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Send us a textWhat changes when a child's wellbeing takes the lead and everything else rearranges around it? In this series finale with Paige Carter of Inclusive Oak, we follow a family through unschooling and burnout recovery, anchored by one unforgettable moment: a teacher who shows up at a caravan park simply to say hello, offer a gift, and hold the thread of belonging. No pressure, no performance—just proof that connection travels.You'll leave with three anchors to navigate your own journey: educate yourself about your child's neurotype and what actually helps, connect with people who truly get it, and invest in your own healing so you can stop pushing past capacity and start trusting your gut. If this conversation helped you reframe, share it with a friend, subscribe for more grounded stories, and leave a review to help others find the show. What quiet win are you celebrating this week?inclusiveoak.com.au danabaltutis.com, mytherapyhouse.com.au, https://mytherapyhouse.com.au/your-childs-therapy-journey/ https://www.danabaltutis.com/services
Last time, we ended by questioning the ultimate goal of modern schools. As long as there have been schools, there has been an overarching motivation toward some sort of universal compliance. Perhaps some of these motivations have been of a good nature, but then again, whenever something becomes mandated by government, the objective should be suspect. The best way to evaluate the potential motivation of a school is to ask a simple question: What part does God have in the overall program? While the Jesuits may have originally had God in mind, the compliance objective was toward a particular expression of faith or doctrine which was essentially nothing more than indoctrination. Since then, all schools have had precious little to do with God, especially since the social revolution of the 1960s. Needless to say, public schools which advance themselves as neutral will most certainly not have faith in God as a central tenet of their existence. Separate, mostly Catholic, schools are also not likely to be advancing faith in God, at least not from an academic perspective since they use the very same curriculum as public schools. Private schools aren't much different. Most use the secular public school curriculum or a facsimile thereof, and operate with a fear of funding shortfall. Most alternative schools and charter schools also follow government-mandated programming, all of which has little to no place for the advancement of faith in God. That leaves us with homeschooling. I may perhaps have been blind or naive when we started home educating nearly thirty-five years ago, but I believe the very reason the home education movement got started was that parents wanted to escape the Godless secular public education system, and many had come to understand that the separate Catholic system was really no different. Parents wanted to reincorporate God into the education of their children. To address this goal, private schools came into existence, and they also provided the child-care aspect of schools that parents had come to expect. However, with government funding came the expectation of following Godless government programming. When my wife and I got seriously involved with the home education “industry” as facilitators, and later as home education providers under a private school, I initially found a sort of camaraderie among providers and staff. However, it did not take long before the central focus and the competition for students started to take on embarrassingly un-Christian-like characteristics. https://eu-wp-media.s3.amazonaws.com/uploads/2025/11/8-School-Motivations.mp3
Text Sue what you think!Unschooling in December doesn't mean “taking a break from learning.” In this episode, Sue Patterson shares what typical unschooling days really look like during the holidays—slow mornings, cozy rhythms, spontaneous learning, busy outings, and the kinds of meaningful life experiences that traditional schooling often pushes aside.If you've wondered how unschooling families handle December, or if you're transitioning away from school and worried about “falling behind,” this conversation will help you see how much learning naturally shows up through holiday activities, connection, play, creativity, and real life.You'll learn:What unschooling days actually look like in DecemberHow to see academic learning through holiday traditionsWhy kids learn more when the pressure is liftedHow to stop the “catching up later” worryWhy connection and rest matter more than checklistsHow busy families can still unschool joyfullyWays to notice the learning that's already happeningThis episode is perfect for new unschoolers, almost-unschoolers, or any parent who dreams of a calmer, more connected December.Transcript at the Blog
It's December! This time we're enthusing about our trip to MCM ComicCon in Birmingham, Mirabelle's talking about her universe topic and the lifecycles of stars. Asher's discussing his recent exercise module and how it's impacted his times at Junior Parkrun, and Eden's discussing mock exams and past papers. Plus we're thinking ahead to what we're looking forward to over the Christmas period.Links we mention include Everstromn hobbies, Dice and Destiny, Shelby on Safari and the Mad Hatter.
Text Sue what you think!If you're having doubts or feeling overwhelmed, I have some options for you!You're not the only parent who enters December feeling confused about their homeschooling or unschooling choices. Sue Patterson shares nearly 30 years of experience here, offering reassurance and perspective. And even if you do need to pivot, you don't have to figure it out alone.Unschooling is a practice — one small, brave decision at a time — and you don't have to walk it alone.Links mentioned: • Discounted December Coaching Calls: http://www.suepatterson.as.me/december • Ask Sue Page: Tell me your Biggest Fear. Seriously. I'll answer • Transcript Blogpost: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/unschooling-doubts-and-fearsSupport the show_____________________________________________________As always, reach out if you need more help. You don't have to do this alone!Free Email List with weekly unschooling resourcesLike what you're hearing - buy Sue a cup of coffee! Buy Me a Coffee Creating Confidence Membership Group Podcast listeners can join without the sign up fee - so use this link! UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com
In this Season 3 opener of "Stories That Stick," Laura is joined by educator, author, and founder of Your Natural Learner and Bridge Academy, Leah McDermott, for a conversation about courage and child-led learning. Leah has spent years helping families and educators break free from rigid, traditional models so children can learn in ways that honor who they are. In this episode, they explore the heart of unschooling, natural literacy development, and what it means to truly trust children's learning without checklists, timelines, or pressure. Highlights: Redefining Learning Beyond School: Leah breaks down the most common misconceptions about unschooling and explains why it isn't anti-school. You'll hear how removing children from rigid structures opens the door to deeper curiosity, intrinsic motivation, and authentic engagement with the world. Natural Literacy as Expression, Not a Timeline: We discuss why pushing reading too early can backfire and how literacy develops through language, connection, and real-world context. Leah explains what natural literacy looks like day-to-day and why trusting a child's brain development leads to stronger, more confident readers in the long run. Doing the Adult Work: A major theme in this episode is unlearning. Leah and Laura talk about the internal work adults must do from examining fears, to undoing their own educational conditioning, all while learning to trust the process. Navigating Fear, Pressure, and the Unknown: What if you let go of timelines? What if your child learns differently than you did? Leah offers grounded, compassionate advice for navigating the fear and societal pressure that often arise when you choose a path outside the norm. If you've ever wondered what learning might look like without the pressure, the power struggles, or the constant comparison, this episode will feel like a breath of fresh air. Leah's insights offer a vision of education rooted in connection, curiosity, and trust—one that prepares children for a rapidly changing world by honoring who they are today. Connect with Laura: Instagram: @little.stories.that.stick Website: Little Stories That Stick Get support on your own journey in The Play-Led Literacy Program Connect with Leah:Instagram: @yournaturallearnerWebsites: Your Natural Learner & Bridge Academy Learn more about Natural Learning from Dr. Peter Gray's substack or books.
Send us a textWhat if the bravest choice is to stop doing what everyone expects and start doing what your child needs? We sit down with Paige Carter to unpack a seismic family pivot: renting out the house, moving into a caravan, and giving a neurodivergent child time to recover from burnout. It's not a retreat from learning; it's a redesign of life around safety, trust, and capacity.Paige shares how they balanced two very different paths for their kids: keeping Lacey in school to the end of term and donating her uniform later, while removing demands for Oak so he could heal. We dig into the fine line between pushing and guiding, and why she paused most therapies but kept hydro because it consistently led to joy and pride. The wins are wonderfully ordinary: a smooth car ride to drop-off, a self-advocated exit at the zoo without a meltdown, and a spontaneous cold swim where Oakland practiced rockets from physio and laughed his way through the chill.If you're wrestling with burnout, compliance anxiety, or the fear of stepping outside the box, this conversation offers a roadmap and real-world proof that small, steady wins add up. Subscribe, share with a parent who needs courage, and leave a review telling us the one rule you'd rewrite for your family.affirmingconnections.com.auinclusiveoak.com.au danabaltutis.com, mytherapyhouse.com.au, https://mytherapyhouse.com.au/your-childs-therapy-journey/ https://www.danabaltutis.com/services
Text Sue what you think!Does unschooling feel like a roller coaster — some days confident, other days full of doubt? You're not alone. This episode explores why the early stages feel so shaky and what actually helps parents feel steady again.We'll talk about: • why deschooling feels so emotional and up-and-down • the hidden pressures that make you second-guess yourself • why doing this alone feels so much harder • what real, judgment-free support does for your confidence • stories from parents who finally stopped spiraling • why the holiday season magnifies everything — good and hardIf you're tired of the internal wobble or wishing someone could walk with you through this stage, this conversation will help you breathe again.⭐ Black Friday Membership SaleIf you've been wanting support, this is the easiest week of the year to join the Unschooling Mom2Mom Membership. The discounted Black Friday price makes it simple to get the grounding, clarity, and community that make unschooling feel lighter.Monthly - 20% off!Annual - 56% off!!!Join here: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/black-fridaySupport the show_____________________________________________________As always, reach out if you need more help. You don't have to do this alone!Free Email List with weekly unschooling resourcesLike what you're hearing - buy Sue a cup of coffee! Buy Me a Coffee Creating Confidence Membership Group Podcast listeners can join without the sign up fee - so use this link! UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com
In this episode, I'm joined by Jem from Australia, a homeschooling mom of four navigating autism, ADHD, sensory needs, school refusal, and neurodivergent learning—and doing it all with honesty, humor, and so much heart.Jem shares why her family left the traditional school system, how her kids went from daily meltdowns and sensory overwhelm to peaceful mornings and learning at their own pace, and why unschooling naturally became the approach that finally worked.We talk about: • What homeschooling looks like for autistic and ADHD learners • Why school refusal isn't “defiance”—it's dysregulation • The surprising benefits of late-morning starts, slow mornings, and interest-led learning • How volunteering at an animal rescue farm completely changed her daughter's confidence • Creating sensory-friendly learning spaces at home • Using fidgets, wobble seats, chewing tools, trampolines, and pets for regulation • Transitioning out of curriculum and into a more intuitive, child-led rhythm • How homeschooling reconnects families and helps kids thrive emotionally • The differences between public school vs. homeschool in Australia • What new homeschool parents REALLY need to hear before they beginIf you're parenting a neurodivergent child, exploring unschooling, or wondering whether homeschooling can truly support special needs, this episode will give you encouragement, perspective, and a whole lot of validation.✨ Connect with Jem: Jem's FacebookJem's InstagramLeave the Big Box Store! Shop Here Instead!Swap Where You ShopLearn more about Green Ember: Helmer in the Dragon Tomb—the new prequel book from S. D. Smith—and explore the companion video game now available on Steam: sdsmith.com/helmer Perfect for parents seeking meaningful, courage-building stories for kids ages 8–12.*** A Connected Christmas Unit Study! Start making Christmas memories today!!
Susan Yao is an educator, school founder, and advocate of self-directed learning. She previously served as Middle School Head at Friends Academy in Dartmouth, Massachusetts, following more than a decade of teaching. She co-founded the Vermont Village School, a community-based microschool emphasising student-led learning, autonomy, and community engagement.The episode connects her parents' years in China's school closures with her own path through American schooling and into the early stages of unschooling. The conversation outlines her family's approach to dyslexia, late reading, and open learning rhythms.
Text Sue what you think!Worried about family questioning your unschooling over Thanksgiving?In this episode, Sue Patterson shares a simple Thanksgiving Toolkit to help you stay calm, grounded, and confident when the tough questions come. Grab 3 practical tools to steady yourself, respond (or not respond) with clarity, and keep the holiday peaceful for you and your kids.Thanksgiving Parent Bundle https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/product/Thanksgiving-Parent-BundleBlack Friday Deals for Sue's Membership https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/black-fridaySupport the show_____________________________________________________As always, reach out if you need more help. You don't have to do this alone!Free Email List with weekly unschooling resourcesLike what you're hearing - buy Sue a cup of coffee! Buy Me a Coffee Creating Confidence Membership Group Podcast listeners can join without the sign up fee - so use this link! UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com
We'd love to hear from you! Send us a text!Episode 169: Sabbatical Stories Series Finale: A Heart-Opening Conversation With April's Kids on Homeschooling, Growth & Real-Life LearningIn this special 3-part finale of the Sabbatical Stories Series, April invites her three children to sit down for an unfiltered, heartfelt conversation about their homeschooling journey during the family's sabbatical year. These episodes are raw, unedited, genuine, and offer a rare behind-the-scenes look into what kids really think about alternative education, family adventure, and personal growth.Together, they explore:What they loved most about being homeschooledWhat they didn't enjoy (and why)What they learned about themselves, the world, and how they prefer to learnThe surprising moments that shaped their family bondHow a sabbatical changed their perspective on school, freedom, routines, and creativityThis series isn't just about homeschooling — it's about intentional living, conscious parenting, resilience, and raising self-aware kids. Whether you're a homeschooling parent, a curious entrepreneur, or someone exploring unconventional paths, these episodes offer inspiration, connection, and honesty.Support the showGet DEEPER with April & The Paradigm U Team. Connect with Us HERE.Love the Episode? Please Leave us a Review on iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/skis-saloon-virtual-bar-podcast/id1535050128-----------------------------------Get Exclusive Access to Premium Content through our "Good Karma Club"Click Here to Join the Club *Access to Bonus Content begins January 2026
We'd love to hear from you! Send us a text!Episode 171:Sabbatical Stories Series Finale: A Heart-Opening Conversation With April's Kids on Homeschooling, Growth & Real-Life Learning. Part 3: The LambIn this special 3-part finale of the Sabbatical Stories Series, April invites her three children to sit down for an unfiltered, heartfelt conversation about their homeschooling journey during the family's sabbatical year. These episodes are raw, unedited, genuine, and offer a rare behind-the-scenes look into what kids really think about alternative education, family adventure, and personal growth.Together, they explore:What they loved most about being homeschooledWhat they didn't enjoy (and why)What they learned about themselves, the world, and how they prefer to learnThe surprising moments that shaped their family bondHow a sabbatical changed their perspective on school, freedom, routines, and creativityThis series isn't just about homeschooling — it's about intentional living, conscious parenting, resilience, and raising self-aware kids. Whether you're a homeschooling parent, a curious entrepreneur, or someone exploring unconventional paths, these episodes offer inspiration, connection, and honesty.Support the showGet DEEPER with April & The Paradigm U Team. Connect with Us HERE.Love the Episode? Please Leave us a Review on iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/skis-saloon-virtual-bar-podcast/id1535050128-----------------------------------Get Exclusive Access to Premium Content through our "Good Karma Club"Click Here to Join the Club *Access to Bonus Content begins January 2026
We'd love to hear from you! Send us a text!Episode 170:Sabbatical Stories Series Finale: A Heart-Opening Conversation With April's Kids on Homeschooling, Growth & Real-Life Learning-Part 2-TIGERIn this special 3-part finale of the Sabbatical Stories Series, April invites her three children to sit down for an unfiltered, heartfelt conversation about their homeschooling journey during the family's sabbatical year. These episodes are raw, unedited, genuine, and offer a rare behind-the-scenes look into what kids really think about alternative education, family adventure, and personal growth.Together, they explore:What they loved most about being homeschooledWhat they didn't enjoy (and why)What they learned about themselves, the world, and how they prefer to learnThe surprising moments that shaped their family bondHow a sabbatical changed their perspective on school, freedom, routines, and creativityThis series isn't just about homeschooling — it's about intentional living, conscious parenting, resilience, and raising self-aware kids. Whether you're a homeschooling parent, a curious entrepreneur, or someone exploring unconventional paths, these episodes offer inspiration, connection, and honesty.----------------------------On this show we referenced:Oversimplified-our favorite history-ish youtube channelEducational gamified curriculum: Prodigy and Beast AcademySupport the showGet DEEPER with April & The Paradigm U Team. Connect with Us HERE.Love the Episode? Please Leave us a Review on iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/skis-saloon-virtual-bar-podcast/id1535050128-----------------------------------Get Exclusive Access to Premium Content through our "Good Karma Club"Click Here to Join the Club *Access to Bonus Content begins January 2026
It's not uncommon to want to invest in curriculums, tutors, and online programmes as soon as we start home educating. Unschooling calls you to resist the urge to do this and to allow time to recover from your school experience, move away from relying on professionals telling you what to learn, when and how, and move towards increased autonomy, and a self-determined path. It includes tips on how to support your child's journey from extrinsically motivated learning to intrinsically motivated learning, key signs to look for that they are moving in the right direction, and a guide to help you stay the course.
Send us a textThis week on The Empowered Parent Podcast I sat down with Sarah Lovett from Our PDA Kids and Paige Carter from Inclusive Oak. Both Sarah and Paige are parents of children with Pathological Demand Avoidance, or Persistent Demand for Autonomy, and both run successful services supporting families just like yours.Sarah talked about burnout, why it happens, and how we can support children who find school overwhelming. She also shared gentle reminders about parent self care and why looking after yourself helps your child feel safe.Paige shared her own real life stories with her children, Oaklan and Lacey. She spoke honestly about the hard moments, the small wins, and what has helped her family at home, in the community, and at school.This episode is full of practical ideas and hope for parents who are struggling with everyday challenges like getting up, eating, brushing teeth, showering, going out, or returning to school.Join us for a conversation that reminds you that you are not alone, and that small steps can make a big difference.https://www.ourpdakids.com.au/https://inclusiveoak.com.au/https://www.servicesaustralia.gov.au/assistance-for-isolated-children-scheme danabaltutis.com, mytherapyhouse.com.au, https://mytherapyhouse.com.au/your-childs-therapy-journey/ https://www.danabaltutis.com/services
Text Sue what you think!The holidays can bring up all kinds of emotions — especially when you're the unschooling parent walking into a room where everyone has an opinion. And even if people mean well, their questions can still hit tender spots or stir up old schooling fears.In today's episode, we'll talk about how to stay grounded when family members question your unschooling choices. I'll walk you through five simple, steadying tips you can lean on during awkward moments — the same ones I share with parents inside my membership when this season rolls around.You'll learn: • why these conversations feel so intense • how to keep your calm without going into defense mode • what to remember when someone still doesn't “get it” • ways to reconnect with your child and yourself afterward • how to stay confident even when the room feels tenseIf you want to go deeper and make this whole season feel lighter, here are a few helpful resources:
The “best” dictionary definition of school is: “An institution or place where people, typically students, are educated, instructed, and taught, often by teachers, to acquire knowledge, skills, and understanding to function in society.” At first brush, this definition seems to be accurate and non-threatening. However, it may be a good idea to look into the history of compulsory education before coming to any foregone conclusions about what school was and what it has come to be. Like many modern institutions, the school concept has its roots in Christianity. Although I am not sure how things came to be, Sunday school was initially a class held either before or after a church service to help parents to teach their children to read. An old Catholic order called the Jesuits was among the first to create day schools but they had an ulterior motive. They wanted to entice children of Lutheran families back to the Catholic fold, as their parents could not be convinced to do so during the reformation period. They knew they would have a better chance with children than adults, and they continue to this day as proselytizers of the Catholic doctrine. An interesting aside about this school – other than the fact that parents volunteered to have their children attend – is that the mostly illiterate students started attending after puberty. They learned much, much more than what is learned in our modern twelve-year schooling program, and they were ready for seminary, college or university in less than three years. Makes one question how the twelve years to certification ever got started and why it continues to exist. Compulsory education was not really a thing until the mid 1800s. It was started in Prussia (now Germany) to instill military-style compliance in students. This was obviously successful when one considers this country started both the first and second World Wars. Seeing that the early compulsory schools in Germany were successful, American industrial capitalists brought the concept to the United States, even going so far as to fund it so they could create a compliant workforce to man their factories. This was not initially accepted by parents who wanted to maintain their agrarian, family lifestyle, but eventually school came to be a desired institution. At this point, the government got involved. The initial Sunday schools were dedicated institutions of learning, however the Jesuits, Germans, American industrialists and governments all had a different objective in providing school: universal compliance toward something. Making it compulsory greatly increased the potential for achieving this goal. This begs the question: what could be the compliance goals of modern schools? https://eu-wp-media.s3.amazonaws.com/uploads/2025/10/7-what-is-school.mp3
Send us a textDive into an inspiring journey of healing, empathy, and community with Myisha T. Hill. Discover how embracing sobriety—not just from substances but from systemic oppression and self-criticism—opens new pathways to personal growth and collective liberation. Explore the transformative insights of author, speaker, and possibilitarian Myisha T. Hill on empathy, healing, and community building. Myisha's books, "Check Your Privilege" and "Heal Your Way Forward," provide valuable frameworks for personal and communal growth and healing. In this episode, Myisha discusses her approach to "sobriety" from oppressive systems, highlighting the profound impact of African proverbs such as Umbuntu and Sankofa on her work. Through personal stories and insightful discussions, she helps us learn how to model self-compassion and empathy for our children, foster community connections, and embrace the healing journey forward. Myisha T Hill is a nationally recognized voice in healing justice and racial equity. As the curator of Heal Your Way Forward and Iwosan Collective, her work centers on the intersections of mental wellness, social healing, and community care. With Iwosan Collective, she expands that vision, bringing the medicine of water, compassion, and environmental connection to those who've historically been excluded from it.Chapters:01:03:Healing and Moving Forward Together 11:44:Modeling Self-Compassion and Empathy for Children 20:58:A Personal Journey of Empathy, Compassion, and Transformation 33:15:Heal Your Way Forward Links:Come to Myisha T Hill's Ted TalkVisit the Heal Your Way Forward communityExplore the Check Your Privilege communityLearn about the Iwosan CollectivePurchase Check Your Privilege Journal and Heal Your Way Forward Follow Myisha T Hill on Instagram, Substack, YouTube, and LinkedIn#Empathy, #Healing, #MyishaTHill, #Liberation, #Sobriety, #CommunityCare, #Podcast, #SelfCompassion, #Unschooling, #PersonalGrowth, #Ubuntu, #Sankofa, #AdventuresInLearning, #HealYourWayForward, #CheckYourPrivilege, #EmpathyInActionSupport the showSubscribe & Follow: Stay updated with our latest episodes and follow us on Instagram, LinkedIn, and the Adventures in Learning website. Don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts! *Disclosure: I am a Bookshop.org. affiliate.
This time round Asher is talking about his latest PHSE course module, and helping change a car battery. Mirabelle is talking about the gases in the air around us and the story of flight. Eden's excited about her next steps for A-levels, and we're all talking about Stir Up Sunday, a film festival, and our latest family read aloud. Plus we're reviewing two games from Button Shy Games: Tussie Mussie and Dionysia.
In this powerful episode, Cheryl sits down with Anya, a seasoned mom who made the courageous choice to pull her son out of school during a season of deep grief — and discovered that unschooling was the unexpected key to his healing, growth, and confidence.Anya shares how losing her son's father, navigating the chaos of COVID schooling, and tuning into her child's emotional needs led her to take full ownership of her family's educational path. What followed included incredible personal growth, restored mental health, and the realization that children often learn more outside the system than inside it.Together we explore: • How unschooling helped her son recover emotionally and academically • Why children can easily return to public school without “falling behind” • The impact of grief, trauma, and stress on learning • Why emotional intelligence matters more than worksheets • Homeschool myths that keep parents scared • Real-life skills kids actually need (and how school suppresses them) • The hidden pressures on parents from schools, doctors & society • Why confidence, connection, and slow childhood matter more than curriculumIf you're considering homeschooling, curious about unschooling, or questioning the one-size-fits-all school system, this episode will give you permission to trust yourself — and your child — more deeply.Connect with Anya: www.theangelwearsprana.comInstagramYoutubeFacbook A Connected Christmas Unit Study! Start making Christmas memories today!!
In this episode of "Unschooling Stories: Living Outside the Lines," Heidi Steel sits down with guest Jenny to share an authentic, hope-filled journey through unschooling and supporting neurodivergent children at home. Together, they discuss the decision to deregister from traditional schooling after burnout, and the practical day-to-day strategies their families use to thrive outside the conventional system. Heidi and Jenny open up about navigating mental health challenges, using sensory tools, fostering social connections, and the power of listening to your instincts as a parent. Honest, insightful, and richly detailed, this conversation offers valuable encouragement and practical tips for anyone exploring unschooling and looking to support children's well-being.Podcast Notes:The decision to leave mainstream education: burnout, anxiety, and advocating for your child's mental healthWhat “cocooning” looks like: low-demand environments, comfort, and removing unnecessary pressuresCreating a sensory-friendly home: swings, trampolines, crunchy snacks, white noise, and flexible bedtime routinesChild-centred learning and embracing interests whatever they may be.Using VR and technology to ease anxiety and prepare for new experiencesNavigating family and social judgment: trusting yourself and focusing on your own child's needsReintroducing social activities: finding the right time, place, and support for outingsThe positive impact of collaboration, flexibility, and authentic family dialogueReal-life success stories: increased well-being, renewed hope, and adventures beyond school ResourcesFind the Unschooling Village Hub and resources for unschooling families: liveplaylearn.orgThank you for listening to Unschooling Conversations. If you enjoyed this episode, please like, subscribe, and share - it helps towards increasing the chances that you will see a post on future episode releases and spreads the love.
Text Sue what you think!Ever wonder if you're doing enough when your child just wants to play all day — Legos, trampolines, video games — and you're trying to trust unschooling? In this episode, Sue Patterson from Unschooling Mom2Mom answers a real email from a worried parent and explains: Why this “all play” phase is normal during deschooling, What's actually happening in your child's brain, How to shift from panic to partnership. How play builds real learning, Why motivation returns naturallyHow to support your child without slipping into passivity or overcontrol.BLACK FRIDAY SALE!Creating Confidence Membership - Only $39/month with no sign-up feeAnnual Membership - $299! - 76% off!Courses 50% off with Discount Code: BF2025All Unschooling Guides - only $99!! with Discount Code: BF2025___________________________Read the Transcript here: https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/is-play-enough-what-legos-trampolines-video-games-teach-us-about-learningSupport the show_____________________________________________________As always, reach out if you need more help. You don't have to do this alone!Free Email List with weekly unschooling resourcesLike what you're hearing - buy Sue a cup of coffee! Buy Me a Coffee Creating Confidence Membership Group Podcast listeners can join without the sign up fee - so use this link! UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com
Text Sue what you think!Feeling stretched thin — or wondering if you're doing enough? You're not alone.But I have something simple you can try:Let's look at Gratitude through and unschooling lens!In this episode, Sue Patterson from Unschooling Mom2Mom shares how shifting toward gratitude can calm the chaos and help you see how much is already working in your unschooling life.She has created an Unschooling and Gratitude Hub over at the website. You'll find so many tips and resources for bringing gratitude into your homes. You'll learn how to spot real learning in everyday moments, model gratitude for your kids, and rebuild calm and connection at home — without adding another “to-do.”
What happens when unschooled teens meet college systems, exams, and external expectations? Jesper and Cecilie Conrad speak with Missy Willis about how adolescents raised with freedom step into formal learning without losing curiosity or confidence. The conversation follows family transitions, changing homes, and the moment when rigor and motivation finally align.
It's our 200th episode! To celebrate we've got a bumper edition with highlights from our recent cruise around northern Europe and visits to Hamburg, Rotterdam, Brugge and Honfleur. Plus we're reviewing two fantastic games we were given by the nice team at Gamely games after they answered our questions for our boardgames focused last episode: Clues in Twos and The Pretender.In case you want to listen to any of our 199 previous episodes from the last decade they are all available to listen to directly on our website www.homeedmatters.co.uk
In this episode, we were so grateful to be joined by Melissa Crockett-Joyoue of the Unschooling Summit and Weave ND. Melissa shared her dramatic journey to unschooling, her experience as a neurodivergent parent of neurodivergent kids, and how amazing unschooling has been for all of them. We also talked about increasing our capacity through intentional […]
This TIMELESS turns everything on it's head. What if the most educated amongst us are the most disconnected? Here we lovingly dismantle factory schooling, recall village intelligence, and discuss a practical path into gift culture. Manish Jain (co-founder of the UnSchooling movement) who walked out of Wall Street and Harvard, invites us to trade credentials for conscience, exams for experience, and scarcity for an experiment in trust. We discuss education as being, not just knowing, starting with head, heart, hands, home. Manish speaks on gift culture, giving us the advice that when scarcity knocks, we up the gift, and ritualize generosity so trust compounds. We invite you to bring home some of the ideas discussed in the episode such as running a treasure hunt by visiting 10 local people or places of skill, elders, makers, growers, repairers, musicians. Another idea is to host a Darya Dil exchange, where each person gifts a personally meaningful item with its story, and the receiver promises to pass it on within 3 months. And finally, we invite you to replace "resume" with a one page portfolio of lived projects, and publish it publicly. We also recommend that you listen to the full Episode 39 here. And please do a treasure hunt where you are this week, you will be amazed by what you find! Join us for The Rhythm: live meditation sessions twice a week with our community - no recordings to catch up on, just show up and breathe together. For links and more, please visit www.allthatweare.org
Text Sue what you think!Thinking about unschooling but wondering if you have to “try everything else first”? You don't.
What happens when you ditch the American Dream, move onto a boat with five kids, and homeschool while traveling the Caribbean? In this inspiring episode, former public school teacher Tanya shares her family's extraordinary journey of "boat schooling" for nearly a decade.From their catamaran "Take Two" in Florida's 10,000 Islands, Tanya opens up about:Why They Left Conventional Life BehindThe "meat grinder" feeling of the traditional education systemMoving from Atlanta suburbia to life on the open oceanHow a childhood dream became reality with five young childrenThe Reality of Boat SchoolingManaging seasickness, morning sickness, and life in close quartersUsing the world as your classroom: from banana plantations in Belize to Christopher Columbus's landing sites in the BahamasOne-room schoolhouse methods that work with multiple ages (toddler to teen)Honest Conversations About:Unschooling yourself as a former teacherThe socialization question (spoiler: she's seen what socialization looks like in classrooms)Teaching five different kids to read five different waysWhy the "hard parts" of their unconventional childhood made her kids tougher and more resilientCreating deep family bonds that last into adulthoodMentioned Resources:Life of Fred math curriculumTeach Your Baby to Read (Doman method)A Voyage Long and Strange by Tony HorwitzTanya's book: "Leaving the Safe Harbor: The Risks and Rewards of Raising a Family on a Boat"Blog: https://www.taketwosailing.com/
Text Sue what you think!Unschooling + Halloween = real learning.
HomeSchool ThinkTank! Live & Learn Your Way with Jackie Wheeler
Kate McAllister describes how nervous system regulation shifts behavior from reaction to response. The conversation maps how stress patterns shape daily life, from parenting and school to refugee camps and co-regulation through rhythm and presence. Breath, movement, and sensory grounding become practical tools for returning the thinking brain online when fight, flight, or freeze take over.
Text Sue what you think!Watch Video Version HereStill searching for a checklist to prove you're “doing it right”?In this episode, Sue Patterson breaks down why unschooling doesn't come with boxes to check — and why that's both scary and freeing. Join a coaching-call-inspired conversation about the brain's habit of seeking structure, why we feel compelled to “perform” as parents, and how we can shift from tracking tasks to checking connection. If you're a parent moving away from school-style validation toward real life learning, this episode will help you reframe success, reconnect with your child, and trust your own rhythm.Keywords: unschooling, deschooling, homeschooling, checklist mentality, parenting without curriculum, connection over structure, unschooling parents, free-range learning, trusting your rhythmYou'll learn:Why our obsession with checklists comes from a school-brain still wired for “right answers”How unschooling challenges that structure — and what to do insteadA simple daily question to replace “Did I finish the list?” with “Did we connect today?”Why “progress” looks different in unschooling — and how to see what's realResources mentioned:365 Days of DeschoolingSeasonal Unschooling Guides Strewing CalendarCreating Confidence Unschooling Membership (community & coaching)Tune in to reset your checklist culture and rediscover freedom, curiosity, and trust in learning together.Listen now on all major podcast platforms.Read the transcript here at the Unschooling Mom2Mom Blog.Support the show_____________________________________________________As always, reach out if you need more help. You don't have to do this alone!Free Email List with weekly unschooling resourcesLike what you're hearing - buy Sue a cup of coffee! Buy Me a Coffee Creating Confidence Membership Group Podcast listeners can join without the sign up fee - so use this link! UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com
Discover how former UK teacher Kate transformed 24 years of mainstream education experience into "The Hive Adventure" - a revolutionary barefoot unschool in the Dominican Republic. In this inspiring episode, Kate shares her journey from French grammar teacher to creating a human-centered learning environment where students grow their own food, tackle global sustainability challenges, and learn emotional regulation from the inside out.What You'll Learn:How to create child-led, project-based learning experiencesTeaching emotional regulation and self-awareness to childrenBuilding a food forest and garden-to-plate education programImplementing social impact projects focused on UN global goalsThe difference between coddling feelings vs. teaching healthy emotional processingWhy barefoot learning and outdoor education improve mental healthStarting alternative education programs (micro-schools, learning pods, unschools)Perfect for homeschool families, alternative education advocates, and parents seeking nature-based, child-centered learning approaches. Kate's story proves you can create meaningful educational change anywhere in the world.The Hive Adventure InstagramThe Homeschool How To Complete Starter Guide - Thinking about homeschooling but don't know where to start? Cheryl created this comprehensive guide which compiles insights from her interviews with over 120 homeschooling families across the country. From navigating state laws to finding your style to working while homeschooling- this eBook covers it all. Stop feeling overwhelmed and start feeling confident. Purchase Here!Let's Talk, Emergencies! The most important lessons we can teach our kids aren't reading, writing, and math - they're how to keep themselves and others safe. Cheryl created this essential children's book which covers everything from dialing 911 on a locked cell phone to staying safe online, water safety, fire safety, and more. Let's Talk Emergencies! gives children the knowledge and confidence to handle real-world situations. These are conversations we shouldn't put off. Available on Amazon Support the showInstagram: TheHomeschoolHowToPodcast Facebook: The Homeschool How To Podcast
Summer Jean describes how growing up unschooled shaped her ideas of work, freedom, and value. She explains how her mother's focus on connection over control helped her develop confidence in her own sense of rightness. The episode contrasts inner conviction with productivity as a measure of worth.
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We are back with another episode in our Unschooling Stumbling Blocks series and this time, we're talking about unschooling with strong beliefs. Sometimes our strong beliefs can be a stumbling block along our journey when we put the belief ahead of our relationships. When those moments come up in our families, it can help to […]
Cecilie and Jesper Conrad describe how illness, travel, and questioning convention led their family from a more or less traditional path in Denmark—through a Freinet-inspired free school—to a fully unschooled, nomadic life. They explain how unschooling developed through practical choices, legal frameworks, and value-based reflection rather than ideology.
Text Sue what you think!Autonomy doesn't grow from obedience — it grows from real life experience.In this episode, Sue Patterson shares how unschooled kids learn to weigh pros and cons, think through choices, and develop real decision-making confidence. You'll explore what cost/benefit thinking looks like in everyday life — from messy art projects to sports teams and video games — and why stepping back as a parent creates space for growth. Learn how unschooling gives kids the practice they need to trust themselves, one choice at a time.MORE ABOUT THE MEMBERSHIPSupport the show_____________________________________________________As always, reach out if you need more help. You don't have to do this alone!Free Email List with weekly unschooling resourcesLike what you're hearing - buy Sue a cup of coffee! Buy Me a Coffee Creating Confidence Membership Group Podcast listeners can join without the sign up fee - so use this link! UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com
Co-creation unfolds when control gives way to trust. Life Is Easy grew from a shared intention among ten people who wrote together without plans or deadlines. The process reveals how purpose and openness can replace pressure, turning collaboration into a form of ease.
Discover how one mom transformed her family's life by leaving traditional school behind for homeschooling on a 30-acre farm. In this inspiring episode, Brooke shares her journey from suburban Long Island to rural farm life, and why she chose to pull all five of her kids from conventional school.What You'll Learn:How COVID sparked a complete lifestyle change and homeschool journeyWhy common core curriculum pushed one family toward homeschoolingReal strategies for teaching reading, math, and science through daily farm lifeHow to overcome the fear of homeschool paperwork and requirementsBridge Academy review: A curriculum that supports natural learningThe truth about socialization and homeschooled kidsWhy boys especially struggle in traditional classroom settingsTeaching real-life skills: banking, cooking, animal care, and moreHow to handle homeschool burnout and maintain patienceSpecial Guest: 10-year-old Savannah shares her honest perspective on school vs. homeschool lifeResources Mentioned:Bridge Academy with Leah McDermott (natural learning curriculum)Timbernook School outdoor learning approachNew York homeschool laws and IHIP requirementsWhether you're considering homeschooling, already homeschooling, or curious about alternative education, this conversation reveals the beauty of child-led learning, the importance of play, and how everyday moments become powerful teaching opportunities.Perfect for: Homeschool moms, parents considering homeschooling, farm life enthusiasts, natural learning advocates, unschoolers, Charlotte Mason followersCheryl's Ebook: Check out The Homeschool How To Complete Starter Guide- Cheryl's eBook compiling everything she's learned from her interviews on The Homeschool How To Podcast.
Part 2 of my chat with Britton and Carolee and they share their story of trying different types of school systems from Walford and Montesori to Unschooling to determine the path of greatest soul development for their children. We talk about why schools don't focus on skill development such as love and compassion in this episode.
Today I'm with Mariam Carter who lives in Southern California with her husband and two sons, who are 12 and 9. Their oldest son is autistic and the family's jouney to unschooling journey began during the pandemic. Mariam describes the shift she had to make from equating life success with academic achievement, what it means to trust the journey when your child learns differently, and how her job as a mental health therapist is such a parallel journey. And we talk about what it means to create a place of safety where our children can explore their autonomy and agency. I hope you enjoy the conversation. You can find my blog, workshops and courses at:www.esther-jones.comOr, connect with me onInstagram: @_esther.jonesFacebook:@theunschoolspace
Text Sue what you think!Shaky start with homeschooling? You're not failing—the plan is. Sue Patterson shares how to pivot from “school at home” to unschooling with confidence, reframe the “basics,” and calm the September wobble. + Q&A and resources to help right now.___________________________LAST DAY SALEUnschooling Mom2Mom Parent Toolkit: ALL 25 guides = $99
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Text Sue what you think!Worried you're not doing enough as an unschooling parent? In this episode, Sue Patterson tackles common doubts about reading, math, technology, and “falling behind.” Learn how to reframe fears, spot real learning, and build confidence — plus hear about the Unschooling Parent Toolkit - with 25 Guides - to help you every step of the way.Are you lying awake at night wondering: Am I doing enough for my kids? You're not alone. Let's dive into the doubts that creep in when families move away from traditional homeschooling and into unschooling - and find some SOLUTIONS!You'll hear why worries about reading, math, technology, and “falling behind” show up for nearly every parent — and how to reframe them so you can see the real learning that's happening in your home. Sue shares practical examples from everyday life, mindset shifts that help you shake off school conditioning, and encouragement from her 30+ years of unschooling experience.
Text Sue what you think!We spent 12 years in school but left unprepared for real life — because school skipped the lessons that actually matter. In this episode, Sue Patterson shares 10 life skills adults wish they had learned in school, from money management and stress relief to media literacy and relationships. You'll also hear how unschooling gives families the freedom to focus on these real-world skills naturally, without waiting until adulthood.