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Today, John and Shaun get real about celibacy, the unexpected wisdom of edging and what it means to hold space for change. As they dive into how we show up for friends, and navigate endings with grace (or not), they explore what it means to sit with discomfort and desire.Also on the table: sex in senior living homes, prostate surprises, and the enduring mystery of midnight erections.And then comes the twist: a conversation that starts with podcast logistics quickly turns into something deeper—a surprising reveal that could shift the future of the show. It's heartfelt, awkward, and unmistakably human.Resources Mentioned:The multi orgasmic male book HERELeave a one-minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001.Enjoying the show? Don't forget to subscribe, also rate us on Spotify, and leave a comment - we read every single one (yes, even the spicy ones)!Please take a moment and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts. Your support truly means the world to us!Find out more about John HERE.Follow John on Instagram HERE.Find out more about Shaun HERE.Follow Shaun on Instagram HERE.

Today, John and Shaun get real about what it means to let go - with grace, awkwardness, and a few unexpected laughs. As the podcast edges toward its final episodes, they reflect on the shifting dynamics of friendship, the tension between presence and performance, and the quiet courage it takes to speak the truth out loud. From lighthearted debates about minivans and shower preferences to deeper moments of emotional honesty, this conversation holds space for both the silly and the sincere - and leaves room for what comes next.Mentions:The Costa Rica reel that got John in hot water HERELeave a one-minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001.Enjoying the show? Don't forget to subscribe, also rate us on Spotify, and leave a comment - we read every single one (yes, even the spicy ones)!Please take a moment and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts. Your support truly means the world to us!Find out more about John HERE.Follow John on Instagram HERE.Find out more about Shaun HERE.Follow Shaun on Instagram HERE.

Today, John and Shaun get real about psychedelic revelations, aging skin, and why they're rethinking what makes their podcast worth doing. From John's guided MDMA session and a “my mom never hugged me” breakthrough, to Shaun's retinol skincare journey and anti-aging the natural way, this episode rides the line between hilarity and healing.They dive into the tension of overcommitting, how time and money shape creative work, and whether Burning Man is really a sex fest (spoiler: not exactly, but there is a Foamy Homies shower rave). Also on the table: the wisdom of the cock, erectile dysfunction in your 50s, and how your penis might actually be trying to tell you something.It's introspective, a little chaotic, and full of naked honesty—both literally and emotionally. Plus: Reese's Peanut Butter Cup debates, perimenopause shoutouts, and Shaun's upcoming Love Camp at Kripalu.Resources & Mentions:Frownies - The Original Wrinkle Patch Dr. Bronner's: The Original All-One Magic Soap and More!Shaun's Love Camp : The Power of Connection and Play in RelationshipsLeave a one-minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001.Enjoying the show? Don't forget to subscribe, also rate us on Spotify, and leave a comment - we read every single one (yes, even the spicy ones)!Please take a moment and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts. Your support truly means the world to us!Find out more about John HERE.Follow John on Instagram HERE.Find out more about Shaun HERE.Follow Shaun on Instagram HERE.

Today, John and Shaun open up about emotional honesty, the fear of being too much, and the art of letting others take care of you. From cock ring experiments and therapist breakthroughs to growing up without unconditional love, they explore the tangled roots of worthiness and connection. Also: the Love Drive podcast is making a comeback, and the house cleaner found the cock rings.They dive into what it means to feel safe in romantic vulnerability, Shaun's fear of scaring people away with his sadness, and how early family dynamics shape our adult intimacy patterns. Shaun gets real about doubting his long-term relationship potential and shares his top five non-negotiables for a lasting partnership—including space to be silly, emotional resilience, and yes, vanilla sex.Dr. MC McDonald joins the conversation with reflections on The Joy Reset, her new book about why joy isn't a luxury - it's a vital part of healing. They talk about survivor's guilt, the duty of joy, and how to support friends in messy relationships without playing savior. There's also a candid take on how porn misleads us, why advocating for your desires matters, and what happens when your therapist tells you,"there's a little me inside of you." It's tender, funny, and full of unexpected wisdom.Resources Mentioned:Follow Dr. MaryCatherine McDonald on → InstagramPre-order or grab a copy of her new book → The Joy ResetAlso check out her first book → Unbroken: The Trauma Response Is Never WrongCurious about exploring your desires? Try the Yes, No, Maybe list by AutostraddleLeave a one-minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001.Enjoying the show? Don't forget to subscribe, also rate us on Spotify, and leave a comment - we read every single one (yes, even the spicy ones)!Please take a moment and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts. Your support truly means the world to us!Find out more about John HERE.Follow John on Instagram HERE.Find out more about Shaun HERE.Follow Shaun on Instagram HERE.

Today, John and Shaun get real about singlehood, morning moods, and what it means to wake up feeling alone. From retirement fund fears and post-fire perspective shifts to questioning whether AI can truly touch hearts, they explore how life—and money—quietly reshapes us. Also on the table: LA as the land of opportunity and the timeless wisdom of Winnie the Pooh.They dive into why we're drawn to emotionally unavailable partners, the love we grew up with, and what it means to truly be seen. Shaun opens up about feeling like the one who always reaches out, while John reflects on letting go of career attachments. It's intimate, a little raw, and full of moments that stay with you long after the episode ends.John's 7-day challenge starts April 22nd. Join now and start shifting today HERELeave a one-minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001Enjoying the show? Don't forget to subscribe, also rate us on Spotify, and leave a comment—we read every single one (yes, even the spicy ones)! Please take a moment and leave us a review Apple Podcasts. Your support truly means the world to us!Find out more about John HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about Shaun HEREFollow Shaun on Instagram HERE

Today, John and Shaun ride the roller coaster of texting anxiety, threesomes, slippery self-care hacks, and the occasional social media meltdown. They break down why a simple “Good morning” text can feel like a high-stakes game and the many unexpected uses of coconut and olive oils.Special guest, Lydia from Face Yoga by Lydia, joins to prove that, yes, your face needs a workout too. Expect expert guidance from Lydia and some endearingly awkward attempts from John and Shaun as they stretch and sculpt their way to eternal youth.The duo also reflects on the emotional toll of online backlash and how it can unexpectedly get under your skin. And finally, they unpack the "Blowing Brian" story—plus a few very personal confessions along the way.A little humor, a little wisdom, and a lot of things you can't un-hear. Buckle up.Resources Mentioned:Face Yoga with Lydia → faceyogawithlydia.comKripalu Love Camp → kripalu.org/presenters-programs/love-campThe Instagram post that caused a stir → instagram.com/p/DHt6dbiyzQNLeave a one-minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001.Enjoying the show? Don't forget to subscribe, also rate us on Spotify, and leave a comment - we read every single one (yes, even the spicy ones)!Please take a moment and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts. Your support truly means the world to us!Find out more about John HERE.Follow John on Instagram HERE.Find out more about Shaun HERE.Follow Shaun on Instagram HERE.

Today, John and Shaun dive into the orgasm gap—why so many women aren't reaching the finish line in the bedroom. They break down the importance of communication in sex, myths around male performance, and why “homie, your dick's not enough.”They're joined by guest, Sabrina Zohar, who shares her insights on modern dating, picky partners, and how unrealistic checklists keep people single. Plus, is blue balls a real thing? Should every guy read She Comes First? And why sometimes, you just need to tap out.People & Resources Mentioned:Follow Sabrina on Instagram HEREFind out more about Sabrina HEREShe Comes First by Ian KernerGood Enough Mother – Donald WinnicottIf you're enjoying the show, please take a moment to leave us a review on Apple Podcasts. Your support means the world!Follow Us:Find out more about John HERE | Follow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about Shaun HERE | Follow Shaun on Instagram HERE

Today, John and Shaun talk about the struggles of aging, navigating dietary changes, and the unexpected joys of pooping on command. They also discuss the concept of "optimistic nihilism" and the blurred lines between platonic and romantic relationships.They share thoughts on speed dating, social media jealousy, and whether liking photos online is harmless or a sign of "leaky energy." Plus, Shaun opens up about his ski trip, his new “ski wife,” and the complications of modern relationships.People & Social Links:Dayan Kolev on Instagram: @dayan.koleEpisode Resources & Events: Love Better (Forced Fun) retreat: https://www.tatretreats.com/lovebetter The Feels – A unique dating event experience: https://catchthefeels.co/ John & Shaun's Spring Retreat – April 18-20, their last retreat together in California before John's move to Costa Rica. Sign up HEREPlease take a moment and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts. Your review means the world to us.Find out more about John HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about Shaun HEREFollow Shaun on Instagram HERE

Today, John and Shaun talk about hair insecurities, moving to Costa Rica, and the challenge of making big life changes. They also discuss dating in Los Angeles, social anxiety, and the importance of stepping out of your comfort zone.As they look ahead, John and Shaun brainstorm ways to expand the podcast, from guest appearances on other shows to adding expert guests of their own. Shaun shares insights from a podcast agent he met at a recent party, and they reflect on how networking (even when you don't feel like it) can open unexpected doors.Plus, they answer a listener's question about struggling with loneliness after divorce and offer advice on rebuilding a fulfilling life.Resources Mentioned:The No BS Guide to Writing & Selling Your Book – John's step-by-step program to help you turn your ideas into a published book.Leave a one-minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001Find out more about Shaun and John's Spring retreat HEREPlease take a moment and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts. Your review means the world to us.Find out more about John HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about Shaun HEREFollow Shaun on Instagram HERE

Today, John and Shaun talk about internal misogyny, dating older women, how they lost their virginity, and starting over. They also answer two listeners' questions: how do you know when you're ready to have kids, and how do you learn to trust yourself and your intuition?You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001Find out more about Shaun and John's Spring retreat HEREPlease take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us. Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE

Today, John and Shaun talk about different styles of communication, the American dream, the meaning behind tattoos, and relocating outside of Los Angeles. They also answer two listeners' questions: what was the skateboarding life like for you guys, and what's the best way to disclose to someone that I have herpes?You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001Find out more about Shaun and John's Spring retreat HEREPlease take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us. Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HEREFind out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠

Today, Shaun and John talk about their recent Valentine's Day retreat, past addictive behaviors, Shaun's new sex toy, and the benefits of using cock rings in the bedroom. They also answer and give advice on a listener's question: how can you help your partner without feeling like you're mothering them?You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001Check out Shaun's new sex toy HEREPlease take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us. Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HEREFollow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HEREFind out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠

Today, Shaun and John talk about break ups, their Valentine's Day retreat, making platonic friends, and celebrity drama. They also answer and give advice on a listener's question: why don't men make more noise in the bedroom?You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001Please take a moment and leave us a review on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us.Find out more about John's Breakthrough ExperienceHEREFind out more information about the Love Thyself: Valentine's Day Retreat⁠⁠HEREFind out more about John⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow John on Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Find out more about Shaun⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Shaun on Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠

Today, Shaun and John talk about rebuilding after loss, their struggles getting older, the pressure to be productive, and comparing yourself to others on social media. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: how can men approach women without being “creepy,” and how do you know when you should leave a toxic relationship? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us. Find out more about John's Breakthrough Experience HERE Find out more information about the Love Thyself: Valentine's Day Retreat ⁠HERE

Today, Shaun and John talk about their relationship with sweets, new love experiences, and making friends in Los Angeles. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: how do I make friends and meet new people when I struggle with social anxiety, and can people stop using delivery apps and go out instead since it's so hard to meet people in person nowadays?  You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us.  Find out more information about the Love Thyself: Valentine's Day Retreat ⁠⁠HERE⁠ Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠

Today, Shaun and John talk about their fears regarding the aftermath of the LA fires, thirty day diet challenges, Shaun's successful first date, and digital detoxes. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: how can I navigate feeling guilty for not wanting to spend time with my friend's kids, and what does it mean when someone says they need to “cool off” from the relationship?  You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us.  Find out more information about the Love Thyself: Valentine's Day Retreat ⁠HERE As some of you might know, John and his family lost their home in the LA fires. John has started a GoFundMe to support friends and families in Altadena and help with basic needs such as shelter, food, and clothing. If you called to donate, please do so HERE Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠

Today, Shaun and John talk about the LA fires, their Valentine's Day retreat, and how to help those who were affected by this tragedy. They also listen to a voicemail from one of their followers who lost their home in the fires. You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 As some of you might know, John and his family lost their home in the LA fires. John has started a GoFundMe to support friends and families in Altadena and help with basic needs such as shelter, food, and clothing. If you called to donate, please do so here: ⁠ https://www.gofundme.com/f/basics-needed-for-friends-who-lost-their-homes-today⁠ Sending love to all those affected by the LA fires. Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us.  Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ Find out more information about the Love Thyself: Valentine's Day Retreat ⁠HERE

Hey folks. As some of you might know, John and his family lost their home in the LA fires. John has started a GoFundMe to support friends and families in Altadena and help with basic needs such as shelter, food, and clothing. If you called to donate, please do so here: https://www.gofundme.com/f/basics-needed-for-friends-who-lost-their-homes-today If you were planning on joining our retreat, signing up sooner rather than later is also helpful. Do that here: https://the-angry-therapist.myshopify.com/products/love-thyself-a-winter-retreat-for-singles-with-john-kim-and-shaun-galanos Sending love to all those affected by the LA fires. Today, Shaun and John talk about appreciating what they already have, digital detoxes, their morning routines, and gratitude. They also answer a listener's question: what should I do when my partner asks for space? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Sign up for Love Thyself: Valentine's Day Retreat ⁠⁠HERE⁠ Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us.  Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠

Today, Shaun and John talk about motorcycles, things they need to work on with their parents, feedback from their first live show, and shared phone plans. They also answer and give advice on a listener's question: do mixed sobriety relationships work? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Find out more information about the Love Thyself: Valentine's Day Retreat ⁠⁠HERE⁠ Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us.  Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠

Today, Shaun and John talk about choosing a child-free life, fitness, spiritually, and being of service by sharing your gifts. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: where's the line between being the best version of yourself and being lazy or selfish for prioritizing your needs, and how do you maintain a friendship with someone who doesn't think women are viewed or treated differently in society?  You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us.  Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ Find out more information about the Love Thyself: Valentine's Day Retreat ⁠HERE

Today, Shaun and John do a live podcast recording on the rooftop of the Mama Shelter hotel in Hollywood, California. We talk about dating app fatigue, how to feel confident in LA when it's easy to feel insecure, Shaun's new sex toy collaboration, and we take live questions from the audience about regaining sexual confidence, dating outside the apps, and more! It's a special one, folks. You can leave a one-minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Get your own Girls Get Off x The Love Drive Glass Wand: https://girlsgetoff.com/products/elle-glass-wand Thank you to Mama Shelter in Hollywood for hosting us: https://mamashelter.com/los-angeles/#menu&open=rooftop Sign up for the Love Thyself Winter Retreat for Singles on February 14, 15, and 16, 2025: https://the-angry-therapist.myshopify.com/products/love-thyself-a-winter-retreat-for-singles-with-john-kim-and-shaun-galanos

Today, Shaun and John talk about what they want for themselves in 2025, showing emotion by crying, and wounded masculine and feminine energies vs sacred masculine and feminine energies. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: should women hold back and make the men they're dating chase them, and how do I become less avoidant and not get the “ick” in the early stages of dating? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 RSVP to We Can Do Better Live Podcast at Mama Shelter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ Find out more information about the Love Thyself: Valentine's Day Retreat ⁠⁠HERE⁠ Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us.  Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠

Today, Shaun and John talk about their upcoming live podcast at Mama Shelter, their Valentine's Day retreat, depression, and what women look for in men. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: what should you do when you're dating someone who doesn't want the same things as you, and any advice on how to handle a long distance relationship when you both have kids? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 RSVP to We Can Do Better Live Podcast at Mama Shelter HERE Find out more information about the Love Thyself: Valentine's Day Retreat HERE Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us.  Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠

Today, Shaun and John talk about quitting nicotine, their addictions, complexities of parental relationships, and generational views on money. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: how do I know if I'm being too picky choosing a partner, and do you have any advice on how to channel more of my feminine energy? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us.  Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠

Today, Shaun and John talk about a skill Shaun's secretly good at (fixing bikes), communal living, Bitcoin, and money. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: should men be making a certain amount of money before getting into a relationship, and how can my new boyfriend and I navigate fiances? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us.  Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠

Today, Shaun and John talk about a skill Shaun's secretly good at (fixing bikes), communal living, Bitcoin, and money. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: should men be making a certain amount of money before getting into a relationship, and how can my new boyfriend and I navigate fiances? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us.  Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠

Today, Shaun and John talk about riding motorcycles, happy endings, al-anon meetings, and supporting sex workers. They also share positive feedback from their listeners, and answer a listener's question: how do I begin self-reflecting on my tendencies to cheat? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Find out more about al-anon meetings HERE Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us.  Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠

Today, Shaun and John talk about Shaun's big move to Los Angeles, John and Vanessa's wedding in Mexico, and how people respond to men crying. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: what does “we can do better” mean in politics for the male community right now, and how can we do better for women's safety and rights in the US? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us.  Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠

Today, Shaun and John talk about cutting people out because of political differences, John's new tattoo, Shaun's apartment hunt in LA, and feedback from their listeners. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: have you ever thought about having a threesome with John's wife, Vanessa, and do you have any tips or advice on dating in your 40's? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠

Today, Shaun and John talk about cutting people out because of political differences, John's new tattoo, Shaun's apartment hunt in LA, and feedback from their listeners. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: have you ever thought about having a threesome with John's wife, Vanessa, and do you have any tips or advice on dating in your 40's? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us.  Jump into John's new Single. On Purpose app HERE Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠

Today, Shaun and John talk about Shaun's big move to Los Angeles, John and Vanessa's wedding in Mexico, and how people respond to men crying. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: what does “we can do better” mean in politics for the male community right now, and how can we do better for women's safety and rights in the US? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us.  Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠

Today, Shaun and John talk about riding motorcycles, happy endings, al-anon meetings, and supporting sex workers. They also share positive feedback from their listeners, and answer a listener's question: how do I begin self-reflecting on my tendencies to cheat?  You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Find out more about al-anon meetings ⁠⁠HERE ⁠⁠ Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us.  Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠

Today, John and Shaun talk about fear, negative feedback from listeners, asking for what you need, and male body and bedroom insecurities. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: how do you get the courage to leave a marriage, and how do you deal with jealous feelings in a relationship? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us.  Jump into John's new Single. On Purpose app HERE Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠

Today, John and Shaun talk about jet skiing to Catalina, their first fight, being seen v.s. fitting in, and repairing after conflict. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: how do I avoid getting into unhealthy relationships, and how much information should I share about my divorce on the first few dates? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us.  Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠

Today, John and Shaun talk about Shaun's first tattoo, getting rejected after one date, different types of breakups, and more “icks” in dating. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: how do you move on from a breakup that completely blindsided you, and how do you stop feeling unworthy after a breakup? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us.  You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Jump into John's Single. On Purpose app HERE Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠

Today, John and Shaun talk about their parents, post travel blues, overthinking your first tattoo, and upcoming creative projects. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: how do I reverse having "the ick" for someone I'm dating, and how long does it take for someone to get over infidelity? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us. Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠

Today, Shaun and John talk about tattoos, MIGs (most inappropriate guests) at weddings, and not wanting to have kids. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: should I tell someone their partner is cheating on them, and the men I date don't want anything serious after a few months - is it personal? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us. Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠

Today, Shaun and John discuss making romantic connections while traveling, feedback from listeners about consent, sex parties in Berlin, and skinny dipping. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: why does Shaun want to have a "super slutty hot girl summer" instead of a "f*ck boy summer," and is there a list of fool proof questions to ask someone to be more serious with you? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us. Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠

Today, John and Shaun talk about nudity, dating without relying on technology, verbal consent, and ghosting. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: will men lose interest in women if they want to be friends with benefits but without penetration, and how can people flirt without it turning into dirty talk? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us. Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠

Today, John and Shaun discuss travel, dropping into your body, who pays on the first date, and using dating apps to make friends. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: what's the best way to communicate interest in someone after the first date without scaring them off, and how do I check my male friend who's going down a toxic self improvement rabbit hole? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us. Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠

Today, John and Shaun talk about John's first time taking Molly, anal play, threesomes, and ethical porn. They also listen to a few dirty voicemails and give advice on two listeners' questions: why can't men be just as noisy as women in the bedroom, and how does one become more comfortable with dirty talk? Here are the links Shaun and John were talking about in today's episode! A Worksheet To Help You Talk To Partners About Sex How To Dirty Talk Ethical Porn: xconfessions.com (Erika Lust) & Makelovenotporn.tv (Cindy Gallop) You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us. Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠

Today, John and Shaun discuss emotional safety in the bedroom, erectile dysfunction, and compromise in friendships. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: what's the best way to be vulnerable with your partner so they don't use it against you, and am I wasting my time dating people who aren't looking for a serious relationship when I want one? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us. Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠

Today, Shaun and John discuss controlling behaviors that show up unconsciously, breaking up with friends, and providing a safe space for men on this podcast. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: what's the concept behind "bros before hoes," and how do you deal with libido differences in a long term relationship? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠Apple Podcasts⁠. Your review means the world to us. Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠

Today, John and Shaun talk about their recent retreat experiences, celebrity man crushes, and their first blowjobs. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: Is it a woman's responsibility to ask the man she's dating to go down on her, and how do I know when (or if) I should pull the plug on a connection after giving it a fair chance? You can leave a one-minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts. Your review means the world to us. Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠

Today, Shaun and John talk about how men struggle to be vulnerable, abandonment wounds from childhood, thirst traps, and their new voicemail hotline. They also answer two listener questions: how should I tell my boyfriend he's leaving skid marks on the bedsheets? And where do I find a good man to date after doing the inner work and being single for so long? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠

Today, John and Shaun discuss how they handle criticism on social media, men getting vasectomies, using sex toys in the bedroom, and hall passes for celebrity crushes. They also answer a listener's question and give advice about whether women should wait for men to chase them, or if they should ask men out first. Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠

Today, Shaun and John discuss hairstyle insecurities, aging, and the ethics of keeping exes' nudes. They bring on two live caller's and give advice on how to bring more flirty energy into your life, and what to do about a boyfriend's panty kink. Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠

Today, Shaun and John touch on their kinks, seeking therapy, experiences growing up, and “parts work.” They also bring on their first two live callers and answer their questions. The first caller asks how to set boundaries and distance yourself from unhealthy people. The second caller seeks their guidance on coping with anger towards systemic injustices and daily dilemmas.  Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠

Today, Shaun and John discuss the concept of 'nectar' as a source of joy, and retiring the term 'Big Dick Energy.' For the Q&A, they tackle when to define the relationship and what the most appropriate age gap in relationships is. Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠

In this episode, John and Shaun discuss various topics, including Canadian Independence Day, moving day in Montreal, and the challenges of scheduling callers for the podcast. They also talk about the insecurity of losing hair, the trend of wearing ankle socks, the potential side effects of hair transplants, sexual terms like 'stealthing', and their experiences with baldness and riding motorcycles. Finally, they explore the topics of keeping mementos from past relationships, retroactive jealousy, threesomes, and much more. Here are the links Shaun was talking about in this episode: Yoga Nidra For Deep Rest Radish House, Oakland Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠HERE

In this episode, John and Shaun touch on the feedback they've gotten about their new podcast, and the challenges of dealing with negative comments and criticism. They also discuss topics such as leaving voicemails to deceased parents, disclosing herpes status, dealing with the silent treatment from an adult child, exes watching social media stories, and much more. You can read Shaun's article, How to Talk About Sexual Health For the First Time, HERE Find out more about John ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠HERE