Before the Big Day

It's the Groom's Big Day Too! In this episode with Ne'Gyle Beaman Owner of the Bleu Bowtique in Detroit we discuss the accessories that Groom's can choose for their wedding day, including, bow ties, custom pocket squares, shoes, and much more. So, if you're looking for that special "touch" to accentuate your Wedding Day, contact him today as he does custom designs AND ships out of state.

What does the Groom and/or Male Attendants wear for the Big Day? How does he choose which color and style he'll wear for the wedding? In this episode Ekorhi Kingsley joins me all the way from Nigeria to share his business and suggestions for ordering the perfect Wedding Day suit or tuxedo. In it he discusses, 1) how to get the proper measurements; 2) choosing the right material; and much more.. If you're looking for a wedding custom suit or tuxedo for your wedding, then check out Wedding Suits Nigeria, and you might be surprised that purchasing international isn't as expensive as it may seem.

OMG - Serena and Marvin's 1st wedding pictures went VIRAL all over social media, and then they followed up with a 2nd fantastical wedding - both during covid; Not only is she a world-renowed hair stylist (@tressarthair)who was featured on episode 65 , but not she and Marvin are basking in newlywed life and sharing all the details and wedding planning advice in this special series AFTER the Big Day.  

In this episode I recap the top 3 wedding trends I've observed this month AND shout out to previous podcast guests who were named Brides' Top Wedding Planners in America!

In this episode, Gequinn Mattox, Denver based Celebration Expert of Yourz by Design Events in Denver, Colorado shares her experience in the wedding industry and provides some of the following tips for your BIG Day: 1) Remember it IS your Day, so you can design it however, you'd like; 2) Denver, Colorado is an IDEAL place for a #destinationwedding, especially if you like mountains AND snow! 3)Having a Wedding Coordinator ensures a NO STRESS wedding day! Plus, we share how membership in the National Society of Black Wedding and Event Professionals has its benefits AND is a great resource for #EngagedCouples and those who are #planningawedding!!

A small, intimate wedding was what Aisha and Torrence wanted, and that's what they got, especially during #Covid. In this special series, I interview couples about life AFTER the #BigDay, which includes how they: 1) weren't in DEBT after the wedding; 2) how pre-marital counseling helped them transition into married life; and 3) their personal philosophy on making marriage WORK !

There are so many options when shopping for the "Yes to the Dress!"  If you're looking for a personalized, couture experience, then Laury Bride should be part of your bridal gown shopping experience.  In this episode, The Designer herself, Laurie Underwood, shares some of the following: how Laurie became Laury Bride; mission and objective of the Laury Bride shopping experience; and, most excitedly how wedding planning is going for her as a Bride-to-Be, and much more!

“You've got the VELVET Touch”  - Yes, she does!! Meet Amber of The Velvet Touch!!  A highly accomplished and results-driven Program Management Professional with 25+ years of leadership and program management expertise gained from positions of increased responsibility within the automotive industry. Since 1991, she has utilized her years of program management experience as well as her love of styling events to create beautiful weddings and events for hundreds of clients. She prides herself for designing and executing designs that  speaks to who the Bride and Groom are. “When guests walk in the room it should reflect the Bride and Groom!” She decided to turn this love into a business in 2001 with the formation of her event and floral design business – The Velvet Touch Events. The Velvet Touch Events (VTE) is a premier floral and event design studio specializing in exclusively designed, elegant affairs. The unique designs are defined by the clients' vision, along with the VTE teams' attention to detail and love for exquisite design. If you need someone who knows how to connect your personality and style to your overall wedding decor, then Amber and her team at The Velvet Touch are the right choice for your #BigDay.  She knows how to tap into her clients' fashion sense to design and execute decor that WOWs all your guests!! She even reveals some “behind the scenes” trade secrets during this interview, so if you're curious about how she makes magic happen, take a listen and learn some cost savings tips, and why she has a “love hate” relationship with Pinterest.  The team of professionals at VTE share a passion for creating exceptional moments that will be remembered for a lifetime. VTE weddings & events reflect the importance of life's most significant moments. And it is through these moments that a true love for the craft of floral and event design is fully expressed.   Amber also shares these suggestions: Hire a Planner that can handle last minute tasks and ensure everything goes according to plan, PLUS it helps to have a Point Person for all your vendors to communicate with on the #BigDay; and Hire a Designer/Florist within your budget that can execute your vision (with some of the tips she shares) without breaking your budget! You can reach out to Amber: @eventsbyvte on Pinterest, Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter  or visit the website at: https://www.the-velvet-touch.com 

In this episode, I'm excited that weddings are back and so am I with new episodes of the podcast!!! Over the past year, despite the pandemic, I've observed some details that I needed to throw some shade to help you avoid any pitfalls on your wedding planning journey to the Big Day, such as: 1) Hire only Wedding PROFESSIONALS; 2) Know the difference between hiring a PLANNER versus a COORDINATOR; and 3) the importance of having the right wedding ATTENDANTS! It's a short, but "sweet" narrative just for you along with some previews of upcoming episodes!

Have you seen styled wedding photo shoots? Do you ever wonder what's the purpose? They appear in bridal publications for wedding inspiration for your #BigDay! Denise of Denise Lillie Engagements has had two recent photo shoots inspired by Black Panther #WakandaForever and the Netflix series #Bridgerton which are each showcased in today's episode.   Tune in and make sure to follow and subscribe: https://www.instagram.com/beforethebigdaypodcast https://www.instagram.com/deniselillieengagements https://www.beforethebigday.co https://www.droyalengagements.com/

It's the first #WeddingWednesday in May and I'm so excited that Amber and Yoshi wanted to share their #weddingplanning journey on the podcast today.  Hear what and WHO they credit for helping their #CovidWedding be a #BigDay success, including: 1) the fabulous staff at the Rattlesnake Club in Detroit, MI; 2)their amazing Wedding Coordinator - the Crystal Marie of Crystal Marie Events for the logistics AND #Superman and #WonderWoman decor; and much more!

Excited to interview Olivia, VTABi Administrative Directer for the Couture luxury Bridal Robes collection.   VTABi began as a small business in which Veronica sold Kanté print wear, Afrocentric designs and matching accessories. Now, with over 15 thousand followers on social media, VTABi has grown into a successful luxury bridal brand. Her most notable bridal robes and  bridal lingerie have been featured in magazines such as Essence, Mulanuchi, and Black Bride. Her gowns, jumpsuits and maternity robes continue to galvanize the internet and define Veronica as a fashion trailblazer within our community. 

This is a "teaching" episode as I share how to properly create a Wedding Budget using Microsoft Excel or Google Sheets.  If you haven't created a budget or just don't know how to start, this spreadsheet is an excellent resource.  You can get a copy here:   Google Sheets Microsoft Excel

Brides have so many choices when it comes to not only her bridal attire but also for her bridesmaids; Bridal Babes offers CHOICES for your #BrideTribe available ONLINE with a seamless shopping experience. Plus, some "extras" for Bridal showers, bachelorette parties and much more. Ashley is in the Guest Chair for today's #Wedding Wednesday explaining the process AND sharing some tips for those on the #weddingplanning journey! Listen on any podcast channel OR view the fashions on today's YouTube episode. And make sure you listen or watch all the way to the end for a special discount code!! YouTube episode: https://youtu.be/zwxlqN5Qqss

Excited to have The Rev. Katrese Kirk McKenzie in the guest chair this #WeddingWednesday to share her most memorable moments from her MicroWedding in 2020, including: 1.  Her awesome bridal gown from #ProjectRunway Designer #LauryBride; 2. The awesome #weddding venue in Illinois; and 3.  how they were able to capture memories with EVERY guest present; and much MORE, including some tips on planning your upcoming #BigDay

"Sophisticated in Style and Joyful in Romance" is Terri Baskin's motto as a much sought after Wedding Photographer in the DMV area. A 2nd generation Wedding Photographer, Terri advises couples to ensure they have a good "fit" with their Wedding Photographer: 1) get to know each other and establish a relationship; 2) schedule a pre-Wedding session, i.e. an engagement shoot; and so much more!! Shout out to Melissa of B Astonished Events, Episode 66 Guest, who partnered with Terri for Micro Weddings during #covid19. 

Melissa Williams is the Owner and Lead Planner & Designer of B Astonished Events, LLC.  She's in the Guest Chair this #WeddingWednesday to discuss #MicroWeddings, which were created due to #Covid19 restrictions but are they here to stay once the #pandemic is over?? Listen in on how this concept may be the new #weddingtrend! Melissa has 7 years of professional experience of business management and working in the events industry.  After receiving her Master's degree in Sports Business management, she was inspired to become an entrepreneur in the event industry.  Through the years she has coordinated, planned, designed and executed countless weddings and other special events in the DMV area. 

Did you know "Tress" is another word for Hair? My guest for today's #WeddingWednesday episode has established herself as THE Hair Expert for Brides on their #BigDay.  You've seen her work on BravoTV, TLC, and in magazines such as the Washingtonian and Munaluchi Bride.

With the mission to inspire others to Dream, Love, and Celebrate life, Michelle Gainey started Atlanta based Lemiga Events nearly two decades ago, serving as a premier event planning boutique specializing in stylish and glamorous affairs. Soon thereafter she extended her expertise into other lifestyle services.   I'm so blessed to have her in the Guest Chair for this #weddingWednesday episode!

Another one of the Real Wedding Planners of Detroit, Meisha from Dream Celebrations is in the guest chair for this episode.  In it we discuss the difference between a Wedding Planner and a Wedding Coordinator, AND we even "touch" on the fact that #covid19 may have started a new trend for smaller weddings = bigger decor budget.  Tune in or watch on the Before the Big Day YouTube channel.

What Bride doesn't love unique accessories for her #BigDay or perhaps for her Bachelorette celebration and/or Bridal Shower? Kimberly from Kreatively Styled Bridal Boutique is in the Guest Chair for this #WeddingWednesday episode.  You can listen OR get a preview of some of her accessories via the Before the Big Day YouTube channel.

The Real Wedding Planners of Detroit join me in the Guest CHAIRS for this #WeddingWednesday episode that explores what YOU need to consider as you prepare for your #BigDay in 2021 OR 2022. From Destination Weddings to Wedding Coordinator fees to #Covid-19 State Mandates, we cover it ALL.  We hope that you're inspired to move forward in your #weddingplanningjourney!

Deniesha of Fun, Fete and Fabulous Events joins me in the Guest Chair to discuss the Guest List:  how do you know how many to invite and WHO to invite? Take a listen and make sure to leave a comment and let us know if this helped you!

2021 has brought a new logo, new episodes and new YouTube channel where you can view excerpts from guest interviews!  Make sure to go subscribe to the YouTube channel - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UClbu-PwMJRuCeoYBY3e3Bqw

Just say I DO to premarital counseling!!  Ordained Minister and world-renowned Wedding Officiant, Rev. Roxy provides tips to get your marriage going AND surviving beyond the Big Day!!

I’m happy to feature Zack and Brandee  on this episode as one of my past Wedding Couples AND to share their experience and tackling their combined debt to eventually become DEBT FREE as a result of their experience in FPU, including the following: Using Every Dollar App to create and stick to a Budget; Using “non-traditional” vendors like Sam’s Club for wedding cake, and much more!

With approximately 40,000 Instagram followers, features  and cover photos for the B. Collective magazine and Munaluchi Bride magazine, Selina Howard has fulfilled a need in the bridal industry and a calling in her personal life.   Reach out to Selina and Vainglorious Brides: Website: http://www.vaingloriousbrides.com/ Instagram:  @vaingloriousbrides and @shopvainglorious  Facebook:  @vaingloriousbrides Email:  hello@vaingloriousbrides.com

Amber prides herself for designing and executing designs that  speaks to who the Bride and Groom are. “When guests walk in the room it should reflect the Bride and Groom!” In this "REWIND" episode, Amber  shares some much timely suggestions: Hire a Planner that can handle last minute tasks and ensure everything goes according to plan, PLUS it helps to have a Point Person for all your vendors to communicate with on the #BigDay; and Hire a Designer/Florist within your budget that can execute your vision (with some of the tips she shares) without breaking your budget! You can reach out to Amber: @eventsbyvte on Pinterest, Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter  or visit the website at: https://www.the-velvet-touch.com 

It’s ME, The DirectHer in this episode. I’m sharing some of the “goodies” in my newly published book, 7 Must Do’s Before I Do: Making Wedding Planning Memorable and Easy. Now on sale online and on Amazon.  

Excited to share this interview with Trish of Your Personal Jeweler, not just because it's #engagementseason but also because she just designed a custom #engagementring for my son.  Every soon to be engaged or #gettingmarried couple should experience this personal shopping experience with Trish.  It truly IS a one-of-a-kind experience for #wedding jewelry and MORE!

LaSonja and I already had an established connection from initially meeting at church and my knowing her husband (fiance at the time) from college, so I felt no apprehension in asking her to share her #weddingplanning that spanned almost 2 years prior to her 8/18/2018 #BigDay.  In this episode you’ll specifically hear her discuss and reflect on: How important it is to discern between your wedding NEEDS versus your wedding WANTS; and, Why you should take time to enjoy the ENGAGEMENT period;

Are you following Ohniki Occasions on Instagram?  If so, you've heard the news about how she's bringing the wedding industry's top professionals together for the Miami Wedding Experience at the Faena Five Star resort in Miami, Florida this December for some lucky couples!  Maybe it's YOU?? This episode introduces you to Oniki H. THE Destination Wedding Planner who's ready to help you "Elope in Style" - if you don't know her, you will in today's #WeddingWednesday episode !!

World renowned Kimmie Horne,  Jazz musician, artist, model and actress is in the Guest Chair for this episode discussing how Couples can heighten their guest experience by having LIVE music AND a DJ for their #BigDay entertainment.  If you're looking to give your guests an experience they'll never forget, listen to this episode AND consider booking Kimmie and her band if you're in the metro Detroit area for a personalized, one-of-a-kind celebration!   and...Don't forget to subscribe to the show!!

Who plans their wedding expecting to have all their plans derailed due to a global pandemic?? Sharia and Edward had just reached out to me early in March 2020 with. most of their #weddingplanning done; however, March, 2020 came and everything shut down.  Despite it all, the #BigDay was beyond successful. I referenced their planning challenges in Episode 44 as a “Before” snapshot, so now this episode gives you the “After” narrative. Listen to this episode to not only learn how Sharia and Edward’s Big Day turned out, but also what you can learn about #weddingplanning for your #BigDay.

You're marrying your best friend so why not hire these married, Best Friends ensure your Big Day . They discuss wedding planning, including why hiring a Wedding Coordinator is the BEST advice to all couples, not only because Victoria is one, but because something always happens!! You need that behind-the-scenes person that will handle those issues; someone other than the DJ... Based in Brooklyn, New York but available for your Big Day whether in the U.S. or abroad, their collaboration evolved from their own wedding hashtag and they haven't looked back. I enjoyed this interview with this lovely couple who inspires me and helps enforce that Love is NOT postponed.  #couplegoals You can reach out to them at: www.instagram.com/thedjandtheplanner   www.instagram.com/viceventsnyc  www.instagram.com/iknowmikemusic  www.iknowmikemusic.com 

Micqueal K. shares her wedding planning story, and it’s literally a TRUE story of how she planned her wedding in about 11 days. This was about 10 days AFTER she purchased her Wedding Gown. She shares ALL the details in this episode, including how she found her wedding dress out of state and how the bridal salon accomodated her urgency by altering and packing her dress for her to fly back to Georgia ; finding a decorator and Wedding Planner 11 days prior to the Big Day; and, how her husband being a DJ made it “easy” to secure their wedding music/entertainment, and much more..

BEFORE the Big Day comes you need time to work on becoming a couple.  An ordained Minister and world-renowned Wedding Officiant, Rev. Roxy provides tips to get your marriage going, and surviving beyond the Big Day!!    

Thanks to Nicole for sharing the history and benefits from one of metro Detroit's most popular riverfront venues The Roostertail.  During the pandemic #covid19 The Roostertail has pivoted and offered not only #Microwedding packages but also reached out to couples whose venue suddenly closed and threaten to ruin their #BigDay. We also discuss the importance of choosing the "right" venue outside of a pandemic and knowing the right questions and details to fit your #BigDay vision.

Adrianne of Reigning Supreme is the Guest Chair discussing ways to plan your Pinterest inspired wedding with a limited budget with the tools/resources she highly recommends.  

While planning for the #BigDay, don't you wonder what other couples are doing and/or do you reflect what other couples have done at weddings you've attended? In this episode The DirectHer presents three couples who are planning their #wedding during #covid19 but have had to deal with some challenges, including venue limitations.  Presented to you as a Before snapshot for you to ponder about the final outcome AND  look forward to the After snapshot after their #BigDays!! Stay tuned to the end of this episode to hear some GOOD NEWS for The DirectHer that's been a long time coming...

It doesn't seem like a photo booth is an option for the #BigDay but it IS!  Owner Sarena Harris provides tips and budget recommendations for a photo booth option for you and your guests.  Also, available for couples getting married during this #pandemic is the VIRTUAL photo booth. Make sure to reach out to Fancy Flash Photo Booth to make your reservation!  You won't be disappointed!

This #WeddingWednesday we welcome Monica Brown of M. Dawn Floral Design Weddings and Events.  During this interview we discuss: 1) how to properly plan and budget for your wedding florals, 2) how silk florals can be an option, and 3) utilizing your ceremony florals for your reception, and MUCH more!

How does your Wedding Venue affect your Wedding Dress?  Listen to this interview with Owner Vinnie McClure of Ashley and Alexandria's Bridal Boutique in Southfield, Michigan to find out...

Listen to this episode with fellow Wedding Professional, Wedding and Interior Designer Christopher Liner of Distinguishing Creations.  We discuss aspects of #weddingplanning, collaborating with other wedding professionals, and how to save time, money and energy by making this important investment!

Life has been not only been challenging during this pandemic for everyone, but also for those planning their #BigDay.  Listen to this episode featuring ME, The DirectHer, as I offer wedding planning tips learned during the #pandemic #Covid19 #stayathome mandates. This episode is dedicated to ALL #2020 Couples still planning to marry, especially my #September and #October Brides and Grooms!

Recently named by Brides Magazine as one of the top 100 Black Owned Wedding Business to support is LePenn Designs. Listen to today's #WeddingWednesday episode with Owner and Lead Designer Le'Trice Penn. Her magic is no doubt undeniable in turning your #BigDay suite of invitations into reality. How to set a proper budget for invitations;  What pricing plans are available;  What’s her wow factor wedding-wise (hint: something velvety); What advice she has for couples, and much more!

Listen to the author of Poise over Panic:  How to plan a Wedding in a Pandemic as she discusses ways couples can still have their #BigDay during this #covid19 #coronavirus pandemic.

After experiencing a challenging bridal gown shopping experience due to her height, Dafra Sanou saw a need to offer Brides a custom dress experience without overcharging them.  Dafra is 5’11 and was told she would have to pay extra for a longer dress due to her height.

From her beginnings in the fashion industry as a Designer, including designing bridal shoes, Oniki  networked with various industry professionals and travelled across the world before making it official as Ohniki Occasions approximately 5 years ago. She has a plethora of travel experience, prides herself on researching fabulous wedding locations to match her clients’ vision and budget, and she ALWAYS keeps her eye open for new locations. 

Clients seek out Kia Marie for classy events with modern touches, and in this interview she shares her advice on what couples should do when they’re first starting the #weddingplanning process, such as Doing a little “homework” on the various costs of a wedding; Having a wedding vision, especially if you want a destination location, and much more   You can reach out to Kia Marie Events on all social media:   @kiamarievents and website: www.kiamarievents.com 

The #HappyCouple share their #weddingplanning process and tips, including: 1) saving for two years to avoid going into debt; 2) utilizing their resources to ensure their #BigDay was flawless, and much more...