If you have searched to understand loved ones who have left their religious faith, this show is for you. As a mother of six out of seven children who have chosen a different path from the one they were raised in, I intimately understand the profound struggle this journey entails. Join me on this compassionate exploration where we share moments of laughter, tears, and resilience. Through insightful interviews, we unravel the personal struggles of individuals whose loved ones have ventured away from their initial beliefs, and how they emerged on the other side with newfound understanding and
When Britt's children began leaving the faith she had raised them in, she was angry. She had spent her life serving God—so why did He feel absent when she needed Him most? In this episode, Britt shares the raw emotions of that journey and the powerful shift that helped her turn to God instead of away from Him. Tune in to hear how she found God's life-preserving peace when she felt like she was drowning.Connect with Shiree at shireebest.com Join the "Just Love Them" Facebook groupEmail Shiree at imlivinginjoy@gmail.com
There are healthy and unhealthy ways we communicate, especially in relationships that matter most. This week, we're diving into one of the most common—but also most damaging—communication patterns: triangulation.What is triangulation, and why is it so harmful? In this episode, you'll learn how to recognize it in your own life and relationships, as well as why we tend to fall into it, and how it keeps us stuck.Most importantly, you'll walk away with tools and insights for replacing triangulation with healthier, more direct communication strategies—ones that foster trust, clarity, and healing.If you're working to strengthen your relationships and communicate in ways that build connection instead of conflict, this episode is for you.Connect with Shiree or Kathie at shireebest.com under the "Services and Rates" tab.Join the "Just Love Them" Facebook groupEmail Shiree at imlivinginjoy@gmail.comThe Divine Art of ForgivingApology LanguagesHow to Really Listen, With Emil HarkerEmotional DistancingA Bishop's Reflections, With Ernie HarkerA Psychotherapists Insight, with Dr. Matt DraperPreparing for a Healing Conversation, Part 1Preparing for a Healing Conversation, Part 2Preparing for a Healing conversation, Part 3Relationship Specialist Emil Harker
Our guest today is Tera Brown, a Trauma-Informed Life Coach and speaker who knows firsthand what it means to step outside the generational "box." In this episode, Tera shares her personal journey of shifting from control to trust—allowing her children to take charge of their own lives and learning to let God guide them instead of trying to do it herself.Through her experience, Tera offers powerful insights on releasing fear, embracing faith, and finding peace when a loved one's path looks different from what we expected.Connect with Shiree:shireebest.com Join the "Just Love Them" Facebook groupEmail Shiree at imlivinginjoy@gmail.comConnect with Tera: InstagramFacebookWebsite: Coachtera.com/homeSchedule an appointment with Tera HERE.
What do a broken-down car and a broken heart have in common?More than you might think. In this episode, Shiree shares a personal story of breaking down in the middle of nowhere—and how that unexpected moment became a powerful symbol for the emotional breakdowns we all face. She reflects on the parallels between mechanical failure and emotional struggle, and offers heartfelt insight on what to do when you find yourself stuck, or unsure of how to move forward.Connect with Shiree at shireebest.com Join the "Just Love Them" Facebook groupEmail Shiree at imlivinginjoy@gmail.com
In Part 2 of this powerful story, Misha opens up about her daughter's final days, how she died, and the meaningful ways she has felt her daughter's presence since. She shares the deep lessons she has learned through this journey—insights that have brought her immense peace and transformed her perspective on life, loss, and love. Listeners will find comfort and wisdom in Misha's experiences, gaining valuable insight that can bring peace and hope in their own lives.Connect with Shiree at shireebest.com Join the "Just Love Them" Facebook groupEmail Shiree at imlivinginjoy@gmail.com
Misha was one prepared mama! As a trained elementary educator, she spent eight years studying child development before becoming a mother. Little did she know just how crucial that preparation would be. Tune in to part one of Misha's journey—raising her children and facing some things she never imagined.Connect with Shiree at shireebest.com Join the "Just Love Them" Facebook groupEmail Shiree at imlivinginjoy@gmail.com
Have you ever found yourself praying for a trial to simply disappear? I know I have. In this episode, I share my personal journey of learning to pray differently—not just for hardships to end, but to become who God is trying to help me become.It wasn't easy to shift my prayers from “Please take this away” to “Help me trust YOU,” but I've learned that true peace comes not from avoiding trials, but from trusting God in them. Join me as I reflect on this lesson and how it has deepened my faith and perspective.Connect with Shiree at shireebest.com Join the "Just Love Them" Facebook groupEmail Shiree at imlivinginjoy@gmail.com
Join in as Daphne Elliott shares her journey of finding God after growing up in a traumatic environment. She opens up about the unseen ways God was guiding her life—even before she realized He was there. Her story is a beautiful reminder that God is always working, not just in our lives, but in the lives of our loved ones who may not be following Him right now. If you've ever wondered whether God is reaching out to those you love, this episode will fill you with hope and reassurance.Connect with Shiree at shireebest.com Join the "Just Love Them" Facebook groupEmail Shiree at imlivinginjoy@gmail.comConnect with Daphne at divinelightselfcare@gmail.comOn Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/twopathsonelove/
When we've been wronged, we can choose to stay bitter—holding onto pain and resentment—or seek healing and feel better, drawing closer to God in the process. In this episode, Shiree shares personal struggles and scriptural stories that illustrate how we can release bitterness, find peace, and embrace a path of healing.Connect with Shiree at shireebest.comJoin the "Just Love Them" Facebook groupEmail Shiree at imlivinginjoy@gmail.comTake a deeper dive with Bryce Dunford on this topic on Talking Scriptures HERE.
Trudy shares her journey of raising seven children in her faith and the heartache of watching some choose a different path. She reflects on her struggle, her search for peace, and the deeper understanding she gained. In the end, she came to a powerful realization—each of us is a valued soul on our own unique journey, and those journeys don't have to look the same. But no matter the path, in the end, we all come home.Connect with Shiree:Shireebest.comimlivinginjoy@gmail.comJust Love Them Facebook groupConnect with Trudy: Website: trudy-barnes.comEmail: truebarnes@gmail.com
Join Shiree as she uncovers common words and phrases that unintentionally create shame, guilt, and negativity—for ourselves and our loved ones. Discover simple yet powerful language shifts that promote understanding, connection, and positivity. Small changes can make a big difference!Connect with Shiree at shireebest.comJoin the "Just Love Them" Facebook group HERE.Check out The Hidden Messages in Water HERE
Are our loved ones going through a faith crisis or a hope crisis? What's the difference, and why does it matter? In this episode of Just Love Them, I chat with expert Bryce Dunford, who breaks down these two struggles and explains how we can respond to each one in the best way. We talk about how to recognize the signs of each crisis and offer simple, compassionate ways to show up for those we care about. This episode will give you insights to make a real difference. Connect with Shiree at Shireebest.com Listen to the Talking Scriptures podcast with Bryce Dunford
This is the story of Martin Harris, a man who was converted to God and had amazing spiritual experiences. How could such a man walk away from the church he believed in? And what brought him back? This is his story, the way I, his granddaughter, believe he would tell it if he were here to tell it himself.Connect with Shiree: Just Love Them Facebook groupimlivinginjoy@gmail.com
Faith and hope are essential to belief—but what happens when we anchor our hope in the wrong thing? This week, Melonie Mullen joins us to share her journey, the hard lessons she's learned, and the incredible transformation that comes when we shift our hope to the right place. Don't miss this inspiring conversation about perspective, trust, and finding true peace.Check out Melonie's blogHERE to read about the shocking event that happened less than 24 hours after we recorded this episode—and see how she applied these very principles to find peace in the midst of it all.Connect with Shiree:Email: imlivinginjoy@gmail.comFacebook: Just Love ThemWebsite:Shireebest.com
The way we think about ourselves shapes how we see and love others. In this episode, Shiree explores the impact of our thoughts—how they influence our emotions, relationships, and ability to show up with love. She shares personal insights and a life-changing technique that transformed her. If you're ready to break free from negative thought patterns and embrace a more intentional, compassionate way of living, this episode is for you. Connect with Shiree: imlivinginjoy@gmail.com Shireebest.com Facebook "Just Love Them" group
In this special Valentine's Day episode, we're excited to have the amazing Kim Duncan with us! Kim, a well-known speaker and mentor, shares her personal journey of letting go of self-criticism and learning to truly love herself. She talks about the ups and downs she faced along the way and the moments that changed everything for her.Kim also gives us inspired ideas on how to rediscover self-love. She shows how loving yourself first can actually help you love others even more. Join us for this heartfelt conversation that will guide you in your own self-love journey and bring more love into your life.You won't want to miss this uplifting and empowering chat!Connect with Shiree atshireebest.comJoin the private"Just Love Them" Facebook groupGet Kim Duncan's gift to you!https://linktr.ee/kimduncan
It is likely that you have played tug-of-war. It is even more likely that you have played mental tug-of-war. In this episode, Shiree gets real, sharing personal stories and insights about her own tug-of-war moments. She'll show you how to step out of the struggle, shift your perspective, and approach this game in a way that brings healing and strengthens your relationships. Join her for a heartfelt conversation that just might change the way you see the game. Connect one-on-one with Shiree at imlivinginjoy@gmail.com or at shireebest.com Join the private Just Love Them Facebook group HERE.
Natalie, a medical school student and convert to The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, has been learning about God since childhood. However, a profound experience at the age of 12 sparked a deeper quest to truly know Him. Her unique perspective on the relationship between our inner spiritual journey and outward expressions highlights the importance of empathy and grace in understanding others. Contact Shiree Best at Shireebest.com Join the Just Love Them Facebook page: HERE Link to Wiccan version of Psalm 23 Poem: Footprints in the Sand
Forgiveness always starts with an offense—someone hurt you, and now you're left to deal with the pain. Sometimes you get an apology, and sometimes you don't. But what happens when you're stuck with feelings you can't shake? How do you forgive when your emotions seem beyond your control? In this episode, Shiree talks about the real struggle of forgiveness, especially when you're left without the apology you hoped for. She offers three simple but powerful ways to help you let go of the hurt and find peace, whether it's forgiving a close friend, a family member, or even yourself. Contact Shiree at shireebest.com Join the private "Just Love Them" Facebook group Letting go of negative feelings episodes from season 1: Part 1: Preparing for Healing Conversations Part 2: Preparing for Healing Conversations Part 3: Preparing for Healing Conversations
Have you ever wondered why we experience faith so differently at various points in our lives? In this episode, I sit down with author and podcaster Meghan Farner for a thought-provoking discussion on The Six Stages of Faith. Meghan brings a wealth of knowledge and compassion as she unpacks each stage, offering insights that help us better understand ourselves and those we care about. This is one episode you don't want to miss! You can find Meghan's podcast at latterdaydisciples.com Connect with Meghan on Facebook Instagram Her book, "Consider Yourself as Eve" on Amazon The audio mentioned on this podcast HERE Connect with Shiree at shireebest.com
Understanding how people give and receive apologies differently can be a game-changer, especially when faith differences create tension or distance. We'll discuss the five apology languages, how they can help bridge misunderstandings, and ways to use them to foster healing and connection with those you love. If you're feeling hurt, lost, or unsure how to mend a strained relationship, this episode is here to help. We'll explore practical ideas and heartfelt perspectives to guide you toward understanding, healing, and peace. Tune in and let's work through this together. Connect with Shiree at shireebest.com Take the quiz: https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/apology-language Buy the books: The 5 Apology Languages The 5 Love Languages
This replay of my first episode with Emil Harker from March 2024 is one of my absolute favorites! Emil, a dynamic and high-energy relationship specialist, dives deep into the art of listening to understand. His insights reveal how this powerful yet often overlooked skill can transform the way we connect with loved ones, resolve conflicts, and build stronger, more meaningful relationships. Whether you're looking to improve communication with a partner, family member, or friend, this episode is packed with practical advice and inspiration to make a real difference. Contact Emil at Emilharker.com Contact Shiree at Shireebest.com
In this brief replay from earlier this year, Melonie shares two profound answers from prayers and scriptures that transformed her perspective and brought her joy. During this special season, I hope her insights inspire you to find joy and rejoice as well.
Singer-songwriter Kristy Hunter experienced deep confusion and heartache when unexpected challenges emerged in her relationship with the son she had miraculously adopted. In this heartfelt episode, Kristy shares her raw and honest journey through pain, self-reflection, and discovery. Listen as she reveals how she navigated her struggles, found profound answers that brought her peace, and channeled her experiences into her beautiful gift of song. Don't miss this inspiring conversation filled with authenticity, resilience, and hope. Connect with Kristy: Facebook Instagram Kristyhunter.com Listen to her music on: Amazon Spotify Connect with Shiree at Shireebest.com
What happens when we try to control what's beyond our control? In this episode, we explore the consequences of this mindset—what it leads to, the damage it can cause, and, most importantly, what we can do instead to benefit both ourselves and the relationships of those we care about. Leave a thought about this episode on the Just Love Them Facebook group HERE. You can also connect with Shiree at Shireebest.com
Join us for an inspiring conversation with Jessica Caswell as she shares her personal journey of learning to trust God and letting go. In this episode, Jessica opens up about the challenges and rewards of relying on faith, even when the path ahead seems uncertain. She also offers valuable insights on what it means to play the "long game" with God—embracing His timing, trusting His plan, and finding peace in the process. Connect with Shiree at shireebest.com
Did you know that you have angels around you? Tune in to this episode to learn more about the promises you have been given, and hear experiences that may help you recognize moments when angelic help was with you, even if you didn't realize it. Have a story to share? Connect with Shiree at shireebest.com
Ann Washburn, a dynamic keynote speaker, mentor, and body language expert, joins us to discuss how we can often be our worst enemy, our biggest critic, and our judgiest judge. She sheds light on misunderstandings within our belief systems and how rethinking these perspectives can open the door to greater freedom and peace in our lives, both for ourselves, and for those we love. 3 FREE audiobook gifts from Ann for listening to this episode! HERE Access her Ted Talk HERE Ann's email is: ann@3keyelements.com Shiree's email is: imlivinginjoy@gmail.com Join the Just Love Them Facebook group HERE
Life's toughest trials can feel overwhelming and heavy. In this episode, Shiree opens up about a difficult experience and reveals how gratitude helped lift her burdens. Tune in to learn a powerful gratitude technique that can transform how you feel in challenging circumstances. You can connect with Shiree at shireebest.com, at imlivinginjoy@gmail.com, and on the Just Love Them Facebook page.
This episode features returning guest and relationship specialist Emil Harker. We dive deep into the challenges of living with loved ones who have different values and beliefs. Emil shares insight into setting healthy boundaries, fostering mutual respect, and maintaining meaningful connections within the same household. Whether you're navigating family dynamics, cohabiting with adult children, or managing shifting beliefs in family members, this conversation offers valuable guidance on how to create a harmonious home environment despite differences. Connect with Emil Harker at emilharker.com or through email at: emil@emilharker.com Connect with Shiree at shireebest.com Join the "Just Love Them" Facebook group HERE. kHs0p4MNsIyo0Sfjb7Ti
Can you love someone who makes different religious choices without agreeing with them? What's the line between love and support, and how do you navigate it? In this episode, we dive into these questions to help you understand and find a balanced approach. Connect with Shiree at shireebest.com Stay By the Tree by Kevin W. Pearson
Accepting God's plan of agency can be incredibly difficult when a loved one's choices feel deeply wrong. Join us as Julie shares her journey of coping with her missionary-hearted daughter's decision to leave the faith after returning from her mission, and how she ultimately found peace and healing. Free gift! 3 Simple Ways to Get Answers From the Scriptures HERE. The Laws of Peace podcast HERE. -Connect with Julie at juliehawkes.com -Apply to be on this podcast by submitting a form HERE. -Join the "Just Love Them" private Facebook group HERE.
In this episode, Shiree shares her recent discoveries about stillness—its meaning, how it shows up in life, and its ability to calm emotional turmoil. She shares her experiences on how practicing stillness can create a sense of peace and resilience during life's most challenging times. Connect with Shiree at shireebest.com Join the private "Just Love Them" Facebook group HERE.
Author Becky Kemp knows the power of words—they changed her life. Join us as she shares her journey, revealing how words transformed her experience and how they can do the same for you, especially in challenging times. Connect with Shiree at shireebest.com Connect with Becky at: becomingwithbecky.com and on Instagram at @beckyjanekemp
Healthy emotional distancing can help restore balance in an unhealthy relationship. Join Shiree as she explains when, where, and how to use this approach, the benefits it brings, and personal stories of transformation from her own life. Schedule a free mini-session HERE. Join the private Facebook group HERE.
Join me for a special conversation with "Talking Scripture" co-host Bryce Dunford as he shares what we can learn from the different approaches of ancient brothers Ammon and Aaron , and how it can help you today in your relationships. Connect with Shiree at shireebest.com or email at imlivinginjoy@gmail.com Join the private "Just Love Them" Facebook group HERE. Connect with Bryce Dunford at Brotherdunford.org Listen to the "Talking Scripture" podcast HERE.
I recently discovered new insights that have altered the way I pray. Join me as I share what I've learned about what to pray for, what not to pray for, and how to make prayer a more powerful part of your life. I'll also offer a simple formula to help you find the best answers to your prayers. Join the private "Just Love Them" Facebook page HERE. Schedule a free mini-session HERE.
You've likely heard the saying “two sides of a coin.“ Which is exactly what this week's podcast episode is about. I help people whose loved ones have left their faith. My guest Sara Rands is an associate clinical mental health counselor who helps people who are leaving or have left their faith. Two sides of a coin. Join us as we talk about the similarity in feelings both parties can experience, and the solutions that help build compassion and understanding, and help salvage and strengthen relationships. Schedule a free min-session with Shiree HEREContact Sara Rands HERE Join the private "Just Love Them" Facebook group HERE
Trusting God comes easily to some, but not to me. I have had to work hard to trust God when life gets hard. This episode tells another story of hitting a wall, an emotional wall, because I just couldn't go on living in fear any longer. Schedule a free mini-session HERE. Join the private "Just Love Them" Facebook group HERE Connect with me through email at imlivinginjoy@gmail.com
Becky opens up about her experience of surrendering control over her child's choices during the pandemic. She shares the valuable lessons she learned, how the process changed her, and how she honed her 'mom ninja skills' along the way. To connect with Shiree: Email at imlivinginjoy@gmail.com Free mini session: CLICK HERE Join the "Just Love Them" Facebook group HERE Becky's articles on Medium: A piece I wrote about her daughter's suicidal ideation:HERE Her walk with her son during his moment of suicidal ideation: HERE A piece about how meditation helped her heal the grief she'd felt after suffering from severe postpartum depression: HERE A piece that unfolds her eldest's journey as a surfer, and the super-loyal way the Harry Potter characters showed up for him: HERE Becky is a longtime and dedicated meditator. Her meditation web app is www.lotimus.com. She describes the app as world-building-meets-meditation. It features thirteen different journey worlds you can access for deep ease of being AND deep activation of the imagination.
Do you have questions about what family relationships will be like in the eternities, and how the choices our loved ones make here will impact them there? Tune in for a doctrinal discussion on what we know, what we don't know, and what ancient and modern prophets have said about this subject. To access the "Just Love Them" Facebook group, click HERE. The references from today's episode may be accessed through the Facebook group, under the "files" tab. To schedule a free first-time "Mini session" with Shiree, click HERE. Connect through email at imlivinginjoy@gmail.com
A few weeks ago, I interviewed Camber Hess, a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, who shared her insights on maintaining a strong marriage during her husband's transition to the Catholic faith. In this episode, I speak with her husband, Isaac Hess, who offers his experience and valuable wisdom on navigating differences in a marriage—wisdom that can benefit any relationship. How to connect with Shiree: Email: imlivinginjoy@gmail.com Instagram: livinginjoy1 Facebook: facebook.com/groups/justlovethem Website: shireebest.com
Ernie Harker, a father and former bishop of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, offers unique insights from his experience counseling youth and parents. He also shares his journey of maintaining a strong relationship with his child who left the faith, highlighting the lessons he learned along the way. Connect on the Just Love Them private Facebook group HERE. Schedule a free mini-session with Shiree to start you on your journey to healing HERE.
Having a relationship with the Savior is paramount to allowing Him to carry your pain and sorrows. In this episode, Shiree describes how she developed a relationship with Christ, and how that ultimately led her to discover a way to utilize His atonement to help her give her burdens to Him. This episode includes the thing that made a difference for her the most in learning to love and accept her children's choices. For a free mini-session, click HERE. To join the "Just Love Them" Facebook group, click HERE. David A. Bednar quote HERE. W. Christopher Waddell quote HERE.
Dr. Matt Draper is a gifted psychotherapist, a tenured professor at UVU, and a prolific author with over 30 works and papers to his name. He provides unique and valuable insights into the challenge of accepting and loving people who make different choices than we do. Dr. Draper explains the four dimensions of thought—ways of thinking that influence our behavior and relationships. By understanding these dimensions, we can improve our interactions with others, fostering empathy and connection. He uses personal examples from his own life to illustrate these concepts, offering practical guidance for navigating the complexities of human relationships with those we care about the most. Connect with Shiree on Facebook here. Sign up for a free mini-session with Shiree here. Connect with Dr. Draper on YouTube here. Connect with Dr. Draper on Instagram here.
In this week's episode, we wrap up our 3-part series on healing conversations. Discover a unique technique that delivers instant, profound results for you and your loved ones. Though different from the methods shared in parts one and two, this approach is equally powerful. Join me for this transformative conversation. Join the "Just Love Them" private Facebook group HERE. Sign up for a free one-on-one mini session with me HERE.
Camber and her husband began their marriage sharing the same beliefs. However, as time passed, her husband's beliefs evolved, leading him to join a different religion. Join me as Camber recounts her journey, sharing her emotions as she navigated this significant change, and how she ultimately found peace and love. Her story may offer insights that can help you in your own relationships. (Part 2 , her husband's story, will take place in an upcoming episode.) CLICK HERE to join the "Just Love Them" private Facebook group. CLICK HERE for a free introductory one-on-one mini session with Shiree.
Take control of your emotions and understand what truly triggers you. Certain comments and people may set you off, but you can take charge. By uncovering the root causes of these triggers, you create space for personal healing and pave the way for constructive conversations with others. In this episode, Shiree shares a powerful process she has used for over 10 years to manage intense emotions and heal relationships. Free mini-session (first-time session) CLICK HERE Join private "Just Love Them" Facebook group HERE YouTube video on Because Papers CLICK HERE
In this episode, I interview Janette VanLeer, a Christian Transformational Coach and energy practitioner who has personally experienced the pain of loved ones leaving their faith. Janette opens up about her journey of healing generational patterns within her family, emphasizing how she had to first recognize and make changes in her own life before she could find peace with those around her. Through this process, she was able to preserve and strengthen her most cherished relationships. Tune in to gain many golden nuggets of wisdom from her inspiring story. You can connect with Janette VanLeer at transformationalenergywork.com You can connect with Shiree Best at shireebest.com Just Love Them Facebook group Instagram
You want to have an open and healing conversation with someone, but you're unsure how it will go. In the first part of this three-part series, you'll learn techniques to release intense and painful emotions, creating the space needed to approach the conversation with clarity and calmness. These valuable methods can be applied to any relationship, promoting faster emotional healing and healthier interactions. Join the private "Just Love Them" Facebook group HERE Connect with Shiree HERE
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