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The Velvet Hammer


    • Jan 26, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
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    • 115 EPISODES


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    Framing the media message to honor and protect your clients

    Play Episode Play 30 sec Highlight Listen Later Jan 26, 2024 18:33 Transcription Available


    Join Karen Koehler in this episode of The Velvet Hammer as she shares how her team's adept maneuvering around the City of Seattle's media embargo was crucial in honoring and protecting their clients during the George Floyd BLM peaceful protesters lawsuit. By skillfully getting their message out despite the media embargo, they ensured their clients' stories were heard, playing a key role in ensuring comprehensive justice along with the $10 million settlement.To learn more about the lawsuit, please visit: Black Lives Matter Injured Protesters Lawsuit - Stritmatter Kessler Koehler MooreThank you for listening! Follow Karen Koehler on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter.

    Life on overdrive: won't stop can't stop. Can she slow down?

    Play Episode Play 46 sec Highlight Listen Later Oct 9, 2023 20:17


    In this candid episode of "The Velvet Hammer," seasoned trial lawyer Karen Kohler takes listeners behind the scenes of her intense and demanding career, revealing the struggles and triumphs that come with fighting high-stakes legal battles. After decades in the field, Karen reflects on her journey from being one of the youngest members in the exclusive ABOTA trial bar to managing a bustling law firm, all while navigating the personal and professional challenges that come with it. She shares her internal conflict about dedicating time to legal organizations versus her moral missions and personal life. Karen openly discusses her relentless work ethic, the adrenaline of winning cases, and the perpetual quest for justice that keeps her going, even amidst the burnout that many lawyers face. Despite her packed schedule and the constant pull between career, causes, and personal life, Karen remains unapologetically passionate about her work, while also acknowledging the importance of family and close friends. Tune in to explore the intricate balance of a life fully lived in the pursuit of justice, and the contemplation of what truly matters when the gavel finally rests.Thank you for listening! Follow Karen Koehler on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter.

    Why I let sexual microaggressions slide – and wish I hadn't.

    Play Episode Play 47 sec Highlight Listen Later Jul 10, 2023 23:26


    This episode of The Velvet Hammer provides listeners with an eye-opening glimpse into the challenges faced by women in the legal profession. Karen delves into uncomfortable encounters she's experienced over the years in her legal career, exploring how these actions were a form of microaggression and a display of power dynamics. She examines the reasons why women, including herself, often ignore or downplay such situations, aiming to be seen as equal professionals rather than being defined by their gender or appearance.  Tune in to hear why she let sexual microaggressions slide – and wish she hadn't. Thank you for listening! Follow Karen Koehler on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter.

    Karen Gets Coached. Lesson #1 - Acknowledgment.

    Play Episode Play 49 sec Highlight Listen Later Jun 23, 2023 28:00


    As the managing partner of The Stritmatter Firm, Karen's role extends beyond a trial lawyer. In this episode of The Velvet Hammer, Karen discusses her recent experiences with two Communication Coaches, one for firm-wide matters and another for personal development. Now, you might wonder why she's discussing coaching and counseling so openly with her listeners. Isn't that topic meant to be private? Absolutely! However, the legal profession rarely broaches this topic, which to Karen, in itself, calls for introspection. Tune in to hear more. 

    Dear big bad defense lawyer. Bring it on.

    Play Episode Play 30 sec Highlight Listen Later Jun 15, 2023 12:57 Transcription Available


    In this episode of the Velvet Hammer, Seattle trial lawyer Karen Koehler shares her experiences dealing with the big bad insurance defense lawyers.  From their pack mentality to the insufferable superiority complex, Karen is a street punk fighter ready to take on the challenge. Thank you for listening! Follow Karen Koehler on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter.

    Drunk Driver Horror Stories

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2023 19:59


    In this episode of the Velvet Hammer, Seattle trial lawyer Karen Koehler discusses the devastating consequences of drunk driving, her frustration with the delayed legal processes, and the need for stricter accountability for drunk drivers. Thank you for listening! Follow Karen Koehler on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter.

    Lame late tactical apology - not accepted

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2023 18:31


    In this episode of The Velvet Hammer, Karen Koehler discusses lame late tactical apologies. Thank you for listening! Follow Karen Koehler on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter.

    Money: the impact of how plaintiff lawyers are paid.

    Play Episode Play 60 sec Highlight Listen Later Feb 15, 2023 24:58


    Thank you for listening! Follow Karen Koehler on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter.

    On aggressiveness: a mandatory trial lawyer trait

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2023 25:04


    In this episode of the Velvet Hammer, Seattle trial lawyer Karen Koehler discusses the quality of being aggressive as an attorney. Thank you for listening! Follow Karen Koehler on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter.

    The grief of losing a trial

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2023 27:47


    In this episode of the Velvet Hammer, Seattle trial lawyer Karen Koehler describes the grief of losing a trial. Thank you for listening! Follow Karen Koehler on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter.

    The human toll of being in trial a lot

    Play Episode Play 58 sec Highlight Listen Later Nov 14, 2022 28:11


    In this episode of the Velvet Hammer, Seattle trial lawyer Karen Koehler discusses the toll of being in trial a lot. Thank you for listening! Follow Karen Koehler on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter.

    S3 Episode 12: Nasty Defense

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2022 27:27


    In this episode of the Velvet Hammer, Seattle trial lawyer Karen Koehler reflects on the nasty defense lawyer from her latest trial.Read about the trial here. Thank you for listening! Follow Karen Koehler on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter.

    S3 Episode 11: Mad at the Judge

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2022 30:33


    In this episode of the Velvet Hammer, Seattle trial lawyer Karen Koehler is mad at a judge. 

    S3 Episode 10: Bad Mediation

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2022 24:03


    In this episode of the Velvet Hammer, Seattle trial lawyer Karen Koehler discusses her thoughts on the differences between good and bad mediators. 

    S3 Episode 9: From Autopsy Photos to Ghosts of Clients Past

    Play Episode Play 30 sec Highlight Listen Later Jun 15, 2022 15:24


    In this episode of the Velvet Hammer, Karen Koehler discusses her cases involving death by shooting. In an autopsy, the medical examiner takes dozens of photos of the body. Karen describes how she determines what autopsy photos of her clients killed by bullets should be used in trial, the other side's argument to withhold the images from the jury, and the importance of designating the autopsy photos as evidence in trial.  Warning - this episode includes detailed descriptions of death by shooting and autopsies. Please exercise discretion in listening. 

    S3 Episode 8: What a Mess: a Postscript on Depp v Heard

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2022 29:44


    In this episode of the Velvet Hammer, Karen discusses the Depp v Heard trial as a trial lawyer who did not watch the tumultuous six-week trial. 

    S3 Episode 7: Fake Gross Lawyer Awards

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2022 17:34


    In this episode of the Velvet Hammer, Karen discusses attorney awards. Read the Wall Street Journal article she references here. 

    S3 Episode 6: Warning – may be approaching burnout: a discussion and therapy session with law clerk (daughter) Alysha

    Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2022 33:40


    In this episode of the Velvet Hammer, Karen sits down with her law clerk (and daughter) Alysha to discuss burnout.Connect with Alysha here. 

    S3 Episode 5: Civil Murder Trial Debrief Part 2: McNamara v. Nessl $3.327M Verdict

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2022 33:30


    In this episode of the Velvet Hammer, Karen sits down with Attorney Furhad Sultani for part two of their discussion of the McNamara civil murder trial. Read about the Estate of McNamara v. Nessl here.

    S3 Episode 5: Civil Murder Trial Debrief Part 1: McNamara v. Nessl $3.327M Verdict

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2022 28:26


    In this episode of the Velvet Hammer, Karen sits down with Attorney Furhad Sultani who assisted her in the three-week civil murder trial that took place in Grant County, Washington from March 7th to March 25th.  Read about the Estate of McNamara v. Nessl  here.

    S3 Episode 4: On Flubbing - the good, the bad, the embarrassing

    Play Episode Play 30 sec Highlight Listen Later Feb 28, 2022 25:30


    In this episode of the Velvet Hammer, Seattle trial lawyer Karen Koehler discusses lessons learned from making mistakes. karenkoehler.comstritmatter.com

    S3 Episode 3: Am I too busy? Yes, and I like it.

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2022 22:46


    February 8, 2022The Velvet Hammer with Karen Koehler S3 Episode 3: Am I too busy? Yes, and I like it.In this episode of the Velvet Hammer, Seattle trial lawyer Karen Koehler discusses her busy schedule, work-life balance (or lack thereof). Follow Karen here.Read more about Karen's work at Stritmatter Kessler Koehler Moore here. 

    S3 Episode 2: Why I Like to Sue: Case Studies

    Play Episode Play 30 sec Highlight Listen Later Jan 19, 2022 23:01


    January 19, 2022The Velvet Hammer with Karen Koehler S3 Episode 2: Why I Like to Sue: Case StudiesIn this episode of the Velvet Hammer, Seattle trial lawyer Karen Koehler discusses why she likes to take on a case because it's a righteous cause. Follow Karen here.Read more about Karen's work at Stritmatter Kessler Koehler Moore here. 

    S3 Episode 1: The importance of being ruthless: lessons from the defense

    Play Episode Play 30 sec Highlight Listen Later Jan 6, 2022 27:41


    January 6, 2022The Velvet HammerS3 Episode 1: The importance of being ruthless: lessons from the defenseIn the first episode of Season Three of the Velvet Hammer, Seattle trial lawyer Karen Koehler discusses the importance of being ruthless. Follow Karen here.Read more about Karen's work at Stritmatter Kessler Koehler Moore here. 

    S2 Episode 34: The trial lawyer who got COVID.

    Play Episode Play 30 sec Highlight Listen Later Dec 29, 2021 19:57


    December 29, 2021The Velvet Hammer with Karen KoehlerS2 Episode 34: The trial lawyer who got COVID. In this episode of The Velvet Hammer, Karen Koehler discusses how a trial lawyer gets COVID. Follow Karen here.Read more about Karen's work at Stritmatter Kessler Koehler Moore here. 

    S2 Episode 33: Have you had an affair - furious thoughts about “civility”

    Play Episode Play 30 sec Highlight Listen Later Nov 18, 2021 14:35


    November 18, 2021The Velvet Hammer with Karen KoehlerS2 Episode 33: Have you had an affair - furious thoughts about “civility”In this episode of the Velvet Hammer, Seattle trial lawyer Karen Koehler discusses the concept of "civility". To learn more about Karen: Follow Karen here.Read more about Karen's work at Stritmatter Kessler Koehler Moore here. 

    S2 Episode 32: Master No More: on re-examining our language

    Play Episode Play 30 sec Highlight Listen Later Nov 5, 2021 12:22


    November 5, 2021The Velvet Hammer with Karen KoehlerS2 Episode 32: Master No More: on re-examining our languageIn this episode of the Velvet Hammer, Seattle trial lawyer Karen Koehler takes a stand against the word "master" and joins the movement to "un-master" our language. "It's not conscientious to just rely upon history of usage and complacency".  To learn more about Karen: Follow Karen here.Read more about Karen's work at Stritmatter Kessler Koehler Moore here. 

    S2 Episode 31: Dear Judge Make Her Stop - Stories of Defense Lawyers Trying to Shut Down Plaintiff Counsel

    Play Episode Play 30 sec Highlight Listen Later Oct 22, 2021 29:29


    October 22, 2021The Velvet Hammer with Karen KoehlerS2 Episode 31: Dear Judge Make Her Stop - Stories of Defense Lawyers Trying to Shut Down Plaintiff CounselIn this episode of the Velvet Hammer, Seattle trial lawyer Karen Koehler discusses stories of defense lawyers trying to shut down plaintiff counsel. She addresses how perseverance is everything in the life of a trial lawyer. To learn more about Karen: Follow Karen here.Read more about Karen's work at Stritmatter Kessler Koehler Moore here. 

    S2 Episode 30: Standing Up To Bullying - My Ongoing Fight with JHB

    Play Episode Play 32 sec Highlight Listen Later Sep 28, 2021 21:50


    September 28, 2021The Velvet Hammer with Karen KoehlerS2 Episode 30: Standing Up To Bullying - My Ongoing Fight with JHBIn this episode of the Velvet Hammer, Seattle trial lawyer Karen Koehler discusses her ongoing fight with criminal defense lawyer JHB and the importance of standing up for herself. "See, there's part hammer in me. I'm not always just Velvet. Over and out". Read the blog post mentioned at  00:38 here. Follow Karen here.Read more about Karen's work at Stritmatter Kessler Koehler Moore here. 

    S2 Episode 29: Going up against the state - a zoom motion story

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2021 32:59


    Going up against the state - a zoom motion story

    S2 Episode 28: Single parent lawyer dating

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2021 29:42


    Dating as a single parent and a lawyer.

    S2 Episode 27: Should I start dating - Alysha ponders my lack of love life.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2021 27:11


     Should I start dating - Alysha ponders my lack of love life. 

    S2 Episode 26: Mean girl - thoughts on cancel culture

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2021 27:51


    Mean girl: thoughts on cancel culture

    S2 Episode 25: The all white male club part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2021 35:21


    The second of 2 episodes about the all white male club. 

    S2 Episode 24: The all white male club - a rant

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 13, 2021 20:38


    The all white male club - a rant 

    S2 Episode 23: New Lawyer podcast 2- prepare or risk the big choke.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2021 26:24


    New Lawyer podcast 2: prepare or risk the big choke.

    S2 Episode 22: Do I really talk too much - on the struggle to have a voice

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2021 18:12


    Do I really talk too much - on the struggle to have a voice 

    S2 Episode 21: On breakups and grieving as a trial lawyer - thoughts on how to not fall apart at work and life

    Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2021 25:55


    On breakups and grieving as a trial lawyer:  thoughts on how to not fall apart at work and life 

    S2 Episode 20: My law school was held in an old department store - thoughts on the elitism of the institution.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2021 23:18


    My law school was held in an old department store: thoughts on the elitism of the institution. 

    S2 Episode 19 - New Lawyer podcast 1: Do you have the personality to be a plaintiff trial lawyer.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2021 43:08


     New Lawyer podcast 1:  Do you have the personality to be a plaintiff trial lawyer.  

    S2 Episode 18: Thank you mom for causing us so much embarrassment: a trial lawyer's journey from shame to resilience

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2021 24:37


     Thank you mom for causing us so much embarrassment:  a trial lawyer's journey from shame to resilience   

    S2 Episode 17: On being competitive - the good, the bad, and oooh the jealousy

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 30, 2021 21:19


    On being competitive - the good, the bad, and oooh the jealousy

    S2 Episode 16: Judicial smack downs

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2021 28:03


    Judicial smack downs 

    S2 Episode 15: How not to do a terrible direct exam

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2021 28:54


    How not to do a terrible direct exam

    S2 Episode 14: The wreckage they leave behind: Drunk and high drivers

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2021 25:05


     The wreckage they leave behind: Drunk and high drivers

    S2 Episode 13: How to tell a story - on themes and fairy tales

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 30, 2020 26:14


    How to tell a story - on themes and fairy tales

    S2 Episode 12: The braggy lawyer

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2020 17:35


    The braggy lawyer 

    S2 Episode 11: Real versus fake vulnerability

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 8, 2020 27:35


    Real versus fake vulnerability 

    S2 Episode 10: Bad things zoom does

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2020 24:13


    Bad things zoom does 

    S2 Episode 9: An inside look at our first Covid trial Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 2, 2020 27:04


    An inside look at our first COVID trial. Part 1

    S2 Episode 8: Do not interrupt me: why following the rules and being polite doesn't always work

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2020 28:25


    why following the rules and being polite doesn't always work

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