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We’ve all got stories, interests, and details about our lives that may constitute us as a “weirdo”. But if we talk openly about them, is it really that weird? Join host Tori Roovers & friends talk through some of these things, and learn just how interesti

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    EPISODE 28: The Tall Arab Girl, Beyoncé Break Ups & Average White Men with Nussaiba Hadi!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2023 56:04


    This interview is LONG awaited, heavily anticipated, majorly appreciated and already raved (kidding).  Welcome semi-back, NUSSAIBA HADI! If you recall Tori's "Group Therapy" episode, Nussaiba joined for a quick chat about her Palestinian roots, her love of "average white men" & her incredible fiancé. In this episode they expound on all of this plus much much more, including Nussaiba's time as the only Arab girl in Memphis & their simultaneous break ups (Tori's WORST break up, actually). To inquire about being a guest on the podcast or her travelling photography business, send Tori a DM on Instagram or email her at troovers@blackburnmedia.ca. This week's featured artist: Giuliano Solis! Song 1: Muse Song 2: Lay Low ft. AG Stream his music everywhere & follow him on Instagram!      

    EPISODE 27: A Good Ol' Fashion Bitch Fest with Curtis Coleman!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2023 67:56


    He's an OG, he's a fan favorite, and he's back!  Welcome back to the pod CURTIS COLEMAN. Remember Tori's comedian friend who gave us the idea for a group Bumble account? The one who said he's above dating in Windsor? Ya, that one, from Episode 3. He's back, but not to catch up or with any real updates. He was invited to this episode to COMPLAIN. Inspired by a phone call after a long day of being peppy, Tori wanted Curtis back so you could hear the kind of candid conversations they seem to have. One without judgement & a whole lot of bitching. This week's featured artist: HUTTCH! Song 1: Get On With It Song 2: For The Longest Time Follow them everywhere & stream their latest album now!  

    EPISODE 26: Backstage with Olaf, The Carole Baskin Drinking Game & A Message For Drag Bans with Kevin Blondin!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2023 47:25


    We're back with another interview with someone near & dear to not only Tori, but Windsor-Essex as a whole. Say hi to KEVIN BLONDIN!    Kevin and Tori met in college and became fast work-partners and friends. They were lucky enough to work together after school, even though the environment was less than ideal (they explain). Kevin has done all kinds of media-related work but has most recently dedicated his time to drag photography! But we can't NOT talk about his time working at Disney...we just can't.    Check out his page Sound and City to see his work, and if you're in Windsor be sure to check out Lavender Promotions for all information on our incredible drag community!   This week's featured artist: Zainoun!   Song 1: Heart2Heart Song 2: Fix Things

    EPISODE 25: Hugging Strangers, “Microgoals” & A 42 Foot Yacht with MD Motivator!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2023 43:51


    Let's cut to it - this guest needs no introduction.    If you've been on the internet in the past few years, you've likely heard the name ZACHERY DERENIOWSKI / MD MOTIVATOR - he's the one with those viral, feel-good TikToks that always make us cry. Tori is honored to have Zach join her for a sit down chat about what kick started his mental health movement, some of his most memorable and personally impactful experiences & how he manages to stay grounded.   This week's featured artist: New Friends! SONG 1: Waste My Time SONG 2: Ricochet Stream their music now & follow them on Instagram.

    EPISODE 24: The Art of OnlyFans & The Impulsive BBL with Kirstyn Lynne!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2023 40:35


    Another week, another mega-interesting guest (if you couldn't tell from the episode title)! Meet KIRSTYN, Tori's nail tech/therapist/close friend. They've known each other for years now and as expected, have gotten very close over their chats during nail appointments. Apart from that, Kirstyn is a successful OnlyFans artist and isn't afraid to talk about the biz, how she got into it, what she likes and doesn't & much more. Listen with intrigue, respect & appreciation...alright? Good. This week's featured artist: Giuliano Solis! SONG 1: Problems SONG 2: Anoche Stream his music everywhere & follow him on Instagram!

    EPISODE 23: Psych Ward Stories, Bill Nye the Science Guy & Accidentally Dating Your Cousin with Jake Town!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2023 48:49


    Welcome back friends, family & the rest of ya's. It's been a minute since we've had a guy on the podcast, and what a guy to have! Meet JAKE TOWN, certified Tall Dude and probably your favorite bartender. Jake's upbringing was anything but ordinary OR stationary. He & Tori talk about some significant and heavy topics including suicide prevention, men's mental health, and that one time he ran naked through The Bay. You're gonna love him enough to want to check him out yourself over at Funky Chow.   IMPORTANT NOTE: The subject of suicide is discussed in detail in this episode.   This week's featured artist: Brendan Scott Friel!  Song #1 1: Lorelai Song #2: Through the Rain Check out Brendan's website HERE.

    EPISODE 22: Social Media Addiction, “The Little Voice” & Crying in the Fetal Position with Bianca Stefina!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2023 56:45


    And just like that... we're back with our first one-on-one interview of 2023! We get to sort of welcome someone back, as she was one of the mini interviews from the last group episode. You got a glimpse, but we're certain that after this full-length interview you'll also fall in love with BIANCA STEFINA Certified Clinical Trauma specialist - Addiction. Bianca leads her practice with an incredible amount of compassion. Her kindness (she's truly so kind) doesn't stop her from commentating on our distorted ideas of mental health, addiction and much much more. We really think you'll take some valuable information from this one. Check out Bianca's Instagram & Psychology Today pages too!   This episode's featured artist: Bethany D'Alimonte! Song #1: Thinkin' Of You Song #2: In The Bag

    EPISODE 21: “Group Therapy” with Tori & Friends!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2023 58:10


    WE'RE BACK - WE'RE BETTER - WE'VE GOT A NEW NAME! Thank you for your support and patience. Tori explains the hiatus as well as the reasoning for this new (albeit temporary) name. And to kick off the comeback, she has something really special for this episode.  Instead of the usual one-on-one interview, this episode features 6 mini-interviews with some wonderful women, most of who you haven't met yet!   Meet MACKENZIE! She and Tori have recently bonded over the majorly significant and majorly brave life-change she has made. You'll be proud of her too.   Next, BATZY! Batzy is not only a mega interesting person, but she's also Tori's longtime hairstylist! We all know that our hairstylists are also our closest confidants, so this is a treat. Check out Batzy's salon Black Swan Salon on Instagram and their website!   You're gonna love guest #3: NUSSAIBA! Six years ago her and Tori met through work (right here at Blackburn!!) and became pretty instant friends. They talk Nussaiba's upbringing as “the only Arab in Tennessee” and her recent engagement.   Speaking of confidants, meet BIANCA! She does a much better job at explaining her title, but know that she is one of the people making our world better via her work as a certified clinical trauma therapist. She is lovely and insightful and SPOILER…next episode's guest! DEFINITELY check out her website.   There's no introduction needed for this next guest. JENA from Episode 12 joined the group and shared a little (not so little) life update. Let's be honest: she's here for a good laugh.   Aaaand last but not least, meet ANA! This brief chat actually makes Tori cry. Ana is resilient and insightful, we can't wait for her to be back!   This week's featured artist: Baker Grace! Song 1: Pressure Song 2: Comfortable

    EPISODE 20: Chaka Khan Trauma, The Benefits of Psychedelics & A Whole Lotta Libra Energy with Shannon Dow!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2022 55:58


    Hope you're ready to *really* talk about how NOT weird we humans are, because we've got a therapist in the house!    Please welcome SHANNON DOW (MSW, RSW). She and Tori met at a very “transformative” time and immediately hit it off. While Shannon specializes in trauma and PTSR, she has a real aptitude for spirituality and energy. Hear her & Tori talk about her work, her own healing journey & some of the more “non-traditional” (to the Western World at least) forms of healing (psssst…it's psychedelics).    Find Shannon on Instagram and Psychology Today!    This week's featured artist: TALKING VIOLET!   Song 1: Indigo Song 2: Slowdance Stream their album (which is a personal favorite of Tori's) “Tell Your Friends You Love Them” HERE.

    EPISODE 19: Vanessa ❤️s Short Kings & Tori Can't Dance with Vanessa Longo (Again!)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2022 50:31


    We have our first returning guest for this week's episode, and for good reason! After VANESSA came on the podcast back in March (listen to Episode 5 HERE), her and Tori reconnected in a very special way. This episode sounds more like a co-host discussion than it does an interview. Enjoy them discussing what being single together has looked like, the story of their drunk grandmother from Tennessee and what exactly their "types" are. Like last time, we gotta warn you that there's A LOT of giggling.  Follow Vanessa on Instagram & stay tuned for a fun project from her in the near future!   This week's featured artist: TAYA FANARA! Song 1: Night Shift Song 2: Not Sorry 

    EPISODE 18: Adoption, Having Celebrity Parents & “Winning” The Pandemic with Deen Oozeer!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2022 42:12


    Tori didn't anticipate that this podcast would bring her closer to people from Essex, but evidently, it has!    This week, she's joined by her longtime (but somewhat long lost) friend, DEEN OOZEER! If the last name rings a bell, that may be because both of his parents are beloved retired grade school teachers. His dad taught AND coached Tori and holds a very special place in her heart. Deen talks about the reality of having such influential parents, what it's like being a person of color from a small town and candidly tells the story of his adoption. Enjoy!   This week's featured artist: DVO! Song 1: S.T.O.W. Song 2: Company Follow him on Instagram and stream his music HERE.  

    EPISODE 17: Spiteful Cake Piping, The Too Tiny Home & A Half-Finished Mushroom Tattoo with Cheslea Freeze!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 22, 2022 52:05


    Hope you're having a great September! Time has gone by in a very weird way for Tori, which she explains in the intro of this episode. As always, thanks for the love and support y'all.   We're excited to present a lovely interview with a lovely woman, CHESLEA FREEZE! Yes, CHES-LEA. If you're a local who likes yummy things, you're likely familiar with her bakery Kings Bake Shop! It's one of Tori's favorites, and she is honored to have her here to talk her start in the game, her quick marriage, tiny home, and being a young (& successful) business owner. She is truly a joy to listen to, which is really all we need right now.   Follow Kings on Facebook, Instagram & Tik Tok!    This week's featured artist: April Shaye!    Song 1: California Dreams (Summer Remix) - ft. Karepa Song 2: Second Chances

    EPISODE 16: Demon Chickens, Baby Tori As Target Practice & The Tale of Three Weddings with Taylor Bennett!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 8, 2022 51:39


    Welcome back! Let's just get right into it! This week's guest is none other than Tori's own sister, TAYLOR BENNETT! Try to follow along in the intro when Tori explains a bit of their family tree (or as Jay says, "it looks more like a family bush"). Taylor is certainly Tori's closest sibling and it's a joy to hear them reminisce on their childhood, discuss how they're alike but VERY different, and talk a little smack about their loved ones.  For resources on domestic abuse / family violence in your area (Canada), click HERE. For information on Hiatus House (Windsor) and their services, click HERE.   This week's featured artist: Christee Palace! Song 1: What Have You Done To Me Song 2: Jekyll & Hyde Me  Stream her music everywhere & follow her on Instagram!

    EPISODE 15: Therapy for Two, Eight Different Grade Schools & Starbucks in a Castle with Shayla Boose!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2022 61:28


    New & old listeners - welcome to Episode 15! We're a little overwhelmed (in a *mostly* good way) at the response from last week's episode. Tori discusses it - listen nicely.    Tori & her guest get RIGHT into the heavy stuff this week. We are pleased to welcome SHAYLA BOOSE to the podcast! Shayla & Tori met in college and right away liked each other. Listening to Shayla talk relationships, living ALL OVER Windsor, traveling the world & motherhood should give you a good idea why.    Shayla runs a wedding stationary business called Mrs. Prints Charming that you MUST check out. See some of her work on her Facebook or Instagram pages - we're sure you'll be impressed.   This week's featured artist: JOSIE ELYSIA!  Song 1: The Cave Song 2: Out Of My Head And check out Josie's beauty page too…she truly does it all. 

    EPISODE 14: The Hoes of Essex High, ABORTION & Women's Resilience with Cameron Bastien!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2022 59:48


    First off, HUGE thanks for continuing to stream the podcast even during Tori's little hiatus. The support coming in over the past few weeks has been invaluable to her.   Joining us this week is badass mother, feminist, and high school friend of Tori, CAMERON BASTIEN! Cam and Tori didn't really have a relationship until recently actually, when they realized how similarly they feel about important issues AND share the same sentiments towards the people of their hometown. She has some incredible insight on "controversial subjects" and such strong conviction, you'd have no idea she's like…5 feet tall, lol.   We love her, and we love you for listening. Enjoy!    This week's featured artist: MZTF Song 1: Liar Song 2: Luna (with SKINWOLFF & Tony Coates)

    EPISODE 13: The Punk Problem Child, Tori's A.D.D. & Why Frogs Are Assholes with Josh Lowe!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2022 57:15


    We've got another OG podcast supporters in the house! Tori is honored to interview her "closest non-friend", JOSH LOWE! He's every bit as charismatic as the front man of a band should be, and we guarantee you'll have a laugh. In between discussing being raised by a single mom and what it means to live a "meaningful life", they rip through subjects like early porn exposure, organized religion and how much Tori hates frogs. You're also going to hear our first, "wanna hear a secret?"....and it's a good one. Do yourself a favor and check out Josh's band RIVERSIDE DRIVE, who is this week's featured artist! Song 1: Now or Never Song 2: 401 East Stream their EP "Better Days" HERE.  

    EPISODE 12: The Birth Of Baby Toe, ”Bailey Sarian Energy” and The Scholastic Book Fair Scandal with Jena Froese!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 30, 2022 51:07


    If you're also getting your ass kicked by seasonal allergies, let this episode be your pick-me-up! Tori is joined by her oldest friend (friends for the longest, not the eldest) JENA FROESE! This is another episode full of laughs and inside jokes/stories that they do their best to explain, while rarely staying on topic. They touch on some heavier stuff, like losing a parent to cancer & the scary story of giving birth. But there is FAR more goofy content, like how Tori *accidentally* committed a B&E on Jena's workplace and once stole a very sentimental eraser.  ENJOY!    This week's featured artist: Electric Treasure Song 1: Feelsgood Song 2: Dreaming  

    EPISODE 11: Being The Scrunchie Bandit, Loving Old People & The Tale of The Missing Key Fob with Amari Jones!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2022 56:03


    ELEVEN EPISODES? That's wiiiiiild!   This episode is in TRUE Tori fashion - lots of laughs, some personal revelations, inappropriate conversation, etc. etc. We're excited to have the tall & talented AMARI JONES with us for this episode! Tori came to know him when he performed (and absolutely obliterated) a local amateur comedy contest. You'll hear his natural humor and charisma when he talks about being a certified mama's boy, loving older women & being "toxic" (his words).    This week's featured artist: Mugelezi! Song 1: Give Up For Love Song 2: FREQUENT Stream his music at the link above & follow him on Instagram!

    EPISODE 10: Cancer's Not That Weird with Tawnya Jacobs!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2022 49:25


    Happy June friends! We can't believe it's already June...time is strange...yada yada yada. Tori is so excited to present this interview with the sweet, spunky and badass TAWNYA JACOBS! She discusses the terrifying experience of battling breast cancer at such a young age, in the middle of a pandemic, after just losing someone close to her from the very same thing. Somehow she did it with true grace, and we're so happy to have her here telling her story. Make sure you check out her Instagram page dedicated to sharing her journey! For BreastCancer.Org's Brest Self-Exam guide, click HERE. This week's featured artist: Tayler Lynn!  Song #1: Play It Safe Song #2: I Tried

    EPISODE 9: PR, J-14 and How Selena Gomez Wronged Me with Chelsea Victoria!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2022 53:23


    We're going to go ahead and give you a laugh warning for this episode... not just because you'll laugh, but because a lot of laughing goes on, and it's a bit loud.  Tori is joined by her good friend CHELSEA VICTORIA! They met in school but bonded quick, thanks to some college club scandal and mutual love of obscure pop culture. You'll fall in love with her and understand why Chelsea is dubbed the ultimate hype girl (psssst...she even helped this podcast come to be).    This week's featured artist: Alexa Carroccia! Song 1: Camille Song 2: Parker  

    EPISODE 8: Doomsday Anxiety, Trailer Park Posh & The Demons In Your Pocket With Dave Nisbet!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2022 43:59


    Happy May y'all!  It's a pleasure to welcome DAVE NISBET to the podcast! He and Tori have been acquaintances for awhile now, but you'd have no idea based on this interview that this was their first time meeting in person. The conversation flows from his extremely interesting family, leaving a church (that he outright calls a cult), and why being “trailer trash” is quite a blessing.    Dave also provides the music on this week's episode! Song #1: Wild - Case the Joint Song #2: III/Fake - DTB   

    EPISODE 7: The Importance of Pleasure, Mom's Barrel of Condoms & Sex Toys As A Tax Write-Off with Amanda Lambros!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2022 59:40


    Welcome back for Episode 7 (already?!). This is the exact kind of conversation Tori had in mind when starting this podcast in the first place and is truly giddy to share it.  We are beyond proud to present this week's guest who is a relationship coach, sex therapist, professional public speaker, author, and truly so much more. Welcome to the show, AMANDA LAMBROS!  If you've heard prior episodes or have given Tori more than 5 minutes of your time, you know that she has a weird obsession with shame. Shame is Amanda's game, and helping people release the shame around sex is a huge part of her work. They interview includes Tori's own questions about intimacy, “debunking” sexual myths, the importance of pleasure and so, SO much more.    If you're catching this on release day, don't miss Amanda's show at Olde Walkerville Theatre in Windsor on Saturday, April 23rd. Get your tickets HERE, or you can purchase at the door.   This week's featured artist: Mike Hargreaves!  Song 1: Time Spent Wasted Song 2: This Love (ft. Crissi Cochrane)    Stream his music everywhere and follow him on Instagram. 

    EPISODE 6: “Lids” at First Sight & The Union Of Concerned Scientists with Austin Jahn!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2022 43:16


    Tori asked, you said yes, so we dragged him in to the studio! Welcome to the podcast Tori's boyfriend AUSTIN JAHN! It's usually very hard for them to stay on topic, but in this episode you will certainly get a glimpse at the kind of conversations they have on the daily. They cover everything from how they met, why they believe they're compatible and even play a very casual version of The Dating Game. Enjoy a little bit of...us! ❤️   This week's featured artist: The Bishop Boys!  Song 1: Dark Days Song 2: Halfway There Stream her music everywhere & follow them on Instagram!

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    EPISODE 5: Oysters on Instagram, White Men's Confidence and NOT Dating in Windsor-Essex with Vanessa Longo!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2022 42:41


    That's a doozy of a title, huh? It's a doozy of a chat!  This week, Tori talks with the her newly single and very close friend VANESSA LONGO! They talk about how she developed the courage to make the big decision to leave, what she's looking for now (moreso what she's NOT looking for), and what Tinder's like nowadays. SPOILER: there's A LOT of giggling in this episode. To inquire about being a potential guest, you can email Tori (troovers@blackburnmedia.ca) or DM her on Instagram! This week's featured artist: Kaitlyn Frances!  Song 1: Electric Song 2: Close to Me (ft. KIN9 G) Stream her music everywhere & follow her on Instagram!

    EPISODE 4: Media, Motown & Meeting ”The One” In A Pandemic with Todd Shearon!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2022 37:43


    Welcome baaaaack! Hope you're staying healthy, safe & sane. These times is hard, y'all.  This week's episode features a man who wears far too many hats to list them all, TODD SHEARON! You may know him as "The Toddfather", or have seen him working in Windsor's music and/or sports scenes. He and Tori discuss it all, from their shared experience studying/working in media, to how he somehow found love in the pandemic (with a woman in another country?!). It's much cuter when explained by him - enjoy!  (Psssst... he also provides the music on this episode! What can't he do?) Song #1: Picture Love Song #2: New World  

    EPISODE 3: Female Energy, Group Bumble Accounts & The Art of Graphic Tees with Curtis Coleman!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2022 43:35


    Welcome welcome welcome BACK! This next interview is perhaps Tori's favorite so far.   She sits down with comedian & friend CURTIS COLEMAN. They talk comedy inspiration, what it's like being raised surrounded by “female energy”, and perhaps the most unique way of finding a girl to join his friend group. You don't want to miss this one, it's a good laugh.    This week's featured artist(s): New Friends! Song 1: Coming Back For You Song 2: Lovestruck Energy  Stream their music & follow them everywhere @newfriendsmusic

    EPISODE 2: Witchy Aunts, Losing a Parent & Tight Tight Shirts with Sue Beger!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2022 45:30


    Welcome back to Episode 2 of "It's Not That Weird". HUGE thank you to everyone who supported Episode 1 by listening & sharing.  In this episode, Tori sits down with the legend herself, her MOM! Her name's SUE BEGER, but she's well known as Mama Sue around here. Tori learns some interesting stuff herself, as they discuss everything from being raised by a single mother, losing a parent in one of the worst ways possible, and what it's like raising an early morning radio host (SPOILER: it's not all laughs and sunshine). IMPORTANT NOTE: The subject of suicide is discussed in this episode.   This week's featured artist: Bethany D'Alimonte!  Song 1: "Heartbeat" Song 2: "Make It Feel That Way" Follow Bethany on Instagram: @bethanydalimontemusic

    EPISODE 1: Absent Fathers, Being a Cougar & A Very Vegas Wedding with Jay Marchillo!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2022 40:57


    Friends, family, everyone in between - WELCOME to the very first episode of "It's Not That Weird" with Tori Roovers. It's been a long time comin', but let's kick 2022 off on a high note.   To kick off the show, Tori's joined by her co-host on Mix Mornings to have the kind of chat they'd never get to have on-air. Introducing our very first guest: JAY MARCHILLO. He's been in radio for many many years, but doesn't often get the chance to tell the story of how it all began, how he met his lovely wife of 10 years, and getting married in Vegas (strippers and all). With stories this good, he'll definitely be back.   This week's featured artist: Crissi Cochrane!  Song 1: "Can We Go Back" Song 2: "Hungry Love" Follow Crissi at @crissicochrane (FB, IG & TW), and check out her website: www.crissicochrane.com.

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