Put A Ring On It: The Wedding Planning Podcast

Did you miss us?!?! Because we missed YOU!! We're coming back with all new episodes starting September 5, 2023 – and can't wait!Find out where we've been, why we took a break, and the changes you can expect for the next "season".

It's our final episode of Season 9 and we've compiled some of our favorite listener-submitted questions for our traditional, end-of-season Q&A. In this episode, we talked about Save the Dates, wedding party gifts, including pups in your wedding, organizing wedding emails, alcohol, and more. Thank you to our Ringer Club members for their support through another great season! We talked about:Whether Save the Dates are necessary Can you not have a cocktail hour?Do you need a table menu for buffet dinner?When you should give your wedding party their giftsLogistics and concerns when including pups in your wedding dayHow and when to get your marriage licenseOrganizing wedding emailsPros/cons of providing your own alcohol vs. using the catererA great resource for building your timeline Links mentioned:Dear Dans Bonus Episode (Season 4, 2018): How do we include our dogs in our wedding day? Alcohol Calculator in Shop at DPNAKEpisode 031: Let's Talk About Booze Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Buckle up, Ringers. We're sharing some major behind-the-scenes transparency as we recognize how COVID has affected the wedding industry and begin to look to the future. This episode is all about sharing what you might not realize is going on behind the scenes of the wedding industry, plus how and why it's affecting you. It might be rough for now, but if we all come from a place of understanding, compassion, and grace - it will help everyone in the long run. We talked about:Some of the effects COVID has had on the wedding and event industry, both short-term and long-termHow vendors have specifically been affected and why that matters for you nowWhat it means for the future of weddingsWhat we can all do as we work to help find our balance again Links mentioned:Berlyn Events - Ohio wedding planner, Berlyn Martin (who you may remember from Episode 77 on Setting Boundaries)Eventful - Wisconsin wedding planner, Sarah WelchSocial Maven - New York wedding planner, Syrie RomanYour Inspired Event - California wedding planner, Savannah Gryskiewicz Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

There are a lot of things on any wedding planning list you can find on Google. In this episode, we cover the items that are often forgotten about and WHY you should make sure to plan for them. This is a great episode to jot down some notes and do your future selves a solid. We talked about:What to check before booking your dateThe best time to check out your wedding venueSomething you don't want to forget in the budgetThe best thing you can do for your timelineWhat it means to get the “weird one” out of the waySomething you can do to put Mother Nature on your sideBeing a good host to your vendors, tooThe thing you absolutely MUST do before your wedding invites go outPacking for the wedding day and the honeymoonAnd wayyyy more! Links mentioned:Tipping Guide Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

In episode 105, special guest Carrie-Ann Kloda of Kith & Kin joins us to talk about finding your wedding mantra. We talk through why wedding planning is as stressful as it is and what you, as the couple, can do to find your focus and set healthy boundaries through the wedding planning process. Because the wedding is one day. The marriage that comes after is meant to last a lifetime. We talked about:Meet Carrie-Ann KlodaWhy wedding planning can be so stressfulWhy you should have a “wedding mantra”How to find your wedding mantraSome mantra examples to get your wheels turningWhy setting boundaries now sets you up for a healthy marriage Links mentioned:Kith & Kin Weddings Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta:  @danielmoyerphoto

In this episode, Dan really spreads his wings to share his wealth of knowledge about all-things wedding photography. We talk through every step of the process with logistics, helpful tips, and of course, with Dan at the wheel, you know there's lots of feels. We talked about:What to look for in a photographer's websiteWhat to mention when reaching outThe most important items to look for in your photographer's package listReal and meaningful questions to ask your photographer during the meetingWhat to expect after you hire themShould you send a shot list?What to expect after the wedding Links mentioned:Episode 057: Why You Should Print Your Wedding PhotosEpisode 034: Engagement Sessionsmpix Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta:  @danielmoyerphoto

Episode 103 is all about microweddings. What they are, why we think we're going to see more of them in future years, and what makes them so incredibly special and wonderful. Danielle stepped away from her “tips” on this episode and got deep in the feels with Dan as they shared their experiences and opinions. Whether you're going big or going small, this is still a great episode to enjoy and listen to with your SO. We talked about:What makes a wedding a “microwedding”How they differ from big weddings and elopementsAmazing moments from past microweddingsHow microweddings are similar to big weddingsWhat your first steps should be in planning one Links mentioned:Episode 62: Microweddings with Alisa TonggEpisode 85: Going Small, Elopements, Mini-monies, and Microweddings Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

We're halfway through Season 9 which means it's time for another Q&A episode. In this episode, we're picking some of our favorite listener-submitted questions and sharing our tips, advice, and encouragement. We talked about:Is your wedding planner included in your budget?What to do when vendors aren't living up to your expectationsWhen to book which vendors, especially in the very beginning of planningGift ideas for the GroomIncluding teenaged nieces and nephews in the wedding dayAffordable wedding headpiece ideasBridal shower etiquetteShould you save money on a DJ and just do a Spotify playlist?Personally written vows vs. repeated standard vows Links mentioned:Episode 63: How to Build Your Team of Wedding VendorsEpisode 83: Involving Kids In Your Wedding DayEtsy Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto

Who you choose to be in your Wedding Party – and who you DON’T choose - is a very big decision for your wedding. In this episode, we share some trends on how couples are tweaking this age-old tradition to better reflect the people that matter most to them. This includes using more inclusive terminology, focusing less on someone’s gender or having “even” sides, and potentially forgoing having a wedding party altogether. We talked about:Modern and inclusive terminologyTraditions of the pastIs it ok to have uneven sides?Mixed-gender wedding partiesVIPs that are supportive of both partnersOpting not to have a wedding partySome tips to keep in mind when deciding who you do (and don’t) want to include Links mentioned:Episode 6: Reinterpreting Weddings with Kathryn HammEpisode 83: Involving Kids In Your Wedding Plans Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta:  @danielmoyerphoto

EPISODE 100!!!

In episode 99, we’re talking about how you can build your wedding budget around your priorities of the day. Because very few of us have a truly “unlimited” budget and that means that we can’t necessarily get #allthethings we want. So, starting with a budget and a conversation about your priorities makes navigating the world of wedding planning much less stressful and confusing. We talked about:Who should have a wedding budgetHow to know what to budgetWhat makes a great eventGetting granular on what makes an event “great” to youWhat your priorities have to do with your budgetWhy it’s important to track your budgetA simple and beautiful way to keep track of your wedding budget Links mentioned:Episode 38: Four Fundamentals To Hosting A Great EventWedding Budget Tracker Spreadsheet Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta:  @danielmoyerphoto

It’s certainly an episode title that we never imagined having back in 2016. But in 2021, we’re now over a year into the COVID-19 global pandemic. In this episode, we’re discussing how it’s affected so many couples as they plan their weddings and what it means for those that are newly engaged. We talked about:How all areas and couples are experiencing this pandemic differently regarding restrictions around their weddingsWhy we encourage everyone to follow your local, state, and CDC guidelines for the safety of everyonePostponing a wedding and the ups and downs of thatLessons learned from postponing MANY weddingsDealing with wedding shaming as a coupleSome advice for those that are getting married in the upcoming monthsOur official welcome to those that are newly engaged and hopping onto this wild rideTwo important tips for planning a wedding in 2022 and beyond Links mentioned:Brides: Wedding Shaming Is Real: What It Is and How to Handle ItCDC Guidance for Organizing Large Events and Gatherings Join the "Ringer Club" on Patreon to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta: @danielmoyerphoto 

We’re back for Season 9 and coming at you with some REAL TALK, Ringers. In this episode, we chat with comedian, author, and former bride, Jamie Lee, as she shares her story of wedding planning and the parts of it that aren’t as “warm and fuzzy”. Jamie also gives us a peek at her upcoming show, “The Wedding Coach” which drops on Netflix on April 7th, 2021. (We had the chance to preview it and you do NOT want to miss it!) We talked about:Meet Jamie Lee, author, comedian, former bride-to-be, and host of the “The Wedding Coach”Jamie’s book: Weddiculous (a super-funny and must-read book for any couple, especially brides)How planning a wedding can feel super isolating (and why)Why the term “Bridezilla” is an insanely unfair label to place on anyoneHow every couple has SOMEONE who is just tough to deal with when wedding planningHer opinion on the most important aspects of a weddingSome incredibly candid advice to couples who are feeling a little lostSome of her favorite moments from the show and behind-the-scenes Links mentioned:Weddiculous: An Unfiltered Guide to Being a Bride“The Wedding Show” on NetflixSupport the Show Join the "Ringer Club" to dive deeper into wedding planning alongside an incredible community of fellow Ringers and gain further access to Danielle and Dan. (We couldn't do it without your amazing support!) Follow along on the socials:Podcast Insta: @putaringonitpodcastDanielle's Insta: @dpnakDan's Insta:  @danielmoyerphoto 

We talked about:Alternative options if you don’t want to have dancing at your weddingWhat to do once all of your vendors are bookedDealing with family drama when you need to cut the guest list due to COVID restrictionsOur thoughts on venues that include EVERYTHING, like photography and DJ servicesWhether custom signage is worth itHow far in advance you should book your vendorsWays to incorporate your grandparents into your wedding dayHow to get your fiance “excited” about wedding planning 

We talked about:It’s ok to just daydream a bit and brainstorm before diving in head firstWhat to do if people start asking you a million questionsWhy priorities are important and the foundation of where to startThe dreaded B-word: BudgetBuilding your guest list and how it affects, like, everythingWhy a wedding planner should be one of your first stopsTips for choosing your venueAnd much more! 

We talked about:Why a wedding day goes by so fastWhy it’s important to make time for you as an individualStarting your day as close to your regular routine as possibleThe importance of FOOD on the wedding dayWhy it’s just as important to make time for you as a coupleFirst looks and why they might be the right thing for youWhere the tradition of not seeing one another the night of the wedding or before you walk down the aisle came fromThe post-ceremony “time out”Pros and cons of a Sweetheart Table (and what it even is)The BEST way to achieve what you want: PLAN FOR ITFor links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Join our "Ringer Club" to gain further access, get your questions answered, laugh at our behind-the-scenes shenanigans, and get an exclusive invite to our monthly hangouts.

We talked about:The obvious: Put them in your wedding partyUntraditional and non-gender specific wedding party rolesThe only rule when it comes to what “age” someone can be to be in your wedding partyWhat to do if you don’t want someone in your wedding partyCreative ways to involve family without making them part of your wedding partyCreating intentional moments on your wedding day to specifically include someoneWhat to do if you have kids yourself that you want to include on the wedding day (and should you include them)For links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Join our "Ringer Club" to gain further access, get your questions answered, laugh at our behind-the-scenes shenanigans, and get an exclusive invite to our monthly hangouts.

We talked about:There’s no such thing as “the perfect marriage”, but the goal is a “healthy” marriageWhy we don’t necessarily agree with the common advice of “Don’t go to bed angry”What lawn care has to do with a good relationshipThe importance of love languages AND the languages of apologyThe reason why we have two ears and one mouthWhat’s more important: being kind or being right?“The River Jordan Concept”Creating a path back to one anotherThe idea of “50/50” Sex (Don’t worry, we’ll give you a heads up if you’ve got young ears listening in, but we kept it short and PG-13)The importance of communicationFor links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Join our "Ringer Club" to gain further access, get your questions answered, laugh at our behind-the-scenes shenanigans, and get an exclusive invite to our monthly hangouts.

We talked about:What step #1 should always be (even if the planning has already started)The five areas that really should involve BOTH partners in planningWhy “I’m good with whatever you want” doesn’t always flyThink the wedding registry needs to be all about dishes and bath towels? Think again.Ways to fill your partner’s love tank the morning of your weddingThe importance of showing gratitudeThe talk you should have about indulging in libationsTips for once the wedding is over

We talked about:Wedding favor alternativesIs it wrong to have a smaller ceremony now and a big celebration later on? (And how can you navigate that with minimal drama?)Honoring the death of someone close to you without it feeling a memorial for themA creative take on a wedding reception alternativeWhat to expect if you’re planning a NYE weddingWhether you “need” to have your siblings in your wedding party -- and what they can do instead to still feel specialFor links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Join our "Ringer Club" to gain further access, get your questions answered, laugh at our behind-the-scenes shenanigans, and get an exclusive invite to our monthly hangouts.

We talked about:The DPNAK Shop is now open! (Ringer Club members get a special discount!)Being realistic vs trying to be superhumanHow getting organized saves you time in the long run– which you need now more than everSome quick tips for getting organizedWhy it’s important to give yourself permission to not focus on all of the things at onceTake a break Long – you’ll be better for itDelegate – even if it’s hardDon’t forget to celebrate the little (and big) winsFor links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Join our "Ringer Club" to gain further access, get your questions answered, laugh at our behind-the-scenes shenanigans, and get an exclusive invite to our monthly hangouts.

We talked about:The DPNAK Shop is now open! (Ringer Club members get a special discount!)Tips on asking your vendors questionsWhere you snag more helpful questions to ask your vendorsSome of the best questions you can ask your DJ or Band before or after you’ve hired themWhy these questions are helpful to askWhat to consider based on their answersFor links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Join our "Ringer Club" to gain further access, get your questions answered, laugh at our behind-the-scenes shenanigans, and get an exclusive invite to our monthly hangouts.

Episode NotesWe talked about:Why Food Trucks might be a safe alternative in a COVID worldPros of having a food truck at your weddingSeven “important things to know” with solutions to common problems of having a food truck at your weddingA great resource for finding a wedding-friendly food truck in your areaAlternatives to consider to still achieve a unique “food truck” vibeFor links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Join our "Ringer Club" to gain further access, get your questions answered, laugh at our behind-the-scenes shenanigans, and get an exclusive invite to our monthly hangouts. 

We talked about:Where the word “Bridezilla” originated and why that mattersThere is a ton of pressure surrounding couples, brides in particular, to be “perfect” -- and that’s BULLYou’re allowed to make mistakes and not show up perfectly every timeWhat often leads to someone being called a “Bridezilla” and why that isn’t okWhy it’s time to remove the word from our vocabularyWhat someone can do instead of calling someone a “Bridezilla”For links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Join our "Ringer Club" to gain further access, get your questions answered, laugh at our behind-the-scenes shenanigans, and get an exclusive invite to our monthly hangouts. 

We talked about:Our new “Ringer Club” membershipThe differences between an elopement, minimony, and microweddingWhy going small does NOT equal a less special or less “real” weddingThe first step in planning a small weddingWhy it’s still important to focus on the guest experienceYou’re still allowed to splurge on whatever you’d like The ONE vendor you should still have -- no matter what For links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Join our "Ringer Club" to gain further access, get your questions answered, laugh at our behind-the-scenes shenanigans, and get an exclusive invite to our monthly hangouts. 

We talked about:What Dan and Danielle do in the wedding industryDanielle gives an update on her wedding planning with fiancé, MichaelDan loves on his wife, Rachel, their kiddos, and two cats (with names inspired by Harry Potter)Danielle shares her hometown, which you may be familiar withWhich Hogwarts house we’re both inWhat Danielle does and doesn’t drinkWhere this wedding planning podcast beganA fun fact about our MomsWho’s older vs. who’s tallerOur new Patreon membership tiersJoin us on Instagram @putaringonitpodcast For links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Join our "Ringer Club" to gain further access, get your questions answered, laugh at our behind-the-scenes shenanigans, and get an exclusive invite to our monthly hangouts. 

We talked about:We stand in support of Black Lives MatterWhere we're currently at with re-opening here in PAWhat we've seen for the weddings we're currently working onWhat our predictions might be for the upcoming months (based on a TON of learning, but we still don't have full clarity just yet)What to consider if you're getting married in 2020Some tips if you're thinking about postponing your weddingWhat to do if you're getting married in 2021Ways to re-focus and reframe the planning process to find the JOY againFor links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Become a Patreon supporter today to gain further access, get your questions answered, laugh at our behind-the-scenes shenanigans, and get an exclusive invite to our monthly hangouts. 

We talked about:Ideas for kids activities at the receptionDealing with in-laws that don’t approve of your “vision”How to convince your partner to go with a higher-priced DJHow to plan an event where your cocktail hour and reception are all in the same spaceWhen to send out your invitations in a COVID worldOur take on microweddingsFor links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Become a Patreon supporter today to get your questions answered, watch behind-the-scenes videos, chat one-on-one with Dan and Danielle and more!

We talked about:Including children in your wedding partyTraditional roles of kids in a wedding party (and “appropriate” age ranges)Whether you should invite kids to your wedding What to do if you plan on inviting kidsWhat to do if you don’t plan on inviting kidsFor links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Become a Patreon supporter today to get your questions answered, watch behind-the-scenes videos, chat one-on-one with Dan and Danielle and more!

We talked about:An update about future episodesYou have our permission to feel however you need to feelSome mindset shifts to help you process all of thisWhat to do if you need to postpone your weddingWedding InsuranceCanceling your wedding vs. postponing itAlternative options to consider, depending on what the restrictions are in your areaA reminder to take care of yourself, now more than everWhat we’re doing to stay positive (as much as possible) throughout this experienceHow and what to be communicating with your guests about your upcoming weddingAlso, a wildly incorrect side-tangent about the Marvel/DC universe (oops)For links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Become a Patreon supporter today to get your questions answered, watch behind-the-scenes videos, chat one-on-one with Dan and Danielle and more!

We talked about:Why it’s important to spend time together before the weddingAn important conversation about HOW MUCH time you want to spend together pre-weddingThe two most common pre-wedding eventsFun group activities to consider planningWhy it’s important not to overextend yourselfThe final odds and ends you may need to wrap upThe dreaded WEATHER forecastSome good health tips to keep in mind that final weekAnd a reminder to ENJOY THE PROCESSFor links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Become a Patreon supporter today to get your questions answered, watch behind-the-scenes videos, chat one-on-one with Dan and Danielle and more!

We talked about:How fast a wedding day actually flies byHow much time to give yourself before going on your honeymoonThe #1 most common regret amongst most couplesRegrets with regard to photography What couples wished they did more of on the wedding dayHow a lot of couples will feel pressured into doing something or settle for something they didn’t wantAn important thing to remember when opting have a friend or family member help you with somethingFor links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Become a Patreon supporter today to get your questions answered, watch behind-the-scenes videos, chat one-on-one with Dan and Danielle and more!

We talked about:The top three things couple’s should be mindful of when choosing their venueLittle things you can do that will make your guest experience even more awesomeRed flags to keep an eye out forVenue coordinators vs. wedding plannersOdd requests that Kinsey has gotten before as a venue ownerSome of Kinsey’s favorite things that she’s seen at weddingsFor links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Become a Patreon supporter today to get your questions answered, watch behind-the-scenes videos, chat one-on-one with Dan and Danielle and more!

We talked about:At what point in the planning process you should start thinking about your floral decorWhat you should do BEFORE reaching out to a floristTips for using Pinterest for good vs. evilWhy it’s important to maintain consistency throughout your wedding designMyths about “ways to save money” with floralsWhat you should and shouldn’t DIY when it comes to floral decorNew and fabulous trends for 2020 and 2021 (including some trends we’d both be ok with not seeing ever again)For links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Become a Patreon supporter today to get your questions answered, watch behind-the-scenes videos, chat one-on-one with Dan and Danielle and more!

We talked about:Why it’s important to set boundaries as you plan your weddingWhere it all startsHow to establish boundaries with your immediate familyHow to navigate tricky questions from friends and family membersWhen and how to enlist the help of othersWays you can establish some boundaries with your wedding vendor teamWhat to do when someone crosses a line and breaks that boundary with youFor links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Become a Patreon supporter today to get your questions answered, watch behind-the-scenes videos, chat one-on-one with Dan and Danielle and more!

We talked about:How much of getting healthy is nutrition and how much is exerciseWhy there aren’t many “one size fits all” tips when it comes to what to eatHow to deal with stress eatingHow much time to give yourself to see a positive change from your new choicesHow to maintain a healthy diet while also attending your shower, engagement party, and so onWhat to do when you fall off the wagon and make a not-so-great choiceAnd our favorite apps for at-home yogaFor links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Become a Patreon supporter today to get your questions answered, watch behind-the-scenes videos, chat one-on-one with Dan and Danielle and more!

We talked about:How to find the right photographer for youThe ways that wedding photography has changed throughout the years and why it mattersWhat to do if you’re a little nervous about being in front of the cameraA really great reason why it’s important to hire a professional photographer for your dayFor links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Become a Patreon supporter today to get your questions answered, watch behind-the-scenes videos, chat one-on-one with Dan and Danielle and more!

We talked about:Why it's so important to stay united as a team How to deal with questions about your engagement/weddingRemembering not to compete with fellow engaged couples or newlywedsNavigating FOOD and all the guilty pleasures that come with the holidaysDealing with the EXPENSE that the holidays can bring (and ways to get around it)Respecting old traditions while creating and building your own new traditionsWhat to expect from your wedding vendors during the holiday seasonFor links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Become a Patreon supporter today to get your questions answered, watch behind-the-scenes videos, chat one-on-one with Dan and Danielle and more!

We talked about:What SYMBIS is and why it can be really helpful for a lot of couplesWhy it's important for couples to have this mindsetCommon things we see as planners that easily derail couples throughout the wedding planning processTips for couples who are struggling at the momentWhat you can do RIGHT NOW to better prepare yourselves for a successful first year of marriage (possibly one of the hardest years)For links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website.Become a Patreon supporter today to get your questions answered, watch behind-the-scenes videos, chat one-on-one with Dan and Danielle and more!

From Weddings For Real:If you’re a member of the Rising Tide Society Facebook Group, you might have seen a post (since deleted) a few months ago from a photographer who said that when a wedding planner is involved, it makes other wedding vendors’ jobs more difficult and it messes up the flow of a wedding day. From his perspective, it’s better to have a wedding WITHOUT a planner.  Well as you either saw or can imagine, this sparked a lot of debate, and shockingly, many people agreed with his perspective.  Danielle Pasternak, wedding planner at DPNAK and co-host of the Put A Ring On It Podcast, has some thoughts, and she shares them on the show today!Listen to the full episode here!

We talked about: Both of our favorite “end-of-night” moments that have stuck with us from years ago A super-fun thing that a couple did right after they tied the knot The time Danielle turned a clothing store into a reception in under 2.5 hours A private moment Dan witnessed that will absolutely touch your hearts Something that made Danielle cry (not that that’s hard to do) The time that Dan was the first one to join the bride on a dance floor Also, we shared some exciting news about what to expect for Season 7 which returns on NOVEMBER 19th! For links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website. Become a Patreon supporter today to get your questions answered, watch behind-the-scenes videos, chat one-on-one with Dan and Danielle and more!

We talked about: The BIGGEST and #1 factor that affects your total budget Why your budget is important and how to use your priorities to make decisions The best vendor to hire to save yourself money What to consider when choosing your venue Opting to get married any day but Saturday Why where your lodging is matters so much What having an "off-season" date could mean for your budget AND your guest experience Some specific areas where we DON'T recommend trying to save money For links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website. Become a Patreon supporter today to get your questions answered, watch behind-the-scenes videos, chat one-on-one with Dan and Danielle and more!

We talked about: Renting vs. buying Ways you can be sustainable with your attire choices What to do with your flowers after the wedding How to avoid receiving unnecessary gifts Sustainable paper product alternatives Straws!! Our honest-to-goodness opinion on favors Finding charitable vendors Repurposing your decor Recycling what you can For links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website. Become a Patreon supporter today to get your questions answered, watch behind-the-scenes videos, chat one-on-one with Dan and Danielle and more!

We talked about: Renting vs. buying Ways you can be sustainable with your attire choices What to do with your flowers after the wedding How to avoid receiving unnecessary gifts Sustainable paper product alternatives Straws!! Our honest-to-goodness opinion on favors Finding charitable vendors Repurposing your decor Recycling what you can For links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website. Become a Patreon supporter today to get your questions answered, watch behind-the-scenes videos, chat one-on-one with Dan and Danielle and more!

We talked about: Why you should consider hiring a videographer The benefits of having a videographer for your wedding What a "great" wedding film includes Trends in wedding videography What to look for when choosing a videographer A good question to ask when searching for your videographer For links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website. Become a Patreon supporter today to get your questions answered, watch behind-the-scenes videos, chat one-on-one with Dan and Danielle and more!

We talked about: Traditional and untraditional wedding registry options When you should register for items What types of items you may want to register for How to tell your guests where you're registered (and how NOT to) What to do when you just want cash What happens when you receive something you didn't want And the deal with sending "thank you" cards For links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website. Become a Patreon supporter today to get your questions answered, watch behind-the-scenes videos, chat one-on-one with Dan and Danielle and more!

We talked about: What to consider with your centerpieces Some "popular" formalities to skip What decor isn't the best use of your money The type of seating to avoid Our thoughts on CAKE Attire and what you're wearing How to structure your reception Receiving lines Plus, some things we think your guests will ALWAYS care about For links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website. Become a Patreon supporter today to get your questions answered, watch behind-the-scenes videos, chat one-on-one with Dan and Danielle and more!

We talked about: Different ways you can work with a planner/coordinator and how it's often not an apples-to-apples comparison Knowing the right questions to ask (and what questions won't be very helpful if you ask them) Finding out a planner's strengths and weaknesses How vendor recommendations work What to do after your first meeting with a potential planner For links mentioned and additional information, visit the Put A Ring On It podcast website. Become a Patreon supporter today to get your questions answered, watch behind-the-scenes videos, chat one-on-one with Dan and Danielle and more!

We talked about: Making a "Getting Ready" playlist including some fun ideas and what not to forget Signage and why it helps with your guest experience The many, many ways to show your appreciation (big AND small) to the many people involved in your day Fun ideas to keep any children attending your wedding entertained on their level An extra touch for your guests to enjoy before your ceremony begins Packing a day-of "emergency" bag and what to include Clothing that ISN'T your official wedding attire, but will still need for before and after Making a plan for what happens when your wedding is over Links mentioned: DPNAK's Bathroom Basket List DPNAK Weddings / Danielle on Insta Daniel Moyer Photography / Dan on Insta

We talked about: A good hierarchy of which vendors should be hired before others Where to find reputable vendors What to look for when reading reviews What happens when you only ask for pricing and things to keep in mind when comparing pricing amongst vendors Some tips on making the initial contact How to "interview" potential vendors for your wedding day What to do once you've selected the best vendor and why GHOSTING is truly a bummer Want behind-the-scenes access? Join us for a deeper discussion in the Ringer Patreon community >> www.patreon.com/paroi To see more information about the Put A Ring On It podcast, visit www.putaringonitpodcast.com Other links mentioned: Danielle’s Etsy store with a full bundle of worksheets for “Questions to Ask...” (Patreon members receive a special discount!) Ep. 003: How To Pick Your Pros Ep. 024: Questions to ask your Photographer, Videographer, Band and DJ Ep. 047: How To Choose Your Wedding Photographer Ep. 034: Questions to ask your Wedding Venue DPNAK Weddings / Danielle on Insta Daniel Moyer Photography / Dan on Insta

We talked about: What exactly is a microwedding How a microwedding is different from eloping and a traditional wedding Why we think microweddings are becoming so popular What a microwedding can or can’t include Some things to consider before deciding to have a microwedding What personalities microweddings are best suited for How you can still incorporate intentionalism into your traditional wedding plans Want behind-the-scenes access? Join us for a deeper discussion in the Ringer Patreon community >> www.patreon.com/paroi To see more information about the Put A Ring On It podcast, visit www.putaringonitpodcast.com Other links mentioned: Alisa Tongg, Celebrant Promise Ridge on Insta DPNAK Weddings / Danielle on Insta [Daniel Moyer Photography](http://) / Dan on Insta