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· Happy Valentine's Day! Happy Lover's Week! · Cheers to the couples in healthy loving relationships! · The Five Love Languages & how you can show them · Words of Affirmation · Acts of Service · Be mindful of what you receive to consume & ingest; pray over your food & body · Quality Time · Sometimes just Being There and Being Present in the Moment is the greatest gift · Physical Touch · Shoutout to my Papa, my Grandma and my nephew Jordan, Happy Birthday! · Receive the damn hug! · Touch deprived on Valentine's Day…damn. · Reconnect with your own Body when your energy needs stimulation · Stretch in the hot shower · Sometimes you just need deep, hot movement · Are you doing for You what you want your Lover to do to and for You? · Gift Giving · Lover, please come Healed. · Gifts come in many different forms. What gifts do you want? · The healing gift of Hugs and Warm Embraces · Gee thanks...but this isn't the gift I wanted from You. · Your Values determine which types of Gifts you want to receive · When your Gifts are rejected… · Are you Devaluing your own Gifts? · Are you giving the gift from your Heart or giving from your Ego? · Is the Gift given with attachments and expectations? · Are you giving the Gift TO Me or giving the Gift FROM You? · Don't assume…just get straight to the facts. Communicate. · Ego is one hell of a drug · Choose to believe there are still Good people in the World · 2024 Predictions: Hidden in Plain Sight · Your Single relationship status does not equate your value · If you Live by the Praise, You'll Die by the Boo's · Treat Yo'Self to the 5 Love Languages this Lover's Week · Final Cup of CheChe & Announcements · Give me a 5-star review and binge listen the episodes pleeeease J
In this episode, Cheddy and Michelle discuss: The Five Love Languages: Words of Affirmation Acts of Service Receiving Gifts Quality Time Physical Touch Ways to incorporate them into your life Key takeaways: The Five Love Languages: Words of Affirmation: Example: Compliments, affirmations, positive feedback Thoughts for self-reflection: Think about a time when you felt appreciated or recognized. How did it make you feel? Acts of Service: Example: Doing chores, running errands, helping with tasks Thoughts for self-reflection: What are some tasks that you find difficult or unpleasant? How could someone help you with those tasks to show their love and support? Receiving Gifts: Example: Surprise presents, tokens of affection Thoughts for self-reflection: When have you received a gift that meant a lot to you? Why did it mean so much? Quality Time: Example: Spending one-on-one time together, being fully present Thoughts for self-reflection: Think about a time when you felt truly connected with someone. What was happening during that time? Physical Touch: Example: Hugs, holding hands, cuddling Thoughts for self-reflection: What physical touch do you find most comforting? Why is that type of touch important to you? Identify your own love language and that of your partner Show appreciation and affection in ways that speak to each other's love languages Consistently make an effort to show love and affection It's important to note that love can take many forms and that the types of love can overlap and coexist in different ways. The type of love that one experiences can change over time, and it's possible to feel different types of love for different people and at different times in one's life. Remember, everyone has different love languages, and it's also possible for someone to value multiple love languages. By reflecting on these prompts, you can gain insight into what type of love and affection resonates with you and how you can best express love to others. “It's taking the time to truly acknowledge how other people express love. So that kind of awareness. That's what this tool is for -is to build awareness to recognize, “ohhh, they're trying to show me that they care about me.'” -Michelle Wickman Website: www.WinningInside.io Michelle: www.WickmanWellness.com Cheddy: www.CheddyMatthews.com Email: WinningInsidePodcast@gmail.com Twitter: @winning_inside Facebook: @WinningInside LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/winninginside YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCoF6Rtked9jTNVdaVmARl6g
Oooohhhhh shyyyyttttt......... That conversation about commitment and The 5 Love Languages got so good to us we had to go ahead and dive in a little deeper into what the languages are all about!!! We're going to tap into - Quality Time - Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts And then we're going to tell you how to apply those with some fun videos from our favorite "Trap Therapist" Nicole from A Cure For The Culture LLC. Join in on this conversation by checking out this episode on our YouTube Channel by clicking the link: https://youtu.be/ZSb4F8Bx19w We want to hear all of your aha moments, hilarious moments you enjoyed, what you learned and what are some of the ways that you or someone you know will change their idea of what it is to love someone correctly through learning more about the 5 love languages, so come connect with us.......... Instagram: @thephatgirlchronicles Facebook.com/thephatgirlchronicles Twitter: @pgcpodcast YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/ThePhatGirlChronicles You42: https://www.you42.com/channel/1647 Did something in this episode resonate with you?!? Did our conversation open up more of your thoughts about the love languages?!? If so, please share this episode with a friend and leave a 5-star review and comment wherever you listen to this podcast. We would love to know how our show made your day or taught you something new!!! https://www.facebook.com/thephatgirlchronicles/reviews --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/phatgirlchronicles/message
On this Valentine's Day, let's talk about the greatest love of all (thank you to the late Whitney Houston), self-love! Self-love determines the actions we take for ourselves. Our daily behaviours and actions, and our self-care, show us that we matter. That we love ourselves. If you struggle to rest, exercise regularly, set boundaries, or choose actions that show yourself love, listen to this episode! .I share 5 ways you can show yourself love based on the 5 Love Languages. Listen for ideas on how to best take care of you based on the language of your love!-Words of Affirmation-Acts of Service-Gifts-Quality Time-Physical Touch.Links & Resources:Connect with me on Instagram @thepassionatephysioEmail me surabhi@thepassionatephysio.caDealing with leaks, prolapse, diastasis, core or pelvic floor weakness, injuries? Book a 1:1 online consult or free Alignment call to connect and see if working together is a good fit for your needs!
Event: Operation Tears Of the 22 Off the Hardball This event is to help veterans to reset mentally SIgn up Question of the week be Brotherhood of Men Why is the divorce rate so high, especially in Western countries, if love marriages work? Well, there are theories as to why. The number one resin though is the No-fault divorce. This was started in 1969 by one of the greatest presidents the US had. Now Reagan later said he regretted signing the bull when he was governor of California. He did this as a means to cut down the fabrication of wrongdoings being slung at each other trying to get a divorce. Since then the divorce rate has skyrocketed. For a long time, men were the primary people who started divorces but as time has gone on, now women initiate around 80% of all divorces today. Why? Well, that's where the theories come into play. Most of the time it is because one person or another is having an affair but money issues also play a part. Yet with the affairs, the problem is that many men have stopped being men and now women are busy having to take up the slack. Men have been told they are to spill their emotional guts to their wife and that does nothing but add stress to their wife's life. The overly emotional man causes the woman in the guy's life to lose respect for him. All because he listened to society and stopped doing guy things out of fear that he was going to be seen as a toxic masculine guy. Men have stopped doing several things that attracted the woman to him. These things are what turned her on to him. All because he was doing manly things and then after saying I do he started sharing way too much and ditching his friends for his wife. What did these men stop doing? There are several things men have stopped doing that caused their women to not respect them. These things are part of the 4 pillars of a relaxed male. Man's mind Men stop learning they get a job and start working and they think that is it. Job accomplished! Nope, they are providing for their family that is important, but he stops learning and expanding his mind getting smarter. Most men stop reading after high school and read-only if it is required. They don't learn for the sake of learning. Man's Body They get a dad bod. Now a few extra pounds isn't a deal-breaker but 50 pounds? That isn't sexy to a woman. Now men don't have to be chiseled, but I shape so that if they can protect their family if needed. You hear women claim that they like a soft chubby man. Yet those claims don't ring true when you hear who they think is sexy. Bro-Thor wasn't nearly as hunky as fit Thor. You could hear that from the women's reaction when they saw Avengers End Game. Men need to be in shape so that they are healthy enough to take care of their wives when they get old. A fat man will not live as long as a healthy man. Mans Soul Men have stopped perspiring their passions after they get married. Women love to see men who are driven to accomplish something. Now, this doesn't mean that the men are to become workaholics. This means that they have work and a hobby or a side business or an activity that feeds their soul. Most men when they are dating have something like this. Then they drop it when they get married and start turning their full attention to their wives. The wives have other things to do too other than sit around and give their husbands all their attention. Mans Community this is the pillar that falls almost completely apart after marriage. First off any friends before marriage disappears. The wife and kids get 90% of the man's attention. He can't go camping because of his wife and the kids. He does go sit and talk with his band of brothers because of his wife and kids. It not that the wife and kids demand it all the time. It's just we guys believe that is what we are supposed to do. So we lose our friends and we don't replace them with new ones. Before we know it 20 years have passed and we have 1–4 friends. And maybe only one of them is dependable enough that we could call them at 3 am with a problem. We don't have normally get together with other masculine men so we can talk about our problems. So what do we do? We tell our wives our problems. That's because we have been told we are supposed to share our emotions with our wives. That is only partially the solution we are supposed to talk about with our wives but we share the positives with them and share the negative with our band of brothers. We take the negative from our lives we help them and we ask our close friends to help with the emotional weight it may have. Telling a wife all the financial problems you have doesn't help her have confidence in you. It doesn't help her to see you as the provider. You are extra emotional baggage that she has to deal with when you come in and start dumping all over her how crappy your boss is. Women won't respect you for that and a woman can't love a man she can't respect. The other thing that will help a marriage last is to know how to fill your partner's emotional tank. That is know how to talk and be present with them when they are talking. Learn to speak their love language. That will go a long way in keeping wondering eyes from going anywhere other than to you. Main Topic Men stop being who they are supposed to be Victim mindset No responsibility Men act surprised They let their wife's emotional rank run empty A marriage needs to have lots of communication for a person's emotional tank to stay full. Now the problem is many times we are using the wrong language. In marriage, there are 5 different love languages that can be spoken in the same house. We are often speaking our love language and it's getting lost in translation. GIfts Quality time Words of Affirmation Acts of Service Physical Touch They stop talking Many times we stop talking we don't sit and listen. We aren't present while our wives are speaking. We are thinking of everything else that is going on and not what is happening right there at the moment. We miss so many nuances of what is being shared. In doing so we lose the opportunity to connect. They stop being spontaneous With life, you have to stop and smell the roses. Or as Robert Herrick said in his poem, "To the Virgins, to Make Much of Time", Robert Herrick "Gather ye rosebuds while ye may," — Robert Herrick We let time slip past us with kids and houses and just life in general. You may have financial problems but you can still exercise your creativity and be spontaneous. They just drift Drifting isn't only an example of not paying attention to what you are doing, but also is about you not having a goal set to pursue. You not having a reason why you jump out of bed excited to take on the day is a huge example of drifting. Their pillars have collapsed Man's mind You stop learning You aren't reading You would rather not listen to audiobooks or podcasts but music only When you stop learning you start dying Man's body They are out of shape They are not the physique of when they met They can't protect their family when they are out of shape. Man's soul What feeds your soul? That is the question if you don't have a passion. Find something to create. Maybe it's a blog or you take up painting, or woodworking, or even blacksmithing. You need to be creating something. From charitable work to a business. Have a purpose in your life. Man's Community This is the huge one for us men these days. We don't spend enough time with other masculine men. We don't sit with other men eating and talking about our lives. A mastermind of like-minded men Is there for you to find balance in your life. They are there to take the negative so you don't have to burden your woman with those negative events, and you can shower her with the positives.
Episode 6: Self Love Sunday: The 5 Self-Love Languages Welcome to the Solo Date Challenge Podcast with your Host, Holly Hartman. Solo Date Challenge Podcast Focuses on the three S's, Self-Love, Self-Care & Solo Dating. New episodes will be launched every Saturday. The 5 Love Languages Words of Affirmation Acts of Service Physical Touch Gifts Time Come join us on your own Self-Love Journey by plugging into our Free Women's FB community online. We will love you there until you can start to love yourself. ALL women are welcome!! Solo Date Challenge Women's Community Grab some SWAG and TAG us # solodatechallenge Solo Date Challenge Swag Shop For more information on One on One Coaching, Helpful Feedback or for Questions Please Contact Holly Hartman at Solodatechallenge.com or solodatechallenge@gmail.com Grab your book: I AM: How to: Releasing the Shame of Narcissistic Abuse & Transforming Financial Poverty into Wealth Beyond Numbers The story of 14 Thrivers professionally serving people on their journeys out of financial abuse & into abundance. Iamreleasingshame.org If you are a victim of Domestic Violence or Abuse and need additional support Please Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) or visit thehotline.org ""RYYZN - Something 'bout July" is under a Creative Commons (CC-BY 3.0) license Music promoted by BreakingCopyright: https://bit.ly/bkc-july
In the next couple of episodes we're going to be talking all about that four-letter word; love. But not love exclusively. I want to discuss everything tangentially related; love languages, deities, gender, and yes, sexuality. 5 Love Languages Words of Affirmation Acts of Services Receiving Gifts Quality Time Physical Touch Love Deities Aphrodite Eros Hera Frigga Freya Inanna Ishtar Astarte Hathor Isis Nugua Yue Lao Tu Er Shen Benzai-Ten Parvati Kama Rati Cliodhna Branwen Oshun The Erzulie Xochiquetzal References: https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/love https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/click-here-happiness/202009/what-are-the-5-love-languages-definition-and-examples#:~:text=Our%20%22love%20language%22%20describes%20how,you%20were%20thinking%20about%20them https://www.learnreligions.com/deities-of-love-and-marriage-2561983 https://www.learnreligions.com/top-love-goddesses-118521 https://www.learnreligions.com/deities-of-love-and-marriage-2561983 https://vocal.media/futurism/gods-and-goddesses-of-love-in-mythology https://listverse.com/2014/01/25/10-gods-and-goddesses-of-love-and-lust/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kama#Kama_as_deity https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rati --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/faithandfear/support
Knowing the love languages of your spouse and your kids can transform your relationships with them. Listen in for what the 5 love languages are and make sure to find out your love language. **TAKE THE QUIZ HERE** + Send the link to your kids (or set it up for them) and your spouse. 5 Love Languages Words of Affirmation Acts of Service Receiving Gifts Quality Time Physical Touch IG @lovemore_liveblessed www.lovemoreliveblessed.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lovemoreliveblessed/support
You may be familiar with the 5 Love Languages Dr. Gary Chapman made famous, but have you ever considered using these love languages to better love YOURSELF? Come on in, and let's talk about practical ways to love yourself according to your own love language. - Words of Affirmation - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts - Quality Time - Physical Touch Don't know what your love language is? There's an online test here: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/love-language-quiz-list/ CONTACT MELA Facebook | Instagram | Youtube | Email Send me a voice message on Anchor here - it might just be used on a future podcast! Become a patron at BB&C's Patreon. Or, if you'd rather, you can buy me a coffee! CREDITS My dad wrote the lyrics to my theme song, and we sing it together at the beginning. Thanks to my husband for his contributions. Original Broadcast: 2.4.21 EPISODE RESOURCES The 5 Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman www.5LoveLanguages.come Blackthorn's Botanical Magic by Amy Blackthorn The Modern Witchcraft Book of Love Spells by Skye Alexander --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/bellebookcandle/message
Jenna and Pete discuss The Five Love Language, made famous by Gary Chapman's book, as well as dive into our normal segments. One Thing We Learned The Five Love Languages Words of Affirmation Acts of Service Quality Time Personal Touch Receiving Gifts NEW SEGMENT ALERT: 1-Minute of Standup comedy (this week from Pete) Best / Worst Weeks Thanks for listening! If you like the show, please give us a 5-star rating on Apple Podcasts. We appreciate the support.
My homily for the 5th Sunday of Easter – The Game of Love The 5 love languages: Quality Time Words of Affirmation Acts of service Giving/Receiving Gifts Physical touch
Welcome to the 87th episode of Giving Back Insights, my Thursday solo show where I talk about how our guests and their charities serve others, to explore actions each of can take to make a difference in people’s lives and to share. Today I’m discussing The Language of Love. Listen to today’s episode and don’t forget to give your feedback and valuable comment. Enjoy! Key Takeaways: Lynne Gordon Moquete is the Executive Director of @UnaVidaDR and the Human Interaction Teacher at Casa Grande High School. She’s an incredible community champion and dedicated student advocate in Petaluma. She recently posted a meme on Facebook about love that I found so insightful I’m sharing it today. See if this resonates with you: People don’t always say “I love you.” Sometimes it sounds more like: Did you eat? Call me when you get home. Be safe. I made you this. All these different ways to say “I love you.” She posted this in reference to the book “The 5 Love Languages” by Gary Chapman. I’d never heard of the book and Lynne was kind enough to send me a copy. What a page turner! Its basic premise is there are five primary “languages” of love and learning to express love in your spouse’s language is key to love that lasts. These are the five languages: Words of Affirmation Acts of Service Receiving Gifts Quality Time Physical Touch Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus by John Gray Love and Respect by Emerson Eggerichs Today’s cover shows me and my wife in a moment where we were really speaking each other’s language. It’s about connecting. And most of the time, it takes effort. What great thing doesn’t? Lynn on Facebook Lynn’s meme & post Remember: Always err on the side of love & kindness. Love & Gratitude, Rob Facebook Live: https://www.facebook.com/givingbackpodcast/videos/298033847412709 Mentioned in This Episode: Giving Back Podcast Una Vida Lynn on Facebook
The Background We have been having a discussion on how to finally move from Point A to Point B and today we are tackling relationships. We have discussed your health, your spirituality, and now we're looking to improve our relationships. But as you invest into your family, we want to keep this as simple and efficient as possible. Instead of relying on how we feel in our relationships, I want you to focus on doing a daily investment. But to make sure our efforts are not wasted, we're discussing the "Five Love Languages" so we can make sure we're doing the right stuff! There are Five ways that we like to give and like to receive love and connection. This applies to our spouse as well as our children and other loved ones. Quality Time Physical Touch Words of Affirmation Acts of Service Gifts of Giving Each of these are explained further on their website or even in this episode. So listen in. Because I can tell you that this will save you energy and frustration when you can streamline how you can fill your partner's cup. If you don't speak their language you might be working your ass off and it won't make a difference in your marriage! Action Steps: White Belt: take the quiz and have your spouse take the quiz. Then discuss. Black Belt: Take you both take the quiz. Discuss. And now, in your journal or post how you will put this into action! Bonus: After learning about this, what love language do your kids have? If they are little you can either guess or they can also take the quiz if they are older. There is also a "Love Language for Kids".
This is the second series on the Mama Says Namaste Podcast with my most favorite guest (and partner for life), Nathan Logsdon. In this series, we dig deep into the critical components that create a healthy and happy intimate relationship - join us as we discuss Laughter, Humble Pie, and Lots of Sex! Sex is emotion in motion. - Mae West You know that look on a woman’s face when she wants sex? Me neither. - Steve Martin It’s hard to stay emotionally distant when you are physically connected. We created the habit of physical touch on a daily basis - it became a habit like meditation/yoga - a critical component for our marital health. The Five Love Languages: Physical Touch Words of Affirmation Acts of Service Receiving Gifts Quality Time The curve ball of children - our intimate relationships can easily slip to the back burner. Pain happens to everyone. But do we carry it around like a weight that prevents us from moving forward? Does it become so much a part of our identity that it becomes larger than the present moment? Therapy is a process of letting go. It’s not allowing it to fester as a core component of your identity, but allowing yourself to acknowledge that pain, process it, and set it down. Seeing a counselor is one way. Journalling, running, art, music…these are all ways to help release pain and process through it. What story do you want to create for the future? Put your past story down and think about what you want to pick back up again. Ease into love. Start with conversation. Move to massage, bathing together, and building trust and confidence in your relationship. Set aside time for this. Don’t wait for it to organically happen. If you are trying to write a story, you have to be intentional. Don’t hope it will just “happen” - create it. Make it an important component of your day. Love builds on itself. If you want love, BE love. Reflect the love you want to receive. Check out Dr. Laura Bergman’s “Quantum Love” series: We have really learned a lot and have experienced “quantum love” at a whole new level. I highly recommend it! (http://hhafftrk.com/?a=6271&c=2500&p=r&s1=) Ways to build a connected relationship - look at the 5 love languages and take the quiz (http://www.5lovelanguages.com/profile/couples/) Go back to the personality styles - can you affirm them, create a safe place, allow control and confidence in an area (like leading a massage, for example)? The Talmud tractate on marriage contracts states that the righteous couple should make love every Friday night. It's part of observing and enjoying the Sabbath - of honoring each other. Eliminate the guessing game - go ahead and assign days to each other. Who takes the lead? This can help so much in allowing one person to experience simply receiving love, and learning more about each other’s bodies, etc. Pillow Play - This is an awesome little app to build sexual intimacy - meditations, exercises and challenges to help you grow closer together beyond just the act of making love. (https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/pillow-intimate-sensual-adventures/id1060044689?at=1000lqxe) Even if you don’t “like” them in the moment, don’t shut down the physical. Reach out and touch and affirm that the commitment to love is still there even if you aren’t seeing eye to eye on something. Don’t go to bed angry and distant. Your challenge this week: Reach out and touch your partner and connect at least once a day. Hug, caress, embrace, kiss…make love. Bulletproof it so you commit to the intentional time to connect. And remember, if you’re liking what you hear, we want to hear from you! Subscribe, rate and review on iTunes Post your comments/questions in the Mama Says Namaste Facebook Community Get a free eBook to learn more about YOUR family style here: http://www.mamasaysnamaste.com/opt-page/ Email Ashley directly at ashley@MamaSaysNamaste.com *Podcast music by the awesome Renee & Jeremy who cover "Put a Little Love In Your Heart" by Jackie DeShannon. Props to both of them for this beautiful rendition that epitomizes what I want for families!
With Rebekah Freedom. Visit www.RebekahFreedom.com to contact Rebekah. Explicit Mentions The Temple of Bliss. The Five Love Languages are Words of Affirmation Acts of Service Receiving Gifts Quality Time Physical Touch The Bachelorette How to do Yab-Yum Sex and Waffles The invitation to help create Pure Touch The podcast on Breakup Rehab episode 47 The book Breakup Rehab