Podcasts about impulsive

If you have ADHD, you've spent your whole life being told to stop procrastinating. And you've tried. But starting two weeks early feels like nothing. No pressure, no relief, no reward. Just the nagging sense you wasted an afternoon. So you wait. The deadline gets close, the stress kicks in, and suddenly you can work. You finish, you feel incredible, and then you beat yourself up for doing it the wrong way. Again.David's read: nothing here is broken. An ADHD brain needs a specific amount of stimulation to start a task, and a looming deadline manufactures exactly that. The threat is the fuel. The relief is the reward. Which changes the whole question. Not how do you stop procrastinating. How do you plan for it? How do you procrastinate more effectively? And when the pressure turns you into a monster, how do you give it a quiet place to go instead of pretending it won't show up?Isabelle's husband Bobby joins the conversation, and they share what happened the day they planned around Bobby's project stress instead of fighting it. Every argument they would normally have had just... didn't happen. No self-control required.A few minutes in, Isabelle goes quiet because this is suddenly applying to every area of her life. Fair warning: it might do that to you too.This episode is a Something Shiny summer replay, back in the feed while David and Isabelle take their break.In this episode:The difference between the task and the story you tell yourself about how it has to lookWhy doing the work early genuinely feels like nothing, and why the last minute feels like winningThe monster, and why the goal was never to stop being oneHow Isabelle and Bobby avoided every fight in a day without using an ounce of self-controlWhy Isabelle is done sitting through baths she hates, and what that has to do with how you've been told to relaxWhat David means when he says everyone with ADHD believes they're an imposter-------Wait, What's That? Here are some of the terms and people mentioned in this episode explained:Task vs Emotionality David's frame for the whole episode. The task is the thing you're trying to accomplish. The emotionality is everything you pile on top of it. Your assumptions, your fears, your beliefs about how it's supposed to be done. If the task is sweating once a day, the task is sweating once a day. It doesn't matter if you got there in a class, on a trail, or by hauling groceries up the stairs. Deciding it only counts one way is the emotionality.Wilfred Bion The psychoanalyst who developed the task versus emotionality idea back in the 1940s while studying how groups either focus or fall apart. David borrows it here and applies it to one brain instead of a room full of them.Self-Medicating with Emotion Why procrastination works. An ADHD brain needs a specific amount of stimulation to do a task. Anger, anxiety, and excitement all raise your heart rate, which means they all stimulate you. David compares it to a cup of coffee. Waiting until the deadline is close manufactures the stress, and the stress does the job.Delay of Gratification The part that explains why starting early feels so hollow. When you work under pressure, every step you take reduces the stress, so every step feels like relief. Do the same work two weeks early and there's no stress to relieve, so it just feels like you wasted an afternoon. Same work. Completely different reward.Extinction Burst A behavioral term for what happens when the thing that always worked suddenly stops working. David's example is the TV remote. You press the button, nothing happens, and instead of going to get a battery you press it harder, faster, at a new angle, pointed at a mirror. The escalation is the extinction burst.The Monster What an extinction burst looks like in a person. The fists, the stomping, the fury at a change you can't control. David's argument is that we all have one, that pretending otherwise is what makes it dangerous, and that the actual skill is planning for it and clearing the room instead of trying to shame it out of existence.Relational Trauma What builds up over years of watching everyone else do something easily that you cannot do. Your brain does not tell you there's too much stimulation in the room. Your brain tells you that you're stupid, or that you're not trying hard enough. That's the injury this episode is really about.Does cranberry juice prevent UTIs? Yes (and no). And one thing Isabelle learned on this internet rabbit hole: cranberry comes from "crane berry," named because the bilberry flower, when it withers, looks like the head and neck of a sand crane, a bird that feeds on the berries. Who knew? Full fascinating article here: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3370320/-------

Living with bipolar disorder often means navigating a minefield of impulsive thoughts and actions. For example, have you ever made a snap decision that you immediately regretted? In this episode, Gabe Howard (who lives with bipolar) and Dr. Nicole Washington dive deep into the chaotic reality of bipolar impulsivity. They discuss the critical difference between having an impulsive personality and experiencing impulsivity as a disruptive symptom of bipolar disorder. By learning to identify your personal baseline, you can start setting strategic guardrails before a passing thought becomes a permanent problem. Listeners will learn: how delaying gratification by just 24 hours can prevent regret how to conduct a chain analysis and why it works how reflecting on past destructive behaviors can provide valuable data to protect your future Managing a mental health condition is undeniably exhausting, but recognizing your patterns is the first step toward reclaiming your peace of mind. Listen now to learn practical, real-world strategies to stop impulsive behaviors in their tracks and protect your long-term stability. Cold Open Transcript: Gabe Howard: Any barrier, even a few-second one, can really help curb impulsive behavior. Maybe before you buy something, you wander around the block real quick. Maybe before you go home with that person, you go to the bathroom and splash water on your face. Maybe before you yell, you count to three. Impulsive behavior comes in all shapes and sizes and everybody's different and everybody has different tolerance levels, etc., so it's, it's really hard to find coping skills for something that is analogous to a bomb, right? It's everything's fine. Poof! Right. And now it's like, what's the coping skill for that? Our host, Gabe Howard, is an award-winning podcast host, author, and sought-after suicide prevention and mental health speaker, but he wouldn't be any of those things today if he hadn't been committed to a psychiatric hospital in 2003.Gabe also hosts Healthline's Inside Mental Health podcast has appeared in numerous publications, including Bipolar magazine, WebMD, Newsweek, and the Stanford Online Medical Journal. He has appeared on all four major TV networks, ABC, NBC, CBS, and FOX. Among his many awards, he is the recipient of Mental Health America's Norman Guitry Award, received two Webby Honoree acknowledgements, and received an official resolution from the Governor of Ohio naming him an “Everyday Hero.” Gabe wrote the popular book, "Mental Illness is an Asshole and other Observations," available from Amazon; signed copies are available directly from the author with free swag included! To learn more about Gabe, or to book him for your next event, please visit his website, gabehoward.com. Our host, Dr. Nicole Washington, is a native of Baton Rouge, Louisiana, where she attended Southern University and A&M College. After receiving her BS degree, she moved to Tulsa, Oklahoma to enroll in the Oklahoma State University College of Osteopathic Medicine. She completed a residency in psychiatry at the University of Oklahoma in Tulsa. Since completing her residency training, Dr. Nicole has spent most of her career caring for and being an advocate for those who are not typically consumers of mental health services, namely underserved communities, those with severe mental health conditions, and high performing professionals. Through her private practice, podcast, speaking, and writing, she seeks to provide education to decrease the stigma associated with psychiatric conditions. Find out more at DrNicolePsych.com.

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In a viral dating bombshell, a 40-year-old man brutally rejected a high-achieving woman over her tattoo and drinking, calling it a deal-breaker for the kind of wife and home he envisioned—sparking massive debate on modern red flags.This mirrors growing scrutiny linking tattoos on women to hidden trauma, toxic exes, dysfunction, and impulsive pasts, as seen in prison programs actively removing "marks of trauma" like gang brands, trafficking tattoos, and regretful street ink from unstable relationships.With the tattoo removal industry exploding toward billions, countless women are erasing the permanent reminders of pain and poor choices.While some defend tattoos as harmless self-expression, mounting stories and stats paint a darker picture: ink often signals deeper issues worth spotting before it's too late.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/depraved-and-debaucherous--5267208/support.Contact KOP for professional podcast production, imaging, and web design services at http://www.kingofpodcasts.comSupport KOP by subscribing to his YouTube channel and search for King Of PodcastsFollow KOP on X and TikTok @kingofpodcasts (F Meta!)Listen to KOP's other programs, Podcasters Row… and the Wrestling is Real Wrestling Podcast and The Broadcasters Podcast.Buy KOP a Coffee https://buymeacoffee.com/kingofpodcastsDrop KOP a PayPal https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=3TAB983ZQPNVLDrop KOP a Venmo https://account.venmo.com/u/kingofpodcastsDrop KOP a CashApp https://cash.app/$kingofallpodcasts

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Does ADHD really mean poor self-control? Or is that the myth that's been making everything harder?  Dr. Polaris Koi is a philosopher who studies ADHD and self-regulation (and is an ADHDer themselves). In this episode, Cate and Polaris get into why “just try harder” is not only unhelpful advice — it's based on science that most researchers don't even believe anymore.  They talk about why impulsivity in ADHD adults rarely looks like the textbook version (hi, compulsive shopping and 3 a.m. tattoo urges). How shame and anxiety make executive function worse. And why learning to work with your brain's patterns beats white-knuckling your way through every temptation. Plus why some ADHDers end up over-controlled — which comes with its own set of problems.  If you've ever told yourself you're just lazy, bad at relationships, or fundamentally broken because you can't seem to get it together, this one's for you.  For more on this topic Listen: ADHD and impulsive spending Watch: ADHD break-ups: Impulsive texts and overthinking regrets For a transcript and more resources, visit Sorry, I Missed This on Understood.org. You can also email us at sorryimissedthis@understood.org. Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Remember when summer meant you got to just... whatevs? No school, nowhere to be, just go. But then as an adult with ADHD, summer shows up and the structure just evaporates. Your kiddos are out of school. Friends are on vacation. Meetings get pushed, projects stall, and everyone who used to be available just... isn't. And yet you're still supposed to be fully operational.David and Isabelle call it what it is: the evaporation of structure. Your brain is literally zapped by all the change before summer even really starts. So they get into what actually helps. You start with a whimper. You give yourself a menu instead of a resolution. Two or three low-stakes things to work towards that don't have to look any specific way. David has a summer goal story in this episode that proves it... aaaaand might also end with Italian ice. The whole point is permission. Permission to do it your way and take a break before you think you need one. Which is exactly what David and Isabelle are doing. They're stepping away for the summer while still dropping some of the best past Something Shiny: ADHD! episodes into the feed for you to revisit. Perfect for those moments this summer when the routine is gone and your brain needs something to hold onto.In this episode:Why the evaporation of structure hits ADHD brains so hard, and why the first week is always a washWhy your brain is literally zapped by all the change before summer even really startsWhy taking a break before you think you need one is one of the most adaptive things an ADHD brain can doThe menu approach to summer and why it works when goals don'tWhat getting out of the house alone for an hour a week actually does-------Wait, What's That? Here are some of the terms and people mentioned in this episode explained:Dialectical David's word for something that holds two completely opposite truths at the same time. Summer is the break you waited for all year and also chaos incarnate. Both are true at once.Low-Demand Parenting Isabelle's approach to the summer transition. When the demands of changing schedules, new drop-offs, and constant curveballs go way up, she cuts herself and everyone around her way more slack. You cannot have all the disruption and all the expectations. Something has to give.The Menu Approach What David and Isabelle land on as the ADHD-friendly alternative to summer goals. Two or three low-stakes things to work towards through the summer. No pressure to finish. No pressure to do them every day. When your routine disappears, you pick from the menu.The Artist's Way A book by Julia Cameron that Isabelle brings up as a summer goal. Built around two practices: Morning Pages and the Artist Date.Morning Pages Three pages, any notebook, handwritten if possible, every day. Brain dump. You can burn them when you're done. The point is the release.Artist Date One hour a week, alone, outside the house, in a new environment that has nothing to do with your work. No spending required. Isabelle and Bobby still do these.Conception vs Perception David's distinction between what you imagine something will cost you and what it actually takes once you start. He started by walking around the block. One day he looked up from his audiobook and realized he was half a mile farther than he'd ever been.Replays What Something Shiny is dropping in the feed this summer while David and Isabelle take a break. Best of episodes coming your way now through August.Something Shiny Fanny Pack Isabelle's send-off going into the break: get the cool fanny packs and wear them with pride everywhere. Consider it one of your summer accommodations;) Grab yours here at www.somethingshinypodcast.com/merch/p/fanny-pack.-------

Does ADHD really mean poor self-control? Or is that the myth that's been making everything harder?  Dr. Polaris Koi is a philosopher who studies ADHD and self-regulation (and is an ADHDer themselves). In this episode, Cate and Polaris get into why “just try harder” is not only unhelpful advice — it's based on science that most researchers don't even believe anymore.  They talk about why impulsivity in ADHD adults rarely looks like the textbook version (hi, compulsive shopping and 3 a.m. tattoo urges). How shame and anxiety make executive function worse. And why learning to work with your brain's patterns beats white-knuckling your way through every temptation. Plus why some ADHDers end up over-controlled — which comes with its own set of problems.  If you've ever told yourself you're just lazy, bad at relationships, or fundamentally broken because you can't seem to get it together, this one's for you.  For more on this topic Listen: ADHD and impulsive spending Watch: ADHD break-ups: Impulsive texts and overthinking regrets For a transcript and more resources, visit Sorry, I Missed This on Understood.org. You can also email us at sorryimissedthis@understood.org. Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Diving into the life and story of Elon Musk, from his upbringing in South Africa, to the wild story of building Tesla and SpaceX, to his biggest regrets and mistakes, and everything in between.-----Sources Elon Musk - Walter IsaacsonElon Musk: Tesla, SpaceX, and the Quest for a Fantastic Future - Ashlee VanceWisdom Takes Work - Ryan Holiday-----3:19 - Understanding Elon6:35 - A fanatical reader/tough childhood9:28 - The root of his risk-taking 11:40 - "You'll never be successful."12:45 - The power of asking14:00 - Choosing his future/You can always go back 16:38 - First company and Elon's working ways19:31 - Impossible isn't tolerated20:25 - Putting chips back into the game/his relationship with risk22:45 - Elon's leadership paradox25:52 - "The Man Who Didn't Understand the Meaning of the Word ‘Risk.'”27:52 - Getting into space + First principles approach33:55 - The odds facing SpaceX's 34:45 - Musk's business principles41:05 - Attention to detail43:40 - SpaceX hiccups/"SpaceX is in it for the long haul, and, come hell or high water, we are going to make this work."47:20 - Barometer for making decisions47:35 - 2008: Pain. Misery. Suffering56:15 - The line between boldness and recklessness is very thin1:03:43 - The role of luck1:09:25 - The Surges1:11:40 - The algorithm1:13:45 - Impulsive decision-making1:16:23 - Elon's flaws1:24:35 - Final thoughts and stories-----Check out my books below:Daily Greatness: Short Stories and Essays on the Act of Becoming Chasing Greatness 2nd Edition - Timeless Stories on the Pursuit of ExcellenceStay connected and check out more on our website:Chasegreatness.net

Impulsive behavior can leave you feeling frustrated, exhausted, and constantly reacting—but this episode helps you understand what's really driving it. Sean will help you see the difference between impulsivity and defiance - and offer you some great parenting tools and ideas to help your child make good choices and behave. You'll learn why some kids struggle with self-control, how to respond in ways that teach regulation instead of shame, and practical strategies to reduce impulsive behaviors over time.If you want to help your child make better choices while strengthening your relationship, this episode will give you the tools and confidence to guide them effectively.Go deeper with Sean ⁠www.SaveMyFamily.usSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

During Hour 2, Segment 2 of The Tara Show, the host breaks down the details of the highly debated British mandates:The Under-16 Blanket Social Media Ban: The headline measure bars children under the age of 16 from using primary social media platforms like TikTok, Snapchat, Instagram, YouTube, and X. Keir Starmer framed this choice as a necessary step to curb excessive screen time and child mental health crises, telling tech giants that the government is ready to fight back if they resist the rollout.Feature Blocks on Gaming and Livestreaming: Going further than simple account bans, the second step institutes strict default blocks on specific interactive app functionalities. These regulations target livestreaming features and in-game communication tools to prevent strangers from contacting minors under 16.Host Commentary & Global ImpactThe segment analyzes how these measures build upon the UK's previous restrictions, such as the school smartphone bans enacted earlier in the year. The host highlights the intense international friction these rules are causing, noting that critics and U.S. politicians view the mandates as an overreach that heavily threatens free speech and digital liberty.AI can make mistakes, so double-check responses 6 sitesBritain unveils sweeping ban on social media for under-16sJun 15, 2026 — Prime Minister Keir Starmer announced new measures Monday to protect children online after a national consultation board showed br...NBC NewsThe U.K.'s new social media ban is an imperfect necessityJun 16, 2026 — U.K.'s Starmer announces social media ban. British Prime Minister Keir Starmer announced Monday that children under age 16 will no...YahooStarmer Says Britain Will Ban Under-16s From Using Social ...Jun 15, 2026 — Starmer Says Britain Will Ban Under-16s From Using Social Media Apps. The ban could further inflame tensions with the U.S., which ...HuffPostShow allYou said: no bullet pointsUK Prime Minister Keir Starmer announced two sweeping, restrictive social media mandates to crack down on technology companies and protect children from digital harm. The first measure enforces a blanket ban barring minors under 16 from using primary platforms like TikTok, Instagram, and X, with Starmer warning tech giants that the government is prepared to fight back against any resistance. The second step institutes strict default blocks on specific interactive app features, explicitly targeting online livestreaming and in-game communication tools to prevent strangers from contacting young users. The segment notes that these aggressive measures follow earlier UK smartphone bans in schools, highlighting growing international concerns that such strict regulations threaten digital liberty and free speech.If you are tracking the rest of this episode, I can summarize Hour 2 Segment 3, check for any listener call-ins about these tech bans, or find similar international policies being proposed.You said: Summarize Hour 2 - HOUR 2 5th - 1st time a living president was not invited, Obama Library Opening 6th - Last week UK's Stahmer announced 2 restrictive social media steps 7th - GLP1's like and Ozempic and WeGovi side effects: non violence 8th - Trump is allowing ballistic missiles under the MOA for Iran.The second hour of The Tara Show tracks escalating cultural divides, sweeping international speech restrictions, surprising medical trends, and severe foreign policy compromises.The fifth segment highlights a historic breach of presidential protocol, detailing how Donald Trump was completely excluded from the grand opening of the Obama Presidential Center in Chicago. The host notes that while all other living presidents attended the multi-million dollar campus dedication, the Obama Foundation explicitly snubbed Trump, branding the event as a private celebration for loyal supporters rather than a bipartisan national tradition.The sixth segment focuses on international tech regulations, detailing how UK Prime Minister Keir Starmer anno ...

If you have ADHD and grief shows up, do you stay busy? Keep moving? Find something else to do? Stay ahead of the quiet? And then through it all does it find you anyway? Waking up at 2 AM, out of nowhere, when you thought you were past it?That's not you doing grief wrong. That's just how ADHD brains grieve. And this episode is about what to actually do when it catches up.Last time, David and Isabelle unpacked why ADHD brains seem to grieve in the wrong order. Why you can stand dry-eyed at a funeral and then fall apart completely at a graduation. And why neither of those things means something is wrong with you. Then they get into the part nobody usually makes time for: what to actually do when it shows up.In this episode:Why ADHD brains get practical when grief shows up, and what it costs when everyone goes homeThe empirical case David makes from his own life for why how much you cry has nothing to do with how much you lovedWhat it actually means to grieve something that isn't a person. A city. A chapter. A version of yourself that no longer fits.Isabelle's therapist's tool for making a date with your grief so it stops ambushing you at 2 AM-------Wait, What's That? Here are some of the terms and people mentioned in this episode explained:Time Agnosia The ADHD experience of not being able to feel time passing the way neurotypical brains do. In this episode it comes up as one explanation for why grief doesn't hit when everyone expects it to. Your brain isn't programmed to feel things on the service's schedule. It hits when it hits, in its own time, in a future moment you weren't ready for.Asynchronous Processing What happens when your brain doesn't process the big emotional stuff in real time. You can be right in the middle of something and feel completely fine. Then weeks later on a walk, out of nowhere, it lands. That's not numbness. That's just how your brain works.Moral Reasoning Isabelle brings up something from a philosophy course that's stayed with her. The idea that a friend is someone you agree to mourn if they die before you. That choosing to be close to someone is already a quiet acknowledgment that one of you will miss the other. She has never forgotten it.Practical Griever The person who, when loss shows up, immediately pivots to action. Makes the calls, brings the food, goes and cleans the house. David and Isabelle both recognize themselves here. The thing is, the grief doesn't go anywhere. It just waits until the room gets quiet.Ambiguous Losses Grief without a clear name or a socially accepted reason to mourn. Moving away from a city you loved. Losing a version of yourself. A friendship that ended without a conversation. Isabelle talks about still carrying grief from leaving Chicago. These losses are real. They just rarely get the space real grief deserves."Nora" David and Isabelle's shorthand for norepinephrine, the brain chemical wired into mood, attention, and stress response. Comes up here in the context of making sure your basic needs are met before you try to sit with the hard stuff. Nora has to be okay before grief can move through you the way it needs to.Duration Measure Isabelle's term for the container David's timer approach creates. When you decide you're going to sit with grief for a set amount of time and then get up, that's a duration measure. It makes the feeling tolerable because it has edges. You're not drowning in it. You know when it ends.Bobby Richards Isabelle's husband and the new Executive Producer of Something Shiny: ADHD. Gets a very well-earned shoutout in this episode for the audio upgrade you're hopefully hearing right now.Autonomic Nervous System The system that runs the involuntary stuff including heart rate, breathing, and stress response. Comes up in Isabelle's deep dive into dyspraxia and how the brain's predictive processing works differently in neurodivergent people.Dyspraxia A motor coordination difference that often shows up alongside ADHD and autism. Isabelle has a paradigm shift in this episode about what dyspraxia actually is and how it connects to the brain's predictive software. Why change is so dysregulating. Why your body is always ten steps behind your brain.AuDHD Having both autism and ADHD. Comes up as Isabelle and David get into the overlap between the two and what it means for how neurodivergent people process change, repetition, and sensory experience.-------

Episode 174 of The Geek Saga Podcast is the 10th episode in my “Impulsive Hyperfocus” series, in which I reminisce about my experiences joining a sorority and participating (or…not?) as an alum of that sorority… Find the Geek Saga Podcast on:SPOTIFY, APPLE PODCASTS, AMAZON MUSIC, YOUTUBE, & more! I’ve been working on this [sort of] tell-all about being in a sorority off and on for about two years now. It’s got drama, fun (but admittedly, mostly vague) memories, and some general musings…also, take the title with a grain of salt

If you have ADHD, you might already know this particular kind of shame. You held it together at a super sad event (let's say a funeral). Dry-eyed, composed, functioning. And then weeks later you completely lost it over something small like a scratch in a piece of furniture, a voicemail you couldn't get a read on, or a realizing you missed claiming a hold on the book at the library you'd been waiting months for. Then you thought there was something wrong with you for not feeling grief or frustration when you were supposed to. Or for feeling it so hard in all the wrong places. Here's the thing: there's nothing wrong with you! And this episode is going to tell you why.This conversation with David and Isabelle started with the last ten percent of a move that never gets finished, with Christmas lights still up in January, with holiday cards that feel impossible to take down because taking them down means saying goodbye. You probably have your version of all of this. Isabelle shares her story of an IKEA table, a scrap truck, and how when her husband Bobby gave the table a voice in the alley while she watched from the window, she burst into tears. If any of this strikes a cord, David shares a reframe for all of these grief-based adventures. It's specific, it's kind, and it's going to rearrange some things you've been carrying around for a while.In this episode:Why ADHD brains declare mission accomplished at 95 percent done, and why the last bit never happensWhy dopamine lives in anticipation, not completion, and what that means for the finish line of anythingWhat Toy Story, Beauty and the Beast, and The Iron Giant actually did to neurodivergent brains (and why you always buy the wonky stuffed animal)Why ADHD brains tend to hold onto everything or onto nothing, and what both are reaching forWhy you couldn't cry at the funeral but sobbed over an IKEA table, and what David says grief actually is-------Wait, What's That? Here are some of the terms and people mentioned in this episode explained:The ROI Equation What David calls the moment at 95 percent done when your anxiety drops, your brain decides the job is basically finished, and completing the last bit suddenly feels pointless. Not laziness. Not a character flaw. Just math.Dopamine The brain chemical most associated with ADHD. It gets released in anticipation of a reward, not when the reward actually arrives. This is why ordering the pizza feels better than eating it, why the first ninety percent of a project is exciting and the last ten is impossible, and why the Christmas lights are still up in February.Norepinephrine (Nora) Comes in after dopamine and helps your brain make meaning of what just happened. Also wired into the stress and anxiety response, which is why finishing something can feel worse than you expected. David and Isabelle call it "nora" throughout the episode.Existential Intervention David's term for the conscious act of changing the meaning you attach to finishing something, since your brain won't generate that motivation on its own. Instead of waiting to feel ready, you decide what finishing actually means to you. That decision becomes the thing that gets you across the line.Near-peer mentoring Learning from someone just a few steps ahead of you rather than an expert at a distance. Comes up in the context of the pandemic, when both David and Isabelle realized everyone's life looked a lot more like theirs than they'd assumed.Animism The tendency to believe objects have feelings or inner lives. It shows up as why Isabelle is nearly in tears watching an IKEA table get picked up by a scrap truck, why David buys the dying flowers at the store, and why you feel genuinely bad about donating a stuffed animal with slightly off stitching. Most neurodivergent people have it. The episode makes a case for why that makes complete sense.-------

This Full Moon in Sagittarius takes place in most locations on Sunday. May 31. You can expect drama, action, and a need for movement during this fire sign Full Moon during this last weekend in May. You may also find yourself seeking wisdom or craving more freedom, freedom that might lead you to take more risks. It might lead you in the direction of chasing an exciting dream. Sagittarius likes to experience things and believes that growth happens through doing. This Full Moon at 9 degrees Sagittarius also activates a Gemini-Sag axis that is impacted by two very important fixed stars. Listen to the full episode to find out so much more. Kelly's Student Summer Workshop is coming up on August 15-16. If you're one of Kelly's on-line students, why not come out to the small, picturesque town of Orangeville, Ontario for an in-person learning experience. What a great way to improve your chart interpretation skills, engage in great discussions, and connect in-person with other astrology enthusiasts. Click on the link for more info or to register!  https://www.kellysastrology.com/annual-student-workshop/

You didn't burn your business down. You got bored — and nobody told you why. The Impulsive Thinker® finally digs into his own ADHD story. If you never fit in, this episode is for you.   In This Episode: Why masking and not fitting in hits hardest for ADHD Entrepreneurs How boredom and conformity kill the drive to build and create What happens when you mistake ADHD for being a "bad person"   What You'll Take Away: Not fitting in is the baseline for ADHD Entrepreneurs — not a problem to fix Masking starts young and scars deep, but doesn't erase who you are Boredom triggers chaos — your brain blows things up to feel something ADHD isn't the problem. It's the world's refusal to bend that breaks you. Diagnosing ADHD late means years of thinking you're the issue   GUEST BIOCassandra Morari is an ADHD brain and COO at The Rock, a Saskatchewan family ag-business. She knows small town. She knows family business. And she's been masking her brain for years. www.therackonline.com   ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode of The Impulsive Thinker® tears the mask off the host's own ADHD Entrepreneur experience. No fluff. Cassandra Morari asks the questions nobody's put to The Impulsive Thinker® before — what did pre-diagnosis really look like? From growing up the oddball in a rural Catholic town to blowing up career moves out of boredom, The Impulsive Thinker® walks through decades of fitting everywhere but belonging nowhere. They hit on real ADHD challenges — masking, rejection, internalized blame, and how boredom and novelty drive business decisions. The Impulsive Thinker® explains that ADHD isn't the enemy. The problem is being forced to run on "society's measuring stick" instead of your own operating system. The worst damage isn't business chaos — it's the belief that your brain is broken. This episode is built for ADHD Entrepreneurs who know being different isn't a marketing slogan. If you're sick of pretending to fit in, hit play now.   Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.  

If you have ADHD and you got your diagnosis as an adult, odds are it felt like a spotlight switched on over your entire life and everything, every struggle, every pattern, every thing you couldn't explain about yourself is suddenly lit up.Afdhel Aziz has spent decades building an extraordinary creative life. Writer, filmmaker, keynote speaker, Forbes contributor. He even recorded an entire album in his living room last year. Through it all buildling a framework that made his career work without knowing it was an accommodation. All of it running on a neurodivergent brain he didn't have a name for yet. Then about a month and a half before this conversation, that changed.What you're about to hear is what happens when David and Isabelle get to sit with someone who is learning to understand their ADHD in the moment. Unpacking in real time what his brain has been doing all along, why the things that worked worked, why the things that didn't couldn't, and what it means to finally see yourself clearly after years of a blurry reflection. The epiphanies were still arriving while we were recording. You'll feel that.In this episode:What a late ADHD diagnosis feels like when you're already successfulThe Four P's framework (Purpose, Priorities, Process, People) and how Afdhel built it without knowing it was an accommodationWhy ADHD and anxiety create a loop that keeps you stuck, and what breaks itWhat happened when he told his team about his diagnosis and the instruction manual that changed how they work togetherHow his marriage shifted when he stopped trying to be good at things he wasn't good atAfdhel's self-forgiveness practice: "I forgive myself for judging myself for doing X"Accommodations plus Community equals Self-Esteem and why that equation is simpler and more powerful than it soundsWhy medication might not have to be the only path and what to do when it doesn't work for your brain-------Wait, What's That? Here are some of the terms and people mentioned in this episode explained:Inattentive ADHD One of the three presentations of ADHD, characterized primarily by difficulty sustaining attention, frequent distraction, and challenges with organization and follow-through rather than the hyperactivity most people associate with ADHD. Often goes undiagnosed longer, particularly in adults who have built workarounds without realizing it.The Four P's Afdhel's personal framework and accomodation for operating with an ADHD brain. Purpose (who you are and where you're going), Priorities (deciding what actually matters right now), Process (building systems so your brain only does the parts it's built for), and People (surrounding yourself with those who complement what you can't do alone). Learn more at afdhelaziz.com.Dave Flink Founder of the Neurodiversity Alliance, a nonprofit supporting neurodiverse students in high schools and colleges. His equation from this episode: Accommodations + Community = Self-EsteemMetacognition Thinking about your own thinking. In this episode it shows up as Afdhel's growing ability to observe his own thought patterns as they're happening and redirect before going down a rabbit hole.Saint Royale Afdhel's music project. He wrote, produced, and performed an entire album in his home studio in LA, available on Spotify.Good is the New Cool Afdhel's creative studio and book series built around purpose-driven storytelling. His most recent book, Good is the New Cool: Guide to Personal Purpose, explores how to find and build a life around your purpose. Find it here.Afdhel's Forbes Article Before this conversation happened, Afdhel wrote about Something Shiny: ADHD!. Read it here.-------

Are our preconceptions about teen behaviour true? What can we learn from the psychology and neuroscience of teen development to help support them rather than blame them? Are mobile phones and social media responsible for the jump in youth mental health issues?In this episode we have the topic of the adolescent brain to get the up to date science on. So we're going to be testing our preconceptions about teenagers, and comparing the evidence base from research, to what we've come to believe through friends, family and heresay. So, we get into the development of the brain during puberty; just what behaviour hormones are and aren't responsible for; whether the late completion of the frontal cortex, responsible for self control and reasoning, affects their ability to make important decisions; the consequences of social connection circuits developing for their sense of belonging or exclusion; the alarming rise in mental health issues among young people over the past 15 years, and whether the research supports recent claims that digital devices and social media are largely responsible.Fortunately to navigate these choppy waters we have the co-director for Center for Translational Neuroscience at the University of Oregon and the co-director of the National Scientific Council on Adolescence, Jennifer Pfeiffer. She is the author of over 150 scientific papers on the neuroscience and Psychology of adolescence, puberty, social cognition and teen mental health and self regulation. She is on a mission to use science to change our narratives about the adolescent brain which she explains in her excellent new TED X talk, “The surprising science of adolescent brains”.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wr8VVJRcRSgWhat we discuss: 00:00 Intro06:11 Need to shift the narrative about teens.12:10 Puberty Vs Adolescence. 16:25 Preconceptions about teen development.17:00 Impulsive and risk taking (1st preconception).17:50 Frontal cortex not complete before 21/22 yo. (Executive reasoning)19:50 So called “Bad decisions” could be just from an adult point of view.21:40 Environmental factors deeply influence teen cognitive function.26:00 Interested only in friends, not in family relations, (2nd preconception).30:40 Teen brains mirror adults in the home.35:45 They love to break rules and push boundaries, (3rd preconception).36:40 Testing limits and failing integrates learning.39:50 Hormones make them emotionally vulnerable and erratic, (4th preconception).46:22 Trivialise fear of fitting in, missing out, and exclusion, (5th preconception).49:30 Fear of exclusion research.51:10 They're more likely to become addicted to persuasive technologies, (6th preconception).55:10 Metanalyses show a %15 increase risk from social media.56:25 %300 increased risk when there are parents with mental health problems.57:25 %150-200 increased risk from bullying.59:25 Factors in doubling of youth mental health issues.01:03:00 Recommendations for technology and young people.01:08:00 Advice to avoid blaming and shaming teens.References:Jennifer Pfeifer, TED X talk, “The surprising science of adolescent brains”.BJ Casey,  Kristina Cause, ‘The Teenage Brain: Self Control'.Laurence Steinberg, ‘Cognitive and affective development in adolescence'Roy Baumeister, “Negativity Bias” CC Interview.Jonathan Haidt - “The Anxious Generation”. National Scientific Council on Adolescence report “What science tells us adolescents need online”.

I went from tracking every gram of food I was consuming, eating healthy all day & losing my sh*t on way too many sweets come 9pm, feeling broken and like I was going to spend the rest of my life bingeing and thinking about foodTo…Food being the most effortless part of my day. I'm in the driver seat of how much I eat, not my urges.I enjoy my delicious pancakes for breakfast that taste like brownies every morning without weighing out my almond butter,I keep chocolate in my house and enjoy it some days after a meal and some days have no desire to have any.I've had my moms homemade cookies in my house for months and forgot they were even there.This isn't because I have willpower. It's because I rewired my brain and no longer feel an urge to eat when I'm bored or overly full.I got rid of the eff it mentality. I stopped saying “I'll do better tomorrow” and rewired my brain instead.I'm walking you through my entire Root & Rewire process inside the Rewire Your Brain to Stop Binge Eating 30 Day Challenge.Everyday, you'll have a tangible tool to help you become less impulsive with food without someone just telling you to eat less, watch your portions, slow down your eating, don't buy the chocolate or just listen to your body.As someone who's over 6+yrs binge free, I get it and I can't wait to help you get your brain back!JOIN THE REWIRE YOUR BRAIN TO STOP BINGE EATING 30 DAY CHALLENGECONNECT WITH LORNA:---＞ Instagram @lorna_bingeeatingcoachhttps://www.instagram.com/lorna_bingeeatingcoach/---＞ TikTok @lorna_bingeeatingcoach https://www.tiktok.com/@lorna_bingeeatingcoach

If you've ever been told your ADHD is either your biggest weakness or your greatest entrepreneurial superpower, this episode will challenge that narrative. I sit down with business coach, former psychotherapist, and ADHD-ish podcast host Diann Wingert to unpack the realities of building a business with an ADHD brain — from burnout and perfectionism to impulsivity and decision fatigue.Diann shares honest, practical insights on scaling sustainably, managing rejection sensitivity, and creating a business that works with your brain instead of against it. If you're tired of trying to fit into a neurotypical business mold, this episode is for you.Episode Highlights[0:38] - Why the “ADHD is a superpower” narrative can be harmful[1:31] - Why Diann transitioned from psychotherapist to ADHD business coach[3:43] - The difference between therapy and coaching for ADHD entrepreneurs[9:00] - The overlooked connection between ADHD and trauma[10:24] - Why ADHD traits are context-dependent in business[13:14] - Why ADHD entrepreneurs struggle when it's time to scale[15:05] - Diann's “idea parking lot” strategy for impulsive ideas[18:42] - The “unholy trinity” of ADHD entrepreneurship: perfectionism, procrastination, and people pleasing[21:09] - How rejection sensitivity fuels burnout and self-sabotage[22:55] - Radical self-acceptance and why it matters in business[26:39] - Diann's 4 business pillars: positioning, packaging, pricing, and promoting[29:53] - Why too many offers can hurt business growth[33:22] - Creating a sustainable marketing strategy for ADHD entrepreneurs[35:17] - How to stop chasing every shiny business idea[37:27] - Impulsive vs. overthinking ADHD entrepreneurs[43:08] - What most business coaches miss with ADHD clients[46:04] - Building a business that works with your ADHD brain, not against itLinks and Resources:Diann Wingert is a former psychotherapist, serial business owner, and ADHD business coach who helps entrepreneurs and creatives build businesses that work with their brains, not against them. Host of the ADHD-ish Podcast, Diann is passionate about helping neurodivergent business owners balance passion, purpose, and profit while embracing the creativity and innovation that come with ADHD.ADHD-ish Podcast: ADHD-ish™Diann Wingert Coaching website: ADHD Business Coach | Diann Wingert | For EntrepreneursDi AI - Diann Wingert's ADHD Business Coach DigitalClone: Di AI is here.LinkedIn account: https://www.linkedin.com/in/diannwingertcoaching/Thank you for tuning into "SuccessFULL with ADHD." If this episode has impacted you, remember to rate, follow, share, and review our podcast. Your support helps us reach and help more individuals navigating their journeys with ADHD.

If you have ADHD, chances are "just believe in yourself" has never quite landed. Not because you're broken, but because traditional self-esteem advice wasn't built for a brain like yours.In this episode, David offers a reframe that actually makes sense for neurodivergent minds: self-esteem isn't about confidence or positivity. It's about something more fundamental — the belief that you will survive what happens next. That one shift changes how you start things, why waiting to feel ready keeps you stuck, and why you can feel completely competent in one area of your life and utterly lost in another.Isabelle works through it live — and it gets uncomfortably specific. The kind of specific that might stop you mid-listen and make you go: oh. that's me.In this episode:Why "believe in yourself" feels abstract or impossible for ADHD and neurodivergent brains — and why that's not on youThe difference between self-esteem and self-efficacy, and which one actually gets you movingWhy your confidence can feel solid one day and completely gone by 4pmHow ADHD variability makes traditional self-esteem advice quietly set you up to failWhy doing something imperfectly still builds more trust in yourself than waiting until you're readyWhy outsourcing might actually be a self-esteem strategy — and when it isn't-------Wait, What's That? Here are some of the terms and people mentioned in this episode explained:Albert Bandura — The psychologist behind self-efficacy theory. Shifted the conversation from "feeling good about yourself" to something more specific: your belief that you can handle a particular situation. David respectfully disagrees with part of his model. In the best way.Self-efficacy — Your belief that you can act and influence an outcome. The key thing: it's built through experience, not feelings. You don't have to feel ready to start building it.Self-esteem (reframed) — Traditionally, how you feel about yourself. David's version: the belief that you'll survive the outcome — even when things go sideways. That shift makes it possible to act without needing confidence first.VAST (Variable Attentional Stimulation Seeking Trait) — From ADHD 2.0 by Hallowell & Ratey. A reframe of ADHD as variability of attention rather than a deficit. Your ability to focus, engage, and follow through shifts depending on context, stimulation, and internal state. Sound familiar?Norepinephrine — A neurotransmitter tied to attention and alertness. More involved in your moment-to-moment sense of I can do this than most people realize.Metacognition — Thinking about your own thinking. Useful for understanding your patterns. Also a reliable path to an overthinking spiral at 11pm. Both things are true.Self-perpetuating feedback loop — When thoughts, feelings, and behaviors keep reinforcing each other. Not acting builds doubt. Acting — even imperfectly — starts building something else instead.Neophobic — The very human tendency to resist new things. Especially loud when there's no precedent and the stakes feel like they have no bottom.-------

Laura reports on her family's rocky journey home from Mexico and the effects it had on her kids, and Shanna talks about how her daughter's adorable Easter egg hunt took an unexpected turn. Also, in the special segment "Throwback," Shanna shares two stories about how her impulsive decisions as a child disrupted her family's vacations. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week, including a long-overdue errand Laura finally checked off her list and a spontaneous project Cece took on that made Shanna's heart sing. Shanna's kids are 7 and 10 years old, and Laura's kids are 7 years old and 5 years old.Topics discussed in this episode:• How to keep your kids occupied during a long travel day• Handling sibling jealousy during spring break• Taking kids to birthday parties when they're overtired and dysregulated• Sending your kids to day camp during school breaks• Impulsive childhood decisions• When best-laid vacation plans go wrong• Letting your child take ownership of a projectProducts, links, resources mentioned in this episode:• Johnny Rockets (Restaurant in the Cancun airport)• "Meat tenderizer in the acute treatment of imported fire ant stings" - Article from the Journal of the American Academy of Dermatology, 1987• Pinetop, Arizona - Where Shanna's family vacationed• Best Jewelry and Watch Repair, Glendale — Laura's ring resizing recommendationPast BFP episodes mentioned in this episode:• Ep. 386 - Where Shanna shares the hack of keeping an Oh Shit kit in your car• Ep. 397 - Where Shanna talks about her girls attending "field trip" camp over winter break• Ep. 408 - Where Laura shares a Throwback story about the time her family went on vacation to an all-inclusive Club Med resort in MexicoConnect with Us:• Become a Patreon member to access ad-free episodes, bonus content, live hangouts and more! patreon.com/bfppodcast• Follow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcast• Join our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey.• Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.com• Email us: contact@bigfatpositivepodcast.com• Send us a voice message: speakpipe.com/bfppodcastIf you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you!Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sketch, Kuro, Laser and Steven are joined by returning guest R Dragon to recap Rooster Fighter, Blue Lock and Tokyo Revengers. 00:00 - Rooster Fighter ep 7 Recap 31:56 - Blue Lock ep 12 Recap 58:35 - Tokyo Revengers eps 11 and 12 Recap

speaks to Neesa Moodley, Associate Business Editor at Daily Maverick, who unpacks how AI is quietly reshaping consumer habits—and what it means for retailers, banks and the broader economy. As households adjust to ongoing financial pressure, AI is not just a convenience tool—it’s becoming a gatekeeper between consumers and unnecessary spending. Presenter John Maytham is an actor and author-turned-talk radio veteran and seasoned journalist. His show serves a round-up of local and international news coupled with the latest in business, sport, traffic and weather. The host’s eclectic interests mean the program often surprises the audience with intriguing book reviews and inspiring interviews profiling artists. A daily highlight is Rapid Fire, just after 5:30pm. CapeTalk fans call in, to stump the presenter with their general knowledge questions. Another firm favourite is the humorous Thursday crossing with award-winning journalist Rebecca Davis, called “Plan B”. Thank you for listening to a podcast from Afternoon Drive with John Maytham Listen live on Primedia+ weekdays from 15:00 and 18:00 (SA Time) to Afternoon Drive with John Maytham broadcast on CapeTalk https://buff.ly/NnFM3Nk For more from the show go to https://buff.ly/BSFy4Cn or find all the catch-up podcasts here https://buff.ly/n8nWt4x Subscribe to the CapeTalk Daily and Weekly Newsletters https://buff.ly/sbvVZD5 Follow us on social media: CapeTalk on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CapeTalk CapeTalk on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@capetalk CapeTalk on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ CapeTalk on X: https://x.com/CapeTalk CapeTalk on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CapeTalk567 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

More To The Story: When President Donald Trump returned to office last year, he promised to largely steer America clear of foreign entanglements. But over the last year, his administration has captured Venezuelan President Nicolás Maduro, threatened to take over Greenland, openly talked about making Canada the 51st state, and most recently attacked Iran. In some ways, it might appear that Trump is trying to revive the American empire. Not so, says Daniel Immerwahr, a Northwestern University history professor and author of How to Hide an Empire: A History of the Greater United States. What Trump is really doing, he says, is undermining the international system itself. On this week's More To The Story, Immerwahr sits down with host Al Letson to examine Trump's attack on Iran, why Trump is ripping apart the post-World War II international order, and the long-term consequences of the president's impulsive foreign policy.Producer: Josh Sanburn | Editor: Kara McGuirk-Allison | Theme music: Fernando Arruda and Jim Briggs | Copy editor: Nikki Frick | Digital producer: Artis Curiskis | Deputy executive producer: Taki Telonidis | Executive producer: Brett Myers | Executive editor: James West | Host: Al LetsonListen: Al Gore: Trump Administration Is the Most Corrupt in History (More To The Story)Read: Trump's New Nuclear Nightmare in Iran (Mother Jones)Read: How to Hide an Empire: A History of the Greater United States (Picador) Donate today at Revealnews.org/more Subscribe to our weekly newsletter at Revealnews.org/weekly Follow us on Instagram and Bluesky Learn about your ad choices: dovetail.prx.org/ad-choices

This week we have a thought provoking Just The Tip in store where we discuss the entire idea of Spawn Season and is it a scam that we just buy into with "meh" results? Plus a spirited LIVE WELL segment on tap with lots of fantastic questions and opinions from YOU! Link for Identifier Tin Tag mentioned in show! Just Select JBP as the club and the image will update, don't forget to add your name or social handle too!For Ketch: https://www.bluefoxgifts.com/blue-fox-tin-tag-aluminum-kayak-tournament-identifier/For YakAttack: https://www.bluefoxgifts.com/blue-fox-tin-tag-lb-fits-the-leader-board-aluminum-kayak-tournament-identifier/ Online

This week, David and Isabelle continue their conversation with Avari Brocker — Neurodiversity Alliance student advocate and founder of LearningCurb.org. Avari talks about what it felt like to go from being on her own little island to being surrounded by other neurodivergent people, and realizing (maybe for the first time) that it was actually safe to be fully herself. The group also gets into the difference between being around people who tolerate you vs. being around people who just get it. If you've ever felt exhausted from constantly managing yourself around other people or if you've ever needed a reminder that belonging is not extra, it's foundational… this one's for you!Here's what's coming your way:Why being around like-minded neurodivergent people can feel like coming homeA clear breakdown of what high masking feels like from the insideWhy shared experience can make it easier to stop overexplaining and start relaxingHow community can help you stand up for yourself in ways you might not otherwiseThe story behind Learning Curb and why its whole mission is rooted in accessA reminder that the things you needed most can become the very things you build for someone else -------Wait, What's That? Here are some of the terms and people mentioned in this episode explained:Neurodiversity Alliance: An organization that supports neurodivergent young people through leadership, mentorship, and advocacy. In this conversation, it's also the community space where David and Isabelle first connected with Avari. Learn more at TheNDAlliance.org. Dyslexia: A learning disability that affects reading, spelling, and language processing. In this conversation, Avari talks about how meaningful it was when other dyslexic people heard her speak not just about the hard parts, but the good parts too. Dysgraphia: A learning disability that affects writing. Here, it's part of the group of neurodivergent experiences Avari has already been advocating around and building resources for. The “curb cut” effect: The idea behind Learning Curb's name. Curb cuts were added to sidewalks after the Americans with Disabilities Act to support wheelchair users, but they ended up helping lots of other people too — parents with strollers, skateboarders, cyclists, and delivery workers. Avari uses that as a model for education: when you lower the barrier to access for the most vulnerable people, everybody benefits. High masking: Constantly adjusting your behavior, communication, or presentation so you seem more acceptable, understandable, or “normal” to other people. Avari describes doing this in neurotypical spaces and contrasts it with the relief of not needing to do it so much in neurodivergent community. Neurospicy: A playful community term some neurodivergent people use for themselves. Isabelle uses it here while talking about the way neurospicy conversations can go from breadcrumb-level sharing to a full French dip hoagie in about two seconds. Narrative Reasoning: Avari's phrase for the way her brain explains things through story, analogy, and comparison that other people can understand. Neurotypical: People whose brains work in ways that are more socially expected or normalized. In this conversation, Avari contrasts neurotypical spaces with neurodivergent ones, especially in terms of masking, safety, and how much self-management is required. Love bombing: A phrase Avari uses jokingly while talking about how quickly people bonded at the Neurodiversity Alliance. In context, she's naming the relief of being able to connect intensely without immediately worrying that it's “too much.” “English is just three languages in a trench coat”: Avari's explanation for why English spelling is chaos, and Isabelle immediately clocks it as the best saying ever!Night Witches: The nickname given by German soldiers during World War II to the Soviet Union's all-female 588th Night Bomber Regiment, known for flying dangerous nighttime bombing missions against Nazi forces. Isabelle brings them up as an example of the kind of fully formed special-interest tangent that can come pouring out once someone takes the bait in a neurodivergent conversation. -------

Wondering why your child can't stop and think even when they want to? It's not defiance—it's a dysregulated brain under stress. Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge, expert in Regulation First Parenting™, helps parents understand emotional dysregulation and build real self-control through brain-based solutions.If you're asking why your child can't stop and think even when they want to, you're not alone. Those big, fast reactions aren't defiance—they're signs of a dysregulated brain that's overwhelmed and struggling to pause.In this episode, you'll uncover what's really happening beneath your child's behavior and learn simple, brain-based ways to build true impulse control—starting with regulation, not pressure.Why can't my child stop and think even when they want to?You see the promise. “I won't do it again.” And then… it happens again. That's because impulse control isn't just a skill—it's state dependent—and closely tied to your child's mental health and how their brain develops over time.When your child is feeling stressed, their thinking brain goes offline. The survival brain takes over, and reaction speeds up. In that moment, your child is unable to pause—even if they want to—no matter how much explaining or child talking happens.It's not bad behavior—it's a dysregulated brainStress blocks access to controlImpulse control grows in safety, not pressureReal-Life Example: A child hits their sibling, then runs off crying. You see the behavior—but underneath is a nervous system in distress as the child develops regulation skills.Is my child's impulsive behavior a sign of anxiety or something else?Sometimes, yes. Impulsive behavior can be linked to anxiety, ADHD, or even generalized anxiety disorder, but it's not always about a diagnosis.Many kids live in a chronically stressed state, especially in today's fast-paced world. That stress shows up as:Emotional outburstsTrouble focusing in schoolA hard time making friends or forming friendshipsDifficulty managing feelings in daily lifeBehavior is communication. When kids act out, they're showing us their brain is overwhelmed.You don't have to figure this out alone.Become a Dysregulation Insider VIP and get your FREE Regulation Rescue Kit: How to Stay Calm When Your Child Pushes Your Buttons and Stop Oppositional Behaviors.Head to www.drroseann.com/newsletter and start your calm parenting journey today.What's the difference between a “flooded” brain and an “underpowered” brain?Not all impulsive kids look the same. There are two main patterns:1. The Flooded Brain (Overstimulated)Big reactions, anger, emotional outburstsFast, explosive responsesFeels like a “Ferrari without brakes”2. The Underpowered Brain (Understimulated)Zoning out, avoidance, risk-seekingStruggles to focus or engageLooks calm—but lacks internal driveBoth types struggle with pausing and thinking in the moment.That's why guessing doesn't work. Understanding your child's brain state changes everything.Why do consequences, yelling, or stricter rules make things worse?It feels logical—more discipline should fix the problem, right?But here's the truth: pressure increases stress, and stress reduces control.When you yell or add consequences:Cortisol (stress hormone) risesExecutive functioning dropsYour child becomes more reactiveYou're not building discipline—you're reinforcing survival mode.Instead, ask: “What state is my child's nervous system in?”That shift changes everything.In the middle of these tough moments, tools matter. Quick CALM gives you fast, practical strategies to regulate your child in real time.How can I help my child build real impulse control?Let's calm the brain first. Everything follows from there.Your child needs regulation before expectation. That's how coping skills develop.Start with:Co-regulation: Stay calm so your child can borrow your calmSafety cues: Gentle tone, connection, predictable routinesSimple strategies: Taking deep breaths, pausing together, reducing overwhelmPlay and downtime: Critical for brain development, especially at an early ageInstead of “Stop and think!”, try: “I see this is hard. Let's take a breath together.”That's how you teach, not force, self-control.

This week, David and Isabelle sit down with Avari Brocker — Neurodiversity Alliance student advocate and founder of Learning Curb — for a conversation about something so many neurodivergent people carry quietly for years: knowing you're different, only seeing your deficits, and not having language for why life feels so much harder than it seems to for everyone else.Avari shares what it was like to be diagnosed with ADHD and dyslexia at 16 after struggling for most of her life, and why the worst thing she thought she might hear was that something wasn't actually wrong. David and Isabelle unpack why that fear lands so deeply, especially for high-achieving, high-masking kids who get told they're just too anxious or “you'll be fine” while they're privately drowning.Avari also shares how that late diagnosis lit a fire under LearningCurb.org, the resource hub she built so other neurodivergent kids and families don't have to spend a year desperately searching for answers while they're still in the middle of struggling.If you've ever thought, “I know something's different, but I don't know what”… if you've ever worried that a label would make things worse… or if you've ever needed someone to say there's a reason this has felt this hard, this one's for you.Here's what's coming your way:Why the label you fear can sometimes be the thing that finally brings reliefA powerful breakdown of what it means to grow up seeing only your deficits and not your strengthsWhy high-masking, high-achieving kids can get missed for yearsHow research, self-understanding, and advocacy can change the trajectory of someone's lifeWhat Avari built after diagnosis — and why it matters for neurodivergent kids and families now-------Wait, What's That? Here are some of the terms and people mentioned in this episode explained:Neurodiversity Alliance: An organization that supports neurodivergent young people through leadership, mentorship, and advocacy. In this conversation, it's also the community space where David and Isabelle first connected with Avari.Dyslexia: A learning disability that affects reading, spelling, and language processing. In this episode, Avari talks about finally having language for why reading and spelling had felt so hard for so long.Dysgraphia: A learning disability that affects writing. It can show up in handwriting, spelling, and getting thoughts onto the page. Avari references how physically hard writing tasks could be for her.LearningCurb.org: Avari's resource hub for neurodivergent kids and families. She created it to give people one place to find tools, support, and information for different neurodiverse needs.Interconnected Thinking: Avari's phrase for the way her brain naturally links ideas, experiences, and patterns together. She talks about this as one of her neurodivergent strengths.Hyperfocus: A common ADHD experience where attention gets locked onto something intensely. Avari mentions that she used to assume everyone experienced hyperfocus the way she did.Eye Diagnosis for Slow Tracking: A diagnosis related to how the eyes track across a page or visual field. In Avari's case, that diagnosis helped her access extra time on tests before she later received her ADHD and dyslexia diagnoses.Trauma Mastery: A phrase Isabelle uses to describe the way people sometimes make meaning out of painful experiences by using what they learned to protect or help others.-------

Welcome to PTBN Pop's Video Jukebox Song of The Day! Every weekday will be featuring a live watch of a great and memorable music video. On today's episode, Andy Atherton is watching “Impulsive” by Wilson Phillips from 1990.   The YouTube link for the video is below so you can watch along! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pkYzwoZ0YwI

Special Episode: Happy Hour with Gage Briney This one's a ride.From small-town Arkansas to the Today Show, Gage Briney is blowing up by doing one thing most people are afraid to do…

Grading your dynasty fantasy football trades from last week—did you win or lose?  

Three stories about snap decisions and what happens next: a classic RISK! episode from December 2013 that still hits hard. Lauren Cook found her date for a stranger's New Jersey wedding on Craigslist Casual Encounters. She showed up with a fake identity, a room full of people who knew nothing about her, and a night that kept escalating in directions she did not plan for. (Content note: gun violence) JJ grew up in 1980s Bushwick, Brooklyn, fought his way into Wesleyan and then Wall Street, but one afternoon a neighborhood confrontation pulled him back to a version of himself he thought he had left behind. He came very close to throwing everything away. Daniel Lobell sank $2,000 into a hairless cat as the foundation of a breeding empire. When the cat ended up at a friend's apartment and she stopped returning his calls, his plan to get it back got increasingly creative. Full episode details and music credits at risk-show.com/podcast/impulsive-cre510 Support RISK! & Get Involved

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This week, David and Isabelle unpack why moving can hit neurodivergent brains so much harder than people realize. Yes, there's the obvious stress of boxes, clutter, visual chaos, and trying to remember where literally anything is. But underneath that, they get into the deeper part too: what happens when your routines disappear, your environment stops making sense, and even the tiniest automatic actions suddenly don't exist anymore.Because this episode is really about more than moving. It's about that awful, disorienting in-between where something is objectively good… and your nervous system is still like, “Absolutely not.” David breaks down why change itself can land as painful, why losing patterns can feel like losing your footing, and why so many neurospicy folks get slammed by overwhelm before the new environment has had a chance to make sense yet.And instead of just naming the problem, they get to what actually can help. The conversation gets into why your brain may need to physically build new patterns before anything feels manageable again, why body doubling can interrupt the buffering, why visual overwhelm matters more than people think, and how different neurospicy brains need totally different systems in order to function.If you've ever been excited about a change and still felt totally wrecked by it. Or, if you've ever looked around and thought, “Why does this feel so hard when this is supposed to be good?” this one will probably hit home.Here's what's coming your way: Why “good change” can still feel painful, disorienting, and weirdly grief-y for ADHD and AuDHD brainsA really helpful breakdown of how routines, environment, and repeated actions quietly hold daily life togetherLanguage for the specific kind of overwhelm that happens when nothing feels automatic anymoreWhy unpacking can create instant buffering, shutdown, and decision fatigueHow body doubling, music, and visual clarity can help interrupt overwhelm and make starting easierWhy different brains need wildly different organization systems--and why that doesn't mean anyone is doing it wrong-------Wait, What's That? Here are some of the terms and people mentioned in this episode explained:Bobby: Isabelle's husband.Sarah: A partner in David's practice. David brings up a conversation with Sarah while wondering out loud whether change can actually register as pain in the brain. Robin: David's partner, who comes up while he's describing the home setup that helps his own brain keep track of where things are. Clutterbug YouTube: The decluttering channel Isabelle shouts out because those videos have basically become her fake body-doubling companions while unpacking. https://www.youtube.com/@ClutterbugBody Doubling: A support strategy where doing a task gets easier because someone else is there with you — even virtually. Isabelle talks about using decluttering videos that way during the move. Object Permanence: The very real neurospicy experience of something effectively disappearing once it's boxed up, put away, or moved out of its usual place.Externalized Memory: David's phrase for needing to physically put something somewhere yourself in order to actually remember where it is later. Procedural Memory: Isabelle's way of describing how much she relies on repeated physical action — reach here, plug this in there, turn this direction — instead of remembering things abstractly.-------

Listen if you've ever wondered why you perform best under pressure, struggle with consistency, or feel like your focus doesn't always match your ambition.In this episode, Dex explores a common but often unspoken pattern among high-performing leaders — traits associated with ADHD — and how they show up in leadership, performance, and burnout.This is not about diagnosis. It's about recognising a leadership operating style, understanding its strengths, and learning how to work with it more effectively.Dex walks through: Why this pattern shows up in high achievers  The strengths that often drive success  The hidden costs that can lead to inconsistency and burnout  Practical adjustments to improve performance and sustainability  How to protect recovery and build a leadership style that works with your mind, not against it Key takeaway:Energy management is leadership performance. Precision matters more than intensity.-----------------------------------  Resources:Leadership Performance without Burnout https://go.dexrandall.com/leadershipDex AI Coach https://app.coachvox.ai/share/dexrandallConfidential. Expert. Free. Your Leadership Performance Partner.For even more TIPS see FACEBOOK: @coachdexrandallINSTAGRAM: @coachdexrandallLINKEDIN: @coachdexrandallYOUTUBE: @dexburnoutcoachSee https://linktr.ee/coachdexrandall for all links

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It can be hard to figure out how to change your life, stop impulsive behaviors and regulate your emotions. In this video I'll teach you a system to do it effectively. Learn the skills to Regulate your Emotions, join the membership: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com/membership Why can't you just stop being impulsive or reactive— even when you really want to? Because impulsivity isn't a willpower problem. It's a nervous system reflex. In this video, you'll learn why your emotional brain hijacks your decisions (and why “just try harder” never works), plus a practical 5-step system to train new automatic responses. Instead of trying to suppress urges, you'll learn how to slow down, identify triggers, insert a pause, and replace impulsive habits with healthier ones that actually stick. You'll learn how to be less reactive and how to actually change your life. Looking for affordable online counseling? My sponsor, BetterHelp, connects you to a licensed professional from the comfort of your own home. Try it now for 10% off your first month: https://betterhelp.com/therapyinanutshell FREE Mental Health Resources: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com/free-resources Therapy in a Nutshell and the information provided by Emma McAdam are solely intended for informational and entertainment purposes and are not a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment regarding medical or mental health conditions. Although Emma McAdam is a licensed marriage and family therapist, the views expressed on this site or any related content should not be taken for medical or psychiatric advice. Always consult your physician before making any decisions related to your physical or mental health. In therapy I use a combination of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Systems Theory, positive psychology, and a bio-psycho-social approach to treating mental illness and other challenges we all face in life. The ideas from my videos are frequently adapted from multiple sources. Many of them come from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, especially the work of Steven Hayes, Jason Luoma, and Russ Harris. The sections on stress and the mind-body connection derive from the work of Stephen Porges (the Polyvagal theory), Peter Levine (Somatic Experiencing) Francine Shapiro (EMDR), and Bessel Van Der Kolk. I also rely heavily on the work of the Arbinger Institute for my overall understanding of our ability to choose our life's direction. And deeper than all of that, the Gospel of Jesus Christ orients my personal worldview and sense of security, peace, hope, and love https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/comeuntochrist/believe If you are in crisis, please contact the National Suicide Prevention Hotline at https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org or 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or your local emergency services. Copyright Therapy in a Nutshell, LLC

Welcome to Week 1 of our new series, Everyday Disciple. Most of us wouldn't describe our daily lives as "extraordinary"—they feel routine, predictable, and very ordinary. Yet, the Gospels show us that Jesus didn't scout the religious elite; He called ordinary, everyday people to rearrange their lives around Him. In this kickoff message, Lead Pastor Jason Britt looks at the life of Peter—a man defined by his impulsive passion and his infamous failure. We often think being a disciple means having it all together, but disciples aren't perfect people; they are people who are in training. Whether you are dealing with regrets of action, inaction, or reaction, discover why your worst moment doesn't have to be your defining moment. In the hands of Jesus, regret isn't the end of your story—it's where redemption begins.

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Imagine you're standing at a crossroads in your career or business, believing safety lies in staying put. But what if that path, seemingly free of danger, is actually leading you to stagnation? Maurice opens up about a personal struggle with avoiding risk in his business, revealing how clinging to comfort limited his possibilities and how embracing strategic evaluation changed his trajectory—lessons you can apply to your own journey.Chapter Summary:00:00 The Perils of Avoiding Risk03:32 Smart vs. Reckless Risk-Taking06:04 The Cost of Avoidance and Fear08:32 Embrace Clarity and CourageFeatured Quotes:“The real danger isn't taking a risk, it's refusing to evaluate one and pretending staying still is the smarter option.” – Maurice“All growth involves risk, whether you want to admit it or not.” – Maurice“Courage grows through action, not overthinking.” – MauriceBehind the Story:Maurice shares a relatable experience of sticking to a single website platform for years, believing it was the “safe” and efficient choice. He recounts how this decision, born from risk avoidance, ultimately led to stagnation and missed opportunities for his clients. This personal anecdote highlights the core message that your true safety in business and career comes from actively managing and evaluating risks, rather than passively avoiding them. He emphasizes that when you make calculated moves, backed by your research and intention, you build trust, resilience, and momentum.Resources:Well Why Not Workbook: https://bit.ly/authormauricechismPodmatch: https://bit.ly/joinpodmatchwithmaurice*FREE* 5 Bold Shifts to help you silence doubt and start moving: https://bit.ly/5boldshiftsConnect With:Maurice Chism: https://bit.ly/CoachMauriceWebsite: https://bit.ly/mauricechismTo be a guest: https://bit.ly/beaguestonthatwillnevrworkpodcastBusiness Email: mchism@chismgroup.netBusiness Address: PO Box 460, Secane, PA 19018Subscribe to That Will Nevr Work Podcast:Spreaker: https://bit.ly/TWNWSpreakerSupport the channelPurchase our apparel: https://bit.ly/ThatWillNevrWorkPodcastapparel 

Ever needed extra time, extra support, or a different way of doing something and immediately thought, “Wait… is this cheating?”Yeah. That feeling is way more common than you think.This week, David and Isabelle are back on stage at the Neurodiversity Alliance Leadership Summit in Denver for the second part of their live conversation with Jesse Sanchez, President of the Neurodiversity Alliance. Jesse has been part of this community for years as a mentor, leader, and now the person helping guide the organization forward. The Leadership Summit is where Neurodiversity Alliance mentors and student leaders from across the country gather for training, storytelling, and connection. It's a room full of neurodivergent students learning how to talk about their brains with confidence—and how to help younger kids do the same.In this part of the live conversation, Safia Mohammed, a Brooklyn-based nursing student and Neurodiversity Alliance Student Ambassador who's been part of the community for several years, joins the conversation. She shares her story about something a lot of neurodivergent people wrestle with: the uncomfortable feeling that needing support somehow means you're doing something wrong.Safia talks about her experience first received an IEP (Individualized Education Program) in elementary school. At the time, it felt confusing. She was being pulled out of class for extra help and didn't really understand why. And like a lot of neurodivergent kids, she started wondering something was wrong with her. David and Isabelle unpack why moments like that are so common in the neurodivergent experience, from the stigma around accommodations to the deeply ingrained belief that success only counts if it's hard.If you've ever hesitated to ask for help because you didn't want to feel like you were getting an advantage, this conversation might shift how you think about support and what it's actually there to do.Here's what's coming your way:Safia's story of receiving an IEP and why it felt confusing when she was youngerThe moment that changed how she understood accommodationsWhy so many neurodivergent people feel shame around getting supportHow stigma around accommodations keeps people from advocating for what they need-------Wait, What's That? Here are some of the terms and people mentioned in this episode explained:IEP (Individualized Education Program): A formal education plan used in U.S. schools to provide accommodations and support for students with learning differences or disabilities. These supports can include extra time on tests, alternative learning environments, or additional instructional support designed to help students demonstrate what they actually know.Accommodations: Adjustments made in school or work environments that allow people with learning differences or disabilities to access the same opportunities as others. Examples include extended time on exams, quieter testing environments, or different ways of presenting information.Neurodiversity Alliance (formerly Eye to Eye): An organization where neurodivergent young adults and teens mentor younger neurodivergent kids through art projects and advocacy work. The rebrand reflects what they actually do: build an alliance of humans across the neurodivergent spectrum who know how to tell their full stories, vulnerabilities and superpowers included.OI: A term used by members of the Neurodiversity Alliance community to refer to the organization's annual leadership summit where mentors and student leaders gather for training and connection.-------

So you ditched dieting, stopped tracking and decided to start doing intuitive eating, and therefore you gave yourself permission to eat whatever you want. And now it feels a bit chaotic, unstructured, and you find yourself wondering, "Am I doing this right?" as you watch the number on the scale go up, and your labs get worse. If intuitive eating has gotten twisted into grabbing whatever's in front of you, finishing food just because it's there, or telling yourself "I'm allowed to" without ever actually checking in with your body…this episode is your wake-up call. Because that's not intuitive eating. It's IMPULSIVE eating. (oops…that's ok we're going to fix it today!) If you've been wondering why intuitive eating hasn't fully "clicked" yet, this episode will show you exactly what's missing, and what it actually takes to become someone who lives this work instead of just understanding the gist of it. Episode Highlights -The critical difference between permission and chaos -Why "eat whatever, whenever" is missing key components -The skill set most people skip over that's damaging your health -What REAL intuitive eating looks like in everyday life Today's Wellness Woo is longevity medicine.   Resources Mentioned: - Join me for Intuitive Eating Exploration: https://www.nondietacademy.com/explore   Read the full episode show notes here: https://wwwkatyharvey.net/podcast226    Connect with Katy Harvey Website: https://katyharvey.net Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/katyharvey.rd/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KatyHarveyRD   Subscribe and Review   Rate, Review, & Follow on Apple Podcasts   I would be thrilled if you could rate and review my podcast! Your support helps me reach and encourage more people on their intuitive eating journeys. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select "Write a Review." Don't forget to share what you loved most about the episode!   Also, make sure to follow the podcast if you haven't already done so. Follow now!

Davide Ansalone, known as "Whiskey Munich," joined Gavin Linde on the Rolex Whiskey Passion Project podcast to share his unique journey into the whiskey world. He discussed how he went from discovering smoky Scotch to becoming an influential blogger and photographer who collaborates with the whiskey industry. Highlights of his story include an impulsive, yet valuable, purchase of a 30-year-old Lagavulin and a deep dive into the historical importance of the Italian whiskey market, which set the stage for "pinch me" moments involving rare whiskies such as a 21-year-old Brora.

Ever walked into a room full of neurodivergent people and thought, "Oh no, what if I'm NOT actually ADHD? What if I don't belong here either?" Yeah. That's a thing. And it's weirdly universal.This week, David and Isabelle are taking you inside the Neurodiversity Alliance Leadership Summit in Denver for a special live recording with Jesse Sanchez, President of the Neurodiversity Alliance (formerly Eye to Eye). If Jesse's name sounds familiar, that's because he joined us recently to talk about mentorship and the intersectionality of neurodivergence with race, class, and systemic barriers. This time, we're bringing you the live conversation that started it all!The Neurodiversity Alliance brings together neurodivergent young adults and teens who mentor younger neurodivergent kids through art projects, advocacy, and identity work. The ND Alliance Leadership Summit is where their mentors and leaders gather for training, and David and Isabelle got to do a live podcast on stage in front of the whole group.What "finding your people" actually means when you have ADHD is more than just support. It's about finally stopping the cycle of feeling like a broken, defective version of a person and starting to feel like you belong. Jesse talks about showing up to his first summit 15 years ago "ADHD curious," terrified he wouldn't get the diagnosis and therefore wouldn't get to be part of this incredible community. Isabelle tears up remembering the moment David brought her to her first ND Alliance event and she realized, "Oh. OH. This is me." And David reflects on two decades of watching this organization do something he's never seen anywhere else: teach neurodivergent kids that being different doesn't mean being deficient.This isn't a "yay, you found support!" episode. This is about finding your SHAPE (your superpowers, your heart, your abilities, your personality, your experiences) and realizing your worth has absolutely nothing to do with how much money you make or how well you perform. It's about walking into a room where you don't have to mask, where everyone's fidgeting, and where "wait, you do that too?" is the most healing sentence in the English language.If you've ever felt inadequate, like you're failing at being a person, or like you don't quite fit anywhere, grab tissues. This one's for you.Here's what's coming your way:Jesse's journey from "ADHD curious" to diagnosed adult to president of the organization that changed his lifeWhy the fear of NOT being neurodivergent enough to belong is just as real as the fear of having ADHDThe moment Isabelle realized she had ADHD and David said "welcome to the community" (she's still not over it)What "finding your SHAPE" actually means and why it's the key to career alignment and callingWhy neurodiversity creates connection across race, class, and identity in ways other affinity spaces sometimes struggle withWhat Jesse would tell his 10-year-old self (spoiler: "You are worthy and loved beyond measure, and no one can take that from you")How the Neurodiversity Alliance is literally changing education by teaching kids to talk about their brains with mastery instead of shame-------Wait, What's That? Here are some of the terms and people mentioned in this episode explained:Neurodiversity Alliance (formerly Eye to Eye): An organization where neurodivergent young adults and teens mentor younger neurodivergent kids through art projects and advocacy work. The rebrand reflects what they actually do: build an alliance of humans across the neurodivergent spectrum who know how to tell their full stories, vulnerabilities and superpowers included."ADHD Curious": Jesse's term for showing up to his first summit without a formal diagnosis but knowing something was going on. He was literally exploring his own brain to figure out if neurodivergence explained his life.Masking: Hiding or suppressing your natural neurodivergent behaviors to fit neurotypical expectations. Isabelle talks about being hyper-aware she's masking on stage but also being able to fidget and move in ways that feel freeing instead of shameful.The "SHAPE" Framework: An acrostic Jesse uses for career alignmentS = Superpowers (what you're naturally great at)H = Heart (what motivates you)A = Abilities (what you can actually do)P = Personality (how you show up in the world)E = Experiences (what you bring from your journey)Job vs. Career vs. Calling: Jesse breaks it down: a job pays the bills, a career is something you're invested in growing long-term, and a calling is something bigger than you (something you feel pulled toward whether you like it or not).Metacognitive Skills: The ability to think about your own thinking (understanding how your brain works, what you need, and how you learn best). The ND Alliance teaches kids to get really good at talking about their learning styles instead of hiding them.-------

Bobby makes a very impulsive purchase and has it shipped from Texas, and the crew reacts in real time as the situation turns into Eddie thinking it is for him. Plus, it’s Monday Movie Review, where the guys break down what they watched, what Bobby was disappointed in, and some classics that still hold up. And now that football is over, the guys give advice on how networks can get more people to care about the Olympics and the NBA All-Star Game again.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Bobby makes a very impulsive purchase and has it shipped from Texas, and the crew reacts in real time as the situation turns into Eddie thinking it is for him. Plus, it’s Monday Movie Review, where the guys break down what they watched, what Bobby was disappointed in, and some classics that still hold up. And now that football is over, the guys give advice on how networks can get more people to care about the Olympics and the NBA All-Star Game again.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ever wonder why seeing another neurodivergent person succeed can literally change your life? This week, David and Isabelle bring you the second half of their conversation with Jesse Sanchez, Executive Director of the Neurodiversity Alliance, and it goes deep. They're talking about the kind of mentorship that doesn't happen in an office—it happens in moments of "wait, you do that too?" They also get brutally honest about why neurodivergence isn't just a rich kid's diagnosis, it's an intergenerational survival story that intersects with race, class, incarceration, and educational access in ways we desperately need to talk about.Missed Part 1 of this conversation? Catch up here.Jesse shares his own story: growing up with a single mom who left home at nine, a father in federal prison, navigating the world as a first-gen, low-income, multiracial kid—and how none of the incredible educational access programs he benefited from ever addressed the neurodivergent piece. David drops the "glasses metaphor" that'll make you rethink everything. And Isabelle connects the dots between pulling all-nighters, calling it a moral failing, and why our school system was literally designed to create worker bees during the Industrial Revolution (spoiler: neurodivergent brains were never meant to fit that mold).If you've ever felt like an imposter for doing things differently, this episode is your permission slip to stop hiding!Here's what's coming your way:Why real mentorship is exposure to a reality you didn't know existed—not instructions on how to succeedHow seeing a successful neurodivergent person changes the way you view yourself (and why that matters more than any advice)The intersectionality we're not talking about: neurodivergence, unemployment, incarceration, economic insecurity, and social justiceJesse's powerful story of intergenerational neurodivergence and why he's bringing neuro-inclusive practices to NYC public schoolsWhy your all-nighters aren't a character flaw—they're an accommodation (and how that reframe changes everything)The glasses metaphor: imagine never getting glasses until your 30s. That's undiagnosed ADHD.What Jesse would tell his 5-year-old self entering the school system (grab tissues for this one)-------Wait—What's That? Here are some of the terms and people mentioned in this episode explained:Mentorship (the real kind): Not lectures about success—it's living life together and taking the behaviors you like while leaving the rest. It's "try my biscuits and gravy" energy. Exposing someone to a reality they didn't have before.Normalization: Making something feel normal by seeing it modeled by others. When you see another neurodivergent person succeed while doing things differently, it normalizes your own approach and reduces shame.Moral Failing: The story undiagnosed neurodivergent people tell themselves: "I pull all-nighters because I'm lazy/broken/bad"—instead of recognizing it as an accommodation for how your brain works.Accommodation: A strategy that helps you work with your brain instead of against it. Pulling an all-nighter isn't cheating—it's an accommodation. Just like glasses.Intergenerational Neurodivergence: ADHD and other neurodivergent traits often run in families. Jesse talks about his mom's undiagnosed ADHD and how neurodivergence intersects with intergenerational trauma and survival.Intersectionality: How different identities (race, class, neurodivergence) overlap and create unique experiences. Jesse emphasizes how neurodivergence intersects with being low-income, first-gen, Latino—and how that's overlooked in social justice work.Social Capital: The networks and resources you access through community. The neurodivergent community shares social capital—connecting first-gen students with Ivy League students, leveling the playing field.The School System's Origins: Our current education system was designed during the Industrial Revolution to create efficient worker bees for factories. Everything from the bells to the desks to the subjects was built for output and performance—not for neurodivergent brains. Learn more about the factory model of education: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Factory_model_school-------

If you've ever made a purchase you instantly regretted — or wondered why you keep impulse spending even though you "know better" — this episode is for you. In this masterclass-style episode, Paige walks you through her three core pillars for going from impulsive spending to intentional spending — without restriction, guilt, or rigid rules. You'll learn why impulse spending isn't actually about the thing you're buying, how urgency and dopamine hijack your decision-making, and what it really takes to slow down your purchases in a world designed to make you buy now. This episode breaks down the practical tools and the emotional work required to become someone who spends with purpose, clarity, and confidence — even when emotions are high and logic feels low.

We're joined by Ajibola Grey — lawyer, caterer, and social media influencer (yes, all three) — for an engaging conversation that jumps across culture, life choices, and personal growth.We get into the ongoing Wizkid vs Fela conversation, unpack how making impulse decisions has shaped major parts of his life, and dive into his journey of quitting smoking — the discipline, mindset shift, and lessons that came with it.It's honest, entertaining, and surprisingly reflective — a conversation about choices, growth, and becoming more intentional with life.JOIN THE WHATSAPP CHANNEL:https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VbBii6eLtOjA3h8LHg2BFOLLOW US ON:http://twitter.com/sonigerian_http://Instagram.com/sonigerian_http://twitter.com/damiar0shttp://instagram.com/_damiiaros7http://twitter.com/medici__ihttps://instagram.com/medici.ihttps://www.instagram.com/theajibolagreyhttps://twitter.comtheajibolagrey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.