HERE'S A THOUGHT with THE MAKHS

In this episode, we sit down with Pastors Koketso and Thato Molaolwe for a powerful conversation on what it truly means to be the unlikely candidate.From seasons of uncertainty to stepping into purpose, we explore how God often calls the people who feel least qualified to accomplish His greatest plans. Through the lens of Pastor Koketso's new book, we unpack the power of obedience, unwavering trust, servant leadership, and saying “yes” even when the path doesn't make sense.If you've ever questioned whether you're enough, this conversation is for you. Sometimes the very reason you think you're unqualified is the reason God chose you.

In this honest conversation, Thato and Lebo Rampedi reflect on what it means to grow up as brothers, navigating sibling rivalry, competing for attention and the family dynamics that shape who we become.Together, they explore how childhood experiences influence manhood, relationships, leadership and the way men build families and communities. They also share how faith, accountability, and intentional brotherhood. What a treat! Thank you The Ramps!!

In this episode of Here's A Thought, we sit down with TK & Tinyiko for a heartfelt conversation about the foundation of a lasting marriage. From friendship, love and respect to leadership, submission and navigating life's challenges together, they share the values and intentional choices that have shaped their relationship. This is an honest conversation about building a marriage that thrives through every season, not because it's perfect, but because it's rooted in commitment and genuine friendship. Whether you're single, dating, engaged or married, this episode offers timeless wisdom, practical insights and a fresh perspective on what it truly means to choose your partner every day. Join the conversation in the comments and let us know: Do you believe your spouse should also be your best friend?

Ever wondered what a man's perspective on singleness really is?In this episode, we sit down with Nolo Mokoena, whose sharp mind and thoughtful insights make for a conversation that is both refreshing and deeply challenging. Together, we unpack what it means to be a single Christian man in today's world, the importance of showing up authentically and why both singleness and marriage are holy.In true Co.Founders style, the conversation goes far beyond relationship status. We explore identity, the character of God, purpose and the freedom that comes from finding your identity in Christ rather than your season of life.Whether you're single, dating, engaged or married, this episode will stretch your thinking and encourage your faith.

What Is Marriage Actually For?Many couples spend years learning how to be married without first understanding why they are married.Today, marriages are increasingly strained under the weight of unrealistic expectations, disappointment, conflict, emotional exhaustion, and unmet needs. As we watch more relationships struggle, one question continues to surface: Have many of us entered marriage without truly understanding its purpose?There is a powerful principle that says: If purpose is not known, abuse is inevitable.Perhaps before we discuss communication, intimacy, finances, parenting or conflict resolution, we need to return to a more foundational question: Why did God create marriage in the first place?We unpack all of this and more with (The Makhs Snrs) Ntate Jerry and Mama Claudine Makhetha.

We've literally made all the mistakes in our lifetime so that you don't have to. Before you buy a home, please watch this conversation.Sanelisiwe is a real estate lawyer, a qualified attorney, notary and conveyancer. In this instalment, we go beyond homeownership and unpack identity and legacy, what it truly means to build a life, not just acquire property.Homeownership is more than a piece of land or property. For many, it carries identity. It becomes a reflection of how well we're doing, how far we've come and whether we've “made it” in society.In this episode, Sanelisiwe unpacks the legal side of homeownership, while we explore everything else that comes with becoming a homeowner, the expectations, the pressure, the dreams and the deeper questions of purpose and identity.Because at the end of the day, a house can be bought, but a home is built. And unless the Lord builds the house, those who build it labour in vain.

We sometimes break in public, so why are we expected to heal in private? In this deeply honest episode, we sit down with Tiisetso Kgomo to explore what it truly means to heal out loud. We reflect on a culture that often witnesses our breaking in public spaces, yet still expects our healing to happen quietly, privately and without disruption.Together, we unpack the pressure to “have it together,” the stigma around visible healing and the freedom that comes when we stop hiding the process of becoming whole. This conversation challenges the idea that healing must be silent, and instead asks: what if healing, like pain is also meant to be witnessed?#cofounderswiththemakhs #co.founders #themakhs#marriage #divorce #healing #tiisetsokgomo #healingoutloud #christianmarriage #christianmarriagecounseling

We sit down with the beautiful Ntsako and Yanga Khoza for an honest conversation about faith, marriage, and building a life together at a young age.How did they know they were ready for marriage? What lessons have they learned along the way? And what does it practically look like to keep God at the center of a relationship?Join us as we unpack their joys, challenges and growth. #marriedyoung #christianmarriage

Ushering people into one of the greatest covenants of their lives is holy work and Precious does it with the utmost respect for the calling and excellence in everything she touches.One thing that stood out in our conversation: wedding planning is often a preview of marriage.How your partner handles finances, communication, pressure, conflict and keeping their word during this time often reflects how they'll show up in marriage.A wedding doesn't create these dynamics, it reveals them. The planning season has a way of exposing strengths, weaknesses, patterns and habits that will likely follow you into marriage. It's often the first major project a couple undertakes together and how you show up in that season matters.Pay attention, not to find fault, but to gain wisdom and don't hesitate to seek help if needed before you say “I do.”Such a powerful conversation with so many gems for couples preparing for forever.#weddings #marriage #weddingplanner #christianmarriage #counceling #vows

In this instalment, we sit down with the Molois for a conversation on loving each other through all seasons. From love at first sight, to healing from childhood trauma, raising a daughter with special needs and learning how to become a safe space for one another. This was honest, vulnerable and deeply moving.#christianmarriage #motherwound #fatherwound #specialneeds #marriage #love

“In sickness and in health…”They're words we all say, but how many of us truly understand the weight of that covenant when life gets hard?In this installment, Yonda and Dr. Taz take us through their journey of trusting God in the midst of it all. From navigating a life-threatening diagnosis to what it truly means to love your wife as Christ loves the church, this conversation is a powerful picture of surrender, obedience and unwavering faith.Watching the way they honour both God and one another is a beautiful reminder that marriage was always meant to reflect Christ and His Church.This episode will challenge you, minister to you and remind you of the beauty of a marriage fully surrendered to God.

In marriage we have learnt to give up on the idea of arriving at a place where everything makes sense. The beauty of the journey remains in relying on God to constantly refine us in depending on him to truly love one another.Today we share some of the pain points as we endeavour to learn and grow with each other as well as with you.Enjoy!

We share honest perspectives, him to women, her to men, on what to look for in a partner and what really builds a lasting relationship. This was so much fun for us

In this instalment I have a conversation with our 13 year old daughter, Lehakoe about faith, family and friendship. Please note that we are unpacking this episode on Tuesday @ 7pm. LINK TO FOLLOW❤️

In relationships, it's easy to fight to prove a point. But often the cost of being right is disconnection. Choosing humility, listening and understanding each other can matter far more than winning the argument.Sometimes love looks like laying down your pride to protect the relationship, because the goal isn't to win against each other, it's to win together.Join us this Tuesday @ 7PM to unpack the themes to this episode and reflect on the takeaways: FAMILY MEETING: https://teams.live.com/meet/9343775323353?p=OtVhPQmnLYdKEyxY9hSee you then!

DreamTeam, we are excited to be back with a new Name, Vision and Mission.Join us as we take you on a journey of the who, what, where, how and when of Co.Founders. FEEDBACK SESSIONS EVERY TUESDAY @18:00 Link: ...

In this powerful and candid episode, we sit down with Wandile and Jessica Molebatsi, who share their personal journey of navigating racial prejudice, the complexities of raising mixed-race children, and the challenges of being misunderstood by society. Through their experiences, they open up about the unique hurdles they've faced as an inter racial couple, from confronting implicit biases and stereotypes to the emotional toll of educating others about their love and family dynamics. With vulnerability and insight, this couple offers valuable perspectives on the intersection of love, race, and family in today's world, shedding light on both the joys and struggles of creating a life together amidst societal divisions. Join us for a meaningful conversation that explores the everyday realities of living in an interracial relationship, the complexities of raising mixed-race children, and how love can transcend societal limitations—despite the challenges.

As a platform dedicated to supporting and advocating for marriage, we understand that sometimes relationships don't work out the way we hope. Divorce is a painful and difficult experience for everyone involved—men, women, and especially children. In this installment, we want to acknowledge the deep emotional impact of divorce, while offering insight into the healing process and the role forgiveness plays in moving forward. Our chat with @gc.grams has shown us that even after a marriage ends, there's always room for God to turn pain into purpose and new beginnings.

We're back in counseling, and it feels like a new chapter. There's a lingering issue we've been navigating, one that has kept us from seeing eye to eye. What we cherish most about this season of therapy is the growth we've experienced as individuals. We've learned to disagree with love, to listen deeply to one another's feelings, and to unite in pursuit of our shared goals. It's a journey of understanding, and we're committed to walking it together.

Are we leaving South Africa? The past three years have woven a tapestry of hope, joy, sorrow and everything in between. It is in the valley that we encountered the God who beckons us to surrender. This podcast is also available on Spotify and Apple Podcasts.

The question was, where are the men in the church? Today, we sit down with Uviwe and Unako—our own David and Jonathan—to discuss backsliding and finding your way back to God. We explore God's heart for men and what is required to equip them to walk in holiness. These young men show us what true pursuit of Christ looks like and what it means to search for the heart of God.

In today's heartfelt installment, I sit down with my husband of 14 years to reflect on his vibrant childhood and the choices he made in his younger years that led him away from his relationship with God. He has faced the difficult journey of drug addiction which led him to being a missionary at the age of 17 at an organization called Youth For Christ in Cape Town. Over the next few years, he wrestles with issues of identity, belonging, and the challenges of receiving love and dealing with rejection. As he shares his story, he emphasizes that the strength to navigate these challenges comes from his faith in God.

Not initiating sex can leave individuals feeling emotionally bruised and struggling with low self-esteem, often creating a sense of insecurity within a relationship. This issue isn't solely about desirability; various factors, such as stress and mental health, can impact one's libido and ability to engage. For many, societal expectations dictate that men should always be eager for sex, leading to misunderstandings when they aren't. It's essential to recognize that not wanting to have sex doesn't reflect a lack of attraction or commitment, but rather the complex realities of life that affect us all. Open communication and understanding can help navigate these challenges together. This episode is proudly sponsored by SOLAL Website: https://solal.co.za Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/solal_sa?igsh=NmliY29scTQ2cmgy You can find us on social media at: https://www.instagram.com/solal_sa?igsh=NmliY29scTQ2cmgy

Bonko and Lesego Khoza‘s marriage is like a heartwarming romcom, revealing a deep connection that spoke volumes even before their first words. Now, as parents to Ama, their love story continues to unfold beautifully, a testament to their belief in surrendering their lives to God. Bonko and Lesego Thank you so much for coming to break bread with us❤️

Mogale and Kabelo Mohale let us in on rising from the ashes. They speak candidly about how challenging the past 2 years have been on them. We know that growth can be hard, at times even messy however we are comforted knowing that diamonds are produced from very high pressure and temperatures. This beautiful couple are such a great testament of what it means to choose each other, over and over. By honouring God and their vows they were committed to be productive with their pain and find healing. Thank you for your vulnerability Mogale and Kabelo. We love you so much❤️ We would also like to acknowledge our special performance by KeMoriti https://instagram.com/kemoriti?igshid=NWpjd3FtMndwcTg3 Thank you to our sponsors at Renault Bryanston and Royal Developments : Please find us and our special guests on the handles below: The Makhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?igshid=MWZoa3VsemU0YjV0dw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Mogale: https://instagram.com/mog_moh?igshid=aDNqN2Q4OWMwbHI5 Kabelo: https://instagram.com/kabello_mohale?igshid=MXdldHR6Nm9yd3VoaQ== Renault Bryanston: https://instagram.com/renaultbryanstonza?igshid=Yml4NWJtNXJuZThk Brookfield at Royal: https://instagram.com/royal_developments_?igshid=MXR6d2hxbDhxOTFnOQ==

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When it comes to inquiring about the state of a married couple's relationship, it's wise to tread lightly, for they often tend to emphasize the challenges. Marriage, without a doubt, is a profound blessing and a precious gift, albeit one that demands effort. It has the capacity to stretch individuals and may occasionally create discomfort during personal growth. Nevertheless, the rewards derived from such dedication are immeasurable. In our own experience, we have gleaned valuable insights from this aspect of life, acknowledging that we may not always portray marriage in the most ideal light through our words. Let's do better:)

We discussed submission at length about 2 weeks ago. Phetola share how sometimes lack of leadership could have been her stumbling block in submission. Today we unpack what leadership looks like from his vs her perspective. Leadership and Relationship seminar booking details: RSVP admin@lfprinting.co.za Contact: 061 533 4314 / 076 609 3363 Please connect with us: Instagram: TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_medium=copy_link Lerato: https://instagram.com/son.of.jerry?utm_medium=copy_link Phetola: https://instagram.com/_phetola?utm_medium=copy_link

We took a break from Vlogging and this is whhy…Vlogging can create a sense of detachment and disconnection from the people and experiences that truly matter. In addition, it can create a sense of pressure to constantly create content, leading to a never-ending cycle of filming, editing, and uploading. This can leave little room for downtime or relaxation, and can negatively impact mental and emotional wellbeing. While vlogging can be a fun and creative outlet for sharing one's life with others, it's important to strike a balance between creating content and enjoying quality time with loved ones. The break did us a world of good❤️ #themakhs #vlogging #contentcreation

The topic of submission can be a contentions one. What is submission? What does it look like? Does it look different for different couples? What's God design for submission? How does poor leadership affect submission? We unpack... Please connect with us: Instagram: TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_medium=copy_link Lerato: https://instagram.com/son.of.jerry?utm_medium=copy_link Phetola: https://instagram.com/_phetola?utm_medium=copy_link

We discuss things that shocked us this past week... #themakhs #thabobester #dalailama

Should women pursue men? Ask them out or even propose marriage? We would love to hear from you. #themakhs #dating #women Please connect with us: Instagram: TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_medium=copy_link Lerato: https://instagram.com/son.of.jerry?utm_medium=copy_link Phetola: https://instagram.com/_phetola?utm_medium=copy_link

Ever heard the saying, “show me your friends, I'll tell you who you are”? In this instalment we discuss how our friendships have shaped who are. #friendships #themakhs #relationships

We spend so much time investing in the wedding day and forget to invest in the marriage itself. The question is, is it worth saving for a big wedding… Let's unpack♥️ #wedding #justmarried #themakhs

This year when my wife did the annual Daniel Fast she made a decision to also quit social media for that period.. The results were incredible! Have you ever been on a social media fast? What was it like for you? Would you recommend it? #socialmedia #danielfast #themakhs Please follow and connect with us on: Instagram: TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_m... Lerato: https://instagram.com/son.of.jerry?ut... Phetola: https://instagram.com/_phetola?utm_me...

In our first instalment of 2023, we speak with the Makhs Seniors (Ntate Jerry Mofokeng wa Makhetha & Mama Claudine) . We discuss some secrets to a healthy marriage. This is the year of healing and restoration♥️ To order your copy of I am a man/ I am a woman please call/WhatsApp the number below: Mosa Makhetha: +27 82 319 6367 For premarital & marriage counselling contact: Mosa Makhetha: +27 82 319 6367 Please follow and connect with us on: Instagram: TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_m... Lerato: https://instagram.com/son.of.jerry?ut... Phetola: https://instagram.com/_phetola?utm_me... #marriage #themakhs #restoration

As we approach year end, it's always a beautiful time to reflect on the year that was, In life and love. As people we usually approach the new year with a lot of hope. Hope for a new dawn. As we give ourselves time to reflect and introspect, let's look at some of the things we need to let go of, and leave in 2022.

When we got married we were encouraged that the only thing that we should be competing about is out- loving each other. What then happens in a relationship when one person flourishes more than the other? How does that affect your level of self confidence? Have you ever been intimidated by your partners success or vice versa? Download OctaFX Trading App https://bit.ly/OctaFX__Phetola, use my promo code PHETOLA to get a 100% bonus when making your first deposit #relationship-matters #themakhs

Ever felt like you've put in the work, showed up and worked harder than the next person and was still overlooked? Being overlooked can sometimes bring about feelings of rejection, be it in marriage, at the workplace or in life. We look at how we can deal with those feelings in a healthy way and understanding that season of our lives. #rejection #overlooked #themakhs Please follow and connect with us on Instagram: TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_medium=copy_link Lerato: https://instagram.com/leratomakhetha_?utm_medium=copy_link Phetola: https://instagram.com/_phetola?utm_medium=copy_link

In today's instalment we unpack whether it is necessary to ask for permission from your partner. From going out, the clothes we wear and the money we spend? As always we would love to hear from you. Please do weigh in…

PARENTING THROUGH HIS / HER EYES

It's not always easy letting our partners know that they might have a body odour issue, or that things aren't that amazing in the bedroom. Have you ever been in that situation? If so how did you handle it?

Let's believe when they tell us who they are…

There's a lot of apprehension from church girls to date men in the church and vice versa. We unpack this in our current instalment♥️ #dating #churchgirls #churchboys #themakhs Please follow and connect with us on: Instagram: TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_medium=copy_link Lerato: https://instagram.com/leratomakhetha_?utm_medium=copy_link Phetola: https://instagram.com/_phetola?utm_medium=copy_link

Are you doing what is necessary to ensure that your loved ones are well taken care of?

Do you have an alter-ego and are you comfortable with sharing that part yourself with your partner? Comment below to share your thoughts. #alterego #relationships #themakhs Please follow and connect with us on: Instagram: TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_medium=copy_link Lerato: https://instagram.com/son.of.jerry?utm_medium=copy_link Phetola: https://instagram.com/_phetola?utm_medium=copy_link

In todays instalment, Phetola shares on how God walked with her through the valley of her retrenchment journey.

Who should be held responsible or accountable in an affair. The married party or the side? We unpack. #marriagevows #sidechicks #sidemen Please follow and connect with us on: Instagram: TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_medium=copy_link Lerato: https://instagram.com/son.of.jerry?utm_medium=copy_link Phetola: https://instagram.com/_phetola?utm_medium=copy_link

In today's instalment, Phetola has a heart-to-heart with Lehakoe in a candid conversation about life, growing up and a vision for the future... #TheMakhs #Lehakoe #Conversation #Daughter

We've all heard the jokes about the frequency or infrequency of married sex. Is this a fact or myth? If true, how can we cultivate and sustain a satisfying sex life in marriage♥️ #sexlife #marriedsex #themakhs For business inquiries please email us on @info.themakhs@gmail.com Instagram: Please follow and connect with us on: TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_m... Lerato: https://instagram.com/son.of.jerry?ut... Phetola: https://instagram.com/_phetola?utm_me...

Why do we feel the pressure to fit in when we were born to stand out? We learn from Psychology, broken down by the Maslow's hierarchy of needs that Love and Belonging are a huge psychological need. Therefore people may feel pressure to conform so they fit in or are accepted, or so they don't feel awkward or uncomfortable. In today's instalment we unpack the pressures of trying to belong and fit in. #belonging #peerpressure #themakhs For business inquiries please email us on @info.themakhs@gmail.com Instagram: Please follow and connect with us on: Instagram: TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_m... Lerato: https://instagram.com/son.of.jerry?ut... Phetola: https://instagram.com/_phetola?utm_me...