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Crimes of the Heart, a podcast by Rory Uphold, is a love and dating podcast with a true crime twist. Come listen to the confessions of singles and couples as they unburden themselves of their most tragic and embarrassing love, dating and sex stories. From horrific first dates to savage breakups and epic revenge tales, we will cover all of the horrors facing modern love these days. Part story telling experience and part advice column, this podcast is here to help you navigate the perilous landscape that is digital dating and make you feel less alone in the process. So join Rory and her guests as they dish on the latest love crimes. 

Crimes of the Heart


    • Nov 5, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
    • monthly NEW EPISODES
    • 53m AVG DURATION
    • 80 EPISODES

    Ivy Insights

    The Crimes of the Heart podcast is an incredibly important and insightful show that delves into women's sexuality. This podcast is a breath of fresh air in our society, as it tackles taboo subjects and gives women a platform to freely express and explore their sexuality. It helps shift our culture to a space where women can fully embrace their desires and learn to love themselves both physically and spiritually. The host, Rory, is smart, funny, edgy, and refreshing, making her the perfect voice for this narrative.

    One of the best aspects of The Crimes of the Heart podcast is Rory's ability to create a safe space for open discussions about sex, love, and dating. She brings on guests who are willing to be vulnerable and share their experiences openly. This creates a relatable atmosphere for listeners who may find comfort in knowing they are not alone in their struggles or desires. Additionally, Rory's humor adds an entertaining element to each episode, making it enjoyable as well as informative.

    Another positive aspect is the wide range of topics covered in this podcast. It not only explores dating but also delves into psychology and medical topics related to sexual health. This makes it a well-rounded resource for listeners seeking information and advice on various aspects of relationships and intimacy.

    On the downside, one criticism could be that some episodes may not be suitable for all listeners due to explicit content or discussions about sensitive subjects. However, this can also be seen as a positive aspect for those seeking unfiltered conversations about sex and relationships.

    In conclusion, The Crimes of the Heart podcast is an incredible listen that offers a perfect blend of humor, relatability, and informative content. It breaks boundaries by providing a platform for open discussions about women's sexuality while also exploring other related topics. Whether you want advice on dating or simply enjoy captivating stories and conversations about love and sex, this podcast is definitely worth checking out.



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    Latest episodes from Crimes of the Heart

    Election Day, Nudes & Hinge

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2024 47:01


    It's election day and I felt weird about dropping a regular episode because I didn't want the guest to feel like they got the shaft in terms of when this comes out so I figured I would keep those of you who want a distraction some company and chat about where I'm at and where I'm at with dating.To WATCH episodes click here: https://theladiesroom.substack.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on IG: @icouldbeblonder or TIKTOK: @roryuphold To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a topic? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    My Abortion Story with Kelsey Darragh

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 29, 2024 45:27


    Abortions are extremely politicized and often discussed in secret, which is why Kelsey Darragh is so vocal about hers. She is actively trying to combat the shame and the misinformation out there about abortions and today, for the first time, Rory publicly addresses hers. This episode is intended to educate and help women feel comfortable with THEIR choice, whatever that choice may be. To follow Kelsey on IG click HERE or to read her book click HERE. To listen to Kelsey's pregnancy episode click HERE and to listen to her abortion episode click HERE. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    Going Boy Sober with Kendra Allen aka Your Breakup Bestie

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2024 54:03


    Kendra Allen aka Your Breakup Bestie joins Rory Uphold to discuss the parallels between bouncing back from a breakup and getting sober. She walks us through the process of healing from a breakup and how she went from rock bottom to happily ever after. To work with or learn more about Kendra click HERE. To listen to her podcast click HERE and to holler her click HERE.PLEASE SIGN UP FOR MY SUBSTACK: https://theladiesroom.substack.com/To WATCH episodes click here: https://theladiesroom.substack.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on IG: @icouldbeblonder or TIKTOK: @roryuphold To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a topic? We would LOVE to hear from you! Visit https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.comor Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    How to Reclaim Your Love Life Post Trauma feat. Rena Martine

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2024 56:38


    TW: this episode contains a lot of sensitive subject matter like assault and abuse. It's a powerful episode but if it's not something you can handle right now, the episode will always be here. Rena Martine is a former sex crimes deputy district attorney turned intimacy coach, TEDx speaker, and author of The Sex You Want. She empowers women and couples to embrace their sexuality and build deeper connections through a blend of neuroscience and coaching. And today she is specifically going to use about trauma, how to process it and how to have a thieving love life in spite of it. To follow Rena on IG click HERE or to visit her website click HERE.PLEASE SIGN UP FOR MY SUBSTACK: https://theladiesroom.substack.com/To WATCH episodes click here: https://theladiesroom.substack.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on IG: @icouldbeblonder or TIKTOK: @roryuphold To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a topic? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    How To Be A Better Flirt with Nadege

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2024 57:16


    Did you know there are 10 flirt styles?... This week's guest is a sex scholar, sex therapist, trained dominatrix and this week's guest. She sits down with Rory to discuss sex trends throughout history, BDSM and how to be a better flirt! To learn more about Nadege click HERE or follow her on IG HERE. To take the flirt quick click HERE.To WATCH episodes click here: https://theladiesroom.substack.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on IG: @icouldbeblonder or TIKTOK: @roryuphold To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a topic? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    How To Find Love Again with Amy Chan (Breakup Bootcamp)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2024 50:55


    Have you ever wished there was someone who could help you through your heartache? Today's guest, Amy Chan, created the Breakup Bootcamp and literally does just that. Plus! That's not all, she's recently expanded into helping people find partnership with her Dating Bootcamp. To get her book Breakup Bootcamp: The Science of Rewiring Your Heart click HERE. To follow Amy Click HERE and to visit her website click HERE. To WATCH episodes click here: https://theladiesroom.substack.com/ For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on IG: @icouldbeblonder or TIKTOK: @roryuphold To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a topic? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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    You Probably Think This Story's About You... (Feed Swap)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2024 36:22


    Hey Guys! Swapping feeds with YOU PROBABLY THINK THIS STORY'S ABOUT YOU because I think that you might enjoy the show... and if you do, you can follow them here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-probably-think-this-storys-about-you/id1747985859 -- SEE YOU BACK IN SEPTEMBER!!! x,Rory When Brittani Ard matches with Kanon on Hinge sparks fly. Their first date revealed an instant connection and chemistry. Kanon is devastatingly handsome with a charm that disarmed even the most guarded heart — plus he is surprisingly emotionally available for a man in his forties. It's as if the universe has conspired to bring them together, two soulmates destined to find each other.  The couple spends the next five months diving fast into a whirlwind romance. Their connection so intense and their bond so deep that it seems like Brittani's fairytale has finally found its happy ending. Until one weekend that changed her life forever.  *Some names and details have been changed to conceal the identities of those who wish to remain anonymous.   Produced by Larj Media  Executive Producer Brittani Ard  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Give Your Love Life A Little Nudge with Erika Ettin

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2024 59:15


    Erika Ettin aka A Little Nudge, joins the podcast to share her no nonsense dating advice. We talk about why your less likely to have a date if you don't make a plan before exchanging phone numbers, how your texting style can actually lead you to less quality matches (no, really) and so many more useful tips on how to navigate the complicated world of dating and relationships. It's an incredible interview and I highly suggest you check out Erika's website HERE or follow her on IG HERE. REMINDER: I started a Substack which is where I will drop Video episodes: https://theladiesroom.substack.com/ For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Single Females with Daphnique Springs

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2024 57:29


    A wild crime involving a basement deserves an equally wild guest! Enter: comedian Daphnique Springs. She joins the podcast to talk worst dates, remaining confident, not trusting people and "learning to love". It's an episode full of laughs and one truly unhinged crime. To watch Daphnique's special SINGLE FEMALE (for free!) click HERE. To follow her on IG click HERE. Or to see her in person, check her website: https://www.iamdsprings.com/ Reminder! I started a substack which is where I will drop the video episodes: https://theladiesroom.substack.com/ For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    15 Lessons I've Learned Hosting This Show

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2024 50:20


    Link to the substack: https://theladiesroom.substack.com/ After a major meltdown I am back (for the second try) at a solo episode -- it's been a minute and I figured I would pop on and share some updates, where im at and also what I've learned as the host of a love/sex/dating podcast over the past three seasons. So here are 15 lessons I've learned. I hope you enjoy it. As a reminder, there are two more episodes before I take off for the summer and then the show will be back in September! x, Rory To watch the show, make sure to sign up for my substack: https://theladiesroom.substack.com/ For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    I'm Sorry!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2024 4:16


    WOW -- I recorded a solo episode that never actually recorded... Hoping to rerecord tomorrow and get it up later in the day. I apologize for being SO BLONDE. Thank you, love you. xx, rory Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    A different way to date with Lily Womble

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2024 59:08


    Want a new way to date? Want to find your soulmate but you're sick of outdated patriarchal dating advice? Lily Womble is your girl. We dig into everything from why your "type" isn't the person you'll end up clicking with IRL to the best questions to ask on a first date and so much more. To learn more about Lily follow her here: https://www.datebrazen.com/about-lily or get her book here: https://amzn.to/4ci5uhZ To watch the show, make sure to sign up for the mailing list (and confirm via email!) HERE! For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Healing from Narcissists with Dr. Nadine Macaluso

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2024 48:18


    Dr. Nadine Macaluso joins the show to help us learn how to spot narcissism, pathologic lovers, and other toxic relationships traps. Plus! She give a lot of valuable tips on how to extricate yourself from those relationships, how to heal and more importantly how to bounce back better. For more information on Dr. Nadine please visit her site: https://drnae.com/about-dr-nadine-macaluso/ To get her book RUN LIKE HELL click HERE. Link to the shame compass: https://drnae.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/Dr-Nae-Shame-Compass.pdf To watch the show, make sure to sign up for the mailing list (and confirm via email!) HERE! For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    I gave my boyfriend a kidney feat. Jade Catta Preta

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2024 57:30


    Jade Catta Preta drops by to weigh in on an INSANE crime involving a kidney!! Plus, we discuss coming out, overcoming jealousy and insecurities, perimenopause, sex and so so much more. It's an banger episode. To follow Jade or see her live check her out here: https://jadecattapreta.com/ or follow her on IG HERE. Thanks to Colleen for sharing her story -- you can follow her HERE. To watch the show, make sure to sign up for the mailing list (and confirm via email!) HERE! For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Single and Thriving with Brittany Allyn (ThirtyWaves)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2024 48:14


    Brittany Allyn aka Thirtywaves joins the show to share her confidence tips for people who have found themselves living outside societies norms. SHe's 38, single and THRIVING. Plus, we talk about her time as a matchmaker, her viral MeMoons, working at a dating app, and so much more. To learn more about Brittany you can check out her site here: https://thirtywaves.com/ or follow her HERE. To watch the show, make sure to sign up for the mailing list (and confirm via email!) HERE! For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    How to be Happier with Danielle Bayard Jackson

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2024 60:23


    One winner will win a copy of Fighting For Our Friendships -- make sure you are signed up for the mailing list: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Are you conflict avoidant? Is it hard for you to make new friends? You do dread uncomfortable conversations with people you care about? Danielle Bayard Jackson has literally written the book to help you with all of these things and so much more. She's dedicated her life to heaping people be happier by helping them improve their friendships. It's a powerful conversation and I'm so happy to share her with you all. If you are interested in her book you can get it here: https://amzn.to/3yi8NqL If you're interested in learning more about Danielle check out her website here: https://www.daniellebayardjackson.com/ or, Follow Danielle on IG HERE (I may be eligible for commissions on select links) To watch the show, make sure to sign up for the mailing list (and confirm via email!) HERE! For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Confessions of a Cheater

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2024 48:43


    Rory and a listener we are calling Megan discuss what she's learned as both the cheater and the cheatee in this weeks episode of Crimes of the Heart. Shout out to "Megan" you know who you are :) To watch the show, make sure to sign up for the mailing list (and confirm via email!) HERE! For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Marriage and Kids with Colton Underwood

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2024 55:06


    Colton Underwood joins Rory Uphold to discuss his time on the bachelor and how it helped his love life, being a mental health advocate for others, especially LGTBQ youth, and all things Daddyhood. Colton gets real about his fertility journey in the hopes that it will help others who might not know what their options are... plus so much more!! To listen to Daddyhood click HERE to follow Colton click HERE and to follow the Daddyhood podcast click HERE. To watch the show, make sure to sign up for the mailing list (and confirm via email!) HERE! For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    The Power of Intimacy with Alexandra Roxo

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2024 54:50


    This week Rory is joined by the illuminating Alexandra Roxo to talk about the power of intimacy and daring to feel. They discuss how to walk up to people and meet them in person, how to deal with your own baggage and trauma, and how to resolve conflicts so that they dont end up in blow out fights + so much more. If you are interested in learning more, get DARE TO FEEL by clicking HERE OR Learn more about Alexandra at her website here: https://www.alexandraroxo.com/ (disclaimer: I might be eligible for commissions on certain purchases) To watch the show, make sure to sign up for the mailing list (and confirm via email!) HERE! For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Dating Marco DelVecchio

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2024 40:33


    Marco DelVecchio joins the podcast as the second straight man on the show -- and it doesn't disappoint. He has no idea where he is or what this show is about but they do cover everything from favorite sex positions to what its like dating in LA and why Marco isn't such a fuckboy despite playing one on F boy Island. To slide into Marco's DM's click HERE or to listen to his podcast click HERE. To watch the show, make sure to sign up for the mailing list (and confirm via email!) HERE! For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    The Worst First Date feat. Jenna Jean

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2024 51:31


    Rory Uphold is joined by Tiktok star, Jenna Jean to weigh in on a very shitty "crime"... Plus! They discuss dating with IBS, being catfished, and bouncing back better from a breakup. Follow Jenna Jean on Tiktok HERE or IG HERE. To watch the show, make sure to sign up for the mailing list (and confirm via email!) HERE! For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Getting the Love you Deserve with MJ Harris

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2024 65:45


    Rory Uphold is joined by MJ Harris (influencer, coach, spiritual champion & the author of GET THE F*CK OUT YOUR OWN WAY) to talk about how to find the love that you want. Sometimes, in order to find what you want you need to let go of other things... In this episode Rory adn MJ discuss building self love, better boundaries and ultimately how to attract the love you deserve with actionable steps. You can buy MJ's book HERE!! You can follow MJ on Instagram HERE or Tiktok HERE (Amazon links may be affiliate links and if so I might be eligible for commission) To watch the show, make sure to sign up for the mailing list (and confirm via email!) HERE! For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Video vodcast credit: Fatih Andi Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Dating with MRKH Syndrome feat. Molly McGylnn

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2024 54:10


    Rory Uphold is joined by writer/director Molly McGylnn to discuss her new movie Fitting In and the incredibly personal story it's based on -- Molly's own trials and tribulations living with MRKH syndrome. What's it like to date knowing you cannot carry a child? What's it like to be told you have a blind Vagina at 16 years old? What does it even mean to be a women?!?... Rory and Molly dive into all of these questions and so much more. This episode is for anyone who's ever felt like they are different and/or don't fit in. FITTING IN is out NOW! For more info follow Molly HERE. To watch the show, make sure to sign up for the mailing list (and confirm via email!) HERE! For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Video vodcast credit: Fatih Andi Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    The Ultimate Rejection with KALES

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2024 39:27


    Today, Rory is joined by KALES - who shares a romantic rejection story that changed the course of her life. PLUS! She shares how she ultimately bounced back better. A true, rejection is redirection story

    Dating in your 30's with Julia Mazur

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2024 50:27


    Julia Mazur from Pretty Much Done Podcast drops by to talk confidence, dating your 30's and living outside of societal norms. Having grown up overweight and under a lot family pressures, Julia had to navigate a self-love journey in order to find happiness on her own terms. She dated a lot of Mr. Good On Papers only to realize that what was missing was inside her. She's joined the podcast to talk to us about confidence and self love and how to cultivate both in our own lives. To follow Julia click HERE. To watch the show, make sure to sign up for the mailing list (and confirm via email!) HERE! For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Video vodcast credit: Fatih Andi Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    What is masculinity?!? feat. Jack Garratt

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2024 68:50


    The conventional notion of masculinity hurts all of us, not just men. Today Rory Uphold sits down with cult favorite Jack Garratt to talk about therapy, failed erections, self-love, dating app etiquette and so so soooo much more. Plus! They listen to a story from HALE about virginity and "manhood" and discuss. To follow Jack click HERE. To listen to his music click HERE. To sign up for the MAILING LIST: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Hack Your Love Life with Damona Hoffman

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2024 63:22


    What's standing in the way between you and the romantic life you've always wanted?!?! Damona Hoffman is here to help answer that question. Her new book F The Fairy Tale takes a deep dive into some of the topics we covered on todays' show and if you'd like to follow Damon on IG you can do that HERE or on Tiktok HERE. For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Dating Lessons & Valentine's History

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2024 22:50


    Welcome back!! Season 3 baybeeeee! I'm updating you guys on my life, dropping some Valentine's Day facts and sharing my top 4 takeaways since hosting this show... For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Busting Popular Myths about Desire with Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy & Dr. Jennifer Vencill

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2023 51:12


    Everything you never knew about libido and desire... This week Rory sits down with the authors of "Desire" to bust popular myths about bedroom dynamics and how to help you fix your love life. Plus! Tips for navigating sensitive conversations around desire and pleasure and making sure all parties feel fulfilled. She's joined by Dr. Jennifer Vencill and Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy, sex therapists and the authors of Desire You can purchase DESIRE here. Or, Follow Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy HERE or Dr. Jennifer Vencill HERE. We discuss Comes as you Are and The Gottman Method, both linked! (I may be eligible for commission on select products) Thanks to HARU for sponsoring this episode. Visit https://harunmore.com/ and use RORY10 for ten percent off at check out!! To win free Haru, sign up for the mailing list (and confirm) HERE: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Do you have an anti-fragile relationship? feat. Candice Horbacz

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2023 46:57


    This week Rory Uphold is joined by Candice Horbacz (AKA Eva Lovia) a former Porn Star turned entrepreneur slash wife and mom. They discuss the truth about the adult entertainment industry and how Candice's time in porn actually helped her strengthen not only her relationship with her husband but her relationship with herself. Plus! She gives us tips and tricks from hot date night ideas to how to have uncomfortable conversations and so much more... You can follow Candice on IG: Here. Or her podcast "Chatting with Candice" Here. ANON SURVEY: CLICK HERE (if you're interested in having input on the future of this show!) For future giveaways, sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  Summary Candice Horback, a successful adult entertainment performer, shares her journey into the industry and the challenges she faced. She discusses the perception and stigma surrounding the industry and the reality of porn versus real-life sex plus pros and cons of incorporating it into a relationship. Candice and Rory discuss the concept of anti-fragile relationships and how being in the porn industry has impacted Candice's marriage. They share advice on approaching difficult conversations in relationships and creating a safe space for communication. Takeaways Pornography should not be seen as a reflection of real-life sex. The perception of cheating in relation to porn is often based on societal biases and double standards. The porn industry can amplify insecurities and trigger negative reactions in individuals who are not comfortable with their own sexuality. Anti-fragile relationships are built on open communication, honesty, and the ability to navigate challenges together. Approaching difficult conversations in relationships requires creating a safe space, being patient, and allowing each partner to express themselves fully. Relationships go through ups and downs, and it's important to recognize and navigate these changes together. The S*xual Buffet exercise can bring playfulness and creativity into a relationship by exploring new sexual experiences and desires. To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    How to Meet people IRL with Lane Moore

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2023 61:00


    ANON SURVEY: CLICK HERE This week Rory Uphold is joined by multi-talent Lane Moore to discuss the power of friend love, how to meet people IRL (and off apps!), what to do when you're a people pleaser... and SOO much more. Link's to Lane's books: How To Be Alone and You Will Find Your People. You can learn more about Lane at her website: https://www.lanemoore.org or follow her on IG HERE. (May be eligible for commission) For future giveaways, sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  Thanks to OseaMalibu.com for sponsoring this episode - don't forget to use code: CRIMES for 10% off your first order site wide In this conversation, Lane Moore discusses the similarities between making friends and dating. She challenges the notion that friendships should be superficial and explores the importance of treating friendships with the same depth and care as romantic relationships. Lane also shares her insights on the lack of significant changes in dating apps over the years and the toxic behaviors that persist. She emphasizes the need to be open and vulnerable in everyday life to form meaningful connections. Additionally, Lane addresses the desire for love and connection and the importance of setting boundaries in friendships. In this conversation, Lane Moore discusses the challenges of ending unhealthy relationships and provides tips for navigating friend breakups. She challenges the myth of lifelong friendships and emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries in friendships. Moore also encourages listeners to choose themselves in relationships and offers advice for those who feel like the only single friend. She highlights the power of reaching out to friends when feeling low and changing self-talk in self-love practices. Ultimately, Moore emphasizes the importance of prioritizing peace and joy in all relationships. Takeaways Friendships should be treated with the same depth and care as romantic relationships. Dating apps have not significantly changed over the years, and toxic behaviors persist. Meaningful connections can be formed by being open and vulnerable in everyday life. It is important to set boundaries in friendships and accept disappointment when necessary. To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Dating with Herpes feat. Sophie Miller

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2023 56:07


    Rory Uphold is joined by 21 year old Sophie Miller to talk about her recent diagnosis with Herpes and how it's affected her romantic and sexual life since. I first saw Sophie when she went viral on tiktok and was moved by her honesty -- I hope this episode chips away at the stigma and shame surrounding STI's. If you'd like to learn more about Sophie, you can follow her on Tiktok HERE or IG HERE. *Not sponsored* Here are links to JEMS: https://jemsforall.com/ and to LOLA: https://mylola.com/products/condoms For future giveaways, sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    The Gift of Starting Over with Amanda Thomas (Luv AJ)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2023 63:52


    In order to win the 300$ Luv AJ gift certificate, sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ This week, Rory sits down with Jewelry maven, CEO and all around inspiration, Amanda Thomas to discus a harrowing story from Madeleine. (Follow Madeleine's travel journey on Tiktok HERE or her IG HERE) Amanda and Rory also discuss divorce at 36 and why it's a blessing, the ultimate first date trick, how to get over being burned and so so so much more. If you loved this episode drop us a comment on Spotify or Apple podcasts and share the love

    Dry Humping with Tawny Lara

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2023 61:27


    This week Rory Uphold is joined by Tawny Lara, a sober expert and the author of DRY HUMPING! Join them for a boisterous conversation about confidence and self-love with some practical advice for those looking to explore sobriety as well as those who feel safe/settled in their relationship with booze. To win a copy of DRY HUMPING (and be entered to win future giveaways) sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ You can follow Tawny HERE or buy her book HERE (As an affiliate I may earn from qualifying purchases!) For future giveaways, sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Drunk Date Disasters with Bran Flakezz

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2023 60:04


    Philly's influencer of the year, Bran Flakezz joins Rory Uphold to discuss a drunken disaster of a second date -- plus, they discuss coming out, situationships, bad dates, anxious attachment styles and soooo much more! Follow Bran Flakezz on IG HERE or Tiktok HERE. For Giveaways, sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  Thanks to OSEA for sponsoring this episode -- Don't forget to use CRIMES for 10% of your first purchase site wide at: www.Oseamalibu.com To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Why People Ghost with Nancy Jo Sales

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2023 54:04


    Iconic culture writer, Nancy Jo Sales joins Rory for a frank and informative conversation about dating apps, ghosting and origins of the dating apocalypse -- Plus! They discuss porn, the American Plan, and how to resist the app addiction. To check out Nancy's book click HERE. To read her Dating Apocalypse article click HERE. ((This is an amazon link and I might be eligible for commission). For Giveaways, sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Avoiding Breakups with Jared Freid

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2023 60:27


    Jared Freid joins Rory and they listen to an unconventional 'ghost' story from Carly... the two discuss 'hurt people, hurt people', being afraid of breaking up, icks, the problem with 'if he wanted to he would" and so much more. To follow Jared on IG click HERE or to listen to The JTrain Podcast click HERE. His special "37 & Single" is out on Netflix now!! To follow Carly on IG click HERE or Tiktok click HERE. For Giveaways, sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Are you Dateable?!?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2023 62:04


    In honor of Spooky Season, October's theme is GHOSTING and today Rory sits down with OG love and dating podcasters Julie and Yue from DATEABLE. Together, they swap wild ghost stories, advice on dealing with rejection, thoughts on falling in love with yourself and so much more! You can listen to Datable HERE. To follow Dateable on IG click HERE. For Giveaways, sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Ghosted in Person with Nick Norcia

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2023 53:15


    In honor of Spooky Season, October's theme is GHOSTING and today Chino shares a wild *in person* ghost story & guest Nick Norcia weighs in. Plus! Nick and Rory discuss bad dates, learning to release shame, Nick's three date rule, avoidant attachments and soooo much more. To follow Nick on IG click HERE or Tiktok click HERE. To follow Chino click HERE. If you're interested in reading the books mentioned you can click on either: The Velvet Rage or The Ethical Slut. For Giveaways, sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Ghosting Victim or Villain with Bree Essrig

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2023 62:54


    In honor of Spooky Season, October's theme is GHOSTING & we are kicking things off with an absolutely wild story from Ashleigh... and epic ghosting turned revenge story. And Bree Essrig joins to help discuss whether Ashleigh is the victim or the villain and so much more. The girls discuss dating siblings, cheating, bouncing back and how to be a professional sugar baby. To follow Bree on IG click HERE or Tiktok click HERE or check out her website here: https://linktr.ee/lilsummerhoe For more insane stories from Ashleigh follow her on IG HERE or Tiktok HERE. For Giveaways, sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    FBI-ing a Ghost with Alisha Wainwright!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 26, 2023 51:29


    In this episode, Rory Uphold speaks with actress Alisha Wainwright about how to win the breakup in the most bizarre way possible. And let's just say Step #1 is to stop checking your ex's account at 5:10 in the morning. Special thanks to TikTok's @bellafoofellah for sharing her chaotic breakup saga! To listen to Alisha's new podcast click HERE. To follow her on IG click HERE. And to learn more about Bella follow her on IG or TIKTOK. To sign up for our mailing list & be entered to win our giveaways click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    True Love & Ultimate Revenge with Betty Who

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2023 63:18


    Baby daddies? Epic revenge? Coming out as queer? Marrying the love of your life? This weeks episode of Crimes of the Heart has it all! Plus, pop singer Betty Who stops by to give us tips on monogamy and her take on a WILD Australian "crime". To follow Betty Who click HERE To sign up for our mailing list & be entered to win our giveaways click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Getting Kinky with Jedidiah Jenkins

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 12, 2023 52:34


    In this episode, Rory Uphold tells quite possibly the craziest Grindr hookup story in the history of Grindr hookups. Let's just say it involves TikTok's @n0tjeffrey and more than your average whips and chains…Plus, New York Times best-selling author Jedidiah Jenkins drops by to give his take on kinks, fetishes, kidnapping and more! To sign up for our mailing list & be entered to win our giveaways click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    One Night Stands with Akilah Hughes

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2023 65:34


    Rory Uphold tells the most insane story about a girl's quest for the perfect one night stand that turned into what could quite possibly be described as anyone's worst nightmare. Plus, comedian Akilah Hughes drops by to give her take on this jaw-dropping tale and even gives some BJ advice for those of you who also have penis phobia.  To sign up for our mailing list & be entered to win our giveaways click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Ask a Matchmaker!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2023 37:55


    Rory is joined by lifelong/second generation matchmaker Tammi Pickle from Elite Connections Intl. to talk about dating trends, do's & don'ts and the 411 on using a matchmaker. If you're interested in learning more about Tammi or Elite Connections feel free to reach out to here here: https://www.eliteconnections.com/ To sign up for our mailing list & be entered to win our giveaways click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Closing the Pleasure Gap with DAME

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2023 51:18


    Rory Uphold is joined by Alexandra "Al" Fine, the CEO and Co-Founder of Dame Products to talk about the TABOO topic of female pleasure and how she has made it her mission to help close the pleasure gap. DAME is giving away four toys to Crimes of the Heart listeners. To be included in this giveaway sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ To check out DAME and their A+ products click here: https://dame.com/ To follow them on IG click HERE or to Follow Al Fine click HERE. For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Cheating & The Song My Ex Ruined

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2023 47:00


    Rory Uphold joins Songs My Ex Ruined to discuss heartbreak, cheating and the Adele song she can't hear without crying... This week Rory finds herself in the hot seat as she swaps episodes with Songs My Ex Ruined, available here: https://pod.link/1654983254. A Big thank you to Melissa and Courtney

    Zakir's Date From Hell with Atsuko!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 8, 2023 51:06


    Atsuko Okatsuka joins Crimes of the Heart to dish on Zakir's date from hell, staying present, and accidentally getting married twice. To follow Atsuko click HERE or HERE and watch her special "The Intruder" on HBO or Max. To follow Zakir click HERE or HERE For Giveaways, sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Cheaters with Gabrielle Stone

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2023 63:19


    Rory has covid so we are revisiting one of her favorite episodes with Gabrielle Stone! The topic is CHEATING, something that inspired Gabrielle's hit book!! They also talk about potential warning signs, getting back in the dating pool after a breakup or divorce, and how you can turn the worst thing that happened to you into a best-selling book that helps other women struggling along the way! To follow Gabrielle on IG click HERE, on Tiktok click HERE and to buy her book EAT PRAY FML click HERE. (FYI: I'm an amazon affiliate!) To sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Asexuality, in the city of Love with Aline

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2023 42:36


    This week Rory is joined by award winning journalist, author and podcaster Aline Laurent-Maynard to talk about their journey with sexuality -- specifically, realizing they were not only asexual but also aromantic and what that's meant for Aline's love life. To listen to Free From Desire: Asexual in the City of Love click HERE & to follow Aline on Instagram HERE To sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Protecting against Toxicity with JEMS

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2023 36:56


    To win a 12 pack of JEMS sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ This week, Rory Uphold is joined by Whitney Geller and Yasemin Emory, the co-founders of JEMS, a female run, non-toxic condom company. They dive in on all things toxic - from ingredients, to marketing and messaging, to the lack of information about the STAGGERING rise in STI's... and thankfully, these ladies break down how we can better protect ourselves both inside and out! For sexual eduction tips or to buy JEMS visit: https://jemsforall.com/ To follow JEMS on Instagram click HERE or Tiktok click HERE For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold  To join the mailing list or to leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok Opening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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