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Today's episode is part of a solo series on Reimagining Love about Family of Origin Roles (a.k.a. FOO roles). We're exploring how the roles we were cast into as children and held within our family systems shape how we show up in our relationships today. Whether you were the one who held the family together, the rebel who pushed back against household norms, or the “easy” kid who flew under the radar, we all inhabited a position in the community of our family and absorbed certain messages about love, connection, and worthiness as a result. Check out the introductory episode of the series if you missed it! All previous role-specific episodes are also linked below.We're taking a look at “The Parentified Child” role in today's episode. The child cast into this role likely heard that they were “so mature,” “wise beyond their years,” or were praised for their comforting presence when they were growing up. The problem? Kids shouldn't have to provide emotional support to the adults in their family. Unfortunately for the Parentified Child, this felt like the surest route to safety and love, perhaps due to a chaotic environment, overwhelmed parents, or conflict in the family system. As an adult, the Parentified Child carries with them a certain set of beliefs and tendencies that they picked up as a kid in this role. Does this sound like you, or someone you love? Listen to the episode to learn more about this role and how The Parentified Child can free themselves from always taking on others' needs and create more egalitarian relationships that feel safe and nourishing.Relevant links:Reimagining Love episode with Dr. Hillary McBride: Getting Present: Tuning Into Your Body with Dr. Hillary McBrideReimagining Love series: “I Love My Partner, But Their Family is Toxic”: Part 1, Part 2Girlhood Interrupted: The Erasure of Black Girls' Childhood (Rebecca Epstein, Jamilia J. Blake, Thalia González, from the Center on Poverty and Inequality, Georgetown Law)Past episodes of the Family of Origin Roles Series: Introductory Episode, The Perfect One (From Performance to Presence), The Easy One (From Accommodation to Authenticity), The Struggling One (From Scapegoat to Self-Advocate), The Peacemaker (From Referee to Realist)Take the Family of Origin Roles QuizDr. Alexandra's Psychotherapy Networker ArticleOrder Dr. Alexandra's book, Love Every DaySubscribe to Dr. Alexandra's NewsletterSubmit a Listener Question
Our tendency to label people & the growing trend of labelling others toxic Part 2 of a 2 part series by Radio Islam
Mark and Adena continue their conversation about toxic relationships. Many people are using terms like "toxic" and "abusive." But do we know how to have a great relationship? Toxic behaviors can be invisible, like a gas. Here are 4 examples of behaviors that seem good, but are actually harmful. Living in fear. It can look like protection. Being judgmental. It can look like trying to help someone behave better. Being controlling. It can look like you're just trying to be helpful.Communicating truth in a way that hurts the other person.Talk to unbiased helpers instead of biased hurt people. It's easy to find someone who will have sympathy with your relationship problem. But it's hard to find someone who will help you build the relationship that will serve your life. Reach out to Mark here: mark@markdelaney.meReach out to Adena here: adena@markdelaney.meTake our free marriage assessment: https://app.assessmentgenerator.com/assessment/17360Support the Show.
Everyone does toxic things at times.We have to be careful labeling someone as toxic. Labels that we put on people can prevent us from moving forward effectively.Something that is toxic is like a gas that nobody can see. Most people are not toxic, but their choices are toxic. Levels of toxicity. They need to be dealt with differently. Great people can do toxic things. People who care can do toxic things. But we also have people who don't care at all that make toxic choices. We can't put them all in the same box. If you love your family and you're trying to do things that help, you don't want someone to write you off because you made a toxic choice.Have a grace mask for your spouses gas problems! Not a lighter of judgment! Deal with low level toxins! Get help with gas build up. Here is the link to our marriage assessment: https://app.assessmentgenerator.com/assessment/17360Support the Show.
When people have information on us, they use that information as bait to trap us. Listen in. #love #freedom #relationship
When power is regulated well, we work as a team. When power is dysregulated, we work as enemies, fighting for power and control at all costs. But what happens when position, role, and authority is used as a weapon for power and control? Which side will you sit on? Let's talk about it. #love #freedom #relationship
When power is regulated well, we work as a team. When power is dysregulated, we work as enemies, fighting for power and control at all costs. But what happens when food is used as a weapon for power and control? Which side will you sit on? Let's talk about it. #love #freedom #relationship
In October of 1988, Peggy Carr fell terribly ill and soon after her other family members started experiencing the same symptoms. Doctors concluded they had been poisoned. But who wanted an entire family dead and why? This weeks episode is part two of this case and all the questions will be answered due to some incredibly good undercover detective work. sources (2) Forensic Files - Season 2, Episode 5 - Bitter Potion - Full Episode - YouTube Poison Mind - Jeffrey Good, Susan Goreck - Google Books George Trepal Florida Death Row | My Crime Library Home Page | Mensa International
Alturas, Florida, October 1988, Peggy Carr goes to work at the dinner she works at when she starts experiencing extreme fatigue, burning feet and numb hands. She is in incredible pain and eventually seeks medical help. Doctors can't figure out what's making her sick. Then more members of the family start experiencing the same symptoms as Peggy. Months earlier the Carr family had received a threatening note in the mail with no return address or senders' name. Could there be a relation to the threat and the sudden illness plaguing the family? sources (2) Forensic Files - Season 2, Episode 5 - Bitter Potion - Full Episode - YouTube Poison Mind - Jeffrey Good, Susan Goreck - Google Books
In-law dynamics are complicated. What do you do when your partner's family is particularly challenging, or you're the one in the relationship with the family drama? Dr. Solomon addresses all of this and more in today's episode.Get the In-Laws worksheet:https://dralexandrasolomon.com/inlaws/Listen to Part 1 of this episode:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reimagining-love/id1588419386?i=1000581520129Subscribe to Dr. Solomon's Newsletter:https://dralexandrasolomon.com/subscribe/Submit a Listener Question:https://form.jotform.com/212295995939274 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
We are at MKU next week 14th October, Sign up for our Campus Tour 2.0 here; http://shorturl.at/dhjS6 Hope you enjoy the episode.
We are at MKU next week 14th October, Sign up for our Campus Tour 2.0 here; http://shorturl.at/dhjS6 Hope you enjoy the episode.
In-law dynamics are complicated. What do you do when your partner's family is particularly challenging, or you're the one in the relationship with the family drama? Dr. Solomon addresses all of this and more in today's episode.Subscribe to Dr. Solomon's Newsletter:https://dralexandrasolomon.com/subscribe/Submit a Listener Question:https://form.jotform.com/212295995939274 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Unbelievably, my Yeti wasn't turned on for this episode JUST LIKE it wasn't back on September 28, 2021 when the original episode was recorded!!! In this episode, I return to the topic of trauma distortions in toxic relationships and zoom out a bit more to add what I've learned since I recorded the origial episode. I've simplified everything, come find me over on IG, @drtannerwallace If you aren't on social media much, and still want to hear about the newest offers in the Relational Healing Lab you can opt-in to a special email list here. Episode 058
Halo Teman Karsa! Gimana, nih, agenda liburan semester kalian? Biasanya tiap hari disibukkan dengan praktikum dan laporan tapi ketika libur jadi agak longgar gini bikin temen-temen termotivasi buat mencari kesibukan, nggak sih? Nah sebelum impulsif mencari kesibukan kesana kemari yuk, temen-temen dengerin dulu Podcast FA Hari Ini episode ini agar tidak terjebak ke "Hustle Culture"!
Lee and Jeff continue the conversation about toxic church culture with Jim Burgen, Senior Pastor of Flatirons Church. Jim shares his story of unknowingly creating a toxic culture, and how he and his team worked their way out of it. We know you'll love hearing his wisdom and hope that you'll integrate some of their learnings into your team. Enjoy!
Are all churches toxic? The internet sure seems to think so, but we don't. We're going to start to unpack how to know for sure. Lee and Jeff are joined by Nick Kofahl from Summit Integrated to talk about whether or not you may be in an unhealthy situation, and what to do about it.
Ryan goes deep once again to show just how toxic our society has become. From agendas to weddings, it's all “vanity of vanities.”
Halo Teman Karsa! Gimana, nih, agenda liburan semester kalian? Biasanya tiap hari disibukkan dengan praktikum dan laporan tapi ketika libur jadi agak longgar gini bikin temen-temen termotivasi buat mencari kesibukan, nggak sih? Nah sebelum impulsif mencari kesibukan kesana kemari yuk, temen-temen dengerin dulu Podcast FA Hari Ini episode ini agar tidak terjebak ke "Hustle Culture"!
On this months episode we are talking all things TOXIC! From romantic to family relationships, it seems like we are all learning how to recognize toxic behaviors in others and ourselves! Through our own experiences, we talk about what it means to be toxic, how to recognize toxicity and when its time to show toxicity the door! Join us in the discussion by letting us know what you think of the episode! Find us on Instagram @_sinceyouasked and Facebook at Since You Asked!
Join us as we explore, disagree, and debate what it REALLY means to be toxic and identify TOXICITY in our lives. We also divulge some secret (possibly) toxic things we have done to suitors and that they have done to us. JOIN IN... Its always a good time spilling the "T' with my girl, Maggie!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rantswithreilly/message
On this months episode we are talking all things TOXIC! From romantic to family relationships, it seems like we are all learning how to recognize toxic behaviors in others and ourselves! Through our own experiences, we talk about what it means to be toxic, how to recognize toxicity and when its time to show toxicity the door! Join us in the discussion by letting us know what you think of the episode! Find us on Instagram @_sinceyouasked and Facebook at Since You Asked!
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As a coach/mentor, I have to bight my tongue sometimes when dancers tell me their career goals. After being around the block for a few years now, I've experienced my fair share of toxic work environments. I'm here to provide tool, insight, and resources to help these dancer's navigate their careers but I never want to tell them what they should or shouldn't do with their careers. In this episode, Brandon shares three situations dancers should lookout for when negotiating if their work situation is potentially harmful. Is your employer defensive when confronted with problems? Do they gaslight you or make you question your reality? Maybe they constantly compare or criticize your character. This episode is designed to help you identify this problematic behavior and notice the frequency in which it happens.Disclaimer: I am not a mental health expert. When I say "toxic," I mean there is concern for emotional or mental health safety due to poor practices from an individual or within an organization.Interested in working with Brandon? SIGN-UP for a FREE Coaching Consultation HEREBrandon helps pre-professional dancers find their voice as they navigate their careers and helps them stay accountable when pursuing their goals.Through coaching, Brandon helps dancers define whats important for them and redefine what a successful life/career looks like.Learn more here: http://www.brandoncolemandance.com/career-coachingConnect with Brandon!Instagram: @itsBrandonColeman | @BreakingTheWallPodcastWebsite: www.BrandonColemanDance.com/BTWP
In part 3 of the Mold Toxic series, Marian shares with you how to make your home a mold-free safe haven. You'll learn the basics of a mold inspection and proper renovation then learn what you can do to keep your home mold-free for years to come. Happy Healing! ************************************************* In-Home Mold Remediation Blog Low mold meal plan Free Discovery Call with Marian Free Eating Guide (great for pre-low-mold diet) Facebook Community Book on Mold Toxicity I recommend Follow on Instagram Disclaimer: The goal of this podcast is to help you take control of your health and for you to feel the best you possibly can! These programs are not meant to take the place of working with a qualified health care professional and are not designed to diagnose or treat any diseases or medical conditions. Any advice provided is not a medical diagnosis or medical treatment plan.
Author Gina Fontaine is a movement and wellness coach for moms. She has built a career helping women use movement to achieve optimal health. Focusing on physical, emotional and spiritual health, Gina helps moms find a healthy, happy life balance through a realistic, and sustainable approach to motherhood. Her book You Are a Supermom: 5 Ways to Reclaim Your Superpower and Thrive dispels the 5 myths that often keep moms from thriving. She lives with her three children in Denver, Colorado, where she continues to train and coach moms and give them the tools to thrive.https://www.facebook.com/gina.boslerfontainehttps://www.instagram.com/fontainegina/https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUwRKZZ3iLr_fygeUtPZD2AMoms Thrive Tribe FB group https://www.facebook.com/groups/momsthrivetribe/Supermom Club https://www.ginafontaine.com/supermomclubYou Are a Supermom Book: https://amzn.to/2YJejBCAbout Sarah K. RamseyJoin Sarah's FREE Facebook Group “Finding Love & Success After A Toxic Relationship” Before trying Sarah K Ramsey's programs her clients were super embarrassed because on the outside these women appeared to have it all. However, these women had a secret...they still felt mentally chained down by their toxic partner or parent.Most women think talk therapy is the only way to heal! Unfortunately, these women waste years trying to figure out how codependency works or rehashing their past in an office week after week trying to pick apart their childhoods. But, Sarah's clients aren't “most people.” They know overachievers aren't just looking to talk about their problem, they are looking for an action plan to SOLVE their problems!Check out this FREE Presentation where Sarah reveals how she does it! Check out what others have said about SarahContact Sarah
Hey is it too late family! This week we have a special guest @cj ig! We questioned how long should you wait after giving oral, before smoking w/friends. Majority of the crew decided that Die Hard is a holiday movie, debated if sex starts at 10pm what time should it end, and so much more. Plz follow us @isittoolatetoexplain, @quione_nj and plz like,share, and subscribe to get the latest episode and much more.
Hey is it too late family! The crew had @CJ ig once again! This week we questioned which one is worst a toxic mother or an absent father. Some of the squad isn't with their partner acting in a sex scene, a throwback debate goes down, and so much more. Plz follow us @isittoolatetoexplain, @quione_nj and plz like,share, and subscribe to get the latest episode and much more.
"There's no escape, I can't wait..."CREDITS:Mike Painter as Strix, Ron Moraeu, Kenny, and Harold B. GoodlightCrystal Zaslavchik as Pistachio, Alexander, and Alexis LorentzenTyberius Wilson as Quentin, St. Quentin Genesius, and Quentin BrooksFabby Garza as Ursa, La Osa, and Ursula-UrsaZoe Tunnell as Sloane ParkerLuke Varner as The GMMUSIC BY MAXIE KNIGHTLEYEDITED BY MIKE PAINTERCONTENT WARNING: This episode contains impalement, body horror, and a character being burned alive.
Sherry Renee and Chanel are joined with author Nikita Turman and Author Wendell White to discuss transitioning from a toxic relationship to a healthy one. Purchase Nikita's Book Here:https://lydiaandnikita.com/ Purchase Wendell's Book: https://www.amazon.com/Devil-Thought-He-Had-Me/dp/1736491202/ref=sr_1_2?crid=YHRQUIU35SPW&keywords=the+devil+thought+he+had+me&qid=1637689560&sprefix=the+devil+thou%2Caps%2C173&sr=8-2 Submit your questions here: forms.gle/5vckFVvHqNjdUSVq5 Tip: Shop our Etsy Store by searching: Brunch with Besties Podcast or click the link below: www.etsy.com/shop/BrunchWithBes…sting_id=833503050 Cash Donation: if you would like to send your besties a donation you can via: -Paypal: brunchwithbestiespodcast@gmail.com -Venmo: brunchwithbestiespodcast@gmail.com -Cash App: $BrunchWithBesties
In this episode, we sit down with females friends Sebera, Sandy, Anay and actress stunt woman Jeannie stroumpos, on toxic masculinity --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/canceled-podcast1/support
This month's focus affirmation : “I approach myself with patience and understanding.” In this episode Key discusses the first book her book club read, Psychopath Free by: Jackson Mackenzie . She concludes the red flags of a toxic person. (The first 15 were discussed in episode 26) Psychopath Free (Expanded Edition): Recovering from Emotionally Abusive Relationships With Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Other Toxic People https://www.amazon.com/dp/0425279995/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_F4MV0M3YT2A208DRW6X3 To join her book club: https://www.facebook.com/groups/486467442532150/ Key's social media links: Instagram.com/thediaryofkey Instagram.com/mcswithkey Facebook.com/MyCurlsSpeakWithKeyTwitter.com/thediaryofkey Snapchat: thediaryofkey Clubhouse: thediaryofkeyy If you're interested in calling in and your voicemail being played on the next show Or texting for advice , key can be reached at (803) 310-4075 or emailed directly at MyCurlsSpeak@gmail.com. This episode is brought to you by unfilteredforever.com.Use my code “curls” at checkout to receive cash off . Support the show
In this episode Key introduces the first book her book club read, Psychopath Free by: Jackson Mackenzie . She spoke about why she chose that as the first book to read with her club and went into full details of the first 15 red flags of a toxic person. Psychopath Free (Expanded Edition): Recovering from Emotionally Abusive Relationships With Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Other Toxic People https://www.amazon.com/dp/0425279995/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_F4MV0M3YT2A208DRW6X3 This is the first of four episodes surrounding this book and what she learned from reading it. To join her book club: https://www.facebook.com/groups/486467442532150/ Key's social media links: Instagram.com/thediaryofkey Instagram.com/mcswithkey Facebook.com/MyCurlsSpeakWithKeyTwitter.com/thediaryofkey Snapchat: thediaryofkey Clubhouse: thediaryofkeyy If you're interested in calling in and your voicemail being played on the next show Or texting for advice , key can be reached at (803) 310-4075 or emailed directly at MyCurlsSpeak@gmail.com. This episode is brought to you by unfilteredforever.com.Use my code “curls” at checkout to receive cash off . Support the show
# 034 - Last week I explained why masculinity isn't toxic. Today, I point out how biblical masculinity is what we should strive for.If you missed part one, you can grab it here:MASCULINITY ISN'T TOXIC (PART 1)Please subscribe to the podcast and review the show!Leave a review here!I'm on Twitter!Follow me on Twitter.I'm on Parler too! Yes, it still exists!Follow @FairlyImportant on Parler!I'm also on Gettr!Follow me there!Checkout the website: fairlyimportant.com Support the show
# 033 - A lot of people say that "toxic masculinity" is harming a generation of boys. However, I'm convinced that masculinity isn't toxic, In fact, we need more of it if our society is going to survive.Want to feel moderately ill? Then check this out:“FEMINIST BOY” Music VideoPlease subscribe to the podcast and review the show!Leave a review here!I'm on Twitter!Follow me on Twitter.I'm on Parler too! Yes, it still exists!Follow @FairlyImportant on Parler!I'm also on Gettr!Follow me there!Checkout the website: fairlyimportant.com Support the show
In this first Hot Quickie, Steven continues talking about toxic women. Steven as host: https://direct.me/stevendanielKelly.totoraitis Husband Store Video: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMdk1mwWD/Out of Place Merch: https://teespring.com/out-of-place-merch?tsmac=store&tsmic=jrunz&pid=641&fbclid=IwAR0EaPrxDpEaObaNTPM3tXsqn4U1-LqbYHVpweZcRrtkF_NBQs76O7hVeOM&cid=102670&sid=rightWant to be on a skit? https://www.castingcall.club/m/stevendanielInstrumentals and SFX are from:SOUNDSTRIPE: https://app.soundstripe.comSupport the show
This episode we have Mike Connors, Commissioner of the Middle School Basketball League giving his take on the line between competitive and toxicSupport the show (https://paypal.me/ayecoachcam)
We discuss the line between competitiveness and being toxic.Support the show (https://paypal.me/ayecoachcam)
This is the final installment of my "Toxic" episodes. I go into detail about moving on from my abuser.
This episode is about the downfall of my relationship with Ryan.
This episode goes into more detail of my toxic relationship with Ryan.
This is an inside view of the most toxic relationship I have ever been in, the darkest moment of my adult life.