn about:The real-world script for gracefully exiting client relationships.Why permission and belonging unlock authentic confidence.The danger of saying yes out of guilt or reflex.The difference between reaction and intentional action.Why your greatest strengths may be things you take for granted.Episode References/Links:OPC Summer Tour https://opc.me/eventsOPC UK Mullet Tour https://opc.me/uk eLevate Mentorship Program - https://lesleylogan.co/elevatewaitlistPilates Income Accelerator … prfit.biz/accelerator Cambodia October 2025 Waitlist - https://crowsnestretreats.comAletta Rochat Website - https://www.alettarochat.comFemGevity - https://www.femgevityhealth.com/?via=lesleyCliftonStrengths by Gallup - https://www.gallup.com/cliftonstrengths If you enjoyed this episode, make sure and give us a five star rating and leave us a review on iTunes, Podcast Addict, Podchaser or Castbox. https://lovethepodcast.com/BITYSIDEALS! 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We don't identify that we have something that most people might not have, and that becomes our superpower. Lesley Logan 0:13 Welcome to the Be It Till You See It podcast where we talk about taking messy action, knowing that perfect is boring. I'm Lesley Logan, Pilates instructor and fitness business coach. I've trained thousands of people around the world and the number one thing I see stopping people from achieving anything is self-doubt. My friends, action brings clarity and it's the antidote to fear. Each week, my guest will bring bold, executable, intrinsic and targeted steps that you can use to put yourself first and Be It Till You See It. It's a practice, not a perfect. Let's get started.Lesley Logan 0:55 Welcome back to the Be It Till You See It interview recap where my co-host in life, Brad, and I are going to dig into the emboldening convo I had with Aletta Rochat in our last episode. If you haven't yet listened to that episode yet, you are missing out. She's amazing. She's a badass. You're gonna wanna listen to it after you listen to this one, if you can just go back into your feed. I mean, she's the first president-elect who's a female for the International Toastmasters. Brad Crowell 1:19 Yeah, international president-elect, yeah. Lesley Logan 1:21 Insane, amazing. And that's not even what she went to school for, or thought she'd be doing. So I just think it's great. We'll get into her in just a second. But first, today is May 29th 2025 and it's World Digestive Health Day. World Digestive Health Day is celebrated every year on May 29th around the world. I think it's really funny whenever they describe the day, and then the description is the same thing with the words. Brad Crowell 1:44 Yeah, it's also like today is May 29th. On May 29th we celebrate. Yes.Lesley Logan 1:51 The holiday provides resources and tools for gastrointestinal (G.I.) diseases to help more people in the general public make better decisions around their health. Awareness can lead to early diagnosis and treatment of G.I. diseases including cancer. It should also be known that G.I. diseases can lead to obesity. It can also create more understanding and better support for patients experiencing digestive diseases when their issues and conditions are better understood by the general public. I just think it's so important, if you are dealing with some stomach stuff, most people are not realizing how long they've been dealing with it, and it can lead to, as I mentioned, diseases, cancer, crazy stuff. You can have an imbalance of hormones, your mind, your actual mindset, how you feel, your emotions, are related to your gut, and if your gut biome is a fucking mess, and then you are also like, why does the world hate me? No amount of therapy is going to help you if your gut is telling your brain some other things. And so I highly, highly recommend, if you've got gut stuff going on, go advocate for yourself. If your G.P. is not listening to you, go talk to somebody else. We just had someone come to the house, which blew our mind. Our crappy insurance sent works to the company, and that company came to our house and literally sat down was like, what doctor referrals do you need? And I was like, oh, you can do that for me? And so you all know from over the last year how much FemGevity helped me with my gut stuff. Like, it's been really amazing to know the difference between like, I'm not feeling awesome, and, oh, this is my gut problem and. Brad Crowell 3:22 But it still doesn't change the fact that you have to go to a doctor locally to get blood drawn or things like that, right? Lesley Logan 3:28 Yeah, you still have to go do stuff, yeah? Well, FemGevity sends something to you, but you don't have to use it, like, you have to go, like, it is annoying to go advocate yourself. It is annoying to feel like you're crazy. It's annoying to feel like you're not being listened to. But literally, if you have H. Pylori, and you let it go on its own thing, it can lead to cancer, okay? If you have other things, it can lead like you don't get to ignore your gut, you don't get to. So I'm really excited that this day has its own day, which is May 29th, and it's a world holiday. Brad Crowell 3:56 It's a world holiday. Lesley Logan 3:58 Go talk to your G.I. about your shit, like literal shit. Okay, OPC Summer Tour tickets.Brad Crowell 4:06 Don't tell us about your shit when we meet you on tour. Lesley Logan 4:09 No, please don't. I don't want to hear it. I don't want to talk about my shit. I don't want to hear about your shit. But do you want to go on the West Coast tour? The tickets are already available. I actually don't even know how many cities we're going to at the time that we're recording this, but the team does.Brad Crowell 4:22 I haven't actually. Lesley Logan 4:22 We are, here's what I do know, we are spending a fuck ton of time and money to cross the border and go to Canada. So we are finally adding an international options to our West Coast tour. And so you're going to definitely want to the other Canada stops and or I know that we're hitting when I say West Coast, I mean California, Oregon, Washington. I know that we are hoping to do Idaho and Utah. Obviously while we're recording this, I don't have it in front of me, but I do know that the tickets sell fast, because our seventh tour, which is our winter tour, our last one, had literal cities sell out in 24 hours. So go to opc.me/events to see all the locations. Next up is September. We're going to be in the U.K. We have two cities with two day events at each one, Leeds and Essex.Brad Crowell 5:06 Nineteen.Lesley Logan 5:08 19 cities? Brad Crowell 5:08 I think we're on track for 19 cities with classes. Lesley Logan 5:12 Cool. Brad Crowell 5:12 Yeah, on the Summer Tour. Lesley Logan 5:13 Okay, well, thank you. So now we're on to Essex and Leeds and so this is our business in the front, Pilates in the back event, and it's two days long. Super fun, super affordable. You get six workshops, two classes for 550 pounds. Brad Crowell 5:29 I mean, it's kind of a steal, not a lot, yeah. Lesley Logan 5:32 Yeah, it's nuts, it's insane, and it's really fun. We get to spend a lot of time together, and the space is really limited and Leeds is like (inaudible).Brad Crowell 5:38 I think it's 485 pounds, 400, it's like 500 pounds. Somewhere around. Lesley Logan 5:41 Oh, maybe it's only 500 pounds. Brad Crowell 5:42 Yeah, because this is exchange thingy, so I can't remember exactly, but. Lesley Logan 5:46 Don't, don't listen to either of us quote a price. Just go to opc.me/uk. Brad Crowell 5:51 Yes. Lesley Logan 5:51 Because the early bird is over, but they're still a deal. Because the actual events, if we were to charge you for each one by itself, is like 2000 pounds, it was something ridiculous. Brad Crowell 5:59 That's way, way, way, way, way more. So yeah. Lesley Logan 6:02 So, opc.me/uk for the Leeds event or the Essex event. Leeds only has 16 spots, and I know we only have four left at the time we're recording this and then (inaudible).Brad Crowell 6:11 And it's not just Lesley who will be teaching, it'll be me, too. I'm actually gonna be there helping out. We're gonna do a couple of business life workshops, and then we're gonna do four Pilates workshops where you're digging into actual Pilates stuff, then I'm not teaching those. And then Lesley is also going to do a couple of classes and all the things, and then we're going to hang and, you know, all of it's going to be a blast, so. Lesley Logan 6:32 It's going to be so fun. And here's the deal, if you're like, oh, I'll go to the next U.K., I'm already in talks. Brad Crowell 6:37 Literally don't know when that's going to be. Lesley Logan 6:38 Yeah, I'm already in talks with several other countries that are across the world. And to be honest, Brad and I actually do like living in Vegas. So we are no longer doing multiple 12 hour flights in a year, just like not a thing for us. So I don't know that we'll hit the U.K. in the next two years after this. Brad Crowell 6:57 Yeah, at least.Lesley Logan 6:57 Even though that Brad loves it, we'd be there for vacation and not for work. So opc.me/UK is where you get your tickets there. What else, Brad? Brad Crowell 7:04 Okay, next up we got eLevate, y'all. If you've not heard of it, it's Lesley's Pilates mentorship program. It's a nine-month program, and you should do it, because it's going to change the way that you teach in incredibly dramatic way. You're going to feel way more confident about everything. People who take this program have told us they've stopped class planning. Their voices are not shot by the end of the day. They are not afraid of a random client walking in the door that they wouldn't necessarily know what to do with or prepare for. They don't have to do those things anymore, because when you go through this program, what you're going to do is you're going to dig in to all the different pieces of equipment, okay? And you're not just like learning exercises on them, although you will do that, you will learn everything that Lesley learned from Jay Grimes over the more than 10 years she studied with him and with Sandy Shimoda. You are actually going to be connecting the dots across the pieces of equipment that is going to allow you to understand why are you doing this thing with this person on the chair? Why would you then take them over to the barrels and do this other thing over there? And then, you know, because ultimately, you're understanding what their goals are, and then you can create the path through the equipment and through the exercises for them to reach their goals. Okay, how cool is that for you to just be able to understand that and not necessarily have to, like, go hit your books and be like, oh, I can't remember what I need to do with this person. No, when you go through elevate this stuff really comes together. And the the amount of confidence that has brought the people who have finished, which at this point, we got about 50 grads and 25 more people going through it this year. It's just been overwhelming feedback and in a positive way. And we want you to come. We're gonna do just the workout. Come get you know, move with Lesley, and then hang out afterwards. We're gonna do a Q&A talk all about eLevate. We are literally more than 50% sold out for 2026 so there's not that many spots left, but to find out about when this class is going to happen, go to lesleylogan.co/elevatewaitlist elevatewaitlist.Lesley Logan 9:09 I love this program so much. It's so much fun, and I'm really excited because next year we are going to do the two, two rounds again. We're not going to do it for the following year. This is the last time we can really commit to doing that, mostly because we just had so many people interested. We really, really didn't want you to wait. So we opened up another section, and like Brad said, it's almost sold out. It's just one of my favorite things. I get to spend so much time with you guys, and you, the progression, and then also, when you graduate, you're in the alumni group, and then I get to and then we're still together, and I'm still watching people elevate it's just (inaudible).Brad Crowell 9:25 We actually have a smaller group inside of the alumni who all virtually get together once a week to take an OPC class together and encourage each other and just get their movement. Lesley Logan 9:51 From around the world. Brad Crowell 9:52 From around the world. It's super cool. You know, we didn't set that up. They set it up. It's awesome. Anyway you want to be at this class. Go to lesleylogan.co/elevatewaitlist that'll be this summer. Brad Crowell 10:04 All right, next up, we got the Pilates Income Accelerator. If you are taking money from any person to teach them anything, whether that's Pilates or yoga or whatever, probably Pilates, because of who our audience usually is, I want you to come to this free workshop that I'm doing called the Pilates Income Accelerator. Go to prfit.biz/accelerator that's profit without the O dot biz slash accelerator. We're going to be covering three major secrets, about mindset, about money, about the numbers, and about marketing, and the messaging, the language you're using. We're going to be digging into those things, and then afterwards, I'm going to be able to answer questions about your business. So you can send in a question early, and I'll have it prepared so I can read through these questions and make sure everybody gets some kind of an answer here. I want you to come. It's free. You should do it. So go to prfit.biz/accelerator. Finally, Les, where are we going in October?Lesley Logan 10:59 Crowsnestretreats.com that's where we're going. We're going to our house in Siem Reap we have a lovely retreat planned for you. Oh my goodness. It's so wonderful. It's so cozy. It's a small group that can attend this event. We do Pilates five days. We go to the temples for two days. We take you to a lotus farm. We take you on a water tour. You get massages, and you also get to, like, really figure out what it is that you want when you leave, when you go home from the retreat. Brad Crowell 11:26 Yeah, so those are all what are we doing, but why would they go? Lesley Logan 11:30 Oh, I mean, because you're gonna feel like a freaking rock star when you come back, like you're actually gonna feel so good, you're gonna feel like you actually were in wonderment for a week. Wouldn't you like to get in wonderment for a week? I think so.Brad Crowell 11:43 Yeah. Wonder. Lesley Logan 11:45 Why do you think? Brad Crowell 11:46 When you think about Angkor Wat, it does create that intense curiosity, that wonder. How was it possible that they did what they did 1000 years ago, and for it to still be standing today, with all this epic, intricate carvings and all this stuff. You know, when you go on a journey like this, it's an adventure. You get to meet other amazing, adventurous people. We've also had, similar to eLevate, we've had retreaters stay connected afterwards. We've had like group retreat calls afterwards. We've had retreaters come back, bringing other people, because it was so inspirational. Lesley Logan 12:24 This coming one in October has someone from the last one, and then someone she's bringing her friend. And then last October, we had someone coming for the second year in a row, so like, just fun. Brad Crowell 12:34 Three or four times now, you know, yeah, we've had it happen over the years. Lesley Logan 12:38 It's a true like, when we hear the word retreat, it's like a true retreat. You get to really turn off what's going on in the world and focus on you and being in awe.Brad Crowell 12:47 Yeah, that's what's in it for you, y'all and you should join us. Go to crowsnestretreats.com. Before we get to Aletta, we have an audience question but. Lesley Logan 12:55 Yes, okay, I'm hijacking the questions again. Brad Crowell 12:57 Yeah, before you ask the question, I'm just gonna give it a quick preface. We spent the better part of a year building a tool that allows you to effectively have your own internal Google search situation going on through an AI tool that allows you to understand all the answers that Lesley and I have been giving to people for the past 10 years of coaching for fitness business. We call it the Pocket LL. And this tool, it was trained on 10 million words, where blog posts, webinars, courses, coaching, calls, group coaching calls, all these things where we're answering all these questions. And then we compiled it all into this insane database. And then we've got this awesome tool that you get to use when you're an Agency member. And today, we wanted to feature a question anonymously. We're not going to say the person's name, but we're going to feature a question that somebody actually asked the Pocket LL, so here you go.Lesley Logan 13:48 Yeah, so I have a problem client that gives me anxiety every time she comes in, but I owe her another six sessions in her 10 back. How do I fire her? Brad Crowell 13:57 That is, that's tough. Lesley Logan 13:58 And Pocket LL, said firing a client is never easy, but it's often necessary for your peace of mind and the health of your business. The image you see here captures an essential truth, it will never feel good to fire a client, but the sooner you take action, the fewer issues you'll have. Holding onto a problematic client can cost you more than just your sanity. It can affect your energy, your other clients and even your team. Here's how you can handle this gracefully. One, acknowledge sessions owed. You can refund the remaining six sessions or offer them to another instructor if you have one available, this ensures you're honoring the financial commitment without continuing the relationship. Two, be direct, but kind, say something like, thank you so much for working with me. I've realized that I'm no longer the best fit for your Pilates journey. I'd be happy to recommend another instructor or studio that might suit your needs better. Three, stick to your boundaries. If this client has been violating your policies or creating undue stress, don't feel obligated to explain or justify your decision. As I said before, you're not going to convince crazy. Keep it professional and move forward. I love when she quotes herself, which is me. Brad Crowell 15:00 You're not gonna convince crazy. That is amazing.Lesley Logan 15:03 I know. I mean, like I said that, so that's what I love about this. Okay. Four, prepare for pushback. Some clients may try to argue or guilt you into staying. Stay firm. Remember, you're creating space for better clients who respect your time and energy. And number five, focus on the opportunity. Once this client is gone, you'll have room for someone who uplifts you and aligns with your business values. Trust that the universe will fill that space with someone amazing. And then she always prompts with other questions. If you want to continue the conversation or you can just go start it's all good. Brad Crowell 15:32 Yep. Yeah. I mean, listening to those answers, I actually know the story behind every piece of that answer, because it's multiple conversations, over multiple calls, over multiple years, over multiple courses. And it's amazing that this, this tool is a, this search tool, is able to gather all that information and turn around and present it to you in a way that is cohesive, concise, and also you can actually use to take action. So. Lesley Logan 15:57 And it's and it's from all the years of experience of coaching thousands of businesses, and also all of my years of being and everything in this industry you could be. So I just really am so proud of the Pocket LL. And I do go through once a week and edit anything. And I'll, first, I stick with the things where people trigger an alert, because you could say avocado, if she makes sense to you. And then also I'll just go through for quality control and just read some of our answers. Sometimes I add another sentence because I'm like, oh, here's another idea. You know, now that I'm this many more years or I've helped this many more people, so it's always evolving. It's always getting better, and it's there for you no matter where you live in the world, as long as you're an Agency member. Brad Crowell 16:36 Yep, yeah. So if you're interested in what that even means, what that is, come to my free webinar like I was talking about go to prfit.biz/accelerator we will talk about Agency at the end, before I answer questions and come check it out.Lesley Logan 16:48 And then also, we'll go back to answering the questions you send in. I just wanted to hijack it because it's my podcast. Brad Crowell 16:53 I love it. I love it. All right. Well, stick around we'll be right back. We're going to dig into the conversation you have with Aletta Rochat. It was very inspirational. She is really good at bringing out excellence in people, so we'll be right back. Brad Crowell 17:09 All right. Welcome back. Let's talk about Aletta Rochat. Aletta is a public speaking coach and executive presence mentor based in Cape Town, South Africa. So an executive presence mentor, okay? She coached and trained in 21 countries, and will soon become the first woman from Africa the and only the 10th woman in 100 years to be the international president of Toastmasters International. So the 10th woman in the in what the last 100 years. She helps clients become more confident presenters by communicating with clarity, owning their presidents and reclaiming their sense of belonging. She also has been involved with Toastmasters since 2008. She has gone through all their educational material, and she's like the highest educator that they certify all the things she actually had a really great story about how she started to realize public speaking became like her survival mechanism, and then how it went on to now become her, you know, how she's supporting others succeed. I thought that was pretty cool. Lesley Logan 18:10 I also just, you know, like you like you hear, I heard about Toastmasters, like. Brad Crowell 18:14 I've heard about it so many times and I've never done, I don't even know what it was. Lesley Logan 18:16 And you kind of think like, oh, it's kind of like a Moose Club, like the Moose Lodge. Like, it's just, you know what I mean, but it's not, it's like, still going so strong, and it's helping a lot of people.Brad Crowell 18:26 She said they're in 150 countries. Lesley Logan 18:27 Yeah and it made me go all the people who are like, I need a friend. Go to fucking Toastmasters. Like, hear their stories. You'll connect. Yeah, you have to publicly speak, but you're gonna be around people.Brad Crowell 18:37 Well, she said you're guaranteed claps and guaranteed support, or you're guaranteed an audience and you're guaranteed claps. Lesley Logan 18:43 It sounds better than AA, where you also get both of those. I just think it sounds amazing. I'm so excited we're gonna highlight this. She said, "I show up differently when I think I belong." And she said that someone once told her, remember that you belong. That phrase helped her stay relaxed and be more spontaneous and likely to share her ideas. And I think that that's so important because for her to be where she's at in, in the world, but also in Toastmasters, each time she leveled up, there'd be, like, a reason to go, oh my God, who let me in here? They're gonna find out, like Maya Angelou is like, someone's gonna find out that I don't know what I'm doing. But if you remember that you belong, it changes how you show up. And you show up willing to be more yourself, which is going to allow you to connect with more people. And it's just so, so important. Brad Crowell 19:32 Well, I think also not only the vibes, the vibes are weird when you feel like you don't belong, but when you feel like you belong, you will approach the group, the conversation, the experience, in a much different way, because you're gonna participate. I mean, honestly, that's like the biggest thing. When you feel like you belong, you feel like you're allowed to participate, and if you feel like you don't belong, what do you do? You stand there and listen. You don't talk, you don't do anything. So I thought it was really, also, like, amazing that advice, hey, remember that you do belong. Remember that you do and she said, this was instantaneously a life-changing statement for her. Lesley Logan 20:11 Yeah. And so she even said, even though it wasn't a Be It Action Item yet, she said, "If you belong, how would you show up? How would you speak up?" And she says, like, it's like a fundamental building block of confidence and executive presence. And I just thought, yeah, we need to put that on our mirrors everywhere we can read them before we walk into a room where it's new for us. We're feeling a little nervous. I just thought was brilliant.Brad Crowell 20:32 I really dug in when she was talking about when to say yes, because you, you were asking her, it's like, wow, you seem willing to say yes to things. And she said, to my own detriment, sometimes I've said yes when I shouldn't have, but she said, the worst thing you could do is say yes to something that you don't want to do. And she was talking about, I think her example was like the Boy Scout troop, they asked her to do some specific role and and she said, thanks, but that's not the right role for me. I you know, she said there was nothing about it that lit me on fire, nothing that was exciting in any way to me, and to other people it might be really exciting, but for her, it wasn't. And she she said something very specific. She said when you say yes to something that you don't want to do, you literally start off building resentment from the, from day one. Lesley Logan 21:19 Yeah, she's correct. Honestly, I can look back going to the question, like, how do we fire a client? I remember taking the check going, I don't really want to teach her. And then the moment she texts me the next week, can I change my time? I'm like, like, it was, like a zero to 60 resentment, as opposed to someone I was really fired up to teach but like, oh yeah, this is your first time. We can do it, but not after that, you know. So she is 100%.Brad Crowell 21:44 Yeah, that was so poignant that she identified the resentment factor right out of the gate, you know. And we, why do we say yes to things that we don't want to do? Probably because we feel stuck, you know, like we feel like we have to. We feel like we're, you know, social pressure, guilt, money, something. There's underlying fear there that is making us do it. Could be family. That's like forcing us to do it, and it just builds that resentment. She said it should be both sides of the coin. You want to say yes because you want to do it and you also want to learn. I mean, what are the stories we tell ourselves? I have to say yes because I'm the right person for the job. I have the most experience. I just have to do it. No one else is going to do it, so I'm going to do it. These are a lot of reasons why we say yes, but we don't want to. Ultimately, it's important to offer service. I'm not arguing that we shouldn't be serving people, but even that service should be also doing something for you.Lesley Logan 22:37 Yeah, because you won't show up the same you just won't show up the same way. And I had someone who we actually really love and support in a lot of ways financially, and they'd ask me to be on a board. And if you guys have ever been around me, you know I've been on a board before I got burned. It was traumatizing. It was a whole thing. And I was like, I'll never be on an unpaid board again. And of course, I get this invite to apply. And I was like, there's a part of me is like, oh, they want me. And then I was like, oh, I can't do this. And then I was like, oh, I'm gonna let them down. I have, I know they need someone. Maybe I could do it if it's just, like, this much time a week, I was literally doing like, mental gymnastics to figure out how to say yes to the thing I already knew would not be the right thing. And then it took me forever to write up a thank you. But no, thank you. And you know what they said? We totally understand and thank you for being so honest. We don't want anyone to do this because they feel obligated, you know, and know that the door's always open if you, if anything ever changes and I was just like, oh, it could be that simple. It could be that simple. And honestly, if they'd answered any other way, I've been like, we're so disappointed. That is a fucking red flag to run away from. But if they're willing to be grateful, and you know, if they asked me, like, Who else do you do you know anyone else who could be right for this? I would have absolutely sent them some people, you know. So I just think that, like you can also see the true colors of the person if you're, if you're being authentically honest about whether you can say yes or no. Brad Crowell 24:09 I was laughing when she started to, to, she basically said, if you have helium hand, where just your hand goes up and you can't seem to stop it. I was laughing. I was like, what did she say? I literally rewound it. Listened to it twice. She said she's now learned to sit in her hands every now and again. So, good for her. And she said, you know, just make sure saying yes is not a reaction or a reflex reaction, but it's a concerted action. It's a decision that you're making. So awesome. Brad Crowell 24:37 Well anyway, great takeaways right there from Aletta. Stick around. We'll be right back. We're going to dig into those Be It Action Items. Brad Crowell 24:46 All right, welcome back. Let's dig into those Be It Action Items from Aletta Rochat. What bold, executable, intrinsic or targeted action items can we take away from your convo? She said, hey, here is how you identify your superpowers, which I'm all about. She said what are the clues to your superpowers? It's what other people keep asking you for help with. What is, what is it that you are consistently asked about, like, hey, can you help me, like, prep this thing or cook this dish or organize this event or be on the board or whatever. What is the thing that you keep being asked to do? She shared that most people overlook their strength, strengths because A. they come supernaturally to you. You might not even realize that they are a strength that you have, that others don't. They often become the most powerful gifts, right? Like, my mom has the gift of gab. That's what everybody said. Wow your mom, she's amazing. She talks to everybody. She's got the gift of gab, right? Well, sometimes the gift of gab was like, my dad was like, are we ready to go? Are we ready to go? So the way that I grew up, sometimes the gift of gab was a negative thing, because it was like, talk, talk, talk, talk, talk, right? And it wasn't until later that I realized that it can also be a positive thing. So sometimes we look at what actually is a strength in the wrong light.Lesley Logan 26:04 Because somebody may have told you, yeah, told you you talk too much, or you're a big jokester, or you don't take things seriously, but there's always a positive side to a coin. Brad Crowell 26:12 Yeah, and I'm not trying to do my dad a disservice there, but I called him out, that's not what I meant.Lesley Logan 26:17 If Steven listens to this. Hi, Steven. You can come visit anytime.Brad Crowell 26:30 Aletta said that somehow society, that's a very inside joke, y'all, and I don't think literally, anybody except for my family, would get that. Aletta also said somehow society has conditioned us that we tend to verbalize what we're good at saying, oh, it's nothing, no big deal. Oh, yeah, you know, glad to help. You know, but we don't actually identify that it's really a superpower. An example that I didn't understand when I was in my band in when I first moved out to L.A. and I'm like, running around getting us set up to do the get the show, I talked to the venue owner, I like, figured out the night of the week that the band could do it. We rehearsed. We had to do a bunch of rehearsals. We get in there. We made a little marketing flyer. We distributed the marketing flyer, got it out into the community. All to do what? I just wanted to play. I just wanted to play on stage, right? And so I'm doing all the things to so that I can get up on stage and play. And what I didn't understand was that doing all those things that's actually part of my superpower. I saw the path through, how do I get to the end goal, you know? And then what are the steps that we need to do to do it? And ultimately, when I, when I finally identified that this was a strength of mine by doing the Strengths Finders exam, the first time I took it in 2010, it was this mind-blowing thing, because I was like, oh, everybody doesn't do that. I thought this was just the what you just do, what you have to do. I guess. That's the way I saw it. And it wasn't until I understood that this was actually valuable that I was able to go get a job to do literally that, and that's how I got into operations instead of companies. Kind of crazy. (inaudible) Yeah, you know, she said, We trivialize it because we don't recognize this as a strength. We hold back articulating our value. We don't identify that we have something that most people might not have, and that becomes our superpower. It can, it should. When we look at it through that lens, suddenly you're like, oh, this is something I'm inherently good at, and that is really a superpower. It's amazing. Like my mom's gift of gab is a superpower. You know, figuring out a way through the chaos is my superpower. But how do you identify that? Right? Then, when you finally are able to identify that again, I do recommend Strengths Finders, Clifton Strengths, they call it now. Now you get to finally say, my superpower is x, right?Lesley Logan 28:48 Yeah. Brad Crowell 28:49 What about you? Lesley Logan 28:50 Okay, so I said it before, but I think it's real. I really love that it's back here in the Be It Action Items, just in case you need to hear it again. She said, reclaim your sense of belonging and give yourself permission to belong. Aletta urged us to reclaim the feeling of belonging if we've lost it. She emphasized, it's within our power to grant ourselves permission to belong. And once you reclaim it, start playing with it. You can start thinking and start speaking and start acting as if you belong. It might feel like you're this is like the true be it till you see it, it's gonna feel like you're acting. There was an interview that's coming out, or it may have already been out, where someone talked about how they love the podcast name, because every day, we allow actors to play a role in a movie, and we believe them, right? We believe that they are that person for that period of time. And being it till you see it is like acting as it. And so you are going to reclaim it, and you're gonna play with it. You're gonna play with belonging, all that stuff, and before you know it, you'll have played it so much that you become it. That's it. You become the person that belongs. You're giving yourself permission. So I just thought, I was like, that's a be it till you see it right there. That's why this exists. So thank you, Aletta, for being you. You're so amazing. I'm so glad we're able to make this happen. I'm Lesley Logan. Brad Crowell 30:03 And I'm Brad Crowell. Lesley Logan 30:04 Thank you so much for listening. I hope this was really awesome for you. I really loved it. I also just love her voice. I love the way she explained things, the helium hand, like there's just so many things to go back to and listen. So please take another listen through if you haven't already, share it with a friend who needs to hear it, especially the ones who need to sit on their hands, but also the ones who need to be reminded that they belong and until next time, Be It Till You See It. Brad Crowell 30:26 Bye for now.Lesley Logan 30:28 That's all I got for this episode of the Be It Till You See It Podcast. One thing that would help both myself and future listeners is for you to rate the show and leave a review and follow or subscribe for free wherever you listen to your podcast. Also, make sure to introduce yourself over at the Be It Pod on Instagram. I would love to know more about you. Share this episode with whoever you think needs to hear it. Help us and others Be It Till You See It. Have an awesome day. Be It Till You See It is a production of The Bloom Podcast Network. If you want to leave us a message or a question that we might read on another episode, you can text us at +1-310-905-5534 or send a DM on Instagram @BeItPod. Brad Crowell 31:10 It's written, filmed, and recorded by your host, Lesley Logan, and me, Brad Crowell.Lesley Logan 31:15 It is transcribed, produced and edited by the epic team at Disenyo.co.Brad Crowell 31:19 Our theme music is by Ali at Apex Production Music and our branding by designer and artist, Gianfranco Cioffi.Lesley Logan 31:26 Special thanks to Melissa Solomon for creating our visuals.Brad Crowell 31:30 Also to Angelina Herico for adding all of our content to our website. 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Are you struggling to find purpose after life's most devastating challenges? What if losing everything could be the catalyst for your greatest transformation? In a world that often breaks us, how do we not just survive, but emerge stronger, more resilient, and more authentically ourselves?Meet Daryl Calfee - a remarkable storyteller, artist, and resilience architect who has transformed personal tragedy into a powerful narrative of hope, growth, and reinvention. From a farm in West Virginia to becoming a creative professional and now a home developer, Daryl embodies the art of turning life's most challenging moments into opportunities for profound personal evolution.Quotes:"When you wake up, you were the only one that was concerned about your happiness." - Daryl Calfee"If you're curious, you'll find that your empathy grows. You'll find that your connection grows." - Daryl Calfee"The hardest time to do the right thing is when everything in the world is telling you not to." - Matt BeaudreauKey Takeaways:Embrace Your Unique Interests: Even if your passion seems unconventional, lean into what makes you different - it might become your greatest strength.Practice Radical Gratitude: Transform challenges by focusing on what you're thankful for, not what you've lost.Give Yourself Permission to Evolve: You are not defined by your past or current circumstances. Allow yourself to become the next version of yourself.Build Resilience Through Curiosity: Approach life's challenges with an open, curious mindset that seeks to understand and grow.Conclusion:In the face of life's most devastating challenges, Daryl Calfee demonstrates that our greatest strength lies not in avoiding pain, but in our capacity to transform it into a powerful narrative of hope, resilience, and personal reinvention. His journey reveals that every setback is an opportunity to redesign ourselves, to lean into our unique passions, and to emerge not just surviving, but authentically thriving. Through storytelling, art, and unwavering gratitude, Daryl shows us that the most profound leadership begins with the courage to embrace our own vulnerability and continuously evolve.
The Live for Yourself Revolution Podcast: Living toward greater health, wealth, and happiness
Welcome everyone to LFY Fearless Fridays where we offer a quick tip, exercise, or just a thought on how you can live more for yourselves. Today is your day and how can you make it fearless!Make sure to check out Dr. Ritter's book, “Becoming Fearless: 65 Strategies to Journey from Self-Doubt to Self-Mastery” at liveforyourselfconsulting.com/becomingfearless and make sure to connect with him on LinkedIn at: /in/drbenjaminritter-leadershipdevelopment/
Today, we're going to explore why putting yourself first is not only a radical act of self-care, but a revolutionary act of self-love. I'll share practical tips for setting boundaries, stepping into your power, and reclaiming your time and energy without guilt.In this powerful, empowering and transformative podcast episode on "Journey to Self-Love", we're diving into one of the most essential—and often overlooked—elements of true self-love: putting yourself first.Too many of us have been taught to prioritize others, to give without asking for anything in return, and to shrink in order to make space for everyone else. But here's the truth: you are worthy of love, time, and care. In order to fully show up for the people and passions you love, you first have to honor your own needs and desires. The harsh reality is , you must be able to breathe for yourself before you can take care of others.Together, we'll uncover how putting yourself first isn't selfish—it's necessary. When you honor your own needs, you free up the energy and space to live your fullest, most vibrant life. So, if you've been waiting for the permission to step into your power, here it is: It's YOUR time to thrive.Drop a comment or share your thoughts with me personally—let's support each other on this amazing self-love journey.With Love,Sharon D. Meadows
Hey Friend!Ever feel like your event production could use a little more oomph? In this episode, I sit down with Matthew Byrne, founder of Byrne Production Services, to uncover why production value matters and how putting production first can take your events from “meh” to mesmerizing. With over 20 years in the events industry and a background in theatre, Matthew brings the touch of production that planners like us dream about. We talk about why the right production partner can make or break your event, how to keep your storytelling dynamic (even on a tight budget), and what actually matters when it comes to video, lighting, and content strategy. Whether you're planning your first big show or looking to elevate what you're already doing, this convo is packed with real talk, pro tips, and a little theatrical flair. If you're ready to create experiences that stick—and want a partner who truly gets it—hit play now. Let's go!Episode Links:Connect with Bryne Production ServicesNext Steps:Grab the Free Simplify Your Work-Life Guide - https://plannersonpurpose.myflodesk.com/simplifyGrab the Free Manage Your Burnout Mini-Course - https://www.plannersonpurpose.com/managingburnout/Read the Blog:Be a Better Leader - 10 Ways to Show True HospitalityGiving Unreasonable Hospitality at Your EventsListen to Related Episodes:164 - Event Planners, Give Yourself Permission to Do Something DifferentSupport the showShare today's episode and tag me @plannersonpurpose Snag Free Gifts, and Find out More at https://www.plannersonpurpose.com Overwhelmed and Struggling with how to move forward? Get clarity by downloading my FREE Master Your Burnout Guide.Want to work together, friend? Well, I'm here to help you start to get clarity, confidence, and zap out the chronic stress you experience in your event planning process. Get Clarity and Confidence in Your Purpose by scheduling a Purpose Call. Refresh Your Event Planning Process for Less Stress. Advance your Career by Adding Ease To Getting Your CMP. Courses aren't your thing? Perhaps my 1:1 coaching program will be what you need - Let's connect!
In this episode of Monday Meeting, host Lee Smalt welcomes creative director Jason Jacobson to discuss the art of pitching unconventional ideas and finding the courage to present concepts that push boundaries.This episode includes: Jason's 20-year journey from copywriter to creative director, and how his experience with improv comedy has shaped his approach to pitching creative concepts The value of the "chicken wing construct" - presenting ideas in escalating levels of boldness to gradually build client comfort with more adventurous conceptsWhy presenting multiple ideas is essential, with Jason noting "2/3 of my ideas are going to be cut, and that's okay" - creating resilience against rejectionInsights on psychology in pitching, including using premium options to make middle-tier options more appealing to clientsThe power of creating interactive experiences that invite audience participation, like installations that turn passive viewers into active participantsThought-provoking examples of successful bizarre pitches, including a concept featuring a pet camel that resonated surprisingly well with a technical college audienceThe reminder that "no one remembers controversy after two years" - encouragement to take creative risks in a world of short attention spansNext week kicks off the new theme of "Identity" with Kendall Hotchkiss hosting a discussion on how identity relates to illustration and branding in motion design.Visit MondayMeeting.org for this episode and other resources from the motion design community, and sign up for the newsletter to stay connected with upcoming events and discussions.SHOW NOTES:Monday Meeting PatreonMonday Meeting DiscordMondayMeeting LinkedInMondayMeeting InstagramMondayMeeting BlueskyMondayMeeting NewsletterJason's book: “Buried in Beige”The Unfinished Swan Game
Send us a textWelcome back to Proof It's Possible! In this episode, we dive into the powerful balance between gratitude and desire—and why giving yourself permission to want more isn't something to feel guilty about. We unpack the cultural narratives that often hold us back, especially as women, from embracing our full range of desires and dreams. Tune in to hear:Why gratitude should be the foundation, but wanting more is okay.Recognizing personal joy is essential in understanding what you truly want.Why it's important to challenge the narrative of 'good is good enough.'How desiring more can lead to greater opportunities and fulfillment.What would change if you gave yourself full permission to want more? Share your thoughts with us—we'd love to hear! DM us on Instagram @dayle_sheehan_designs & @jamiedfrancis! See you next time!This episode is sponsored by our Ultimate Girls Trip! Be sure to go to www.proofitspossible.com for more infoFor More Information:• Proof It's Possible Website• The Ultimate Girls Trip Instagram Dayle: • Instagram • Facebook • LinkedIn • Website• Interior Design Jamie:• Instagram • Facebook • LinkedIn• Website
Dr. Forbes Riley, celebrity TV host, bestselling author, a sought-after keynote motivational speaker, high-performance success coach, and host of a top-rated podcast joins me on this episode. Known as the “Queen of the Perfect Pitch,” Forbes has hosted more than 190 infomercials and generated over $2.5B in global sales. She is regularly featured in popular media outlets including NBC's The Today Show, ABC's Good Morning America, CBS Morning News, The View, Fast Company, the New York Times, and many others.
Hello to you listening in Lucknow, India!Coming to you from Whidbey Island, Washington this is Stories From Women Who Walk with 60 Seconds for Story Prompt Friday and your host, Diane Wyzga./“Story is a way to resurrect our humanity so that we can engage and connect with others and transform the lives of those we serve.” [Diane Wyzga]We are all “living stories.” The best stories usually arise from the pivotal moments of our lives. Why? People face hardships. Our hardships show us the way to recovery. When we tell our stories - when we give ourselves permission to express that wounded, vulnerable, authentic side - those who hear our story can say, “What! You, too? I thought I was the only one.” [C.S. Lewis] And now that I know I'm not alone I, too, can summon the courage to get myself from Here to There.Story Prompt: When have you given yourself permission to tell yourself about how you overcame hardship? What happened next? Write that story!You're always invited: “Come for the stories - stay for the magic!” Speaking of magic, would you subscribe and spread the word with a generous 5-star review and comment - it helps us all - and join us next time!Meanwhile, stop by my Quarter Moon Story Arts website to:✓ Check out Services I Offer,✓ For a no-obligation conversation about your story questions, don't delay - get in touch today,✓ Stay current with Diane as "Wyzga on Words" on Substack.Stories From Women Who Walk Production TeamPodcaster: Diane F Wyzga & Quarter Moon Story ArtsMusic: Mer's Waltz from Crossing the Waters by Steve Schuch & Night Heron MusicAll content and image © 2019 to Present Quarter Moon Story Arts. All rights reserved.
Show Notes: Mastering Focus and Productivity with Jones Loflin Guest: Jones Loflin – Professional Speaker, Author, and Coach Host: Amb. Elisha Episode Theme: Overcoming Distractions, Mastering Focus, and Achieving What Matters Most Episode Summary: In this insightful episode, productivity expert Jones Loflin shares powerful strategies for improving focus and eliminating distractions. With over 30 years of experience as a speaker, coach, and author, Jones has mastered the art of using analogies and practical models to help people take control of their time and energy. From the circus to the garden to a hive of bees, his unique approach makes complex concepts simple and actionable. Key Takeaways from the Conversation: ✅ Busy vs. Focused – The Real Difference: Many people mistake activity for productivity. Jones breaks down how being busy doesn't mean you're making real progress and how to shift toward intentional, meaningful work. ✅ The #1 Reason We Struggle to Focus: Jones explains that we often give ourselves permission to be distracted—but we rarely give ourselves permission to focus. He dives into practical ways to reverse this habit and regain control of our attention. ✅ Simple Steps to Improve Focus Daily: Identify what is distracting you (phones, thoughts, environment, etc.). Set clear priorities—know what truly matters. Create the right environment for focus. Align your energy levels with your work for maximum productivity. ✅ Biggest Myths About Focus—Debunked! One of the biggest misconceptions? That focus is easy. Jones challenges this belief and provides insights on how to develop the discipline and awareness needed to maintain focus. ✅ How to Give Yourself Permission to Focus: Jones introduces his six permissions framework, a powerful mindset shift that helps individuals prioritize focus and eliminate unnecessary distractions. Why You Should Listen: If you find yourself constantly distracted, overwhelmed, or struggling to get things done, this episode is packed with actionable insights to help you take control of your focus and start seeing real results in your personal and professional life.
Season 3 Episode 65: Pregnant at 16 years old, Leah found herself in a place of total confusion, panic and sadness. She was frustrated with her boyfriend and not sure what to do. Fast forward 20 years later; Leah has a powerful story of placing her daughter for adoption, as well as going on to parent five beautiful kids with her husband. Leah and Kim talk about therapy, self-blaming and shame versus grace and freedom, and enjoying moment of joy in the midst of hardship. (This episode is not sponsored by Chick-fil-A but it basically is, they just don't know it yet)...Leah's Website: https://www.leahoutten.com/What is EMDR Therapy?: https://www.emdr.com/what-is-emdr/Leah Outten's previous Book Therapy podcast episode #43: Episode 43: Give Yourself Permission to GrieveLeah's Resources for Adoptive families: https://www.leahoutten.com/services~Get to know the host:Kim Patton's book- Nothing Wasted: Struggling Well through Difficult Seasonsis for those struggling through hard times. View the book in paperback, ebook, and audiobook: Books | Mysite (kimpatton.com)Dear Foster Mama letter on SubstackEnter email address on Substack for free sample chapters:Author Kim Patton | SubstackCheck it out at your local library using the Hoopla app!Website: www.kimpatton.comSubstack: Author Kim Patton | SubstackLatest Stories on Her View from HomeYouTube Channel- listen to Book Therapy episodes here, too.Stay in Touch with Author Kim Patton and get your first freebie!Goodreads
For years, this podcast has been a space where we've explored truth, intention, and the power of showing up as we are. Today, I'm honoring those same values as I share a big shift: Attention to Intention is going on pause.This isn't a goodbye — it's an intentional pivot.A choice to create space, even when things look good on paper. A decision to walk away from what's working to make room for what's next.In this episode, I share with you, my friend: – Why I'm pressing pause at the peak of momentum – The power of choosing evolution over expectation (even when it's scary) – How to trust the leap, even when you can't see the other sideThis is for the woman who feels the quiet tug to leave behind a lane she's outgrown — even if she has no clue what comes next.Because that fear? It's the price of admission to your next chapter. And you, you beautiful badas*, are worth discovering the space to meet that version of you. If you've ever felt like you're outgrowing a version of yourself that once felt right — this conversation is your invitation to evolve.-----------✨ And if you're curious about what's next — I'd love to invite you into UNLEASHED, the global leadership space I'm building as Founder & Head of Leadership Innovation.We disrupt autopilot, anxiety, and overwhelm through our Intentionality Framework—transforming micro-moment decisions into powerful shifts in self-leadership, communication, innovation, and performance.Our mission is to measurably elevate our global workforces Intentionality Index, creating a ripple effect that transforms individuals, teams, cultures, and industries.Website:UNLEASHED Women's Leadership | HOMELinkedIn: (1) Unleashed Leadership: Overview | LinkedInEmail: Team@unleashedleadership.org #thecouragetoevolve #intentionalleadership #selfleadership #permissiontogrow #leadershipfromwithin #womeninleadership #highachievingwomen #consciousleadership #authenticleadership #anxietysupport #mentalwellbeing
Spring has a way of making us want to throw open the windows, clear out the junk drawer, and scrub every surface until it gleams. There's something about the longer days and lighter evenings that stirs up the urge for a fresh start. But while we're wiping down shelves and hauling out bags of donations, how often do we think about the clutter we can't see?I'm talking about the emotional and mental mess, the overwhelm, the overcommitting, the perfectionism that quietly weighs us down. The things we carry around in our heads and hearts long after they've outlived their purpose. So today, let's talk about a different kind of spring cleaning the kind that makes space in your soul.Let's slow down and journey together through the seasons with simplicity and intention. Subscribe to receive simple musings directly in your inbox.Letting Go of Mental ClutterWe all know what it feels like to walk into a room that's messy and chaotic. Your eyes don't know where to land, your mind feels scattered, and it's hard to focus. Now, imagine that same disarray but inside your head.Mental clutter shows up in so many ways:* Overwhelm from trying to juggle too many responsibilities.* Overcommitting because you're afraid of letting people down.* Perfectionism keeping you stuck, convincing you that if it's not flawless, it's not worth doing.Sound familiar? Me too.For a long time, I was the queen of overcommitting. I'd agree to things before checking my calendar, thinking I could somehow squeeze in one more thing. I'd say yes when my whole being was begging for a no. And perfectionism? She was my unwanted sidekick. I'd rewrite emails three times before sending them. I'd overthink captions to the point of deleting them. It was exhausting.But here's what I've learned: you can't create a slow and simple life if your mind is constantly racing. You can't feel at ease if your thoughts are tangled up in ‘shoulds' and ‘not enoughs'.How to Clear the Mental Clutter:* Simplify your inputs: Cut back on the noise. Mute accounts that leave you feeling inadequate. Reduce notifications. Give yourself permission to answer messages when you have capacity, not instantly.* Set gentle boundaries: Protect your peace by saying no, even when it's uncomfortable. It's okay to turn down a request or step back from a commitment if it's stretching you too thin.* Ditch perfectionism: Done is better than perfect. Let good enough be enough. You're allowed to send the email, share the post, or finish the project without polishing it to oblivion.I set up a Buy Me a Coffee as a simple and meaningful way for those who enjoy my work to support the abundance of free content I create. From my podcast, newsletters, and Instagram posts to the thoughtful resources I share, so much of what I do is fueled by a love for slow, simple, and seasonal living.If my content has ever inspired, encouraged, or supported you on your journey, and you'd like to give back in a small way, buying me a coffee is a beautiful way to do so and starts at £1. Every contribution helps me continue sharing free content while also supporting the time, energy, and love that goes into creating it.Your support, whether through a coffee or simply by engaging with my content, means the world to me. Thank you for being part of this slow and intentional space!Refreshing Routines & Creating Space for RestSpring is nature's gentle nudge to refresh, to shed what feels heavy and make room for lightness. And that doesn't just mean deep-cleaning your kitchen cupboards. It also means taking a good look at your daily rhythms.I used to have this habit of clinging to routines that no longer worked for me. Even when they felt clunky and draining, I'd stick with them out of habit. But spring is a beautiful reminder that it's okay to let your routines evolve with the season.Ask yourself:* Are your current rhythms fuelling or draining you?* Do you need more slowness in your mornings or more stillness in your evenings?* Could you loosen the grip on routines that feel too rigid?For me, refreshing my routine in spring looks like:* Swapping the coffee on the sofa mornings for coffee in the garden mornings.* Slowing down my evenings by reading with soft lighting instead of scrolling my phone.* Leaving white space in my calendar just for the sake of it—no tasks, no plans, just room to breathe.How to Create Space for Rest:* Prioritise white space: You don't have to fill every hour. Leaving space in your schedule allows room for spontaneity, creativity, and genuine rest.* Build transition moments: Add tiny moments of pause between activities. A short walk after work, a tea break before tackling the next task…it all counts.* Redefine productivity: Rest doesn't need to be earned. It's not a reward for getting everything done, it's the fuel that makes everything else sustainable.Your Soulful Spring Cleaning Prompt:If you're feeling ready to do some internal spring cleaning, here's a gentle journaling prompt to sit with:“What am I holding onto that feels heavy, and what would it feel like to set it down?”Let yourself write freely. Don't overthink it. Let the words flow onto the page without judgement.And if you find that you're carrying more than you realised, be gentle with yourself. Spring cleaning for the soul is not about fixing, it's about lightening. It's about making just a little more space for the things that breathe life into you.Let's slow down and journey together through the seasons with simplicity and intention. Subscribe to receive simple musings directly in your inbox.Give Yourself Permission to Let GoSo, as you dust off your shelves and scrub your floors this spring, I hope you'll also make time to dust off your soul. To clear out the self-imposed pressure, the perfectionism, and the emotional clutter that no longer fits.Because you deserve to feel lighter. You deserve to breathe easier. You deserve a spring that feels spacious, not just in your home, but in your heart.Let me know: what are you letting go of this spring? Share your reflections with me over on Instagram or in the comments. I'd love to hear what you're releasing and making space for. To hear more, visit theslowlivingcollective.substack.com
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Courtney McDermott is a bestselling author, TEDx speaker, and transformational coach who has helped countless high performers break free from self-imposed limitations. From corporate executive to globally sought-after coach, Courtney's journey is a testament to the power of mindset, self-trust, and letting go of control.In this episode, we explore the themes of her book, Give Yourself Permission, and how embracing a new way of thinking can unlock greater freedom, confidence, and success.Key Takeaways:The Illusion of Control: Why high performers often feel trapped by their own drive for success—and how to break free.Rewiring Your Mindset: The neuroscience behind confidence, trust, and surrendering to the unknown.The Power of Gratitude: How a simple shift in focus can rewire your brain and transform your daily experience.Unlocking Time Freedom: Courtney's perspective on time and how to step out of the "do more" trap.Practical Strategies: Yawning, movement, and laughter—unexpected yet science-backed tools to reset your nervous system and boost creativity.Courtney shares profound insights on the importance of presence, breaking out of limiting thought patterns, and how to embrace a more expansive way of living. Her work blends neuroscience, epigenetics, and quantum physics to help people move beyond performance-based identity into true self-expression.If you've ever felt stuck in your own ambitions or struggled with the pressure to control every outcome, this episode will help you shift your perspective and step into a more empowered way of living.This episode was proudly sponsored by NZ Mortgages. You can contact them here - https://www.nzmortgages.co.nzPurchase your copy of “Give Yourself Permission” here -https://www.cortneymcdermott.com/book/Connect with Cortney here - https://www.cortneymcdermott.comLearn more about Cortney here - https://www.cortneymcdermott.com/cortney-mcdermott-2/Get the Growth Weekly Newsletter sent straight to your inbox and join 1000's of other high-performers on the road to self-mastery - https://www.jjlaughlin.com/newsletter-----Website: https://www.jjlaughlin.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6GETJbxpgulYcYc6QAKLHA Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JamesLaughlinOfficial Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jameslaughlinofficial/ Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/nz/podcast/life-on-purpose-with-james-laughlin/id1547874035 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3WBElxcvhCHtJWBac3nOlF?si=hotcGzHVRACeAx4GvybVOQ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jameslaughlincoaching/James Laughlin is a High Performance Leadership Coach, Former 7-Time World Champion, Host ofSend me a personal text messageSupport the show
In this insightful episode of Inside Personal Growth, host Greg Voisen sits down with Cortney McDermott, a best-selling author, TEDx speaker, and mind-body expert. Cortney shares her journey of transformation, touching on her career shifts from Vanity Fair to becoming a transformational coach and author. The conversation dives deep into the power of self-permission, spiritual growth, and the balance between science and spirituality. Cortney emphasizes how giving yourself permission to thrive, embrace change, and relax into the flow of life can lead to profound personal growth and fulfillment. Topics Discussed: -The inspiration behind Cortney's book Give Yourself Permission. -The concept of self-permission and overcoming societal expectations. -The science and spirituality of mind-body energy. -The importance of shifting from striving to arriving in life. -Reprogramming beliefs for better health and happiness. -The energy of money and how abundance flows through us. -The role of play and creativity in unlocking inner peace. -Trusting in oneself and embracing the journey of personal growth.
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2x Emmy Award-winning TV host, journalist, and author Tamron Hall has hit milestones in her life that a younger version of herself would never have believed were possible. Part of the secret to her success is her willingness to try, even when she doesn't know how things will work out. This is a lesson she learns from her grandfather, and from her mom, whose legacies teach her that there's beauty in trying. Learn more about The Tamron Hall Show: https://tamronhallshow.com/Follow Tamron on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamronhall/If this episode resonates with you, we'd love to hear from you. Please take a moment to share your reflections by rating and reviewing Meditative Story in your podcast player. It helps other listeners find their way to show, and we'd be so grateful.Each episode of Meditative Story combines the emotional pull of first-person storytelling with immersive music and gentle mindfulness prompts. Read the transcript for this story: meditativestory.comSign up for the Meditative Story newsletter: https://meditativestory.com/subscribeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Show LinksAlmost Daily Email –Sign up hereThe YLF Blog –Read more hereJoin The YLF Experience –Start hereYLF30 –Begin your journeyAre you waiting for permission to start living the life you truly want? It's time to let go of that mindset and take action. In this episode ofThe Daryl Perry Podcast, Daryl breaks down why so many people hold themselves back by seeking approval from others. Whether it's fear of failure, uncertainty about what you truly want, or using others as an excuse to delay change, it all comes down to one thing—you need to decide for yourself.Daryl explores the difference between genuine disinterest and avoidance due to discomfort, the importance of trying new things, and how to assess whether changes are truly worth pursuing. He also shares why many people confuse the awkwardness of starting something new with failure, and how to push through those early struggles.If you've ever felt stuck, unsure of what you want, or hesitant to take action, this episode is for you. It's time to step into your own life and make choices that align withyour goals.Key Takeaways:✔️ You don't need permission from anyone else to start living life on your terms.✔️ Many people avoid action because they fear failure or want an easy way out.✔️ Failure is not the end—momentum comes in different forms, including discovering what youdon't want.✔️ The discomfort of starting something new is not the same as failing—don't let early awkwardness hold you back.✔️ Take an honest look at your life—are you living for yourself or making excuses?If this message resonates with you, share this episode with someone who needs to hear it!Visitdarylperrypodcast.com for links to subscribe on your favorite podcast platform.For comments, questions, topic ideas, or collaboration inquiries, emaildaryl@yourlevelfitness.com.
"It's the attachment to the desire. In other words, it's without this thing, I can't be happy." -Cortney McDermott In this enlightening episode of the Turmeric & Tequila Podcast, your host Kristen Olson sits down with the dynamic Cortney McDermott, a best-selling author, TEDx speaker, and self-development expert. With a rich background that spans executive roles at Vanity Fair Corporation to advising globally recognized brands, Cortney shares her journey of personal growth and professional success. Together, they delve into the profound impact of connecting with one's innate intelligence and the art of gracefully disrupting conventional thinking to unlock human potential. This conversation beautifully ties personal experiences with universal truths, offering listeners valuable insights on trusting the inner self, embracing change, and mastering the subtle balance between effort and surrender. Whether you're seeking inspiration in health, wellness, or personal development, Cortney's wisdom will resonate deeply, encouraging you to redefine success and navigate life with greater consciousness and intention. Join us as we explore the transformational power of authenticity and intuition. Grab a seat, and let's dive into this engaging dialogue! Time Stamps: 00:00 "Young Seeker of Human Potential" 07:38 Inspiring Youth Journeys 14:22 "Detachment and Happiness: DeMello's Insight" 17:13 Consciousness-Driven Personal Evolution 21:25 Personalized Daily Wellness Practices 27:12 The Power of Focused Effort 32:00 Unlock Creativity Through Restful Techniques 37:57 "The Power of Potential and Change" 47:07 "Mastering the Mind's Direction" 50:53 Energy Liberation through Shaking 55:06 "Finding Your Own Path" 59:21 "Give Yourself Permission Audiobook Release" Cortney McDermott: CORTNEY MCDERMOTT is a bestselling author, TEDx speaker, and mind-body enthusiast, with a Master of Science from the London School of Economics. Her work in the field of self-development and business strategy has been featured in Inc., Women's Health, SUCCESS, The Huffington Post, FOX News, and many other mainstream business and lifestyle media. Cortney's career highlights include her time as an executive at Vanity Fair Corporation, Vice President at Sustainability Partners Inc., and then running her own businesses, with clients and audiences at Universal Music Group, Google, Nike, and Virgin Unite. Cortney speaks four languages and lives between Italy and the US. @cortneymcdermott WWW.CORTINC.COM www.linkedin.com/in/cortneymcdermott Books: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Cortney%20McDermott/author/B071L8BPF3 Mastermond: https://www.thealiveculture.com/ Connect with T&T: IG: @TurmericTequila Facebook: @TurmericAndTequila Website: www.TurmericAndTequila.com Host: Kristen Olson IG: @Madonnashero Tik Tok: @Madonnashero Website: www.KOAlliance.com WATCH HERE MORE LIKE THIS: https://youtu.be/ZCFQSpFoAgI?si=Erg8_2eH8uyEgYZF https://youtu.be/piCU9JboWuY?si=qLdhFKCGdBzuAeuI https://youtu.be/9Vs2JDzJJXk?si=dpjV31GDqTroUKWH
In this episode, Coach Jineen shares her journey from burnout to breakthrough. Drawing from her personal sabbatical experience and lessons learned from nearly hitting burnout, she explains why “doing nothing is doing something.” If you're an overachiever, perfectionist, or ambitious mom struggling with chronic stress and Superwoman Syndrome, this episode is for you. Coach Jineen breaks down how taking time to rest isn't a sign of weakness—it's a strategic pause that refines your energy, recalibrates your mindset, and sets you up to hit your target with full force. Key Topics Discussed: The Power of Rest: How pausing and “doing nothing” helps you prepare for your next big move. Overcoming Superwoman Syndrome: Recognizing the burden of trying to do it all and the importance of self-care. Intentional Living & Mindfulness: How being deliberate with your choices can transform stress into sustainable success. The Bow and Arrow Metaphor: Understanding tension and rest as part of the journey to success. Health & Well-Being: Personal stories about burnout, chronic stress, and the warning signs our bodies send us. Refinement as a Word for 2025: Transitioning from expansion to refining systems, automating, and delegating. Announcements: The upcoming February Masterclass: Activate Momentum – The Power of Positive Self-Talk & Leveraging AI New Intentional Queen Podcast episode dropping soon about “Building Your Ark.” Ep. 95 Updates on the “I Choose Me” book and community updates. Resources Mentioned: I Choose Me – The Intentional Guide to Never Losing Yourself Again at buyichoosemebook.com February Masterclass – Activate Momentum: The Power of Positive Self-Talk & Leveraging AI Book a 1:1 Breakthrough Call: [coachjineen.com] Join the free BLOOM community for more tips and mindset Monday emails: [intentionalqueenjourney.com] Timestamps: 0:00 – 1:00: Introduction, greeting 2025, and the “doing nothing is doing something” mindset. 1:00 – 2:00: The importance of rest after busy seasons and personal sabbatical insights. 2:00 – 3:00: Addressing burnout and chronic stress in high-achieving moms. 3:00 – 5:00: Excerpts from I Choose Me and the call to give yourself permission to slow down. 5:00 – 8:00: Deep dive into intentionality, the bow and arrow metaphor, and self-care strategies. 8:00 – 10:00: Balancing ambition and self-care, avoiding the pitfalls of overachievement. 10:00 – 14:00: Health warnings, personal anecdotes about burnout, and the importance of self-care. 14:00 – 16:00: Re-centering on mindfulness, positive self-talk, and the preparation for your next season. 16:00 – End: Announcements about upcoming events, the masterclass, and community updates. Call-to-Actions: Join the February Masterclass: Activate Momentum – Discover how to use positive self-talk and AI tools to boost your productivity and well-being. [Insert Masterclass Link] Book Your Breakthrough Call: Get personalized coaching at [coachjineen.com]. Grab Your Copy of I Choose Me: Start your journey of intentional living. Join the BLOOM Community: Connect with like-minded women at [intentionalqueenjourney.com].
Teresa Ford is a Confidence Coach for women, specializing in guiding them to release fear, heal emotional wounds, and reclaim their innate power. From a traumatic childhood to risking it all to live fully alive, Teresa has walked the path of transformation—and now, she empowers women everywhere to do the same. She calls them to rise boldly, embrace their true light, and claim the calling only they can fulfill. Her journey as an "accidentalpreneur" began in the fitness industry, where she spent 16 years as a hormonal fat loss expert, helping women not just reshape their bodies, but rewrite the beliefs that kept them stuck in cycles of self-doubt. She realized women didn't need another fitness plan—they needed to release the stress of feeling unworthy of love, success, and abundance. After closing her fitness studio, Teresa turned inward, embarking on her own healing journey to break generational trauma patterns and fully step into her power. Now, as an online coach, she teaches proven, life-changing processes and shares raw, real experiences to help women rewrite their stories, reclaim their self-worth, and finally set themselves free. When she's not coaching powerhouse women, Teresa keeps her playful spirit alive by playing disc golf, camping in nature, riding bikes, creating abstract art, and spending as much time as possible with her kids and grandkids. www.teresaford.life https://www.facebook.com/CoachingwithTeresaFord/ https://www.instagram.com/teresaford.coaching/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/coachingwithteresaford/ Learn more about Keira Brinton, JOA Publishing, & the MOSAI Network here: https://www.keirabrinton.com/ ____________________________ Register for First Friday's Free coaching and learn other ways to work with me: https://paperbell.me/meagan-skidmore https://meaganskidmorecoaching.com. Please help the podcast grow by following, leaving a 5 star review on Spotify or Apple podcasts and sharing with friends. Living Beyond the Shadow of Doubt™ is a proud member of the Dialogue Podcast Network [DialogueJournal.com/podcasts]. Hopeful Spaces, a monthly support group facilitated by Meagan Skidmore Coaching, is a Dallas Hope Charities component of Hopeful Discussions sponsored by Mercedes-Benz Financial Services USA. Send an email to chc@dallashopecharities.org to join.
What is it about creative people that sets them apart? Why can some people consistently create new things while others can't? Dan Sullivan and Jeffrey Madoff discuss the individuals who bring new value into the world and the best ways someone in business can use their creativity. Show Notes: Quality is the foundation of every successful business plan.Never say no to yourself; there are plenty of others who will do that for you.Instead of wasting time pondering your ideas, you often just need to take action.No one has ever spent any time in the future or in the past. All we have is the present.Many people dismiss ideas prematurely without knowing how they might turn out.The majority of people struggle to engage directly with the marketplace.Creativity isn't only about having a unique vision. It's also about taking that vision and being able to replicate it.You can replicate a creation, but not its creator.To build a thriving business, focus on faithfully replicating what has been successful in the past.Every new creation has a limited lifespan; innovation is the key to longevity.Balancing creativity with consistency is crucial. Too much focus on expansion can dilute the original experience.Your customers are 50% of your creative team. Their feedback and insights matter.Beware of letting greed influence your creative process. Passion should come before profit. Resources: Personality: The Lloyd Price Musical Your Business Is A Theater Production: Your Back Stage Shouldn't Show On The Front Stage Learn more about Jeffrey Madoff Dan Sullivan and Strategic Coach®
Hosted by Holistic business coach, Katy Stuart, The Soulful CEO podcast is your home for all things business strategy, mindset, and a dash of woo. This podcast features solo episodes packed with insight and value, as well as expert guest interviews with some of Katy's favorite names in the industry. The Soulful CEO is designed to empower and educate driven, soul-led women with real stories, honest truths, tried-and-true biz strategy, and everything you need to know to create a life and business better than your wildest dreams. If you found this episode helpful or inspiring and know someone who could connect with this, be sure to screenshot, share with a friend, and tag me @thekatystuart on instagram. I love to hear feedback on the episodes and what you want to hear more of, so leave a review on iTunes! If you are interested in getting all the things inside The Experience click HERE To apply for my Mastermind click HERE To apply for a 1:1 spot click HERE For any questions, DM me on instagram @thekatystuart
In this episode, I dive deep into the essence of LOVE CHILLS from a prose-essay on my Substack + the power of living authentically. This was a fun one to record as I shared parts of my journey of self-discovery and challenged depths of authenticity, personal growth, + the art of conscious living. Highlights: Love Chills are life's curves, reminding you to savor every moment. Perfectionism is a trap; embrace your beautifully imperfect journey. Create a "to feel" list instead of a "to do" list; prioritize your emotions. Your authentic path is your blueprint to success; don't let societal norms dictate your journey. You are a creator of your reality; own it + live boldly. Enjoy! xRx ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe +5 leave us 5⭐️Star rating review HERE My team + I appreciate your support! STAY CONNECTED WITH ROXANNE SAFFAIE ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE TWITTER THREADS Join my book launch waitlist HERE + lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate + FUN online event I'm hosting. Download your FREE Decisive Woman's Playbook + master the art of intuitive action + strategic execution. Click HERE to join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking, femininely fierce articles that evoke your most empowered mindset + courageous heart to the forefront of your life.
Send Mo a text about this episode!Have you ever asked yourself: why not? Have you ever wondered what it would be like if you just took the leap- and tried the THING you've been wanting to try? I want you to meet Juliette Ricci Lagman- host of the new podcast, Permission Granted and author of her latest book, Be Like Water, a visual memoir. Juliette is an inspiration and is consistently giving herself permission to be in MORE joy and to follow her spark. In this episode we talk about:-What led her to write her first book...-How she got the gumption to take these large leaps in life!-How energy healing has made an impact + she describes what it felt like to have huge chunks of old energy move off her body!-How she developed a solid belief in herself.-How she "does the work" even when she doesn't feel like it. -Her new podcast, "Permission Granted" and latest book: Be Like Water. The 411 on Juliette:Juliette Ricci Lagman is an artist, writer, and podcast host from the Pacific Northwest. She has been painting in her unique mixed media style combining color, text, and image for over 20 years. A graduate of The School of the Art Institute of Chicago, she holds a Bachelor of Fine Arts Degree. Her first book of prose and artwork: The Juliette Letters, Confessions of an Artistic Mind was published in 2019. She recently published her second book - Be Like Water, a visual memoir. She also is the host of Permission Granted with Juliette Ricci Lagman - a thought provoking podcast about the question - why not? More information about Juliette, her podcast, and her books can be found on her website at www.juliettericcilagman.comGo follow Juliette:Website - www.juliettericcilagman.com Podcast - https://www.juliettericcilagman.com/podcast Linktree - https://linktr.ee/juliettericcilagman Contact - juliettericci@gmail.comDo you have follow up questions? Things you want to know more about? Please send them to: Mo@iloveitwhen.org----------Follow I love it when
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Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3414: Ali Cornish explores the duality of solitude and loneliness, emphasizing how embracing solitude can foster self-awareness and growth, while unchecked loneliness can lead to emotional and physical challenges. By reframing loneliness as a signal for change and reaching out to others, we can prioritize emotional well-being and rediscover joy. In another piece, she highlights the transformative power of conscious breathing, showing how a single mindful breath can ease anxiety, improve focus, and enhance our sense of presence. Read along with the original article(s) here: http://everthrive.org/blog/2015/10/7/learn-from-loneliness & http://everthrive.org/blog/breathe Quotes to ponder: "Loneliness does not imply alone-ness. We can be lonely even when we are surrounded by people." "Taking one deep breath helps us to consciously pause, reflect, and refocus our perceptions, removing us from the source of anxiety." "Loneliness should be explored and understood before it is banished because it can inform us of behavior patterns that we need to change." Episode references: Death in Venice and Other Tales by Thomas Mann: https://www.amazon.com/Death-Venice-Stories-Signet-Classics/dp/0451526090 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3414: Ali Cornish explores the duality of solitude and loneliness, emphasizing how embracing solitude can foster self-awareness and growth, while unchecked loneliness can lead to emotional and physical challenges. By reframing loneliness as a signal for change and reaching out to others, we can prioritize emotional well-being and rediscover joy. In another piece, she highlights the transformative power of conscious breathing, showing how a single mindful breath can ease anxiety, improve focus, and enhance our sense of presence. Read along with the original article(s) here: http://everthrive.org/blog/2015/10/7/learn-from-loneliness & http://everthrive.org/blog/breathe Quotes to ponder: "Loneliness does not imply alone-ness. We can be lonely even when we are surrounded by people." "Taking one deep breath helps us to consciously pause, reflect, and refocus our perceptions, removing us from the source of anxiety." "Loneliness should be explored and understood before it is banished because it can inform us of behavior patterns that we need to change." Episode references: Death in Venice and Other Tales by Thomas Mann: https://www.amazon.com/Death-Venice-Stories-Signet-Classics/dp/0451526090 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3414: Ali Cornish explores the duality of solitude and loneliness, emphasizing how embracing solitude can foster self-awareness and growth, while unchecked loneliness can lead to emotional and physical challenges. By reframing loneliness as a signal for change and reaching out to others, we can prioritize emotional well-being and rediscover joy. In another piece, she highlights the transformative power of conscious breathing, showing how a single mindful breath can ease anxiety, improve focus, and enhance our sense of presence. Read along with the original article(s) here: http://everthrive.org/blog/2015/10/7/learn-from-loneliness & http://everthrive.org/blog/breathe Quotes to ponder: "Loneliness does not imply alone-ness. We can be lonely even when we are surrounded by people." "Taking one deep breath helps us to consciously pause, reflect, and refocus our perceptions, removing us from the source of anxiety." "Loneliness should be explored and understood before it is banished because it can inform us of behavior patterns that we need to change." Episode references: Death in Venice and Other Tales by Thomas Mann: https://www.amazon.com/Death-Venice-Stories-Signet-Classics/dp/0451526090 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
The Thought Leader Revolution Podcast | 10X Your Impact, Your Income & Your Influence
“I find that my clients tend to be entrepreneurial, driven, and passionate individuals. Sometimes, what got them to where they are is also what's holding them back.”In this enlightening episode, host Nicky Billou sits down with functional medicine practitioner and SIBO specialist, Jen Yundt Coles, to discuss the profound connection between gut health and overall well-being. Jen shares her personal journey from struggling with digestive issues to becoming a leading voice in addressing Small Intestinal Bacterial Overgrowth (SIBO) and other chronic digestive challenges. With her trademark blend of compassion and expertise, Jen dives into the root causes of SIBO, the importance of individualized nutrition, and the role of mindset in achieving sustainable health.Whether you're an entrepreneur, a health practitioner, or someone navigating your own health journey, this episode is packed with actionable insights to help you take control of your wellness.About Our Guest: Jen Yundt ColesJen Yundt Coles is a certified functional medicine practitioner and coach specializing in Small Intestinal Bacterial Overgrowth (SIBO) and chronic digestive issues. Driven by her own health challenges, Jen's mission is to empower individuals and practitioners to adopt a more holistic, personalized approach to gut health. Through her practice, The SIBO Coach, Jen combines evidence-based strategies with a deep understanding of the mind-gut connection to help clients heal and thrive. She also mentors other practitioners, sharing her expertise to amplify the impact of functional medicine.Learn more about Jen's work at www.thesibocoach.com.Expert Action Steps:Jen shares her top three strategies for fostering a healthier gut and balanced life:1. Give Yourself Permission to Rest:Stress impairs digestion and nutrient absorption. Prioritize downtime to allow your body to heal.2. Eat the Rainbow:Focus on a diverse range of colorful, nutrient-dense foods to support your microbiome and overall health.3. Embrace Your Individuality and Creativity:Tune into what your unique body needs instead of adhering to rigid diets or one-size-fits-all health advice.Connect with Jen Yundt Coles:• Website: www.thesibocoach.com• Email: jen@thesibocoach.com• Explore free resources, take the “Do I Have SIBO?” quiz, and learn about her practitioner mentorship programs.Visit eCircleAcademy.com and book a success call with Nicky to take your practice to the next level.
We dive into an issue that many runners face—overthinking. Whether you're hesitating to start running, debating on signing up for a race, or just getting stuck in your thoughts, these 10 strategies can help simplify your running journey and bring more ease to your routine. Drawing from insights from friends, top running advice, and mental strategies, these tips are perfect for runners of all levels.Key Takeaways:Use the 5-Second RuleInspired by Mel Robbins, the 5-Second Rule (counting down 5, 4, 3, 2, 1… and go!) helps you overcome hesitation and self-doubt to get out the door.Focus on One Enjoyable ThingShift your focus to one positive aspect of the run—whether it's the fresh air, your favorite song, or a little sunshine.Set a Clear IntentionInstead of overthinking, set a simple intention for the run, like gaining energy or relaxing. This helps curb the tendency to spiral into unnecessary thoughts.Give Yourself Permission to Be a BeginnerEmbrace the beginner's mindset—don't worry about others or comparing yourself. Remember, every runner starts somewhere!Stay CuriousTreat each run as an opportunity to explore, stay engaged, and prevent nervous overthinking by noticing new things along the route.Play the Noticing GameFocus on specific colors or sounds during your run (e.g., looking for yellow leaves or listening for birds). This simple mindfulness exercise makes your run feel more meditative and less cluttered by thoughts.Establish a Pre-Run RoutineA familiar song or quick routine signals to your brain that it's time to run, reducing overthinking and helping you stay consistent.Treat It as a Trial, Not a CommitmentSign up for a running club or race as a trial to avoid pressure. Viewing it this way makes it easier to enjoy and reduces stress.Adopt a Learning MindsetApproach each run with curiosity—“I'm learning!”—to lessen performance anxiety and keep a positive, open attitude.Set a Timer for Decision-MakingIf you're caught in analysis paralysis, set a timer for five minutes to make a decision and move forward.Episode Sponsor:This episode is sponsored by Garden Cup! Enjoy healthy, ready-to-eat salads delivered to your door. Use this LINK for 20% off your first order. Perfect for quick meals, on-the-go lunches, and healthy snacks.Additional Resources:Holiday Gift Ideas for Runners: Check out the show notes for our holiday gift list for runners.https://runningwithgrit.com/gifts-for-runners/Join us and try these tips to kick overthinking to the curb and keep your running simple and enjoyable. Don't let overthinking hold you back—run, walk, or crawl, but just keep moving!
Episode Summary: Ever feel like the business world's rules are rigged, leaving you lost and frustrated? You're not alone! Join host David Bee as he dives into Sean Delaney's journey from corporate lawyer to founder of a disruptive consulting firm focused on empowering entrepreneurs. Sean's approach isn't just about scaling—it's about breaking down business into simple, manageable pieces. His Harmonious Business Architecture system offers entrepreneurs a structured way to get clarity, delegate effectively, and scale without the usual stress. Sean reveals his Harmonious Business Architecture, a framework that keeps your business flowing smoothly and with purpose. He also introduces us to FEAR, an acronym for the four key areas of entrepreneurial struggle: Financial pressures, External pressures, Allocation of time, and Recruiting help. With Sean's insights, you'll rethink what's actually holding your business back and discover practical, transformative strategies to reach new heights. Key Takeaways: The Harmonious Business Architecture: This model focuses on 10 core disciplines that every entrepreneur needs to harmonize, including strategic planning, metrics, financials, and team alignment. Facing FEAR: Sean defines common entrepreneurial pain points using the acronym FEAR: Financial pressures: Revenue, expenses, and profitability struggles External pressures: Competition, legal, and regulatory concerns Allocation of time: How effectively you manage time and focus on high-priority tasks Recruiting help: Building a support team and knowing when to delegateIdentify where your issues lie within these categories to take more precise actions. Breaking Free from ‘Corporate Thinking': Sean shares how he shifted from a corporate mindset to a purpose-driven, heart-centered approach in business. Learn how to stay true to your unique style and values, instead of falling into the trap of ‘doing it all.' Actionable Insights: Assess Your Current Systems: Use Sean's “Business Architecture Diagnostic” (a quick 8-minute quiz) to identify the true roots of your business challenges. You might find that what you thought was a marketing issue is actually a deeper operational or strategic planning need. Define Your Business' Core: As Sean emphasizes, business isn't about doing more—it's about aligning every action with your core mission. Drop the “shoulds” from others and start building processes that reflect your unique vision. Delete, Delay, Delegate, Do: Implement Sean's priority-setting system to avoid burnout. Assess tasks carefully to maximize your time and energy on activities that move the needle. Give Yourself Permission to Be You: Entrepreneurs often feel pressured to emulate others. Sean's journey encourages you to lean into your own strengths and style. If you feel like your values or unique approach clash with traditional expectations, that's OK—authenticity will attract the right clients.
Today I invite you to explore the power of dreaming and how it can shape your life. I share my personal journey of reconnecting with my dreams, from using a dream book to manifesting our new home in Maine. If you've been feeling stuck or out of touch with your imagination, this episode is for you. Take a break, tune in, and let's start dreaming again—because anything is possible when you give yourself permission to imagine!
In this episode of the self-employed life, I had the great pleasure of speaking with Courtney McDermott, author of Give Yourself Permission about the importance of giving yourself permission. In this episode we discussed why people are looking for others to give them permission instead of trusting that they are making the right choice for themselves and their business. Cortney shares valuable information on how to live a productive life, while still allowing time for yourself. Cortney Mcdermott is an award-winning author, TEDx speaker, and mind-body expert who helps the world's leading organizations and creatives to disrupt old patterns of behavior, grow healthy businesses, and apply the physiology and psychology needed for success. Her work in the field of self-development and business strategy has been featured in Inc., Women's Health, SUCCESS, The Huffington Post, and any other mainstream business and lifestyle media. Cortney loves exploring and challenging the confines of human potential and is passionate about the practical application of neuroscience, epigenetics, and quantum theory. She also speaks four languages and lives between Italy and the United States. Everything you need can all be found at jeffreyshaw.com. Remember, you might be in business FOR yourself but you are not in business BY yourself. Be your best self. Be proud and keep changing the world. Guest Contact – Website Book - Give Yourself Permission Contact Jeffrey – SelfEmployedNewsletter.com JeffreyShaw.com Books by Jeffrey Shaw Business Coaching for Entrepreneurs Watch my TEDx LincolnSquare video and please share! Valuable Resources – The Self-Employed Business Institute You know you're really good at what you do. You're talented, you have a skill set. The problem is you're probably in a field where there is no business education. This is common amongst self-employed people! And, there's no business education out there for us! You also know that being self-employed is unique and you need better strategies, coaching, support, and accountability. The Self-Employed Business Institute, a five-month online education is exactly what you need. Check it out! Take The Self-Employed Assessment! Ever feel like you're all over the place? Or frustrated it seems like you have everything you need for your business success but it's somehow not coming together? Take this short quiz to discover the biggest hidden gap that's keeping you from having a thriving Self-Employed Ecosystem. You'll find out what part of your business needs attention and you'll also get a few laser-focused insights to help you start closing that gap. Have Your Website Brand Message Reviewed! Is your website speaking the right LINGO of your ideal customers? Having reviewed hundreds of websites, I can tell you 98% of websites are not. Fill out the simple LINGO Review application and I'll take a look at your website. I'll email you a few suggestions to improve your brand message to attract more of your ideal customers. Fill out the application today and let's get your business speaking the right LINGO! Host Jeffrey Shaw is a Small Business Consultant, Brand Management Consultant, Business Coach for Entrepreneurs, Keynote Speaker, TEDx Speaker and author of LINGO and The Self Employed Life (May 2021). Supporting self-employed business owners with business and personal development strategies they need to create sustainable success.
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Welcome back to another episode of Midweek Momentum, where I share one of our group coaching calls inside our coaching program for fitness coaches who are looking to take their business to 6, 7, and 8 figures and beyond. These episodes are like private coaching from me to you, because I answer tactical, timely questions that my clients have, that I know many of you have, too. Make sure to share this episode with a friend if this brought you value!In this episode:00:00 Intro00:38 John Madsen's crazy growth...from where you are today to 8 figures05:37 The Power of Niche Marketing Strategies14:41 Personal Branding and Content Creation17:44 Q&A: Schedule for Promos...Too Many?22:11 Q&A: Taking Advantage of Local Marketing Opportunities25:01 Q&A: What's Working for Promos To Sign Clients Right Now33:15 Q&A: How Many Clients Before Using Facebook Makes Sense?36:23 Q&A: Should I Make An Offer On Stage To a Mixed Audience of Clients and Non-Clients?---⏯️ Learn How to Achieve Freedom From Fitness on My YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/vincedelmonte
This week, I'm diving into why you should give yourself permission to learn out loud. In my entrepreneurial journey, I go through seasons of learning and testing. Unapologetically trying new things, failing, and starting over have opened doors that would otherwise be shut. I gave myself permission to learn out loud. In this episode I share about:Taking my revenue streams to the next level with one-on-one coachingHow marketing advice may be holding you back, and how to figure out what works for your side hustle Discovering the power of charging what I'm worth, and how I shifted my mindset to get thereHighlights Include:00:00 Intro02:50 Transitioning to one-on-one coaching06:30 Setting prices for offerings 10:00 Working with AI17:20 Shifting to more paid content/offerings22:30 Not being afraid to charge your worthCheck out episode 422 of Side Hustle Pro podcast out now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTubeLinks mentioned in this episodeFree Side Hustle Guide: https://sidehustlepro.co/vip SHP Newsletter: https://sidehustlepro.co/newsletter/ My AI expert sister's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nadeenmatthews/?originalSubdomain=jm Feeling Stuck SHP 414: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=65qejtGofcoPortia Obeng's SHP Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4qkgObsQ7pA Get Paid Podcast w/ Dorothy Johnson: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dorothy-johnson-the-ad-strategy-that-transformed-1-1/id1005195731?i=1000665438875 Click here to subscribe via RSS feed (non-iTunes feed): http://sidehustlepro.libsyn.com/rssAnnouncementsJoin our Facebook CommunityIf you're looking for a community of supportive side hustlers who are all working to take our businesses to the next level, join us here: http://sidehustlepro.co/facebookGuest Social Media InfoSide Hustle Pro – @sidehustlepro#SideHustlePro Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
The Cathy Heller Podcast: A Podcast for Soulful Entrepreneurs
How can you have more presence and joy in your life? Amy Tangerine, artist, professional scrapbooker, and author is back to talk about how to let your inner child explore their creativity, how to prioritize what you really desire, how to increase your productivity by slowing down and having fun, why giving up is not a failure, and how to manifest the most amazing opportunities that are beyond your bucket list. - Grab your spot at Cathy's Bloom Retreat, July 14-16 at Marina Del Rey, California! Early bird price is good until June 7 cathyheller.com/bloom - Follow Amy Tangerine on Instagram @amytangerine - More of Amy's coloring books and products at https://www.amytangerine.com/ - This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/abundantand get on your way to being your best self.