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This week, Josh and Cassidy are back with zero chill and way too many opinions. First up: Tinder's new height filter - because apparently, love now comes with minimum height requirements. The duo dives deep into the world of short kings, tall tales, and the vertical discrimination epidemic. Then they shamelessly judge couples who get engaged faster than you can say “situationship,” and ask the important question: Are we just haters or are they insane? Finally, they wrap things up with a spicy chat about how women are seeing men very differently these days - is social media making girlies smarter? Are men now getting a taste of pretty privilege? Tune in for chaos, cackles, and maybe even a little wisdom (but not too much). Don't forget to submit any stories or topic requests via our form below! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScUCSNAsRV3MQeu7lQgujUamWouuq7cgt-DZ6f1BmgzEohdXQ/viewformSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

With Cassidy away this week, Josh is joined by the one and only Roj from the Certified Yappers podcast, for a deliciously unserious chat. The two dive into the deep fryer of debate: is fish and chips actually worth the hype? They swap favourite fast food picks, question if they qualify as "foodies" (the answer is... unclear), and confess whether they're the type to leave emotional food reviews online. Plus, they reveal the unexpected hobbies their partners got into—somehow dragging them along for the ride. And of course, no episode is complete without a cheeky chat about the slow crumble of a certain brand of influencer. Light, funny, and 97% sauce.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, Cassidy and Josh kick things off with a candid (and hilarious) chat about PMS, moods, and navigating the ups and downs of everyday life. Then they’re joined by two bold romantics who took dating into their own hands—by plastering posters around Sydney’s Eastern Suburbs in a creative attempt to find love… for their friend. We dive into what inspired this unexpected matchmaking move, the reactions it sparked, and how it fits into today’s ever-changing dating scene. From apps to old-school efforts, we explore the current trends, patterns, and lengths people go to make a real connection. Submit your stories anonymously via the link below: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScUCSNAsRV3MQeu7lQgujUamWouuq7cgt-DZ6f1BmgzEohdXQ/viewformSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, Cassidy and Josh are investigating a serious relationship offence: TV cheating. You know the one — you made it a "together" show… and then they had the audacity to watch ahead. Is it grounds for a breakup? Jail time? Or just a passive-aggressive side-eye for a week? Then we’re straight into the weird world of Beige Dating Flags — those little quirks that aren’t deal breakers… but definitely make you pause. Like clapping when the plane lands. Or only using a straw to drink coffee. We’re deciding: is it a Rate, Hate, or Doesn’t bother me Mate? And if you’ve ever looked back at someone you dated and thought, “HOW was I that delusional??” — you’re not alone. But maybe those regrettable romances weren’t just bad decisions, they were life’s way of handing us lessons in messy wrapping paper. Press play for the laughs, stay for the mildly unqualified advice and don’t worry. We won’t tell anyone you watched this one without your partner.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Cassidy and Josh are diving into the deep end this week. We’re kicking things off with the heated debate over banning G-string bikinis at beaches and public pools: is it body-shaming, or just keeping things family-friendly? Some councils have already enforced the ban, and the backlash is real. Next, we unpack a classic relationship dilemma: your boyfriend has a girl best friend, and they’re very close—should you be cool with it, or are the alarm bells justified?And finally, hold on to your headphones because we’ve got a plot twist so wild it could be a Netflix series: a girlfriend unknowingly raising the lovechild of the woman her boyfriend CHEATED on her with. We couldn’t make this up if we tried It’s scandal, sass, and will seriously leave your jaw on the floor—all in one episode. Hit play, you nosy legends.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

After a powerful and heartfelt episode with Phoebe Spiller, Cassidy and Josh are back to their regularly scheduled programming—aka, the wild ride of modern dating.This week, the duo uncover a shocking but possibly brilliant new way to date: your friends slap your face on a poster, stick it on a power pole, with a QR code that leads to a dating application form. It's part dating, part job interview, and somehow... it might actually be the future?They also tackle a troubling trend: constantly comparing new partners to exes. When a UK celeb was spotted with someone new, all the comments screamed "upgrade"—but Cassidy and Josh argue it's time we retire that toxic language. Finally, Cassidy and Josh expose “the top 6 excuses people use to dodge commitment in 2025” If any of these sound familiar, grab your shoes and run. You’re not getting a relationship, you’re getting character development.Tune in for laughs, truth bombs, and brutal honesty—this episode has it all. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, Cassidy and Josh sit down with Phoebe Spiller for an open and honest conversation.For the first time, Phoebe responds to her ex-boyfriend’s podcast confession — and her raw, emotional reaction Isn’t what you think.Phoebe also reflects on the ups and downs of their relationship and how difficult navigating a public break up has been.She opens up about the challenges of single life, and what influencers are really like behind the scenes.. Plus, Phoebe talks candidly about a surprising chapter in her past — a stint with strip clubs that led to an unexpected intervention from her mum, and how she unexpectedly ended up on Love Island. Trust us, this episode will have you on the edge of your seat from start to finish.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, Cassidy and Josh are stepping into dangerous territory with How old is too old to be nightclubbing still? Cassidy says keep the party going forever; Josh has differing opinions about the expiration date on the fist pumping! Then — the modern love debate you didn’t know you needed: Should couples be sharing their locations? Is it convenient, or just a cute way to stalk your partner legally? And finally… Women proposing to men?! Yes, that’s not a typo. It’s real, and it’s happening a lot more than you think. We’re talking about the bold new trend turning traditions upside down — and how Josh would feel if Cassidy got down on one knee (hypothetically… or is it?). Things get loud, opinions get sharp, and someone might need to stage an intervention by the end. You do not want to miss this one.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The due have returned and this episode is messier than your group chat. First up: Is Coachella even a music festival anymore or just Fashion Week with dust and influencers? Josh claims he’s seen more ring lights than rave lights! Then — buckle up — we’re diving into the $40K-a-month life coaches flooding your feed. If they’re making that kind of money, why are they spending 9 hours a day trying to sell you a Canva PDF? Cass also investigates a bold question: Can women love bomb, or is that just a man’s sport? And finally, the “Taxi Cab Theory” — is it a legit look into how men commit, or just another metaphor we should leave in 2012? This one’s got hot takes with no fluff or filters. Plug in, press play, and prepare for chaos.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Cassidy and Josh are back in your ears for Ep 2! Cass just hit magic 30—and rather than dreading it, she’s thriving. In a culture that loves to tell women their expiration date is somewhere around 29, Cassidy’s here to flip that narrative on its head. Age is power, and she’s owning every second of it. Then Josh grabs the mic and unleashes a fiery rant about unpaid internships. Are we really still pretending these aren’t just free labor with a shiny bow? He’s not holding back with this one! And just when you think things couldn’t get spicier... enter submarining. It’s like ghosting’s evil twin—more mysterious, more confusing, and somehow way worse. We’ll leave you hanging for now, but brace yourself. Oh, and this week’s fan question? Buckle up. An ex-boyfriend invoiced his former girlfriend for all the money he spent during their relationship—dinners, gifts & trips. Yes, really.. This could possibly be the most unhinged thing we’ve ever heard!You don’t want to miss this one!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Josh and Cassidy are finally back—and it’s not just a return, it’s a whole new era. New studio. New season. Bigger, bolder, and better than ever! In this episode, we’re diving straight into it:Is the stigma around OnlyFans finally shifting? We unpack the perceptions, the double standards, and what it really means to call it a job in today’s world. One of us is officially off the market

Hello feelers, and welcome back to our final episode for 2024! Josh & Cass wanted to jump behind the mic one last time before the end of the year, to say thank you for all the support this year. We were lucky enough to be asked to do a live show at Beyond The Valley! So if you're around make sure you come find us and definitely come check out our live show! We're performing on Sunday 29th December at 12pm in the Podcast tent. All our love from us to you! Have a safe and fabulous New Years! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Welcome back feelers to another episode of NHF!! First up the two discuss same sex schools vs. co-ed. Are they outdated?? What's with the uproar in combining the sexes? Also spoiler - Josh went to an all boys school (yeah big shocker lol), so some things make sense. Then our sexy producer Jay jumps in for a chat and to aggressively flirt with Cassidy whilst Josh third wheels. Listen to who his clear favourite is (its not who you think). Is saving a carpark by standing in it play on?? And finally, the two discuss the controversial topic of bucks/hens parties. Tune in to hear some gory details of ones Josh has attended over the years. And of course we get Cass' opinions.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Welcome back feelers to another episode! First up today, Cass tells us about a typical boy vs girl story when it comes to dating. And in particular, how different their minds work when it comes to dating.  Then josh reveals the research he discovered when it comes to the doghouse, and more specifically being in it and how to get out of it.  He also exposes an extremely odd (and slightly concerning) alarm he has on his phone in relation to his love life.  And finally, Cassidy circles back to some orgasm advice she gave recently, and how it actually works!!! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Welcome back to another episode guys!  This week, Cass is flying solo with a guest while Josh enjoys a boys trip to Bali at the ripe old age of 31 (yikes). Come and chat all things dating with the man himself, Jordan Simi. A man with quite the reputation might I add. He's got a lot to say and it's probably not what you think! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Welcome back feelers to ep 87!  First up, Josh reveals he met Sexy South African Man and has quite the recap to give. Lets just say he's eating some words he said a couple of ex's ago. Then the two discuss dating with children, and the protocol around disclosing that you have a kid. How early on should you tell someone? Would you date someone with a kid?  Finally, let's unpack childhood/high school sweethearts. Are you missing out on life if you're in one of these types of relationships? Is the risk of the relationship ending higher due to curiosity? Cass gives a 10/10 tip for anyone in a long term relationship wanting to spice things up.    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Weldcome back feelers to another episode! Today we're back in Cassidy's sunroom, and Josh couldn't be more stoked about it. First up Josh lets us know his real thoughts on marriage, and let's just say its pretty depressing. Cassidy announces she's SICK of first dates and getting to people. The two unpack the dreaded failed talking stage of dating. Josh then decides it's a good time to discuss the topic of the number of peoples sexual partners. Is this play on? Should we be disclosing this? What number is too high? Don't worry guys, Cass gives the big sister talk we all need. And finally, the two have a HUGE announcement to make!!! Tune in to find out what it is!!!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Welcome back feelers! First up in todays episode, Josh exposes Cassidy for stealing the complimentary lollies from our studio reception.  Then, the two dive into all things the Olympics. The first being how the Olympics provided the athletes village with a whopping 200,000 condoms.  Next, the two discuss the sexiest sports at the olympics, plus the most un attractive (remember guys no hard feelings). And finally, Josh reveals he was once catfished. Which then starts the conversation of catfishing and the rise of it. Is it really a problem in today's dating world? The two discuss faceapp and other face editing apps and the problems that come with them. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Welcome back feelers to another episode!  Today the two discuss all things breakups. First one being Cassidy's most recent short lived relationship. We discuss the different ways men and women cope post breakup, and possible theories as to why the genders are so different when it comes to ending a relationship. Finally, we asked you guys to send in the weirdest/dumbest reasons you've been dumped, so naturally we had to unpack that. Tune in to listen to a cracker episode!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Welcome back feelers to another episode. First up in today's episode, Cassidy reveals there is in fact a new man on the scene, but not without one slight problem.  The two then discuss Cass' relationship dilemma - religion (yikes). And how to navigate such tricky conversations so early on in the dating relationship. Josh and Cass finish the episode with a fan question - when in a relationship, are sex toys when not used together, cheating? Tune in to find out the duos opinions. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Welcome back feelers! First up in today's episode, Josh talks about being fed up with the game playing & mind games when it comes to dating.  Cass wonders if it's okay for the girl to initiate the second date whilst on the first date. Is it a no go or play on? Cass then addresses the crusty men who like to comment on her appearance and opinions from fake accounts. The two then discuss how to set the bar high in the early stages of dating without coming off as too much or too high maintenance. And to make things fun, the two decided to end today's episode with a challenge for you guys, and the winner gets a Love Honey vouches. Tune in to find out how to win!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In todays episode we welcome Cassidy back from the caravan park and she discusses any possible flings whilst away. Then Cass decides its a good idea to quiz Josh on all things periods (yikes). The two discuss their good friend Mitch Hibberd's recent pap photos on a date with fellow Love Islander, and they discuss the logic behind reality stars mingling publicly.  Josh explains a very curious theory regarding men and their special sex number before settling down.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Welcome back to another episode guys! In todays episode, Cass takes Josh to get mani/pedi's. Then Cass talks about her experience running into the guy she ended things with, with the new girl. To say she was rattled is an understatement.  Josh decides to give us the stats on what age people are having sex until, and of course the two give their take on the topic.  And finally, the two discuss at what age you stop choosing f*ck boys over the nice guy. Tune in to listen! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Welcome back guys to episode 77! Today Cass explains why she cancelled her hot girl euro trip. The pair also discuss why Europe isn't the be all end all of trips. Josh explains how he basically had a threesome with his housemate Dom. Then the duo has a very in depth chat about all things Ashley Maddison and the people who were featured on the show. Cass and Josh discuss their views on cheating and dating people with a history of cheating.  Tune in to listen! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Welcome back guys to another incredible ep! Long story short, Cassidy surprises Josh by arranging for his ex sugar momma to come into the studio to tell her side of the story. This is an episode you don't wanna miss!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Welcome back feelers to another ep! Straight out the gate Josh and Cass discuss the sexiest things women can do according to men. Then the two discuss emotions and more specifically mens emotions, and how they should express them more!  Have you ever thought about if your friend's bad reputation is cock blocking you? Could be worse than you realise! Tune in to find out how. And finally, class is in session as Cass chats to Josh about her first ever experience with a narcissist and tips on how to identify one!     See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

G'day feelers, welcome back to another episode of No Hard Feelings. Todays ep is feeling extra unhinged, and we're into it. First up, Cass and Josh discuss whether they would sleep with a pornstar if given the opportunity. Then Josh reads to Cassidy the list of top sexiest things a man can do, and of course Cass gives her 2 cents. Cassidy then goes on a rant about UberEats bicycle delivery drivers and why they shouldn't exist.  Finally, Josh asks Cass if they need to change up their types when it comes to dating. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Welcome back feelers to another UNREAL episode! Josh & Cass got the one and only Savannah Bond, legendary adult film star, on the podcast for a no holds interview!  We discuss how she got into the industry and her experience living in LA.  Savannah talks about the differences she notices in Australian & American men, and whether she dates whilst actively shooting adult films. And finally, we ask her ALL about Ryan Garcia and the infamous Las Vegas wedding.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Welcome back to another episode feelers!  Today we discuss Josh's date fail being cancelled on less than 2 hours before a date, but bestie Cass comes to his rescue! The two then discuss being cancelled on and what a no rescheduled date means in the dating world. Then Josh comes out with a WILD story regarding his ex girlfriend, a popular Instagramer/male model and the girl Josh is currently seeing. Finally, Cass and Josh discuss large age gap couples, Kristin Cavallari & Mark Estes to be more specific. Do we think this is the way of the future? Do we think women will start dating younger men? Tune in to find out out opinions!  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Back again for another slightly unhinged episode where Josh shit the bed (figuratively speaking) and Cass almost ended him. First up Josh reveals possibly a slight toxic trait when messaging a girl. Have you ever posted a story in hopes of getting someone's attention? Well Cass fills Josh in on how often this happens and the power behind it. And finally, we asked you guys to send in your assumptions about us and we hold nothing back as we confirm or deny what you've said. Tune in for a great episode! Following the Bondi Junction attack, support is available at Beyond Blue on 1300 22 4636, Lifeline on 13 11 14, and at MensLine on 1300 789 978.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We're back again for another extremely candid episode! Listen in to hear Cass' very short update on her date and find out whether she snagged a second.  Josh & Cass then delve into the modern day penpal, what timeline determines a penpal and why you're developing one rather than getting the date. And finally, the two discuss their opinions on dating influencers/public figures and whether they would personally date one. Josh gives his very hot take on the dating scene in the influencer world. Tune in for another cracker episode!  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this week's episode, the pair discuss sex appeal and how to obtain it very quickly. Cass goes on a date and attempts a first kiss in the back of an Uber.. Let's just say her date isn't impressed and gives this a 1 star!! Josh has a lightbulb moment and realises that, in order to find the love of his life, he needs to start building sexual tension and suspense. The duo also agreed to start dating with intention only.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The dynamic duo are back for a rogue AF episode in Cassidy's lounge room! Josh throws himself into the deep end, claiming that size doesn't really matter in the bedroom.. This opens up a barrage of hilarious questions from Cass! Splendour is cancelled, and the pair don't hold back on how the festival got here! Cassidy lands a hot date but has a huge wardrobe malfunction that reveals more skin than should be shown in public. Apparently, PDA's (public displays of affection) drive one of these two insane, Tune in to find out who and for so much more on this week's episode!!!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The gang are back together and immediately Cassidy starts grilling Josh about what really went down on his Las Vegas trip. Lets just say his cheapskate ways really shock and appall the American women.. Josh pulls back the curtain and discusses what a guy is really thinking when you sleep with him on a 1st date! Cassidy's dry spell continues and shows no signs of stopping, as she knee pats a potential lover instead of a kiss. The pair butt heads discussing if being on someones close friends is a clear cut sign they're keen, this is an EP you cannot miss!!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In today's episode Josh discusses the balancing act that is dating in todays day and age. Cassidy gives her two cents on why Aussie men aren't approaching women.  Josh and Cass discuss signs to look for when out at a bar and wanting to approach someone.  And finally, they share their thoughts on MAFS couple Timothy & Lucinda, and more specifically how Timothy wants to "take things slow". Tune in to hear their take.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The gang are back and jump straight into Cassidy's recent dating app interaction with a serial killer.. Josh insists Cassidy needs to spread a good rumour about him to give his rep a much needed boost! Speaking of reps, the pair dive into how dating someone out of your league can make you way more dateable! Finally they wrap the episode by discussing the importance and difficulties of getting your friends approval over the new person you are dating.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Cassidy & Josh enter your ear drums again, Discussing important worldly topics like, how often Cassidy fakes the “Big 0” & what to do when receiving a raunchy photo!We also touch on Josh's new moustache and how it gives him the total Ned Flanders/1980's PE teacher look..The pair get sent a fan question about a boyfriend that mysteriously becomes an expert at sex, after a solo holiday & it leaves them absolutely stumped! Josh also organises a foot massage as a date.. Yes you heard that correctly!Tune in for all of that and so much more!!!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Cassidy and Josh return with a bang after a well earned holiday break. Josh's secret Billionaire Girlfriend is finally revealed & she's a well known public figure! We learn that Cassidy is currently on the biggest dry spell of her adult life and it's not by choice! Admitting, this may cause her to do something she will massively regret!! The pair also break down the correct protocols in messaging someone after having sex… Should the girl or the boy get in contact first. One of these two cop the ultimate rejection not once, not twice, but three times from the one person.. ouch! Tune in to find out who. this is an Ep you cannot miss!!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Join us in todays episode where Cassidy tells us her dating In's & Out's for 2024. Josh discusses his dating life and whether his habits are normal or toxic. We reminisce on how we learned to give a BJ and whether its appropriate to give feedback in the bedroom. And finally, we attempt to give you some advice when it comes to being the last single family member left, and how to navigate those frustrating conversations between family members regarding your love life.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Cassidy & Josh jump head first into the hard hitting topics like “nip slips” & the confusing reason why Josh shaves his legs (Cassidy being left disgusted). The pair also chat through the hardship of a close friend entering into a new relationship & how your friendship with them might have take a backwards step! A brand new fetish called “medical play' is sent in by one of our wonderful listeners for them to discuss, you won't believe what this fetish entails :/ Tune to here this and so much more!!!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Join us again for another episode where Cass and Josh discuss lab grown diamonds, and their feelings about giving/receiving one as an engagement ring.  Josh gives some questionable advice on what could be a somewhat common issue amongst friends.  And finally, Cass drags Josh down her reddit rabbit hole, sharing an alarming story she discovered. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.