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Flying monkeys are individuals who are tested time and time again for their loyalty to the narcissist. They are usually good candidates because of their inability to maintain decent boundaries, and usually possessing low self-esteem, low self-worth, and low self-confidence. Listen in to see if you've ever had to deal with flying monkeys, and or have unknowingly been a flying monkey yourself. #flyingmonkeys #boundaries #loyalty #narcissism #toxicity #healing #trauma #abuse

What if no one ever told you that you were in emotional, psychological, and spiritual danger? That was the case with therapist Angie Harvey. People saw and thought things, but they never confronted her about them. When we are not challenged, we do not grow. Listen in to therapist Angie Harvey as she dissects how she left codependency for self-care, self-love, and self-worth.Be blessed! #love #freedom #relationship #therapist #angieharvey #truth #codependency #unhealthyrelationships

We know a lot of things. But do we know how to spot the fruit(behavior) of other individuals without judging it? Meaning, do you know how to have grace, compassion, and boundaries set for individuals having different brokenness than yours, but still not allow their brokenness to affect you? Listen in. #love #freedom #relationships Love ❤️ and Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach Our Mission, Vision, & Why Our mission is to help women in toxic relationships regain clarity on love and freedom, release control, break soul-ties and unhealthy relationship patterns, build resilience and flourish, and reclaim their power, SOUL, and identity, so they will know they are enough. Valley of Grace envisions millions of women owning their stories, provoking them to heal and walk in wholeness, operate in love and freedom, and empower and impact the lives of women in their homes, communities, and around the world. Valley of Grace Ministries provides many services, including coaching for women, without the financial roadblocks. Head to thevalleyofgrace.com to schedule Your Love & Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coaching individually, or form a healing circle with friends, and do group coaching. The choice is yours. MINISTRY DONATIONS: CASHAPP: $THORTON4792 VENMO: @KATINA-HORTON PAYPAL: THEVALLEYOFGRACE.COM

When it comes to judgmental people, there is a whole slew of things mixed in a cocktail that they're often drinking. Be careful, or you'll get wooed in by their spirits. Listen in to see how this behavior affects society in general. #love #freedom #relationship #podcast

It's easy to talk about what you would have, should have, could have done in somebody else's situation. But what about when that person is you, and you are presented with the same scenario? Listen in. #love #freedom #podcast

It's tempting to go to the store, head to the produce section, pick up a fruit, and then start judging it by its appearance. But what's wrong in this situation is that the appearance of the fruit speaks for itself. There's no need to judge it. And so it is with people. We often look at people, judge them, and make ourselves feel and look superior to them. The part we're missing is that knowledge of the fruit(behavior, energy, dysfunctional patterns of behavior, attitudes, and disposition does not equal to judging it. Once we see what it is we're working with, we can decide whether or not we want this fruit in our basket of living. Listen in to part one of this message and be blessed.

It seemed like a good idea at the time. You had no idea that going to therapy with a narcissist and or individual with emotional immaturity, arrested development, and compounded unresolved trauma was a bad idea. But now that you're there in the therapist's office, you're going to find out. And the end result is not what you'd expect. #love #freedom #relationship

People can be super messy. But what if the super messy is actually headed into the spiritual direction of the toxic narcissism of Satan himself? Listen in. #love #freedom #relationships If you're struggling to recover from narcissistic abuse, head over to thevalleyofgrace.com and book a call for Individual & Group Coaching on Tuesdays. Be blessed!

We often walk around looking like we have it all together. The problem is, we don't. We look the part, but we don't play the part. Instead of working on healing our bodies, we work on unintentionally destroying others through gossip, judgmentalism, criticism, and micromanaging their lives. Listen in. #love #freedom #relationships Head over to thevalleyofgrace.com to book a Love & Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery call for Individual and Group Coaching on Tuesdays. Be blessed.

We often think that we are suffering for the cause of Christ when we keep ourselves so busy that we either don't have time to understand our needs, and or we're so caught up micromanaging and judging other people's lives that we miss the mark in our own. Listen in to this bible talk. Blessings! #love #freedom #relationship

Everything that glitters isn't gold. When people say that they love you so deep, but their fruit is not one that you'll keep, you have to be careful. There are some brown spots worth inspecting. #love #freedom #relationship

We've all been to the produce department. There lies fruit of every color, shape, and size. Those fruit represent the behaviors that manifest themselves in our relationships. Will the core be rotten? Will the outside look appealing? Will you have to keep cutting away to get to the good part? Only you can answer those questions and more. Listen in. #love #freedom #relationship

At first, you thought it was just you. Maybe you were overthinking what was said and done. Then, you realized you were betrayed by an alleged friend who turned out to be a narcissist. Listen in. #love #freedom #relationship

It's hard to enforce the concept of boundaries when you face losing the people, places, things, and ideas you love. It's even harder to remain without them. Boundaries teach us a lot. The lesson starts with ourselves. Listen in. #freedom #love #relationship The Valley of Grace Song is licensed for permission to be used by Katina Horton-Valley of Grace Ministries by the composer and performing artist Timothy Horton THGR8.

We hear the term control freak all the time. What we don't hear about is the bondage that this spirit/addiction brings you. It interrupts the natural order of how you relate to yourself, others, and God by keeping you in a constant state of rules, bondage, reinforcement, and micromanagement. #control #controlfreak #addiction

We all have issues with power management. However, intense lack of power management leads to intense lack of control management. When we lust for control, insecurity sets in, and then we're headed for the spirit of individual, collective, and or cultural narcissism. #love #freedom #relationships

When we look at certain individuals, they seem like they have it all together. Even more so, when we look at ourselves, we think the same. What if that's not the case? What if you are walking around with so many coping mechanisms, dysfunctional patterns of behavior, and addictions that you're covering up the key to your needs, self-discovery, self-concept, and self-awareness? The end result of this will shock you. You become the toxic one. Listen in to this podcast episode and be blessed! Love you family!!!

When people have information on us, they use that information as bait to trap us. Listen in. #love #freedom #relationship

When power is regulated well, we work as a team. When power is dysregulated, we work as enemies, fighting for power and control at all costs. But what happens when position, role, and authority is used as a weapon for power and control? Which side will you sit on? Let's talk about it. #love #freedom #relationship

When power is regulated well, we work as a team. When power is dysregulated, we work as enemies, fighting for power and control at all costs. But what happens when food is used as a weapon for power and control? Which side will you sit on? Let's talk about it. #love #freedom #relationship

It's easy to spot abuse from an overt person. But how do you recognize the more covert, subtle forms of abuse that we often experience. You often shrug it off as a trigger. Nine times out of ten, it's not. Don't ignore your intuition. #love #freedom #relationships

You wouldn't want to overdose on medication. But for some reason, you think it's okay to overdose on people who are not good for your mind, body, soul, and spirit. #freedom #love #relationship Love ❤️ and Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach

When someone else doubts you, it's one thing. When they can get you to doubt yourself, abilities, and every other person, place, thing, or idea tied to you, that's another. Listen in. #love #freedom #relationship Love ❤️ and Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach Our Mission, Vision, & Why Our mission is to help women in toxic relationships regain clarity on love and freedom, release control, break soul-ties and unhealthy relationship patterns, build resilience and flourish, and reclaim their power, SOUL, and identity, so they will know they are enough.

It's amazing what happens once the seed of deception sets in. What's even more mind-blowing is when we are vulnerable, we end up disobeying God, calling it sacrifice, and opening ourselves up to other spirits running

Devaluation is a corrupter. Real fast and in a hurry. They devalue you. You devalue yourself. It's a toxic dance cycle that never wants to end. #love #freedom #relationship Love ❤️ and Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach

Some relationships we're in are just toxic. There's no other way to look at them. But we stay in them. Why? Let's dissect this.

Transitions are a part of life. Transitions are also major parts of a transitionally-supplied soul-tied toxic relationship with a narcissist. #love #relationships #freedom #transitions

When physical bombs are dropped, there are no warnings. The same thing exists when the narcissist drops the bomb on you. #bomb #lovebomb #narcissism #narcissist #relationships #love #freedom

We armor up for arguments and everything else. Why don't we armor up for battle when it comes to dealing with narcissistic people? #love #freedom #relationships

Love has been translated all kinds of ways-lust, love bombing, soul cravings, infatuation, flattery, etc. The way we define love is the way that we give and receive love. And the way that we give and receive love is the way that we live love. #story #narcissist #healing

When you're walking around in a heart-sicken state, feeling needy, and languishing, you will do anything, including agreeing to open relationships with the #narcissist . But how do you get out of the vicious cycle? Listen in. #healing

IT'S ALWAYS EASIER TO OWN SOMEBODY ELSE'S STORY. ESPECIALLY WHEN IT APPEARS MORE BROKEN OR GLAMOROUS TO US. BUT IS THAT MORE OF WANTING COMFORT OR TRUTH.

Good character takes a while to develop. Yet, if not careful, it can be lost almost overnight when it comes to hanging out with certain people. #love #freedom #relationship Love ❤️ and Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach

When you think of the word detox, an immediate physical cleansing comes to mind. And this is partially true of our discussion today. There is a cleansing taking place. However, This one deals with the cleansing of the soul after being in a toxic relationship. Thinking

Decisions that we make, the thoughts

What do you do with something you value? Everything that we value we must first identify. Whether it is a person, place, thing, or idea, it must be identified first. Once you know the identity, then you get to decide how much value needs to be placed on it. Listen

Absalom's story is one that any one of us could fall into if we're not careful. His story is not far fetched. It demonstrates what happens when sin, pride, power, and avoiding conflict goes unchecked. It also reveals how people of power rarely do the dirty work on their own. Why not? Their flying monkeys do it for them. Listen in as we deep dive into a story that will change how you see your inner circle and relationships in general. Be blessed. #katinahorton #toxicrelationships #absalomspirit

When people know what we like, when we like it, how we like it, and why we like it, we'd better be careful. What that means is that all they have to do is to say the right thing, and we become silly putty in their hands. #love #freedom #relationship #love #freedom #relationship Love ❤️ and Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach

We often overestimate our willpower and underestimate the necessity of dealing with the nutritional deficiencies in your family's love story garden. This underestimation, overestimation, and lack leads to a place of hunger and poor decisions. Listen

We all need a day off from our responsibilities when things get rough. But what happens when a day off turns into several years? Even so, how does procrastination, avoidance, and self-sabotage relate to lying prophets, false intentions, and disguises? Listen in to find out. #narcissist #story #healing The Valley of Grace Song is licensed by Katina Horton-Valley of Grace Ministries, and performing artist, composer, producer, Timothy Horton GR8.

A vacuum cleaner sucks in excess, dirt, particles, etc. You are not dirt or a particle. So, the question that remains is, "How did you manage to get sucked back in by the #narcissist ? The Love ❤️ and Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach

When all a person knows how to do is play games with people, that's all you can expect. Just hope and pray you don't give them the bait. Listen in. #love #freedom #relationship Love ❤️ and Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach Our Mission, Vision, & Why Our mission is to help women in toxic relationships regain clarity on love and freedom, release control, break soul-ties and unhealthy relationship patterns, build resilience and flourish, and reclaim their power, SOUL, and identity, so they will know they are enough. Valley of Grace envisions millions of women owning their stories, provoking them to heal and walk in wholeness, operate in love and freedom, and empower and impact the lives of women in their homes, communities, and around the world. We so believe in the emotional, mental, spiritual, and physical well-being of every woman that we donate 100% of the proceeds of The Valley of Grace Shop to Valley of Grace Ministries. Valley of Grace Ministries provides many services, including coaching for women, without the financial roadblocks. Author Bible Teacher Brand, Business, & Marketing Strategist Love & Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach Speaker Podcast Host Course Creator Dance Minister E-commerce Store Owner Coaching Options: OPTION 1: 1:1 Freedomology's R.Y.A.N.A. Reclaiming You After Narcissistic Abuse 1 year Coaching Program OPTION 2: 1:1 Freedomology's R.Y.C.A.N.A. Reclaim YOUR CALLING After Narcissistic Abuse 2 year Coaching Program OPTION 3: Spotify Patreon Member: 4.5 year Monthly Coaching Program through Audio Episodes OPTION 4: GROUP Freedomology's R.Y.A.N.A. Reclaiming You After Narcissistic Abuse 1 year Coaching Program OPTION 5: GROUP Freedomology's R.Y.C.A.N.A. Reclaim YOUR CALLING After Narcissistic Abuse 2 year Coaching Program Leave Egypt Today! Book a Love & Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Call https://thevalleyofgrace.com Purchase your Love & Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Clothing From THE VALLEY OF SHOP Today! https://thevalleyofgrace.shop Purchase books that take you from biblical healing to wholeness, thriving, abundance and freedom!!! https://thevalleyofgrace.com or Amazon Follow me on Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, Tiktok, Clubhouse, YouTube, Facebook: @katinahortonvgm DONATIONS: CASHAPP: $THORTON4792 VENMO: @KATINA-HORTON PAYPAL: THEVALLEYOFGRACE.COM WANT TO PARTNER WITH VALLEY OF GRACE MINISTRIES IN MONTHLY SPONSORSHIPS? YOU NOW HAVE TWO OPTIONS: OPTION 1: YOU CAN SIGN UP ON URBAN SKYE'S WEBSITE AT: HTTPS://URBANSKYE.GIVINGFUEL.COM/KATINA-HORTON OPTION 2: BECOME A SPOTIFY PATREON MEMBER AND RECEIVE SPECIAL MEMBER MONTHLY COUPONS TO THE VALLEY OF GRACE SHOP DURING THE AUDIO EPISODES, AS WELL AS 3 BONUS EPISODES ON TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS PER MONTH, BIBLICAL HEALING, AND WHOLENESS, AND 1 COACHING SESSION PER MONTH ON R.Y.A.N.A. (RECLAIMING YOU AFTER NARCISSISTIC ABUSE). https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/katina-horton/subscribe #podcast #linkedin #marketing #business #love #coaching #brand #help #power #teacher #commerce #egypt #clothing #facebook

There are a lot of narcissistic men out there. And just as well, the women are also represented. Listen in. #love #freedom #relationships

Narcissism is everywhere. We can't escape it. Yet, and still, we can arm ourselves with the necessary skills to combat its spirit from permeating our souls. #love #freedom #relationships #narcissism

Your nervous system and everything else gets revved up from the drama, trauma, chaos, and confusion of the narcissist. #love #freedom #relationships

Covert narcissists are sneaky, determined to go in and out whenever they want, without you asking any questions. Why do they do it? You allow them. #narcissist #narcabuse #narcissism The Love ❤️ and Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach

How does your narcissistic partner size up to the wicked witch? There are more commonalities than you'd like to admit. #toxicrelationships #narcissist #love #theloveandfreedomtoxicrelationshiprecoverycoach

The #narcissist Has caused so much drama in your life. So, should you be hoping that he gets his? #love #narcissist #narc #freedom #loveandfreedom #lackcycle

It's easy to talk about everything that #narcissistic people are doing without understanding the role you play when it comes to disconnecting in order to feed the addiction cycle. Listen in and be blessed!!! #love #narcissist #toxicrelationships #loveandfreedom #disconnect #addiction #hamsterwheel The Love ❤️ and Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach Our Mission, Vision, & Why Our mission is to help women in toxic relationships regain clarity on love and freedom, release control, break soul-ties and unhealthy relationship patterns, build resilience and flourish, and reclaim their power, SOUL, and identity, so they will know they are enough.

Narcissists operate with legion, meaning several spirits at one time. Match this up with betrayal during your wilderness season and you have a toxic cocktail. #Love #narcissist #narc #freedom #loveandfreedom #lackcycle #theloveandfreedomtoxicrelationshiprecoverycoac h #toxicrelationships #blackwomenoftiktok #shop #blackwomen #flourishing #HealingJourney #narcabuseawareness #conflict #brokenconflict #humility #empowerment #judging #empath #mindset #cravings

Everywhere you turn, there is pestilence in the land. The pestilence that I speak of is the one that started way back in the garden of Eden. It's called #narcissism. It's infecting our homes, schools, workplaces, and churches. When the infection shows up in the Body of Christ, we are often bamboozled. Why? It doesn't look the way we thought it would. Therefore, we ignore it. Or even worse, we play with it, telling it to have a seat at our table as it steals, kills, and destroys every area of our power, SOUL, and identity. #love #loveandfreedom #narcissist #toxicrelationships #toxicchurch