Lerato and Phetola Makhetha are Digital Content Creators based in Johannesburg, South Africa. The couple is passionate about the advancement of thriving relationships and have displayed this passion both as a collective and as individuals. As parents of two beautiful girls (aged 7 & 2), building legacy is at the core of their mission and vision.
In this powerful and candid episode, we sit down with Wandile and Jessica Molebatsi, who share their personal journey of navigating racial prejudice, the complexities of raising mixed-race children, and the challenges of being misunderstood by society. Through their experiences, they open up about the unique hurdles they've faced as an inter racial couple, from confronting implicit biases and stereotypes to the emotional toll of educating others about their love and family dynamics. With vulnerability and insight, this couple offers valuable perspectives on the intersection of love, race, and family in today's world, shedding light on both the joys and struggles of creating a life together amidst societal divisions. Join us for a meaningful conversation that explores the everyday realities of living in an interracial relationship, the complexities of raising mixed-race children, and how love can transcend societal limitations—despite the challenges.
As a platform dedicated to supporting and advocating for marriage, we understand that sometimes relationships don't work out the way we hope. Divorce is a painful and difficult experience for everyone involved—men, women, and especially children. In this installment, we want to acknowledge the deep emotional impact of divorce, while offering insight into the healing process and the role forgiveness plays in moving forward. Our chat with @gc.grams has shown us that even after a marriage ends, there's always room for God to turn pain into purpose and new beginnings.
We're back in counseling, and it feels like a new chapter. There's a lingering issue we've been navigating, one that has kept us from seeing eye to eye. What we cherish most about this season of therapy is the growth we've experienced as individuals. We've learned to disagree with love, to listen deeply to one another's feelings, and to unite in pursuit of our shared goals. It's a journey of understanding, and we're committed to walking it together.
Are we leaving South Africa? The past three years have woven a tapestry of hope, joy, sorrow and everything in between. It is in the valley that we encountered the God who beckons us to surrender. This podcast is also available on Spotify and Apple Podcasts.
The question was, where are the men in the church? Today, we sit down with Uviwe and Unako—our own David and Jonathan—to discuss backsliding and finding your way back to God. We explore God's heart for men and what is required to equip them to walk in holiness. These young men show us what true pursuit of Christ looks like and what it means to search for the heart of God.
In today's heartfelt installment, I sit down with my husband of 14 years to reflect on his vibrant childhood and the choices he made in his younger years that led him away from his relationship with God. He has faced the difficult journey of drug addiction which led him to being a missionary at the age of 17 at an organization called Youth For Christ in Cape Town. Over the next few years, he wrestles with issues of identity, belonging, and the challenges of receiving love and dealing with rejection. As he shares his story, he emphasizes that the strength to navigate these challenges comes from his faith in God.
Not initiating sex can leave individuals feeling emotionally bruised and struggling with low self-esteem, often creating a sense of insecurity within a relationship. This issue isn't solely about desirability; various factors, such as stress and mental health, can impact one's libido and ability to engage. For many, societal expectations dictate that men should always be eager for sex, leading to misunderstandings when they aren't. It's essential to recognize that not wanting to have sex doesn't reflect a lack of attraction or commitment, but rather the complex realities of life that affect us all. Open communication and understanding can help navigate these challenges together. This episode is proudly sponsored by SOLAL Website: https://solal.co.za Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/solal_sa?igsh=NmliY29scTQ2cmgy You can find us on social media at: https://www.instagram.com/solal_sa?igsh=NmliY29scTQ2cmgy
Bonko and Lesego Khoza‘s marriage is like a heartwarming romcom, revealing a deep connection that spoke volumes even before their first words. Now, as parents to Ama, their love story continues to unfold beautifully, a testament to their belief in surrendering their lives to God. Bonko and Lesego Thank you so much for coming to break bread with us❤️
Mogale and Kabelo Mohale let us in on rising from the ashes. They speak candidly about how challenging the past 2 years have been on them. We know that growth can be hard, at times even messy however we are comforted knowing that diamonds are produced from very high pressure and temperatures. This beautiful couple are such a great testament of what it means to choose each other, over and over. By honouring God and their vows they were committed to be productive with their pain and find healing. Thank you for your vulnerability Mogale and Kabelo. We love you so much❤️ We would also like to acknowledge our special performance by KeMoriti https://instagram.com/kemoriti?igshid=NWpjd3FtMndwcTg3 Thank you to our sponsors at Renault Bryanston and Royal Developments : Please find us and our special guests on the handles below: The Makhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?igshid=MWZoa3VsemU0YjV0dw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Mogale: https://instagram.com/mog_moh?igshid=aDNqN2Q4OWMwbHI5 Kabelo: https://instagram.com/kabello_mohale?igshid=MXdldHR6Nm9yd3VoaQ== Renault Bryanston: https://instagram.com/renaultbryanstonza?igshid=Yml4NWJtNXJuZThk Brookfield at Royal: https://instagram.com/royal_developments_?igshid=MXR6d2hxbDhxOTFnOQ==
Please connect with us: Instagram: TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_medium=copy_link Lerato: https://instagram.com/son.of.jerry?utm_medium=copy_link Phetola: https://instagram.com/_phetola?utm_medium=copy_link
When it comes to inquiring about the state of a married couple's relationship, it's wise to tread lightly, for they often tend to emphasize the challenges. Marriage, without a doubt, is a profound blessing and a precious gift, albeit one that demands effort. It has the capacity to stretch individuals and may occasionally create discomfort during personal growth. Nevertheless, the rewards derived from such dedication are immeasurable. In our own experience, we have gleaned valuable insights from this aspect of life, acknowledging that we may not always portray marriage in the most ideal light through our words. Let's do better:)
We discussed submission at length about 2 weeks ago. Phetola share how sometimes lack of leadership could have been her stumbling block in submission. Today we unpack what leadership looks like from his vs her perspective. Leadership and Relationship seminar booking details: RSVP admin@lfprinting.co.za Contact: 061 533 4314 / 076 609 3363 Please connect with us: Instagram: TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_medium=copy_link Lerato: https://instagram.com/son.of.jerry?utm_medium=copy_link Phetola: https://instagram.com/_phetola?utm_medium=copy_link
We took a break from Vlogging and this is whhy…Vlogging can create a sense of detachment and disconnection from the people and experiences that truly matter. In addition, it can create a sense of pressure to constantly create content, leading to a never-ending cycle of filming, editing, and uploading. This can leave little room for downtime or relaxation, and can negatively impact mental and emotional wellbeing. While vlogging can be a fun and creative outlet for sharing one's life with others, it's important to strike a balance between creating content and enjoying quality time with loved ones. The break did us a world of good❤️ #themakhs #vlogging #contentcreation
The topic of submission can be a contentions one. What is submission? What does it look like? Does it look different for different couples? What's God design for submission? How does poor leadership affect submission? We unpack... Please connect with us: Instagram: TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_medium=copy_link Lerato: https://instagram.com/son.of.jerry?utm_medium=copy_link Phetola: https://instagram.com/_phetola?utm_medium=copy_link
We discuss things that shocked us this past week... #themakhs #thabobester #dalailama
Should women pursue men? Ask them out or even propose marriage? We would love to hear from you. #themakhs #dating #women Please connect with us: Instagram: TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_medium=copy_link Lerato: https://instagram.com/son.of.jerry?utm_medium=copy_link Phetola: https://instagram.com/_phetola?utm_medium=copy_link
Ever heard the saying, “show me your friends, I'll tell you who you are”? In this instalment we discuss how our friendships have shaped who are. #friendships #themakhs #relationships
We spend so much time investing in the wedding day and forget to invest in the marriage itself. The question is, is it worth saving for a big wedding… Let's unpack♥️ #wedding #justmarried #themakhs
This year when my wife did the annual Daniel Fast she made a decision to also quit social media for that period.. The results were incredible! Have you ever been on a social media fast? What was it like for you? Would you recommend it? #socialmedia #danielfast #themakhs Please follow and connect with us on: Instagram: TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_m... Lerato: https://instagram.com/son.of.jerry?ut... Phetola: https://instagram.com/_phetola?utm_me...
In our first instalment of 2023, we speak with the Makhs Seniors (Ntate Jerry Mofokeng wa Makhetha & Mama Claudine) . We discuss some secrets to a healthy marriage. This is the year of healing and restoration♥️ To order your copy of I am a man/ I am a woman please call/WhatsApp the number below: Mosa Makhetha: +27 82 319 6367 For premarital & marriage counselling contact: Mosa Makhetha: +27 82 319 6367 Please follow and connect with us on: Instagram: TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_m... Lerato: https://instagram.com/son.of.jerry?ut... Phetola: https://instagram.com/_phetola?utm_me... #marriage #themakhs #restoration
As we approach year end, it's always a beautiful time to reflect on the year that was, In life and love. As people we usually approach the new year with a lot of hope. Hope for a new dawn. As we give ourselves time to reflect and introspect, let's look at some of the things we need to let go of, and leave in 2022.
When we got married we were encouraged that the only thing that we should be competing about is out- loving each other. What then happens in a relationship when one person flourishes more than the other? How does that affect your level of self confidence? Have you ever been intimidated by your partners success or vice versa? Download OctaFX Trading App https://bit.ly/OctaFX__Phetola, use my promo code PHETOLA to get a 100% bonus when making your first deposit #relationship-matters #themakhs
Ever felt like you've put in the work, showed up and worked harder than the next person and was still overlooked? Being overlooked can sometimes bring about feelings of rejection, be it in marriage, at the workplace or in life. We look at how we can deal with those feelings in a healthy way and understanding that season of our lives. #rejection #overlooked #themakhs Please follow and connect with us on Instagram: TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_medium=copy_link Lerato: https://instagram.com/leratomakhetha_?utm_medium=copy_link Phetola: https://instagram.com/_phetola?utm_medium=copy_link
In today's instalment we unpack whether it is necessary to ask for permission from your partner. From going out, the clothes we wear and the money we spend? As always we would love to hear from you. Please do weigh in…
It's not always easy letting our partners know that they might have a body odour issue, or that things aren't that amazing in the bedroom. Have you ever been in that situation? If so how did you handle it?
Let's believe when they tell us who they are…
There's a lot of apprehension from church girls to date men in the church and vice versa. We unpack this in our current instalment♥️ #dating #churchgirls #churchboys #themakhs Please follow and connect with us on: Instagram: TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_medium=copy_link Lerato: https://instagram.com/leratomakhetha_?utm_medium=copy_link Phetola: https://instagram.com/_phetola?utm_medium=copy_link
Are you doing what is necessary to ensure that your loved ones are well taken care of?
Do you have an alter-ego and are you comfortable with sharing that part yourself with your partner? Comment below to share your thoughts. #alterego #relationships #themakhs Please follow and connect with us on: Instagram: TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_medium=copy_link Lerato: https://instagram.com/son.of.jerry?utm_medium=copy_link Phetola: https://instagram.com/_phetola?utm_medium=copy_link
In todays instalment, Phetola shares on how God walked with her through the valley of her retrenchment journey.
Who should be held responsible or accountable in an affair. The married party or the side? We unpack. #marriagevows #sidechicks #sidemen Please follow and connect with us on: Instagram: TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_medium=copy_link Lerato: https://instagram.com/son.of.jerry?utm_medium=copy_link Phetola: https://instagram.com/_phetola?utm_medium=copy_link
In today's instalment, Phetola has a heart-to-heart with Lehakoe in a candid conversation about life, growing up and a vision for the future... #TheMakhs #Lehakoe #Conversation #Daughter
We've all heard the jokes about the frequency or infrequency of married sex. Is this a fact or myth? If true, how can we cultivate and sustain a satisfying sex life in marriage♥️ #sexlife #marriedsex #themakhs For business inquiries please email us on @info.themakhs@gmail.com Instagram: Please follow and connect with us on: TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_m... Lerato: https://instagram.com/son.of.jerry?ut... Phetola: https://instagram.com/_phetola?utm_me...
Why do we feel the pressure to fit in when we were born to stand out? We learn from Psychology, broken down by the Maslow's hierarchy of needs that Love and Belonging are a huge psychological need. Therefore people may feel pressure to conform so they fit in or are accepted, or so they don't feel awkward or uncomfortable. In today's instalment we unpack the pressures of trying to belong and fit in. #belonging #peerpressure #themakhs For business inquiries please email us on @info.themakhs@gmail.com Instagram: Please follow and connect with us on: Instagram: TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_m... Lerato: https://instagram.com/son.of.jerry?ut... Phetola: https://instagram.com/_phetola?utm_me...
In a world where some women are earning more than their partners and some men choose to be stay at home dads, are gender roles still relevant?
In celebration of the month of love, we unpack what dating advice we would give our daughters or our younger selves♥️
Today we discuss Communication Hacks For HIM. Love, The Makhs For business inquiries, please email us on: info.themakhs@gmail.com Please follow and connect with us on: Instagram: TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_m... Lerato: https://instagram.com/son.of.jerry?ut... Phetola: https://instagram.com/_phetola?utm_me...
We get a lot of people asking us whether we ever fight. Well…we disagree a lot less these days. A lot of our arguments stemmed from miscommunication. Today we share Communication Hacks For Her. Love, The Makhs For business inquiries please email us on info.themakhs@gmail.com Please follow and connect with us on: Instagram: TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_m... Lerato: https://instagram.com/son.of.jerry?ut... Phetola: https://instagram.com/_phetola?utm_me...
In today's instalment we react to Meagan Good and Devon Franklin's divorce. Love, The Makhs For business inquiries please email us on info.themakhs@gmail.com Please follow and connect with us on: Instagram: TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_medium=copy_link Lerato: https://instagram.com/son.of.jerry?utm_medium=copy_link Phetola: https://instagram.com/_phetola?utm_medium=copy_link
In today's PODCAST we discuss the complexities of dating an actor. What are the rules of engagement and where do we draw the line. For business inquiries please email us on info.themakhs@gmail.com Please follow and connect with us on: Instagram: TheMakhs: https://instagram.com/the_makhs?utm_medium=copy_link Lerato: https://instagram.com/son.of.jerry?utm_medium=copy_link Phetola: https://instagram.com/_phetola?utm_medium=copy_link
Do you believe in girlfriend or wife allowance? Let's discuss this hot topic. Feel free to share your views with us. Love, The Makhs
There are so many disputes that are birthed through the contentious subject of the opposite sex and exes in relationships. Today we share our perspectives based on our personal experience.
In todays' instalment we discuss the lessons learnt while finding our marriage in a dead place.
In today's instalment we share our lobolo journey. The good, the bad and the funny. Join us as we take a trip down memory lane.
To love out loud means to love boldly and freely without any reservations. When we love out loud, we inspire others to do the same. Let's spread the love
There is nothing inherently wrong with being single, and there is nothing inherently good about being in a relationship. We often look at marriage as the grand prize. In today's instalment, we unpack navigating being single and satisfied. Love, #TheMakhs
What does childhood trauma look like in adults? Childhood trauma in adults can impact experiences and relationships with others due to experienced feelings of shame, and guilt. Childhood trauma also results in feeling disconnected, and being unable to relate to others. Let's discuss...
Mjolo (dating) doesn't have to be a pandemic. In this instalment we encourage you to date beyond marriage. Remain forever girlfriends/boyfriends
Financial problems and financial stress can impact your relationship or marriage in many different ways. Your health, emotional and physical intimacy, and home can all be negatively affected by money matters... Today we share our personal story of the impact finances has had on our relationship. Love The Makhs
In a modern age, being single is no longer a life stage but a state of being, relished by thriving solo communities around the world. Despite this, we still tend to put marriage on a pedestal. Getting wed equals radiant couples searching for wild flower arrangements on Pinterest, or marking the #5years mark with tasteful black and white snaps on Insta. More than a milestone, it's an entrenched cultural value – one that lands squarely in the same breath as lifetime happiness. Even today, people who don't put a ring on it can feel left out; like they've eluded that lottery ticket marked “happily ever after”. But is there really any truth to this ingrained belief?
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