Podcasts about undealt

Undealt with childhood trauma can last for years or even decades. If that's part of your past, how do you move forward in a healthy direction? Jim Daly talks with Dr. Roland Warren, who faced a lot of trauma growing up, and has learned to overcome it. John and Danny will also encourage you that it's never too late to find healing.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/parentingpodcast. Or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Receive the book Raising Sons of Promise for your donation of any amount!   Learn About the 7 Traits of Effective Parenting   Listen Anytime   How to Recognize the Warning Signs of Childhood Trauma   Contact our Counseling Department    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.  To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1197/29

Undealt with childhood trauma can last for years or even decades. If that's part of your past, how do you move forward in a healthy direction? Jim Daly talks with Dr. Roland Warren, who faced a lot of trauma growing up, and has learned to overcome it. John and Danny will also encourage you that it's never too late to find healing.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/parentingpodcast. Or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Receive the book Raising Sons of Promise for your donation of any amount!   Learn About the 7 Traits of Effective Parenting   Listen Anytime   How to Recognize the Warning Signs of Childhood Trauma   Contact our Counseling Department    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. 

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Undealt with pain from your childhood can sometimes come up unexpectedly in the ways you treat your spouse. John, Erin and Greg will encourage you to deal with wounds from your childhood. You'll also hear Jim Daly talk with Lisa Jacobson and Phylicia Masonheimer about the need for getting difficult things out in the open.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book The Flirtation Experiment for your donation of any amount!   Focus on Marriage Assessment   Listen Anytime   Contact our Counseling Department   Coping with Alienation, Anger, and Anxiety in Marriage   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Undealt with pain from your childhood can sometimes come up unexpectedly in the ways you treat your spouse. John, Erin and Greg will encourage you to deal with wounds from your childhood. You'll also hear Jim Daly talk with Lisa Jacobson and Phylicia Masonheimer about the need for getting difficult things out in the open.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book The Flirtation Experiment for your donation of any amount!   Focus on Marriage Assessment   Listen Anytime   Contact our Counseling Department   Coping with Alienation, Anger, and Anxiety in Marriage   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1196/29

Michelle is the owner and founder of The Esteemed Life, LLC, a personal development company to help women survivors of childhood sexual abuse regain their power and fall completely in love with themselves. Michelle has her own story of sexual abuse and wanted to help others navigate their journey. So, she started the podcast, Broken to Blessed to share her story and to offer tips and strategies to help others. She wrote about her story in Living in the Key of Joy, Vol III. She also contributed a story to Living in the Key of Joy Vol IV. Michelle enjoys reading, photography, and traveling when she is not working. Please listen, like, share, subscribe, follow, and support. If you want to support Ms V The Storyteller Podcast, please email me at valisonelliot@gmail.com or visit my website @msvthestoryteller.co. You can follow me on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, YouTube & LinkedIn at Ms. V The Storyteller or visit my website @ msvthestoryteller.co. Thanks for listening! The discount code is active now and it expires on February 29th at 11:29 pm EST. It is Storyteller10 for 10% off of the entire cart. It can only be used once per customer. The web address for the store is www.TheEsteemedShop.com. Michelle Info Website is www.MichelleHall.co and Https://livetheesteemedlife.com. Podcast is Broken to Blessed FB: https://www.facebook.com/TheEsteemedLife IG: @livetheesteemedlife Email: Michelle@livetheesteemedlife.com

Undealt with stress can take it's toll on your mind, emotions and body. Learn to identify the symptoms of stress in your life and not be held captive to it's effects.

Undealt anger can mask itself in various forms and resurface till we are honest with ourselves. In this episode, we continue our series on offense by addressing why we might still be angry over a situation that occurred in the past or present that we thought we dealt with, but the pain is still lingering. We explore some practical and psychological ideas and steps o uncover and address the pain and anger. Join us in the healing process.

Today, on Daily Faith, Pastor Dennis Watson, Senior Pastor of Celebration Church in Metairie, LA. Celebration Church is one of the ten campus locations in the greater New Orleans area, also having an international location in Costa Rica. Their mission is to help people encounter the presence of God, disciple, and teach them for the Kingdom of God. Pastor Dennis's message for God's people is key to finding hope in times of distress. In the perilous times we currently live, many people suffer from emotional grief and have lost all hope. Undealt with, these various emotions can turn into anger, fear, and depression, often becoming an outward expression that can hinder our future blessings. Pastor Dennis wants you to know that God is for you and not against you. God loves you with a love that won't let go. If you are struggling with times of uncertainty, we want to encourage you to take time to sit with the Lord and cast all of your cares upon Him, sing praises to the Lord, and let your faith rise in who God is and what He has done in your life! This process of pain and grief is for a greater purpose. You will recover all in Jesus' name!  For more information about Celebration Church with Pastor Dennis Watson, please visit www.celebrationchurch.org.    For over the past thirty years, the Orphans Hands ministry has rescued the lives of countless orphaned children, saving them from the fears and risks of human trafficking. Moldova has one of the highest death rates due to alcohol abuse. Poverty and fear have struck the hearts of these hopeless families, leaving them in despair. They send their children to live in an orphanage at a young age. When they turn sixteen, they are kicked out of the system and forced onto the streets, helpless and afraid. The Orphans Hands ministry has a village of homes in Moldova called Vatra and a house in Odessa, Ukraine. In times of distress, they have found the love and hope of Jesus as their Savior. They are no longer orphans, but sons and daughters of God turned into missionaries, sharing the same passion they have received. Putin's War on Ukraine has caused us to safely evacuate our home in Odessa. Our kids are being God's hands extended to helpless Ukrainian refugees by supplying food, blankets, and Bibles. Thank you for your kindness, prayers, and support for the Orphan's Hands. To learn how you can help support a convoy of love for the lost through the Orphans Hands, please visit www.theorphanshands.org.

A revealing and enthralling convo with Men's Coach, Relationship Coach and new author, Stef Sifandos. When I found out that Stef is Johnny Elsasser's mentor, I had to find out more. What was Stef teaching that drew a former special ops warrior to evolve towards full spectrum masculinity? In Stef's own words,  as a kid, “I was bullied and picked on. I was growing and so was my own rage – the bullied became the bully. All the years of fear and suppressed anger was catching up but not before I was bullied, intimidated and mocked. As a teenager I was overweight and awkward. I tried but constantly felt shame and was self-conscious about my voice, my body and my presence (or lack thereof). I carried such unprocessed anger and trauma from my childhood that I projected it onto others. I was shy and sexually inexperienced. My first full sexual experience was with a prostitute just before I turned 18. I started my sexual journey late, but made up for it. Debauchery, prostitution, infidelity, shadow sexual exploration, mixing with the ‘wrong' groups, exploring underground behavior and more was taking me down a road I truly didn't want to go down. Fighting, arguing, alcohol and all the things were pulling at me that were distracting me from dealing with my pain. Relationship after broken relationship. Inside I was crumbling, being the opposite of that integrity and then blaming everyone else for it. Then one day, I was caught cheating. I saw the look on my girlfriend's face at the time. The pain in her eyes, my interior flooded with shame and memories came flooding back. Undealt with trauma began to resurface and I felt myself spiraling. Her pain and my actions activated parts of me that had been hidden for so long.It wasn't an easy road. I gave only one choice. LEAN ALL THE WAY IN. Go to depth and don't look back. One choice with three possible outcomes: Commit suicide – the pain and shame was intense.  End up in a psychiatric ward Break free from these limiting patterns and live to share and help others Thankfully the third is what has transpired. I nearly went bankrupt, I spent countless hours in solitude, weeping, screaming, losing the parts of me that no longer served.” Find out how the story ends in the podcast episode!In this convo, find out about the 3 pillars that result in epic love. Discover why epic love is the end-all, be-all for a happy, thriving life. How to stand in your own power and greater confidence?Discover new tools to build an epic relationship.Find out more about Stef:Stefanossifandos.comCoachwithstef.comMpoweredbrotherhood.comhttps://geni.us/TunedInTurnedOn - Book preorderInsta: @stefanossifandos Insta: @mpb.movement If you like what you've heard at The Evolved Caveman podcast, support us by subscribing, leaving reviews on Apple podcasts. Every review helps to get the message out! Please share the podcast with friends and colleagues.Follow Dr. John Schinnerer on| Instagram | Instagram.com/@TheEvolvedCaveman| Facebook | Facebook.com/Anger.Management.Expert| Twitter | Twitter.com/@JohnSchin| LinkedIn | Linkedin.com/in/DrJohnSchinnererOr join the email list by visiting: GuideToSelf.comPlease visit our YouTube channel and remember to Like & Subscribe!https://www.youtube.com/user/jschinnererEditing/Mixing/Mastering by: Brian Donat of B/Line Studios www.BLineStudios.com

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In this episode we talk about the great necessity of repentance to maintain fellowship with Holy Spirit and making amends with broken relationships. The enemy is desperate to lurer us out of our comfort (Holy Spirit) zone and to separate us from His council and conviction were we are rendered most vulnerable.

Unanswered Prayer Various Passages March 24, 2019I. Introduction:A. Unanswered prayer is one of the most discouraging and perplexing aspects ofprayer, maybe even of the Christian life!1. Believers are told right from the beginning of their relationship with God thatGod answers prayers! We are told to pray, we are taught promises aboutprayer, and we hear amazing stories about answers to prayers for others. andyes they themselves have even experienced some answers to prayers2. Then comes along something that deeply burdens our hearts, so we startclaiming His promises, persisting in prayer, praying in faith and yet they havenot seen one shred of evidence of God doing anything or answering theirprayers.3. And when it goes on over a long period of time with no answer from Goda) Some their practice and belief in prayer really cools down thinking whygo to Him in prayer because He does not answer my prayers anyway!b) Some begin to question God’s faithfulness or His word and find itdifficult to trust Him.c) Some start to feel abandoned by God, let down by Him and that Hereally does not care about my concerns.d) And even some who have turn away from God hurt, angry anddisappointed.B. Then comes along that Christian who learned the “company line” when it comesto unanswered prayer as they say “God does answer prayer, sometimes it’s yes,sometimes it is no and sometimes it is not now!”1. While there is truth to this line, I do not think it communicate the completetruth when it comes to what the Bible says about unanswered prayer.2. And I personally feel that answer can be very insensitive for someone whohas been deeply, deeply disappointed by unanswered prayer. To them it canfeel like “a nickel answer to a million dollar question!”• This morning I am going to try to fill out a bit more of what it means when we sayyes, no, not now and let me add a fourth one “I do not know” Let’s start withII. YesA. When we get a yes we celebrate, our faith in strengthen in God and His word andour hearts are lifted high with joy! Read Ps 118:5-6B. But sometime we do not recognize the yes because it is not exactly what I askedfor, the time I asked for it or in the way I asked God to do it. In other words it isa yes but it is a different answer than I expected.C. I love what Tom Yeakley says about this– When you pray do not tell God how todo it, just ask Him to do it and allow Him to do it in a way that brings glory toHim.1. When I pray that way, it opens my mind to see God working in ways of Hischoosing rather than mine!• Let me next address the second easiest part of that phrase to answerIII. Not nowA. Simply that is saying God will answer but not in my timing.B. Listen to what Jesus said about this:1. Read Luke 18:12. Then Jesus tells them the parable of a widow who pleaded with an unjustjudge. He finally gave in to her request after she wore him down by herdetermination. Then Jesus said, “How much more will God, the righteousjudge, listen to the persistent prayers, day and night of His loved ones?”C. There are things I have prayed for years, and some even for decades that God didanswer like the salvation of my parents, something that I prayed for over 20years!• Next is the hardest part of that phrase to answer or maybe to accept – when God’sanswers to our prayers are:IV. NoA. This is the heart of unanswered prayer - I asked God for something and Heanswered it with a no!1. I do not want to leave it at that this morning but expand on that a bit. I thinka no needs a bigger explanation for someone who is wrestling withunanswered prayers.B. Sometimes that No is because God is a loving wise father is saying “no” for mybenefit1. Greatest example of this in scripture is Job as two times he asked God to lethim die. Job 6:8-92. And often we do not see it at the moment but God’s no is the most loving andwise answer you can get to your prayers. Usually I do not see that right awaybut times I look back over my life and say I am so grateful that God did notanswer that prayer with a yes as what I have now is exactly what I need andis actually better for me.C. Sometimes the no is because what I asked for was not God’s will.1. Obviously, Jesus is the greatest picture of this when He said His soul wasdeeply grieved to the point of death then He asked the Father three times thatif it was possible for this burden of the cross to pass from Him; yet not as Iwill but as you will!2. As we, all know that request was not God’s will and Jesus went to the cross.When we have Jesus’ heart for God’s will in our prayers a no is much easierto accept!D. Sometimes the no is because God has a greater way to display His glory!1. Three times Paul asked God to remove the thorn in the flesh he had - listen towhat God said. Read 2 Corinthians 12:8-92. I think of someone like Joni Erickson Tada who became a quadriplegic as aresult of a diving accident.a) In my way of thinking how much glory God could have gotten if hehealed her. But look at the way God has displayed Himself and used herby not healing her.b) She is a beautiful picture of this verse and of God receiving greater gloryby not healing her.E. Sometimes we get the answer no because our motives are all wrong in ourprayers.1. Read James 4:2d-32. Remember this quote “Too often our prayers are intended to inform God ofwhat we believe He needs to do to structure the universe in compliance withour desires for a happy and comfortable life.” Daniel Henderson.F. Let me give you one more reason for a no that is not discussed often enough butScripture does refer to it. Simply that while being a child of God, my life andwalk are out of whack with God.1. There are various Scriptures that refer to this but I just will show you a few.First :a) Read Psalm 66:18b) To regard sin in my heart means that I know that there is a serious sin inmy life but I do nothing about it!c) God is not even listening to that prayer as He is concerned about what isof first importance - getting your heart right with Him2. You might say – that is Old Testament stuff. Listen to 1 John 3:22a) He says here his prayers are answered because He obeys God and doesthe things that please Himb) What does this imply about the child of God who is in blatantdisobedience to God and involved in things that are displeasing to God?3. Try this one on – it is for married couples, especially husbands!a) Read 1 Peter 3:7b) Some husbands here today are not getting their prayers answeredbecause you are not treating your sister in Christ, God’s daughter, yourwife sensitively, gently and with honor.c) I get that because if some guy does not treat my daughters right butrather harshly then comes and asks for a bunch of good things – what doyou think is going to happen.• Finally let’s look at my addition this morning to yes, no, not yet and it isV. I do not knowA. Job is the greatest example of this. Turn in your Bibles to Job 71. Actually, in the book of Job there are two prayer requests that he had, eachrequest he asked for two separate times. The first one we referred to earlier –his request two times to die. The other prayer request Job asked two timeswas – Why are you doing this to me?2. Read 7:19-20 – Why have you set me as a target?3. Read 10:2 - Let me know why you contend with me?B. Job makes it very clear that God does not answer his prayers!1. Read 19:6-7 – but I get no answer2. Read 30:19-20 – You do not answer me3. Read 31:35-36 – let the Almighty answer me.4. We can see in Job the pain and frustration of unanswered prayer. It got tothe point where Job, being a righteous man, struggled so much with what washappening to him that he began to find fault with God and accuse Him ofbeing unrighteous in the way He dealt with him!C. Now listen to how God answered Job1. Read Job 38:1-4 – Oh, oh Look out as it took God four chapters of questionsto Job for him to get the point.a) Then in chapter 38 God pummels him with questions about his ability toknow and understand the great mysteries of the heavens and the earth?He says tell me if you understand, surely you know!b) Then in chapter 39 - Focus now switches from the great mysteries of theheavens and the earth to the great mysteries of the animal world as theLord questions him about his ability to understand these things.c) Then at the end of this section we see Job’s response – Read 40:1-52. Then in chapter 40 – God turns to Job’s strength and authority to overcomeand control things! Read 40:6-9.a) Then in Chapter 40 He uses the hippopotamus and in chapter 41 He usesthe crocodile to show him just how small his strength is.3. In summary God showed Job a major lesson that would be good for all of usto let sink deep within our hearts - that there are things in life that are smarterthan he is smart and stronger than he is strong.D. Jobs final prayer of repentance reveals to us this final answer to the question ofunanswered prayer1. Read 42:1-32. Job is broken at the core of his being as he sees God’s sovereignty and hisinability to overthrow what God wants to do.3. He also learned that God’s purposes are just too high for him to understand.E. The answer “I do not know” is a way of saying - sometimes the reality ofunanswered prayer is a mystery, something that is bigger than we are smart,bigger than we can understand –F. Bottom line at times it is a very biblical answer to the question “Why God doesnot answer my prayer?” is “I do not know” It is a mystery!VI. ApplicationA. My prayer for today’s message is that those who are presently struggling with thismillion dollar question may discern a bit more what God may be doing in theirlives in not answering their prayers. And those who are not struggling now maybe equipped to more sensitively and wisely serve those who are struggling withthis!B. Next week in many ways will be part two to this question of unanswered prayeras it raises some other questions – primarily - how do I pray now.1. I have this unanswered prayer, and I see that God isn’t against me, but ratheris doing something for His glory. So does that mean I stop praying for this? Isit wrong to pray for this?2. Should I be the persistent widow or should I let go and move on?C. Before Josh closes us, I just want to give a few minutes for those who have beenwrestling deeply today with this question to sit before the Lord to see if theresomething God wants to impress upon their heart today.1. Not now – Persist in Prayer2. Noa) Not best for me in the long runb) Not God’s willc) God has a greater way to display His gloryd) Wrong motivese) Undealt with sin in my life3. I do not know – It is a mystery bigger than I am smart!

It’s not too hard to allow hurts to build up in our relationships. Undealt with they form a fence even between friends, creating anger, division, and bitterness. So then, how do we “de-fence” these offenses? God has a straightward but difficult answer that has significant implications for us, especially for our marriage!

Undealt with disappointment can trigger destruction.

Hosted by Jodi Hildebrandt All of us want to create intimate connection with others, and true connection requires connection to oneself first. In this episode, Jodi explains the ways we connect to ourselves through emotional honesty (integrity & accountability for what you feel) and self-care. She explains what prevents genuine connection, and gives examples from her own life, about staying connected to her emotions in the reality of vulnerable and uncomfortable experiences. Jodi answers questions from listeners and talks about some of the strategies she uses to care for herself physically, emotionally and spiritually. Connection is prevented by: Undealt-with trauma conflicts (drama) [Episode 26: Drama] Lack of education Resentments Control issues (out of control / being controlling) Taught not to feel emotions Fear / anger / blame If I don’t learn something different, I will repeat what I learned in childhood. I need to be taught how to connect. Much of the disconnect is because of lack of education. Many of us have no idea how to create it. Staying connected is facilitated by your ability to validate and be vulnerable. Connecting with self and staying connected happens when you live in your integrity and emotional honesty (accountability for what you feel). Emotional honesty creates empathy, vulnerability, validation, compassion, Reality, and accuracy within you. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.