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How much truth is too much truth? What if you feel ready for disclosure, but your partner doesn't? What's the actual goal of a therapeutic disclosure—and how do you know when you're ready?In this episode, we sit down with Dan Drake, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and expert in betrayal trauma and sex addiction recovery. Dan unpacks the basics of therapeutic disclosure, a structured process where the full truth of sexual betrayal is disclosed in a safe, supported setting. He shares the potential risks and profound benefits of doing disclosure correctly, and clears up common misconceptions, especially among the men preparing to disclose and the women bracing for impact.Whether you're just beginning the recovery process or preparing for a formal disclosure, this conversation offers compassionate guidance, clinical insight, and hope for deeper healing on the other side of the truth.About Our Guest: Dan Drake, LMFT, LPCC, CCPS-S, CSAT-S, is the founder of The Banyan Group, a therapy and coaching practice specializing in betrayal trauma, compulsive sexual behavior, and couples recovery. With over 20 years of clinical experience, Dan is widely respected for his work helping couples rebuild trust through the process of therapeutic disclosure and long-term recovery. Learn more about Dan's work at www.thebanyangroup.org.Key Topics Discussed:What is therapeutic disclosure, and why does it matter?How do you know if you're ready for a disclosure (as the betrayed or the betrayer)?What role does the polygraph play in disclosure, and when is it helpful?Why disclosure isn't just a one-time confession but a step toward rebuilding trustCommon misunderstandings men and women bring into the processTips for doing disclosure remotely, safely, and with good aftercareA powerful final encouragement from Dan for both spouses on the healing pathConnect with Us:
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